2:00 Heat. Heat. Heat.
5:48 Heat. Heat. Heat.
15:53 Heat. Heat.
24:28 We are just waiting for two more ladies.
24:30 They're on a tricycle. They're on their
24:34 way. So, hang tight. Hang tight. We're
24:35 going to have four or five. We're going
24:38 to have five ladies today. So, stay tuned.
41:08 up here.
49:09 Heat. Heat. Heat.
51:47 Heat. Heat. Heat.
57:12 You look good.
57:14 >> It's going to be hot in here today. More people.
57:14 people.
57:16 >> But you're not asking me a question.
57:18 >> Yeah. Yeah. That's a question. I I'll be
57:21 gentle. I'll be gentle. Don't worry. All
57:22 right. And then Yeah. Just uh actually
57:24 maybe you sit beside me here. Just that
57:26 way if you jump out, you won't trip on
57:27 the wire. >> Okay.
57:28 >> Okay.
57:29 >> And then we'll see if I'm not blocking
57:31 your view.
57:42 All right. You just It's all ready to go.
57:45 go.
57:48 You can put on your earphones.
57:51 Go. And then uh I guess the only rule is
57:52 to keep the microphone as close to your
57:56 mouth as you can. Like this.
57:58 >> So, I'm just going to listen to all of
57:59 you guys.
58:00 >> Oh, no. No. I'm I'm I'm asking you
58:02 stuff, too.
58:03 It's going to be different today as well.
58:05 well.
58:07 >> Yeah, there you go. Yeah, it's good.
58:09 It's nice to have a full full table. So,
58:11 hello. Welcome to the Pho Republic
58:14 podcast. Sorry we are half an hour late.
58:17 It's more fun in the Philippines. The uh
58:19 the link on the bottom of your screen is
58:21 to super chat, but it also works when
58:24 we're not live if you would like to keep
58:26 the show going. This is probably the
58:27 last one where before I run out of
58:31 budget for the ladies. So, uh, yeah, if
58:34 you want to do that, that would be fun.
58:36 That'd be nice. So, uh, yeah, I guess,
58:38 uh, just the disclaimer, uh, the
58:40 opinions that I share are not those of
58:42 the guests, and the opinions that the
58:46 guests share are, uh, not mine or that
58:48 of the show. And, uh, yeah, I guess
58:51 we'll get right into it. So, we'll start
58:56 with you, Joy. uh your name, your age,
58:57 your religion,
59:02 and your level of education or whatever.
59:04 >> Hello. Good morning to everybody. I'm
59:09 Joelin Pangalinan Borsy. I'm 20 I'm 44
59:11 years old.
59:13 >> You could pass. You could pass.
59:17 >> And then I finished my two course uh
59:19 bachelor science information technology
59:22 and computer secretarial.
59:25 That's good. And what do you do now?
59:28 >> Uh, I was a waitress in PM bar here in
59:29 Porto, Princessa.
59:32 >> Okay. Okay. How about you, Talia?
59:35 Welcome back.
59:37 >> Uh, good morning everyone. My name is
59:39 Crystal Grace
59:43 and I'm 18 years old.
59:44 >> Education and religion.
59:48 >> Um, I'm Catholic and I'm studying about
59:50 computer technology.
59:51 >> Okay. Yeah,
59:54 >> there you go. Your turn.
59:58 >> Hi, I'm Bea. I'm 28 years old. I'm a
60:01 born again Christian and yeah, just like you said, I'm a fresh graduate from
60:04 you said, I'm a fresh graduate from grade 12.
60:06 grade 12. >> Okay. And how about you, Belle?
60:15 >> I have Hi, good morning. My name is Jam Butteral
60:17 Butteral studying of electronic engineering. I'm
60:20 studying of electronic engineering. I'm 20 years old then
60:23 20 years old then church.
60:24 church. >> Yeah.
60:24 >> Yeah. >> And I'm a Baptist.
60:26 >> And I'm a Baptist. >> Baptist.
60:27 >> Baptist. >> Yeah.
60:27 >> Yeah. >> Okay.
60:28 >> Okay. >> And I got I got my kids baptized in a
60:30 >> And I got I got my kids baptized in a Methodist church, but I am a reformed
60:33 Methodist church, but I am a reformed >> a reformed Protestant. I don't think I
60:34 >> a reformed Protestant. I don't think I said that on the last show or this one.
60:36 said that on the last show or this one. So,
60:37 So, >> yeah. And I'm 44 and I'm Canadian, Dutch
60:40 >> yeah. And I'm 44 and I'm Canadian, Dutch Canadian. And uh I'm a college dropout
60:44 Canadian. And uh I'm a college dropout from Concordia University in Montreal.
60:47 from Concordia University in Montreal. All right. So, random question. Do you
60:51 All right. So, random question. Do you all have a driver's license?
60:53 all have a driver's license? >> Yeah, I have.
60:54 >> Yeah, I have. >> Yeah.
60:55 >> Yeah. >> You don't know?
60:56 >> You don't know? >> No.
60:57 >> No. >> No. No.
60:57 >> No. No. >> Me, too.
60:58 >> Me, too. >> No, I don't.
60:59 >> No, I don't. >> Okay. That I just throw that in there
61:01 >> Okay. That I just throw that in there cuz uh that's one of the different
61:03 cuz uh that's one of the different things that that's one of the ways you
61:05 things that that's one of the ways you guys differ from girls in the West. Um
61:08 guys differ from girls in the West. Um so, if you get your man, you're going to
61:09 so, if you get your man, you're going to get your man to drive you around or do
61:11 get your man to drive you around or do you guys uh are are you all single?
61:14 you guys uh are are you all single? >> Yeah.
61:15 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. You're single, you're not? Yeah,
61:17 >> Yeah. You're single, you're not? Yeah, I'm not single.
61:19 I'm not single. >> You are and
61:21 >> You are and >> taken.
61:21 >> taken. >> You're taken. Okay. How long have you
61:23 >> You're taken. Okay. How long have you been in a relationship? Uh ship for
61:26 been in a relationship? Uh ship for [Music]
61:29 [Music] >> two years.
61:30 >> two years. >> Okay. Okay. You going to get married?
61:31 >> Okay. Okay. You going to get married? You going to have lots of babies?
61:33 You going to have lots of babies? >> No,
61:34 >> No, not ready.
61:35 not ready. >> Not yet.
61:36 >> Not yet. >> 10,000 babies. That's that's the the
61:38 >> 10,000 babies. That's that's the the order of the day. Um how would Okay, so
61:42 order of the day. Um how would Okay, so we're going to start off with the first
61:43 we're going to start off with the first questions from the first page like we
61:45 questions from the first page like we did last time. There's going to be
61:47 did last time. There's going to be people in the audience that never saw
61:48 people in the audience that never saw you last time, so it's a repeat for you,
61:50 you last time, so it's a repeat for you, uh, you two, but it's it won't be a
61:53 uh, you two, but it's it won't be a repeat for everybody. Um, how do you
61:56 repeat for everybody. Um, how do you define being single? Does it mean no men
61:59 define being single? Does it mean no men at all? You are completely alone if you
62:02 at all? You are completely alone if you are single. As in no sex, no kissing, no
62:06 are single. As in no sex, no kissing, no dates, no boys. Or does it mean that you
62:09 dates, no boys. Or does it mean that you go on dates with different dudes?
62:19 Maybe you get intimate or c is it like uh you consider yourself single if
62:21 uh you consider yourself single if you're in a situationship and even
62:23 you're in a situationship and even though you're taken or not taken? How
62:26 though you're taken or not taken? How would you define being single?
62:29 would you define being single? I think I choose the letter B.
62:31 I think I choose the letter B. >> Letter Yeah. Yeah. So, you just kind of
62:33 >> Letter Yeah. Yeah. So, you just kind of play the field.
62:34 play the field. >> Yeah. Cuz you know I need to go date on
62:37 >> Yeah. Cuz you know I need to go date on somebody else and then getting to know
62:39 somebody else and then getting to know each other before I choose one.
62:41 each other before I choose one. >> Yeah. No, I get you. That's how I feel
62:43 >> Yeah. No, I get you. That's how I feel as well. Yeah. How about you, Talia?
62:46 as well. Yeah. How about you, Talia? >> Yes. Same as before. Like I said, uh
62:49 >> Yes. Same as before. Like I said, uh being single is like uh for me it's like
62:52 being single is like uh for me it's like uh
62:53 uh >> dating someone.
62:56 >> dating someone. Yeah. They just, you know, it's kind of
62:58 Yeah. They just, you know, it's kind of fling.
62:59 fling. >> Yeah.
62:59 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Something like that.
63:01 >> Yeah. Something like that. >> Yeah. So, you're open. You leave
63:02 >> Yeah. So, you're open. You leave yourself open.
63:03 yourself open. >> Yeah.
63:04 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. How about you, Bea?
63:06 >> Yeah. How about you, Bea? >> Uh, being single is not uh like a
63:09 >> Uh, being single is not uh like a romantic relationship.
63:12 romantic relationship. >> Yeah.
63:13 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Just uh play the field, maybe date
63:16 >> Yeah. Just uh play the field, maybe date more than one guy.
63:17 more than one guy. >> No, you know, just
63:19 >> No, you know, just >> it's just dating. It's just dinner, you
63:21 >> it's just dating. It's just dinner, you know.
63:21 know. >> Yeah.
63:22 >> Yeah. >> Stuff like that. Yeah. You try it out.
63:24 >> Stuff like that. Yeah. You try it out. And uh how about you?
63:30 >> I know you're taken, but if you were single, would you would you be
63:33 single, would you would you be completely alone and that's what you
63:34 completely alone and that's what you think single is or would you go on
63:36 think single is or would you go on dinner dates and maybe hook up with a
63:38 dinner dates and maybe hook up with a guy, maybe have a fling if you like the
63:41 guy, maybe have a fling if you like the guy and then maybe go on another date
63:42 guy and then maybe go on another date with someone else?
63:43 with someone else? >> Yes.
63:44 >> Yes. >> Yeah. Yeah. I think that's see dating
63:46 >> Yeah. Yeah. I think that's see dating has changed a lot in the last hundred
63:48 has changed a lot in the last hundred years. So that's you know people who are
63:50 years. So that's you know people who are single they they often meant you know
63:52 single they they often meant you know like in the past they would never dream
63:54 like in the past they would never dream of sleeping with somebody. So um
63:59 of sleeping with somebody. So um what's the biggest flex for a girl these
64:01 what's the biggest flex for a girl these days? What is um what is more um
64:10 more ideal? Is it uh starting a family right away or having a career? What is a
64:13 right away or having a career? What is a bigger flex?
64:15 bigger flex? >> I think having a career first.
64:17 >> I think having a career first. >> Yeah. That's not what you said last
64:18 >> Yeah. That's not what you said last night.
64:19 night. >> But
64:21 >> But >> I met her at PM bar. It wasn't at my
64:23 >> I met her at PM bar. It wasn't at my house. Relax.
64:25 house. Relax. >> But I was young that time, so it was an
64:27 >> But I was young that time, so it was an accident, you know.
64:29 accident, you know. >> Yeah. But it was a good accident. But
64:31 >> Yeah. But it was a good accident. But you are happy that you chose
64:32 you are happy that you chose >> Yeah.
64:33 >> Yeah. >> family before.
64:34 >> family before. >> Yes. Yes. Before career.
64:35 >> Yes. Yes. Before career. >> Yeah. Cuz cuz you can do both, right?
64:38 >> Yeah. Cuz cuz you can do both, right? >> Yes. Yes.
64:38 >> Yes. Yes. >> Do you think maybe it's easier to have a
64:40 >> Do you think maybe it's easier to have a child first and then they grow up a
64:42 child first and then they grow up a little bit, then you go to work and have
64:43 little bit, then you go to work and have a career?
64:44 a career? >> Yeah, it is good.
64:46 >> Yeah, it is good. >> It's more optimal. Yes. Yes. Yes.
64:48 >> It's more optimal. Yes. Yes. Yes. >> Yeah. How about you, Talia?
64:50 >> Yeah. How about you, Talia? >> Um, career, of course, because I'm not
64:53 >> Um, career, of course, because I'm not going to put myself uh into making a
64:56 going to put myself uh into making a family without
64:58 family without uh without a good career, you know.
65:01 uh without a good career, you know. >> Yeah.
65:02 >> Yeah. >> Be
65:03 >> Be >> Yeah.
65:04 >> Yeah. uh
65:07 uh successful career and
65:11 successful career and personal happiness and
65:14 personal happiness and [Music]
65:16 [Music] yeah, financial independence.
65:19 yeah, financial independence. >> Okay. And then you think that's a bigger
65:20 >> Okay. And then you think that's a bigger flex?
65:21 flex? >> Yes, of course.
65:22 >> Yes, of course. >> Of course. Oh, she's very passionate
65:24 >> Of course. Oh, she's very passionate about that. How about you?
65:26 about that. How about you? >> Career first.
65:27 >> Career first. >> Career first.
65:27 >> Career first. >> Yes.
65:28 >> Yes. >> You guys are so backwards. You're so
65:30 >> You guys are so backwards. You're so backwards in my opinion. But we'll get
65:32 backwards in my opinion. But we'll get to that later. Maybe that'll be how I
65:34 to that later. Maybe that'll be how I drill you for being late.
65:39 Um, all right. Uh, how many siblings do you
65:43 all right. Uh, how many siblings do you guys all have? Like, how big is the
65:44 guys all have? Like, how big is the family that you come from?
65:47 family that you come from? >> Me, we have only three.
65:49 >> Me, we have only three. >> Three. Are where do you fit? Like, do
65:51 >> Three. Are where do you fit? Like, do you have brothers and sisters? Are you
65:53 you have brothers and sisters? Are you the youngest or the oldest or
65:54 the youngest or the oldest or >> I'm on the middle. I have older sister
65:56 >> I'm on the middle. I have older sister and me and my younger brother.
65:58 and me and my younger brother. >> Okay. So, you're the middle child.
66:00 >> Okay. So, you're the middle child. >> Yeah.
66:00 >> Yeah. >> How about you? I have uh three sisters
66:02 >> How about you? I have uh three sisters and I'm the eldest.
66:04 and I'm the eldest. >> Okay. Okay. How about you, Beia?
66:08 >> Okay. Okay. How about you, Beia? >> Four.
66:10 >> Four. >> Four.
66:10 >> Four. >> Yeah. Two boys and two girls.
66:15 >> Yeah. Two boys and two girls. >> Youngest or the
66:16 >> Youngest or the >> youngest? The girls.
66:18 >> youngest? The girls. >> Okay.
66:19 >> Okay. >> Yeah.
66:19 >> Yeah. >> Oh,
66:20 >> Oh, >> let's see. Oh.
66:23 >> let's see. Oh. >> Oh. Uh, somebody in the audience says
66:25 >> Oh. Uh, somebody in the audience says that they can't hear you very well.
66:28 that they can't hear you very well. >> So, I'm going to turn up all your mics.
66:31 >> So, I'm going to turn up all your mics. It's gonna you're going to hear the fan
66:32 It's gonna you're going to hear the fan a little bit. Christine Christine's my
66:35 a little bit. Christine Christine's my little helper. She was on the first
66:36 little helper. She was on the first show. So, yeah. And she was the lucky
66:39 show. So, yeah. And she was the lucky one that I mentioned to you. Yeah. Yeah.
66:41 one that I mentioned to you. Yeah. Yeah. So, um Okay. Okay. Uh
66:53 so, now you were married. >> Yeah. When I was 36 years old.
66:55 >> Yeah. When I was 36 years old. >> And how did that go?
66:57 >> And how did that go? >> Uh what do you mean? How it yet?
67:00 >> Uh what do you mean? How it yet? >> Yeah. Like uh are you married now?
67:03 >> Yeah. Like uh are you married now? >> No. Yeah, until now I'm still married
67:05 >> No. Yeah, until now I'm still married but
67:05 but >> Well, there's no separate but are you
67:07 >> Well, there's no separate but are you separated?
67:08 separated? >> Yeah, I'm separated with him. I'm just
67:09 >> Yeah, I'm separated with him. I'm just waiting for my analment paper.
67:12 waiting for my analment paper. >> Okay,
67:14 >> Okay, I gotcha. How about you?
67:16 I gotcha. How about you? >> I'm taking I know.
67:19 >> I'm taking I know. >> No,
67:20 >> No, >> no. And you But you got kids.
67:24 >> no. And you But you got kids. >> Yes.
67:25 >> Yes. >> Okay. How old are your kiddos? Uh 10
67:28 >> Okay. How old are your kiddos? Uh 10 years old and four.
67:30 years old and four. >> Yeah. And you're how old again?
67:32 >> Yeah. And you're how old again? >> 28.
67:33 >> 28. >> 28. So you started young, too. That's
67:35 >> 28. So you started young, too. That's good.
67:35 good. >> When I was 17.
67:36 >> When I was 17. >> All right. So you think even though a
67:38 >> All right. So you think even though a career is a flex, you still started a
67:39 career is a flex, you still started a family first?
67:40 family first? >> That's positive.
67:41 >> That's positive. >> Now I changed my mind.
67:42 >> Now I changed my mind. >> Oh.
67:44 >> Oh. Well, you can't put them back.
67:47 Well, you can't put them back. Uh and then how about you? Like uh
67:49 Uh and then how about you? Like uh you're not married yet.
67:50 you're not married yet. >> Not yet.
67:51 >> Not yet. >> Not yet. And I forget. Sorry. How old
67:52 >> Not yet. And I forget. Sorry. How old are you?
67:53 are you? >> 20.
67:54 >> 20. >> You're 20. Okay. Okay.
67:56 >> You're 20. Okay. Okay. >> Study first. So next
67:57 >> Study first. So next >> So next year you get married, right?
67:59 >> So next year you get married, right? >> Yeah.
68:00 >> Yeah. >> Soon. Maybe soon.
68:03 >> Soon. Maybe soon. >> All right. And uh so you got married at
68:05 >> All right. And uh so you got married at 36. I want to dig into that one a little
68:07 36. I want to dig into that one a little bit.
68:08 bit. >> Mhm.
68:08 >> Mhm. >> So when did you have your first child?
68:10 >> So when did you have your first child? You were 19.
68:11 You were 19. >> Yeah. I was 19 years old.
68:13 >> Yeah. I was 19 years old. >> And your son is how old now?
68:15 >> And your son is how old now? >> 24.
68:16 >> 24. >> 24.
68:17 >> 24. >> Yeah.
68:17 >> Yeah. >> And how come you didn't get married
68:18 >> And how come you didn't get married before you had your baby?
68:20 before you had your baby? >> It's because this was my first
68:22 >> It's because this was my first boyfriend.
68:23 boyfriend. >> Closer. Yeah.
68:24 >> Closer. Yeah. >> Okay. And then uh
68:25 >> Okay. And then uh >> and then after that uh I broke up with
68:28 >> and then after that uh I broke up with him when he was three
68:31 him when he was three old my son and then I worked to other
68:34 old my son and then I worked to other country and then I came back here in the
68:37 country and then I came back here in the Philippines and then I fall in love with
68:39 Philippines and then I fall in love with a Filipino again. So I got married when
68:42 a Filipino again. So I got married when I was 36 years old and then after one
68:45 I was 36 years old and then after one and a half year I got separated with
68:48 and a half year I got separated with him.
68:49 him. >> Okay.
68:49 >> Okay. >> Yeah.
68:50 >> Yeah. >> Okay.
68:51 >> Okay. >> All righty. Uh, do you guys use dating
68:55 >> All righty. Uh, do you guys use dating apps and which ones do you use?
69:01 >> What do you think actually of dating apps? Before I ask, do you have a bad
69:04 apps? Before I ask, do you have a bad opinion of dating apps or a good
69:05 opinion of dating apps or a good opinion?
69:07 opinion? >> Good opinion.
69:08 >> Good opinion. >> Yeah, good opinion.
69:09 >> Yeah, good opinion. >> Yeah.
69:10 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Have you had success?
69:12 >> Yeah. Have you had success? >> Um, not really. I just, you know, it's
69:15 >> Um, not really. I just, you know, it's kind of
69:17 kind of >> you enjoy yourself while using. So it's
69:20 >> you enjoy yourself while using. So it's so it's more of like a hookup thing and
69:22 so it's more of like a hookup thing and then if you want a real relationship you
69:24 then if you want a real relationship you meet them in real life.
69:25 meet them in real life. >> Yeah. Yeah. Something like
69:27 >> Yeah. Yeah. Something like >> Yeah. How do you
69:29 >> Yeah. How do you >> Yeah. I did that before on dating apps
69:31 >> Yeah. I did that before on dating apps but I forgot the name of dating apps but
69:33 but I forgot the name of dating apps but I only watching there what's they're
69:35 I only watching there what's they're doing there.
69:36 doing there. >> Yeah. You're spying or lurking.
69:38 >> Yeah. You're spying or lurking. >> Yeah.
69:39 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
69:39 >> Yeah. >> I just want to know what hell there.
69:41 >> I just want to know what hell there. >> Yeah.
69:42 >> Yeah. >> If it's true or not.
69:43 >> If it's true or not. >> I got you. And then you look for them on
69:45 >> I got you. And then you look for them on Facebook and then you try to see if
69:47 Facebook and then you try to see if they're lying on the dating app.
69:48 they're lying on the dating app. >> Yeah. cuz I know then I saw them there
69:52 >> Yeah. cuz I know then I saw them there are our customer in PM. So I was
69:54 are our customer in PM. So I was laughing.
69:55 laughing. >> Yeah, there's uh there's a lot of sneaky
69:56 >> Yeah, there's uh there's a lot of sneaky things that ladies do like um with AI
70:00 things that ladies do like um with AI you can put a picture into AI and you
70:03 you can put a picture into AI and you can say how tall is this person really
70:06 can say how tall is this person really >> because many people lie on the dating
70:08 >> because many people lie on the dating app and they say that they're 6 feet
70:09 app and they say that they're 6 feet tall but if you upload the photo to like
70:12 tall but if you upload the photo to like chat GBT
70:13 chat GBT >> Mhm. And if they're standing next to
70:14 >> Mhm. And if they're standing next to something like a sign or a car, they're
70:18 something like a sign or a car, they're standing near a tree or something, then
70:20 standing near a tree or something, then AI can tell how tall they really are.
70:23 AI can tell how tall they really are. >> Oh,
70:23 >> Oh, >> yeah. Little things like that. So, it
70:25 >> yeah. Little things like that. So, it depends how much depends how much of a
70:27 depends how much depends how much of a lurker you are.
70:28 lurker you are. >> But, um, yeah. And then, uh, yeah, like
70:31 >> But, um, yeah. And then, uh, yeah, like what do you think of dating apps? Do you
70:32 what do you think of dating apps? Do you have a good experience or bad?
70:35 have a good experience or bad? >> From now, I experience dating app in
70:38 >> From now, I experience dating app in Facebook.
70:39 Facebook. >> Facebook. Yeah.
70:39 >> Facebook. Yeah. >> Yeah. Instagram's good, too.
70:41 >> Yeah. Instagram's good, too. >> It's pretty popular.
70:43 >> It's pretty popular. I don't try.
70:44 I don't try. >> No. Yeah. I just Well, I'm sure like is
70:47 >> No. Yeah. I just Well, I'm sure like is your social media public or private? Can
70:49 your social media public or private? Can people see strangers? Can they see your
70:51 people see strangers? Can they see your photos?
70:53 photos? >> Can they Can they see?
70:54 >> Can they Can they see? >> Yes.
70:55 >> Yes. >> Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Cuz cuz you can also
70:56 >> Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Cuz cuz you can also make it hidden, you know, like you can
70:58 make it hidden, you know, like you can make it so that you have to follow back,
71:00 make it so that you have to follow back, you know.
71:01 you know. >> But then I hide.
71:02 >> But then I hide. >> Yeah. Oh, yeah. So, yeah, you can hide
71:04 >> Yeah. Oh, yeah. So, yeah, you can hide them. And then uh Yeah. And then like uh
71:07 them. And then uh Yeah. And then like uh what do you guys all put bikini photos
71:09 what do you guys all put bikini photos on your on your Instagrams?
71:16 I don't really use my Instagram. >> So, it's more like a chat app.
71:17 >> So, it's more like a chat app. >> Yeah.
71:17 >> Yeah. >> Okay. Okay. So, then you don't get
71:20 >> Okay. Okay. So, then you don't get thirsty boys looking at your photos.
71:22 thirsty boys looking at your photos. >> No.
71:22 >> No. >> All right.
71:24 >> All right. If uh if any of you girls want to put um
71:27 If uh if any of you girls want to put um like later, uh we have a membersonly
71:29 like later, uh we have a membersonly community for the men that watch the
71:30 community for the men that watch the show. Right now it's uh seven bucks a
71:33 show. Right now it's uh seven bucks a month and there's a link in the
71:35 month and there's a link in the description and um yeah you can go there
71:39 description and um yeah you can go there and you can join and then in that
71:41 and you can join and then in that membersonly community if the girls opt
71:43 membersonly community if the girls opt in I put their Instagram there and if
71:46 in I put their Instagram there and if anyone wants to get to talk to them
71:47 anyone wants to get to talk to them later um then you can do that you know
71:51 later um then you can do that you know so if you're uh thinking of coming to
71:52 so if you're uh thinking of coming to the Philippines you can make friends
71:54 the Philippines you can make friends before you come if they choose to do
71:56 before you come if they choose to do that. Um, I know one of them's going to
72:00 that. Um, I know one of them's going to Are you on your phone over there? You're
72:02 Are you on your phone over there? You're not on your phone, are you?
72:03 not on your phone, are you? >> Yeah. I'm so sorry.
72:04 >> Yeah. I'm so sorry. >> All right, put it away. Put it away. You
72:06 >> All right, put it away. Put it away. You have to I'm paying you to be here. You
72:07 have to I'm paying you to be here. You You put your phone away.
72:09 You put your phone away. >> Um All right. How many serious
72:12 >> Um All right. How many serious relationships
72:13 relationships have you girls had?
72:16 have you girls had? >> Me? I don't remember.
72:18 >> Me? I don't remember. Maybe three or four.
72:20 Maybe three or four. >> Okay. All right. That's That's good.
72:22 >> Okay. All right. That's That's good. That's good.
72:23 That's good. >> Two Filipino and two foreign.
72:25 >> Two Filipino and two foreign. >> Two foreigner. Were they white, black,
72:27 >> Two foreigner. Were they white, black, Chinese? What were they?
72:29 Chinese? What were they? >> Uh, the other one is Japanese.
72:31 >> Uh, the other one is Japanese. >> Yeah.
72:32 >> Yeah. >> And then the other one is Puerto Rican.
72:34 >> And then the other one is Puerto Rican. >> Puerto Rican.
72:35 >> Puerto Rican. >> Oh,
72:37 >> Oh, he's got that uh that spice. That spice.
72:40 he's got that uh that spice. That spice. That's cool. That's cool. How about you,
72:42 That's cool. That's cool. How about you, Talia?
72:42 Talia? >> I have two.
72:44 >> I have two. >> Yeah.
72:45 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Only two.
72:47 >> Yeah. Only two. >> And are they like Filipino or foreign?
72:48 >> And are they like Filipino or foreign? >> Yeah, Filipino.
72:49 >> Yeah, Filipino. >> Yeah. How about you? I have so many men
72:52 >> Yeah. How about you? I have so many men in my uh I have so many men in my life,
72:56 in my uh I have so many men in my life, but I only
72:59 but I only man that I love the most. That's the
73:02 man that I love the most. That's the father of my children.
73:03 father of my children. >> Okay.
73:04 >> Okay. >> Yeah.
73:04 >> Yeah. >> But do you have room for another man one
73:06 >> But do you have room for another man one day
73:07 day in your heart? You're going to or you're
73:09 in your heart? You're going to or you're just going to be with another man and
73:11 just going to be with another man and still love your past man?
73:13 still love your past man? >> Definitely. Yes.
73:14 >> Definitely. Yes. >> What happened? What happened to your
73:16 >> What happened? What happened to your last man?
73:18 last man? >> Yeah. I I He's cheating on me.
73:21 >> Yeah. I I He's cheating on me. >> Ah, but you still love him.
73:23 >> Ah, but you still love him. >> No.
73:24 >> No. >> Okay. Okay. A little bit of mixed
73:26 >> Okay. Okay. A little bit of mixed messages there.
73:33 >> I have four. >> Yeah. Okay. That's No, that's not bad.
73:35 >> Yeah. Okay. That's No, that's not bad. You're like, you're worried like, "Oh,
73:37 You're like, you're worried like, "Oh, no. Four is nothing, man." So, like, and
73:39 no. Four is nothing, man." So, like, and and how long were those relationships?
73:41 and how long were those relationships? Like, like what age were you when you
73:42 Like, like what age were you when you started dating?
73:44 started dating? >> Um,
73:46 >> Um, 15.
73:47 15. >> Okay.
73:49 >> Okay. Um two years two years and a half year.
73:52 Um two years two years and a half year. >> Yeah. For for each one.
73:55 >> Yeah. For for each one. >> My first ano? Yeah.
73:56 >> My first ano? Yeah. >> First boyfriend.
73:57 >> First boyfriend. >> And then after that the other three
73:58 >> And then after that the other three serious relationships. How long? For
74:01 serious relationships. How long? For each one?
74:03 each one? >> No. The the second the second boyfriend?
74:07 >> No. The the second the second boyfriend? Uh I I don't I don't remember.
74:11 Uh I I don't I don't remember. >> You don't remember?
74:13 >> You don't remember? >> Ah, it's okay. All right. Uh, good
74:16 >> Ah, it's okay. All right. Uh, good morning. Oh, someone's watching. Oh. Oh,
74:20 morning. Oh, someone's watching. Oh. Oh, hey Lauren. Hey,
74:21 hey Lauren. Hey, >> Lauren.
74:22 >> Lauren. >> Hi. It's Lauren.
74:23 >> Hi. It's Lauren. >> Hi.
74:24 >> Hi. >> She She's a veteran from show number
74:25 >> She She's a veteran from show number two. I'm also getting reports that our
74:27 two. I'm also getting reports that our video is a little bit off on YouTube.
74:29 video is a little bit off on YouTube. We're having some congestion. It's
74:31 We're having some congestion. It's probably because there's another phone
74:32 probably because there's another phone at the table, actually. Yeah. You know
74:34 at the table, actually. Yeah. You know what? Can you guys give me your phones
74:36 what? Can you guys give me your phones because it it blocks the signal of this
74:38 because it it blocks the signal of this one. This is uh this is what's
74:40 one. This is uh this is what's streaming. And I'm just gonna put these
74:43 streaming. And I'm just gonna put these over.
74:45 over. >> I'm going to get up for a second. You
74:47 >> I'm going to get up for a second. You guys can chat for one sec.
74:53 >> Any more phones? >> Yeah, my phone is here.
74:55 >> Yeah, my phone is here. >> Yeah. Yeah. I'm going to take it out of
74:56 >> Yeah. Yeah. I'm going to take it out of the room.
74:57 the room. >> Yeah. It jams the signal. I have
74:59 >> Yeah. It jams the signal. I have dampeners in the in the ceiling and then
75:01 dampeners in the in the ceiling and then Yeah.
75:02 Yeah. >> Yeah.
75:06 >> Okay. I'll just >> Thank you.
75:07 >> Thank you. >> No problem.
75:29 All right. All right. It looks like our video is
75:30 All right. It looks like our video is working better again. There's no more
75:32 working better again. There's no more yellow lines. So, that was right. Uh,
75:42 how many relationships did you end or how many did the man end? If the man
75:45 or how many did the man end? If the man did
75:47 did >> uh, only one one broke up with me and
75:50 >> uh, only one one broke up with me and then me. I don't know cuz I have four,
75:58 >> you know. >> Mhm.
75:58 >> Mhm. >> I don't know how many.
76:00 >> I don't know how many. >> Yeah. So, you were only dumped once and
76:02 >> Yeah. So, you were only dumped once and then you broke up with all the other
76:03 then you broke up with all the other guys.
76:04 guys. >> Yeah.
76:04 >> Yeah. >> Okay. How about you, Talia?
76:08 >> Okay. How about you, Talia? >> Oh, I broke up with
76:11 >> Oh, I broke up with all of them.
76:13 all of them. >> Yeah,
76:13 >> Yeah, >> but I have a ex-boyfriend that he broke
76:15 >> but I have a ex-boyfriend that he broke up with me.
76:16 up with me. >> Okay. So, all right. So,
76:18 >> Okay. So, all right. So, >> yeah.
76:18 >> yeah. >> Why Why did he end the relationship with
76:20 >> Why Why did he end the relationship with you?
76:22 you? >> I don't think so. Maybe he has already
76:25 >> I don't think so. Maybe he has already other girl. I'm not I don't think so.
76:29 other girl. I'm not I don't think so. I'm not really sure.
76:30 I'm not really sure. >> If I recall from the first one, it's cuz
76:32 >> If I recall from the first one, it's cuz you weren't around enough
76:34 you weren't around enough from the last show. I think you
76:36 from the last show. I think you mentioned it's cuz you weren't uh cuz
76:38 mentioned it's cuz you weren't uh cuz you strict parents.
76:39 you strict parents. >> Uh no, no, aside from that.
76:42 >> Uh no, no, aside from that. >> Okay.
76:43 >> Okay. >> And And why did the man leave you?
76:45 >> And And why did the man leave you? >> Uh the man leave me?
76:46 >> Uh the man leave me? >> Yeah.
76:47 >> Yeah. >> Uh it's a Puerto Rican. It's because he
76:50 >> Uh it's a Puerto Rican. It's because he caught me that I'm cheating.
76:52 caught me that I'm cheating. >> Oh,
76:53 >> Oh, >> she did it first.
76:55 >> she did it first. >> Filipina scandal though. Do you think
76:58 >> Filipina scandal though. Do you think it's the same when uh men cheat versus
77:00 it's the same when uh men cheat versus when women cheat?
77:01 when women cheat? >> No, it's not the same. It's for her.
77:03 >> No, it's not the same. It's for her. Yeah. If the girls cheated on
77:07 Yeah. If the girls cheated on >> Yeah.
77:07 >> Yeah. >> It's So I think it's insulted to them.
77:11 >> It's So I think it's insulted to them. >> Yeah. Well, I think when a girl cheats,
77:13 >> Yeah. Well, I think when a girl cheats, she cheats with her heart. And when a
77:15 she cheats with her heart. And when a guy cheats, he cheats with his dick.
77:17 guy cheats, he cheats with his dick. >> No, I cheat because he cheated me first.
77:20 >> No, I cheat because he cheated me first. >> Oh, you got the revenge.
77:22 >> Oh, you got the revenge. >> Oh, okay.
77:25 >> Oh, okay. >> All right. All right, I'll give
77:25 >> All right. All right, I'll give everybody a reminder just to keep your
77:27 everybody a reminder just to keep your face close to the microphone.
77:29 face close to the microphone. >> Pretend it is a man that you love.
77:32 >> Pretend it is a man that you love. >> You're very close. All right. Um,
77:36 >> You're very close. All right. Um, >> yeah. Oh, you get a shock. Yeah. Oh,
77:40 >> yeah. Oh, you get a shock. Yeah. Oh, >> yeah. You're afraid to touch it.
77:42 >> yeah. You're afraid to touch it. >> You got to be careful. You got to be
77:43 >> You got to be careful. You got to be careful
77:44 careful >> because my hand is so sweat.
77:45 >> because my hand is so sweat. >> Ah, I know. It's hot in here. I know the
77:47 >> Ah, I know. It's hot in here. I know the lights and everything and the aircon's
77:49 lights and everything and the aircon's too loud. Yep. Can't wait to upgrade the
77:52 too loud. Yep. Can't wait to upgrade the studio, too. But, uh, yeah. So, your
77:55 studio, too. But, uh, yeah. So, your relationship, how did it end with uh the
77:59 relationship, how did it end with uh the baby dad?
78:01 baby dad? >> Because he's uh he's so dumb. He's so
78:05 >> Because he's uh he's so dumb. He's so rude. Yeah.
78:06 rude. Yeah. >> Okay. So, so you broke up with him and
78:08 >> Okay. So, so you broke up with him and that was it?
78:09 that was it? >> Yeah.
78:09 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
78:10 >> Yeah. >> Yes.
78:11 >> Yes. >> And you've dated before after that,
78:12 >> And you've dated before after that, right?
78:13 right? >> Yeah. And how did those relationships
78:15 >> Yeah. And how did those relationships end?
78:17 end? >> Like two years.
78:18 >> Like two years. >> Yeah.
78:19 >> Yeah. >> And then like uh who broke up with who?
78:21 >> And then like uh who broke up with who? Did you break up or did they break up?
78:23 Did you break up or did they break up? They break up.
78:25 They break up. >> Ah, why?
78:26 >> Ah, why? >> Because uh it's a toxic relationship.
78:30 >> Because uh it's a toxic relationship. >> Were you toxic or was he toxic?
78:33 >> Were you toxic or was he toxic? >> Both.
78:34 >> Both. >> Ah, okay. So, you got a little bit of
78:36 >> Ah, okay. So, you got a little bit of the the drama.
78:38 the the drama. >> Yeah. And then uh he cheated. He cheated
78:42 >> Yeah. And then uh he cheated. He cheated on me. Then I will uh I cheated then.
78:47 on me. Then I will uh I cheated then. >> Oh, okay. And when you cheated, did you
78:49 >> Oh, okay. And when you cheated, did you cheat with a Filipino?
78:51 cheat with a Filipino? >> Yeah, I was Filipino. You've only ever
78:52 >> Yeah, I was Filipino. You've only ever been with both of you. Okay.
78:54 been with both of you. Okay. >> How about you? Give me the tea.
78:59 >> How about you? Give me the tea. >> Spill the tea.
79:00 >> Spill the tea. >> Yeah.
79:02 >> Yeah. >> All my ex I broke
79:04 >> All my ex I broke I she broke up with him.
79:07 I she broke up with him. >> You broke up? Yeah.
79:08 >> You broke up? Yeah. >> Yes.
79:08 >> Yes. >> Why?
79:10 >> Why? >> Toxic.
79:12 >> Toxic. >> Yeah.
79:12 >> Yeah. >> Boring. Going to
79:14 >> Boring. Going to >> What is What is toxic to you?
79:17 >> What is What is toxic to you? [Music]
79:18 [Music] Toxic for me is
79:21 Toxic for me is I don't know
79:22 I don't know >> like he didn't uh give you a time or
79:25 >> like he didn't uh give you a time or what?
79:27 what? >> Yes.
79:29 >> Yes. You didn't understand each other.
79:31 You didn't understand each other. >> Mhm. We cheated.
79:33 >> Mhm. We cheated. >> Uh and how old were you when that
79:35 >> Uh and how old were you when that happened?
79:36 happened? >> I'm 17.
79:38 >> I'm 17. >> Ah, okay. So, you're still kind of like
79:40 >> Ah, okay. So, you're still kind of like >> young and dumb, as they say.
79:42 >> young and dumb, as they say. >> Yeah. You make mistakes.
79:44 >> Yeah. You make mistakes. >> You another girl.
79:45 >> You another girl. >> Yeah. Yeah. That song fits, you know.
79:48 >> Yeah. Yeah. That song fits, you know. Yeah, we've all been there. Um, yeah.
79:51 Yeah, we've all been there. Um, yeah. Okay.
79:57 What age should a woman settle down with one man and get married? What is the
80:00 one man and get married? What is the best age to settle down?
80:04 best age to settle down? Not kids yet, but just to settle down
80:06 Not kids yet, but just to settle down with one man. And you might marry him
80:09 with one man. And you might marry him like he's he's your maybe your forever
80:11 like he's he's your maybe your forever love, you know, your forever person as
80:13 love, you know, your forever person as the girls say.
80:15 the girls say. Like I think 28.
80:17 Like I think 28. >> 28.
80:18 >> 28. >> Yeah.
80:19 >> Yeah. >> You don't think that's too late?
80:21 >> You don't think that's too late? >> How old are you again? How old are you
80:22 >> How old are you again? How old are you again?
80:23 again? >> 28.
80:23 >> 28. >> Yeah. Okay. So, tick tock on that one.
80:26 >> Yeah. Okay. So, tick tock on that one. >> Maybe it's time.
80:27 >> Maybe it's time. >> Yeah. You got you got to you got to work
80:28 >> Yeah. You got you got to you got to work on that.
80:29 on that. >> Yes. And then settle forever and ever.
80:31 >> Yes. And then settle forever and ever. >> Yeah. How about you? And it doesn't have
80:35 >> Yeah. How about you? And it doesn't have to be your life. It can be just like if
80:36 to be your life. It can be just like if you had a little sister, what would you
80:38 you had a little sister, what would you tell her? What is the right age?
80:40 tell her? What is the right age? >> I think 35.
80:42 >> I think 35. >> You think 35? What if she wants kids?
80:45 >> You think 35? What if she wants kids? >> She can do make a kids.
80:47 >> She can do make a kids. >> No, you can't make kids if you just
80:49 >> No, you can't make kids if you just settle down when you're 35. That means
80:51 settle down when you're 35. That means you still got a couple years of getting
80:52 you still got a couple years of getting to know each other better and then kids.
80:55 to know each other better and then kids. And then you're 40 and then you're
80:57 And then you're 40 and then you're likely to have a kid with some sort of
80:58 likely to have a kid with some sort of defect.
81:00 defect. Maybe something in the brain. Maybe you
81:01 Maybe something in the brain. Maybe you won't be too smart. I don't know. You
81:03 won't be too smart. I don't know. You know, there Yeah, it can happen. You
81:06 know, there Yeah, it can happen. You know, like uh you only got so many eggs
81:08 know, like uh you only got so many eggs in that egg carton,
81:10 in that egg carton, >> you know. Maybe 30.
81:12 >> you know. Maybe 30. >> Yeah. All right. I'll push on from
81:14 >> Yeah. All right. I'll push on from there. Uh,
81:20 so you kind of answered the next question a little bit. When is too old
81:22 question a little bit. When is too old to have kids in your opinion? We'll go
81:25 to have kids in your opinion? We'll go around the table. So, you said you you
81:28 around the table. So, you said you you think even 40 is okay to have kids?
81:30 think even 40 is okay to have kids? >> Yeah.
81:30 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. How about you, Talia?
81:32 >> Yeah. How about you, Talia? >> Um, I think
81:35 >> Um, I think for Oh,
81:37 for Oh, >> yeah. It's a tough one.
81:38 >> yeah. It's a tough one. >> Sure. But I think
81:39 >> Sure. But I think >> because you got to think about those
81:40 >> because you got to think about those kids, too, right? They're going to need
81:42 kids, too, right? They're going to need you when they're 40, maybe. You know,
81:43 you when they're 40, maybe. You know, isn't it nice to have your parents when
81:45 isn't it nice to have your parents when you're 40?
81:46 you're 40? >> Yeah.
81:46 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Maybe it's a little selfish to
81:48 >> Yeah. Maybe it's a little selfish to have kids late.
81:50 have kids late. >> Yeah.
81:50 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. It's uh, you know, very narcissism
81:53 >> Yeah. It's uh, you know, very narcissism a little bit, you know.
81:54 a little bit, you know. >> So, let's try it again. What would you
81:56 >> So, let's try it again. What would you answer? What do you think is a good age
81:58 answer? What do you think is a good age to have kids?
