0:01 all right in today's video I'm showing
0:03 you why women don't want you they only
0:05 want your attention and they want you to
0:08 notice them I'm also going to explain
0:10 this to you I'm going to explain to you
0:12 in today's video why calling it
0:14 attention if you say the words women
0:16 want your attention yes this is true to
0:18 some degree but if you tell yourself
0:20 this this might actually hinder your
0:22 dating results because attention is
0:25 probably a weaker word to use and what
0:27 I'm about to show you because with these
0:29 Concepts it's really about understanding
0:31 them at a deep level because you have to
0:33 understand something before you're able
0:35 to apply it so with that said I'm very
0:37 excited to show you all of this today
0:39 now on top of that we just crossed over
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0:59 life-changing when a guy starts to apply
1:01 these processes inside of his own dating
1:03 life let's dive in so the first thing
1:05 you have to realize is women do not
1:08 actually feel anything for you as an
1:10 individual you see this is what guys
1:12 think is guys think that when they are
1:15 texting her and they are talking about
1:17 you know his life to her and you are
1:20 getting to know her guys actually think
1:22 that that means something and that women
1:25 care they do not care women don't
1:28 actually feel anything for you as an
1:31 individual Okay so so what that means is
1:33 often times all of the decisions that
1:36 they make when it comes to their mating
1:38 or their dating choices it comes down to
1:40 these two things it comes down to your
1:43 smv which is your dating value and how
1:45 many other women want you and then it's
1:47 going to come down to your popularity
1:49 and your Social Status that's what she's
1:52 looking at to her that is attraction
1:54 okay you can try to get to know her all
1:56 you want you can try to reveal as much
1:57 information to yourself as you want all
1:59 you're doing is giving more certainty
2:01 and actually decreasing her desire for
2:04 you so here's what you have to remember
2:06 when they are selecting who they want to
2:10 date they either want your genes okay
2:13 and who you are okay which dictates her
2:17 romantic interest for you or they
2:19 believe that you can Aid in their future
2:22 survival and that's it you can help them
2:25 satisfy hypergamy either through who you
2:27 are okay and your genes because that's
2:30 what mating is essentially right or they
2:31 believe that you can Aid in their future
2:33 survival to help them satisfy hypergamy
2:36 and optimize their own future survival
2:38 which means if you're bringing resources
2:39 and popularity and social proof to the
2:43 table her aligning herself with you she
2:45 knows that that right there gives her a
2:48 very good chance of future success in
2:51 her world so you have to remember this
2:53 it purely comes down to what they want
2:55 they don't care about what you want they
2:57 don't even care about you as an
2:59 individual okay so their heart
3:03 hardwiring is still extremely Primal
3:05 despite everything that you know people
3:07 do to try to get to know each other and
3:09 stuff like that it still comes down to
3:12 the main things okay so that means it
3:14 has nothing to do with getting to know
3:16 you on a personality level what you have
3:19 to remember is they truly only respect
3:22 indifference now the problem with men is
3:24 they look at the word indifference from
3:26 a logical standpoint so they say the
3:28 word indifference and then what they
3:30 assume that that means is not talking
3:32 very much or not talking to her at all
3:34 I'm going to show you in today's video
3:36 why this is completely wrong and why how
3:38 you even categorize the terms of these
3:41 words and what these words mean in a
3:43 reflection to your own dating life truly
3:45 will dictate if you get success in
3:48 dating or not because your idea of
3:49 indifference is probably far different
3:51 than hers and I'm going to show you what
3:54 that means in just a little bit so what
3:55 that means is let's give you an example
3:58 okay they only respect indifference so
4:01 you or you giving commitment okay you
4:04 committing in a relationship it may be
4:08 appreciated for her companionship but
4:10 this is typically always met with her
4:13 decrease in romantic desire she will
4:16 appreciate having a companion but
4:18 naturally okay when it comes to her own
4:20 attraction and how she views you on a
4:22 romantic level it is typically meant
4:24 with a decrease in her romantic desire
4:26 and her romantic interest for you so
4:28 let's move on to this column okay
4:31 multiple times in my life where let's
4:34 say I asked a woman out on a date or
