0:03 I I I know what I'd answer I'd say I
0:07 think you are too no say tell this to me
0:16 I'm see
0:18 your well phony is not quite the right
0:22 word but it's more like a a show off a
0:25 show like you know all the answers yeah
0:27 and I want you to be more human and that
0:30 doesn't seem very human to me to know
0:32 the answers is not very you yeah to
0:33 right away find out how I'm kicking my
0:35 feet and why am I doing like this why
0:38 are you doing like that oh dear I've got
0:40 eyes I can see you kicking your feet I
0:43 don't need a a scientific computer to
0:45 see that you're kicking your feet what's
0:46 big about
0:49 that you don't need to be wise to see
0:51 that you're kicking your feet I know but
0:53 it seems like you're trying to find some
0:56 reason for it I
0:59 don't this your imagination okay I know
1:00 what I'd like from you can I tell you
1:02 what I'd like for me yeah I'd like you
1:04 to be aware that I'm kicking my feet and
1:06 to be aware that I'm giggling when I'm
1:07 really nervous and accept it instead of
1:09 putting me on the defense of having to
1:12 explain it I don't want to have to
1:13 explain why I'm doing these things did I
1:16 ask you to explain it you said why am I
1:18 or what am I doing well what am I doing
1:20 you said that's right kicking your feet
1:22 I didn't ask you to explain
1:24 it is your
1:27 imagination it's not this FRS it's the
1:28 frots of your imagination
2:31 seems like you demand so much respect
2:33 and so
2:36 your please be fors I demand so much
2:44 saw well you know how smart I am I know
2:47 more about psychology than you do Gloria
2:50 so anything I say of course is right can
2:51 you say the same as Gloria something
2:54 similar as
2:57 Gloria with the same act as
3:04 C I don't
3:07 know you no I don't I identify it with
3:09 my father but not me I don't feel I
3:12 demand respect you don't demand respect
3:15 no sure not as a matter of fact I'd like
3:17 more I'd like you to respect me more no
3:20 you see so you Dem make
3:22 respect all right
3:24 yes yes asn't matter right if I could
3:28 demand respect from you I would I do it
3:30 it
3:38 yourself cuz I feel if I get myself out
3:39 on the corner you're going to let me
3:41 just drown you're not going to help me
3:43 one bit and I know that I can't quite
3:45 come up to standards with you what
3:54 corner encourage me to come out oh you
3:56 don't have
3:59 enough courage to come out by yourself
4:01 you need somebody pull little msin
4:04 distress out of a corner yes so anytime
4:08 you want somebody to uh pay attention to
4:11 you call into a corner and wait till The
4:13 Rescuer comes yes that's exactly what
4:16 I'd like and this is what I call phony
4:18 pardon me this is what I call phony why
4:20 is it phony I'm admitting to you what I
4:23 am how is that a phony that is a phony
4:25 because oh it's a trick it's a gimmick
4:27 to call into a call and wait until
4:30 somebody comes to your rescue I'm ad it
4:32 I know what I'm doing I'm not being
4:35 phony I'm not pretending I'm so
4:37 brave I resent that I feel like you're
4:39 saying unless I come out openly and
4:42 stand on my own I'm not a phony baloney
4:44 I'm just as just as real sitting in that
4:46 corner as I am out here all by myself
4:57 now and besides that it's like passing
4:59 judgment when you call me phony I just
5:02 hate that anyway now we're getting
5:05 somewhere I call anybody foron me who
5:08 puts on
5:10 act and if you like somebody and you
5:12 want to meet this
5:15 person to go to this person tell them I
5:17 would like to meet you I would call not
5:22 for me but if you coly go into that
5:25 corner waiting to be rescued this I call
5:28 F this I call and I still think you're
5:29 judgmental you know what I have have a
5:31 feeling you've never felt this way in
5:33 your life you feel so secure that you
5:34 don't have to feel anybody that does
5:36 something like this you're going to pass
5:38 judgment on there being a phony well I