82:01 to have kids? >> Ideally, it doesn't have to be your
82:02 >> Ideally, it doesn't have to be your life, but if you were to give advice to
82:04 life, but if you were to give advice to a little sister, what would you tell
82:05 a little sister, what would you tell her?
82:06 her? I think but if you're financially stable
82:09 I think but if you're financially stable or if you can raise a child maybe
82:13 or if you can raise a child maybe at 25 above for me.
82:16 at 25 above for me. >> No. Yeah, it's okay. It's there's no
82:18 >> No. Yeah, it's okay. It's there's no wrong answers as far as I'm concerned. I
82:20 wrong answers as far as I'm concerned. I have my opinions too.
82:22 have my opinions too. >> Mhm.
82:22 >> Mhm. >> But uh I mean in my opinion I think
82:24 >> But uh I mean in my opinion I think that's still a little bit too old but
82:26 that's still a little bit too old but it's it's cool. How about you?
82:27 it's it's cool. How about you? >> Yes. Uh 25 25.
82:30 >> Yes. Uh 25 25. >> Yeah.
82:31 >> Yeah. >> Or 30. Yes.
82:32 >> Or 30. Yes. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I think my wife like
82:34 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I think my wife like when we had kids, I think she was in her
82:39 when we had kids, I think she was in her I think she was Yeah. like uh late 20s.
82:41 I think she was Yeah. like uh late 20s. >> M
82:42 >> M >> Yeah. But it's cuz I'm so old.
82:45 >> Yeah. But it's cuz I'm so old. >> How about you, Belle?
82:47 >> How about you, Belle? >> 25. If I end my study in college.
82:51 >> 25. If I end my study in college. >> Yeah.
82:53 >> Yeah. All right.
83:01 Oh, yeah. Let's change gears a little bit. Should
83:03 Let's change gears a little bit. Should a woman keep an escape plan just in
83:06 a woman keep an escape plan just in case?
83:08 case? >> Should a woman have that backup plan?
83:10 >> Should a woman have that backup plan? >> Yeah.
83:11 >> Yeah. >> You think so?
83:12 >> You think so? >> Yeah. They always have.
83:14 >> Yeah. They always have. >> I think I know why you answered that.
83:16 >> I think I know why you answered that. I'm going to circle back to you, too,
83:17 I'm going to circle back to you, too, cuz I know what happened to you.
83:19 cuz I know what happened to you. >> I uh I already interviewed her last
83:21 >> I uh I already interviewed her last night. So, um how about you, Talia?
83:24 night. So, um how about you, Talia? Yeah, I think it should because you know
83:27 Yeah, I think it should because you know if your for example your husband uh your
83:32 if your for example your husband uh your husband broke. Yeah. Yeah. At least you
83:35 husband broke. Yeah. Yeah. At least you have you still have your you still have
83:38 have you still have your you still have money
83:38 money >> for emergency.
83:40 >> for emergency. >> Yeah. But you wouldn't use it as like
83:43 >> Yeah. But you wouldn't use it as like you know you wouldn't go out and go to
83:45 you know you wouldn't go out and go to the spa and do all the secret stuff
83:47 the spa and do all the secret stuff behind his back. You would use it for
83:48 behind his back. You would use it for family emergency.
83:49 family emergency. >> Yeah. For only family emergency.
83:51 >> Yeah. For only family emergency. >> Yeah. Like if somebody gets sick.
83:53 >> Yeah. Like if somebody gets sick. >> Mhm. Yeah. And then you'd probably tell
83:55 >> Mhm. Yeah. And then you'd probably tell him that you had it anyway, but only in
83:57 him that you had it anyway, but only in the emergency. You wouldn't tell him
83:58 the emergency. You wouldn't tell him before because then then he might use it
84:00 before because then then he might use it to go fight or, you know, go go
84:03 to go fight or, you know, go go Yeah.
84:05 Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. I'm going to circle back to
84:07 >> Yeah. Yeah. I'm going to circle back to that. Beia likes uh that fight.
84:12 that. Beia likes uh that fight. >> Oh, did you see the lure?
84:13 >> Oh, did you see the lure? >> Oh, did you did you win last time?
84:17 >> Oh, did you did you win last time? >> Uh first with the first
84:21 >> Uh first with the first >> closer to the microphone. First with the
84:24 >> closer to the microphone. First with the one chicken uh this
84:37 >> Did you lose any money? >> I only lose no money about 3,000.
84:41 >> I only lose no money about 3,000. >> So you
84:42 >> So you >> but I win 2,000.
84:43 >> but I win 2,000. >> So you lose 1,000 in the end?
84:45 >> So you lose 1,000 in the end? >> Yes.
84:46 >> Yes. >> Okay. Yeah.
84:49 >> Okay. Yeah. >> Yeah. What is your role like? Are you
84:51 >> Yeah. What is your role like? Are you just a spectator? Like you just watch?
84:54 just a spectator? Like you just watch? >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I have I I watch and
84:58 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I have I I watch and uh I have uh like Kristoff.
85:06 >> That's okay. >> Yeah. Then I have
85:09 >> Yeah. Then I have then you there's a
85:13 then you there's a about
85:15 about I I the two chicken is lost then one
85:19 I I the two chicken is lost then one chicken is is Yeah.
85:22 chicken is is Yeah. >> Yeah.
85:24 >> Yeah. >> How about you Belle? Would you have a
85:26 >> How about you Belle? Would you have a backup account? Backup plan? Emergency
85:28 backup account? Backup plan? Emergency plan that you don't tell the man.
85:32 plan that you don't tell the man. >> Bank card.
85:35 >> Bank card. No bank account gan bank account
85:38 No bank account gan bank account >> I don't have now
85:40 >> I don't have now >> no that's
85:41 >> no that's >> you don't have bank account but you have
85:43 >> you don't have bank account but you have always a pocket man if you use the
85:45 always a pocket man if you use the emergency
85:47 emergency >> yes
85:49 >> yes >> all right we got a Lauren saying
85:50 >> all right we got a Lauren saying something
85:57 >> ah somebody in the audience I'll tell you
85:59 somebody in the audience I'll tell you who it is after I ask the question and
86:01 who it is after I ask the question and after you answer um is cheating back to
86:04 after you answer um is cheating back to your man Do you think uh that that is a
86:06 your man Do you think uh that that is a good revenge to hurt them or just you
86:10 good revenge to hurt them or just you guys show them that you will be able to
86:11 guys show them that you will be able to do what he did to you? So is it just to
86:14 do what he did to you? So is it just to like show hey man you do it I can do it
86:16 like show hey man you do it I can do it too or was it to hurt them?
86:19 too or was it to hurt them? >> It's not only the one who can do it. I
86:21 >> It's not only the one who can do it. I can do it you know.
86:22 can do it you know. >> Yeah. Talia you never did.
86:25 >> Yeah. Talia you never did. >> Or did you? I forget.
86:28 >> Or did you? I forget. >> I didn't remember.
86:30 >> I didn't remember. I think
86:32 I think no I think I
86:34 no I think I >> but for me you know uh success is the
86:39 >> but for me you know uh success is the best revenge.
86:40 best revenge. >> No that's true. Yeah. But
86:43 >> No that's true. Yeah. But >> yeah, but yeah.
86:47 >> yeah, but yeah. >> Yeah. For me, I was not happy when I
86:51 >> Yeah. For me, I was not happy when I cheated on him. But it was so so much
86:55 cheated on him. But it was so so much painful pain like he broke me then. Oh
87:00 painful pain like he broke me then. Oh my god.
87:02 my god. But I'm not happy when I cheated.
87:05 But I'm not happy when I cheated. >> Yeah. Sorry everybody for the video
87:07 >> Yeah. Sorry everybody for the video buffering problems. We're having another
87:09 buffering problems. We're having another slowdown. I'm sure it'll pick up very
87:10 slowdown. I'm sure it'll pick up very quickly.
87:12 quickly. Uh, and then how about you? You ever
87:13 Uh, and then how about you? You ever cheat on a guy to get revenge or just to
87:16 cheat on a guy to get revenge or just to cause pain?
87:16 cause pain? >> I revenge.
87:18 >> I revenge. >> Are you happy when you revenge?
87:20 >> Are you happy when you revenge? >> Yes.
87:22 >> Yes. >> Was the sex actually good?
87:25 >> Was the sex actually good? >> No,
87:25 >> No, >> I should have asked that, too. Yeah,
87:27 >> I should have asked that, too. Yeah, that's my variation of uh the question.
87:29 that's my variation of uh the question. The person that asked that was Lauren.
87:31 The person that asked that was Lauren. >> Yeah. Yeah.
87:32 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah, you figured. But um yeah. All
87:35 >> Yeah, you figured. But um yeah. All right, let's uh let's move on. So,
87:39 right, let's uh let's move on. So, I kind of wanted to talk about um you
87:43 I kind of wanted to talk about um you know, like uh I had a bunch of questions
87:45 know, like uh I had a bunch of questions that I was going to ask last time and we
87:46 that I was going to ask last time and we didn't get to them. And I'm not really
87:49 didn't get to them. And I'm not really sure how I'm going to go about asking
87:50 sure how I'm going to go about asking this question. You know that the
87:53 this question. You know that the Philippines has been colonized before,
87:55 Philippines has been colonized before, right? I'm not going to get into the
87:57 right? I'm not going to get into the history of it. Don't worry, we're not
87:58 history of it. Don't worry, we're not going to have a history lesson. But uh
88:00 going to have a history lesson. But uh you know your country's been colonized
88:01 you know your country's been colonized by the Japanese
88:04 by the Japanese um by the Spanish and kind of like a
88:07 um by the Spanish and kind of like a soft colonization by America.
88:11 soft colonization by America. Back then it was they would come here
88:13 Back then it was they would come here and they would force you like the
88:15 and they would force you like the Spanish introduced the Catholic faith to
88:17 Spanish introduced the Catholic faith to you. Your country used to be Muslim and
88:18 you. Your country used to be Muslim and then they made it Catholic. Uh the
88:21 then they made it Catholic. Uh the Americans, they brought
88:24 Americans, they brought junk food, you know, like they like they
88:26 junk food, you know, like they like they brought like uh all the bad habits. And
88:29 brought like uh all the bad habits. And uh the Japanese, well, they were just a
88:31 uh the Japanese, well, they were just a little uh grapey and a little bit uh
88:34 little uh grapey and a little bit uh unalivyy. Uh especially during the war,
88:36 unalivyy. Uh especially during the war, it was pretty rough.
88:39 it was pretty rough. How do you think countries would
88:41 How do you think countries would colonize you today? And do you think
88:43 colonize you today? And do you think that there's possibly a secret
88:45 that there's possibly a secret colonization happening to your country
88:48 colonization happening to your country right now
88:50 right now through social media feminism?
88:54 through social media feminism? Do you think that maybe your guys are
88:56 Do you think that maybe your guys are being colonized again through the
88:58 being colonized again through the internet and you just don't know it?
89:00 internet and you just don't know it? Or maybe you do know it.
89:02 Or maybe you do know it. >> I don't know.
89:03 >> I don't know. >> Yeah, I know. It's a pretty out there
89:04 >> Yeah, I know. It's a pretty out there question, isn't it? You know, like um
89:07 question, isn't it? You know, like um there's one thing like I've traveled the
89:08 there's one thing like I've traveled the world. I've been all over and uh you
89:11 world. I've been all over and uh you know I grew up before the internet. So
89:12 know I grew up before the internet. So did you
89:15 did you when you were younger cuz you know
89:16 when you were younger cuz you know you're you're on my level age- wise. You
89:19 you're you're on my level age- wise. You notice that everybody was kind of
89:20 notice that everybody was kind of unique. Everybody was very different.
89:22 unique. Everybody was very different. >> Yeah.
89:22 >> Yeah. >> But now today girls all have the same
89:25 >> But now today girls all have the same attitude. I don't need no man.
89:27 attitude. I don't need no man. I don't want kids. You know, all the
89:30 I don't want kids. You know, all the answers we just got from these younger
89:32 answers we just got from these younger ladies.
89:32 ladies. >> Mhm.
89:33 >> Mhm. >> Do you think that maybe that's social
89:35 >> Do you think that maybe that's social media getting into their brain and
89:36 media getting into their brain and giving them those ideas? Yeah, I think
89:39 giving them those ideas? Yeah, I think so.
89:39 so. >> And and what is colonization, right?
89:41 >> And and what is colonization, right? Colonization and like, you know, the
89:43 Colonization and like, you know, the Spanish made you guys Catholic.
89:45 Spanish made you guys Catholic. >> Maybe now the West is making you guys
89:48 >> Maybe now the West is making you guys degenerate, having lots of sex with lots
89:50 degenerate, having lots of sex with lots of different men.
89:52 of different men. >> Not you, cuz I know you have a very low
89:53 >> Not you, cuz I know you have a very low body count, you know, and same with
89:55 body count, you know, and same with Lauren, too. She had a very low body
89:57 Lauren, too. She had a very low body count and she was older.
89:58 count and she was older. >> Uh, and I'm not putting shade on
90:00 >> Uh, and I'm not putting shade on anybody.
90:00 anybody. >> Yeah.
90:01 >> Yeah. >> Um, but I really noticed it especially
90:02 >> Um, but I really noticed it especially during the pandemic. Like I thought it
90:04 during the pandemic. Like I thought it was already really crazy that all the
90:06 was already really crazy that all the doctors and nurses were like carrying
90:08 doctors and nurses were like carrying dead bodies while doing Tik Tok dances
90:10 dead bodies while doing Tik Tok dances and stuff.
90:10 and stuff. >> Mh.
90:11 >> Mh. >> And then I noticed that it just during
90:13 >> And then I noticed that it just during the pandemic everybody was really bored.
90:15 the pandemic everybody was really bored. And I kind of feel like that
90:16 And I kind of feel like that colonization, internet colonization sped
90:19 colonization, internet colonization sped up where I was here before the pandemic
90:22 up where I was here before the pandemic and then I was here during and after.
90:25 and then I was here during and after. And I found that girls became more
90:28 And I found that girls became more antisocial in real life. they started to
90:31 antisocial in real life. they started to spend more times on on their phone and
90:34 spend more times on on their phone and they became more socially awkward where
90:36 they became more socially awkward where if I went out I was able to approach
90:38 if I went out I was able to approach people in the bar and they wouldn't be
90:40 people in the bar and they wouldn't be socially awkward but now they are and I
90:42 socially awkward but now they are and I think social media is doing that to
90:44 think social media is doing that to people. It's kind of actually putting
90:45 people. It's kind of actually putting everybody in a box. And this morning I
90:48 everybody in a box. And this morning I woke up and I'm probably going to use it
90:49 woke up and I'm probably going to use it on a um on a single mother stream that
90:52 on a um on a single mother stream that I'm going to do in the future. You know,
90:54 I'm going to do in the future. You know, I wake up and there's a girl uh the
90:56 I wake up and there's a girl uh the first reel I see on Facebook is this
90:58 first reel I see on Facebook is this girl take a slow-mo. She puts her phone
91:01 girl take a slow-mo. She puts her phone down on the beach. She does a slow-mo
91:02 down on the beach. She does a slow-mo and a bikini thong. You can see her butt
91:04 and a bikini thong. You can see her butt jiggle in slow-mo. Then she stops and
91:07 jiggle in slow-mo. Then she stops and like looks sexy, walks back to the
91:09 like looks sexy, walks back to the camera. So, I click on her profile and
91:11 camera. So, I click on her profile and she's got two kids, you know, and it's
91:14 she's got two kids, you know, and it's like that's the single mom stuff. Now,
91:16 like that's the single mom stuff. Now, single moms in the West have a bad
91:19 single moms in the West have a bad reputation, a lot of them, because they
91:21 reputation, a lot of them, because they do that whole I don't need no man thing
91:23 do that whole I don't need no man thing after they have kids where, you know,
91:25 after they have kids where, you know, it's it's different for you guys, a lot
91:27 it's it's different for you guys, a lot of you, because you had kids when you
91:28 of you, because you had kids when you were young and kind of sill like you
91:30 were young and kind of sill like you weren't, you know, your brain wasn't
91:31 weren't, you know, your brain wasn't fully formed and all that.
91:33 fully formed and all that. >> But in the West, women are waiting
91:34 >> But in the West, women are waiting longer to have kids and then they're
91:36 longer to have kids and then they're still
91:37 still >> wanting to have hot girl summer and take
91:38 >> wanting to have hot girl summer and take half of the guy's money, right?
91:40 half of the guy's money, right? >> And in the West, uh, if you do that,
91:43 >> And in the West, uh, if you do that, it's legally enforced. So, if the guy
91:45 it's legally enforced. So, if the guy doesn't pay, he can go to jail.
91:48 doesn't pay, he can go to jail. >> First, they try to take it out of his
91:49 >> First, they try to take it out of his bank account automatically without his
91:51 bank account automatically without his permission.
91:52 permission. >> And then if he doesn't have enough money
91:54 >> And then if he doesn't have enough money in there too long, then he goes to jail.
91:56 in there too long, then he goes to jail. So, it's a little bit different here. If
91:57 So, it's a little bit different here. If the man doesn't have the money, then he
91:58 the man doesn't have the money, then he doesn't have the money and then that's
92:00 doesn't have the money and then that's it. But yeah, so I don't know. I guess
92:02 it. But yeah, so I don't know. I guess maybe I asked that question to kind of
92:04 maybe I asked that question to kind of make you guys aware of that fact. Um,
92:07 make you guys aware of that fact. Um, and then you know, like what that's
92:08 and then you know, like what that's doing in the dating world is it's making
92:12 doing in the dating world is it's making men lust after you. more than it's doing
92:16 men lust after you. more than it's doing any good. Like the men that see that
92:18 any good. Like the men that see that stuff, the the sexy dances on TikTok and
92:20 stuff, the the sexy dances on TikTok and all that stuff,
92:22 all that stuff, they just want to you know, they
92:25 they just want to you know, they don't respect you,
92:26 don't respect you, >> you know? You're a toy, you know? And I
92:29 >> you know? You're a toy, you know? And I think that is some form of colonization
92:33 think that is some form of colonization where the West is kind of um
92:36 where the West is kind of um they're ruining you, you know. And uh as
92:40 they're ruining you, you know. And uh as I mentioned in the first episode and the
92:41 I mentioned in the first episode and the second episode, you guys have a unique
92:42 second episode, you guys have a unique opportunity. Um and I'll get off my high
92:45 opportunity. Um and I'll get off my high horse and get off my soap box in a
92:46 horse and get off my soap box in a second, but I mean 10 years ago, 20
92:50 second, but I mean 10 years ago, 20 years ago, the only foreigners that you
92:52 years ago, the only foreigners that you guys could get were 60 and over, fat,
92:55 guys could get were 60 and over, fat, balding, retired, and they had a
92:57 balding, retired, and they had a pension. That was all the selection you
92:59 pension. That was all the selection you had.
93:01 had. Now you've got men coming here in their
93:03 Now you've got men coming here in their late 30s, highquality men. They might
93:06 late 30s, highquality men. They might still be working online. Maybe they have
93:07 still be working online. Maybe they have crypto. Maybe they're they're
93:09 crypto. Maybe they're they're millionaires by Filipino standards and
93:11 millionaires by Filipino standards and pesos and uh you guys have an
93:13 pesos and uh you guys have an opportunity and these guys are looking
93:14 opportunity and these guys are looking for families. They're looking to start
93:16 for families. They're looking to start families and they're coming here, a lot
93:18 families and they're coming here, a lot of them, not all of them obviously. Um
93:20 of them, not all of them obviously. Um but they're coming with pure intentions
93:21 but they're coming with pure intentions to like like I did. I I came here to
93:23 to like like I did. I I came here to start a family and even though that
93:25 start a family and even though that quite didn't quite work out, I still got
93:27 quite didn't quite work out, I still got two great sons out of the deal. um you
93:30 two great sons out of the deal. um you know but if you guys continue to follow
93:32 know but if you guys continue to follow what they're doing in the west what the
93:34 what they're doing in the west what the western girls do
93:36 western girls do you know and I'm I'm I'm saying this
93:38 you know and I'm I'm I'm saying this also for the audience as well um right
93:41 also for the audience as well um right now in America cuz they seem to be the
93:43 now in America cuz they seem to be the ones leading although I still think it's
93:45 ones leading although I still think it's a bullshik game in America a little bit
93:48 a bullshik game in America a little bit of wimar and uh bless you um
93:53 of wimar and uh bless you um Christian nationalism is becoming a
93:55 Christian nationalism is becoming a really big thing in America where it's
93:59 really big thing in America where it's mainly led by the like the generation
94:02 mainly led by the like the generation whatever generation now Zoomers and
94:04 whatever generation now Zoomers and stuff. They're going back to their faith
94:07 stuff. They're going back to their faith and they're going back to church and I
94:09 and they're going back to church and I think you guys are always like 10 years
94:11 think you guys are always like 10 years behind. I mean you guys you didn't get
94:13 behind. I mean you guys you didn't get mobile internet on your phones until 12
94:15 mobile internet on your phones until 12 years after I had it, maybe longer. But
94:19 years after I had it, maybe longer. But I would just hate to see you guys ruin
94:21 I would just hate to see you guys ruin yourself, you know. Um, and then all
94:24 yourself, you know. Um, and then all these guys are coming and look for
94:25 these guys are coming and look for families and then all they find is
94:28 families and then all they find is ratchet ratchet girls that put all their
94:31 ratchet ratchet girls that put all their butt on social media and had a million
94:32 butt on social media and had a million guys in their DMs. So, it's just
94:34 guys in their DMs. So, it's just something to think about, you know, like
94:36 something to think about, you know, like you don't necessarily like as aspects of
94:39 you don't necessarily like as aspects of the Japanese or the Spanish or the
94:40 the Japanese or the Spanish or the Americans because you were colonized by
94:42 Americans because you were colonized by them, but now it seems like you guys are
94:44 them, but now it seems like you guys are colonizing yourselves. And I just think
94:46 colonizing yourselves. And I just think it's something to be aware of. So,
94:48 it's something to be aware of. So, that's kind of something I wanted to
94:49 that's kind of something I wanted to say, you know, for the audience as well.
94:52 say, you know, for the audience as well. Um, yeah. So, I don't know. That was a
94:54 Um, yeah. So, I don't know. That was a thought I had. Um, I guess we'll go into
94:57 thought I had. Um, I guess we'll go into the questions we didn't get into last
94:58 the questions we didn't get into last time. It was kind of um like uh I I call
95:03 time. It was kind of um like uh I I call this category like male selection. So,
95:05 this category like male selection. So, we're going to kind of look at how you
95:07 we're going to kind of look at how you guys, you know, qualify a man, you know,
95:10 guys, you know, qualify a man, you know, like how you decide that you want to
95:12 like how you decide that you want to date a guy. Um,
95:15 date a guy. Um, but I'm going to ask you first, um, what
95:18 but I'm going to ask you first, um, what kind of challenges do you think that men
95:20 kind of challenges do you think that men face in the dating market today?
95:29 Like, like like do you think it's harder for men in the dating market than it is
95:30 for men in the dating market than it is for women?
95:36 >> Ah, come on. You know, you know, >> again, can you
95:38 >> again, can you >> Yeah. Like like is it like if if a guy
95:40 >> Yeah. Like like is it like if if a guy wants to get a girlfriend, is it harder
95:41 wants to get a girlfriend, is it harder for a guy to get a girlfriend than it is
95:44 for a guy to get a girlfriend than it is for a girl to get a boyfriend?
95:46 for a girl to get a boyfriend? >> Uh it was easy for the guy to get a
95:48 >> Uh it was easy for the guy to get a girlfriend though.
95:49 girlfriend though. >> You think?
95:50 >> You think? >> Yeah.
95:50 >> Yeah. >> Like a like a like one he wants to marry
95:52 >> Like a like a like one he wants to marry or one he just wants to have sex with.
95:54 or one he just wants to have sex with. >> Uh the one who wants to have sex only.
95:57 >> Uh the one who wants to have sex only. >> Yeah.
95:57 >> Yeah. >> But to get married it's hard to find.
95:59 >> But to get married it's hard to find. >> It's hard to find a good one that'll be
96:01 >> It's hard to find a good one that'll be a wife.
96:01 a wife. >> Yeah.
96:02 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Especially if she's got her ass
96:03 >> Yeah. Especially if she's got her ass all over uh her social media. Maybe he
96:05 all over uh her social media. Maybe he doesn't like that.
96:06 doesn't like that. >> Mhm.
96:06 >> Mhm. >> How about you? Like do you think men or
96:08 >> How about you? Like do you think men or women like who has it harder?
96:11 women like who has it harder? >> Um
96:12 >> Um >> and be honest like there's no wrong
96:13 >> and be honest like there's no wrong answers you know.
96:16 answers you know. >> Um I think both men and women.
96:19 >> Um I think both men and women. >> Yeah.
96:20 >> Yeah. >> Cuz you know in this generation you know
96:22 >> Cuz you know in this generation you know you can't really trust that person.
96:25 you can't really trust that person. >> Yeah.
96:26 >> Yeah. >> Mhm. Yeah. Like you never know their
96:28 >> Mhm. Yeah. Like you never know their intention.
96:29 intention. >> Yeah.
96:29 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
96:30 >> Yeah. >> Like do you think maybe previous social
96:33 >> Like do you think maybe previous social media behavior has a effect on that?
96:36 media behavior has a effect on that? >> Yeah. Yeah.
96:37 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> So, like if a guy sees a lot of uh, you
96:40 >> So, like if a guy sees a lot of uh, you know, dancing at the club and a lot of
96:42 know, dancing at the club and a lot of bikini ass shots on Instagram, stuff
96:45 bikini ass shots on Instagram, stuff like that, like maybe that would make
96:47 like that, like maybe that would make him treat you like a toy instead of
96:50 him treat you like a toy instead of treat you like a like a wife.
96:51 treat you like a like a wife. >> Mhm. Yeah.
96:53 >> Mhm. Yeah. >> Yeah. How about you girls? Who has it
96:55 >> Yeah. How about you girls? Who has it harder? And actually, you know what? Can
96:56 harder? And actually, you know what? Can I get a sting? I need a sting. I'm like,
96:59 I get a sting? I need a sting. I'm like, >> girl, uh, girl is even harder.
97:03 >> girl, uh, girl is even harder. >> You think it's harder for a girl to find
97:05 >> You think it's harder for a girl to find a man?
97:07 a man? when uh
97:08 when uh >> I'm not judging. I'm not judging.
97:09 >> I'm not judging. I'm not judging. >> When in a serious relationship because
97:12 >> When in a serious relationship because boys is uh not all the boys are but boys
97:17 boys is uh not all the boys are but boys are
97:18 are like boy.
97:20 like boy. >> Yeah.
97:21 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
97:22 >> Yeah. >> And and why do you think that they're
97:24 >> And and why do you think that they're like that?
97:31 Some of the boys just they had uh they never uh
98:14 We went to one sound last night. >> I think that's just going to happen
98:15 >> I think that's just going to happen every show.
99:22 All right, we're back. One second.
99:26 Sorry about that. We're having some technical difficulties, it appears. I
99:28 technical difficulties, it appears. I guess that's going to be a normal thing
99:30 guess that's going to be a normal thing that happens on the show. That's kind of
99:31 that happens on the show. That's kind of frustrating. Uh, let me know in the chat
99:34 frustrating. Uh, let me know in the chat if everything's back to normal. Uh,
99:36 if everything's back to normal. Uh, right now I can only watch the YouTube
99:38 right now I can only watch the YouTube chat because I'm afraid to overload my
99:40 chat because I'm afraid to overload my computer.
99:44 >> I really don't want to switch back to Windows. I use Linux. But, uh, yeah, we
99:47 Windows. I use Linux. But, uh, yeah, we should be okay. So, we have people in
99:50 should be okay. So, we have people in the audience. Uh, let me know in the
99:52 the audience. Uh, let me know in the chat if it's working.
99:54 chat if it's working. Damn.
99:55 Damn. >> And, uh, yeah, if it pops off the, uh,
99:58 >> And, uh, yeah, if it pops off the, uh, the screen again, just let me know. How
100:00 the screen again, just let me know. How long was it off?
100:03 long was it off? few seconds.
100:03 few seconds. >> Oh, just a few seconds. Okay, good.
100:05 >> Oh, just a few seconds. Okay, good. Yeah, I didn't catch that.
100:07 Yeah, I didn't catch that. >> Yeah, that's that's really bad. Um,
100:10 >> Yeah, that's that's really bad. Um, yeah. All right. And just a reminder,
100:12 yeah. All right. And just a reminder, too, to anybody in the audience, if you
100:13 too, to anybody in the audience, if you want to like the video, that'd be really
100:14 want to like the video, that'd be really great. It'll help us. And maybe drop a
100:16 great. It'll help us. And maybe drop a comment or, you know, say hey in the
100:18 comment or, you know, say hey in the chat. Let us know where you're
100:21 chat. Let us know where you're >> But, um, yeah. So, so we were with Beia
100:24 >> But, um, yeah. So, so we were with Beia and you thought it's harder for ladies
100:26 and you thought it's harder for ladies and then I asked you like like weren't
100:29 and then I asked you like like weren't men always I mean let's be real men
100:32 men always I mean let's be real men always want sex. We always did.
100:35 always want sex. We always did. >> Yeah.
100:36 >> Yeah. >> Even in the 1920s,
100:38 >> Even in the 1920s, >> you know.
100:39 >> you know. >> Definitely.
100:40 >> Definitely. >> Yeah. So,
100:40 >> Yeah. So, >> but not at all the men's
100:48 >> like is it a possibility that because women are no longer gatekeepers,
100:51 women are no longer gatekeepers, they're giving up the sex so easily now
100:53 they're giving up the sex so easily now and so many of them that maybe men have
100:57 and so many of them that maybe men have that expectation now and that women have
100:59 that expectation now and that women have trained men to be boys. Oh,
101:03 trained men to be boys. Oh, >> because women women were normally the
101:05 >> because women women were normally the gatekeepers, right? It was their
101:06 gatekeepers, right? It was their decision. Women control sex. Men control
101:10 decision. Women control sex. Men control marriage like like a woman can't get
101:13 marriage like like a woman can't get married unless the man decides to put a
101:14 married unless the man decides to put a ring on it, right?
101:16 ring on it, right? >> I mean, and and men won't marry a woman
101:18 >> I mean, and and men won't marry a woman that proposes to him because that's a
101:21 that proposes to him because that's a man's job,
101:22 man's job, >> right? It just it's just doesn't happen,
101:24 >> right? It just it's just doesn't happen, you know? Like maybe a girl will say, "I
101:26 you know? Like maybe a girl will say, "I wish we'd get married." And then that
101:28 wish we'd get married." And then that guy would take that as a green light and
101:29 guy would take that as a green light and then he would propose, maybe. But
101:32 then he would propose, maybe. But generally speaking, men propose, right?
101:35 generally speaking, men propose, right? Like it's us. We control marriage. So
101:38 Like it's us. We control marriage. So because we have to decide if we want to
101:40 because we have to decide if we want to be a provider for that girl. We have to
101:41 be a provider for that girl. We have to decide if she's going to be the one, if
101:42 decide if she's going to be the one, if we want kids, if she's going to be good
101:44 we want kids, if she's going to be good enough, you know, but women control sex.
101:48 enough, you know, but women control sex. So if all the girls are letting men have
101:50 So if all the girls are letting men have sex all the time with no strings, then
101:54 sex all the time with no strings, then maybe women are training men to be
101:56 maybe women are training men to be boys because men were always horny,
101:59 boys because men were always horny, >> you know? So I I guess I'm just turning
102:01 >> you know? So I I guess I'm just turning it around on you. Like um
102:03 it around on you. Like um >> I'm an old man, you know, so I'm going
102:05 >> I'm an old man, you know, so I'm going to have my thoughts on that, too. Um,
102:07 to have my thoughts on that, too. Um, but yeah, I mean, and also too, I think
102:09 but yeah, I mean, and also too, I think there's a lot of guys, you know, like I
102:11 there's a lot of guys, you know, like I look at my situation. I used to be
102:14 look at my situation. I used to be diehard romantic, you know, like I used
102:17 diehard romantic, you know, like I used to be, you know, like I I had a big
102:19 to be, you know, like I I had a big crush when I was young. Um, you know,
102:21 crush when I was young. Um, you know, when I was Talia's age and uh I had a
102:24 when I was Talia's age and uh I had a best friend, you know, and I was a
102:26 best friend, you know, and I was a doormat for her and I would drive her
102:28 doormat for her and I would drive her home and sometimes pick her up after she
102:30 home and sometimes pick her up after she had a fight with like whatever Chad, you
102:33 had a fight with like whatever Chad, you know, and it was even more frustrating
102:34 know, and it was even more frustrating cuz they were uglier than me. But um
102:38 cuz they were uglier than me. But um yeah, you know, I used to be real dieh
102:39 yeah, you know, I used to be real dieh hard romantic, but eventually you reach
102:41 hard romantic, but eventually you reach your tipping point where you've been
102:42 your tipping point where you've been betrayed by women enough because like do
102:46 betrayed by women enough because like do you think women cheat more than men?
102:50 you think women cheat more than men? >> Um not really. I think
102:52 >> Um not really. I think >> Okay, first let's break down what
102:54 >> Okay, first let's break down what cheating is. What do you think cheating
102:56 cheating is. What do you think cheating is in the year 2025?
102:59 is in the year 2025? You know, cuz like people talk about
103:01 You know, cuz like people talk about like micro cheating,
103:03 like micro cheating, >> you know, they or microaggressions.
103:05 >> you know, they or microaggressions. There's a lot of kind of cheating.
103:08 There's a lot of kind of cheating. >> Yeah. And I guess the way that I'll
103:11 >> Yeah. And I guess the way that I'll explain first is that like women are
103:14 explain first is that like women are marketers and men are salesmen.
103:17 marketers and men are salesmen. >> So what I mean by that when you go to a
103:19 >> So what I mean by that when you go to a store like uh the appliance store, you
103:23 store like uh the appliance store, you know,
103:23 know, >> people like right away come to you,
103:25 >> people like right away come to you, hello, hello, mom, sir. Hello, mom sir.
103:26 hello, hello, mom, sir. Hello, mom sir. And they like that's a salesman. They
103:28 And they like that's a salesman. They approach you.
103:29 approach you. >> Mhm. But the marketing they do is like,
103:32 >> Mhm. But the marketing they do is like, you know, like maybe SML, they'll have
103:35 you know, like maybe SML, they'll have like somebody on uh on Facebook doing a
103:38 like somebody on uh on Facebook doing a Facebook live and it's your choice
103:42 Facebook live and it's your choice to like watch it or not. Or, you know,
103:44 to like watch it or not. Or, you know, they'll hand you a flyer in the street,
103:46 they'll hand you a flyer in the street, but they're not really selling to you.
103:47 but they're not really selling to you. They're marketing to you.
103:49 They're marketing to you. >> Yeah. That's the marketing strategies.
103:50 >> Yeah. That's the marketing strategies. >> Yeah. So, it's like when I say women are
103:53 >> Yeah. So, it's like when I say women are marketers, like some of some girls put
103:55 marketers, like some of some girls put their ass on Instagram and that's their
103:57 their ass on Instagram and that's their marketing. Very rarely do girls walk up
104:00 marketing. Very rarely do girls walk up to a man and sell themselves and be
104:01 to a man and sell themselves and be like, "Date me." Like that that doesn't
104:03 like, "Date me." Like that that doesn't happen. So women are marketers and men
104:06 happen. So women are marketers and men are sales, right? So when it comes to
104:09 are sales, right? So when it comes to cheating and stuff like that, could the
104:11 cheating and stuff like that, could the act of marketing, you know, putting your
104:14 act of marketing, you know, putting your ass
104:15 ass >> on Instagram when you're in a
104:16 >> on Instagram when you're in a relationship,
104:18 relationship, could that be cheating,
104:21 could that be cheating, >> letting other men look at your bum?
104:23 >> letting other men look at your bum? >> No, it's not.
104:25 >> No, it's not. >> No. You don't think your bum is only for
104:27 >> No. You don't think your bum is only for your man?
104:29 your man? >> No.
104:29 >> No. >> No.
104:30 >> No. >> It's because
104:30 >> It's because >> So, so you have a community bum.
104:33 >> So, so you have a community bum. >> You share your bum with everybody.
104:35 >> You share your bum with everybody. >> No. Cuz normally when we go to to beach,
104:38 >> No. Cuz normally when we go to to beach, you know, we wear swimsuit so everybody
104:41 you know, we wear swimsuit so everybody can see our bum.
104:43 can see our bum. >> Yeah.
104:44 >> Yeah. >> Doesn't mean you show your bum. You're
104:46 >> Doesn't mean you show your bum. You're giving your to them. You're
104:48 giving your to them. You're showing your But it's still
104:50 showing your But it's still marketing,
104:51 marketing, >> you know, like like you can wear a
104:52 >> you know, like like you can wear a bikini at the beach when you're with
104:53 bikini at the beach when you're with your man, but then if you, you know, do
104:56 your man, but then if you, you know, do a photo shoot and put all those photos
104:57 a photo shoot and put all those photos on Instagram, now you're marketing.
104:59 on Instagram, now you're marketing. >> I don't know.
105:00 >> I don't know. >> You know what I mean?
105:01 >> You know what I mean? >> Yeah. And it's kind of like you're
105:03 >> Yeah. And it's kind of like you're putting a little bit of honey out to
105:04 putting a little bit of honey out to catch a fly.
105:05 catch a fly. >> Yeah.
105:05 >> Yeah. >> You know,
105:06 >> You know, >> you're showing.
105:07 >> you're showing. >> Yeah. Like, do you think that's like do
105:09 >> Yeah. Like, do you think that's like do you think a man is insecure when he
105:10 you think a man is insecure when he doesn't like that or do you think it's
105:12 doesn't like that or do you think it's kind of like disrespectful to your man?
105:15 kind of like disrespectful to your man? >> It's disrespectful.
105:17 >> It's disrespectful. >> Yeah. I think it depends on the man
105:20 >> Yeah. I think it depends on the man because not every man is like if you're
105:23 because not every man is like if you're wearing a bikini your man will think
105:25 wearing a bikini your man will think that you're kind of disrespectful.
105:28 that you're kind of disrespectful. Yeah. There's a man that he will
105:30 Yeah. There's a man that he will understand if you wear bikini.
105:34 understand if you wear bikini. >> Yeah.
105:35 >> Yeah. >> I think young men that don't know yet.
105:37 >> I think young men that don't know yet. >> Yeah. Yeah.
105:38 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. You know, like like when you get
105:39 >> Yeah. You know, like like when you get older, if you're looking at that woman
105:41 older, if you're looking at that woman seriously, like you want to have
105:42 seriously, like you want to have children with that woman, you do not
105:44 children with that woman, you do not want her to do that.
105:45 want her to do that. >> Yeah. you get,
105:46 >> Yeah. you get, >> you know, like like with my ex-wife
105:48 >> you know, like like with my ex-wife because we were together so long
105:51 because we were together so long >> in the end, I kind of encouraged her cuz
105:53 >> in the end, I kind of encouraged her cuz she was very like
105:54 she was very like >> she was very proper.
105:56 >> she was very proper. >> And once in a while, I wanted her to
105:58 >> And once in a while, I wanted her to feel a little, you know, sexy, you know,
106:00 feel a little, you know, sexy, you know, and like a little risky, you know, like
106:01 and like a little risky, you know, like a little danger danger, you know?
106:03 a little danger danger, you know? >> So, yeah, like if we were at a beach,
106:05 >> So, yeah, like if we were at a beach, like I would take her to Dulie, which is
106:06 like I would take her to Dulie, which is like the most private beach in the whole
106:08 like the most private beach in the whole island, and then yeah, I'd let her wear
106:10 island, and then yeah, I'd let her wear whatever she wanted. I'd buy her it, you
106:11 whatever she wanted. I'd buy her it, you know. I'd buy her,
106:12 know. I'd buy her, >> you know, because there's not really
106:14 >> you know, because there's not really anybody there. It's not like we're going
106:15 anybody there. It's not like we're going to like Miami Beach or whatever and like
106:17 to like Miami Beach or whatever and like there's like a hundred dudes there.
106:19 there's like a hundred dudes there. >> There was like just me and another Dutch
106:20 >> There was like just me and another Dutch guy that I knew and he was married and
106:21 guy that I knew and he was married and his wife was there so I didn't care.
106:23 his wife was there so I didn't care. >> But um yeah, so so we all kind of agree
106:26 >> But um yeah, so so we all kind of agree that like
106:29 that like it might make a man not happy if you put
106:33 it might make a man not happy if you put your butt on the internet and it might
106:35 your butt on the internet and it might be disrespectful. We kind of agree. But
106:38 be disrespectful. We kind of agree. But if you're not serious about the guy then
106:41 if you're not serious about the guy then that, you know, then who cares? Like I I
106:43 that, you know, then who cares? Like I I don't think that's bad. But if you want
106:44 don't think that's bad. But if you want to marry the guy, then it's kind of
106:46 to marry the guy, then it's kind of disrespectful. You think?
106:48 disrespectful. You think? >> I'm not leading you too much. I'm not
106:50 >> I'm not leading you too much. I'm not like I feel like I'm leading you. I feel
106:51 like I feel like I'm leading you. I feel like you guys kind of disagree.
106:53 like you guys kind of disagree. >> What do you think, Belle?
106:55 >> What do you think, Belle? >> I didn't bother you for this one, so I'm
106:56 >> I didn't bother you for this one, so I'm going to put you on the spot.
107:00 going to put you on the spot. So, what do you think?
107:07 >> Do you think it's disrespectful or do you think you want to wear whatever you
107:08 you think you want to wear whatever you want to wear?
107:09 want to wear? >> Bikini. disrespectful Ben
107:11 >> Bikini. disrespectful Ben >> like like a thong bikini, you know,
107:13 >> like like a thong bikini, you know, where your butt cheeks hanging out.
107:17 where your butt cheeks hanging out. >> That's just an example, but
107:18 >> That's just an example, but >> I think he's disrespectful.
107:20 >> I think he's disrespectful. >> Yeah. Okay. Okay. So, that's that's one
107:23 >> Yeah. Okay. Okay. So, that's that's one of the differences between Filipina and
107:25 of the differences between Filipina and Western women. And that's what I'm
107:26 Western women. And that's what I'm trying to highlight. You guys are a
107:28 trying to highlight. You guys are a little bit more respectful. Um, yeah.
107:32 little bit more respectful. Um, yeah. Hello, Jenny Chang.
107:34 Hello, Jenny Chang. >> Hi.
107:35 >> Hi. >> Yeah, she is. Is that PM bar? Is that
107:38 >> Yeah, she is. Is that PM bar? Is that No. Mexican.
107:40 No. Mexican. >> Oh, okay. Whatever. Whatever.
107:43 >> Oh, okay. Whatever. Whatever. >> Um, yeah. Okay. So, Oh.
107:46 >> Um, yeah. Okay. So, Oh. >> Oh, yeah. It's
107:47 >> Oh, yeah. It's >> our video is Oh, I can see on here now
107:50 >> our video is Oh, I can see on here now they're now they're seeing the video
107:52 they're now they're seeing the video problem.