4:36 something like that okay this has
4:37 happened multiple times through the past
4:39 10 years I'm giving you numerous
4:41 circumstances here and it all comes down
4:43 to something like this there has been
4:45 multiple times in my life where let's
4:48 say I asked a woman out on a date and I
4:50 will get no reply this has happened to
4:52 me I know that this has happened to you
4:54 this has happened to every single man
4:56 don't ever tell yourself that this
4:58 doesn't happen to everybody because this
4:59 happens to everybody this will happen to
5:01 guys who are very tall this will happen
5:03 to guys who are rich this will happen to
5:06 guys who are good-look
5:09 okay it's not just you every single guy
5:11 deals with this kind of stuff okay
5:13 including me which is why I'm able to
5:15 make these videos and show you and help
5:18 you okay every man on planet Earth most
5:21 likely has had to deal with some kind of
5:23 rejection okay nowadays I've even seen
5:25 stuff on social media where let's say a
5:27 professional basketball player or
5:29 football player will comment something
5:31 on a different woman's profile saying
5:33 you know check your direct messages or
5:34 something like that and she just won't
5:37 reply or she'll screenshot it or
5:38 something like that and everybody knows
5:41 that she basically rejected him so this
5:43 happens to everybody numerous times in
5:45 my life where let's say I've asked a
5:47 woman out here's what happens okay let's
5:50 say I get no reply give it a week or two
5:52 later let's say she'll see me out at a
5:54 restaurant with a different woman and
5:56 then instantly within that hour I get a
5:59 text message or a call I am literally
6:01 sitting at a restaurant with a different
6:03 woman this was probably 6 months ago
6:05 this is a a story this has actually
6:06 happened in my dating life I'm sitting
6:08 there on a date and a different woman
6:10 who I was talking to probably a couple
6:13 weeks prior who didn't want to see me
6:15 called me four times in a row because
6:17 she was at that same restaurant and
6:20 watched me on that date and she saw that
6:22 other woman now as competition they
6:24 truly only want what they can't have and
6:26 seeing a different woman have you makes
6:29 them angry because now this shows that
6:31 you're smv and your social status and
6:33 popularity is higher than she thought it
6:37 was that's what it comes down to okay so
6:40 instantly I got a call and a text so I
6:42 will give you another example let's say
6:44 um I didn't get a reply but now all of a
6:47 sudden like let's say somebody took a
6:49 picture with me on social media and it's
6:51 on somebody's story okay and we're all
6:52 having fun and having a great time and
6:54 she sees that other people are
6:56 responding well when I'm around now all
6:57 of a sudden I'll get a text message
6:59 that's like oh hey stranger you know
7:02 I've been so busy I've been so busy I'd
7:05 love to see you something like that when
7:07 are you free it's just instantaneously
7:08 it's like oh well now I'm going to give
7:10 this guy time and make myself available
7:12 this is why I'm telling you like the way
7:15 she views you it's flexible it's not
7:20 fixed I was the same guy with the same
7:23 amount of Personality as I had I looked
7:25 the same I had the same clothes on you
7:27 know or something like that the only
7:30 difference is how she viewed me her
7:32 perception of you this is why with a
7:35 woman you have to stimulate her mind
7:38 okay they're not just only looking at
7:39 you from the
7:41 physical it's everything that goes into
7:43 how they think and how they feel about
7:46 you it's up here it's it's of the mind
7:47 okay I'm trying my best to explain this
7:50 but just stick with me they feel no love
7:52 for you as an individual as soon as you
7:55 act incorrectly they feel nothing for
7:57 you and once it's over for them it is
7:59 completely over forever once you do
8:01 something that lowers their desire to
8:04 the point where they feel like you are
8:07 no longer a fit to satisfy their
8:09 hypergamy it does not matter if you've
8:10 been with them for one week one month
8:13 one year or 10 years it's over and she
8:15 will probably never come back to you
8:18 ever until she sees that potentially
8:21 maybe you were able to attract other
8:22 women at or above her current level of
8:24 attractiveness and now she maybe will
8:26 see that she made a mistake but for most
8:28 men that is never going to happen and
8:29 most men are not willing to put in the
8:31 work either to figure out how to
8:32 actually uplevel their own social
8:35 popularity and grow as an individual so
8:37 they typically feel no love for you as
8:40 an individual their perception of your