5:40 resent it good now play Fritz passing
5:42 judgment you are you're sitting up there
5:44 in your big old chairit I am Fritz I pass
5:52 judgment pass judgment on me
5:56 now I don't feel close to you at all Dr
5:58 pearls I feel that's phony I feel like
6:01 you're playing one big game
6:04 right sure we playing games but in spite
6:07 of the games I think I've touched you
6:09 now and then I think I hurt you when I
6:11 called you a phone well of course you
6:14 did and I think I hit the bull's eye
6:20 hurt I don't know all I know is when
6:22 somebody when I feel the way I feel with
6:24 you right now I it's like you don't have
6:28 feeling F now exaggerate this what you
6:32 just did oh like that's it don't talk to
6:34 me like that I can't I can't I want to
6:35 laugh I want to I'd like you to be
6:37 younger than me so I could really scold
6:39 you how old must have
6:43 be my age 30 good I'm 30 now imagine I'm
6:46 30 and now you SC okay don't be so
6:48 sure of yourself don't think you're so
6:50 dog on Smart don't act so proud because
6:52 you've never been in the corner I think
6:54 you can be just as big a phony parading
6:56 around like you're so damn smart you
6:58 know all the answers as much as me
7:00 sitting in my corner
7:01 oh and I like the feeling of you being
7:03 younger I'd like to really I'd like to
7:06 embarrass you yeah embarrass me you
7:09 wouldn't get embarrassed you seem
7:12 unaffected tell me embarrass me tell me
7:15 how old how ugly I
7:17 am you don't look old and ugly you look
7:19 distinguished and that gives you that's
7:20 all the more on your side if you look so
7:23 distinguished then see that's more on
7:26 your side too well G can we say one
7:30 thing we had quite a good fight no I no
7:33 mm- no I F I don't think you're fighting
7:37 with me but I F you came out quite a
7:40 bit well I'm mad at you
7:43 wonderful but you seem so detached you
7:46 don't even seem to care that I'm mad at
7:48 you I feel like you're not recognizing
7:52 me at all Dr pearls not a bit this is
7:54 quite true our contact is much too
7:58 superficial to be involved in caring I
8:02 care for you as far as let's see you're
8:05 right now my client I care for you as
8:08 far as I like to like an artist bring
8:12 something out which is hidden in you is
8:20 care well I'd like you
8:22 to I'd like to feel that there's some
8:24 it's frustrating if I were to leave you
8:26 right now and not seean it would
8:27 frustrate me to feel like there hadn't
8:29 been more contact I feel completely out
8:31 of contact with you like I'm talking to
8:33 the baby that doesn't understand me or
8:34 something like that I don't feel like
8:36 we're a bit in contact and that o that frustrates
8:37 frustrates
8:40 me that bothers me more than being angry
8:41 with you I'd rather we were angry and
8:44 fought than to have no
8:46 contact yeah this reminds me of when my
8:48 husband and I used to fight he sits
8:50 there and he listens to me but he's not
8:52 even aware of how much I hate him and
8:54 how mad I am at him I'd rather a yeah
8:57 I'd rather affect you You' really hate
8:58 me or something
9:02 and and I feel like you're purposely
9:05 staying out of contact with me how
9:06 should I
9:10 be give me your fantasy how how could I
9:13 share you my concern with
9:16 you I can't say in words I know the
9:18 feeling I'd see on you but I can't say
9:20 it's just a feeling
9:24 like I don't know it's like I want you
9:25 to respect me more as a human being that
9:28 I've got feelings now we come back to
9:31 the beginning so you want respect yes I
9:33 do I do this is a different kind of
9:35 respect than I meant the first time but
9:43 yes I respect you so much as a human
9:46 being that I refuse to accept the F part
9:48 of yourself and address myself to the
9:51 genuine part right now the last few
9:54 minutes you were wonderfully
9:58 genuine you are not playing
10:05 hurting well I don't feel I've got a
10:07 right when I don't like somebody or I
10:09 disagree with somebody's doing if if I