107:53 problem. Yeah. I'm just going to type to the
107:55 Yeah. I'm just going to type to the chat. We are aware.
107:59 chat. We are aware. Video problem.
108:02 Video problem. Disrespectful.
108:04 Disrespectful. Age. Age level.
108:07 Age. Age level. Age level.
108:15 Yeah, Lauren Lauren says that um it's harder for a for a man to find a woman
108:17 harder for a for a man to find a woman when it comes to a serious relationship
108:19 when it comes to a serious relationship >> and and I think she's right. So, you
108:22 >> and and I think she's right. So, you know, Beia, like you're you're the only
108:23 know, Beia, like you're you're the only one that disagreed and I you know, like
108:25 one that disagreed and I you know, like I think the reason why I kind of
108:27 I think the reason why I kind of mentioned it on the last show where it's
108:28 mentioned it on the last show where it's like a guy has to swipe like a thousand
108:30 like a guy has to swipe like a thousand times just to get sex with one person
108:33 times just to get sex with one person like on like on a dating app for
108:34 like on like on a dating app for instance. And uh it's just it's a lot
108:37 instance. And uh it's just it's a lot lot harder uh for guys to get a girl
108:40 lot harder uh for guys to get a girl because of that whole marketing aspect.
108:42 because of that whole marketing aspect. You're marketing and guys just approach,
108:46 You're marketing and guys just approach, >> you know, and the way that men approach.
108:48 >> you know, and the way that men approach. We will approach many, many different
108:51 We will approach many, many different women, many just to get one, right?
108:55 women, many just to get one, right? >> Yeah.
108:55 >> Yeah. >> So I think that really inflates the ego
108:58 >> So I think that really inflates the ego of women where they think I have all
108:59 of women where they think I have all these guys messaging me. Yeah. It's just
109:01 these guys messaging me. Yeah. It's just because the guy knows you're probably
109:02 because the guy knows you're probably going to say no and you're going to
109:04 going to say no and you're going to reject him. He's just planting seeds,
109:07 reject him. He's just planting seeds, you know? He's just trying to like find
109:09 you know? He's just trying to like find someone. So, maybe he'll flirt with like
109:12 someone. So, maybe he'll flirt with like a hundred girls or 200 girls and then
109:15 a hundred girls or 200 girls and then one will actually meet him for a coffee.
109:19 one will actually meet him for a coffee. So, I don't know. I think that if you
109:21 So, I don't know. I think that if you were to have all these people messaging
109:24 were to have all these people messaging you, you could go to any single one of
109:26 you, you could go to any single one of them and you could say hi and then they
109:28 them and you could say hi and then they would, you know, especially, you know,
109:31 would, you know, especially, you know, you have certain physical attributes
109:33 you have certain physical attributes that men like.
109:38 Yeah. She's the most well-endowed girl at the table, I think. And um, you know,
109:41 at the table, I think. And um, you know, I think that because of that, that would
109:43 I think that because of that, that would definitely be honey for the for a whole
109:45 definitely be honey for the for a whole bunch of flies, you know what I mean?
109:47 bunch of flies, you know what I mean? So, that would make things a lot easier
109:49 So, that would make things a lot easier for you, I think. So, I think I just
109:51 for you, I think. So, I think I just think it's funny like you really think
109:53 think it's funny like you really think that men have it easier or do you think
109:56 that men have it easier or do you think girls have it easier?
110:02 >> I guess the girl >> Yeah. Yeah. There you go. But, uh, no,
110:04 >> Yeah. Yeah. There you go. But, uh, no, like do you believe that though? Like,
110:05 like do you believe that though? Like, do you really believe that or are you
110:07 do you really believe that or are you just saying that?
110:09 just saying that? >> Sometimes I believe. Yeah.
110:10 >> Sometimes I believe. Yeah. >> Yeah.
110:12 >> Yeah. >> All right. So, what kind of challenges
110:15 >> All right. So, what kind of challenges now do you think men face? like
110:18 now do you think men face? like what what kind of obstacles do they have
110:20 what what kind of obstacles do they have like
110:22 like to get a girl?
110:24 to get a girl? Why is it hard for a guy to get a girl?
110:30 >> Um, >> so like an example could be that a lot
110:32 >> so like an example could be that a lot of girls on a dating app in America,
110:34 of girls on a dating app in America, they filter based on height.
110:37 they filter based on height. >> Mhm. So guys like me have no problem
110:39 >> Mhm. So guys like me have no problem because I'm over I'm 6'4
110:41 because I'm over I'm 6'4 >> and a lot of a lot of guys it you know
110:44 >> and a lot of a lot of guys it you know they have to lie about their height you
110:46 they have to lie about their height you know just to get above that six cuz a
110:48 know just to get above that six cuz a lot of girls they say no one under six
110:50 lot of girls they say no one under six >> so that would be one obstacle
110:52 >> so that would be one obstacle >> you know like um
110:55 >> you know like um I don't know uh I I won't dwell on this
110:58 I don't know uh I I won't dwell on this but like can you guys like just anyone
111:00 but like can you guys like just anyone blurt out your answer can you think of
111:01 blurt out your answer can you think of any other obstacle that a guy would face
111:11 the fact that you have like a hundred guys in your DMs and you have too many
111:13 guys in your DMs and you have too many options. That could be another thing.
111:15 options. That could be another thing. You know, it's easy to like like in the
111:18 You know, it's easy to like like in the last
111:19 last in the last year,
111:22 in the last year, how many guys have you rejected his his
111:24 how many guys have you rejected his his flirts or his asking you out? Have you
111:26 flirts or his asking you out? Have you all had somebody that you rejected?
111:28 all had somebody that you rejected? >> Yeah.
111:28 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
111:29 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Does it happen a lot?
111:31 >> Yeah. Does it happen a lot? >> Yeah.
111:31 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I think it's hard to to know
111:35 >> Yeah. I think it's hard to to know someone. I think it's hard to know a guy
111:38 someone. I think it's hard to know a guy if you didn't met him in person yet.
111:41 if you didn't met him in person yet. >> Yeah.
111:41 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
111:43 >> Yeah. >> Cuz you know, it's kind of like if
111:45 >> Cuz you know, it's kind of like if you're just chatting together, it's like
111:47 you're just chatting together, it's like uh you know
111:49 uh you know >> Yeah.
111:49 >> Yeah. >> just fleeing, but it's not
111:51 >> just fleeing, but it's not >> you know,
111:52 >> you know, >> especially if they're far away.
111:53 >> especially if they're far away. >> Yeah.
111:54 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. It's tougher. So, but like
111:56 >> Yeah. Yeah. It's tougher. So, but like you just like like how many have you
111:59 you just like like how many have you rejected or just left ghosted or left on
112:02 rejected or just left ghosted or left on red and just didn't reply?
112:05 red and just didn't reply? >> Every time I every time the boys chat
112:08 >> Every time I every time the boys chat with me, I ignore just block them.
112:10 with me, I ignore just block them. >> Yeah.
112:11 >> Yeah. >> So, maybe dozens or even hundreds in the
112:14 >> So, maybe dozens or even hundreds in the last couple years.
112:16 last couple years. >> Yeah. Hundreds.
112:16 >> Yeah. Hundreds. >> Maybe hundreds.
112:18 >> Maybe hundreds. >> So, how dare you think that it's easier
112:20 >> So, how dare you think that it's easier for a guy? That's pretty brutal.
112:23 for a guy? That's pretty brutal. >> I don't have time. Yeah. So, like those
112:26 >> I don't have time. Yeah. So, like those are some of the obstacles I think that
112:27 are some of the obstacles I think that guys have.
112:28 guys have. >> Um, now what challenges do women face in
112:31 >> Um, now what challenges do women face in the dating market? Like, um, what makes
112:34 the dating market? Like, um, what makes it hard for you to find a good guy?
112:37 it hard for you to find a good guy? >> Um, from for my age, it's really hard
112:40 >> Um, from for my age, it's really hard for me to find a guy cuz I was looking
112:43 for me to find a guy cuz I was looking for the old man, you know.
112:45 for the old man, you know. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So, you have an age
112:47 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So, you have an age preference that's older than you like.
112:49 preference that's older than you like. >> Yeah.
112:49 >> Yeah. >> So, I forget again. How old are you?
112:51 >> So, I forget again. How old are you? >> 44.
112:52 >> 44. >> You're 44. And then what is your as am I
112:54 >> You're 44. And then what is your as am I and what is your age preference for a
112:56 and what is your age preference for a man
112:57 man >> like 50 above like younger than me you
113:00 >> like 50 above like younger than me you know
113:01 know >> why is that
113:02 >> why is that >> it's because younger they want lot of
113:05 >> it's because younger they want lot of sex and I cannot give it to them okay
113:07 sex and I cannot give it to them okay >> cuz I'm getting older
113:08 >> cuz I'm getting older >> yeah you don't have the libido this much
113:11 >> yeah you don't have the libido this much better that I have a companion only you
113:14 better that I have a companion only you know company to go somewhere else to
113:16 know company to go somewhere else to talk
113:17 talk >> that yeah I think that's pretty chill
113:18 >> that yeah I think that's pretty chill that's pretty chill
113:20 that's pretty chill >> um but I don't know some 50
113:22 >> um but I don't know some 50 50-year-olds, they still got lead in the
113:23 50-year-olds, they still got lead in the pencil, you know,
113:24 pencil, you know, >> Viagra.
113:26 >> Viagra. >> Yeah. Yeah. And did you know, did you
113:28 >> Yeah. Yeah. And did you know, did you know that because you're small, you
113:30 know that because you're small, you could actually take like
113:33 could actually take like a quarter of a Viagra and it works on
113:35 a quarter of a Viagra and it works on you the same way it works on a man.
113:37 you the same way it works on a man. It'll make you horny.
113:38 It'll make you horny. >> Yeah. I saw that on online, you know.
113:40 >> Yeah. I saw that on online, you know. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It works.
113:41 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It works. >> They have.
113:43 >> They have. >> And then like like any of those things
113:44 >> And then like like any of those things cuz it boosts blood flow to where where
113:47 cuz it boosts blood flow to where where it matters. So there you go. You could
113:49 it matters. So there you go. You could so you could meet your guy in the
113:50 so you could meet your guy in the middle, you know.
113:51 middle, you know. >> Yeah. when I wake up, maybe I'm going to
113:53 >> Yeah. when I wake up, maybe I'm going to have back.
113:54 have back. >> Plus, uh, you know, like I find that
113:56 >> Plus, uh, you know, like I find that girls who exercise, they usually have a
113:58 girls who exercise, they usually have a higher sex drive
113:59 higher sex drive >> because, you know, your your hormones
114:01 >> because, you know, your your hormones get going, you know.
114:02 get going, you know. >> Yeah.
114:03 >> Yeah. >> Um, how about you? Like, uh, what makes
114:06 >> Um, how about you? Like, uh, what makes it hard for you as a girl to find a good
114:08 it hard for you as a girl to find a good guy, even though I know you're taken,
114:10 guy, even though I know you're taken, >> hypothetically, if you were to go back
114:12 >> hypothetically, if you were to go back into the market, what would make it
114:13 into the market, what would make it difficult?
114:24 I think at my age right now cuz you know this generation if you meet a guy I'm
114:28 this generation if you meet a guy I'm not sure if he's serious cuz or he just
114:31 not sure if he's serious cuz or he just want to play with me you know you know
114:34 want to play with me you know you know in this generation. Yeah. And yeah, I'm
114:38 in this generation. Yeah. And yeah, I'm young, but I don't like I don't want to
114:42 young, but I don't like I don't want to have
114:44 have I don't want to date with same as my
114:47 I don't want to date with same as my age.
114:48 age. >> Okay.
114:49 >> Okay. >> They they just like to play with you.
114:54 >> They they just like to play with you. >> So So you like to go with older guys as
114:56 >> So So you like to go with older guys as well and you want to have a guy that's
114:58 well and you want to have a guy that's not just a boy?
115:00 not just a boy? >> Yeah.
115:01 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Do you think like in my experience
115:04 >> Yeah. Do you think like in my experience um
115:10 >> if I if I approach a girl and I let her know my intentions right away and I say
115:13 know my intentions right away and I say I'm looking to you know I'm looking for
115:15 I'm looking to you know I'm looking for a serious relationship.
115:17 a serious relationship. >> Yeah that's good.
115:18 >> Yeah that's good. >> Yeah. But is it really good? Because
115:19 >> Yeah. But is it really good? Because it's never worked.
115:21 it's never worked. >> The only time it worked was with my wife
115:22 >> The only time it worked was with my wife and then even then eight years later it
115:24 and then even then eight years later it didn't work,
115:25 didn't work, >> you know. But um but I also knew her for
115:28 >> you know. But um but I also knew her for a year before that. So like
115:30 a year before that. So like >> um
115:30 >> um >> yeah like cuz we work together online my
115:33 >> yeah like cuz we work together online my boss kind of
115:34 boss kind of >> but um but yeah I think girls are very
115:37 >> but um but yeah I think girls are very um commitment phobic in the very
115:40 um commitment phobic in the very beginning.
115:40 beginning. >> So you could actually scare the girl
115:42 >> So you could actually scare the girl away if you say that you're serious. So
115:45 away if you say that you're serious. So then that complicates it even more for
115:47 then that complicates it even more for the girl
115:48 the girl >> cuz what you're saying I believe to be
115:50 >> cuz what you're saying I believe to be true but then if a guy really did do
115:52 true but then if a guy really did do that then that might freak you out too
115:55 that then that might freak you out too cuz then you feel that there's high
115:56 cuz then you feel that there's high expectations. Like another thing that I
115:58 expectations. Like another thing that I think works too is to keep it as low
116:01 think works too is to keep it as low intensity as possible where
116:04 intensity as possible where you know you say yeah you know you know
116:06 you know you say yeah you know you know I'm not really looking but if I did find
116:08 I'm not really looking but if I did find the right girl maybe I would you know
116:09 the right girl maybe I would you know like you keep it like very low
116:11 like you keep it like very low commitment
116:12 commitment >> and um I think that that's more likely
116:14 >> and um I think that that's more likely for a guy to be successful and it would
116:16 for a guy to be successful and it would probably make you feel a little bit more
116:17 probably make you feel a little bit more comfortable. I don't know you see how
116:19 comfortable. I don't know you see how they are. You get to see how they are
116:20 they are. You get to see how they are before you have that pressure.
116:22 before you have that pressure. >> But you know, someone told me about that
116:24 >> But you know, someone told me about that I'm looking for a serious relationship.
116:26 I'm looking for a serious relationship. Actually, I never believe on that, you
116:28 Actually, I never believe on that, you know.
116:28 know. >> Oh, you wouldn't even believe them.
116:30 >> Oh, you wouldn't even believe them. >> No.
116:31 >> No. >> Okay.
116:31 >> Okay. >> How could you say that?
116:33 >> How could you say that? >> Yeah.
116:34 >> Yeah. >> Because some of the guys, you know, from
116:36 >> Because some of the guys, you know, from the other country just saying that cuz
116:38 the other country just saying that cuz they know that Filipino are so soft.
116:40 they know that Filipino are so soft. They got easily to get when they said
116:43 They got easily to get when they said that.
116:43 that. >> I don't know.
116:44 >> I don't know. >> Not all them, man. Yeah,
116:46 >> Not all them, man. Yeah, >> cuz I know you work at PM Bar, so I'm
116:49 >> cuz I know you work at PM Bar, so I'm sure you see a lot of not soft not soft
116:52 sure you see a lot of not soft not soft girls.
116:52 girls. >> Yeah, that's what they they said. I'm
116:54 >> Yeah, that's what they they said. I'm looking for a relationship. Okay, I will
116:56 looking for a relationship. Okay, I will try. And then later on after a month,
116:58 try. And then later on after a month, you know, you saw you saw them. They are
117:00 you know, you saw you saw them. They are dating with the other girl. They bring
117:02 dating with the other girl. They bring to their aar from the other girl
117:04 to their aar from the other girl >> or vice versa. You see the girls there
117:06 >> or vice versa. You see the girls there and then they have a different guy every
117:08 and then they have a different guy every night too when the military come into
117:09 night too when the military come into town.
117:10 town. >> Oh yeah.
117:10 >> Oh yeah. >> Yeah. They want to I want to try
117:13 >> Yeah. They want to I want to try Mexican. I want to try white guy. I want
117:15 Mexican. I want to try white guy. I want to try black guy. You know, it's like a
117:17 to try black guy. You know, it's like a it's like a like a alocart, you know,
117:19 it's like a like a alocart, you know, Chinese menu. But um yeah. So, what kind
117:25 Chinese menu. But um yeah. So, what kind of obstacles do you think ladies have
117:26 of obstacles do you think ladies have when it comes to finding a man?
117:39 I will find the guy who accept my that's the
117:43 find the guy who accept my that's the first of all. Mhm.
117:45 first of all. Mhm. >> Then you can accept my children
117:48 >> Then you can accept my children then
117:56 soon. Yeah. Because you accept me and you accept my children.
117:57 you accept my children. >> Mhm.
117:58 >> Mhm. >> Yeah.
117:59 >> Yeah. >> Then we can be
118:02 >> Then we can be married and I will give you a child.
118:04 married and I will give you a child. >> Oh.
118:06 >> Oh. >> 10,000 only.
118:07 >> 10,000 only. >> That's the true love for me.
118:09 >> That's the true love for me. >> Okay. How about you, Belle? What is the
118:12 >> Okay. How about you, Belle? What is the what makes it hard for a girl to find a
118:14 what makes it hard for a girl to find a guy?
118:32 It's difficult to find a a guy for me. If I find a guy is I think
118:40 for me. If I find a guy is I think it's gentle
118:43 it's gentle like
118:45 like a good guy.
118:46 a good guy. >> It's hard to find.
118:49 >> It's hard to find. >> That's what that's what you want?
118:51 >> That's what that's what you want? >> Yes.
118:52 >> Yes. >> For a guy.
118:52 >> For a guy. >> Oh, if I find So, it's difficult to find
118:55 >> Oh, if I find So, it's difficult to find a guy uh
118:58 a guy uh >> relig religious
119:00 >> relig religious >> religion. Religious.
119:01 >> religion. Religious. >> Religious. Yeah. Ah okay. Yeah person
119:04 >> Religious. Yeah. Ah okay. Yeah person you want a religious guy
119:06 you want a religious guy >> and and I forget which denomination are
119:07 >> and and I forget which denomination are you again? Which uh religion?
119:10 you again? Which uh religion? >> Baptist.
119:10 >> Baptist. >> Baptist. Okay. Okay. Is is that where
119:13 >> Baptist. Okay. Okay. Is is that where they do the speaking in tongues thing?
119:16 they do the speaking in tongues thing? >> Do you know like uh when they like they
119:19 >> Do you know like uh when they like they they have like a spiritual moment
119:21 they have like a spiritual moment >> expression?
119:22 >> expression? >> No. Like uh sometimes they like act
119:24 >> No. Like uh sometimes they like act really crazy and they believe it's like
119:27 really crazy and they believe it's like the Holy Spirit
119:27 the Holy Spirit >> born again.
119:28 >> born again. >> Yeah. Maybe they do. Like I I know
119:30 >> Yeah. Maybe they do. Like I I know there's one maybe it's Methodist. Uh, I
119:32 there's one maybe it's Methodist. Uh, I don't know which one it is, but they in
119:34 don't know which one it is, but they in the Bible they call it speaking in
119:35 the Bible they call it speaking in tongues. I always thought that was a
119:37 tongues. I always thought that was a little
119:38 little >> little too much for my for my taste, but
119:40 >> little too much for my for my taste, but >> yeah. Okay. Yeah, I I can understand
119:42 >> yeah. Okay. Yeah, I I can understand that. And I guess, you know, two of
119:44 that. And I guess, you know, two of these girls have been on the show
119:45 these girls have been on the show before. Uh, so I'm going to jump in and
119:47 before. Uh, so I'm going to jump in and kind of disagree with you a little bit.
119:50 kind of disagree with you a little bit. >> So, you said that, you know, basically a
119:54 >> So, you said that, you know, basically a guy that is like gentle, like a
119:55 guy that is like gentle, like a gentleman, you know, like that's what
119:56 gentleman, you know, like that's what you're looking for. So, if you go to the
119:59 you're looking for. So, if you go to the bar and there's all these guys there and
120:03 bar and there's all these guys there and they're like, "Oh, you're so mand. Oh,
120:05 they're like, "Oh, you're so mand. Oh, can I buy you a drink? Oh, they're all
120:07 can I buy you a drink? Oh, they're all the same, right?" Like, they're all
120:09 the same, right?" Like, they're all flirting with you. They're being very
120:10 flirting with you. They're being very kind to you. They're saying whatever
120:14 kind to you. They're saying whatever they can say just to get inside your
120:16 they can say just to get inside your pants. You know, they want to sleep with
120:18 pants. You know, they want to sleep with you. They're going to be very nice.
120:20 you. They're going to be very nice. They're going to be all gentlemen,
120:22 They're going to be all gentlemen, right?
120:22 right? >> Yeah.
120:23 >> Yeah. >> What if you have a guy that walks up to
120:24 >> What if you have a guy that walks up to you like, "Hey, what's up?
120:27 you like, "Hey, what's up? you look a little fat in those jeans.
120:30 you look a little fat in those jeans. >> You're going to be like, "Who who the
120:32 >> You're going to be like, "Who who the is this guy?" Right? He's going to
120:33 is this guy?" Right? He's going to like you're going to be like, "Why are
120:35 like you're going to be like, "Why are you talking to me like that?" You know,
120:37 you talking to me like that?" You know, and then and then all the other guys
120:38 and then and then all the other guys disappear and then you're just thinking
120:40 disappear and then you're just thinking about that one guy that he's like, "Why
120:41 about that one guy that he's like, "Why why did he say that?" You know?
120:43 why did he say that?" You know? >> Yes.
120:43 >> Yes. >> And then maybe you want to talk to him a
120:46 >> And then maybe you want to talk to him a little bit more, you know? So, there's
120:48 little bit more, you know? So, there's there's what women want, but then
120:50 there's what women want, but then there's what women respond to. And I
120:54 there's what women respond to. And I think you know
120:56 think you know like if I were to be dating right now
120:58 like if I were to be dating right now and I was to be in the dating game uh
121:01 and I was to be in the dating game uh which I am not but um
121:04 which I am not but um I would probably approach it that way
121:06 I would probably approach it that way and then after they talk to you then I
121:09 and then after they talk to you then I would show that I'm a gentleman right
121:11 would show that I'm a gentleman right but in the very beginning I would
121:12 but in the very beginning I would challenge you somehow you know and then
121:14 challenge you somehow you know and then you'd be like who the is this guy
121:16 you'd be like who the is this guy you know like why
121:18 you know like why arrogant you know like make you a little
121:21 arrogant you know like make you a little bit crazy make you a little bit angry
121:22 bit crazy make you a little bit angry you like play with your emotions a
121:24 you like play with your emotions a little bit, be a little bit drama, and
121:26 little bit, be a little bit drama, and then you notice that guy more, and then
121:29 then you notice that guy more, and then and then you're like, I want to know
121:30 and then you're like, I want to know more about this guy. He's not he he
121:32 more about this guy. He's not he he cannot be this big of an I see
121:34 cannot be this big of an I see him talking to other girls. They like
121:36 him talking to other girls. They like him. So, what's up with this guy? You
121:38 him. So, what's up with this guy? You know, like, so that's kind of one of the
121:40 know, like, so that's kind of one of the things that um that you know, like maybe
121:43 things that um that you know, like maybe maybe what girls want is not always what
121:47 maybe what girls want is not always what they respond to. So, that's that's my
121:49 they respond to. So, that's that's my angle on that. Um,
121:53 angle on that. Um, yeah, I was going to ask another
121:54 yeah, I was going to ask another question there that Anyway, I'll u I'll
121:55 question there that Anyway, I'll u I'll move on. Um,
122:01 >> should a man pay for the first date? I'm going to skip a couple questions.
122:03 going to skip a couple questions. >> Should a man pay for the first date?
122:05 >> Should a man pay for the first date? >> Yeah. Yeah. I think if he has if he asks
122:08 >> Yeah. Yeah. I think if he has if he asks you
122:08 you >> to date
122:09 >> to date >> to date.
122:10 >> to date. >> Yeah. Yeah. I think he should cuz he's
122:13 >> Yeah. Yeah. I think he should cuz he's the one who asked you.
122:15 the one who asked you. >> Do women ever ask a guy on a date? Like
122:18 >> Do women ever ask a guy on a date? Like I maybe sometimes it depends.
122:21 I maybe sometimes it depends. >> Very rarely, right?
122:22 >> Very rarely, right? >> Yes. Yeah.
122:24 >> Yes. Yeah. >> Yeah. So men never get free dates then.
122:27 >> Yeah. So men never get free dates then. >> I did the other night. I did the other
122:29 >> I did the other night. I did the other night. Thank you, Lauren.
122:31 night. Thank you, Lauren. >> Thank you. Yeah.
122:32 >> Thank you. Yeah. >> Yeah. If you saw the photos anyway, we
122:35 >> Yeah. If you saw the photos anyway, we uh a couple of us from the second show
122:37 uh a couple of us from the second show went out and Lauren surprised us all.
122:39 went out and Lauren surprised us all. >> Um but yeah, I mean men usually don't
122:41 >> Um but yeah, I mean men usually don't get that treatment, right? And then even
122:44 get that treatment, right? And then even if you do ask the guy out, he's going to
122:45 if you do ask the guy out, he's going to be so happy. Oh my gosh. A girl asked me
122:48 be so happy. Oh my gosh. A girl asked me out.
122:48 out. >> Yeah. Because
122:49 >> Yeah. Because >> And then he's still going to pay.
122:50 >> And then he's still going to pay. >> Yeah. Yeah.
122:51 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Because some of the guy will ask
122:53 >> Yeah. Because some of the guy will ask you, "Where do you want to go? Where do
122:54 you, "Where do you want to go? Where do you want?" Yeah. So, I think
122:57 you want?" Yeah. So, I think >> Yeah.
122:57 >> Yeah. >> The guy should pay either way. I I think
123:00 >> The guy should pay either way. I I think even if you ask, the guy should pay.
123:02 even if you ask, the guy should pay. Yeah. No, that's old school. That's
123:03 Yeah. No, that's old school. That's cool, you know. I I have no problem with
123:05 cool, you know. I I have no problem with that. I think that's the way it should
123:06 that. I think that's the way it should be,
123:06 be, >> you know. And then you have to on
123:07 >> you know. And then you have to on the first date. I'm kidding. I'm joking.
123:10 the first date. I'm kidding. I'm joking. >> It's up to you guys.
123:12 >> It's up to you guys. >> Would you uh would actually if if the
123:15 >> Would you uh would actually if if the guy Yeah.
123:16 guy Yeah. >> If the guy was smooth and you liked him,
123:19 >> If the guy was smooth and you liked him, would you be willing to have sex on the
123:20 would you be willing to have sex on the first date? Yes or no?
123:22 first date? Yes or no? >> No.
123:22 >> No. >> No.
123:23 >> No. >> I think no.
123:24 >> I think no. >> No.
123:25 >> No. >> Yes.
123:25 >> Yes. >> Yeah.
123:27 >> Yeah. >> It depends.
123:28 >> It depends. >> It depends. So,
123:29 >> It depends. So, >> I'll take that as a possible yes. So,
123:32 >> I'll take that as a possible yes. So, >> cuz sometimes if you're drunk, you know,
123:34 >> cuz sometimes if you're drunk, you know, with if it's even if it's your first
123:36 with if it's even if it's your first date and if you two is depends, but with
123:40 date and if you two is depends, but with a drunk with the first time. Yeah.
123:43 a drunk with the first time. Yeah. >> Yeah. I mean, what if both people are
123:45 >> Yeah. I mean, what if both people are drunk? Yeah.
123:46 drunk? Yeah. >> The man and the woman.
123:49 >> The man and the woman. >> Then, you know, you might
123:50 >> Then, you know, you might >> I think even the girls, if even she's
123:53 >> I think even the girls, if even she's drunk, if he
123:53 drunk, if he >> I mean, we got some very young young
123:55 >> I mean, we got some very young young women here. Like, you were very young
123:57 women here. Like, you were very young when you had a baby, maybe alcohol play
123:58 when you had a baby, maybe alcohol play a little role in there.
124:00 a little role in there. >> Yeah.
124:00 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. A little bit.
124:02 >> Yeah. A little bit. >> If I like the person when I'm drunk, of
124:04 >> If I like the person when I'm drunk, of course, I'll do boom boom with
124:07 course, I'll do boom boom with >> If I don't like even I'm drunk, I'm
124:09 >> If I don't like even I'm drunk, I'm going to kick him out. You know,
124:11 going to kick him out. You know, >> I put a little something in these.
124:14 >> I put a little something in these. We're going to make another video later.
124:15 We're going to make another video later. No, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I'm
124:16 No, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. But, um, yeah.
124:19 kidding. I'm kidding. But, um, yeah. Okay. Um,
124:20 Okay. Um, [Laughter]
124:28 >> does a real man pay all of your life costs like rent, electricity, etc.?
124:32 costs like rent, electricity, etc.? >> Do you think that he should pay those
124:33 >> Do you think that he should pay those bills?
124:34 bills? >> No. Not all the men.
124:35 >> No. Not all the men. >> Yeah.
124:36 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Not
124:37 >> Yeah. Not >> Not all the men. It's not really
124:39 >> Not all the men. It's not really necessary.
124:40 necessary. >> What if he's a foreigner? He's got like
124:42 >> What if he's a foreigner? He's got like four times more money than you.
124:44 four times more money than you. >> Of course, he needs to.
124:45 >> Of course, he needs to. >> Yeah. Yeah. It's honest. It's honest.
124:47 >> Yeah. Yeah. It's honest. It's honest. >> Yeah, it's true.
124:48 >> Yeah, it's true. >> I see no problem. Yeah.
124:50 >> I see no problem. Yeah. >> Yeah.
124:51 >> Yeah. >> What do you think?
124:53 >> What do you think? >> Like like like Filipino or a foreigner?
124:56 >> Like like like Filipino or a foreigner? Should a Filipino pay all the utilities
124:59 Should a Filipino pay all the utilities like electricity, rent, all that?
125:03 like electricity, rent, all that? >> Example for Yeah. my husband because
125:09 >> Example for Yeah. my husband because uh it it's it's his responsibility but
125:12 uh it it's it's his responsibility but not all the time. I will give them I
125:14 not all the time. I will give them I will uh
125:16 will uh >> help
125:16 >> help >> help them.
125:18 >> help them. >> I help him. Yes.
125:19 >> I help him. Yes. >> And then if it's a foreigner, you expect
125:21 >> And then if it's a foreigner, you expect him to pay all the bills though cuz he
125:23 him to pay all the bills though cuz he probably has more money than a Filipino.
125:25 probably has more money than a Filipino. >> If the girl has no
125:28 >> If the girl has no >> Okay. So, so if you are working, you'd
125:30 >> Okay. So, so if you are working, you'd be willing to pay some?
125:31 be willing to pay some? >> Yes. Yeah,
125:32 >> Yes. Yeah, >> definitely.
125:33 >> definitely. >> How about you, Belle?
125:35 >> How about you, Belle? Um
125:36 Um I think we're vote I know paying the
125:38 I think we're vote I know paying the bills.
125:39 bills. >> Yeah. Yeah.
125:40 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Sharing.
125:42 >> Sharing. >> See that's another way that you differ
125:43 >> See that's another way that you differ from girls in the west because one of
125:46 from girls in the west because one of the big things you see on TikTok and
125:47 the big things you see on TikTok and maybe in a few years of more uh
125:50 maybe in a few years of more uh colonization over the internet. You guys
125:52 colonization over the internet. You guys will change your tune. You'll change
125:53 will change your tune. You'll change your opinion. But right now girls in the
125:55 your opinion. But right now girls in the west I ain't going to date no 50/50 guy.
125:59 west I ain't going to date no 50/50 guy. you know, like they have that attitude
126:01 you know, like they have that attitude like they think that they're so special,
126:04 like they think that they're so special, you know,
126:05 you know, >> like I I guess I'll jump off the script
126:07 >> like I I guess I'll jump off the script a little bit like um
126:10 a little bit like um what is more rare, a man that is worth
126:14 what is more rare, a man that is worth marrying
126:15 marrying or a woman that is worth marrying?
126:24 What is harder to find? M
126:24 M >> a guy that is worth marrying.
126:31 >> Yeah, I think it's a guy. >> It's a guy. Yeah. How about you?
126:33 >> It's a guy. Yeah. How about you? >> Yeah.
126:34 >> Yeah. >> They too.
126:34 >> They too. >> Yeah. Cuz there's a lot of pretty girls
126:36 >> Yeah. Cuz there's a lot of pretty girls that can cook and make babies,
126:39 that can cook and make babies, >> you know, but a guy, you know, that will
126:42 >> you know, but a guy, you know, that will provide and, you know, not beat you up
126:44 provide and, you know, not beat you up or whatever, you know, is probably
126:46 or whatever, you know, is probably harder to find, right?
126:47 harder to find, right? >> Yeah. Um Okay. Um,
126:52 >> Yeah. Um Okay. Um, you see you guys do all the right
126:54 you see you guys do all the right answers. That that's another way that
126:55 answers. That that's another way that you differ because a lot of girls I say
126:57 you differ because a lot of girls I say like um and actually I'm going to get to
126:59 like um and actually I'm going to get to one of our questions. You're not going
127:01 one of our questions. You're not going to hear this because I didn't set it up
127:02 to hear this because I didn't set it up properly for it. Um, but I wanted to
127:06 properly for it. Um, but I wanted to play a question from the audience
127:07 play a question from the audience because we got one and I'm just going to
127:10 because we got one and I'm just going to load that up and I hope it doesn't crash
127:12 load that up and I hope it doesn't crash out again. So, I'm going to make sure it
127:15 out again. So, I'm going to make sure it works.
127:17 works. So the audience is going to hear this
127:19 So the audience is going to hear this but you cannot
127:21 but you cannot because this is the right time for it.
127:30 So if you go to speakpipe.com I should have put that link in the
127:31 I should have put that link in the description.
127:33 description. Um I think it's speakpipe.com/hobesse.
127:43 Let me just verify that quickly before I do it.
127:59 If you go there, you can leave a voicemail in the future. Um but I'm just
128:01 voicemail in the future. Um but I'm just going to play a voicemail that we got
128:03 going to play a voicemail that we got from a member of our audience on a
128:06 from a member of our audience on a previous show. This message comes from
128:08 previous show. This message comes from Uncle Chris.
128:10 Uncle Chris. >> Yeah. Let's hear what Uncle Chris has to
128:12 >> Yeah. Let's hear what Uncle Chris has to say and then I'll repeat it to you guys
128:13 say and then I'll repeat it to you guys because you won't be able to hear it.
128:15 because you won't be able to hear it. >> Senior audience.
128:17 >> Senior audience. >> Yo, my question is for the host and that
128:20 >> Yo, my question is for the host and that is just why do you have to be so damn
128:23 is just why do you have to be so damn handsome, man? But uh actually for real,
128:27 handsome, man? But uh actually for real, try to save some girls in the
128:29 try to save some girls in the Philippines for the rest of us
128:31 Philippines for the rest of us westerners here. And um actually the
128:34 westerners here. And um actually the real question is going to be for the
128:36 real question is going to be for the girls. um tell us what makes you a
128:39 girls. um tell us what makes you a wifeable um candidate. What do you bring
128:41 wifeable um candidate. What do you bring to the table? I like to hear that from
128:44 to the table? I like to hear that from everybody that I that I talk to and I
128:47 everybody that I that I talk to and I think that that is a good gauge of
128:49 think that that is a good gauge of someone's character, how they would
128:50 someone's character, how they would answer that question.
128:52 answer that question. >> All right. So, I'm going to leave out
128:54 >> All right. So, I'm going to leave out the first part of what he said because
128:56 the first part of what he said because it was just funny about me. Um and then
128:58 it was just funny about me. Um and then you can watch the show later. But uh if
129:00 you can watch the show later. But uh if you want to see what he said, but um
129:02 you want to see what he said, but um yeah, he was asking like what makes you
129:04 yeah, he was asking like what makes you wifeable, you know, like what attribute
129:06 wifeable, you know, like what attribute about you girls makes you wife material?
129:10 about you girls makes you wife material? Uh if you can cook, if you can do a like
129:14 Uh if you can cook, if you can do a like of material, if you guys uh if you guys
129:18 of material, if you guys uh if you guys live together in one house and if the
129:23 live together in one house and if the girl can can do
129:26 girl can can do can do some
129:28 can do some with them the some you know the things
129:32 with them the some you know the things like cleaning the house, can cook. Yeah,
129:35 like cleaning the house, can cook. Yeah, I think that is wife material.
129:37 I think that is wife material. >> Do you think kids would also be wife
129:38 >> Do you think kids would also be wife material?
129:40 material? Sorry.
129:41 Sorry. >> Do you think having kids would also make
129:42 >> Do you think having kids would also make you wife material?
129:43 you wife material? >> Yes. Yeah.
129:45 >> Yes. Yeah. >> Now, how can you how can you be wife
129:46 >> Now, how can you how can you be wife material if you're career first and
129:48 material if you're career first and having a career is a bigger flex than
129:50 having a career is a bigger flex than starting a family?
129:51 starting a family? >> Oh, remember when you said that?
129:55 >> Oh, remember when you said that? >> Interesting. So, so would that make you
129:57 >> Interesting. So, so would that make you less wife material?
130:00 less wife material? >> Uh, no. I think before you enter um
130:04 >> Uh, no. I think before you enter um before you enter a relationship, I mean
130:07 before you enter a relationship, I mean before you will you will plan to leave
130:11 before you will you will plan to leave to live with that guy. I mean build a
130:15 to live with that guy. I mean build a family,
130:15 family, >> you should uh fix your career first.
130:20 >> you should uh fix your career first. >> Yeah.
130:20 >> Yeah. >> So that Yeah. So you can be a wife
130:24 >> So that Yeah. So you can be a wife material after that.
130:26 material after that. >> Do you think that's what a man wants
130:27 >> Do you think that's what a man wants though?
130:28 though? >> Yeah. Yeah.
130:29 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> You think a man wants a career girl?
130:31 >> You think a man wants a career girl? Yeah. Sorry.
130:32 Yeah. Sorry. >> Do you think a man wants a woman with a
130:33 >> Do you think a man wants a woman with a career more importantly than he wants a
130:35 career more importantly than he wants a girl that wants to start a family?
130:37 girl that wants to start a family? >> Uh, it depends because if a man can
130:39 >> Uh, it depends because if a man can provide even if the career of that girl
130:43 provide even if the career of that girl is not really
130:45 is not really good if he can help the girl, if he can
130:48 good if he can help the girl, if he can provide, I think it's it's good. Yeah,
130:52 provide, I think it's it's good. Yeah, it depends of the about the man.
130:54 it depends of the about the man. >> Yeah, it depends on the man. I mean, I I
130:56 >> Yeah, it depends on the man. I mean, I I personally think that if a guy's coming
130:57 personally think that if a guy's coming to the Philippines, he's going to be in
130:59 to the Philippines, he's going to be in his mid to late 30s. He's he's probably
131:01 his mid to late 30s. He's he's probably going to be looking for a younger girl,
131:03 going to be looking for a younger girl, your age, between your age and like 25,
131:06 your age, between your age and like 25, 26, and he's going to be looking to
131:08 26, and he's going to be looking to settle down right away.
131:10 settle down right away. >> Would you be willing to drop your
131:11 >> Would you be willing to drop your career?
131:17 >> I'm not sure. >> That's what I think of that.
131:21 >> That's what I think of that. But, uh, okay, so we skipped you. What
131:23 But, uh, okay, so we skipped you. What do you think? Like what is uh what makes
131:26 do you think? Like what is uh what makes you wife material?
131:27 you wife material? >> Wife material uh I'm going to give what
131:31 >> Wife material uh I'm going to give what he needs inside the house, you know,
131:32 he needs inside the house, you know, take care of him. Cooking, cleaning,
131:35 take care of him. Cooking, cleaning, massage before sleep.
131:36 massage before sleep. >> Yeah.
131:37 >> Yeah. >> Cuz
131:37 >> Cuz >> Oh,
131:38 >> Oh, >> of course. When he go to work, when he
131:40 >> of course. When he go to work, when he came home, he's
131:41 came home, he's >> Yeah. But when he gets that massage,
131:42 >> Yeah. But when he gets that massage, he's going to get a bone. And then And
131:44 he's going to get a bone. And then And but you don't want to do the you don't
131:45 but you don't want to do the you don't want to do the sexy time you were saying
131:46 want to do the sexy time you were saying before.
131:48 before. >> Happy ending.
131:48 >> Happy ending. >> Yeah. Yeah. You're lighting a fire.
131:50 >> Yeah. Yeah. You're lighting a fire. You're lighting a fire that you won't
131:51 You're lighting a fire that you won't put out.
131:52 put out. >> Yeah. It's the manslike.
131:55 >> Yeah. It's the manslike. >> Yeah, that's cool. How about you, Beia?
131:59 >> Yeah, that's cool. How about you, Beia? What makes you wife material?
132:02 What makes you wife material? >> Yeah, like what you said, then if uh I
132:06 >> Yeah, like what you said, then if uh I find a man who like uh for me,
132:17 I will Yeah. Um >> you're really selling yourself.
132:20 >> you're really selling yourself. >> You're a good marketer.
132:28 fluff. >> So, same same cooking all that. So, so
132:31 >> So, same same cooking all that. So, so already now you guys have all so far
132:33 already now you guys have all so far actually I'll wait for your response
132:34 actually I'll wait for your response first. Belle.
132:35 first. Belle. >> Yeah. Then and
132:36 >> Yeah. Then and >> Oh, go ahead.
132:38 >> Oh, go ahead. >> No, no, go ahead. Go ahead. Continue.
132:39 >> No, no, go ahead. Go ahead. Continue. >> Yes. And yeah, there I will love you as
132:43 >> Yes. And yeah, there I will love you as much as I can and the Yes. And I will
132:47 much as I can and the Yes. And I will give you I will bring you the joy.
132:50 give you I will bring you the joy. >> The joy.
132:50 >> The joy. >> Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
132:52 >> Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> The Chicken Joy Jollibee.
132:56 >> No. >> All right. And how about you, Belle?
132:59 >> All right. And how about you, Belle? >> I know.
133:00 >> I know. >> What makes you a good person to marry?
133:03 >> What makes you a good person to marry? Like what makes you good wife material?
133:06 Like what makes you good wife material? >> We're same as you said.
133:09 >> We're same as you said. >> Yeah. So, so you know, like going back
133:12 >> Yeah. So, so you know, like going back to what we said earlier, you guys
133:14 to what we said earlier, you guys already agreed that it's harder to find
133:15 already agreed that it's harder to find a good guy, right?
133:16 a good guy, right? >> Yes.
133:16 >> Yes. >> Because all of you girls are beautiful.
133:19 >> Because all of you girls are beautiful. All of you bring the same to the table.