8:43 smv is constantly flexible it's never
8:45 fixed so this is why I'm telling you
8:47 slowly you're going to see
8:50 why they only really want you to notice
8:51 them this is going to tie back to the
8:53 title in just a little bit so here's
8:55 what men should really start doing men
8:59 need to start to withhold their care and
9:00 their love love and their affection and
9:03 their desire to even see her okay until
9:05 she has really shown that she wants you
9:08 and has very high desire and here's
9:10 why I'm going to help you look at this
9:12 at a different level there's two words
9:15 that are used a lot when it comes to
9:17 teaching when it comes to attraction
9:18 that I really don't like the first word
9:20 that I don't like is status the second
9:22 word that I don't like is attention the
9:24 reason why I don't like the word status
9:28 is because to me if you say uh women are
9:31 drawn to Men of stat St to me this is
9:33 way too materialistic I think most guys
9:34 think of the amount of social media
9:36 followers that a guy has and I also
9:39 think that people look at status as like
9:42 designer clothes and stuff and that
9:44 typically is not what is actually going
9:46 on when it comes to if she is attracted
9:49 to you or not okay so the word that I
9:51 like to use instead of status I like to
9:53 use the word popularity because when
9:55 people say the word popular or
9:57 popularity they typically think about
9:59 like high school or college and now it
10:01 makes sense right she needs to see the
10:03 proof when you're in high school or
10:05 college people didn't typically say the
10:08 word status people said oh you know that
10:12 guy is the athlete he's popular okay
10:15 that's a better word because it helps
10:18 you grasp and understand that you need
10:20 social proof beyond your bank balance
10:22 and your designer watch and the amount
10:24 of followers you have okay the second
10:25 word that I don't like is the word
10:28 attention because I think it's too vague
10:29 I think that it doesn't actually
10:32 describe what it is that is needed to
10:34 understand how she sees you okay and
10:36 most guys when they think about the word
10:37 attention they typically just think
10:39 about how many dates they're taking her
10:40 on or they think about how much they're
10:42 text messaging her okay instead of the
10:44 word attention I like to use the phrase
10:47 she just wants you to notice her if you
10:50 shift it to this now it makes sense
10:52 because you withholding your ability to
10:55 even notice her beauty is what's going
10:57 to Skyrocket her interest level towards
11:00 you so you not even noticing her and
11:02 being indifferent to her beauty makes
11:06 her feel like you're confident so guys
11:08 who appear Charming or guys who appear
11:10 confident it really is just guys who are
11:11 not revealing their interest level
11:14 because what most men try to do to
11:16 appear confident most guys assume that
11:18 this means that you should overtly
11:21 validate and compliment her and show
11:22 that you have enough courage to
11:25 basically State your romantic interest
11:27 to her and all this does is ruin the
11:30 mystery that she has
11:32 and all this does is lower your dating
11:35 value or your smv so do not do that you
11:36 have to understand that when you're
11:38 using these words like the word
11:39 confidence for example that can mean a
11:40 lot of different things to a lot of
11:42 different people so it's like once you
11:45 identify a word okay you have to
11:48 basically now identify what is the terms
11:50 and definition of that word that we are
11:51 going to actually use about that word so
11:54 that means we're actually using it in
11:57 the right sense okay because Charming to
11:59 a woman is probably a guy who is
12:02 withholding care and attention and being
12:04 a bit indifferent and mysterious so she
12:06 can't read his interest level to a woman
12:08 that's going to be Charming now if you
12:11 just take a normal dude at the shopping
12:13 mall or whatever and you ask him for his
12:15 definition of charming he might tell you
12:18 it's a guy who is very uh comfortable
12:21 and talkative and talks a lot and all
12:24 that stuff see two different definitions
12:25 meaning two different things so when
12:27 you're talking about attraction the
12:29 reason why I think if you're
12:32 trying to learn is you have to be taught
12:35 words not only that matter but the
12:37 definition and the terms around those
12:38 words so that way you know how to
12:40 actually apply it because I think that
12:42 that's what's missing in people's dating
12:45 lives right now is Clarity there's a lot
12:47 of confusion there's a lot of words
12:48 there's a lot of terms being thrown
12:50 around there's not a lot of clarity and
