0:02 this video will serve as your texting
0:03 Bible it doesn't matter what your skills
0:05 are or which goal you're talking to in
0:07 this video I will explain everything you
0:09 need to know about texting in detail and
0:11 if you ever feel confused or face any
0:13 issues with texting come back to this
0:16 video and you'll 100% find the solution
0:18 to your problem the first thing you need
0:19 to understand is that the purpose of
0:22 texting is to set up a date and meet the
0:24 woman not just to chat the goal of
0:25 texting is not just conversation but
0:28 meeting up listen carefully as a man you
0:30 won't gain anything from texting it's a
0:32 waste of time and won't bring you any
0:34 benefit this is the first point I want
0:36 you to understand the second point is
0:38 that a woman will not develop feelings
0:40 for you just through texting and this is
0:42 the mistake that many men make they text
0:44 just for the sake of chatting no you
0:46 should use texting to get to the stage
0:48 of setting up a date and here I'll
0:50 slightly diverge to talk about something
0:52 important men who talk to girls who
0:53 don't live in the same city if you live
0:55 in one state and the girl lives in
0:57 another that means you shouldn't waste
0:58 your time with her and I'm not
1:00 criticizing anyone but if you're talking
1:02 to a girl who doesn't live in your city
1:03 why are you talking to her what will you
1:06 gain even if you meet once a month or
1:08 once every 3 months you need to
1:09 understand that this is a losing
1:11 equation for you as a man there are
1:12 hundreds of thousands maybe even
1:14 millions of women in your city so why
1:16 are you looking for a girl in a Nova
1:18 City think carefully before you waste
1:20 your time and energy on this finally the
1:22 third point I want you to understand is
1:24 that texting is just a conversation in
1:26 the digital world this digital
1:28 conversation although it has rules
1:29 different from The Real World Is Still
1:31 still just a reflection of the real
1:33 world this means that to succeed in the
1:35 digital world you first need to know how
1:37 to communicate in the real world if
1:39 you've been following my series on how
1:41 to attract women you probably won't have
1:42 an issue with this because I've
1:44 explained everything you need and you
1:46 likely already understand how a woman
1:47 thinks if you haven't watched this
1:50 series please when you finish this video
1:52 go back and start from the first episode
1:53 so you can get the most benefit from
1:56 today's video now let's return to the
1:58 topic of texting from my experience I've
2:00 noticed that the mistake I used to make
2:02 and that most guys make when texting is
2:04 that they don't know when to ask a girl
2:05 for a date that's why I'm now going to
2:08 explain a basic concept in texting you
2:09 need to know what stage you're in are
2:11 you in the stage where you should ask
2:12 for a date or in the stage where you
2:14 should just continue the conversation or
2:16 are you in the stage where you need to
2:18 build attraction the important thing is
2:20 that you know which stage you're in now
2:21 now I'm going to give you a compass that
2:23 I want you to hold on to this Compass
2:25 will help you figure out which stage
2:27 you're in if you're texting a girl or
2:28 want to start talking to one there are
2:31 four stages you might be in stage one
2:33 the silent stage this is when she leaves
2:35 you on read and doesn't reply this means
2:37 that attraction has dropped don't worry
2:39 we'll discuss this in detail just be
2:41 patient with me stage two the testing
2:43 stage this is when she criticizes you
2:45 disagrees with you or talks about other
2:47 guys if you've watched the entire series
2:50 you already know that I always say girls
2:52 test guys it's a biological Instinct
2:53 they have and they do it without
2:55 realizing it I also always tell you that
2:57 I'll make a video explaining how to pass
2:59 these tests I apologize for the delay
3:01 but soon I'll make a video where I
3:03 explain these tests in detail stage
3:05 three The Logical stage this is when she
3:06 starts discussing topics with you
3:09 logically or sometimes emotionally stage
3:11 four the attraction stage this is when