133:22 All of you bring the same to the table. cook, take care of the guy. You threw in
133:24 cook, take care of the guy. You threw in back rubs, you know, so you get a couple
133:26 back rubs, you know, so you get a couple extra points on that one. Uh, but then
133:28 extra points on that one. Uh, but then you also you're lower in the in the sexy
133:30 you also you're lower in the in the sexy time department, so then maybe, you
133:32 time department, so then maybe, you know, I don't know. I don't know. I
133:34 know, I don't know. I don't know. I might take the sexy time instead of the
133:35 might take the sexy time instead of the massage.
133:36 massage. >> But, um, yeah. So, you know, you guys
133:39 >> But, um, yeah. So, you know, you guys are all I think pretty much every girl
133:41 are all I think pretty much every girl that I would ever have on the show would
133:42 that I would ever have on the show would say those exact same things. But
133:45 say those exact same things. But sometimes I think that the girls would
133:47 sometimes I think that the girls would disagree and they would say, you know,
133:49 disagree and they would say, you know, like
133:52 like that they bring more to the table than
133:54 that they bring more to the table than the guy kind of thing. You know what I
133:55 the guy kind of thing. You know what I mean? But you guys answered it so
133:56 mean? But you guys answered it so perfectly and that's a huge difference
133:57 perfectly and that's a huge difference from Girls in the West. So
133:59 from Girls in the West. So congratulations. I hope you like that
134:01 congratulations. I hope you like that answer, Uncle Chris. Thank you very
134:03 answer, Uncle Chris. Thank you very much.
134:04 much. >> Thank you.
134:05 >> Thank you. >> Yeah. And uh yeah, I guess we'll move
134:07 >> Yeah. And uh yeah, I guess we'll move on. So
134:10 on. So uh Oh, yeah.
134:14 uh Oh, yeah. Who do you think should manage the
134:15 Who do you think should manage the finances? So you guys maybe you both
134:18 finances? So you guys maybe you both earn money or maybe just the man earns
134:20 earn money or maybe just the man earns money. Who should be the accountant in
134:21 money. Who should be the accountant in the family? I think we have an
134:22 the family? I think we have an accountant at the table, don't we?
134:25 accountant at the table, don't we? >> You're an accountant. You do accounting.
134:27 >> You're an accountant. You do accounting. >> Accountant
134:28 >> Accountant >> or am I mixed up?
134:29 >> or am I mixed up? >> I am a bookkeeping accountant.
134:31 >> I am a bookkeeping accountant. >> Yeah. Okay. So in your relationship, do
134:33 >> Yeah. Okay. So in your relationship, do you think that you would be the the good
134:35 you think that you would be the the good one to do the you know managing the
134:37 one to do the you know managing the money? I think most of the being in
134:40 money? I think most of the being in >> for me most of the women.
134:43 >> for me most of the women. >> Yeah. And then the guy just give the
134:47 >> Yeah. And then the guy just give the >> the budget.
134:48 >> the budget. >> Yeah. The budget money
134:49 >> Yeah. The budget money >> provider.
134:50 >> provider. >> Yeah.
134:50 >> Yeah. >> That's how it was with my parents too.
134:52 >> That's how it was with my parents too. >> Yeah.
134:52 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Maybe that's why my wife left me
134:54 >> Yeah. Maybe that's why my wife left me cuz I tried to manage it all myself.
134:58 cuz I tried to manage it all myself. >> But uh I mean I kind of had to in my
135:00 >> But uh I mean I kind of had to in my opinion cuz I was doing you know pretty
135:02 opinion cuz I was doing you know pretty good with my blog back then. But
135:04 good with my blog back then. But >> you can change your own if you find um
135:07 >> you can change your own if you find um girl.
135:08 girl. >> Yeah. What I used to do is just like
135:10 >> Yeah. What I used to do is just like break off like a big chunk and then let
135:12 break off like a big chunk and then let her manage that.
135:13 her manage that. >> Mhm.
135:14 >> Mhm. >> And then you know put the rest in a you
135:16 >> And then you know put the rest in a you know it was always in her name though.
135:19 know it was always in her name though. So but um yeah. Okay. So woman would
135:21 So but um yeah. Okay. So woman would would be the bookkeeper.
135:23 would be the bookkeeper. I believe that. But I still think you
135:25 I believe that. But I still think you know if you're a passport bro or a
135:28 know if you're a passport bro or a passport bachelor
135:30 passport bachelor um you know there's there's a limit to
135:33 um you know there's there's a limit to that. And I guess I can say from my own
135:34 that. And I guess I can say from my own personal experience,
135:37 personal experience, if the man is making enough money that
135:40 if the man is making enough money that it will blow the girl's mind and she's
135:43 it will blow the girl's mind and she's never seen that much money in her life,
135:46 never seen that much money in her life, do you think if if a guy makes like a
135:48 do you think if if a guy makes like a million pesos a month, do you think that
135:50 million pesos a month, do you think that there's a chance that it might make you
135:52 there's a chance that it might make you a little bit
135:54 a little bit crazy
135:56 crazy cuz it's more money than you ever seen
135:58 cuz it's more money than you ever seen before?
135:59 before? Uh, I think the girl going to have a
136:01 Uh, I think the girl going to have a insecurities with that if the man have
136:04 insecurities with that if the man have money in 1 million.
136:06 money in 1 million. >> Yeah.
136:07 >> Yeah. >> Because she's going to think crazy, you
136:09 >> Because she's going to think crazy, you know, that you're cheating going
136:11 know, that you're cheating going everywhere.
136:12 everywhere. >> Or not even just that. Maybe she'll get
136:13 >> Or not even just that. Maybe she'll get big ideas of how she wants to spend it.
136:16 big ideas of how she wants to spend it. >> Yes.
136:16 >> Yes. >> Oh, I want to give some to my family.
136:18 >> Oh, I want to give some to my family. Oh, well, let's buy more land. Oh, let's
136:20 Oh, well, let's buy more land. Oh, let's do all these things. And the guy will
136:21 do all these things. And the guy will like have to keep saying, "No, honey.
136:23 like have to keep saying, "No, honey. No, honey." And then that'll cause
136:24 No, honey." And then that'll cause fights.
136:25 fights. >> Yes. it going to be classified cuz you
136:27 >> Yes. it going to be classified cuz you keep you keep rejecting what you want.
136:30 keep you keep rejecting what you want. >> Yeah. So that's one way that my brothers
136:32 >> Yeah. So that's one way that my brothers can learn from my own personal mistake.
136:35 can learn from my own personal mistake. >> Yeah.
136:36 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Cuz uh
136:39 >> Yeah. Cuz uh >> he'll learn from your mistakes.
136:42 >> he'll learn from your mistakes. >> Yeah. I'll just leave it there. But um
136:44 >> Yeah. I'll just leave it there. But um Okay. So now let's um Oh, actually,
136:48 Okay. So now let's um Oh, actually, yeah. Do you think it's okay if a man
136:50 yeah. Do you think it's okay if a man just never shows you his finances? Like
136:52 just never shows you his finances? Like he'll say, "Okay, baby. How much do you
136:54 he'll say, "Okay, baby. How much do you need for the bills this month?" and
136:55 need for the bills this month?" and he'll just give you what you say and
136:57 he'll just give you what you say and then that's it.
136:57 then that's it. >> I think it's not good either.
136:59 >> I think it's not good either. >> No. So like if he has a lot of money
137:02 >> No. So like if he has a lot of money like just like maybe break off 50 and
137:04 like just like maybe break off 50 and let you manage the 50 every month and
137:05 let you manage the 50 every month and then like
137:06 then like >> and then the rest he'll just kind of
137:08 >> and then the rest he'll just kind of >> Yeah. Example the the guy was earn like
137:11 >> Yeah. Example the the guy was earn like 100 a month and then he just tell to the
137:13 100 a month and then he just tell to the girl that's 50 only. So you can it's
137:15 girl that's 50 only. So you can it's much better to hide something you know
137:17 much better to hide something you know from the girls.
137:18 from the girls. >> Yeah. You can manage the money.
137:20 >> Yeah. You can manage the money. >> You keep the 50 for yourself.
137:22 >> You keep the 50 for yourself. >> Yeah. Yeah.
137:22 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> And then the 50 you will give to the
137:23 >> And then the 50 you will give to the girl and then the girl will manage the
137:25 girl and then the girl will manage the 50, you know.
137:26 50, you know. >> Yeah. Yeah. That's
137:36 >> Yeah. Okay. I'm not going to ask any of these. Okay. Um let's change gears a
137:38 these. Okay. Um let's change gears a little bit. Do you like it when
137:41 little bit. Do you like it when confides in you and talks about his
137:43 confides in you and talks about his feelings?
137:45 feelings? Billy was really mean to me when I went
137:47 Billy was really mean to me when I went to the bar yesterday. I don't know why
137:49 to the bar yesterday. I don't know why he's so mean.
137:57 You know, like like he tells you his feelings, he confides in you and he's
137:58 feelings, he confides in you and he's like, you know,
138:01 like, you know, >> yeah, I think that's good.
138:03 >> yeah, I think that's good. >> Yeah. You think it's good?
138:04 >> Yeah. You think it's good? >> Yeah, I think it's good.
138:05 >> Yeah, I think it's good. >> Yeah. Why do you think it's good?
138:13 >> The problem with you and he tells you about that. I think it's good. So, you
138:15 about that. I think it's good. So, you can fix it both.
138:18 can fix it both. >> You can.
138:18 >> You can. >> Yeah, you can, you know, fix it. You can
138:20 >> Yeah, you can, you know, fix it. You can talk about it.
138:21 talk about it. >> Do you think it would benefit the man to
138:23 >> Do you think it would benefit the man to do that or do you think it would just
138:24 do that or do you think it would just benefit the woman or do you think it
138:26 benefit the woman or do you think it would benefit both?
138:27 would benefit both? >> It would benefit both. Of course.
138:29 >> It would benefit both. Of course. >> Yeah. Do you all agree?
138:30 >> Yeah. Do you all agree? >> Yes. Yes. I am.
138:32 >> Yes. Yes. I am. >> Yeah.
138:32 >> Yeah. >> Now,
138:34 >> Now, women are on a moon cycle. They go up
138:39 women are on a moon cycle. They go up and down throughout the month. They have
138:40 and down throughout the month. They have their period.
138:41 their period. >> They get very emotional.
138:43 >> They get very emotional. >> Smoody. And if your man, you know, does,
138:45 >> Smoody. And if your man, you know, does, you know, sometimes when a girl is just
138:47 you know, sometimes when a girl is just about to have her period,
138:50 about to have her period, >> a woman will hate the way her man is
138:52 >> a woman will hate the way her man is breathing, you know, like she just
138:54 breathing, you know, like she just she'll be like so annoyed by him for no
138:56 she'll be like so annoyed by him for no reason, she won't know why.
138:57 reason, she won't know why. >> Yeah. I don't want to see you.
138:59 >> Yeah. I don't want to see you. >> Yeah. You know, and do you think that
139:00 >> Yeah. You know, and do you think that maybe if a man tells his woman a deep
139:03 maybe if a man tells his woman a deep dark secret a way that he feels about
139:06 dark secret a way that he feels about something, do you think that maybe when
139:07 something, do you think that maybe when the woman is mad at him, she would
139:08 the woman is mad at him, she would weaponize that and use it against him?
139:11 weaponize that and use it against him? >> I don't. Do you have you ever done that?
139:15 >> I don't. Do you have you ever done that? >> Yeah. I I never done that before.
139:19 >> Yeah. I I never done that before. >> You're more chill. Yeah. But you will.
139:21 >> You're more chill. Yeah. But you will. You're still so young. I bet you one day
139:22 You're still so young. I bet you one day you'll be like, "Yeah, you know, like
139:26 you'll be like, "Yeah, you know, like >> not
139:28 >> not your mother raised an you know,
139:30 your mother raised an you know, like Yeah. I don't know. So, you know,
139:33 like Yeah. I don't know. So, you know, like uh like I'll use the example like
139:35 like uh like I'll use the example like if you know the guy says, you know,
139:37 if you know the guy says, you know, meeting my mom, my mom doesn't like me
139:39 meeting my mom, my mom doesn't like me or something like that, you know, and
139:40 or something like that, you know, and he's like I'm really sad about it. But
139:42 he's like I'm really sad about it. But then when you get mad at him, he's like,
139:43 then when you get mad at him, he's like, "No wonder your mother hates you."
139:45 "No wonder your mother hates you." >> You know, and then you might weaponize
139:47 >> You know, and then you might weaponize what he told you, right? And then
139:49 what he told you, right? And then >> and then and then you're chipping away
139:50 >> and then and then you're chipping away at the he has for you. Then he may never
139:52 at the he has for you. Then he may never tell you anything again.
139:54 tell you anything again. >> Oh yeah. That's happened here in the
139:56 >> Oh yeah. That's happened here in the Philippines a lot.
139:56 Philippines a lot. >> It happens everywhere, you know, like so
139:59 >> It happens everywhere, you know, like so so now that's highlighting one way are
140:01 so now that's highlighting one way are all the same no matter where in the
140:02 all the same no matter where in the world they come from.
140:04 world they come from. >> Yeah. So, the advice that I would have
140:06 >> Yeah. So, the advice that I would have is that no matter how sweet the Filipina
140:08 is that no matter how sweet the Filipina is,
140:09 is, like if if anyone here remembers Super
140:11 like if if anyone here remembers Super Mario, you know those little ghosts, you
140:13 Mario, you know those little ghosts, you know, like when you face them, they look
140:16 know, like when you face them, they look really innocent and they cover their
140:17 really innocent and they cover their face. They cover their face, but then as
140:18 face. They cover their face, but then as soon as you turn around, you turn your
140:20 soon as you turn around, you turn your back, they're like, "Ah!" You know, like
140:22 back, they're like, "Ah!" You know, like they're going to get you. So, I think
140:23 they're going to get you. So, I think that's how girls are. Um, you know, like
140:27 that's how girls are. Um, you know, like you can't always help it sometimes. You
140:29 you can't always help it sometimes. You know, you're going to weaponize how you
140:31 know, you're going to weaponize how you the information that your man gives to
140:33 the information that your man gives to you.
140:33 you. >> Yeah. So now you know, you know, why a
140:35 >> Yeah. So now you know, you know, why a man might not be so emotional. And then
140:37 man might not be so emotional. And then there's other articles, too. And I'm not
140:39 there's other articles, too. And I'm not set up to show you my screen right now.
140:42 set up to show you my screen right now. Um, but there's articles now. There was
140:44 Um, but there's articles now. There was articles for years about how uh men need
140:47 articles for years about how uh men need to share their emotions, blah blah blah,
140:49 to share their emotions, blah blah blah, you know, like like everything you just
140:51 you know, like like everything you just said. And then now last month, I saw an
140:53 said. And then now last month, I saw an article, you know, it's so hard to for
140:57 article, you know, it's so hard to for maneping. They call it mankeeping now.
140:59 maneping. They call it mankeeping now. They're always like making like they're
141:00 They're always like making like they're always putting men down. Men are bad
141:02 always putting men down. Men are bad because they don't share their emotions.
141:04 because they don't share their emotions. But then when men share their emotions,
141:07 But then when men share their emotions, it it's it's too much. It's too
141:08 it it's it's too much. It's too complicated. It's like, you know, so
141:10 complicated. It's like, you know, so like women just basically are always
141:12 like women just basically are always complaining,
141:13 complaining, >> you know? No matter what the man does,
141:16 >> you know? No matter what the man does, >> girls want the opposite.
141:17 >> girls want the opposite. >> Not all of the woman.
141:19 >> Not all of the woman. >> Yeah, I know. But but that's another
141:20 >> Yeah, I know. But but that's another thing all women do. Like if I speak
141:22 thing all women do. Like if I speak general, you know, I'm just like
141:24 general, you know, I'm just like general. There's always one girl or more
141:26 general. There's always one girl or more in the in the group that will say,
141:28 in the in the group that will say, "Yeah, but not all women."
141:30 "Yeah, but not all women." >> Ah, I know. I'm sure there's one magical
141:32 >> Ah, I know. I'm sure there's one magical unicorn, you know, but there but
141:34 unicorn, you know, but there but generally speaking,
141:36 generally speaking, um,
141:38 um, okay, I've already asked a few of these
141:39 okay, I've already asked a few of these questions already. What red flags do you
141:41 questions already. What red flags do you look for when you're looking at a man?
141:43 look for when you're looking at a man? Like what kind of uh behavioral patterns
141:46 Like what kind of uh behavioral patterns or behavioral attributes, you know, and
141:48 or behavioral attributes, you know, and it could also be physical appearance. I
141:50 it could also be physical appearance. I mean, like if he's just a fat fat
141:52 mean, like if he's just a fat fat you know, like maybe that's a bad red
141:54 you know, like maybe that's a bad red flag.
141:54 flag. >> Yes.
141:54 >> Yes. >> Uh because it shows he doesn't have
141:56 >> Uh because it shows he doesn't have self-control, you know? Um, but like
141:58 self-control, you know? Um, but like what what kind of red flags do you try
142:00 what what kind of red flags do you try to pick up on when you're meeting a guy
142:02 to pick up on when you're meeting a guy for the first time? And I'll start with
142:03 for the first time? And I'll start with you, Joy.
142:05 you, Joy. >> I don't like boastful person.
142:07 >> I don't like boastful person. >> Well, boastful or bossy?
142:09 >> Well, boastful or bossy? >> Bossy.
142:10 >> Bossy. >> Bossy.
142:10 >> Bossy. >> Yeah.
142:11 >> Yeah. >> Okay. So, you don't like the
142:12 >> Okay. So, you don't like the manplaining?
142:13 manplaining? >> Yeah. I mean to say when he when he go
142:16 >> Yeah. I mean to say when he when he go to inside the bar, you know, he's like a
142:18 to inside the bar, you know, he's like a big man. I don't like that person.
142:20 big man. I don't like that person. >> Oh, so boastful like he's bragging. Oh,
142:23 >> Oh, so boastful like he's bragging. Oh, okay. Okay. cuz I was going to I was
142:24 okay. Okay. cuz I was going to I was going to give you if you said uh
142:26 going to give you if you said uh bossy cuz then I'd be like so you don't
142:28 bossy cuz then I'd be like so you don't like a leader
142:29 like a leader >> but uh yeah. Okay. So boastful, you
142:31 >> but uh yeah. Okay. So boastful, you know, like I I can understand that. I
142:33 know, like I I can understand that. I agree with you on that. I think guys
142:35 agree with you on that. I think guys that do that or guys that flaunt their
142:37 that do that or guys that flaunt their money
142:37 money >> and then you know thick person.
142:40 >> and then you know thick person. >> Yeah. Well, a little bit of sarcasm is
142:42 >> Yeah. Well, a little bit of sarcasm is okay. Little bit little bit.
142:43 okay. Little bit little bit. >> You know, some of the some of them are
142:46 >> You know, some of the some of them are too much, you know.
142:47 too much, you know. >> Yeah. Yeah. I agree. And then it just
142:49 >> Yeah. Yeah. I agree. And then it just gets disrespectful.
142:50 gets disrespectful. >> Yeah.
142:50 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. How about you, Talia? M I think if
142:54 >> Yeah. How about you, Talia? M I think if the guy have no emotional intelligence
142:57 the guy have no emotional intelligence and for example if he can't understand
143:00 and for example if he can't understand your situation even if you're explaining
143:04 your situation even if you're explaining about it.
143:05 about it. >> Yeah.
143:06 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I think that's a red flag.
143:08 >> Yeah. I think that's a red flag. >> Yeah. So kind of like if you're running
143:10 >> Yeah. So kind of like if you're running a show and it starts at 11:00 but then
143:12 a show and it starts at 11:00 but then you don't show up till 11:30.
143:17 >> You know I had to take one dig. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I love you
143:19 kidding. I'm just kidding. I love you all. Um yeah. Okay. Yeah. That's fair.
143:22 all. Um yeah. Okay. Yeah. That's fair. That's fair. Yeah.
143:24 That's fair. Yeah. >> Am I hearing you? Okay. Um, how about
143:27 >> Am I hearing you? Okay. Um, how about you, Beia? What's a red flag?
143:31 you, Beia? What's a red flag? >> I don't like man being rude to me
143:35 >> I don't like man being rude to me because my hand is is left to your face.
143:40 because my hand is is left to your face. >> Yeah.
143:41 >> Yeah. >> I thought you would have said alcohol,
143:43 >> I thought you would have said alcohol, >> huh?
143:43 >> huh? >> I thought you would have said alcohol.
143:46 >> I thought you would have said alcohol. Too much alcohol based on our previous.
143:49 Too much alcohol based on our previous. >> Yeah. Okay. So basically uh too
143:52 >> Yeah. Okay. So basically uh too disrespectful.
143:53 disrespectful. >> Yeah. But usually I think that never
143:56 >> Yeah. But usually I think that never happens in the beginning, you know, like
143:58 happens in the beginning, you know, like a guy's not going to go on a first date
143:59 a guy's not going to go on a first date and be like, "Ah," you know, like start
144:01 and be like, "Ah," you know, like start freaking out like that.
144:02 freaking out like that. >> Yeah. Usually there's there's more to
144:04 >> Yeah. Usually there's there's more to the story when a guy starts to do that
144:06 the story when a guy starts to do that too,
144:07 too, >> you know. Men men usually treat women
144:10 >> you know. Men men usually treat women how they want to be treated and then
144:11 how they want to be treated and then after a while they flip and then they
144:14 after a while they flip and then they switch over to being treating the woman
144:16 switch over to being treating the woman how they are treated by the woman.
144:18 how they are treated by the woman. >> Yeah. How about you?
144:21 >> Yeah. How about you? >> What is a red flag?
144:23 >> What is a red flag? >> Rude.
144:24 >> Rude. >> Rude. A red flag when a guy is so rude.
144:27 >> Rude. A red flag when a guy is so rude. Then
144:29 Then >> I know not gentleman then.
144:32 >> I know not gentleman then. >> Yes.
144:35 >> Yes. >> So he's like, "Hey,
144:38 >> So he's like, "Hey, >> then
144:45 I forgot now." >> That's okay. Maybe it'll come back to
144:47 >> That's okay. Maybe it'll come back to you. That's okay. Okay.
144:48 you. That's okay. Okay. >> Um,
144:50 >> Um, if you remember later, you can you can
144:51 if you remember later, you can you can say it on the next round. Um,
144:58 >> yeah. And then I just want to say too, like, um, if you had a guy that used to
145:00 like, um, if you had a guy that used to like talk about his emotions a lot,
145:02 like talk about his emotions a lot, wouldn't you kind of feel like a little
145:03 wouldn't you kind of feel like a little bit less safe?
145:06 bit less safe? Because if like like if he's always
145:07 Because if like like if he's always doubting himself
145:10 doubting himself in a crisis, you know, in a in a really
145:12 in a crisis, you know, in a in a really crazy situation, maybe he'll be doubting
145:14 crazy situation, maybe he'll be doubting himself. he'll be too emotional and then
145:16 himself. he'll be too emotional and then he won't handle the situation very well.
145:18 he won't handle the situation very well. >> Like if a guy's too emotional like in
145:20 >> Like if a guy's too emotional like in confiding his emotions, maybe that's
145:22 confiding his emotions, maybe that's just better if he just doesn't say what
145:24 just better if he just doesn't say what he's, you know, always feeling and
145:25 he's, you know, always feeling and stuff. Cuz like I I honestly think that
145:27 stuff. Cuz like I I honestly think that men are afraid a lot a lot. Like
145:31 men are afraid a lot a lot. Like >> afraid about what
145:33 >> afraid about what >> um
145:35 >> um >> afraid of losing you
145:37 >> afraid of losing you >> or afraid of um any dangers like if if
145:40 >> or afraid of um any dangers like if if he sees a danger.
145:41 he sees a danger. >> Yeah.
145:42 >> Yeah. >> You know, he could be really afraid. You
145:43 >> You know, he could be really afraid. You might not look like it.
145:45 might not look like it. >> It's getting paranoid like that
145:47 >> It's getting paranoid like that >> or just like uh you know like like let's
145:49 >> or just like uh you know like like let's say that you're uh you're in a crisis
145:51 say that you're uh you're in a crisis situation and uh you know you're
145:54 situation and uh you know you're standing in line and someone else in
145:55 standing in line and someone else in line gets stabbed or something,
145:57 line gets stabbed or something, >> you know, and you know if you know he's
146:00 >> you know, and you know if you know he's the kind of guy that gets afraid easily,
146:01 the kind of guy that gets afraid easily, then maybe you'll feel less safe with
146:03 then maybe you'll feel less safe with him in a situation like that where it's
146:04 him in a situation like that where it's dangerous, right?
146:05 dangerous, right? >> Yeah. Or, you know, like if you're
146:07 >> Yeah. Or, you know, like if you're hiking in the in the jungle and then you
146:09 hiking in the in the jungle and then you come across rebels or something like
146:11 come across rebels or something like that, maybe you'll think he's weak
146:13 that, maybe you'll think he's weak because he's he admits that he's afraid
146:15 because he's he admits that he's afraid sometimes, you know, and you'll feel
146:17 sometimes, you know, and you'll feel less safe. And then maybe you would even
146:19 less safe. And then maybe you would even lose attraction and then maybe you'll
146:21 lose attraction and then maybe you'll find someone else who doesn't talk about
146:23 find someone else who doesn't talk about their feelings to be more attractive.
146:25 their feelings to be more attractive. >> So that's why another reason why men
146:26 >> So that's why another reason why men shouldn't talk about their feelings. And
146:28 shouldn't talk about their feelings. And I think that this whole thing of men
146:30 I think that this whole thing of men doing it, I feel so bad for the younger
146:31 doing it, I feel so bad for the younger generation because they were brainwashed
146:32 generation because they were brainwashed by that.
146:34 by that. Um, okay.
146:38 Um, okay. Yeah. Okay.
146:40 Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Can you list some red flags that
146:43 Yeah. Can you list some red flags that you think
146:45 you think men look for in a woman?
146:49 men look for in a woman? >> Men look for a woman.
146:51 >> Men look for a woman. >> Yeah. So, like if if he sees a certain
146:53 >> Yeah. So, like if if he sees a certain behavior in a woman
146:57 behavior in a woman that he won't like, you won't like it.
147:00 that he won't like, you won't like it. >> I think the girl that asking too much
147:02 >> I think the girl that asking too much money.
147:03 money. >> Yeah.
147:04 >> Yeah. Yeah,
147:05 Yeah, >> that's fair. What do you think, Talia?
147:33 It's the same but borrowing money with a guy. Yeah. It's disgusting. Yeah.
147:38 guy. Yeah. It's disgusting. Yeah. It's so disappointing.
147:44 Party girl. >> I think party girl. Yeah. If you flirt
147:47 >> I think party girl. Yeah. If you flirt another girl. Yeah.
147:50 another girl. Yeah. >> Me.
147:52 >> Me. >> Or or if you flirt with another man.
147:54 >> Or or if you flirt with another man. >> Oh, you know.
147:54 >> Oh, you know. >> You mean cuz he cuz it's a man looking
147:56 >> You mean cuz he cuz it's a man looking at a girl's red flag. Okay.
147:58 at a girl's red flag. Okay. >> Yeah. So if you flirt. So
148:00 >> Yeah. So if you flirt. So >> if I flirt another man then
148:02 >> if I flirt another man then >> or you do marketing on social media. You
148:05 >> or you do marketing on social media. You show your, you know, your your your rack
148:07 show your, you know, your your your rack on social media. Maybe the guy will be
148:09 on social media. Maybe the guy will be jealous.
148:09 jealous. >> I just want to flex my body.
148:11 >> I just want to flex my body. >> Yeah.
148:13 >> Yeah. >> And then you will be used like a toy.
148:15 >> And then you will be used like a toy. Hello.
148:16 Hello. >> But maybe you like that. Maybe you like
148:18 >> But maybe you like that. Maybe you like that.
148:20 that. It depends where you're at in your life,
148:21 It depends where you're at in your life, I guess.
148:22 I guess. >> And then what do you think, Belle?
148:24 >> And then what do you think, Belle? >> Yeah.
148:24 >> Yeah. >> Like uh like what kind of bad behavior
148:27 >> Like uh like what kind of bad behavior does a guy try to see if you have, you
148:30 does a guy try to see if you have, you know, like cuz he he won't trust you if
148:32 know, like cuz he he won't trust you if you do this thing? What kind of bad
148:34 you do this thing? What kind of bad behaviors do you think a guy is?
148:36 behaviors do you think a guy is? >> Aside from wearing a sex scene, then
148:40 >> Aside from wearing a sex scene, then like
148:41 like >> Yeah.
148:41 >> Yeah. >> Then partying girl, right? Uh I think
148:44 >> Then partying girl, right? Uh I think >> drinking too much. Yes. With drinking
148:46 >> drinking too much. Yes. With drinking with other boys.
148:48 with other boys. >> Definitely.
148:48 >> Definitely. >> Yes.
148:50 >> Yes. >> I think from my ex-boyfriend before,
148:54 >> I think from my ex-boyfriend before, >> it's a red flag for him if I,
148:58 >> it's a red flag for him if I, you know, if I'm not updating him about
149:01 you know, if I'm not updating him about something and
149:03 something and >> like where you are.
149:04 >> like where you are. >> Yeah. And
149:06 >> Yeah. And and some of random things. And if I'm
149:10 and some of random things. And if I'm wearing, you know, like revealing
149:13 wearing, you know, like revealing clothes. Yeah.
149:15 clothes. Yeah. >> Yeah. Something like that. And if I
149:18 >> Yeah. Something like that. And if I don't give him much time.
149:21 don't give him much time. >> Mhm.
149:21 >> Mhm. >> That's a red flag for him.
149:24 >> That's a red flag for him. >> Yeah. That's from a experience from my
149:26 >> Yeah. That's from a experience from my past.
149:26 past. >> Yeah. That's good. So you you've had a
149:28 >> Yeah. That's good. So you you've had a lot of good experience, I think,
149:29 lot of good experience, I think, already.
149:30 already. >> And you're only 18.
149:32 >> And you're only 18. >> That's that's pretty intelligent for,
149:34 >> That's that's pretty intelligent for, you know,
149:35 you know, >> that's emotionally intelligent.
149:37 >> that's emotionally intelligent. >> But you didn't just know that. You
149:38 >> But you didn't just know that. You experienced it and that's how you
149:40 experienced it and that's how you learned it.
149:41 learned it. >> Yeah. So it didn't come from you. We
149:43 >> Yeah. So it didn't come from you. We came from watching and learning.
149:46 came from watching and learning. >> Okay, that's cool. Uh, and then I just
149:48 >> Okay, that's cool. Uh, and then I just want to jump in again. Lauren mentioned
149:50 want to jump in again. Lauren mentioned um she really wanted to come on this
149:53 um she really wanted to come on this show,
149:54 show, >> you know. I think she really wanted to
149:55 >> you know. I think she really wanted to come back. We'll have you back again
149:57 come back. We'll have you back again very soon, Lauren. Um, she said, "Being
149:59 very soon, Lauren. Um, she said, "Being a wife material, I can be a slave on the
150:02 a wife material, I can be a slave on the bed to make him super happy and have a
150:04 bed to make him super happy and have a good next
150:07 good next and and have a good next morning." And
150:08 and and have a good next morning." And I'm gonna put a heart in the chat for
150:10 I'm gonna put a heart in the chat for her.
150:11 her. >> Or a 100. There you go. But um yeah.
150:16 >> Or a 100. There you go. But um yeah. Yeah, I think that's also good. But um
150:18 Yeah, I think that's also good. But um all right. Uh
150:33 If he keeps updating you and keep um yeah keep updating you and
150:38 um yeah keep updating you and he will
150:40 he will he will like feel you like
150:44 he will like feel you like comfortable. Yeah.
150:46 comfortable. Yeah. >> Yeah.
150:47 >> Yeah. >> If uh
150:48 >> If uh >> how about you Joy?
150:49 >> how about you Joy? >> Uh if he's asking about you to your
150:52 >> Uh if he's asking about you to your other friends to your coworker
150:55 other friends to your coworker >> closer. Yeah.
150:56 >> closer. Yeah. >> Yeah. If he was asking about you to your
150:59 >> Yeah. If he was asking about you to your coworker,
151:01 coworker, >> uh he wants to know everything about
151:03 >> uh he wants to know everything about you. I think that man is like you.
151:06 you. I think that man is like you. >> Yeah.
151:07 >> Yeah. >> Was interested, you know.
151:08 >> Was interested, you know. >> Yeah, that's a good one.
151:10 >> Yeah, that's a good one. >> How do you be a
151:11 >> How do you be a >> What's this question?
151:12 >> What's this question? >> What uh how do you know if a man likes
151:15 >> What uh how do you know if a man likes you?
151:26 if you're if the guy uh in a rel serious relationship with me
151:30 in a rel serious relationship with me don't if uh it don't even know if you
151:34 don't if uh it don't even know if you trust me then so be it.
151:38 trust me then so be it. >> So you know a man likes you if he trusts
151:41 >> So you know a man likes you if he trusts you.
151:43 you. >> If you trust me I can trust you also.
151:46 >> If you trust me I can trust you also. >> Pull your head out of your ass. Answer
151:48 >> Pull your head out of your ass. Answer the question properly.
151:50 the question properly. >> How do you know if a man likes you? Wake
151:52 >> How do you know if a man likes you? Wake up. Wake up.
151:53 up. Wake up. >> Okay. Sorry.
151:54 >> Okay. Sorry. >> It's okay. No more playing with your
151:56 >> It's okay. No more playing with your nails. Whatever. Stop fidgeting.
151:58 nails. Whatever. Stop fidgeting. >> Stay on the show.
152:00 >> Stay on the show. >> So, how do you know if a man likes you?
152:06 [Music] [Laughter]
152:10 [Laughter] [Music]
152:24 It's not that hard. >> Maybe later you can answer first.
152:26 >> Maybe later you can answer first. >> Go for it. How do you know if a guy
152:27 >> Go for it. How do you know if a guy likes it?
152:28 likes it? >> For me, if interested me or I know
152:32 >> For me, if interested me or I know if he give assurance efforts for me.
152:36 if he give assurance efforts for me. >> Yeah.
152:36 >> Yeah. >> Then I think it's
152:38 >> Then I think it's >> What kind of effort?
152:41 >> What kind of effort? >> A date. No, anything
152:44 >> A date. No, anything like
152:46 like >> she care. He cares.
152:48 >> she care. He cares. >> How are you? How are you?
152:50 >> How are you? How are you? >> Sending messages.
152:52 >> Sending messages. >> Yes.
152:52 >> Yes. >> Yeah.
152:53 >> Yeah. >> Genuinely.
152:55 >> Genuinely. >> Well, I'm going to surprise you guys a
152:56 >> Well, I'm going to surprise you guys a little bit. I think that men also if
152:58 little bit. I think that men also if they like a girl in this modern dating
153:01 they like a girl in this modern dating market,
153:03 market, they act indifferent, which means they
153:05 they act indifferent, which means they actually they ignore you a little bit.
153:08 actually they ignore you a little bit. Mhm.
153:09 Mhm. >> You know, like um
153:11 >> You know, like um like like you know how you can feel when
153:13 like like you know how you can feel when someone's watching you?
153:14 someone's watching you? >> Yeah.
153:15 >> Yeah. >> You know, like if a guy feels a girl is
153:18 >> You know, like if a guy feels a girl is watching him,
153:19 watching him, >> he might look everywhere except at the
153:22 >> he might look everywhere except at the girl so she feels ignored and then
153:26 girl so she feels ignored and then that'll make you a little bit like
153:27 that'll make you a little bit like >> Yes.
153:28 >> Yes. >> Oh, I wish he would look at me and then
153:30 >> Oh, I wish he would look at me and then you and then you you start to feel
153:32 you and then you you start to feel feelings for him
153:33 feelings for him >> and that could be a way that a
153:34 >> and that could be a way that a manipulates you into liking him.
153:36 manipulates you into liking him. >> Yes. and then he will come for the
153:37 >> Yes. and then he will come for the attack, you know. So,
153:39 attack, you know. So, >> yeah, it's not always attention. So, I I
153:41 >> yeah, it's not always attention. So, I I I guess my point too is um you know,
153:44 I guess my point too is um you know, because like all of those things you
153:45 because like all of those things you said like do do you think that a man can
153:48 said like do do you think that a man can be a friend? Just a friend.
153:51 be a friend? Just a friend. >> Yeah.
153:51 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. You think you can be a friend? But
153:53 >> Yeah. You think you can be a friend? But a a friend would do all of those things
153:55 a a friend would do all of those things that you just said.
153:57 that you just said. >> What?
153:58 >> What? >> If you have a friend, they'll probably
153:59 >> If you have a friend, they'll probably be like, "Oh, like um like if if you're
154:02 be like, "Oh, like um like if if you're not at the bar
154:03 not at the bar >> Mhm.
154:03 >> Mhm. >> and I'm your friend
154:04 >> and I'm your friend >> Mhm. I might ask uh Laney, you know,
154:07 >> Mhm. I might ask uh Laney, you know, how's uh how's Joy been? Is she okay?
154:11 how's uh how's Joy been? Is she okay? >> Mhm.
154:12 >> Mhm. >> Now, but then what does that mean,
154:15 >> Now, but then what does that mean, right?
154:16 right? >> No, it's just being friends.
154:17 >> No, it's just being friends. >> It's exactly the same thing as what you
154:19 >> It's exactly the same thing as what you said.
154:20 said. >> Mhm.
154:22 >> Mhm. >> So, that's a little confusing. Like, I
154:24 >> So, that's a little confusing. Like, I can tell you the truth. Um
154:27 can tell you the truth. Um >> Oh, yeah. that I answer before.
154:29 >> Oh, yeah. that I answer before. >> Yeah. Yeah. So, like,
154:30 >> Yeah. Yeah. So, like, >> but they have a different things, you
154:32 >> but they have a different things, you know. Uh, I I and I'm going to tell you,
154:37 know. Uh, I I and I'm going to tell you, >> men talk about stuff.
154:40 >> men talk about stuff. >> We talk about ideas. We talk about
154:43 >> We talk about ideas. We talk about history. We talk about Rome, the fall of
154:45 history. We talk about Rome, the fall of Rome. We talk about spaceships. We talk
154:48 Rome. We talk about spaceships. We talk about, you know, things, ideas.
154:53 about, you know, things, ideas. Girls talk about people. They talk about
154:56 Girls talk about people. They talk about um,
154:58 um, girl stuff, you know.
155:00 girl stuff, you know. So if a guy is going to sit down and
155:03 So if a guy is going to sit down and listen to you yap yap yap yap yap blah
155:05 listen to you yap yap yap yap yap blah blah blah blah blah.
155:07 blah blah blah blah. >> You know what Suzie said about Jody, you
155:09 >> You know what Suzie said about Jody, you know, like nobody gives a The only
155:12 know, like nobody gives a The only way that a guy is going to sit down with
155:14 way that a guy is going to sit down with you and tolerate whatever the hell is in
155:16 you and tolerate whatever the hell is in your head is if he's trying to sleep
155:19 your head is if he's trying to sleep with you.
155:20 with you. >> No.
155:21 >> No. >> Maybe when you get a little bit older at
155:23 >> Maybe when you get a little bit older at our age, it's a little bit different.
155:24 our age, it's a little bit different. >> Mhm.
155:25 >> Mhm. >> You know, like you and I had a good
155:26 >> You know, like you and I had a good conversation last night. There was no
155:28 conversation last night. There was no funny bit uh funny business, you know.
155:30 funny bit uh funny business, you know. Mhm.
155:30 Mhm. >> Um, but I still wanted something from
155:33 >> Um, but I still wanted something from you. You know, I wanted you to come on
155:34 you. You know, I wanted you to come on the show.
155:35 the show. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
155:36 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> But, um, you know, if I didn't want you
155:38 >> But, um, you know, if I didn't want you to come on the show and I talked to you,
155:39 to come on the show and I talked to you, I would probably be flirting with you
155:40 I would probably be flirting with you without you knowing it,
155:42 without you knowing it, >> you know. So,
155:43 >> you know. So, >> it's one of your strategy then.
155:45 >> it's one of your strategy then. >> Well, I mean, yeah. Or maybe, you know,
155:47 >> Well, I mean, yeah. Or maybe, you know, hey, come on.
155:49 hey, come on. Why don't you stay a little late? No.
155:51 Why don't you stay a little late? No. Um, but no, like it's uh like I I just
155:54 Um, but no, like it's uh like I I just honestly think that girls are generally
155:57 honestly think that girls are generally they don't talk about stuff that like
155:59 they don't talk about stuff that like ideas and stuff that really interests
156:00 ideas and stuff that really interests men. So if a man is going to listen to
156:03 men. So if a man is going to listen to it, he's not going to listen to it from
156:04 it, he's not going to listen to it from a bunch of women as their friend. He's
156:08 a bunch of women as their friend. He's going to like he's going to be like just
156:10 going to like he's going to be like just doing it because he wants to get laid
156:12 doing it because he wants to get laid usually.
156:13 usually. >> Oh yeah. You know, and if a guy has
156:16 >> Oh yeah. You know, and if a guy has friends that that are girls,
156:19 friends that that are girls, either he wants to, it's a future
156:21 either he wants to, it's a future or it's it's a past He already had
156:25 or it's it's a past He already had it
156:26 it >> and now it's just good to But then even
156:28 >> and now it's just good to But then even then, maybe he's not getting sex out of
156:29 then, maybe he's not getting sex out of the girl. Now he's just getting um his
156:32 the girl. Now he's just getting um his real estate value on the dating market
156:34 real estate value on the dating market goes up. Because when you see a guy
156:36 goes up. Because when you see a guy surrounded by girls and they're pretty,
156:39 surrounded by girls and they're pretty, you think, "Oh, this guy, there's
156:41 you think, "Oh, this guy, there's something to this guy because he's got
156:43 something to this guy because he's got these girls around."
156:44 these girls around." >> So that's maybe the only secondary
156:46 >> So that's maybe the only secondary reason why a man would be friends with a
156:48 reason why a man would be friends with a woman
156:49 woman >> is because either he wants to that
156:51 >> is because either he wants to that woman or that woman will help him find
156:54 woman or that woman will help him find somebody else to
156:56 somebody else to >> It's always sexual.
156:57 >> It's always sexual. >> So yeah, that's that's my two cents.
157:00 >> So yeah, that's that's my two cents. Does that kind of make sense though?
157:01 Does that kind of make sense though? Like or do you guys think I'm crazy?
157:03 Like or do you guys think I'm crazy? >> No, it makes sense. Yeah.
157:04 >> No, it makes sense. Yeah. >> Yeah.
157:05 >> Yeah. >> Cuz maybe that's just the way I think,
157:06 >> Cuz maybe that's just the way I think, you know, like but yeah, I don't know. I
157:08 you know, like but yeah, I don't know. I think once a guy
157:11 think once a guy >> once a guy gets that very um
157:16 >> once a guy gets that very um with girls and like if a guy disagrees
157:18 with girls and like if a guy disagrees with me, you know, he's obviously never
157:21 with me, you know, he's obviously never been in love with a girl that had other
157:23 been in love with a girl that had other guys around. And I think if a guy
157:25 guys around. And I think if a guy disagrees with me, he's never been a
157:27 disagrees with me, he's never been a girl's side guy,
157:29 girl's side guy, >> a side piece. As soon as a guy is a side
157:32 >> a side piece. As soon as a guy is a side piece for a woman where she's cheating
157:34 piece for a woman where she's cheating on her man with him and he gets to see
157:36 on her man with him and he gets to see how she lies,
157:38 how she lies, >> how she does it, she'll be sweet to her
157:40 >> how she does it, she'll be sweet to her man, but then she'll be like, "Okay,
157:41 man, but then she'll be like, "Okay, let's go fuck." You know, to, you know,
157:44 let's go fuck." You know, to, you know, when you are the side guy for a girl,
157:46 when you are the side guy for a girl, you learn like it just the mask is off.