12:51 that's what I try to do with this
12:54 channel is give you some clarity so you
12:55 not even noticing her and being
12:57 indifferent to her beauty makes her feel
13:00 like you're confident so since women's
13:03 smv perception of you okay so their
13:05 perception of your dating value since
13:09 it's flexible not fixed okay that means
13:12 men need to realize that majority of
13:14 women find them unattractive simply
13:17 because they do not act correctly and
13:20 are not a challenge by you acting
13:22 correctly since now you're stimulating
13:25 her mind this is going to cause her to
13:28 feel attraction because with women it is
13:30 far far beyond just the physical of what
13:32 they see when it comes to how they view
13:35 you keep that in mind so obviously I
13:37 will keep her name private but she says
13:40 hi Casey I came across your YouTube
13:42 channel and I think you are one of the
13:44 best out there in terms of explaining
13:47 attraction Dynamics As I understood it
13:49 correctly the perfect behavior for men
13:51 is showing indifference and looking back
13:53 at the men that showed the most
13:56 indifference towards me were the ones I
13:58 felt most attracted to this was an
14:01 actual Direct message that I got okay so
14:03 what does that mean okay that means
14:05 women will admit that the only men that
14:07 they actually desire crave and lust
14:10 after is the men who show indifference to
14:11 to
14:13 them this was an actual message I got
14:16 this morning so your indifference is a
14:19 direct representation of your smv and
14:21 potentially gives her an idea of the
14:23 women that you're used to dating now
14:26 stick with me here all she really wants
14:29 is for you to notice her that's that's
14:31 what she wants she wants you to notice
14:35 her by you noticing her though you are
14:37 now giving that validation where she now
14:39 has certainty so let me give you an
14:41 example her mind is polar opposite to
14:43 how you think okay her mind is polar
14:45 opposite to how you see attraction she
14:47 could be at a party and have five
14:50 different guys trying to talk to her
14:53 okay but because at that party at that
14:55 one moment because she has interest in
14:58 this one guy over here who doesn't even
14:59 see her
15:01 okay stick with me here she could have
15:03 five different guys at a party trying to
15:05 talk to her and the whole night since
15:07 she's looking at the one guy over there
15:09 who doesn't even see her that's the man
15:12 that she wants so I have real proof of
15:14 this type of stuff I have real proof of
15:15 this stuff even in my own dating life
15:19 over the years um so let me show you a
15:21 few real situations that I've actually
15:23 heard and I've been through um I was
15:26 dating a woman uh over the past probably
15:29 like six months right now and she said
15:31 word for word when we were at her house
15:34 she goes once a man crosses me it's
15:35 totally over and I go crosses you I go
15:38 what do you mean by that and keep in
15:40 mind from what she told me all of her
15:43 exes like her ex-boyfriends were all
15:46 good men so these were men who wanted a
15:48 future with her these were men who
15:50 wanted a relationship with her these
15:52 were men who wanted marriage with her
15:55 and she left all of them so I
15:58 said I go well them being nice to you is
16:01 crossing you you and she goes yes that's
16:04 what she said she goes yes so this is
16:05 why I'm telling you not only do you have
16:09 to understand the words okay but you
16:11 have to actually understand their
16:14 interpretation and definition of the
16:17 words and the terms around it of what they
16:18 they
16:21 mean because most guys if they
16:24 hear her say once a man crosses me it's
16:26 totally over most guys I think would
16:27 probably assume that that means once a
16:29 guy treats her poorly
16:32 but she meant this the complete
16:34 opposite I said to her I goes so them
16:36 being nice to you is them Crossing you
16:39 and she goes yes so notice there's
16:41 communication differences
16:44 between the whole conversation there was
16:46 another woman a couple years ago who I
16:48 was dating and I remember this word for
16:50 word this is what she said I like the
16:52 attention when you responded to my
16:54 direct message I liked the attention
16:56 this is what she said she didn't say I
17:00 liked you she said I liked the attention
17:02 isn't that funny they don't see
17:05 attraction the way you see it so this is
17:06 why I'm telling you women don't actually
17:09 feel anything for you as an individual
17:11 another example would be from today in
17:13 my direct messages the woman saying that
17:16 men who show indifference are the ones