3:13 the girl starts showing her attraction
3:14 towards you like sending you her
3:16 pictures reacting positively to your
3:18 pictures or hinting at a possible Meetup
3:20 in any text conversation with a girl
3:22 you'll always be in one of these stages
3:24 100% you need to know which stage you're
3:26 in right now so you can act accordingly
3:27 and don't worry I'll explain what you
3:29 need to do in each stage to make it
3:31 clearer let's assume you're in the stage
3:33 where the girl has shown her attraction
3:35 to you and what did you do you continued
3:36 talking to her and carried on with the
3:38 conversation here my friend you've made
3:40 a big mistake why are you still talking
3:42 to her when you reach this stage it
3:44 means you should ask her out if you
3:45 don't ask for a date and just keep
3:47 talking after a while she'll reject the
3:48 idea of a date because you didn't
3:50 recognize the stage you were in and
3:52 didn't take the right action or let's
3:53 assume you're in the first stage where
3:55 the girl responds with a few words and
3:57 leaves you on read without replying
3:59 further then you go ahead and ask for a
4:01 date that's another mistake you've taken
4:02 an action that doesn't fit the stage
4:04 you're in so once you know what stage
4:06 you're in it's time to figure out the
4:07 right way to handle the situation with
4:10 the girl but before I tell you what to
4:12 do in each stage I need to explain
4:13 something about the world of texting if
4:15 you've been following me for a while
4:17 you'll know that women are emotional
4:19 beings for them the world of texting is
4:20 an emotional game and all of their
4:23 actions are based on emotions as a man
4:24 you won't be able to play this game with
4:26 her because you're not an emotional
4:28 being you're a logical one that's why in
4:29 this video I'm explaining things to to
4:31 you from a logical perspective I want
4:33 you to understand texting from a logical
4:35 point of view and approach it that way
4:37 so you don't get pulled into the
4:39 emotional game that women try to involve
4:41 you in this may sound strange to you but
4:42 this is just how women are for them
4:44 dating is like a game and it's part of
4:46 their nature consider it an unavoidable
4:48 reality but when you enter this game and
4:50 see it through a logical lens you can
4:52 win because logic is your strength this
4:54 is what I try to do in all my videos
4:56 even if you don't always realize it in
4:58 this series I'm not just giving you
5:00 information I'm trying to shift your
5:02 perspective on dating so you see it in a
5:03 more logical way if you'd like me to
5:06 make a video discussing the logic of men
5:07 versus the emotions of women let me know
5:09 in the comments now let's get back to
5:11 our topic and go through the stages one
5:13 by one by the way these stages aren't in
5:15 a fixed order you could find yourself in
5:17 any stage and sometimes you might even
5:20 start in the attraction stage so let's
5:22 begin with the first stage the silence
5:24 stage in this stage the girl doesn't
5:26 respond or takes a long time to reply or
5:28 she might not seem interested in this
5:30 case you should avoid overwhelming her
5:32 with messages don't send too many and
5:34 don't ask for anything that requires a
5:36 response most importantly don't bring up
5:38 a date the only thing you can do is
5:40 leave a simple comment like reacting to
5:41 her story or saying something that
5:43 doesn't require a reply the goal here is
5:46 to maintain your value and not show any
5:48 neediness even if she doesn't respond
5:50 the second stage is the testing stage
5:52 here the girl might start provoking you
5:53 talking about someone else or
5:55 disagreeing with you this stage is
5:57 relatively easy because all you need to
5:59 do is pass her tests I'll explain this
6:01 more in a dedicated video but briefly
6:03 here are some ways to pass these tests
6:05 one completely ignore what she said two
6:07 take a comment and turn it into a joke
6:08 three give a response that's completely
6:11 unrelated to what she said in this stage
6:12 don't ask for a date yet because
6:14 attraction is still being built stage
6:16 three is the conversation stage where
6:18 the conversation flows more naturally