157:50 you learn like it just the mask is off. >> You can see through women's
157:52 >> You can see through women's you know? So, it's like, yeah. Anyway,
157:55 you know? So, it's like, yeah. Anyway, that's my my two cents as a male.
157:57 that's my my two cents as a male. >> Um, okay.
158:00 >> Um, okay. Um, so what should a guy bring to the
158:03 Um, so what should a guy bring to the table for you so you don't cheat on him?
158:12 >> For me, >> we'll start with you.
158:13 >> we'll start with you. >> I don't know cuz I always cheat.
158:17 >> I don't know cuz I always cheat. >> Actually, it's depend on our
158:18 >> Actually, it's depend on our relationship, you know,
158:20 relationship, you know, >> cuz sometimes even you're not cheating
158:23 >> cuz sometimes even you're not cheating to each other.
158:25 to each other. >> Loves it's fading away.
158:27 >> Loves it's fading away. >> Yeah. Yeah,
158:27 >> Yeah. Yeah, >> it's depend on the communication and
158:29 >> it's depend on the communication and conversation that you had.
158:31 conversation that you had. >> Yeah.
158:32 >> Yeah. >> So, we don't know.
158:34 >> So, we don't know. >> Yeah. So,
158:37 >> Yeah. So, >> all right, Talia, I'll try you.
158:39 >> all right, Talia, I'll try you. [Music]
158:41 [Music] >> Can you repeat the question?
158:43 >> Can you repeat the question? >> Yeah. Like, like what should a man bring
158:44 >> Yeah. Like, like what should a man bring to the table so you're loyal?
158:46 to the table so you're loyal? I think if he's like a kind person, a
158:50 I think if he's like a kind person, a good personality, because if the love
158:54 good personality, because if the love fades away, you can you can still
158:57 fades away, you can you can still >> My god,
158:58 >> My god, >> you can still uh stay to that person
159:01 >> you can still uh stay to that person because of his personality. Yeah.
159:04 because of his personality. Yeah. Because you know,
159:06 Because you know, we know that we all we all know that
159:08 we know that we all we all know that love will fade if you Yeah. If you grow
159:14 love will fade if you Yeah. If you grow old and you can you still together.
159:17 old and you can you still together. >> You think love fades when you get older.
159:19 >> You think love fades when you get older. >> No, I mean
159:28 >> take longer. >> Yeah. If you guys take longer being in a
159:31 >> Yeah. If you guys take longer being in a relationship.
159:32 relationship. >> Mhm.
159:33 >> Mhm. >> Yeah. There's some scenario that love
159:35 >> Yeah. There's some scenario that love fades away.
159:37 fades away. >> Yeah. I think
159:38 >> Yeah. I think >> why why do you think love fades away?
159:41 >> why why do you think love fades away? Yeah. If you're if you if you're used to
159:45 Yeah. If you're if you if you're used to be with that person,
159:48 be with that person, >> are you the same person you were 4 years
159:50 >> are you the same person you were 4 years ago?
159:53 ago? >> You changed, right?
159:54 >> You changed, right? >> Yeah. Yeah. People change.
159:56 >> Yeah. Yeah. People change. >> Yeah.
159:58 >> Yeah. >> Change can make the relationship
159:59 >> Change can make the relationship interesting.
160:00 interesting. >> Mhm.
160:01 >> Mhm. >> Or you can change and you can go a
160:03 >> Or you can change and you can go a different way and maybe that would make
160:05 different way and maybe that would make you grow apart. But uh you know I mean
160:08 you grow apart. But uh you know I mean it's it's interesting like like over the
160:11 it's it's interesting like like over the course of my my relationship my longest
160:14 course of my my relationship my longest one eight years I went from being skinny
160:16 one eight years I went from being skinny to fat to fit you know like I like
160:20 to fat to fit you know like I like jumped all around and it was an
160:22 jumped all around and it was an interesting little journey for
160:23 interesting little journey for everything when I like was really you
160:24 everything when I like was really you know
160:25 know >> yeah I mean that's one way and then I
160:27 >> yeah I mean that's one way and then I started different businesses that keeps
160:29 started different businesses that keeps it interesting. I think there's always
160:30 it interesting. I think there's always ways to keep it interesting is my point.
160:32 ways to keep it interesting is my point. Like I'm not trying to talk about
160:33 Like I'm not trying to talk about myself, but I'm just trying to say like
160:35 myself, but I'm just trying to say like there are ways to keep it interesting.
160:37 there are ways to keep it interesting. Um
160:39 Um it just takes work, you know? Do you
160:41 it just takes work, you know? Do you think maybe younger girls today um
160:44 think maybe younger girls today um because of Tik Tok brain or whatever, do
160:46 because of Tik Tok brain or whatever, do you think that
160:48 you think that they are less likely to stick around
160:52 they are less likely to stick around when things get boring or difficult
160:56 when things get boring or difficult in general? Doesn't have to be you, but
160:58 in general? Doesn't have to be you, but in general, do you think girls are more
161:00 in general, do you think girls are more likely to be like, "Fuck it, hot girl
161:02 likely to be like, "Fuck it, hot girl summer. I'm out."
161:04 summer. I'm out." >> You know,
161:05 >> You know, >> I think
161:06 >> I think >> like they're less patient,
161:08 >> like they're less patient, >> yeah.
161:09 >> yeah. >> Yeah.
161:10 >> Yeah. >> I'm not sure.
161:11 >> I'm not sure. >> No. Yeah. I think there's a lot of
161:14 >> No. Yeah. I think there's a lot of reasons for that if that is true. Um,
161:16 reasons for that if that is true. Um, but I don't want to put more ideas in
161:17 but I don't want to put more ideas in your head. Beia, uh,
161:21 your head. Beia, uh, I forget the question now. Oh, yeah. But
161:24 I forget the question now. Oh, yeah. But what does a guy have to bring to the
161:25 what does a guy have to bring to the table so you don't cheat on him?
161:27 table so you don't cheat on him? >> Yeah, loyalty is important to me. And
161:32 >> Yeah, loyalty is important to me. And yes, communication is the key. Don't
161:34 yes, communication is the key. Don't betray me.
161:35 betray me. >> Yeah.
161:36 >> Yeah. >> So, I will not cheat. Yeah.
161:38 >> So, I will not cheat. Yeah. >> Or they get the slap.
161:40 >> Or they get the slap. >> Yes.
161:42 >> Yes. >> Okay.
161:43 >> Okay. >> And I will punch behind your back.
161:45 >> And I will punch behind your back. >> Uhoh. Uh-oh.
161:47 >> Uhoh. Uh-oh. >> And how about you, Belle? What do you
161:49 >> And how about you, Belle? What do you think uh a man needs to bring to the
161:51 think uh a man needs to bring to the table to keep you loyal? keep you
161:54 table to keep you loyal? keep you attached to him.
161:55 attached to him. >> Trust.
161:56 >> Trust. >> Yeah.
161:57 >> Yeah. >> For me, trust. Yes.
161:58 >> For me, trust. Yes. >> Yeah.
161:59 >> Yeah. >> If you trust with other
162:01 >> If you trust with other >> with each other. Yeah. Other.
162:04 >> with each other. Yeah. Other. >> All right.
162:06 >> All right. Has a guy Has a guy ever called you
162:08 Has a guy Has a guy ever called you insecure?
162:10 insecure? Like like how would you feel if you
162:12 Like like how would you feel if you started dating a guy and he's like, "Oh,
162:13 started dating a guy and he's like, "Oh, you're kind of insecure." How how would
162:16 you're kind of insecure." How how would that make you feel?
162:22 try. >> Would it Would it make you sad? Would it
162:24 >> Would it Would it make you sad? Would it make you upset? Would you be insulted
162:26 make you upset? Would you be insulted >> if a guy like called you insecure?
162:29 >> if a guy like called you insecure? >> Insecure.
162:42 >> Do you have like metal in your nails? I'm I'm wondering like does you have
162:43 I'm I'm wondering like does you have shiny nail? Okay. No, I thought you had
162:44 shiny nail? Okay. No, I thought you had shin
162:44 shin >> like a sweat.
162:45 >> like a sweat. >> Oh, okay. Yeah, I know. Yeah, I know.
162:47 >> Oh, okay. Yeah, I know. Yeah, I know. They're brutal. Yeah. Um Okay. So, he
162:51 They're brutal. Yeah. Um Okay. So, he wouldn't really phase you. I asked you
162:53 wouldn't really phase you. I asked you girls that last time, too. And your
162:55 girls that last time, too. And your answer was like, "Yeah, I'd be you." You
162:57 answer was like, "Yeah, I'd be you." You You would be insulted if a guy said
162:58 You would be insulted if a guy said that.
163:00 that. >> Yeah.
163:00 >> Yeah. >> It's true.
163:01 >> It's true. >> But girls say it all the time about men.
163:03 >> But girls say it all the time about men. Like, if a man says, "I don't want you
163:05 Like, if a man says, "I don't want you to have a male friend." Cuz you you guys
163:07 to have a male friend." Cuz you you guys all believe you can have a male friend.
163:08 all believe you can have a male friend. >> Mhm.
163:09 >> Mhm. >> Yes.
163:09 >> Yes. >> Yeah.
163:10 >> Yeah. >> But then when if your man says no, do
163:12 >> But then when if your man says no, do you think he's insecure?
163:14 you think he's insecure? >> Yeah. Uh, I think it depends because
163:17 >> Yeah. Uh, I think it depends because some of the guy friends at the end of
163:20 some of the guy friends at the end of the day they will court you.
163:23 the day they will court you. >> Yeah.
163:23 >> Yeah. >> Yeah, that's true. Right. That's true.
163:31 >> Because there's ain't no way a guy's going to listen to you all the time and
163:33 going to listen to you all the time and be your friend unless he's got a goal.
163:35 be your friend unless he's got a goal. >> And sometimes he doesn't. Sometimes you
163:37 >> And sometimes he doesn't. Sometimes you might,
163:37 might, >> but one of the two people or both want
163:39 >> but one of the two people or both want to usually want to
163:41 to usually want to >> So,
163:42 >> So, >> yeah. So, yeah. Like so do you think a
163:45 >> yeah. So, yeah. Like so do you think a guy is insecure if he says get rid of
163:47 guy is insecure if he says get rid of those guys?
163:49 those guys? >> Yeah.
163:49 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Maybe he's
163:50 >> Yeah. Maybe he's >> insecure. Maybe he was thinking that.
163:52 >> insecure. Maybe he was thinking that. >> Yeah. Something you know.
163:53 >> Yeah. Something you know. >> You still think he's insecure?
163:55 >> You still think he's insecure? >> Yeah. Cuz the guy have senses you know
163:57 >> Yeah. Cuz the guy have senses you know to
163:58 to >> What about um Okay. So let's go back to
164:02 >> What about um Okay. So let's go back to like your preferences. So you want a guy
164:05 like your preferences. So you want a guy to be a gentleman. You want a guy to be
164:07 to be a gentleman. You want a guy to be loyal.
164:08 loyal. You want a guy to not be too boastful.
164:12 You want a guy to not be too boastful. you know, too arrogant.
164:14 you know, too arrogant. >> Those are your preferences,
164:16 >> Those are your preferences, >> right? Those are what you want,
164:18 >> right? Those are what you want, >> right?
164:18 >> right? >> I just don't like the sarcastic person
164:21 >> I just don't like the sarcastic person and boss
164:22 and boss >> and sarcasm. Yeah. So, those are things
164:24 >> and sarcasm. Yeah. So, those are things that you don't want.
164:25 that you don't want. >> Yeah. The bossful and sarcastic
164:27 >> Yeah. The bossful and sarcastic >> and you're you're only going to choose a
164:29 >> and you're you're only going to choose a guy that respects what you want, right?
164:34 guy that respects what you want, right? >> So, the guy cannot be sarcastic like you
164:36 >> So, the guy cannot be sarcastic like you follow me, right? Like, so you have your
164:38 follow me, right? Like, so you have your preferences, you have the things that
164:39 preferences, you have the things that you want. Every man on earth wants you
164:45 you want. Every man on earth wants you to not have male friends.
164:49 to not have male friends. >> Now, why does why is your preference
164:51 >> Now, why does why is your preference acceptable,
164:53 acceptable, but his preference is insecurity?
164:57 but his preference is insecurity? >> Do you see how women think?
164:58 >> Do you see how women think? >> Yeah.
164:59 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. It's a little bit you
165:01 >> Yeah. It's a little bit you know? Yeah. Yeah. It's a little unfair.
165:03 know? Yeah. Yeah. It's a little unfair. Yeah.
165:03 Yeah. >> Yeah. It's unfair.
165:04 >> Yeah. It's unfair. >> And now imagine how many other
165:06 >> And now imagine how many other situations where it's like that where
165:07 situations where it's like that where the women are like, "Ah, I'm such a
165:09 the women are like, "Ah, I'm such a victim. this guy, he's so insecure. But
165:12 victim. this guy, he's so insecure. But it's like the reality is
165:14 it's like the reality is >> maybe you're a
165:16 >> maybe you're a You
165:17 You >> Yeah. Yeah.
165:18 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Who is more emotionally intelligent? A
165:20 >> Who is more emotionally intelligent? A man or a woman?
165:21 man or a woman? >> Woman.
165:23 >> Woman. >> Really?
165:24 >> Really? >> Yes.
165:25 >> Yes. >> You think so? Because you guys think
165:27 >> You think so? Because you guys think it's insecure for a man to, you know. So
165:29 it's insecure for a man to, you know. So that's not being very emotionally
165:30 that's not being very emotionally intelligent. I think the man
165:40 >> that's very emotionally intelligent. Yeah,
165:41 Yeah, >> she forgive the girls, you know, they
165:43 >> she forgive the girls, you know, they give the girls what they want.
165:45 give the girls what they want. >> Yeah.
165:45 >> Yeah. >> But the girl if if they if their guy was
165:48 >> But the girl if if they if their guy was asking
165:50 asking is for arguing.
165:52 is for arguing. >> Yeah. I guess uh I'm gonna pick on you a
165:55 >> Yeah. I guess uh I'm gonna pick on you a little bit there, Belle, because you
165:57 little bit there, Belle, because you guys already got this on the last one
165:59 guys already got this on the last one about the uh
166:01 about the uh >> in the end they agreed with me, right?
166:04 >> in the end they agreed with me, right? Yeah. So, so like when you're when
166:07 Yeah. So, so like when you're when you're like cuz sometimes you're going
166:09 you're like cuz sometimes you're going to fight with your man, right? Like
166:11 to fight with your man, right? Like >> sometimes he's going to be like, "No,
166:13 >> sometimes he's going to be like, "No, that's enough." You know, but then other
166:15 that's enough." You know, but then other times he'll look at you and he'll be
166:17 times he'll look at you and he'll be like, "Come here, baby. It's okay." You
166:19 like, "Come here, baby. It's okay." You know, even if you're being a little
166:21 know, even if you're being a little right? He'll he'll still be like,
166:22 right? He'll he'll still be like, "I understand. It's okay." Sometimes
166:25 "I understand. It's okay." Sometimes he's one way, sometimes he's another way
166:27 he's one way, sometimes he's another way because he knows
166:30 because he knows when to do what. He knows when to be
166:33 when to do what. He knows when to be firm, set the law down, and then other
166:35 firm, set the law down, and then other times he knows maybe your tempo, maybe
166:38 times he knows maybe your tempo, maybe you're on your period, maybe you just
166:40 you're on your period, maybe you just feel kind of sick. So, he just knows to
166:42 feel kind of sick. So, he just knows to be more sweet, you know, and he knows
166:44 be more sweet, you know, and he knows you. Plus, he's also in his day-to-day
166:48 you. Plus, he's also in his day-to-day life, he's consistent. He's always like
166:52 life, he's consistent. He's always like he's not like always all over the place.
166:54 he's not like always all over the place. Like if he says he's going to do
166:56 Like if he says he's going to do something, he usually does it. He's very
166:57 something, he usually does it. He's very consistent. Like every day he's almost
166:59 consistent. Like every day he's almost the same usually, you know? Like I mean
167:02 the same usually, you know? Like I mean some days he might be grumpy, whatever,
167:04 some days he might be grumpy, whatever, but usually he's the same every day, but
167:06 but usually he's the same every day, but you're not right. So he needs to adjust
167:10 you're not right. So he needs to adjust to you.
167:11 to you. >> Yes.
167:12 >> Yes. >> That requires an emotional intelligence.
167:14 >> That requires an emotional intelligence. And girls get easy. They get easy mode
167:17 And girls get easy. They get easy mode with a guy because he's almost the same
167:19 with a guy because he's almost the same every day. Generally, most of the time
167:21 every day. Generally, most of the time he's the same. So, you don't need that
167:24 he's the same. So, you don't need that much emotional intelligence, but he
167:27 much emotional intelligence, but he needs a lot of emotional intelligence to
167:28 needs a lot of emotional intelligence to deal with woo your like your moods,
167:31 deal with woo your like your moods, right?
167:32 right? >> So, maybe men are more emotionally
167:33 >> So, maybe men are more emotionally intelligent. So, that's my thought.
167:35 intelligent. So, that's my thought. Maybe you'll think about that later. But
167:38 Maybe you'll think about that later. But um yeah, I guess uh
167:44 um yeah, I guess uh does does a man's family life before you
167:48 does does a man's family life before you does it matter to you?
167:50 does it matter to you? >> What
167:51 >> What >> like um if he has a good relationship
167:53 >> like um if he has a good relationship with his mother, father, a good
167:55 with his mother, father, a good relationship with his siblings,
167:58 relationship with his siblings, does that matter to you?
167:59 does that matter to you? >> Yes, of course.
168:00 >> Yes, of course. >> Yeah.
168:01 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. It's really important to know, you
168:03 >> Yeah. It's really important to know, you know.
168:04 know. >> Okay. So, like Yeah. Yeah, I guess I
168:07 >> Okay. So, like Yeah. Yeah, I guess I won't go any further than that. That's
168:08 won't go any further than that. That's uh normally I would be like, you know,
168:10 uh normally I would be like, you know, like what if you know like nah, no, I'm
168:12 like what if you know like nah, no, I'm not going to get into hypotheticals.
168:13 not going to get into hypotheticals. We're here. Um,
168:16 We're here. Um, on a scale of 1 to 10,
168:19 on a scale of 1 to 10, how important is it that your man is
168:21 how important is it that your man is religious? We'll start with you.
168:24 religious? We'll start with you. >> Oh.
168:25 >> Oh. >> Even if you're not religious yourself,
168:26 >> Even if you're not religious yourself, do you think there's a benefit if you
168:28 do you think there's a benefit if you have a man that is
168:29 have a man that is >> religious?
168:30 >> religious? >> Like he believes in God?
168:32 >> Like he believes in God? >> I think four or five.
168:34 >> I think four or five. >> Yeah. So, if a man doesn't believe in
168:37 >> Yeah. So, if a man doesn't believe in God, maybe he doesn't have morals. And
168:39 God, maybe he doesn't have morals. And if he doesn't have morals, maybe he's
168:40 if he doesn't have morals, maybe he's more likely to cheat. I don't know.
168:42 more likely to cheat. I don't know. >> No, it's depend on the person.
168:44 >> No, it's depend on the person. >> Yeah. I'm just trying to like lead you a
168:45 >> Yeah. I'm just trying to like lead you a little bit, but Okay.
168:46 little bit, but Okay. >> How about How about you, Talia? Do you
168:48 >> How about How about you, Talia? Do you think it's important for the man to
168:49 think it's important for the man to believe in God or be religious?
168:51 believe in God or be religious? >> Uh, I think not really.
168:53 >> Uh, I think not really. >> Not really.
168:53 >> Not really. >> Yeah. Okay.
168:54 >> Yeah. Okay. >> Yeah. It depends on you both how you
168:56 >> Yeah. It depends on you both how you handle the relationship.
168:58 handle the relationship. >> Yeah.
168:58 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
168:59 >> Yeah. >> Okay.
168:59 >> Okay. >> Yeah. Rel.
169:07 >> You think so? like uh the scale of 10, it's 10.
169:08 it's 10. >> Yeah.
169:08 >> Yeah. >> Because if you don't uh like love God,
169:12 >> Because if you don't uh like love God, you don't love the uh like people. Yes.
169:15 you don't love the uh like people. Yes. >> Yeah.
169:17 >> Yeah. >> Cuz
169:17 >> Cuz >> how about you?
169:19 >> how about you? >> Scale out of 10 out of seven.
169:21 >> Scale out of 10 out of seven. >> Yeah. Okay. That's that's fair.
169:23 >> Yeah. Okay. That's that's fair. >> That's fair. I think a lot of marriages
169:25 >> That's fair. I think a lot of marriages fall apart when they have a different
169:26 fall apart when they have a different religion.
169:27 religion. >> Yeah.
169:28 >> Yeah. >> Like if you're a Buddhist and he's a
169:30 >> Like if you're a Buddhist and he's a Catholic,
169:31 Catholic, >> you know. It's true. Because the
169:33 >> you know. It's true. Because the Buddhists, they have the statue of the
169:34 Buddhists, they have the statue of the Buddha and then as a Catholic that could
169:36 Buddha and then as a Catholic that could be a idol,
169:38 be a idol, >> you know, so there could be conflicting
169:39 >> you know, so there could be conflicting things. So religion can, you know,
169:42 things. So religion can, you know, definitely play a role. Or if they're
169:43 definitely play a role. Or if they're the they're an atheist and then going
169:46 the they're an atheist and then going back to family life,
169:48 back to family life, >> if your family is very religious and
169:49 >> if your family is very religious and he's an atheist,
169:51 he's an atheist, will he really will your family accept
169:53 will he really will your family accept him really if he's not sharing in the
169:55 him really if he's not sharing in the same faith?
169:56 same faith? >> No.
169:56 >> No. >> Yeah, they're not.
169:57 >> Yeah, they're not. >> Like I was a Protestant and my ex-wife,
170:00 >> Like I was a Protestant and my ex-wife, their family's Catholic. That was a
170:02 their family's Catholic. That was a problem even, you know, like I could
170:04 problem even, you know, like I could tell because I don't think you're
170:05 tell because I don't think you're supposed to have a statue of Jesus. I
170:07 supposed to have a statue of Jesus. I think that's
170:08 think that's >> like it says in the Bible, even for
170:10 >> like it says in the Bible, even for books for the lady, like the
170:11 books for the lady, like the simple-minded, you know, uh people who
170:14 simple-minded, you know, uh people who can't read, you're not supposed to have
170:16 can't read, you're not supposed to have that,
170:17 that, >> you know, but then the Catholic Church
170:19 >> you know, but then the Catholic Church always has, right? They always have the
170:20 always has, right? They always have the statue.
170:21 statue. >> Yeah.
170:21 >> Yeah. >> But on the Bible, they didn't put on
170:23 >> But on the Bible, they didn't put on that, you know.
170:24 that, you know. >> Yeah. It's like, well, I think the
170:27 >> Yeah. It's like, well, I think the reason why they say that about the Bible
170:28 reason why they say that about the Bible or in the Bible that you're not supposed
170:30 or in the Bible that you're not supposed to have an image of Jesus.
170:31 to have an image of Jesus. >> Mhm.
170:32 >> Mhm. >> It's like, do you guys I mean, maybe
170:34 >> It's like, do you guys I mean, maybe it's a little outdated now, but there
170:36 it's a little outdated now, but there was a movie called Pearl Harbor.
170:38 was a movie called Pearl Harbor. >> Pearl Harbor
170:39 >> Pearl Harbor >> with Josh Hartnet,
170:42 >> with Josh Hartnet, and there was like all these like sexy
170:43 and there was like all these like sexy men in it.
170:44 men in it. >> Mhm.
170:45 >> Mhm. >> And in the movie, it was about when
170:47 >> And in the movie, it was about when Japan attack uh Hawaii, I think it was
170:51 Japan attack uh Hawaii, I think it was Hawaii in the United States. And bottom
170:54 Hawaii in the United States. And bottom line, in real life, let's like I don't
170:58 line, in real life, let's like I don't know the number. Let's say there was 50
170:59 know the number. Let's say there was 50 airplanes. They came, they dropped bombs
171:02 airplanes. They came, they dropped bombs on Hawaii, and then they fly away. But
171:04 on Hawaii, and then they fly away. But in the movie, there was like 10,000
171:06 in the movie, there was like 10,000 planes and there was a love story and
171:10 planes and there was a love story and there was all this drama and all this
171:12 there was all this drama and all this stuff.
171:13 stuff. >> So then when you're a kid and you watch
171:15 >> So then when you're a kid and you watch that movie and then you go to history
171:18 that movie and then you go to history class and the teacher asks you, "How
171:20 class and the teacher asks you, "How many planes were there?" Well, you saw
171:23 many planes were there?" Well, you saw the movie, so you'll say 10,000 planes.
171:26 the movie, so you'll say 10,000 planes. But they'll be like, "No, there was only
171:27 But they'll be like, "No, there was only 50." No, there was 10,000 because I saw
171:29 50." No, there was 10,000 because I saw it on a movie. So my point is that
171:31 it on a movie. So my point is that people will argue over how the artist
171:34 people will argue over how the artist interprets.
171:35 interprets. >> Mhm. So there's a big argument right now
171:37 >> Mhm. So there's a big argument right now that like the Bible says Jesus was an
171:40 that like the Bible says Jesus was an ugly ugly guy
171:41 ugly ugly guy >> you know
171:42 >> you know >> but they make the you know they make him
171:44 >> but they make the you know they make him look sexy you know like you know
171:47 look sexy you know like you know >> and women have a crush on him you know
171:48 >> and women have a crush on him you know women even have fantasies about Jesus
171:50 women even have fantasies about Jesus you know like how he's portrayed and
171:52 you know like how he's portrayed and that can cause problems
171:54 that can cause problems >> you know like with how you
171:56 >> you know like with how you >> how you communicate with the Holy Spirit
171:59 >> how you communicate with the Holy Spirit or you know stuff like that. So that's
172:01 or you know stuff like that. So that's why like I had a problem with the
172:02 why like I had a problem with the Catholic church. That's one of them. I
172:03 Catholic church. That's one of them. I also don't think the pope should be a
172:04 also don't think the pope should be a middleman and I don't think you should
172:06 middleman and I don't think you should confess your sins to another human
172:07 confess your sins to another human being. But um you know you go direct.
172:10 being. But um you know you go direct. You don't need a middleman. But anyway,
172:11 You don't need a middleman. But anyway, so there's a lot of reasons why people
172:12 so there's a lot of reasons why people have different you know religions and
172:13 have different you know religions and stuff and it can cause problems. So
172:16 stuff and it can cause problems. So yeah, if you're going to meet a guy
172:17 yeah, if you're going to meet a guy personally I to give you advice I think
172:19 personally I to give you advice I think that it you should try to get him as
172:22 that it you should try to get him as close to what you are because even
172:23 close to what you are because even though I believe in God and I believe in
172:25 though I believe in God and I believe in the Trinity and I believe in Jesus and
172:26 the Trinity and I believe in Jesus and all that stuff, just the being the
172:28 all that stuff, just the being the difference from Protestant to Catholics
172:30 difference from Protestant to Catholics can still cause problems.
172:32 can still cause problems. >> Yes. So yeah, like my wife as a gift
172:35 >> Yes. So yeah, like my wife as a gift from someone in the family, probably
172:39 from someone in the family, probably probably a certain member of the the was
172:43 probably a certain member of the the was always trying to cause trouble would
172:44 always trying to cause trouble would purposely buy a gift that had a Jesus
172:46 purposely buy a gift that had a Jesus statue on it.
172:48 statue on it. >> Hang it up. Hang it. No, you know, I'm
172:50 >> Hang it up. Hang it. No, you know, I'm not going to hang that up. Why not? And
172:53 not going to hang that up. Why not? And then, you know, the wife will be like,
172:56 then, you know, the wife will be like, now we're fighting, right? So like it's
172:59 now we're fighting, right? So like it's just Yeah. So, it's interesting.
173:03 just Yeah. So, it's interesting. But
173:08 age matter. So, we already talked about your age difference. You you talked
173:10 your age difference. You you talked about yours. Um, how about you?
173:13 about yours. Um, how about you? >> We'll circle back to that. Like, do you
173:15 >> We'll circle back to that. Like, do you prefer older men or men your own age?
173:17 prefer older men or men your own age? >> Older.
173:18 >> Older. >> Older as well. And you? Yeah.
173:20 >> Older as well. And you? Yeah. >> Yeah. Like older.
173:21 >> Yeah. Like older. >> Yeah. Okay. That was just kind of a
173:22 >> Yeah. Okay. That was just kind of a recap. Um, do you like um what do you
173:26 recap. Um, do you like um what do you find more actually first I'll ask you
173:29 find more actually first I'll ask you who is more masculine Filipino men or
173:33 who is more masculine Filipino men or foreign men?
173:36 foreign men? >> For me uh Filipino.
173:37 >> For me uh Filipino. >> Yeah.
173:38 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
173:38 >> Yeah. >> Like lapu lapu
173:41 >> Like lapu lapu >> you know.
173:42 >> you know. >> How about you girls?
173:44 >> How about you girls? >> I think foreigners.
173:45 >> I think foreigners. >> Yeah.
173:45 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
173:46 >> Yeah. >> How about you? And I'm not fishing for
173:47 >> How about you? And I'm not fishing for compliments here, you know. Like truth.
173:50 compliments here, you know. Like truth. I think there are some foreigners is
173:52 I think there are some foreigners is masculine and still there are Filipino
173:55 masculine and still there are Filipino who is masculine also.
173:57 who is masculine also. >> Yeah.
173:58 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
173:58 >> Yeah. >> No, I agree. Yeah.
174:00 >> No, I agree. Yeah. >> How about you?
174:01 >> How about you? >> Foreigner.
174:02 >> Foreigner. >> Yeah. No. Okay. That's that's cool cuz
174:04 >> Yeah. No. Okay. That's that's cool cuz that leads into my next question. I was
174:06 that leads into my next question. I was going to ask like
174:07 going to ask like >> do you prefer like uh
174:09 >> do you prefer like uh >> Yeah. What else do you like about
174:11 >> Yeah. What else do you like about foreigners? No, I'm kidding.
174:18 >> I like the big >> height.
174:20 >> height. and a big uh heart and a tall guy.
174:23 and a big uh heart and a tall guy. >> And they and they have to have a really
174:25 >> And they and they have to have a really really big wallet.
174:27 really big wallet. >> Yeah.
174:30 >> Yeah. >> And really huge shoe size.
174:36 >> Anyway, >> oh boy.
174:38 >> oh boy. >> Do uh
174:41 >> Do uh like do you guys prefer more of like a
174:43 like do you guys prefer more of like a pretty boy like a K-pop or do you prefer
174:45 pretty boy like a K-pop or do you prefer a rugged man like uh Chris Hemsworth? A
174:48 a rugged man like uh Chris Hemsworth? A rugged man.
174:50 rugged man. >> Rugged man.
174:50 >> Rugged man. >> Rugged.
174:51 >> Rugged. >> Yeah,
174:53 >> Yeah, >> it's becoming a trend in this country
174:54 >> it's becoming a trend in this country for men to wear makeup. I've noticed
174:57 for men to wear makeup. I've noticed >> when you go by the cosmetics aisle.
174:59 >> when you go by the cosmetics aisle. >> I'm sure it's happening in the West
175:00 >> I'm sure it's happening in the West probably even more,
175:02 probably even more, >> but I am seeing it more commonly. And
175:03 >> but I am seeing it more commonly. And I've actually seen a few men here
175:05 I've actually seen a few men here wearing makeup.
175:07 wearing makeup. >> Do you think it's just a gay thing or do
175:08 >> Do you think it's just a gay thing or do you think it's like
175:09 you think it's like >> It's a gay thing.
175:10 >> It's a gay thing. >> Yeah. Yeah. Uh, how important is
175:14 >> Yeah. Yeah. Uh, how important is fitness? So, do muscles turn you on?
175:19 fitness? So, do muscles turn you on? I love the muscle.
175:20 I love the muscle. >> Yeah, of course.
175:26 >> All myself. >> No, I think it's good. You guys are
175:27 >> No, I think it's good. You guys are being honest and I appreciate that.
175:28 being honest and I appreciate that. >> Yes.
175:29 >> Yes. >> Um, how important is height?
175:32 >> Um, how important is height? >> Like, uh, what is the shortest guy you
175:34 >> Like, uh, what is the shortest guy you ever dated?
175:35 ever dated? >> No. 411.
175:37 >> No. 411. >> For real? Yeah. 411?
175:39 >> For real? Yeah. 411? >> Yeah.
175:39 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Okay. And And how do you feel
175:41 >> Yeah. Okay. And And how do you feel about that?
175:42 about that? >> Uh, I'm not really comfortable, you
175:45 >> Uh, I'm not really comfortable, you know, cuz he's like my guin. Okay. Okay.
175:48 know, cuz he's like my guin. Okay. Okay. No, that's fair.
175:49 No, that's fair. >> So, like um like what's the shortest
175:51 >> So, like um like what's the shortest that you would date?
175:53 that you would date? >> It it was 411 the shortest.
175:54 >> It it was 411 the shortest. >> No, but what's the shortest you would be
175:56 >> No, but what's the shortest you would be happy with?
175:57 happy with? >> Cuz you're not so happy with 411. That's
175:59 >> Cuz you're not so happy with 411. That's too short for you.
176:00 too short for you. >> I like the tall person.
176:02 >> I like the tall person. >> Yeah. But would you date a guy that's
176:03 >> Yeah. But would you date a guy that's like 5'9?
176:05 like 5'9? >> 6'4.
176:06 >> 6'4. >> 6'4. They'll You know,
176:08 >> 6'4. They'll You know, >> you know how rare that is, right?
176:10 >> you know how rare that is, right? >> Yeah.
176:11 >> Yeah. >> That's like 1% of America. Like that's
176:13 >> That's like 1% of America. Like that's very low. Like like most men are like
176:15 very low. Like like most men are like 510, 5'11.
176:17 510, 5'11. >> Yes.
176:17 >> Yes. >> He was a German that I was tweeting at
176:19 >> He was a German that I was tweeting at that time.
176:20 that time. >> Yeah. We talked about him last night,
176:21 >> Yeah. We talked about him last night, too.
176:22 too. >> Yeah. Yeah. But um but but generally
176:26 >> Yeah. Yeah. But um but but generally speaking, like if you were to date, you
176:28 speaking, like if you were to date, you would be happy with a guy that's like 5
176:31 would be happy with a guy that's like 5 foot something.
176:32 foot something. >> Yeah. Five.
176:34 >> Yeah. Five. >> Yeah. Like high. The high five. Yeah.
176:36 >> Yeah. Like high. The high five. Yeah. Like it doesn't have to be six feet,
176:38 Like it doesn't have to be six feet, right?
176:39 right? >> That's for the short kings. That's for
176:40 >> That's for the short kings. That's for the short kings. I'm going around the
176:42 the short kings. I'm going around the table now. How about you? Like what's uh
176:45 table now. How about you? Like what's uh what's the shortest you would date?
176:47 what's the shortest you would date? >> Uh same as my I mean 5'2.
176:50 >> Uh same as my I mean 5'2. >> Five 5'2 is the shortest you would date.
176:52 >> Five 5'2 is the shortest you would date. How how tall are you?
176:54 How how tall are you? >> 52. 52 or 5 I'm not sure. 5
176:57 >> 52. 52 or 5 I'm not sure. 5 >> or 51.
177:00 >> or 51. >> You also have to factor in wearing high
177:01 >> You also have to factor in wearing high heels.
177:02 heels. >> 52.
177:02 >> 52. >> So if you wear high heels, you don't
177:03 >> So if you wear high heels, you don't want him to look shorter than you. So
177:05 want him to look shorter than you. So you'd probably go like 5'4 would be your
177:07 you'd probably go like 5'4 would be your minimum. You want to add a couple inches
177:09 minimum. You want to add a couple inches in case you wear high heels. He
177:14 in case you wear high heels. He >> Yeah. Yeah. Like ju just to be smart
177:15 >> Yeah. Yeah. Like ju just to be smart that way you don't feel like in photos
177:17 that way you don't feel like in photos you're like oh you know
177:20 you're like oh you know >> so so 5'4 would be a good height at the
177:22 >> so so 5'4 would be a good height at the minimum for you.
177:24 minimum for you. >> Yeah. Even if at the highest
177:26 >> Yeah. Even if at the highest >> Yeah.
177:27 >> Yeah. >> highest the
177:27 >> highest the >> and then and then how Yeah. Like what's
177:29 >> and then and then how Yeah. Like what's your range? So your range starts at 5'4
177:31 your range? So your range starts at 5'4 and it goes up to what?
177:33 and it goes up to what? >> Five.
177:33 >> Five. >> Would you date like like a 10 foot tall
177:35 >> Would you date like like a 10 foot tall man?
177:36 man? >> Not really.
177:37 >> Not really. >> I'm kidding. I know. So So how high
177:39 >> I'm kidding. I know. So So how high would you go? So 5'4 to
177:42 would you go? So 5'4 to >> 54 to
177:43 >> 54 to >> like 5'11.
177:44 >> like 5'11. >> 6 foot. No
177:45 >> 6 foot. No >> or 6 foot.
177:48 >> or 6 foot. >> I mean 510 below. Yeah, something like
177:52 >> I mean 510 below. Yeah, something like that. 510. Something like that.
177:54 that. 510. Something like that. >> How about you, Beia? What's the lowest
177:56 >> How about you, Beia? What's the lowest and the highest range for you?
177:58 and the highest range for you? >> Like my height? I think
178:00 >> Like my height? I think >> for of a man that you would date?
178:02 >> for of a man that you would date? >> 53, 56.
178:03 >> 53, 56. >> 5'6.
178:05 >> 5'6. >> And then what is the highest range?
178:07 >> And then what is the highest range? >> Like your height?
178:08 >> Like your height? >> Yeah. Yeah. So like 6'4.
178:11 >> Yeah. Yeah. So like 6'4. >> Yeah.
178:12 >> Yeah. >> Oh yeah.
178:12 >> Oh yeah. >> Okay. And how about you?
178:14 >> Okay. And how about you? >> Uh 512 to 5'8.
178:18 >> Uh 512 to 5'8. >> Okay.
178:18 >> Okay. >> Yeah. 51. Really though?
178:22 >> Yeah. 51. Really though? >> Yeah. Like like how tall are you?
178:24 >> Yeah. Like like how tall are you? >> Height mo? Ano? Height mo?
178:26 >> Height mo? Ano? Height mo? >> Five flat.
178:27 >> Five flat. >> You're You're 5'1.
178:28 >> You're You're 5'1. >> Five flat.
178:29 >> Five flat. >> Flat.
178:29 >> Flat. >> Oh, five flat. Okay. Okay. Yeah. Okay.
178:32 >> Oh, five flat. Okay. Okay. Yeah. Okay. So maybe make it 53 in case you wear
178:34 So maybe make it 53 in case you wear high heels,
178:35 high heels, >> you know. That way Yeah. That way he's
178:36 >> you know. That way Yeah. That way he's always taller. But um what do you think
178:40 always taller. But um what do you think if you date a guy and he puts like a
178:43 if you date a guy and he puts like a lift inside of his shoe to make him look
178:45 lift inside of his shoe to make him look taller?
178:47 taller? >> Do you think that's cheating?
178:49 >> Do you think that's cheating? >> Yeah. It's so disappointing, you know.
178:50 >> Yeah. It's so disappointing, you know. >> Yeah.
178:51 >> Yeah. >> Discourage.
178:53 >> Discourage. >> Yeah. Well, you need to put
178:56 >> Yeah. Well, you need to put >> What What What do you think about a guy
178:57 >> What What What do you think about a guy that wants to have his first date be at
178:59 that wants to have his first date be at a swimming pool so we can see what you
179:01 a swimming pool so we can see what you look like with no makeup?
179:02 look like with no makeup? >> Ah, it's okay with me.
179:04 >> Ah, it's okay with me. >> It's normal.
179:04 >> It's normal. >> Yeah. You don't really wear makeup.
179:06 >> Yeah. You don't really wear makeup. Really?
179:06 Really? >> Yeah. How about you? You guys would be
179:08 >> Yeah. How about you? You guys would be comfortable with him seeing you without
179:10 comfortable with him seeing you without makeup?
179:11 makeup? >> Yes.
179:12 >> Yes. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
179:13 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Even when you get older?
179:15 >> Even when you get older? >> Yes.
179:17 >> Yes. >> That's the reality.
179:20 >> That's the reality. >> You guys don't really wear that much
179:22 >> You guys don't really wear that much makeup. Like you're not really like
179:23 makeup. Like you're not really like taking it on. Like like do do girls wear
179:25 taking it on. Like like do do girls wear foundation?
179:26 foundation? >> I put only makeup.
179:27 >> I put only makeup. >> Yeah. Only lipstick.
179:28 >> Yeah. Only lipstick. >> Yeah, I wear lipstick. Yeah.
179:31 >> Yeah, I wear lipstick. Yeah. >> You guys aren't like crazy with the
179:32 >> You guys aren't like crazy with the makeup, so I can respect that.
179:34 makeup, so I can respect that. >> Yeah. But like when a girl wears a lot
179:36 >> Yeah. But like when a girl wears a lot of makeup, do you think it's fair that
179:38 of makeup, do you think it's fair that she would be upset if the guy wear lifts
179:40 she would be upset if the guy wear lifts in his shoes when she wears a lot of
179:42 in his shoes when she wears a lot of makeup? Do you think that's that's
179:44 makeup? Do you think that's that's unfair?
179:46 unfair? >> I think for the girl that they're not
179:47 >> I think for the girl that they're not going to
179:50 going to >> I don't know. I think a lot of girls
179:51 >> I don't know. I think a lot of girls like if you go on a dating app and the
179:53 like if you go on a dating app and the guy says he's 6'1 and then he takes his
179:55 guy says he's 6'1 and then he takes his shoes off and he's really 5'8, you're
179:57 shoes off and he's really 5'8, you're like what the
179:59 like what the So, but then the same thing happens with
180:01 So, but then the same thing happens with like guys, you know, like when they date
180:03 like guys, you know, like when they date a girl and then like
180:05 a girl and then like >> the next morning, you know,
180:11 >> it's really scary. And then it's even worse for like black guys because black
180:13 worse for like black guys because black girls wear wigs and weaves
180:15 girls wear wigs and weaves >> and all that stuff, right? So, you could
180:17 >> and all that stuff, right? So, you could be dating a girl and then she's bald and
180:19 be dating a girl and then she's bald and you didn't even know, you know? So, it's
180:21 you didn't even know, you know? So, it's like there's a whole other level of
180:23 like there's a whole other level of ratchet when it comes to that. So, yeah.