17:19 that she was most attracted to about a
17:21 month ago me and my friends were at a
17:23 party and there was about four or five
17:25 women around us and they were about
17:29 between the ages of like 23 to about 25
17:31 and they said word for word they go I
17:32 don't know why we are most attracted to
17:34 the men who don't care about us this is
17:38 what they said okay so you hear all this
17:39 probably makes sense now that I've
17:42 described this here's where I'm going to
17:44 throw you a curveball by the end of this
17:47 content by the end of this video right
17:49 here there should be one thing going
17:51 through your mind and the one thing
17:53 going through your mind is this and this
17:55 is what myself and even other guys who I
17:57 know could not piece together for the
17:59 longest time and the reason being is
18:00 because we do not see the word
18:02 indifference the way a woman sees the
18:04 word indifference let me explain the one
18:05 thing that I could not piece together
18:08 for myself even for years I struggled
18:11 with this until I really understood this
18:13 okay I said to myself if women prefer
18:14 men who withhold their interest level
18:16 and don't give them a lot of attention
18:19 okay or let's say they don't notice them
18:22 wouldn't that equal that the guy is not
18:24 talking to them doesn't that mean he's
18:26 sitting there mysteriously or he's
18:28 sitting there all mysterious not trying
18:30 to give a lot of validation not trying
18:31 to even
18:34 communicate not true and here's why
18:35 majority of men will typically see this
18:38 if you have night life in your city
18:39 where you go look at the clubs you look
18:42 at the people out dating or whatever the
18:45 popular outgoing extroverted socialites
18:47 tend to attract women
18:50 quickly and this will give you a big
18:51 question mark in your mind because you
18:53 say well they are giving attention they're
18:54 they're
18:57 communicating why is it that he's able
18:58 to communicate with her give that
19:01 attention or let's say the word notice
19:03 them and she responds well to it let me
19:05 give you an example this causes
19:08 confusion because most guys go well he's
19:12 all over all over the place talking and
19:13 extroverted so he's clearly giving
19:15 attention to the woman why is he
19:17 succeeding this is what I wanted to know
19:19 for so many years and then I finally
19:21 started to really piece stuff together I
19:23 started looking at everything and then I
19:26 even paid attention to when I started to
19:28 attract women at social events in my own
19:30 dating life life here's what happened
19:32 and here's what I notice the answer is
19:34 because that guy is at the cause of
19:37 everybody else's conversation he is not
19:39 at the effect of hers so what you will
19:41 notice with these guys even if they talk
19:43 a lot even if they are extroverted
19:45 here's what you're going to notice that
19:47 guy the whole time he is in his own
19:50 world having fun with himself and for
19:53 himself okay and the vibe of the party
19:55 is all he's focused on he is not focused
19:57 on her he is not focused on even
19:59 attracting her he is defin Ely not
20:00 focused on dating her and he has not
20:03 focused on her beauty and if she decides
20:07 to date him or they go out together or
20:09 they end up going back home together or
20:12 whatever it's because she saw the social
20:14 proof of other people responding well to his
20:15 his
20:17 extrovertedness but guess what he
20:19 probably didn't even have to show any
20:21 overt interest so this is what I'm
20:23 getting at most would assume that the
20:26 indifference would be him not talking to
20:29 her and it's just not true
20:30 he is still talking to her he is still
20:32 extroverted he is still communicating
20:35 but he has not revealed his interest
20:38 level and he has not basically
20:41 shown that he needs to be with her or to
20:43 date her and because of that her
20:46 interest goes up the more you focus on
20:48 yourself the more you focus on your
20:50 day-to-day activities that allows you to
20:53 have fun for you the better people will
20:56 treat you socially the better women will
20:58 respond to you and the more dates and
21:01 dating success you will start to obtain
21:02 what I advise you to do is take this a
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21:23 teaching inside of that with an exact
21:25 step-by-step process that a guy can
21:28 follow I know that you will start to
21:30 look at own dating life differently and
21:32 you will start to see things from a
21:34 different lens so that way you for once
21:37 have a process that is predictable
21:39 repeatable and you know that it works
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