6:20 and might even involve exchanging voice
6:22 messages at this point you can ask for a
6:24 date in this stage I want you to apply
6:26 everything you've learned in this series
6:28 like qualifying techniques or asking
6:30 emotional questions and try to
6:32 incorporate them into your texting but
6:34 remember texting is slightly different
6:36 from talking on the phone or having a
6:38 face-to-face conversation to succeed in
6:40 texting you need to include a lot of
6:42 humor in your messages the funnier your
6:44 texts the more positive responses you'll
6:46 get from the girl one key to text
6:48 messaging success is to avoid using the
6:50 girl's real name instead give her a
6:53 playful nickname like munchkin cutie or
6:55 my dear these nicknames will help you
6:57 get faster replies here's a text
6:58 messaging technique I've personally
7:01 developed that Works quite well you hey
7:02 chickp how good is your memory on a
7:05 scale of 1 to 10 huh well 10 you okay
7:07 let's test it if you lose you're buying
7:09 me dinner ready huh yes you what color
7:11 shoes was I wearing when we met H hm I
7:14 think black you wrong answer young lady
7:16 now you owe me dinner big time then call
7:18 her immediately after even if she gives
7:19 the right answer still call and
7:21 playfully argue that you had on a
7:23 different color shoes see how simple
7:24 this is all you need is a bit of
7:26 creativity and you can easily secure
7:28 date after date with minimal risk of
7:30 rejection the the reason some guys often
7:32 get rejected is because their messages
7:35 are just too dull they send texts like
7:36 can I call you are you free would you
7:38 like to watch a movie not only are these
7:40 messages boring but they are also
7:42 practically asking to be rejected here
7:44 are a few examples of messages that will
7:46 get you quick and positive responses you
7:48 won't believe how badly I embarrass
7:51 myself today my mom would be so ashamed
7:53 call me I'm starving I'll let you buy me
7:55 a burger if you promise to take me out
7:57 my cousin's here she's just like you you
7:58 have to meet her this is the best day of
8:00 my life I finally did it buzz me when
8:02 you're free as long as your messages
8:04 include humor mystery and a touch of
8:05 excitement you'll always get positive
8:07 responses Now we move on to the final
8:09 stage where the girl starts sending you
8:11 her pictures or showing significant
8:14 interest such as engaging positively
8:16 with your pictures at this stage if you
8:18 haven't met her in person yet it becomes
8:20 essential and Urgent to ask her for a
8:22 date if you don't ask for a date at this
8:23 point you risk losing her if you like
8:25 the girl and want to keep talking to her
8:27 you must ask her for a date if you don't
8:28 she'll either place you in the friend
8:30 zone or stop talking to you altogether
8:32 now you should have a clear
8:33 understanding of the text in game like
8:35 any game There are rules you need to
8:37 know and follow to succeed in short
8:39 these rules are in general keep your
8:41 text short and to the point they should
8:43 be emotionally stimulating she should
8:45 feel something from your text you should
8:47 not be texting her all the time you are
8:49 a man who has important things to do
8:51 texting her constantly is not one of
8:53 them every text should serve a purpose
8:55 to spark her emotions or to set up a
8:57 date send her the first text within 48
8:59 Hours of getting her number don't ask
9:01 boring questions don't try to impress
9:03 her don't be mentally waiting for her to
9:05 respond go about your busy day as you
9:08 normally do and respond to her texts
9:10 when you get a chance text like a man
9:12 don't ask her too many questions instead
9:14 of asking questions make statements and
9:16 commands and here we have come to the
9:18 end of our guide in the description
9:20 you'll find the link to the full series
9:22 for free on YouTube if you're still
9:24 watching at this point don't forget to
9:25 hit the like button and if you have any
9:27 questions leave them in the comments so
9:29 I can know what challenges you're facing take
9:31 take care
9:42 Str emotional
9:46 flicker you are my
9:50 everything we know we could have done it
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