180:26 ratchet when it comes to that. So, yeah. So, generally speaking, just to recap
180:27 So, generally speaking, just to recap for the gentlemen that are watching, you
180:29 for the gentlemen that are watching, you guys don't really wear makeup.
180:32 guys don't really wear makeup. >> Yeah. So, to you, if a guy put lips in
180:34 >> Yeah. So, to you, if a guy put lips in his shoes,
180:35 his shoes, >> that's kind of cheating.
180:36 >> that's kind of cheating. >> Yeah. Okay,
180:37 >> Yeah. Okay, >> that that's fair. Okay.
180:39 >> that that's fair. Okay. >> Um,
180:41 >> Um, how important is a man's weight? Like,
180:44 how important is a man's weight? Like, how fat he is or not fat? Like, would
180:47 how fat he is or not fat? Like, would you ever date a guy that's big, you
180:49 you ever date a guy that's big, you know, fat guy or would you date like fit
180:52 know, fat guy or would you date like fit guy? Like, like what is your preference?
180:55 guy? Like, like what is your preference? Yeah, it's okay with me. It doesn't
180:56 Yeah, it's okay with me. It doesn't matter if he's fat or
181:00 matter if he's fat or >> Yeah. So, if he's got a little belly,
181:01 >> Yeah. So, if he's got a little belly, it's okay.
181:02 it's okay. >> Yeah, it's okay.
181:03 >> Yeah, it's okay. >> Much better you have a belly, you know.
181:05 >> Much better you have a belly, you know. >> Yeah.
181:05 >> Yeah. >> I don't know, man. When you go when you
181:07 >> I don't know, man. When you go when you go to the beach, though. When you go to
181:08 go to the beach, though. When you go to the beach, you know, you want all the
181:10 the beach, you know, you want all the other girls to be jealous.
181:12 other girls to be jealous. >> It was good cuz he's can he cannot run,
181:14 >> It was good cuz he's can he cannot run, you know. Wait,
181:17 you know. Wait, no. You You guys answered safe because
181:19 no. You You guys answered safe because if you would have said it mattered,
181:22 if you would have said it mattered, >> I was going to pull out my weight scale
181:23 >> I was going to pull out my weight scale and I was going to be like, "Okay,
181:24 and I was going to be like, "Okay, girls,
181:26 girls, >> come come tell me your weight."
181:28 >> come come tell me your weight." >> But you all answered correctly. You said
181:30 >> But you all answered correctly. You said weight doesn't really matter.
181:31 weight doesn't really matter. >> Yeah.
181:31 >> Yeah. >> I mean, I I personally think that any
181:33 >> I mean, I I personally think that any man watching this, if you're going to
181:34 man watching this, if you're going to come to the Philippines and you're a
181:36 come to the Philippines and you're a foreigner, don't be a fat Don't do
181:38 foreigner, don't be a fat Don't do it. Like, ew. You know, like, ew, don't
181:41 it. Like, ew. You know, like, ew, don't do that. But, uh, have some
181:43 do that. But, uh, have some dignity, you know? Um, so I'll give the
181:46 dignity, you know? Um, so I'll give the men because you didn't. Um, how
181:48 men because you didn't. Um, how important is attractiveness of their
181:50 important is attractiveness of their face?
181:53 face? >> No, face is doesn't matter for me. Uh,
181:56 >> No, face is doesn't matter for me. Uh, the person the smell.
181:58 the person the smell. >> Oh, okay.
181:59 >> Oh, okay. >> Yeah. Okay.
181:59 >> Yeah. Okay. >> The face. I don't care about the face,
182:01 >> The face. I don't care about the face, but you should be clean, you know.
182:03 but you should be clean, you know. >> Yeah.
182:04 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah.
182:05 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> I'm going to circle back to the smell
182:06 >> I'm going to circle back to the smell thing when I get finished these round
182:08 thing when I get finished these round here because there's actually something
182:09 here because there's actually something really interesting scientifically about
182:10 really interesting scientifically about that.
182:11 that. >> Uh, how about you?
182:12 >> Uh, how about you? >> Same.
182:13 >> Same. >> Smell.
182:13 >> Smell. >> Oh, yeah.
182:14 >> Oh, yeah. >> Yeah. So the face you don't really
182:15 >> Yeah. So the face you don't really >> Yeah. Yeah.
182:16 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> I mean, what if the guy like was like
182:18 >> I mean, what if the guy like was like like would you date an ugly guy? Like
182:21 like would you date an ugly guy? Like really?
182:21 really? >> Not really. I mean, just the
182:26 >> Not really. I mean, just the >> You should be neat, you know.
182:28 >> You should be neat, you know. >> Clean up.
182:30 >> Clean up. >> Yeah.
182:31 >> Yeah. >> So, no big beard.
182:33 >> So, no big beard. >> No, it's okay. It's okay. It's okay.
182:35 >> No, it's okay. It's okay. It's okay. >> As long as it's cleanish. Yeah.
182:37 >> As long as it's cleanish. Yeah. >> How about you?
182:38 >> How about you? >> Yeah. Same.
182:39 >> Yeah. Same. >> Same.
182:40 >> Same. >> And you?
182:41 >> And you? >> We're same.
182:41 >> We're same. >> Yeah. So, you're not superficial? Mhm.
182:43 >> Yeah. So, you're not superficial? Mhm. >> I think you probably are. There's what
182:45 >> I think you probably are. There's what you say and then there's what you really
182:46 you say and then there's what you really act upon.
182:48 act upon. >> But um Yeah. And then you guys are down
182:49 >> But um Yeah. And then you guys are down with facial hair. So what I was going to
182:51 with facial hair. So what I was going to say about the sweat thing is that that
182:54 say about the sweat thing is that that is a very subjective thing.
182:55 is a very subjective thing. >> Yes.
182:56 >> Yes. >> Because some men you'll think smell
182:57 >> Because some men you'll think smell disgusting and some men you'll be like
182:59 disgusting and some men you'll be like it's not so bad.
183:01 it's not so bad. >> You know, and it's it's not necessarily
183:04 >> You know, and it's it's not necessarily them. So in your DNA, I I don't know all
183:07 them. So in your DNA, I I don't know all the proper semantics and the proper
183:09 the proper semantics and the proper terms, but there's this thing in your
183:13 terms, but there's this thing in your DNA where there's five factors in it
183:16 DNA where there's five factors in it that relate to your immune system.
183:18 that relate to your immune system. >> So if you're low in this one and you're
183:22 >> So if you're low in this one and you're high in this one, for instance, you and
183:24 high in this one, for instance, you and and it it changes your body smell. Mhm.
183:27 and it it changes your body smell. Mhm. >> So if you're if you're low in this one
183:29 >> So if you're if you're low in this one and you're high in this one, you would
183:31 and you're high in this one, you would find the smell of a man attractive, if
183:34 find the smell of a man attractive, if he was high in the one that you are low
183:36 he was high in the one that you are low in,
183:37 in, >> if he had the opposite of you
183:39 >> if he had the opposite of you >> Mhm.
183:40 >> Mhm. >> with the DNA things that affect your
183:42 >> with the DNA things that affect your immune system, you would actually be
183:44 immune system, you would actually be more likely to bond with him and find it
183:47 more likely to bond with him and find it to be not gross.
183:49 to be not gross. So if a man had the exact same profile,
183:52 So if a man had the exact same profile, the same factors that you do, you might
183:54 the same factors that you do, you might find his body odor to be disgusting
183:56 find his body odor to be disgusting because he's the same. So that's why
183:59 because he's the same. So that's why women's smell is so important because
184:01 women's smell is so important because you make the babies. So it's important
184:03 you make the babies. So it's important for you to find the right mate to have a
184:05 for you to find the right mate to have a healthy baby.
184:06 healthy baby. >> And that's one of the things that God
184:07 >> And that's one of the things that God gave you to make you pick the right guy,
184:09 gave you to make you pick the right guy, which is another reason why dating apps
184:11 which is another reason why dating apps are garbage,
184:13 are garbage, >> you know. And then and then one thing
184:15 >> you know. And then and then one thing that happened too, um when women took
184:18 that happened too, um when women took birth control pills or the injections
184:20 birth control pills or the injections >> Mhm.
184:21 >> Mhm. >> it everything up as soon as they
184:24 >> it everything up as soon as they took the the birth control
184:25 took the the birth control >> Yeah.
184:27 >> Yeah. >> they they either thought all the guys
184:29 >> they they either thought all the guys smell good or all the guys smell bad.
184:31 smell good or all the guys smell bad. They were all out of whack. They were
184:33 They were all out of whack. They were out of balance.
184:34 out of balance. >> Ah.
184:34 >> Ah. >> So that's just another way that the
184:36 >> So that's just another way that the hormones mess you up. So when you Yeah.
184:38 hormones mess you up. So when you Yeah. So it's good to know, right? So if you
184:40 So it's good to know, right? So if you think a guy smells good, he's actually
184:41 think a guy smells good, he's actually more fit with if with you. Like when I
184:43 more fit with if with you. Like when I was younger, I dated an Iranian girl and
184:46 was younger, I dated an Iranian girl and uh she was about 41 and I think I was
184:47 uh she was about 41 and I think I was like in my 20s and yoga instructor,
184:50 like in my 20s and yoga instructor, absolutely gorgeous woman and um yeah,
184:54 absolutely gorgeous woman and um yeah, like she would smell my armpits a lot.
184:56 like she would smell my armpits a lot. She liked the smell of my armpits, you
184:58 She liked the smell of my armpits, you know, like some girls do that when
184:59 know, like some girls do that when you're making love and it's like
185:01 you're making love and it's like >> yeah,
185:01 >> yeah, >> that's just one of those things where
185:02 >> that's just one of those things where you know that you're chemically bonded
185:04 you know that you're chemically bonded to each other very well. So yeah.
185:08 to each other very well. So yeah. >> Yeah. Um not not to gross you guys out.
185:11 >> Yeah. Um not not to gross you guys out. Sorry.
185:12 Sorry. Um, how would you define like a
185:15 Um, how would you define like a successful man in order for him to be
185:17 successful man in order for him to be attractive? And I know we've kind of
185:18 attractive? And I know we've kind of gone over this a little bit, but I'm
185:20 gone over this a little bit, but I'm going to break down four factors. And
185:22 going to break down four factors. And I'm going to ask you if these are
185:23 I'm going to ask you if these are important to you. So, the first one is
185:26 important to you. So, the first one is charisma and confidence. Not arrogance,
185:29 charisma and confidence. Not arrogance, but confidence. Is confidence important?
185:31 but confidence. Is confidence important? If he's like,
185:33 If he's like, >> Yeah.
185:34 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. How about you?
185:36 >> Yeah. How about you? >> Yeah.
185:36 >> Yeah. >> Confidence is
185:37 >> Confidence is >> Yeah.
185:38 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Confident.
185:39 >> Yeah. Confident. >> How about you, Belle? Yeah. Um having
185:44 >> How about you, Belle? Yeah. Um having achievements in his life.
185:46 achievements in his life. >> Of course.
185:46 >> Of course. >> Yeah.
185:47 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Of course.
185:48 >> Yeah. Of course. >> Yeah.
185:49 >> Yeah. >> And then when they're young, it's more
185:51 >> And then when they're young, it's more like what you perceive they could
185:53 like what you perceive they could achieve cuz maybe they're young and they
185:55 achieve cuz maybe they're young and they haven't had achievements yet.
185:57 haven't had achievements yet. >> Yeah. Like you Yeah. Like like I think
185:59 >> Yeah. Like you Yeah. Like like I think women when when people are dating and
186:02 women when when people are dating and and tell me if you agree with this.
186:05 and tell me if you agree with this. women
186:08 women the potential to do. So even if he has
186:12 the potential to do. So even if he has no achievements yet, you can see that
186:14 no achievements yet, you can see that he's confident, he's got the smarts,
186:16 he's confident, he's got the smarts, he's a smart guy, he has the potential
186:18 he's a smart guy, he has the potential to do
186:20 to do >> it's more important, you know.
186:22 >> it's more important, you know. >> Do you think men think the same about a
186:24 >> Do you think men think the same about a woman?
186:28 >> I don't know. >> I don't think so. I'm not sure.
186:30 >> I don't think so. I'm not sure. >> Yeah. Men look at your past.
186:32 >> Yeah. Men look at your past. So you look at a man's future, we look
186:34 So you look at a man's future, we look at your past.
186:36 at your past. >> Yeah. Ah, okay.
186:38 >> Yeah. Ah, okay. >> Yeah. Because we want to know how clean
186:39 >> Yeah. Because we want to know how clean your clean you are. Like like mentally,
186:42 your clean you are. Like like mentally, emotionally, because every guy you date,
186:44 emotionally, because every guy you date, >> trauma, trauma, and we don't want to be
186:47 >> trauma, trauma, and we don't want to be cleaning up some other guy's
186:48 cleaning up some other guy's >> Yes. Yes. Yes.
186:50 >> Yes. Yes. Yes. >> And that's why body count really
186:51 >> And that's why body count really matters. You know, a guy will find out.
186:53 matters. You know, a guy will find out. And you know, to the men, what I've
186:55 And you know, to the men, what I've learned in my life, you know, if you're
186:56 learned in my life, you know, if you're a younger gentleman, um, always multiply
186:59 a younger gentleman, um, always multiply the number they give you by three.
187:02 the number they give you by three. So, yep. Yep. That's and that's been
187:05 So, yep. Yep. That's and that's been true in every situ single situation
187:07 true in every situ single situation because I've actually found out the
187:08 because I've actually found out the truth in a few of those situations after
187:10 truth in a few of those situations after the fact and it was always multiply by
187:11 the fact and it was always multiply by three. Uh, and then you know money. How
187:14 three. Uh, and then you know money. How important is money to you?
187:21 Don't worry about sounding superficial. Be honest.
187:24 Be honest. >> I don't know cuz if I have money, I
187:27 >> I don't know cuz if I have money, I share with my, you know.
187:28 share with my, you know. >> Fair. Oh, I know. But you share too
187:30 >> Fair. Oh, I know. But you share too much. We still got to talk about that
187:31 much. We still got to talk about that later, you know. Yeah.
187:33 later, you know. Yeah. >> That's why I lose a lot.
187:34 >> That's why I lose a lot. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Actually, do you
187:36 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Actually, do you want to do you want to mention that
187:38 want to do you want to mention that story? So, what happened to you in that?
187:39 story? So, what happened to you in that? So, you had a relationship with someone.
187:41 So, you had a relationship with someone. We're not going to say who.
187:42 We're not going to say who. >> Yeah. I had that and then I lost
187:44 >> Yeah. I had that and then I lost everything that I have.
187:46 everything that I have. >> Yeah. So, so
187:47 >> Yeah. So, so >> so I worked for
187:48 >> so I worked for >> And he was a Filipino.
187:49 >> And he was a Filipino. >> Yeah. He was Filipino.
187:50 >> Yeah. He was Filipino. >> So, what happened?
187:51 >> So, what happened? >> He took everything from me. Uh I was
187:53 >> He took everything from me. Uh I was working to other country before. It's
187:56 working to other country before. It's like 11 years. uh I spend that to
188:00 like 11 years. uh I spend that to >> earn that money you know and then I
188:02 >> earn that money you know and then I build my house and then some businesses
188:06 build my house and then some businesses I was busy to for collecting in that I
188:08 I was busy to for collecting in that I didn't know that my ex was collecting
188:12 didn't know that my ex was collecting everything. I just find out I was
188:14 everything. I just find out I was getting bankrupt.
188:15 getting bankrupt. >> Yeah. And then he bought land and he did
188:17 >> Yeah. And then he bought land and he did all
188:17 all >> Yeah. He bought land and house for her
188:20 >> Yeah. He bought land and house for her for his mistress.
188:22 for his mistress. >> Yeah.
188:23 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. And give iPhone and my cell
188:25 >> Yeah. Yeah. And give iPhone and my cell phone is only awful.
188:28 phone is only awful. >> Android.
188:29 >> Android. >> Yeah. That's brutal, man. That's brutal.
188:32 >> Yeah. That's brutal, man. That's brutal. >> Do you think that's like common?
188:34 >> Do you think that's like common? >> You know, like do you think Filipino men
188:36 >> You know, like do you think Filipino men do that?
188:37 do that? >> Mostly.
188:38 >> Mostly. >> Really? You think?
188:38 >> Really? You think? >> Yeah.
188:39 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
188:39 >> Yeah. >> Wow.
188:40 >> Wow. >> Cuz it's happened also to my past boss
188:42 >> Cuz it's happened also to my past boss and to my other friends. Same story.
188:45 and to my other friends. Same story. >> Wow. Have you ever heard of a foreigner
188:46 >> Wow. Have you ever heard of a foreigner doing that?
188:48 doing that? >> No.
188:48 >> No. >> No.
188:48 >> No. >> No.
188:49 >> No. >> No.
188:50 >> No. >> Not yet.
188:51 >> Not yet. >> We'll get deported. We'll get deported.
188:52 >> We'll get deported. We'll get deported. It's fear. Yeah.
188:54 It's fear. Yeah. >> Yeah.
188:54 >> Yeah. >> No, I'm kidding. We wouldn't do it
188:55 >> No, I'm kidding. We wouldn't do it anyway. I mean, at least I wouldn't.
188:57 anyway. I mean, at least I wouldn't. >> Um, do you think women date up or do
189:01 >> Um, do you think women date up or do they date down? So,
189:05 they date down? So, when you go for a guy,
189:09 when you go for a guy, is he going to be smarter than you?
189:12 is he going to be smarter than you? >> Pardon?
189:13 >> Pardon? >> Like, like if you date a guy, do you
189:14 >> Like, like if you date a guy, do you want him to be smarter than you?
189:17 want him to be smarter than you? If it's about
189:19 If it's about >> money at least
189:20 >> money at least >> or like like just in general like he's
189:22 >> or like like just in general like he's more capable like if something goes
189:23 more capable like if something goes wrong around the house he's like oh I
189:25 wrong around the house he's like oh I know how to fix that you know.
189:26 know how to fix that you know. >> Oh yeah definitely. Y
189:28 >> Oh yeah definitely. Y >> do you want a guy that's stronger than
189:30 >> do you want a guy that's stronger than you?
189:30 you? >> Of course I was thinking.
189:32 >> Of course I was thinking. >> Yeah. Obviously then you
189:34 >> Yeah. Obviously then you >> he protect me. Yeah.
189:38 >> he protect me. Yeah. >> Exactly. You know like do you want a guy
189:40 >> Exactly. You know like do you want a guy that makes more money than you?
189:42 that makes more money than you? >> Preferably.
189:42 >> Preferably. >> Yeah. Ideally. Yeah.
189:44 >> Yeah. Ideally. Yeah. >> Yeah. So
189:47 >> Yeah. So women date up.
189:49 women date up. >> Yeah.
189:50 >> Yeah. >> Like that's like dating up because
189:52 >> Like that's like dating up because you're here and you want the guy to be
189:54 you're here and you want the guy to be here.
189:55 here. >> Yeah.
189:55 >> Yeah. >> Oh yeah.
189:57 >> Oh yeah. >> What do you think men do? Do you think
189:58 >> What do you think men do? Do you think men date up or do they date down?
190:06 >> I think some of the men date down because some of the men will accept the
190:08 because some of the men will accept the girl.
190:09 girl. >> Some or most? Uh most most
190:13 >> Some or most? Uh most most especially
190:14 especially >> foreigner.
190:15 >> foreigner. >> Yeah.
190:16 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
190:17 >> Yeah. >> Well, I know you guys are beautiful in
190:18 >> Well, I know you guys are beautiful in your own way. I think a foreigner is
190:19 your own way. I think a foreigner is very lucky if he gets a Filipina. But
190:21 very lucky if he gets a Filipina. But yeah, I know I understand what you're
190:22 yeah, I know I understand what you're saying.
190:23 saying. >> Yeah. So, a guy dates down. So,
190:26 >> Yeah. So, a guy dates down. So, you know, like what kind of leverage
190:30 you know, like what kind of leverage like do you know what I mean when I say
190:31 like do you know what I mean when I say leverage?
190:33 leverage? >> No. Like um a bad example of leverage is
190:37 >> No. Like um a bad example of leverage is you tell me a secret
190:40 you tell me a secret and I say if you don't do what I want
190:43 and I say if you don't do what I want I'm going to tell everybody your secret.
190:45 I'm going to tell everybody your secret. >> That's leverage.
190:46 >> That's leverage. >> Or leverage is if you want to go to the
190:49 >> Or leverage is if you want to go to the bank and you want to get a loan,
190:52 bank and you want to get a loan, you say if I don't pay the loan, you can
190:54 you say if I don't pay the loan, you can take my house.
190:56 take my house. >> You know that's leverage, right? You can
190:58 >> You know that's leverage, right? You can leverage. Okay.
190:59 leverage. Okay. >> So,
191:00 >> So, >> a man has leverage more than a woman
191:02 >> a man has leverage more than a woman because he has all these things that are
191:05 because he has all these things that are better than the woman, right? like he is
191:08 better than the woman, right? like he is smarter, he's stronger, he's got more
191:10 smarter, he's stronger, he's got more money,
191:10 money, >> he has leverage because of those things.
191:13 >> he has leverage because of those things. >> And that, you know, and then also
191:16 >> And that, you know, and then also there's another factor too, like women,
191:19 there's another factor too, like women, whether they admit it or not, usually
191:21 whether they admit it or not, usually like a guy that is um attractive to
191:25 like a guy that is um attractive to other women.
191:28 other women. Like you don't want other women to think
191:29 Like you don't want other women to think that your guy is ugly, you know, like
191:31 that your guy is ugly, you know, like you know that if you see a guy and many
191:34 you know that if you see a guy and many other women like him, they have
191:36 other women like him, they have qualified him in their mind, you know,
191:38 qualified him in their mind, you know, like they have said without saying it,
191:40 like they have said without saying it, without telling you this, but you can
191:42 without telling you this, but you can tell that if they like him, then he must
191:46 tell that if they like him, then he must be a good guy. If five different girls
191:48 be a good guy. If five different girls you've seen him talk to, he's not
191:50 you've seen him talk to, he's not flirting. He's not doing anything wrong,
191:52 flirting. He's not doing anything wrong, >> but you can just tell that like these
191:54 >> but you can just tell that like these other women have qualified him and he's
191:57 other women have qualified him and he's he must be a good man if other women
191:59 he must be a good man if other women have qualified him. So now
192:02 have qualified him. So now >> men who have all those things then they
192:04 >> men who have all those things then they have more leverage in a relationship. So
192:06 have more leverage in a relationship. So if you do something bad and if he does
192:09 if you do something bad and if he does something bad
192:12 something bad he loses less.
192:20 But if you lose him, you lose a lot. So, who is the prize?
192:24 So, who is the prize? Is it the man or the woman?
192:27 Is it the man or the woman? But, uh, yeah. Yeah. I just, you know,
192:29 But, uh, yeah. Yeah. I just, you know, but, uh, I'm just demonstrating that if
192:32 but, uh, I'm just demonstrating that if you were West,
192:38 you know, you'd be like, you know, like, but no, you all agreed. Even though you
192:40 but no, you all agreed. Even though you might not like agreeing, but you do
192:42 might not like agreeing, but you do agree and like that you argue a
192:46 agree and like that you argue a very attractive to western men. That's
192:48 very attractive to western men. That's why I ask these questions. I'm not
192:50 why I ask these questions. I'm not trying to say
192:53 trying to say but uh I'm not being boastful, I swear.
192:57 but uh I'm not being boastful, I swear. >> Um
192:59 >> Um yeah. Okay, everybody asked that one. Um
193:01 yeah. Okay, everybody asked that one. Um okay.
193:03 okay. Yeah, that one's just boring question.
193:06 Yeah, that one's just boring question. Yeah, those are boring. Okay, let's see.
193:08 Yeah, those are boring. Okay, let's see. I got another
193:10 I got another Okay. Yeah. Okay, I'll ask this one. So
193:12 Okay. Yeah. Okay, I'll ask this one. So in a relationship, what do you think is
193:14 in a relationship, what do you think is more better? If the man approaches you
193:18 more better? If the man approaches you to ask you out or if you approach the
193:20 to ask you out or if you approach the man to ask him out?
193:22 man to ask him out? >> The man
193:23 >> The man >> if the man asked you out for you
193:26 >> if the man asked you out for you >> approach
193:27 >> approach >> I think you know that's that's good.
193:28 >> I think you know that's that's good. Like do would you what if you think the
193:31 Like do would you what if you think the man is not your type? Like would you
193:32 man is not your type? Like would you feel that that's gross like he's creepy?
193:34 feel that that's gross like he's creepy? Like
193:35 Like >> like do like you know cuz like you you
193:37 >> like do like you know cuz like you you get approached a lot as a girl like we
193:39 get approached a lot as a girl like we established that earlier. you reject
193:41 established that earlier. you reject many men.
193:42 many men. >> Mhm.
193:42 >> Mhm. >> You know, like, but if a man is
193:43 >> You know, like, but if a man is respectful and he approaches you, you
193:46 respectful and he approaches you, you know, like that doesn't get annoying if
193:47 know, like that doesn't get annoying if you get a million men approaching you
193:49 you get a million men approaching you all the time.
193:50 all the time. >> No, it's not.
193:52 >> No, it's not. >> You're still going to be respectful.
193:54 >> You're still going to be respectful. >> Yeah.
193:54 >> Yeah. >> You think?
193:55 >> You think? >> Yeah. But sometimes
193:56 >> Yeah. But sometimes >> mostly my respond is, "I'm sorry. I
193:59 >> mostly my respond is, "I'm sorry. I don't have a time, you know."
194:00 don't have a time, you know." >> But you'll still say it nicely and
194:01 >> But you'll still say it nicely and you'll say, "Okay." Yeah. Better luck
194:04 you'll say, "Okay." Yeah. Better luck next time. Get the out of my face.
194:06 next time. Get the out of my face. >> Yeah. I cannot say that. Hey, I don't
194:08 >> Yeah. I cannot say that. Hey, I don't want to date with you, you know.
194:09 want to date with you, you know. >> Yeah. And the reason why I ask you that
194:11 >> Yeah. And the reason why I ask you that is cuz in America
194:14 is cuz in America 86% so this is the mixed messages now.
194:17 86% so this is the mixed messages now. >> Okay.
194:18 >> Okay. >> 86% of women want the men to approach.
194:22 >> 86% of women want the men to approach. But 20% of US Gen Z women say that men
194:25 But 20% of US Gen Z women say that men approaching is always or usually a form
194:29 approaching is always or usually a form of harassment.
194:32 of harassment. >> If the man approaches them, they're
194:34 >> If the man approaches them, they're like, "That's harassment. Get away from
194:36 like, "That's harassment. Get away from me."
194:37 me." >> Yeah. And that's only 20%. But that
194:40 >> Yeah. And that's only 20%. But that means one in five.
194:43 means one in five. >> That makes things complicated. So what
194:45 >> That makes things complicated. So what men are doing in the west now is they're
194:46 men are doing in the west now is they're just not approaching anymore. Because if
194:48 just not approaching anymore. Because if you get that one girl that says
194:49 you get that one girl that says harassment in the Philippines, you could
194:52 harassment in the Philippines, you could use violence against women and children.
194:53 use violence against women and children. Boach.
194:54 Boach. >> Yeah. I had a friend, but that happens
194:56 >> Yeah. I had a friend, but that happens to him here. He was Australian.
194:58 to him here. He was Australian. >> Yeah. Well, I almost had it happen to me
195:00 >> Yeah. Well, I almost had it happen to me until I got her to sign a piece of
195:01 until I got her to sign a piece of paper, too. Yeah, it happens.
195:03 paper, too. Yeah, it happens. >> He had a case there in Elido.
195:06 >> He had a case there in Elido. >> Yeah. So
195:07 >> Yeah. So >> because of that, because of
195:08 >> because of that, because of >> and they always take the girl side,
195:10 >> and they always take the girl side, especially if it's a Filipina. Yeah.
195:12 especially if it's a Filipina. Yeah. >> So it's becoming, you know, and and I
195:14 >> So it's becoming, you know, and and I really think that women as they become
195:16 really think that women as they become more colonized in their mind from social
195:18 more colonized in their mind from social media.
195:19 media. >> Mhm.
195:20 >> Mhm. >> If you start to do what these Gen Z
195:22 >> If you start to do what these Gen Z girls
195:22 girls >> Yeah. Cuz someone's teaching them, you
195:24 >> Yeah. Cuz someone's teaching them, you know.
195:24 know. >> Yeah. Someone's teaching them that.
195:26 >> Yeah. Someone's teaching them that. >> Yeah.
195:26 >> Yeah. >> And it's usually other women.
195:30 >> And it's usually other women. Like, do you think women ever give each
195:32 Like, do you think women ever give each other honest good advice?
195:33 other honest good advice? >> No.
195:34 >> No. >> No. Okay. Like, do you think women ever
195:37 >> No. Okay. Like, do you think women ever call each other out when they do dumb
195:38 call each other out when they do dumb
195:40 >> What? >> Like, like if you see a girl making a
195:42 >> Like, like if you see a girl making a mistake, do you say, "Hey, don't do
195:44 mistake, do you say, "Hey, don't do that." Like, "Hey, you're being a slut."
195:46 that." Like, "Hey, you're being a slut." >> No. No. No.
195:47 >> No. No. No. >> No. You don't. You know.
195:49 >> No. You don't. You know. >> No.
195:50 >> No. >> No. But do you do it to your man? You
195:52 >> No. But do you do it to your man? You know, if your man is having a beer and
195:53 know, if your man is having a beer and you're like, "You already had a beer
195:54 you're like, "You already had a beer yesterday. You don't need one today."
195:56 yesterday. You don't need one today." You know, like,
195:57 You know, like, >> "Yeah, you will tell your man, but you
195:59 >> "Yeah, you will tell your man, but you won't tell women." So, do you think
196:01 won't tell women." So, do you think maybe women have such Tik Tok brain
196:03 maybe women have such Tik Tok brain because no woman is telling them the
196:05 because no woman is telling them the truth and what they need to hear?
196:06 truth and what they need to hear? >> Yeah, sometimes.
196:07 >> Yeah, sometimes. >> Yeah. And do you think that maybe if the
196:09 >> Yeah. And do you think that maybe if the future is female, that's a really bad
196:10 future is female, that's a really bad future?
196:12 future? >> Yeah.
196:12 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Do you think men should lead?
196:15 >> Yeah. Do you think men should lead? >> What
196:15 >> What >> do you think men should lead, you know,
196:17 >> do you think men should lead, you know, and and stop letting women
196:20 and and stop letting women >> like just you know?
196:22 >> like just you know? >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They need to do that
196:24 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They need to do that sometimes to the girls, you know.
196:26 sometimes to the girls, you know. >> It's coming. It's coming in America.
196:27 >> It's coming. It's coming in America. Yeah. Yeah, it's definitely
196:28 Yeah. Yeah, it's definitely >> sometimes girl is being blinded for what
196:31 >> sometimes girl is being blinded for what she's doing.
196:32 she's doing. >> Do you think that the church is probably
196:33 >> Do you think that the church is probably a good way to leverage that and get
196:36 a good way to leverage that and get women to fall in line?
196:39 women to fall in line? >> No, not really. Sorry.
196:41 >> No, not really. Sorry. >> Well, I got Bible verses ready to go
196:43 >> Well, I got Bible verses ready to go that I could prove otherwise. There's
196:45 that I could prove otherwise. There's some really good advice in the Bible
196:46 some really good advice in the Bible about women.
196:47 about women. >> Yeah, they have,
196:47 >> Yeah, they have, >> you know, and how they should be, you
196:49 >> you know, and how they should be, you know, like, do you think women should
196:50 know, like, do you think women should vote?
196:52 vote? >> Should
196:53 >> Should >> vote in politics?
196:55 >> vote in politics? >> Yeah.
196:55 >> Yeah. >> Why? when everything we just said, how
196:58 >> Why? when everything we just said, how women give bad advice, they're too
197:00 women give bad advice, they're too emotional,
197:01 emotional, >> all this bad stuff about women,
197:04 >> all this bad stuff about women, >> why wouldn't you just let your husband
197:05 >> why wouldn't you just let your husband vote for you? Like, you know what I
197:07 vote for you? Like, you know what I mean? Like, why wouldn't you just trust
197:08 mean? Like, why wouldn't you just trust your husband?
197:09 your husband? >> He's probably going to do the research
197:10 >> He's probably going to do the research better than you would.
197:12 better than you would. >> Because you might vote on your emotions
197:13 >> Because you might vote on your emotions and he would vote logic.
197:15 and he would vote logic. >> Ah, yeah.
197:16 >> Ah, yeah. >> You know, so do you think women So, I'll
197:19 >> You know, so do you think women So, I'll ask it again. Do you think women should
197:20 ask it again. Do you think women should vote?
197:22 vote? >> You still do?
197:23 >> You still do? >> Yeah.
197:28 Yeah, like in politics like voting. >> Yes,
197:31 >> Yes, >> I think the Okay. All right. I'll uh you
197:34 >> I think the Okay. All right. I'll uh you know, it's the show is about you. It's
197:37 know, it's the show is about you. It's not about me.
197:38 not about me. >> Um but I think you're wrong cuz I and I
197:41 >> Um but I think you're wrong cuz I and I think you know you're wrong, too,
197:42 think you know you're wrong, too, because women are too emotional. Like
197:43 because women are too emotional. Like you guys can't even decide in the
197:45 you guys can't even decide in the morning what you want to eat for dinner
197:48 morning what you want to eat for dinner because you need your emotions. You need
197:50 because you need your emotions. You need to know, oh, I'm craving this. But
197:58 for dinner, you'll be like, >> "I don't know yet."
197:58 >> "I don't know yet." >> You want the man to decide, right? You
198:00 >> You want the man to decide, right? You do. Like, if you go on a
198:03 do. Like, if you go on a >> Yeah.
198:03 >> Yeah. >> So, if you want to have somebody lead
198:05 >> So, if you want to have somebody lead the country,
198:07 the country, >> it's a man,
198:08 >> it's a man, >> shouldn't you let a man decide?
198:11 >> shouldn't you let a man decide? Do you really think that if you can't
198:13 Do you really think that if you can't even know what you're going to wear
198:14 even know what you're going to wear tomorrow, you don't even know what
198:16 tomorrow, you don't even know what you're going to eat for dinner, and you
198:19 you're going to eat for dinner, and you think you can decide the leader of your
198:21 think you can decide the leader of your country? Are you crazy?
198:24 country? Are you crazy? I thought you were laughing.
198:26 I thought you were laughing. >> Sorry.
198:28 >> Sorry. >> Ah, well, we'll move on from that. Um,
198:31 >> Ah, well, we'll move on from that. Um, okay. There's a bunch of questions I've
198:33 okay. There's a bunch of questions I've already asked. Um,
198:37 already asked. Um, oh,
198:39 oh, does it make you feel good and valid?
198:41 does it make you feel good and valid? Oh. Oh, yeah. See, it is getting
198:43 Oh. Oh, yeah. See, it is getting interesting. Eh, generally they are uh
198:47 interesting. Eh, generally they are uh Mr. May, Mr. Brad, they are generally
198:49 Mr. May, Mr. Brad, they are generally more um submissive. you'll find. But
198:52 more um submissive. you'll find. But then every once in a while they throw
198:53 then every once in a while they throw you a curveball. Like I I thought they
198:55 you a curveball. Like I I thought they would have agreed with me on the voting
198:56 would have agreed with me on the voting thing, you know. Um it it'll get more
198:59 thing, you know. Um it it'll get more interesting. I promise you. Um
199:02 interesting. I promise you. Um actually I I'll diverge right now to
199:04 actually I I'll diverge right now to keep it interesting. Um have you ever,
199:07 keep it interesting. Um have you ever, you know, um
199:11 you know, um liked a guy
199:13 liked a guy >> and uh you you you said no to him when
199:16 >> and uh you you you said no to him when he asked you out because you wanted to
199:17 he asked you out because you wanted to see if he would work harder.
199:20 see if he would work harder. You know, you wanted him to work a
199:21 You know, you wanted him to work a little bit harder to show he he really
199:23 little bit harder to show he he really likes you. So, you said no.
199:26 likes you. So, you said no. >> Maybe maybe even twice.
199:28 >> Maybe maybe even twice. >> Yeah.
199:28 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
199:29 >> Yeah. >> Cuz some of the girls, you know, they
199:31 >> Cuz some of the girls, you know, they want to know if you are
199:33 want to know if you are >> serious.
199:34 >> serious. >> Really serious. Or you just want to
199:36 >> Really serious. Or you just want to practice.
199:37 practice. >> Yeah.
199:37 >> Yeah. >> They have lot of foreigners here now in
199:39 >> They have lot of foreigners here now in Peru that
199:40 Peru that >> they will ask you. Okay.
199:42 >> they will ask you. Okay. >> Playboy.
199:42 >> Playboy. >> Yeah. Playboy. And then helicopter guy,
199:44 >> Yeah. Playboy. And then helicopter guy, you know.
199:45 you know. >> Yeah. Yeah.
199:46 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> They go everywhere. They will ask you
199:48 >> They go everywhere. They will ask you one time and then the other girls, you
199:51 one time and then the other girls, you know, was waiting for for her again to
199:53 know, was waiting for for her again to ask, then he never does.
199:55 ask, then he never does. >> Yeah.
199:56 >> Yeah. >> So, you need to think twice about that.
199:58 >> So, you need to think twice about that. >> How about you, Talia?
200:00 >> How about you, Talia? >> Yeah. Same as I answer.
200:02 >> Yeah. Same as I answer. >> And you already know what I'm going to
200:04 >> And you already know what I'm going to ask next cuz I already did it to you.
200:06 ask next cuz I already did it to you. How about you, Beia? You ever said no to
200:08 How about you, Beia? You ever said no to a guy just to see if he'll work for it?
200:11 a guy just to see if he'll work for it? >> Yes.
200:11 >> Yes. >> Yeah.
200:13 >> Yeah. >> How about you, Belle?
200:15 >> How about you, Belle? >> Yes.
200:16 >> Yes. >> Yeah. So, so what you're saying is that
200:18 >> Yeah. So, so what you're saying is that no can actually be yes.
200:26 >> If you say no >> cuz you want him to work for it.
200:28 >> cuz you want him to work for it. >> Mhm.
200:29 >> Mhm. >> No is actually yes sometimes.
200:31 >> No is actually yes sometimes. >> Yes.
200:32 >> Yes. >> Silence means
200:33 >> Silence means >> so now. Yeah. But then also too, like if
200:35 >> so now. Yeah. But then also too, like if a guy
200:37 a guy doesn't pick up the right signals,
200:40 doesn't pick up the right signals, he could go to jail for grape or
200:43 he could go to jail for grape or something cuz he could, you know, he
200:44 something cuz he could, you know, he could s au
200:47 could s au sexual assault, you know, like I can't
200:49 sexual assault, you know, like I can't say the word on YouTube.
200:50 say the word on YouTube. >> Yeah. Yeah.
200:50 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> So he So a man has to be very
200:54 >> So he So a man has to be very emotionally intelligent to know the
200:55 emotionally intelligent to know the difference, right?
200:56 difference, right? >> Mhm.
200:57 >> Mhm. >> So no can mean yes.
201:00 >> So no can mean yes. And I think even in some cases, yes can
201:02 And I think even in some cases, yes can mean no. Sometimes a girl will be too
201:03 mean no. Sometimes a girl will be too nice and she'll say yes, but she wants
201:05 nice and she'll say yes, but she wants to say no.
201:06 to say no. >> Yes.
201:06 >> Yes. >> And then she regrets it later, too.
201:08 >> And then she regrets it later, too. >> Mhm. Mhm. So,
201:09 >> Mhm. Mhm. So, >> it's happened a lot.
201:10 >> it's happened a lot. >> And women should vote.
201:14 >> And women should vote. >> I'm going to keep coming back to that
201:15 >> I'm going to keep coming back to that one, man, cuz you girls are crazy.
201:19 one, man, cuz you girls are crazy. So, yeah. Like, uh, men, you know, I I I
201:21 So, yeah. Like, uh, men, you know, I I I think that you're starting to see the
201:22 think that you're starting to see the picture. Men really are more emotionally
201:24 picture. Men really are more emotionally intelligent. Now, I'll go back on the
201:26 intelligent. Now, I'll go back on the script. Um, does does it make you feel
201:30 script. Um, does does it make you feel more validated when a hot guy asks you
201:34 more validated when a hot guy asks you out or he flirts with you? He likes your
201:36 out or he flirts with you? He likes your photos like like a really good-looking
201:38 photos like like a really good-looking guy,
201:39 guy, >> sexy man,
201:40 >> sexy man, >> and then
201:41 >> and then >> and you know he asks you out. Does it
201:42 >> and you know he asks you out. Does it make you feel like oh you get the
201:44 make you feel like oh you get the tingles, you know, you feel you feel
201:46 tingles, you know, you feel you feel beautiful. You feel beautiful when a
201:47 beautiful. You feel beautiful when a beautiful person asks you out.
201:49 beautiful person asks you out. >> I feel like I'm tickling, you know, but
201:51 >> I feel like I'm tickling, you know, but can think ah he's too handsome. Maybe he
201:53 can think ah he's too handsome. Maybe he wants to park with me.
201:55 wants to park with me. >> Yeah. Yeah.
201:56 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Well, yeah. It's cuz you're all like
201:58 >> Well, yeah. It's cuz you're all like you're uh you don't want to bang. Yeah.
202:01 you're uh you don't want to bang. Yeah. >> She's she's past her prime. But you know
202:03 >> She's she's past her prime. But you know what?
202:04 what? >> I still think you would be a good lady
202:06 >> I still think you would be a good lady to to have around. You know,
202:08 to to have around. You know, >> if you weren't willing to put out and
202:10 >> if you weren't willing to put out and and the guy is whenever he wants.
202:13 and the guy is whenever he wants. Then how can you be mad at him for
202:15 Then how can you be mad at him for cheating?
202:16 cheating? >> What? What
202:17 >> What? What >> would you be mad at a guy getting sex
202:18 >> would you be mad at a guy getting sex from someone else if you're not going to
202:20 from someone else if you're not going to give him sex?
202:20 give him sex? >> No, I'm not.
202:21 >> No, I'm not. >> Yeah. You you you'd allow him as long as
202:23 >> Yeah. You you you'd allow him as long as he doesn't embarrass you?
202:24 he doesn't embarrass you? >> Yeah. It's okay with me as long as he
202:27 >> Yeah. It's okay with me as long as he tell me, you know, that he back with
202:28 tell me, you know, that he back with someone else. I did that last my last
202:31 someone else. I did that last my last relationship last year
202:33 relationship last year >> um with the Dutch guy. I told you.
202:36 >> um with the Dutch guy. I told you. >> Yeah.
202:37 >> Yeah. >> And then uh I cuz I couldn't give him my
202:40 >> And then uh I cuz I couldn't give him my body, you know, so I let him to
202:43 body, you know, so I let him to with somebody else.
202:44 with somebody else. >> Okay.
202:44 >> Okay. >> But I still with him.
202:46 >> But I still with him. >> Yeah.
202:46 >> Yeah. >> Until he he surrender.
202:49 >> Until he he surrender. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Some guys, you know,
202:51 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Some guys, you know, some guys are willing to diverge and,
202:53 some guys are willing to diverge and, you know, have one girl for one thing
202:54 you know, have one girl for one thing and another girl for another thing.
