0:02 You sleep with someone that is not your
0:05 wife. This happens. Number one, you
0:08 invite poverty into your life. Adultery
0:10 is a thief. It steals your money, your
0:12 focus, and your destiny. You pay for
0:16 hotel rooms, drinks, gifts, transport,
0:18 secret outings, and all of it for a
0:21 woman who will never build with you.
0:24 Proverbs 6:26 says, "A prostitute
0:26 reduces you to a loaf of bread." That's
0:30 not poetry. It's reality. Many men
0:31 should be landlords, but they are still
0:33 tenants because they've been paying rent
0:35 in the wrong bedrooms. Every time you
0:37 sleep with another man's daughter, wife,
0:40 or sister, your wealth leaks out of your
0:43 hands like water through a cracked pot.
0:46 Number two, you transfer spirits and
0:49 receive bondage. Sex is not just
0:52 physical. It is a spiritual transaction.
0:54 You don't just enter her body, you enter
0:57 her soul. Whatever spirits she carries,
1:00 you inherit. If she is carrying
1:02 rejection, you'll start battling
1:04 rejection. If she is carrying lust,
1:07 you'll find yourself addicted to porn,
1:10 masturbation, and adultery. Suddenly,
1:12 you're fighting battles that never
1:15 belong to you. That's why many men lose
1:17 their peace after sleeping around,
1:20 because sex is an exchange of spirits,
1:23 not just an exchange of fluids. Number
1:26 three, you endanger your health. Every
1:29 time you cheat, you gamble with your
1:34 life. STDS, infections, HIV. These don't
1:37 care about your sweet words or secrecy.
1:39 Beyond physical disease, adultery eats
1:42 your mental health. You become paranoid,
1:44 living in fear of being caught. You tell
1:46 lies upon lies until you can't remember
1:49 the last lie you told. Your peace
1:52 disappears, replaced by constant
1:55 anxiety. The woman in your bed may look
1:57 like a goddess, but she may be carrying
2:00 poison that will end your destiny.
2:03 STDs are not written on beautiful faces,
2:05 and some women carry spirits that can
2:08 destroy any man they sleep with. Be wise.
2:10 wise.
2:12 Number four,
2:15 most times you end up hating the person.
2:18 Lust feels like love in the moment. But
2:21 when the heat is over, regret sets in.
2:22 That person you thought you couldn't
2:26 live without suddenly irritates you. The
2:28 stolen bed that once looked like heaven
2:30 begins to feel like hell. You don't just
2:33 hate them, you start hating yourself,
2:35 too. Guilt turns sweetness into
2:37 bitterness. And what you thought was
2:40 pleasure becomes poison to your soul.
2:42 Many men can't even look at the women
2:44 they once risked their lives to sleep
2:48 with. That's the deception of lust.
2:53 Number five, you face karma. One day,
2:55 life has a way of repaying men in their
2:58 own currency. The wife you cheated on
3:00 will cry bitter tears, and those tears
3:02 will speak against you. The home you
3:04 destroyed will become a curse on your
3:06 head. The same way you betrayed your
3:08 covenant is the same way another man
3:11 will betray you or your children.
3:14 Galatians 6:7 warns us, "Do not be
3:17 deceived. God is not mocked. Whatever a
3:20 man sws, he will reap. Karma may take
3:23 time, but it always knocks at the door."
3:27 Lastly, you disconnect from God. Sin
3:29 always separates.
3:32 After adultery, prayer becomes hard,
3:34 worship feels empty, and guilt sits on
3:37 your chest like a heavy stone. You can
3:39 fool your wife, your church, and even
3:43 your friends. But you can't fool God.
3:46 Every time you climb into the wrong bed,
3:48 you climb out of his presence. Samson
3:51 lost his strength, David lost his peace,
3:54 and countless men have lost their fire
3:57 for God because of sexual sin. No man
4:00 can play with adultery and still carry
4:03 God's power. Sleeping with a woman that
4:05 is not your wife is not a harmless
4:08 mistake. It is a destiny destroyer. You
4:11 lose money, you lose peace, you lose
4:13 health, you lose respect, and you lose
4:16 your connection with God. What looks
4:18 like fun for a few minutes can leave
4:22 scars for a lifetime. Men, guard your
4:25 seed. Don't waste it on strange beds.
4:28 Women, guard your covenant. Don't let
4:31 lust blind you. Couples, guard your
4:34 marriage. Protect your destiny. One
4:36 night of fornication can cost you your
4:39 wealth, your health, your home, your
4:41 children's future, and your relationship
4:44 with God. Don't trade eternity for a
4:46 moment of lust. If you think I'm lying,