202:56 and another girl for another thing. >> Yeah.
202:57 >> Yeah. >> You know, like there's some girls that
202:58 >> You know, like there's some girls that are there just for moral support.
203:00 are there just for moral support. There's other girls that are just there
203:01 There's other girls that are just there to
203:02 to >> Then there's other girls that'll like
203:03 >> Then there's other girls that'll like cook them dinner and take care of them
203:05 cook them dinner and take care of them and give them back rub like what you
203:06 and give them back rub like what you said.
203:06 said. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
203:07 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. That's that's cool, you know. So,
203:09 >> Yeah. That's that's cool, you know. So, so
203:11 so I guess I'll leave that one there for
203:13 I guess I'll leave that one there for now. Um, what was the question? What did
203:16 now. Um, what was the question? What did I ask? Uh, I kind of went down the
203:19 I ask? Uh, I kind of went down the rabbit hole with you a little bit. Um,
203:26 damn it. Damn it. That wasn't on the sheet. What did I ask you though? What
203:28 sheet. What did I ask you though? What was the first question there? Do you
203:30 was the first question there? Do you guys remember?
203:31 guys remember? >> Um, if you feel validated if that
203:34 >> Um, if you feel validated if that >> Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. Thank
203:35 >> Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Someone one out of four. One out of
203:38 you. Someone one out of four. One out of four. Okay. So do you do you feel kind
203:40 four. Okay. So do you do you feel kind of like more beautiful yourself more
203:42 of like more beautiful yourself more mand when when a man who is very
203:45 mand when when a man who is very attractive even if you're taken
203:47 attractive even if you're taken >> when someone attractive flirts with you
203:48 >> when someone attractive flirts with you or
203:49 or >> Yeah I will feel that way but I'm just
203:53 >> Yeah I will feel that way but I'm just kind of think that it is impossible if
203:56 kind of think that it is impossible if he just want to have sex with you or
204:00 he just want to have sex with you or >> Yeah. But you don't know you don't know
204:01 >> Yeah. But you don't know you don't know what his intentions are you know
204:03 what his intentions are you know >> it is impossible he's too handsome and
204:06 >> it is impossible he's too handsome and you know Yeah.
204:07 you know Yeah. >> Yeah. No. Okay. Actually, that's a good
204:09 >> Yeah. No. Okay. Actually, that's a good question. So, if a guy is too handsome
204:10 question. So, if a guy is too handsome for you, you then you would be insecure.
204:12 for you, you then you would be insecure. >> Yeah. Yeah.
204:13 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Cuz then you'd have more
204:14 >> Yeah. Cuz then you'd have more competition.
204:15 competition. >> Okay. It's going to get more
204:16 >> Okay. It's going to get more interesting, Brad.
204:18 interesting, Brad. >> No, it will. My next round of questions
204:20 >> No, it will. My next round of questions is going to be interesting. Uh how about
204:22 is going to be interesting. Uh how about you? Makes you feel validated when
204:23 you? Makes you feel validated when you're uh you feel beautiful when a hot
204:25 you're uh you feel beautiful when a hot man says, "Hey, baby."
204:27 man says, "Hey, baby." >> It's a compliment to me, but I just
204:29 >> It's a compliment to me, but I just ignore him. Even if it's hot, handsome,
204:33 ignore him. Even if it's hot, handsome, >> but you're like,
204:34 >> but you're like, >> you know, you get a little
204:37 >> you know, you get a little >> killing on a little strut, you know.
204:41 >> killing on a little strut, you know. How about you?
204:43 How about you? >> I think I know.
204:45 >> I think I know. >> I think it's not true. If you if you say
204:49 >> I think it's not true. If you if you say you're beautiful.
204:50 you're beautiful. >> Yeah.
204:51 >> Yeah. >> I think they have
204:55 >> I think they have >> But he's got like panda. He's got
204:58 >> But he's got like panda. He's got >> he out through something.
205:00 >> he out through something. >> Yeah, he has pandaell abs,
205:02 >> Yeah, he has pandaell abs, >> you know.
205:04 >> you know. >> And he's like, "Hey, how you doing?"
205:11 >> You just ignore. >> Yes, I ignore.
205:13 >> Yes, I ignore. >> You would you assume it's only for sex?
205:15 >> You would you assume it's only for sex? Like that's why like he just wants to
205:18 Like that's why like he just wants to try to you. Is that why you think
205:20 try to you. Is that why you think you think if he's good-looking and he
205:21 you think if he's good-looking and he says hello to you, you think he only
205:23 says hello to you, you think he only wants sex? Oh,
205:43 sex. Yes. >> If you guys were dating a guy for a
205:45 >> If you guys were dating a guy for a couple weeks and that guy came along and
205:48 couple weeks and that guy came along and he he made you feel butterflies
205:51 he he made you feel butterflies and you're only dating your guy for a
205:53 and you're only dating your guy for a couple weeks. Mhm.
205:55 couple weeks. Mhm. >> And you could have sex with that really
205:56 >> And you could have sex with that really hot guy and nobody would know. You go to
205:59 hot guy and nobody would know. You go to a lodge, nobody knows.
206:01 a lodge, nobody knows. >> Boy,
206:02 >> Boy, >> would you?
206:04 >> would you? >> No.
206:05 >> No. >> No. But you're not really down with all
206:08 >> No. But you're not really down with all the all the kitus, all the uh sexy time.
206:12 the all the kitus, all the uh sexy time. How about you, Talia? If if you were
206:14 How about you, Talia? If if you were only dating for a few weeks, so it's not
206:16 only dating for a few weeks, so it's not your current boyfriend,
206:17 your current boyfriend, >> just for a few weeks, and all of a
206:18 >> just for a few weeks, and all of a sudden this guy comes out of nowhere and
206:21 sudden this guy comes out of nowhere and like you've only had sex with the with
206:23 like you've only had sex with the with the new guy, you know, a couple times
206:25 the new guy, you know, a couple times and then this super handsome surfer guy
206:27 and then this super handsome surfer guy comes and he's like, "What's up? I'm
206:29 comes and he's like, "What's up? I'm from Australia. I'm leaving tomorrow.
206:34 from Australia. I'm leaving tomorrow. Would you
206:34 Would you >> nights then?"
206:36 >> nights then?" >> Yeah. And then he's going to be gone and
206:38 >> Yeah. And then he's going to be gone and no one will ever know. And he's like, "I
206:41 no one will ever know. And he's like, "I don't use Facebook." So, like nobody
206:43 don't use Facebook." So, like nobody will know. There'll be no connection, no
206:45 will know. There'll be no connection, no evidence. Nobody will know.
206:49 evidence. Nobody will know. >> And you've only been dating the whatever
206:51 >> And you've only been dating the whatever guy for two weeks, the one that you were
206:52 guy for two weeks, the one that you were dating. Would you cheat?
206:53 dating. Would you cheat? >> Uh, you're just dating, but you're not
206:55 >> Uh, you're just dating, but you're not official yet. I mean,
206:57 official yet. I mean, >> yeah, like uh maybe you're not official,
206:59 >> yeah, like uh maybe you're not official, but you you will be official with that
207:02 but you you will be official with that other guy.
207:02 other guy. >> I think it depends if you want if you
207:05 >> I think it depends if you want if you want to hang out with that
207:07 want to hang out with that >> the guy that you're dating for two
207:08 >> the guy that you're dating for two weeks. You totally want his babies and
207:10 weeks. You totally want his babies and you totally think you're going to marry
207:11 you totally think you're going to marry him one day.
207:12 him one day. >> I know.
207:12 >> I know. >> But you have this one shot. You have
207:15 >> But you have this one shot. You have this one shot with like Thor from the
207:18 this one shot with like Thor from the Marvel movies or you know, I don't know.
207:20 Marvel movies or you know, I don't know. Pick your guy.
207:21 Pick your guy. >> No, I will.
207:23 >> No, I will. >> I will not. No,
207:24 >> I will not. No, >> I will not.
207:25 >> I will not. >> How about you be?
207:27 >> How about you be? >> No, because I haven't tried. I don't
207:29 >> No, because I haven't tried. I don't >> Ah, come on.
207:31 >> Ah, come on. >> Okay. Okay. Let's say he's a he's a
207:33 >> Okay. Okay. Let's say he's a he's a celebrity Filipino.
207:35 celebrity Filipino. >> Yes.
207:36 >> Yes. He's the guy at the Dunkin Donuts guy.
207:39 He's the guy at the Dunkin Donuts guy. >> I don't know the these guys.
207:41 >> I don't know the these guys. >> It's like what I said. If he it if it's
207:44 >> It's like what I said. If he it if it's hot, if it's handsome, I don't care.
207:47 hot, if it's handsome, I don't care. >> You
207:47 >> You >> I just ignore him cuz I don't have time
207:50 >> I just ignore him cuz I don't have time on that.
207:51 on that. >> Okay.
207:51 >> Okay. >> I just find my
207:53 >> I just find my >> true love.
207:54 >> true love. >> True love.
207:55 >> True love. >> Someday soon.
207:56 >> Someday soon. >> You're pretty loyal. Okay, that's cool.
207:58 >> You're pretty loyal. Okay, that's cool. >> That he will marry me.
208:01 >> That he will marry me. >> Okay. Okay. How about you? Nobody will
208:06 >> Okay. Okay. How about you? Nobody will know.
208:06 know. >> No,
208:07 >> No, >> nobody will know.
208:12 >> No, >> no.
208:15 >> no. >> I I find a a good guy.
208:18 >> I I find a a good guy. >> Okay. He could be a good guy. Maybe he
208:21 >> Okay. He could be a good guy. Maybe he fall in love with you. And he's like,
208:22 fall in love with you. And he's like, "Oh,
208:24 "Oh, >> amazing."
208:26 >> amazing." >> All right. Now, let's change it around.
208:29 >> All right. Now, let's change it around. You've been with a guy. You found the
208:31 You've been with a guy. You found the good guy. You found the good guy. You
208:34 good guy. You found the good guy. You know he's good. He's really good. You
208:37 know he's good. He's really good. You love the guy. You're gonna marry the
208:38 love the guy. You're gonna marry the guy. You're engaged.
208:40 guy. You're engaged. Life is good. You hardly ever have a bad
208:43 Life is good. You hardly ever have a bad fight. And then he says, "Oh, uh, my
208:46 fight. And then he says, "Oh, uh, my friend Bob, he's in he's in from out of
208:48 friend Bob, he's in he's in from out of town. He come from Canada. He's visiting
208:50 town. He come from Canada. He's visiting me right now. Uh, I'm just going to go
208:53 me right now. Uh, I'm just going to go out and we're going to go to Tiki Bar
208:55 out and we're going to go to Tiki Bar just for one night, you know, hang out
208:57 just for one night, you know, hang out at Tiki Bar."
208:57 at Tiki Bar." >> Okay. And it's it's ladies night, you
209:00 >> Okay. And it's it's ladies night, you know, but he's going to go there with
209:01 know, but he's going to go there with his friend because he wants to help his
209:03 his friend because he wants to help his friend get, you know, some some some
209:05 friend get, you know, some some some pun.
209:06 pun. >> And uh would you trust him around all
209:09 >> And uh would you trust him around all those women?
209:11 those women? >> It's depend on your relationship, you
209:14 >> It's depend on your relationship, you know.
209:14 know. >> Yeah. But he's the good guy. He's the
209:15 >> Yeah. But he's the good guy. He's the one you like.
209:16 one you like. >> Yeah,
209:16 >> Yeah, >> of course. I will trust I trust the guy.
209:19 >> of course. I will trust I trust the guy. Yeah. Because if you know that he's a
209:21 Yeah. Because if you know that he's a good man,
209:22 good man, >> of course you will.
209:23 >> of course you will. >> You will.
209:26 >> You will. >> Would you trust the women? No,
209:30 >> Would you trust the women? No, >> depends.
209:30 >> depends. >> Like the flirty woman, I don't trust
209:32 >> Like the flirty woman, I don't trust him.
209:32 him. >> I don't trust them, you know. But I
209:35 >> I don't trust them, you know. But I trust my guy cuz it's depend on him.
209:38 trust my guy cuz it's depend on him. Even the girl was so flirty and then
209:41 Even the girl was so flirty and then even she open her panty and all.
209:44 even she open her panty and all. >> If the guy doesn't want
209:46 >> If the guy doesn't want >> it's not going to happen.
209:48 >> it's not going to happen. >> So I trust my guy.
209:50 >> So I trust my guy. >> There are limited
209:51 >> There are limited >> limitation.
209:53 >> limitation. >> Yeah. So you definitely trust the guy,
209:54 >> Yeah. So you definitely trust the guy, but you don't trust the women. Yes.
209:57 but you don't trust the women. Yes. >> Okay. So, if you don't trust women, why
210:00 >> Okay. So, if you don't trust women, why the should men trust women?
210:08 >> They don't have they don't have a choice, you know?
210:09 choice, you know? >> I think if the man I mean, if the man
210:11 >> I think if the man I mean, if the man like women, they should just
210:16 like women, they should just >> Yeah. But women are very emotional and
210:19 >> Yeah. But women are very emotional and women do initiate like 90% of divorces.
210:22 women do initiate like 90% of divorces. >> Mhm. you know, and then they're willing
210:24 >> Mhm. you know, and then they're willing to use the kids as as a extortion, you
210:26 to use the kids as as a extortion, you know, like we've already been over this
210:28 know, like we've already been over this a few times,
210:29 a few times, >> but uh yeah, you know, so women I think
210:32 >> but uh yeah, you know, so women I think women are very risky these days.
210:34 women are very risky these days. >> Yeah. because they initiate so many
210:36 >> Yeah. because they initiate so many separations. They I think that because
210:38 separations. They I think that because they have so many opportunities,
210:40 they have so many opportunities, especially if you live in a tourist zone
210:43 especially if you live in a tourist zone like uh Chara,
210:45 like uh Chara, you know, if you date a girl from Angela
210:47 you know, if you date a girl from Angela City
210:47 City >> Mhm.
210:48 >> Mhm. >> she probably has many different secret
210:49 >> she probably has many different secret boyfriends and she's going to cheat. I
210:52 boyfriends and she's going to cheat. I think women are much more deceptive and
210:54 think women are much more deceptive and I think women are better at lying. Do
210:55 I think women are better at lying. Do you Do you think women are better at at
210:57 you Do you think women are better at at lying?
210:58 lying? >> Yeah.
210:58 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. So, so now you know, so back to
211:02 >> Yeah. So, so now you know, so back to circle back. I mean, men should probably
211:04 circle back. I mean, men should probably not trust women so easy,
211:06 not trust women so easy, >> right?
211:07 >> right? >> Cuz they have they called white lies and
211:10 >> Cuz they have they called white lies and bad lies, you know?
211:11 bad lies, you know? >> Yeah. There's white lies and then
211:13 >> Yeah. There's white lies and then there's
211:15 there's there's there's a difference there.
211:16 there's there's a difference there. >> Sometimes white lies not to hurt them
211:19 >> Sometimes white lies not to hurt them feelings, you know.
211:22 feelings, you know. >> Yeah. So basically roll the story on
211:25 >> Yeah. So basically roll the story on that one is that no matter where you go
211:27 that one is that no matter where you go in the world, there are certain
211:29 in the world, there are certain attributes that are univers uh
211:32 attributes that are univers uh universal. It's an AW sandwich.
211:37 universal. It's an AW sandwich. Aw, I always say it on every show. It
211:40 Aw, I always say it on every show. It means all women are like that, you know.
211:43 means all women are like that, you know. So there's certain aspects to femininity
211:47 So there's certain aspects to femininity that all women, no matter where you go,
211:49 that all women, no matter where you go, you go to Nigeria, you go to Japan, you
211:51 you go to Nigeria, you go to Japan, you go to America, you go New Zealand, they
211:53 go to America, you go New Zealand, they are all the same in some ways.
211:55 are all the same in some ways. >> Mhm.
211:56 >> Mhm. >> Deceptive,
211:58 >> Deceptive, white lies, whatever you want to call
211:59 white lies, whatever you want to call it, you know, like just it was
212:03 it, you know, like just it was only once, I swear, you know, like
212:05 only once, I swear, you know, like whatever. And they never admit to things
212:08 whatever. And they never admit to things unless they're caught.
212:10 unless they're caught. >> Uhhuh.
212:11 >> Uhhuh. >> And in my experience, women
212:14 >> And in my experience, women Unless they really up, they never
212:18 Unless they really up, they never apologize. They never admit guilt unless
212:21 apologize. They never admit guilt unless they like
212:22 they like >> Do you get that?
212:23 >> Do you get that? >> Like like even if you catch them and you
212:25 >> Like like even if you catch them and you catch them by looking at their phone,
212:26 catch them by looking at their phone, they're like, "Why were you looking at
212:27 they're like, "Why were you looking at my phone?
212:28 my phone? >> Why don't you respect me?" And it's
212:29 >> Why don't you respect me?" And it's like, "Yeah, but I saw the dickpick."
212:31 like, "Yeah, but I saw the dickpick." Yeah. Well, you know, you know, like
212:34 Yeah. Well, you know, you know, like they just they argue to the end, you
212:36 they just they argue to the end, you know, like you know? So,
212:39 know, like you know? So, >> yeah. So yeah, I think if women can't
212:41 >> yeah. So yeah, I think if women can't trust women, then men have to be very
212:43 trust women, then men have to be very careful, too. Um, how do you feel about
212:46 careful, too. Um, how do you feel about um letting your your man know the pin
212:49 um letting your your man know the pin code to your phone?
212:51 code to your phone? >> Yeah, it means you didn't do anything
212:53 >> Yeah, it means you didn't do anything wrong, you know?
212:54 wrong, you know? >> Yeah,
212:55 >> Yeah, >> you're not cheating.
212:56 >> you're not cheating. >> Sometimes it can be complicated though,
212:57 >> Sometimes it can be complicated though, like I mean, do you think it should be
212:59 like I mean, do you think it should be both ways or one way?
213:02 both ways or one way? Well, it's depend on your
213:05 Well, it's depend on your >> Yeah, but when women are so deceptive
213:06 >> Yeah, but when women are so deceptive and men are less deceptive,
213:08 and men are less deceptive, >> I think much better if you agree that
213:11 >> I think much better if you agree that both ways, you know.
213:12 both ways, you know. >> Yeah. But do you think maybe women
213:13 >> Yeah. But do you think maybe women sometimes see things that are
213:16 sometimes see things that are but they have their feelings and then
213:17 but they have their feelings and then they get mad at the guy for nothing?
213:19 they get mad at the guy for nothing? >> Mhm.
213:19 >> Mhm. >> Like how do you think a girl if I gave
213:21 >> Like how do you think a girl if I gave her my pin code on my phone and she was
213:23 her my pin code on my phone and she was able to look at my Facebook messages and
213:25 able to look at my Facebook messages and I'm doing casting for a show with women
213:27 I'm doing casting for a show with women about dating
213:28 about dating >> Mhm. Can you imagine how many arguments
213:30 >> Mhm. Can you imagine how many arguments I would have every day with that
213:32 I would have every day with that girl?
213:32 girl? >> Yeah.
213:33 >> Yeah. >> Like can you imagine my life would be
213:34 >> Like can you imagine my life would be hell?
213:35 hell? >> Cuz like I have to flirt with you guys a
213:37 >> Cuz like I have to flirt with you guys a little bit to show you I'm not a creo.
213:38 little bit to show you I'm not a creo. Like I like Hey.
213:39 Like I like Hey. >> Oh yeah.
213:40 >> Oh yeah. >> You know I I only take Mand girls to the
213:42 >> You know I I only take Mand girls to the show, you know? Like you're you know,
213:44 show, you know? Like you're you know, come on. You know,
213:46 come on. You know, >> and and then I spend time with you after
213:47 >> and and then I spend time with you after the show, too. Like we had dinner the
213:49 the show, too. Like we had dinner the other night and like so and I had to go
213:51 other night and like so and I had to go to the bar to meet you. And like if I
213:53 to the bar to meet you. And like if I have a girlfriend, that's going to be
213:54 have a girlfriend, that's going to be very hard if I give her the pin code to
213:56 very hard if I give her the pin code to my phone. But if I date a girl, I sure
213:58 my phone. But if I date a girl, I sure as expect to get her pin code.
214:00 as expect to get her pin code. >> Yeah,
214:00 >> Yeah, >> that's fair, right?
214:01 >> that's fair, right? >> Yeah.
214:02 >> Yeah. >> Yes, that's true. If you
214:03 >> Yes, that's true. If you >> But sometimes code to me, I will give it
214:05 >> But sometimes code to me, I will give it to you.
214:06 to you. >> Yeah.
214:06 >> Yeah. >> But it it shouldn't even be asked. It
214:09 >> But it it shouldn't even be asked. It should just be like,
214:10 should just be like, >> "Honey, my pin code is this."
214:12 >> "Honey, my pin code is this." >> Oh, yeah.
214:12 >> Oh, yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Like, like the guy should
214:14 >> Yeah. Yeah. Like, like the guy should never have to ask.
214:15 never have to ask. >> Yeah.
214:15 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
214:18 >> Yeah. >> That's interesting. You see how you see
214:19 >> That's interesting. You see how you see how the differences are? Can you imagine
214:21 how the differences are? Can you imagine a western girl, Brad? Oh, we got we got
214:24 a western girl, Brad? Oh, we got we got we got my other buddy here. We got two
214:26 we got my other buddy here. We got two buddies here.
214:27 buddies here. >> Yeah.
214:28 >> Yeah. >> This is like university for the girls
214:30 >> This is like university for the girls wrapped up in 2 hours, not four years.
214:32 wrapped up in 2 hours, not four years. Yeah, it's actually 3 hours cuz they
214:34 Yeah, it's actually 3 hours cuz they were half an hour late. So, we're going
214:36 were half an hour late. So, we're going to go another
214:38 to go another half an hour. I'm going to punish them
214:40 half an hour. I'm going to punish them an extra 10 minutes and um yeah, it's
214:43 an extra 10 minutes and um yeah, it's supposed to be a three-hour show. In the
214:45 supposed to be a three-hour show. In the future, when I get more comfortable
214:47 future, when I get more comfortable chairs, if anybody wants to super chat
214:48 chairs, if anybody wants to super chat me, uh I can maybe buy better chairs in
214:51 me, uh I can maybe buy better chairs in the future. And I'm just going to say
214:52 the future. And I'm just going to say again, I said it at the beginning of the
214:54 again, I said it at the beginning of the show, this may be the last episode for a
214:56 show, this may be the last episode for a little while. I'm trying to do it once a
214:57 little while. I'm trying to do it once a week. I ran out of budget for my
215:00 week. I ran out of budget for my investor. So, um, this could be it for a
215:04 investor. So, um, this could be it for a little while. So, if anybody wants a
215:05 little while. So, if anybody wants a super chat, I usually drop about 200 US
215:08 super chat, I usually drop about 200 US per show out of my own pocket. And I
215:10 per show out of my own pocket. And I haven't made a single super chat in my
215:12 haven't made a single super chat in my life. So, just putting it out there,
215:14 life. So, just putting it out there, Brad. I'm not telling you. I'm saying
215:16 Brad. I'm not telling you. I'm saying this because on a future recording or on
215:19 this because on a future recording or on a future viewer after this show is
215:20 a future viewer after this show is published. I'm really not saying it to
215:22 published. I'm really not saying it to you, Brad. I'm not. If anyone watches
215:25 you, Brad. I'm not. If anyone watches this show, it's getting cringed now. If
215:27 this show, it's getting cringed now. If anybody watches this show in the future,
215:29 anybody watches this show in the future, that link at the bottom, uh, pho
215:31 that link at the bottom, uh, pho Republic.com/TS,
215:33 Republic.com/TS, you can actually do that while I'm not
215:35 you can actually do that while I'm not online when I'm not live streaming and
215:38 online when I'm not live streaming and I'll still get it and then I can read
215:39 I'll still get it and then I can read your chat on the next episode. So, just
215:42 your chat on the next episode. So, just like earlier, I had a voicemail from
215:43 like earlier, I had a voicemail from somebody, too, on a previous episode.
215:45 somebody, too, on a previous episode. All right, let's see what Mike Slayer
215:47 All right, let's see what Mike Slayer says. So, so true. These girls are going
215:50 says. So, so true. These girls are going to learn more in two. Yeah. Yeah. I
215:52 to learn more in two. Yeah. Yeah. I think both of you boys would actually I
215:54 think both of you boys would actually I I Brad Brad, do I know you in person?
215:57 I Brad Brad, do I know you in person? Have I met you? Um, but I know Mike
216:01 Have I met you? Um, but I know Mike Slayer personally, and I think he's a
216:02 Slayer personally, and I think he's a great person, and I think you two would
216:03 great person, and I think you two would get along on a lot. But, uh, all right,
216:06 get along on a lot. But, uh, all right, let's let's keep moving on. Let's keep
216:07 let's let's keep moving on. Let's keep moving on. Um,
216:11 moving on. Um, okay. We're going to go back on the
216:13 okay. We're going to go back on the script.
216:15 script. Yeah. So, you guys have met guys on
216:18 Yeah. So, you guys have met guys on social media. You've you've kind of
216:20 social media. You've you've kind of dated. You had a little moment dating a
216:22 dated. You had a little moment dating a guy that you met, whether it was through
216:24 guy that you met, whether it was through a dating app or social media. How did it
216:26 a dating app or social media. How did it go? Like, what was the
216:29 go? Like, what was the how did it go when you met somebody
216:30 how did it go when you met somebody online versus when you meet them in real
216:33 online versus when you meet them in real life? Like, do you have a better
216:35 life? Like, do you have a better connection when you meet them in real
216:36 connection when you meet them in real life?
216:38 life? That one. I cannot answer that one cuz I
216:40 That one. I cannot answer that one cuz I never tried that one. Met online.
216:42 never tried that one. Met online. >> Okay. But you never had a guy message
216:43 >> Okay. But you never had a guy message you on Facebook and say, "Hey, I want to
216:44 you on Facebook and say, "Hey, I want to buy you dinner."
216:45 buy you dinner." >> Yeah, they have, but I never entertained
216:48 >> Yeah, they have, but I never entertained them.
216:48 them. >> Ah, okay. How about you girls? How does
216:51 >> Ah, okay. How about you girls? How does it go? Like, do you do you have better
216:52 it go? Like, do you do you have better better luck meeting in real life or have
216:54 better luck meeting in real life or have you had good luck with dating apps? I
216:56 you had good luck with dating apps? I asked you about this earlier, but I'm
216:57 asked you about this earlier, but I'm just coming back.
216:58 just coming back. >> I think in real life.
217:00 >> I think in real life. >> Yeah,
217:00 >> Yeah, >> cuz you know it's more like more fun
217:03 >> cuz you know it's more like more fun >> to meet that guy in person.
217:05 >> to meet that guy in person. >> Yeah.
217:05 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Me, too. Yeah.
217:06 >> Yeah. Me, too. Yeah. >> But my husband, I met him online.
217:09 >> But my husband, I met him online. >> Okay.
217:10 >> Okay. >> Yeah.
217:10 >> Yeah. >> And then that How long did that
217:11 >> And then that How long did that relationship last?
217:13 relationship last? >> My husband?
217:14 >> My husband? >> Yeah.
217:15 >> Yeah. >> Like two to three years.
217:17 >> Like two to three years. >> Oh.
217:23 >> Oh, wrong one. >> Wrong button.
217:28 >> That's two farts. All right. There we go.
217:29 go. >> And so I think
217:32 >> And so I think >> Yeah. Go ahead.
217:34 >> Yeah. Go ahead. I just cut somebody off.
217:36 I just cut somebody off. >> Talia. Okay. What were you saying?
217:37 >> Talia. Okay. What were you saying? >> And I think it's also more um memorable
217:41 >> And I think it's also more um memorable for me if you meet that person
217:43 for me if you meet that person >> in personal in person also.
217:46 >> in personal in person also. >> Yeah. And it's cuz of what I was saying
217:47 >> Yeah. And it's cuz of what I was saying before with that scientific study, the
217:49 before with that scientific study, the way they smell and all the all that
217:50 way they smell and all the all that other stuff too.
217:52 other stuff too. >> The invisible factors.
217:53 >> The invisible factors. >> Mhm.
217:54 >> Mhm. >> Uh do you girls take birth control
217:55 >> Uh do you girls take birth control supplements? Like any type of pill or
217:57 supplements? Like any type of pill or injection?
217:58 injection? >> No.
217:59 >> No. >> I do.
218:00 >> I do. >> You do? No.
218:01 >> You do? No. >> Me? Yeah. And it's the injection, right?
218:04 >> Me? Yeah. And it's the injection, right? >> Implant.
218:04 >> Implant. >> Implant. I already knew that from the
218:06 >> Implant. I already knew that from the last show. Yeah. Do you do you think
218:08 last show. Yeah. Do you do you think that changes the outcomes, you know, in
218:10 that changes the outcomes, you know, in how you act, how you how you emote, how
218:13 how you act, how you how you emote, how you feel emotionally? Do you think it
218:14 you feel emotionally? Do you think it changes anything?
218:15 changes anything? >> Uh
218:17 >> Uh side effect
218:19 side effect >> uh in my body. It's my spinal cord
218:22 >> uh in my body. It's my spinal cord broke. Oh my god. Then my headache and
218:29 oh >> and sometimes I get I feel
218:38 I feel asleep. >> Yeah. Yeah.
218:38 >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah.
218:39 >> Yeah. >> In my side effect of my body. Yeah.
218:42 >> In my side effect of my body. Yeah. >> Try to be a little closer to the
218:43 >> Try to be a little closer to the microphone.
218:44 microphone. >> Okay.
218:44 >> Okay. >> Yeah. It's okay cuz what you hear is
218:46 >> Yeah. It's okay cuz what you hear is louder than what they hear.
218:48 louder than what they hear. >> Okay.
218:48 >> Okay. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Uh Okay. Yeah. Like
218:51 >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Uh Okay. Yeah. Like personally like I I think I said this in
218:53 personally like I I think I said this in the other show too. Um what is it like
218:56 the other show too. Um what is it like depot something?
218:59 depot something? >> IOD like
219:01 >> IOD like >> Yeah, but Depo is one of them. And I
219:03 >> Yeah, but Depo is one of them. And I remember one of the very first
219:04 remember one of the very first iterations of that. It's like a
219:06 iterations of that. It's like a threemonth injection or something like
219:08 threemonth injection or something like that.
219:08 that. >> Yeah. Three months in injectable. Yeah.
219:10 >> Yeah. Three months in injectable. Yeah. >> Yeah. That one in the early days of
219:12 >> Yeah. That one in the early days of that. So I guess this would be like in
219:14 that. So I guess this would be like in the
219:16 the early 2000s. Uh, I had a girl be totally
219:20 early 2000s. Uh, I had a girl be totally suicidal. Totally suicidal after taking
219:23 suicidal. Totally suicidal after taking that.
219:24 that. >> So, yeah, like you got to be very
219:25 >> So, yeah, like you got to be very careful.
219:26 careful. >> Uh, oh, we're getting another one. What
219:28 >> Uh, oh, we're getting another one. What island is best for women? Oh, this one's
219:31 island is best for women? Oh, this one's tough.
219:32 tough. >> And yes, these girls do seem great. Um,
219:36 >> And yes, these girls do seem great. Um, Mr. Brad May says that uh, these girls
219:38 Mr. Brad May says that uh, these girls seem great. I love their English. And
219:40 seem great. I love their English. And then he's asking, "What island is best
219:42 then he's asking, "What island is best for women?" Now, we're going to be
219:44 for women?" Now, we're going to be taking the show on the road in the
219:45 taking the show on the road in the future, and I plan to go everywhere. Um,
219:50 future, and I plan to go everywhere. Um, it matters on what you want. If you want
219:52 it matters on what you want. If you want dirty dirty and you don't mind sometimes
219:55 dirty dirty and you don't mind sometimes paying for it, Angelus City in around
219:58 paying for it, Angelus City in around Clark is very good. And Clark is also
220:00 Clark is very good. And Clark is also the best airport to use. Um,
220:04 the best airport to use. Um, Cebu is good for like easygoing,
220:06 Cebu is good for like easygoing, funloving girls. um every girl or every
220:10 funloving girls. um every girl or every island, you got to remember there's like
220:11 island, you got to remember there's like 7,000 islands and all of those people on
220:14 7,000 islands and all of those people on those islands were generally landlocked.
220:17 those islands were generally landlocked. They had no need to leave their island.
220:20 They had no need to leave their island. So they have multiple generations like
220:23 So they have multiple generations like multi-generational families where their
220:26 multi-generational families where their basically their gene pool for the island
220:29 basically their gene pool for the island varies from one island to another. So
220:31 varies from one island to another. So every island has a different gene pool.
220:33 every island has a different gene pool. They have a different dialect. They have
220:34 They have a different dialect. They have a different look. They have different
220:36 a different look. They have different slightly different uh culture slightly
220:39 slightly different uh culture slightly slightly different values. Uh some
220:41 slightly different values. Uh some islands have more Muslims for instance.
220:44 islands have more Muslims for instance. Um but they have a different gene pool
220:45 Um but they have a different gene pool which means you're going to get girls
220:47 which means you're going to get girls that look different. For me personally,
220:49 that look different. For me personally, my wife who I still think is incredibly
220:52 my wife who I still think is incredibly mand.
220:59 Um, she was from Kagayenda Oro and I think those girls now are gorgeous. I
221:02 think those girls now are gorgeous. I think Cebu girls are gorgeous. I think
221:04 think Cebu girls are gorgeous. I think Palawan girls are absolutely the ugliest
221:06 Palawan girls are absolutely the ugliest women I've ever seen in my life. I think
221:07 women I've ever seen in my life. I think that the girls here are very um very
221:10 that the girls here are very um very laid-back, very beautiful. Uh, like No,
221:14 laid-back, very beautiful. Uh, like No, that's what I got to say. I'm just
221:15 that's what I got to say. I'm just with you. Don't worry. Don't
221:16 with you. Don't worry. Don't worry. No, but uh generally speaking, uh
221:19 worry. No, but uh generally speaking, uh yeah, I think Palawan girls are
221:20 yeah, I think Palawan girls are definitely um
221:23 definitely um I think that things are more stable here
221:25 I think that things are more stable here if you but Palawan has different parts
221:27 if you but Palawan has different parts of the island, too. Like if you go to
221:28 of the island, too. Like if you go to Puerto Princessa and maybe even Port
221:30 Puerto Princessa and maybe even Port Barton, I think you can find a good
221:32 Barton, I think you can find a good girl. But if you get a girl in Elnito,
221:34 girl. But if you get a girl in Elnito, she's probably not from Elito. She's
221:36 she's probably not from Elito. She's probably from somewhere else in the
221:38 probably from somewhere else in the country and she's probably ran through.
221:42 country and she's probably ran through. So if you want a good girl, you'd get a
221:44 So if you want a good girl, you'd get a girl from Puerto or Port Barton. And
221:46 girl from Puerto or Port Barton. And then if you want a girl that's ran
221:48 then if you want a girl that's ran through but really fun, you'd go to
221:49 through but really fun, you'd go to Elito. Just make sure you wrap it. And
221:52 Elito. Just make sure you wrap it. And don't drink the water in Puerto either
221:53 don't drink the water in Puerto either because they have a or don't drink the
221:54 because they have a or don't drink the water in Elito.
221:56 water in Elito. >> It's like uh you get the Bali belly
221:58 >> It's like uh you get the Bali belly whole thing, you know, like
221:59 whole thing, you know, like >> contaminated.
222:00 >> contaminated. >> It's very contaminated there. And the
222:02 >> It's very contaminated there. And the main part where all the boats are, like
222:04 main part where all the boats are, like that little beach.
222:06 that little beach. >> Don't go swimming in the beach where all
222:07 >> Don't go swimming in the beach where all the boats are and where all the bars are
222:09 the boats are and where all the bars are cuz it's where all their goes. Too
222:12 cuz it's where all their goes. Too big.
222:14 big. Contaminated for rehabil. Yeah.
222:18 Contaminated for rehabil. Yeah. >> What would you girls say? Like uh is
222:19 >> What would you girls say? Like uh is there any island like like which island?
222:22 there any island like like which island? And I know your default is going to be
222:24 And I know your default is going to be Paloan. I like Balabak. Balabak.
222:27 Paloan. I like Balabak. Balabak. >> Yeah, I've been there.
222:28 >> Yeah, I've been there. >> Yeah. And you think the girls are
222:29 >> Yeah. And you think the girls are beautiful?
222:31 beautiful? Like it's only about the girls. He's
222:32 Like it's only about the girls. He's asking only about the girls.
222:33 asking only about the girls. >> I just There's no girls there.
222:36 >> I just There's no girls there. >> And well, there's some girls in
222:37 >> And well, there's some girls in Balabback. I know a lot of guys that
222:38 Balabback. I know a lot of guys that live there.
222:39 live there. >> Yeah, but
222:42 >> Yeah, but >> Muslim part. Oh,
222:43 >> Muslim part. Oh, >> okay.
222:43 >> okay. >> Oh, I thought I was looking for the
222:46 >> Oh, I thought I was looking for the place, you know.
222:47 place, you know. >> No, no, he's he's looking for
222:49 >> No, no, he's he's looking for >> he's looking for ladies. He's looking
222:50 >> he's looking for ladies. He's looking for love.
222:52 for love. >> He's looking for ladies. Why don't you
222:54 >> He's looking for ladies. Why don't you try uh go to Bangkok?
222:58 try uh go to Bangkok? you can find
222:59 you can find >> you're in Roy princess.
223:01 >> you're in Roy princess. >> Yeah. Yeah. It's a bang where where she
223:03 >> Yeah. Yeah. It's a bang where where she lives.
223:03 lives. >> Yeah.
223:04 >> Yeah. >> And uh she's actually she's going to
223:06 >> And uh she's actually she's going to have her social media information. I put
223:08 have her social media information. I put it inside the members only community.
223:11 it inside the members only community. >> And I do that so she doesn't get a fire
223:12 >> And I do that so she doesn't get a fire hose.
223:14 hose. >> So that way she can qualify, you know,
223:16 >> So that way she can qualify, you know, like she's not going to meet a million
223:17 like she's not going to meet a million creepers. She'll just meet one or two,
223:20 creepers. She'll just meet one or two, >> you know. But um Yeah. Yeah.
223:24 >> you know. But um Yeah. Yeah. >> She belongs to the streets.
223:26 >> She belongs to the streets. >> Yeah. So, you know, but her you'll be
223:27 >> Yeah. So, you know, but her you'll be able to contact her if you want to. Her
223:29 able to contact her if you want to. Her her information is going to be in the
223:30 her information is going to be in the members only community. It's like seven
223:32 members only community. It's like seven bucks a month. It's not a big deal, but
223:34 bucks a month. It's not a big deal, but uh and then you help the show. Maybe I
223:36 uh and then you help the show. Maybe I can buy a proper chair or a table. All
223:38 can buy a proper chair or a table. All right. Um
223:42 right. Um okay, we're coming towards the end. Um
223:50 I don't really want to ask you some of these questions cuz I don't give a
223:53 these questions cuz I don't give a Um,
223:55 Um, yeah.
224:04 >> Yeah. Okay. So, would you date a guy that is talking to a lot of different
224:06 that is talking to a lot of different girls? Just talking phase as the girls
224:10 girls? Just talking phase as the girls say.
224:10 say. >> It's okay.
224:11 >> It's okay. >> Yeah.
224:12 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. You guys would?
224:13 >> Yeah. You guys would? >> Yeah. Yeah. Because girls is also
224:16 >> Yeah. Yeah. Because girls is also talking to
224:17 talking to >> too many. Yeah. Just
224:20 >> too many. Yeah. Just >> but at the end of the day,
224:22 >> but at the end of the day, >> they will just pick one.
224:24 >> they will just pick one. >> Yeah.
224:26 >> Yeah. >> I don't think girls can make a decision.
224:28 >> I don't think girls can make a decision. I think girls have to try them all
224:29 I think girls have to try them all first.
224:31 first. >> Maybe
224:33 >> Maybe >> Yeah. But uh Yeah,
224:35 >> Yeah. But uh Yeah, >> for me it's okay to me.
224:37 >> for me it's okay to me. >> Yeah. How about you?
224:38 >> Yeah. How about you? >> It's okay.
224:38 >> It's okay. >> Yeah, it's okay.
224:40 >> Yeah, it's okay. >> Yeah, that's another answer that varies
224:41 >> Yeah, that's another answer that varies from Western girls mostly.
224:44 from Western girls mostly. Um,
224:49 yeah, that was supposed to be a trap because I was going to compare it to,
224:50 because I was going to compare it to, you know, how many times men get
224:52 you know, how many times men get rejected? They get rejected a lot. So,
224:54 rejected? They get rejected a lot. So, of course, they're going to be talking
224:55 of course, they're going to be talking to multiple girls. So, if you would have
224:57 to multiple girls. So, if you would have disagreed with that, then I would have
224:59 disagreed with that, then I would have jumped down your throat.
225:00 jumped down your throat. >> Um, would you date a man if he had
225:03 >> Um, would you date a man if he had female friends?
225:04 female friends? >> Of course.
225:06 >> Of course. >> Yeah. Yeah, you would. Eh, yeah.
225:07 >> Yeah. Yeah, you would. Eh, yeah. >> Yep.
225:08 >> Yep. >> Yeah. I don't see a problem with it. I
225:10 >> Yeah. I don't see a problem with it. I think it's different.
225:11 think it's different. >> Yeah. But again, a man will not date you
225:14 >> Yeah. But again, a man will not date you if you have male friends. Is that double
225:16 if you have male friends. Is that double standard? Okay.
225:18 standard? Okay. >> Uh, you know, cuz
225:19 >> Uh, you know, cuz >> or or if he Okay, so in the beginning of
225:22 >> or or if he Okay, so in the beginning of your relationship, you have male
225:24 your relationship, you have male friends. He has female friends.
225:26 friends. He has female friends. >> Mhm.
225:27 >> Mhm. >> And then he eventually says, "You have
225:29 >> And then he eventually says, "You have to get rid of your male friends, but I'm
225:31 to get rid of your male friends, but I'm keeping my female friends."
225:33 keeping my female friends." >> That's not fair.
225:34 >> That's not fair. >> It's not fair.
225:35 >> It's not fair. >> Yes.
225:35 >> Yes. >> Yeah. You don't think it's fair
225:37 >> Yeah. You don't think it's fair >> for me?
225:38 >> for me? >> Yeah.
225:38 >> Yeah. >> No. No. I'm not judging you. I'm just
225:40 >> No. No. I'm not judging you. I'm just asking. Yeah. I mean, I'm I'm not going
225:42 asking. Yeah. I mean, I'm I'm not going to rebut that one. I think that's uh
225:44 to rebut that one. I think that's uh Give me more more likes. Give me some
225:46 Give me more more likes. Give me some likes. I only see one. Unless I'm not
225:50 likes. I only see one. Unless I'm not seeing the the clear image. Maybe
225:51 seeing the the clear image. Maybe there's more now. But I only see one. I
225:54 there's more now. But I only see one. I only I only see one. In the future, I'm
225:57 only I only see one. In the future, I'm going to like play beduts until they do
225:59 going to like play beduts until they do it. So, like I would do this here. I
226:03 it. So, like I would do this here. I just got to flip through my soundboard.
226:04 just got to flip through my soundboard. I would do this.
226:12 Like somebody has to hit like. [Music]
226:22 >> All right, that's enough of that. But uh yeah, normally that's what I'm going to
226:23 yeah, normally that's what I'm going to do in the future. It works on Fresh and
226:24 do in the future. It works on Fresh and Fit, so if it works for them, it'll work
226:26 Fit, so if it works for them, it'll work for me. Um All right. So yeah. So if a
226:31 for me. Um All right. So yeah. So if a guy did that, um you wouldn't accept
226:34 guy did that, um you wouldn't accept that?
226:36 that? No. Well,
226:37 No. Well, >> no, no, none of you. You wouldn't take
226:41 >> no, no, none of you. You wouldn't take that double standard,
226:43 that double standard, >> I think. Why don't you both leave those
226:47 >> I think. Why don't you both leave those friend? I mean, the guy will leave the
226:50 friend? I mean, the guy will leave the >> leave her her friend,
226:52 >> leave her her friend, >> his friend. And the woman will leave her
226:55 >> his friend. And the woman will leave her friends also.
226:56 friends also. >> No.
226:57 >> No. >> And you can just
226:58 >> And you can just >> Yeah. What if Yeah. What if
227:00 >> Yeah. What if Yeah. What if >> What if like um what if there's
227:03 >> What if like um what if there's something else to it? like um like if a
227:06 something else to it? like um like if a woman has a male friend, I mean, she
227:10 woman has a male friend, I mean, she shouldn't be confiding anything about
227:12 shouldn't be confiding anything about their marriage to that other man because
227:14 their marriage to that other man because there's a chance that you could do
227:16 there's a chance that you could do reputational damage to your man, right?
227:18 reputational damage to your man, right? So, you can't talk about your man to
227:20 So, you can't talk about your man to your male friend. So, that cuts out a
227:22 your male friend. So, that cuts out a big chunk of what you would talk about.
227:24 big chunk of what you would talk about. So, now you already have less purpose
227:26 So, now you already have less purpose for that other man. And then there's a
227:28 for that other man. And then there's a lot of other things. The guy doesn't
227:29 lot of other things. The guy doesn't like it. So, that's that's another
227:31 like it. So, that's that's another negative. Mhm.
227:32 negative. Mhm. >> Um, that other guy is probably trying to
227:34 >> Um, that other guy is probably trying to you. And because you're emotional,
227:37 you. And because you're emotional, it just takes one argument with your man
227:39 it just takes one argument with your man and a little bit of alcohol and you
227:41 and a little bit of alcohol and you might find yourself in a situation where
227:43 might find yourself in a situation where you end up cheating and now you've
227:45 you end up cheating and now you've killed your relationship.
227:47 killed your relationship. And if you do kill your relationship, it
227:50 And if you do kill your relationship, it will haunt you whether or not you wanted
227:51 will haunt you whether or not you wanted to or not. You'll feel guilty or
227:53 to or not. You'll feel guilty or whatever, but you'll start having
227:54 whatever, but you'll start having arguments with your man and it'll fall
227:57 arguments with your man and it'll fall apart. Now, if a guy has a chick friend,
228:00 apart. Now, if a guy has a chick friend, yeah, she might want to him. You
228:02 yeah, she might want to him. You know, if she's real like ratchet and
228:04 know, if she's real like ratchet and she's like like a banshee, she's like a
228:06 she's like like a banshee, she's like a barb, you know, dirty girl, then yeah, I
228:10 barb, you know, dirty girl, then yeah, I fully respect a woman's wish to get rid
228:11 fully respect a woman's wish to get rid of that. Um, but if it's like um, you
228:15 of that. Um, but if it's like um, you know, like another situation where, you
228:17 know, like another situation where, you know, maybe maybe they've got some sort
228:20 know, maybe maybe they've got some sort of past thing or maybe he has like
228:22 of past thing or maybe he has like reasons for knowing her, like
228:23 reasons for knowing her, like networking. Like for instance, for me um
228:26 networking. Like for instance, for me um when I was married, I would have never
228:29 when I was married, I would have never to get married in that would marry a
228:31 to get married in that would marry a foreigner that is not a member. Like you
228:33 foreigner that is not a member. Like you have to normally be a member of the
228:34 have to normally be a member of the church to get married there. Uh I
228:36 church to get married there. Uh I wouldn't have found my first nanny. I
228:37 wouldn't have found my first nanny. I wouldn't have found my first cleaning
228:38 wouldn't have found my first cleaning lady unless I made friends with girls at
228:41 lady unless I made friends with girls at Hibiscus.
228:42 Hibiscus. And if my wife was jealous, then I
228:44 And if my wife was jealous, then I wouldn't have been able to do that. And
228:46 wouldn't have been able to do that. And then I wouldn't have had all these
228:47 then I wouldn't have had all these things that made my life improved. So
228:49 things that made my life improved. So sometimes men just need to network,
228:52 sometimes men just need to network, >> you know. Mhm.
228:53 >> you know. Mhm. >> Um, but I don't see any value in a woman
228:55 >> Um, but I don't see any value in a woman having a male friend
228:57 having a male friend >> once you're married. I also would say
228:59 >> once you're married. I also would say that you'd have to cut out your most
229:01 that you'd have to cut out your most ratchet single friends, too. I think we
229:03 ratchet single friends, too. I think we talked about that one last time, too. Or
229:04 talked about that one last time, too. Or if you've got really ratchet single
229:06 if you've got really ratchet single friends,
229:06 friends, >> cuz they're always going to talk
229:07 >> cuz they're always going to talk about your man
229:09 about your man >> and they're always going to try to put
229:10 >> and they're always going to try to put you in a situation where it destroys
229:11 you in a situation where it destroys your relationship because they want you
229:12 your relationship because they want you to be single just like them.
229:14 to be single just like them. >> Yeah.
229:14 >> Yeah. >> Cuz misery loves company. So I think a
229:16 >> Cuz misery loves company. So I think a guy has the full right you know like and
229:18 guy has the full right you know like and then it goes down to like you know like
229:21 then it goes down to like you know like last time with you guys I asked about
229:22 last time with you guys I asked about you know like should a wife obey the man
229:26 you know like should a wife obey the man you know in situations where you know I
229:29 you know in situations where you know I already know that you guys would say
229:30 already know that you guys would say well if we talk about it first and then
229:32 well if we talk about it first and then I would say yeah but what if he doesn't
229:34 I would say yeah but what if he doesn't want to talk about it cuz he doesn't
229:35 want to talk about it cuz he doesn't feel the need to explain himself to you
229:37 feel the need to explain himself to you all the time and he just says no
229:39 all the time and he just says no honey on this one I'm making an
229:41 honey on this one I'm making an executive decision would you obey your
229:43 executive decision would you obey your man you
229:45 man you Um,
229:46 Um, >> no.
229:47 >> no. >> Yeah, I know. I don't want to go down
229:48 >> Yeah, I know. I don't want to go down that rabbit hole because we're short for
229:49 that rabbit hole because we're short for time, but uh, in the end, you know, I
229:51 time, but uh, in the end, you know, I usually I'm pretty good at arm wrestling
229:53 usually I'm pretty good at arm wrestling you into agreeing with me. Um,
229:59 yeah, a lot of these questions are already asked. Uh,
230:02 already asked. Uh, [Music]
230:04 [Music] yeah.
230:15 Would you give one man 50 chances or 50 men one chance? This is the cool down
230:17 men one chance? This is the cool down period. It's going to get a slightly
230:19 period. It's going to get a slightly little less interesting. I'm wrapping it
230:20 little less interesting. I'm wrapping it up. We're winding down now. So, um would
230:24 up. We're winding down now. So, um would you give one man
230:26 you give one man uh would would you give one man 50
230:28 uh would would you give one man 50 chances uh you know if they make a
230:30 chances uh you know if they make a mistake or would you give 50 men one
230:32 mistake or would you give 50 men one chance?
230:34 chance? >> I choose the number one.
230:36 >> I choose the number one. >> You give one man 50 chances.
230:38 >> You give one man 50 chances. >> Yeah.
230:39 >> Yeah. >> Yeah.
230:41 >> Yeah. How about you?
230:42 How about you? It basically means like, are you willing
230:45 It basically means like, are you willing to let a guy make more than one mistake?
230:52 >> Would you give one guy 50 chances before you dump him?
230:54 you dump him? >> No. I think just a few chances, not
230:57 >> No. I think just a few chances, not >> more like 50.
231:00 >> more like 50. >> Yeah, cuz
231:01 >> Yeah, cuz >> it's kind of metaphorical. It's like not
231:03 >> it's kind of metaphorical. It's like not literally, oh, 50, you know, like on a
231:06 literally, oh, 50, you know, like on a weekend, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Uh yeah,
231:08 weekend, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Uh yeah, >> but uh you know or would you just like
231:11 >> but uh you know or would you just like date different guys and if they up
231:14 date different guys and if they up once they're out next, you know, like
231:16 once they're out next, you know, like very impatient?
231:17 very impatient? >> No, I will give a chance.
231:19 >> No, I will give a chance. >> One man, multiple chances.
231:21 >> One man, multiple chances. >> Yeah.
231:22 >> Yeah. >> And that's for everybody.
231:23 >> And that's for everybody. >> Yeah.
231:24 >> Yeah. >> All right, we're we're getting there.
231:26 >> All right, we're we're getting there. I'm going to hold you guys for another
231:28 I'm going to hold you guys for another 10 to 15 minutes.
231:30 10 to 15 minutes. >> Um how often do or did you have serious
231:34 >> Um how often do or did you have serious arguments with your man?
231:38 arguments with your man? me before. Yeah, we fight always.
231:42 me before. Yeah, we fight always. >> Huh?
231:43 >> Huh? >> Who who would start the argument? Like,
231:44 >> Who who would start the argument? Like, are you kind of argumentative a little
231:46 are you kind of argumentative a little bit?
231:47 bit? >> Um, no. He's the one who start the
231:50 >> Um, no. He's the one who start the argument cuz I was asking something. I'm
231:52 argument cuz I was asking something. I'm not going to ask if I never saw
231:54 not going to ask if I never saw something on his phone, you know.
231:56 something on his phone, you know. >> Yeah. Okay. So, so you were kind of like
231:59 >> Yeah. Okay. So, so you were kind of like digging into him a little bit and he
232:00 digging into him a little bit and he didn't like it.
232:01 didn't like it. >> Yeah. And he doesn't want it. Why you
232:03 >> Yeah. And he doesn't want it. Why you don't want me to know it? Now I know why
232:05 don't want me to know it? Now I know why you're hiding something.
232:06 you're hiding something. >> No, it doesn't mean you're hiding
232:07 >> No, it doesn't mean you're hiding something. It just means no, that's none
232:09 something. It just means no, that's none of your business. It's kind of like what
232:10 of your business. It's kind of like what I said earlier about the pin code.
232:12 I said earlier about the pin code. >> Mhm.
232:12 >> Mhm. >> The man can have the pin code of the
232:13 >> The man can have the pin code of the girl, but the girl doesn't have to have
232:15 girl, but the girl doesn't have to have the pin code of the man cuz the man
232:16 the pin code of the man cuz the man doesn't need to explain anything.
232:18 doesn't need to explain anything. >> But my attitude only I I'm going to ask
232:20 >> But my attitude only I I'm going to ask if I saw something example uh on his
232:24 if I saw something example uh on his phone. I saw some message that pop up.
232:27 phone. I saw some message that pop up. Hello babe.
232:29 Hello babe. >> I'm going to start, you know, to ask
232:32 >> I'm going to start, you know, to ask that. And
232:35 that. And >> I'm trying to ask you if you're going to
232:37 >> I'm trying to ask you if you're going to admit or not.
232:39 admit or not. >> If you're not going to admit, so I'll
232:40 >> If you're not going to admit, so I'll forgive you. And then next time again,
232:43 forgive you. And then next time again, >> I'll forgive you. And then if you keep
232:45 >> I'll forgive you. And then if you keep trying to arguing with me
232:48 trying to arguing with me >> that I know already that you are
232:50 >> that I know already that you are cheating with me, that's the person that
232:52 cheating with me, that's the person that going to argue.
232:53 going to argue. >> All right, I'm going to make it a little
232:54 >> All right, I'm going to make it a little bit more interesting. I'm going to pull
232:57 bit more interesting. I'm going to pull out of the cool down period for a
232:58 out of the cool down period for a minute. If um let's follow that. So,
233:02 minute. If um let's follow that. So, let's say that you get really upset.
233:05 let's say that you get really upset. >> Mhm.
233:06 >> Mhm. >> And you start yelling and screaming and
233:07 >> And you start yelling and screaming and you start smashing dishes. You know, you
233:10 you start smashing dishes. You know, you start to get like crazy
233:12 start to get like crazy >> and you're acting very bad. And then and
233:16 >> and you're acting very bad. And then and then the neighbors can hear you.
233:18 then the neighbors can hear you. >> So now you're embarrassing your man, you
233:20 >> So now you're embarrassing your man, you know, and you're maybe causing
233:22 know, and you're maybe causing reputation damage because he, you know,
233:24 reputation damage because he, you know, generally people think it's the man's
233:26 generally people think it's the man's fault when something goes wrong.
233:27 fault when something goes wrong. >> Mhm. you know,
233:30 >> Mhm. you know, and you know, you smash the dishes, you
233:34 and you know, you smash the dishes, you cause all this trouble, and then just to
233:36 cause all this trouble, and then just to stop it, he tries to he tries to reason
233:38 stop it, he tries to he tries to reason with you. He tries to say, "Calm down.
233:39 with you. He tries to say, "Calm down. That's enough. Calm down. Calm down."
233:41 That's enough. Calm down. Calm down." And you don't. He slaps you. What do you
233:44 And you don't. He slaps you. What do you do? Right in the face. Not hard, but
233:47 do? Right in the face. Not hard, but enough to scare you. What do you do? Do
233:48 enough to scare you. What do you do? Do you report him?
233:49 you report him? >> No.
233:50 >> No. >> No.
233:51 >> No. >> I'm going to cry only cuz he slapped me.
233:53 >> I'm going to cry only cuz he slapped me. >> Okay.
233:54 >> Okay. >> Yeah. I mean, if it happens a lot,
233:55 >> Yeah. I mean, if it happens a lot, that's really bad. and then he should be
233:57 that's really bad. and then he should be reported cuz that's abuse. If it happens
233:58 reported cuz that's abuse. If it happens all the time, that's disgusting and no
234:00 all the time, that's disgusting and no man should do that to a woman. I just
234:02 man should do that to a woman. I just want to be clear.
234:02 want to be clear. >> Yeah. You know,
234:03 >> Yeah. You know, >> I'm not going to.
234:04 >> I'm not going to. >> But in a rare moment and you're acting
234:07 >> But in a rare moment and you're acting really bad.
234:08 really bad. >> Mhm.
234:09 >> Mhm. >> So, you wouldn't report him and do a
234:10 >> So, you wouldn't report him and do a voc.
234:11 voc. >> No, I'm not going to report him cuz at
234:13 >> No, I'm not going to report him cuz at the end of the day, it's all my mistake.
234:15 the end of the day, it's all my mistake. And then you're going to regret
234:17 And then you're going to regret everything.
234:18 everything. >> Yeah. And then you blow up the
234:19 >> Yeah. And then you blow up the relationship.
234:20 relationship. >> Yeah.
234:20 >> Yeah. >> How about you?
234:22 >> How about you? >> I already know your answer, but unless
234:24 >> I already know your answer, but unless maybe it'll change this time. But I
234:26 maybe it'll change this time. But I don't know.
234:27 don't know. >> I think No.
234:30 >> I think No. >> Yeah.
234:30 >> Yeah. >> I I think No.
234:32 >> I I think No. >> Yeah.
234:33 >> Yeah. >> Because there's a reason why he's slap
234:35 >> Because there's a reason why he's slap you.
234:36 you. >> Yeah. Yeah. And And if it's after
234:37 >> Yeah. Yeah. And And if it's after everything I just said, like you're
234:39 everything I just said, like you're smashing dishes and you're acting crazy
234:40 smashing dishes and you're acting crazy and
234:41 and >> you're also hurting his reputation.
234:42 >> you're also hurting his reputation. Because sometimes like
234:44 Because sometimes like >> like a woman is born automatically she's
234:46 >> like a woman is born automatically she's attractive, she can have babies, she has
234:49 attractive, she can have babies, she has value.
234:50 value. >> But a man, it takes his entire life to
234:52 >> But a man, it takes his entire life to build his reputation. M
234:53 build his reputation. M >> and in one moment his girl if he has a
234:55 >> and in one moment his girl if he has a shitty girl she can just take away his
234:57 shitty girl she can just take away his reputation and destroy it in one second.
235:00 reputation and destroy it in one second. Happens all the time to celebrities and
235:01 Happens all the time to celebrities and everybody else too. Men in general. So
235:04 everybody else too. Men in general. So yeah they can destroy it. So yeah so
235:06 yeah they can destroy it. So yeah so he's taking a risk by doing that but
235:08 he's taking a risk by doing that but yeah you would you know like I think
235:10 yeah you would you know like I think Annie said uh on the first show that she
235:12 Annie said uh on the first show that she would try to deescalate. I think that
235:13 would try to deescalate. I think that was Annie.
235:15 was Annie. I don't know. Uh you weren't there
235:16 I don't know. Uh you weren't there anyway. But um yeah how would you react?
235:19 anyway. But um yeah how would you react? Would you report if it's a rare
235:21 Would you report if it's a rare occurrence? I don't report him but I
235:24 occurrence? I don't report him but I will say
235:25 will say >> blackmail
235:27 >> blackmail that.
235:28 that. >> Yeah, but I I don't uh
235:32 >> Yeah, but I I don't uh >> I will say that don't do that again
235:36 >> I will say that don't do that again >> because if you don't if you really
235:41 >> because if you don't if you really that again
235:43 that again >> Yeah.
235:44 >> Yeah. >> you will sleep at the jail.
235:46 >> you will sleep at the jail. >> Yeah. How about you, Belle? This is
235:50 >> Yeah. How about you, Belle? This is Belle, by the way, Brad. Um, he's asking
235:53 Belle, by the way, Brad. Um, he's asking about you. So, how would you react if uh
235:57 about you. So, how would you react if uh if it was a very rare thing, you had an
235:59 if it was a very rare thing, you had an absolute freak out and then he slapped
236:01 absolute freak out and then he slapped you? What would you do?
236:03 you? What would you do? >> Go.
236:04 >> Go. >> Yeah. Don't interrupt. Give her Give her
236:06 >> Yeah. Don't interrupt. Give her Give her the the respect. How would you react?
236:10 the the respect. How would you react? >> I'm mad. But
236:12 >> I'm mad. But >> yeah, but would you call the police or
236:14 >> yeah, but would you call the police or the bang?
236:15 the bang? >> Yeah. If like what Shabsu said,
236:19 >> Yeah. If like what Shabsu said, >> she do it again.
236:20 >> she do it again. >> Yeah. Then then that's a pattern.
236:23 >> Yeah. Then then that's a pattern. >> Yes.
236:24 >> Yes. >> That's a bad pattern. Yeah. I agree. If
236:26 >> That's a bad pattern. Yeah. I agree. If it gets abusive.
236:28 it gets abusive. >> Yeah. All right. Now,
236:31 >> Yeah. All right. Now, it is requested that you tell us a
236:34 it is requested that you tell us a little story. So,
236:38 little story. So, um I'm going to try to think of a way to
236:39 um I'm going to try to think of a way to get that to happen. Um,
236:54 oh, Yeah. Um, yeah. I don't know. I had some other stuff. I I He wants to
236:56 I had some other stuff. I I He wants to hear you talk, but I don't want to do it
236:58 hear you talk, but I don't want to do it for no reason.
237:00 for no reason. >> It has to still benefit the rest.
237:02 >> It has to still benefit the rest. >> Why me?
237:04 >> Why me? >> Oh, there's You know, I told you on one
237:06 >> Oh, there's You know, I told you on one of the other episodes, one of the girls
237:08 of the other episodes, one of the girls got a sugar daddy. He wished her a happy
237:10 got a sugar daddy. He wished her a happy birthday and he gave her some
237:12 birthday and he gave her some >> date.
237:13 >> date. >> So, you know, I'm not saying that's
237:14 >> So, you know, I'm not saying that's going to happen now at all. Um,
237:18 going to happen now at all. Um, [Music]
237:24 have you ever gone on a date just to get a free meal?
237:33 No. >> No.
237:34 >> No. >> Would you though?
237:36 >> Would you though? >> I don't think it's so bad personally. I
237:38 >> I don't think it's so bad personally. I mean,
237:39 mean, >> but it always happened.
237:42 >> but it always happened. >> Yeah, it's going to happen sometime
237:43 >> Yeah, it's going to happen sometime because you're not going to have the
237:44 because you're not going to have the chemistry, right?
237:45 chemistry, right? >> Yeah.
237:46 >> Yeah. >> Um I Yeah, these are all short answers.
237:50 >> Um I Yeah, these are all short answers. I got to think of a question with a
237:51 I got to think of a question with a longer answer.
237:53 longer answer. >> Um
237:55 >> Um >> Okay. Do you think I mean, and this is
237:57 >> Okay. Do you think I mean, and this is still kind of a yes or no, but I'm going
237:59 still kind of a yes or no, but I'm going to ask you why, and then it'll be longer
238:01 to ask you why, and then it'll be longer than a yes or no. Um, if you see a guy
238:04 than a yes or no. Um, if you see a guy that's my age, he's at the bar, and he's
238:07 that's my age, he's at the bar, and he's surrounded by women that are your age,
238:10 surrounded by women that are your age, do you think that looks weird?
238:12 do you think that looks weird? >> I'm 44 and and you're 20.
238:14 >> I'm 44 and and you're 20. >> Yes.
238:15 >> Yes. >> Do you think that's the weird?
238:18 >> Do you think that's the weird? >> I I think no.
238:19 >> I I think no. >> You're not going to insult me. Like, you
238:21 >> You're not going to insult me. Like, you can tell the truth.
238:22 can tell the truth. >> No.
238:22 >> No. >> No. You don't think it's weird? Now,
238:24 >> No. You don't think it's weird? Now, what do you think if you see a woman
238:26 what do you think if you see a woman who's 44?
238:28 who's 44? cover your ears.
238:31 cover your ears. And and and she's surrounded by
238:33 And and and she's surrounded by 20-year-old men. Do you think that's a
238:36 20-year-old men. Do you think that's a little worse or do you think it's equal?
238:39 little worse or do you think it's equal? >> Yeah.
238:59 I think it's okay. It's okay. Yeah. Okay. So, I'm trying to get out of talk,
239:02 Okay. So, I'm trying to get out of talk, Brad. I'm trying to I was I was going to
239:04 Brad. I'm trying to I was I was going to ask you to elaborate on it.
239:05 ask you to elaborate on it. >> Sorry.
239:06 >> Sorry. >> That's okay.
239:07 >> That's okay. >> Tell me a story. So, tell me about uh
239:09 >> Tell me a story. So, tell me about uh about your school. Just Just talk for
239:11 about your school. Just Just talk for like two minutes. Give me Give me two
239:13 like two minutes. Give me Give me two minutes. Tell me a story. I know I'm
239:15 minutes. Tell me a story. I know I'm putting you on the spot. I don't mean
239:16 putting you on the spot. I don't mean to.
239:18 to. >> Tell me about uh tell me about the
239:20 >> Tell me about uh tell me about the things that you really like about your
239:21 things that you really like about your man. There you go. And you can say
239:23 man. There you go. And you can say something really nice and positive.
239:24 something really nice and positive. >> I don't like anymore.
239:26 >> I don't like anymore. >> Why do you like him? Why did you choose
239:27 >> Why do you like him? Why did you choose him?
239:32 >> Yeah, he's a gentleman. >> Yes. Yes. Of course. Efforts.
239:37 >> Yes. Yes. Of course. Efforts. Then
239:39 Then you know just like what I've said
239:40 you know just like what I've said religious
239:43 religious then
239:46 then >> time. Yes.
239:48 >> time. Yes. >> Quality.
239:49 >> Quality. >> Quality time.
239:52 >> Quality time. Love language. Yes.
239:55 Love language. Yes. That is my love language.
239:57 That is my love language. Physical touch.
240:00 Physical touch. >> Yeah.
240:03 >> Yeah. >> So like like like what kind of stuff do
240:04 >> So like like like what kind of stuff do you guys do together? Do you like cook?
240:07 you guys do together? Do you like cook? Do you watch movies? Like like what are
240:09 Do you watch movies? Like like what are what are your favorite activities?
240:11 what are your favorite activities? >> Movie marathon.
240:12 >> Movie marathon. >> Yeah. Movie marathon.
240:13 >> Yeah. Movie marathon. >> Netflix and chill.
240:14 >> Netflix and chill. >> Good trip. Food trip.
240:16 >> Good trip. Food trip. >> Yeah. And how long were you with him
240:18 >> Yeah. And how long were you with him again? H
240:19 again? H >> how long are you together?
240:26 four months. >> Okay. Okay. So, you're still fresh?
240:28 >> Okay. Okay. So, you're still fresh? >> Yes.
240:28 >> Yes. >> Still new. All right.
240:30 >> Still new. All right. >> There you go, Brad. You got a story and
240:34 >> There you go, Brad. You got a story and you got to hear how she speaks. She does
240:36 you got to hear how she speaks. She does speak more fluently, though. I just
240:38 speak more fluently, though. I just think she's shy. So, she's speaking in
240:39 think she's shy. So, she's speaking in little spurts.
240:41 little spurts. >> So, that's what I've noticed about you
240:43 >> So, that's what I've noticed about you cuz I heard you you gabbing away
240:45 cuz I heard you you gabbing away earlier. So, you're a little shy. It's
240:47 earlier. So, you're a little shy. It's okay. It's endearing. I think it's cute.
240:49 okay. It's endearing. I think it's cute. >> All right. Well, that wraps that one up,
240:51 >> All right. Well, that wraps that one up, but I'm not letting you guys off the
240:52 but I'm not letting you guys off the hook yet.
240:54 hook yet. I want five more minutes. Five more
240:56 I want five more minutes. Five more minutes and then we'll wrap it up. Um,
241:03 if you were to date a foreigner, what concerns would you have? Some examples
241:06 concerns would you have? Some examples of that could be culture, language,
241:08 of that could be culture, language, motives. Are they fetishizing you?
241:10 motives. Are they fetishizing you? They're only you because you're
241:12 They're only you because you're Asian and they have a Asian thing, you
241:14 Asian and they have a Asian thing, you know? Uh, would you worry about the size
241:17 know? Uh, would you worry about the size of their
241:20 of their or whether or not they want kids. Like
241:22 or whether or not they want kids. Like if you want kids and they don't or if
241:23 if you want kids and they don't or if they don't and you do or whatever,
241:25 they don't and you do or whatever, whatever. Like what kind of concerns
241:26 whatever. Like what kind of concerns would you have if
241:28 would you have if >> motives? Their motives.
241:30 >> motives? Their motives. >> Their motives. Yeah. Like if they're
241:32 >> Their motives. Yeah. Like if they're going to rob you.
241:34 going to rob you. >> We don't know it. They're going to use
241:36 >> We don't know it. They're going to use you only for boom boom, right?
241:37 you only for boom boom, right? >> Yeah. I know. And that's the one thing
241:38 >> Yeah. I know. And that's the one thing you always worry about. I don't want
241:40 you always worry about. I don't want boom boom.
241:42 boom boom. >> It's because you know
241:44 >> It's because you know >> No, I get you.
241:45 >> No, I get you. >> If you want boom boom to the person that
241:47 >> If you want boom boom to the person that you like.
241:48 you like. >> Yeah. Oh, we get that.
241:51 >> Yeah. Oh, we get that. >> And then also to remember to um to
241:53 >> And then also to remember to um to circle back to um something that she
241:55 circle back to um something that she said earlier, if you're just tuning in
241:57 said earlier, if you're just tuning in now, uh she mentioned that she would be
241:59 now, uh she mentioned that she would be okay with her man
242:01 okay with her man getting boom boom elsewhere as long as
242:04 getting boom boom elsewhere as long as he was open with her about it, she would
242:05 he was open with her about it, she would be okay with that. So, she's not
242:07 be okay with that. So, she's not necessarily uh, you know, she she
242:10 necessarily uh, you know, she she doesn't have all the prowess in the
242:12 doesn't have all the prowess in the bedroom, but she she gives good back
242:14 bedroom, but she she gives good back rubs and she won't mind if you go and,
242:16 rubs and she won't mind if you go and, you know, water someone else's flower.
242:18 you know, water someone else's flower. So, that's an interesting that's an
242:20 So, that's an interesting that's an interesting
242:20 interesting >> I did this before.
242:21 >> I did this before. >> Yeah. No, you did it before. So, um, how
242:24 >> Yeah. No, you did it before. So, um, how about you? What What concerns would you
242:26 about you? What What concerns would you have dating a foreigner? Like, what
242:27 have dating a foreigner? Like, what would you worry about the most?
242:31 would you worry about the most? I think
242:33 I think I'm not really
242:48 >> I think if he just want to have sex with >> Yeah. Or Yeah. Because most
242:50 >> Yeah. Or Yeah. Because most >> I think it's okay for me like
242:53 >> I think it's okay for me like >> Yeah.
242:54 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. cuz I know that most of the
242:56 >> Yeah. cuz I know that most of the foreigners like sex.
243:01 foreigners like sex. >> Yeah.
243:02 >> Yeah. >> Yep. They do. It's very true.
243:04 >> Yep. They do. It's very true. >> I mean, I also think too though like uh
243:06 >> I mean, I also think too though like uh cuz you said that that foreigners are
243:08 cuz you said that that foreigners are more masculine,
243:09 more masculine, >> right?
243:09 >> right? >> Yes.
243:10 >> Yes. >> And with masculinity comes a higher
243:12 >> And with masculinity comes a higher testosterone.
243:13 testosterone. >> And with a higher testosterone,
243:16 >> And with a higher testosterone, um you know, comes more sex. But also, I
243:18 um you know, comes more sex. But also, I mean, I speak for myself, but I do think
243:20 mean, I speak for myself, but I do think that a lot of men are like this, where
243:23 that a lot of men are like this, where you talked about love language earlier.
243:25 you talked about love language earlier. You mentioned that. Um, a man can really
243:29 You mentioned that. Um, a man can really tell the temperature of his relationship
243:31 tell the temperature of his relationship with his woman based on how she
243:34 with his woman based on how she because if she's mad at him, he can tell
243:37 because if she's mad at him, he can tell because there's involuntary things that
243:39 because there's involuntary things that happen during sex. You can tell if she's
243:41 happen during sex. You can tell if she's still really into him.
243:45 still really into him. three orgasms every time you bang, but
243:47 three orgasms every time you bang, but then suddenly she's
243:50 then suddenly she's rigid and she's just not into it. Like
243:52 rigid and she's just not into it. Like you can just like, you know what I mean?
243:53 you can just like, you know what I mean? You can just tell she just lies there.
243:56 You can just tell she just lies there. You know, that's that's our love
243:57 You know, that's that's our love language.
243:58 language. >> So, I think that when you're getting
244:01 >> So, I think that when you're getting that combination of more masculinity,
244:03 that combination of more masculinity, higher testosterone,
244:05 higher testosterone, and all the other qualities, the the
244:07 and all the other qualities, the the benefits of a foreigner, um I think that
244:10 benefits of a foreigner, um I think that sex is going to be a major part of that.
244:13 sex is going to be a major part of that. And if you're not putting out, you know,
244:15 And if you're not putting out, you know, we we've already established that men
244:16 we we've already established that men are the prize. You all agreed with me on
244:19 are the prize. You all agreed with me on that. You all agreed with me that you
244:20 that. You all agreed with me that you date up, men date down. You've already
244:22 date up, men date down. You've already agreed with me on a lot of those things
244:23 agreed with me on a lot of those things that, you know, if a man doesn't
244:26 that, you know, if a man doesn't embarrass you,
244:28 embarrass you, if a man cheats on you, I personally
244:30 if a man cheats on you, I personally think that, you know, and I'm not
244:31 think that, you know, and I'm not encouraging it and I'm not endorsing it,
244:33 encouraging it and I'm not endorsing it, okay? But for your own well-being, for
244:36 okay? But for your own well-being, for your own future, for your own happiness,
244:39 your own future, for your own happiness, all your bills are paid, your life is
244:41 all your bills are paid, your life is good, he's good. And if he cheats on
244:44 good, he's good. And if he cheats on you, you know, with a pretty young
244:46 you, you know, with a pretty young things that he might not he might not
244:47 things that he might not he might not even remember her name, you know,
244:49 even remember her name, you know, because men don't cheat with their heart
244:50 because men don't cheat with their heart like you do.
244:52 like you do. >> You're not going to lose the guy.
244:53 >> You're not going to lose the guy. >> Yeah.
244:53 >> Yeah. >> So, if you turn a blind eye and you just
244:55 >> So, if you turn a blind eye and you just let it go.
244:55 let it go. >> Yeah. instead of nuking the entire
244:58 >> Yeah. instead of nuking the entire relationship and then losing everything,
245:01 relationship and then losing everything, you know? I mean, if he does it all the
245:02 you know? I mean, if he does it all the time, then that's too much. But, I mean,
245:04 time, then that's too much. But, I mean, like, if it's like once, like very rare.
245:06 like, if it's like once, like very rare. And and you don't even know for sure
245:08 And and you don't even know for sure because if he's not embarrassing you,
245:09 because if he's not embarrassing you, then you shouldn't even know.
245:11 then you shouldn't even know. >> But if you ever suspect it just, you
245:13 >> But if you ever suspect it just, you know, or or another thing girls do is
245:15 know, or or another thing girls do is they lie and they say that, "Oh, I think
245:17 they lie and they say that, "Oh, I think I saw your guy with some other girl."
245:19 I saw your guy with some other girl." And you know, like he's usually a single
245:21 And you know, like he's usually a single friend, you know, one of those ones
245:23 friend, you know, one of those ones that's going to,
245:24 that's going to, >> you know, try to up your
245:25 >> you know, try to up your relationship.
245:26 relationship. >> Yeah.
245:26 >> Yeah. >> You know, that's why men also hate
245:28 >> You know, that's why men also hate single friends.
245:29 single friends. >> But, um, yeah. Would you let a guy would
245:32 >> But, um, yeah. Would you let a guy would you forgive him if if he just did it
245:33 you forgive him if if he just did it once, cheated on you once, but he was
245:35 once, cheated on you once, but he was like
245:36 like >> masculine, paid all the bills, took care
245:38 >> masculine, paid all the bills, took care of you, and he loved you. Really loved
245:43 of you, and he loved you. Really loved you. Would you turn a blind eye if he
245:45 you. Would you turn a blind eye if he cheated on you once?
245:47 cheated on you once? No. Eh. Yeah. That's see that's that's
245:50 No. Eh. Yeah. That's see that's that's one of those Tik Tok brain things I
245:51 one of those Tik Tok brain things I think because I think that women in the
245:53 think because I think that women in the past past generations including your
245:55 past past generations including your your own parents I think that they would
245:57 your own parents I think that they would turn a blind eye because
246:01 turn a blind eye because it's a lot of work to maintain a sexual
246:03 it's a lot of work to maintain a sexual relationship and as you can see here
246:05 relationship and as you can see here women start to lose that when they get
246:07 women start to lose that when they get older right
246:08 older right >> and
246:10 >> and why would you want to like basically
246:12 why would you want to like basically give your house key away to the next
246:15 give your house key away to the next girl you're just you're you know it's
246:17 girl you're just you're you know it's like here you Oh, side girl. You can
246:20 like here you Oh, side girl. You can have you can be the main girl now. You
246:21 have you can be the main girl now. You know, like why would you want to is that
246:23 know, like why would you want to is that what she deserves? Like why would you
246:26 what she deserves? Like why would you let her win? You know what I mean? So
246:28 let her win? You know what I mean? So like that's
246:29 like that's >> I mean it's different though. Like
246:32 >> I mean it's different though. Like on the flip side of that, you know, I've
246:34 on the flip side of that, you know, I've heard stories of Filipino men where
246:37 heard stories of Filipino men where they're broke
246:39 they're broke and they cheat.
246:41 and they cheat. I think, you know, I think anyone that
246:43 I think, you know, I think anyone that is broke, doesn't matter whether you're
246:45 is broke, doesn't matter whether you're Filipino or foreigner or whatever, if
246:46 Filipino or foreigner or whatever, if you're
246:48 you're you're an idiot and you should break up
246:50 you're an idiot and you should break up with that guy. But if he's given you a
246:52 with that guy. But if he's given you a home, he built a house, you know, he did
246:54 home, he built a house, you know, he did all these like expensive things for you
246:56 all these like expensive things for you and he he clearly loves you, he knows
246:58 and he he clearly loves you, he knows how to cook your favorite meal,
247:00 how to cook your favorite meal, >> if he has one moment, I just And
247:02 >> if he has one moment, I just And especially if you have kids, too,
247:04 especially if you have kids, too, >> would you really destroy everything just
247:06 >> would you really destroy everything just because you want revenge? Because I
247:08 because you want revenge? Because I think a lot of girls do that for
247:10 think a lot of girls do that for revenge.
247:10 revenge. >> Yeah.
247:11 >> Yeah. >> You know, and they So, I don't know. I
247:13 >> You know, and they So, I don't know. I just Yeah. I guess on that note, we'll
247:15 just Yeah. I guess on that note, we'll wrap it up. I'll check the chat if
247:16 wrap it up. I'll check the chat if there's any more questions. That is a
247:18 there's any more questions. That is a wrap. Uh again, just want to let
247:20 wrap. Uh again, just want to let everybody know that the link on the
247:21 everybody know that the link on the bottom of the screen, it will work if
247:22 bottom of the screen, it will work if we're not live streaming as well. So, if
247:24 we're not live streaming as well. So, if you want to make a donation for the
247:25 you want to make a donation for the channel, this may be the last episode
247:26 channel, this may be the last episode for a little while because I don't have
247:28 for a little while because I don't have enough budget to pay the girls anymore.
247:30 enough budget to pay the girls anymore. And uh let's be real, you know, I'm not
247:32 And uh let's be real, you know, I'm not going to come to the developing world
247:33 going to come to the developing world and ask to take the, you know, 4 to 5
247:34 and ask to take the, you know, 4 to 5 hours of these girls time and then not
247:36 hours of these girls time and then not pay them. I think that would be very
247:38 pay them. I think that would be very rude of me. So, if you want to help a
247:39 rude of me. So, if you want to help a brother out, I've already put in
247:41 brother out, I've already put in thousands and thousands of dollars into
247:42 thousands and thousands of dollars into this. I've taken out loans for this. So,
247:44 this. I've taken out loans for this. So, if you want to help a brother out,
247:45 if you want to help a brother out, please uh consider dropping a super chat
247:48 please uh consider dropping a super chat or making a donation after the fact.
247:50 or making a donation after the fact. There's links in the description. And uh
247:53 There's links in the description. And uh I guess did you guys have any final
247:54 I guess did you guys have any final words? I wanted to ask you actually
247:56 words? I wanted to ask you actually before we go.
247:58 before we go. What did you think about being on the
247:59 What did you think about being on the show? And you guys have been on the show
248:01 show? And you guys have been on the show before, so I'm going to ask you last.
248:03 before, so I'm going to ask you last. What did you think, Belle, of coming on
248:05 What did you think, Belle, of coming on the show before you came on? Were you
248:07 the show before you came on? Were you nervous?
248:08 nervous? >> Yes.
248:08 >> Yes. >> Yeah. And then how do you feel about it
248:11 >> Yeah. And then how do you feel about it now? And and what advice would you give
248:13 now? And and what advice would you give other girls that are thinking about
248:15 other girls that are thinking about coming on the show, but they're not
248:16 coming on the show, but they're not sure.
248:18 sure. >> Don't be shy.
248:20 >> Don't be shy. >> Yeah.
248:20 >> Yeah. >> Show you what you are.
248:22 >> Show you what you are. >> Like, did you have fun?
248:24 >> Like, did you have fun? >> Yes.
248:24 >> Yes. >> Yeah. Did you like the cinnamon bun? I
248:25 >> Yeah. Did you like the cinnamon bun? I saw you nibbling on one.
248:28 saw you nibbling on one. >> But it was a good time, right? And and
248:29 >> But it was a good time, right? And and what do you think of the girls that are
248:30 what do you think of the girls that are on the show? Like, you think they're
248:31 on the show? Like, you think they're pretty cool, too? Yeah. Yeah. Except
248:34 pretty cool, too? Yeah. Yeah. Except this one. You
248:37 this one. You >> No, that's cool. And and and what would
248:39 >> No, that's cool. And and and what would you say, Joy, to anybody else that's
248:41 you say, Joy, to anybody else that's thinking about it? They're on the fence.
248:42 thinking about it? They're on the fence. They're not sure.
248:43 They're not sure. >> It's re it's really fun to have to have
248:46 >> It's re it's really fun to have to have here.
248:46 here. >> Yes.
248:47 >> Yes. >> It's really enjoying
248:49 >> It's really enjoying >> and yeah, we're meeting a new friends.
248:52 >> and yeah, we're meeting a new friends. [Music]
248:53 [Music] >> Yeah. Their show that they were on. Um
248:56 >> Yeah. Their show that they were on. Um >> they Yeah, they they made friends with
248:58 >> they Yeah, they they made friends with >> And this show is really a good advantage
249:00 >> And this show is really a good advantage if you want to make if you want to meet
249:02 if you want to make if you want to meet other other guy outside of your country.
249:06 other other guy outside of your country. >> Yes. Yeah.
249:07 >> Yes. Yeah. >> Yeah. Cuz one girl got a sugar daddy.
249:09 >> Yeah. Cuz one girl got a sugar daddy. >> Yeah.
249:11 >> Yeah. >> Yeah. For her birthday. Members only
249:13 >> Yeah. For her birthday. Members only community. Gentlemen, if you want to
249:14 community. Gentlemen, if you want to contact these ladies, that's how you do
249:16 contact these ladies, that's how you do it. Link in the description. And I guess
249:18 it. Link in the description. And I guess um any last words? You guys want to say
249:21 um any last words? You guys want to say any last thing?
249:21 any last thing? >> Last word.
249:24 >> Last word. >> Before I hit the button.
249:26 >> Before I hit the button. >> Okay. Thank you, viewers.
249:28 >> Okay. Thank you, viewers. >> Yeah.
249:28 >> Yeah. >> Yeah, that was nice. Enjoy.
249:30 >> Yeah, that was nice. Enjoy. >> Thank you for watching us.
249:32 >> Thank you for watching us. >> 74 people came through, so that was
249:34 >> 74 people came through, so that was pretty cool. That's It's not bad.
249:35 pretty cool. That's It's not bad. >> It's only our second live stream.
249:37 >> It's only our second live stream. And we only had one technical difficulty
249:39 And we only had one technical difficulty this time. So that's good. All right.
249:41 this time. So that's good. All right. Thank you very much for watching. My
249:42 Thank you very much for watching. My name is Mike Fluke. Keep watching the
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