0:00 Hello everyone. These are the messages
0:03 for the weekend ahead. So, let's get
0:06 into it. Let's see what spirit has to
0:09 say. And I am fully booked with readings
0:12 through the weekend. So, if you feel
0:14 that you need a personal tarot reading,
0:17 love reading, or mediumship reading, my
0:19 daughter is a wonderful psychic medium,
0:21 and I will link her information below.
0:24 All right, let's get into this. So,
0:26 let's see what spirit has to say for the
0:29 weekend
0:43 ahead. Right. We have the two of
0:48 pentacles, the page of
0:53 cups, the six of pentacles.
0:59 Nice, the hanged
1:02 man, and the three of wands. Okay. So,
1:07 this is feeling like a very similar
1:09 message to uh one that we got earlier in
1:14 the week.
1:16 And this weekend, somebody may ask you
1:20 to help them um to lend them some money,
1:24 something. And they'll they're telling
1:26 you, "Hey, I'll help you out with this
1:28 or I will pay you back by this time."
1:31 and whatever it is they're asking of
1:33 you, it's kind of stretching you thin.
1:36 And if you have, if it's money, it's
1:38 like, "Yeah, I have this to give to you,
1:41 but I really don't. I need it back by
1:44 this specific time, or I'm already
1:47 running a little bit thin. This is the
1:49 little bit extra that I have." Um, and
1:52 they're like, "No, I got you. I'll give
1:54 it back to you." But this is spirit
1:57 saying no. Don't overextend yourself
2:01 because you're going to be waiting a
2:02 long time to get that money back. Um or
2:06 if they're asking you to do a favor or
2:08 to go to an activity or something, hang
2:11 out with them, there's something about
2:13 your time where you really don't have
2:16 the time or if you do what they're
2:17 asking, it just takes up a lot of your
2:20 downtime, your personal space. And
2:24 again, it's like, don't do it. Whatever
2:26 is being asked of you this weekend, and
2:29 you feel like it's going to stretch you
2:32 thin, cause you stress, anxiety,
2:35 spirit's saying, don't do it because
2:37 whatever they're offering in return,
2:40 it's going to be a long time coming or
2:42 um you're just not going to have a good
2:44 time because it's not what you really
2:46 want to do anyways. So, don't overextend
2:50 yourself. And also, some of you may be
2:53 having a conversation with somebody
2:56 where they've promised you something or
2:59 said something in the past and you've
3:01 been kind of going back and forth within
3:03 yourself. Do I bring this up? Do I call
3:06 them out on it or do I just keep quiet
3:08 and wait a little bit longer? This is,
3:11 you know, having that
3:13 conversation. They're going to try to
3:15 brick wall you or put you off. Oh, I
3:17 can't talk right now. I'll call you back
3:20 later. that type of energy. So, this
3:23 message so far for the weekend is what's
3:27 best for you? What do you want to do?
3:30 Um, how do you want to spend your time?
3:33 And if somebody has been just kind of
3:35 putting you off, putting you off,
3:37 putting you off, maybe it's time that
3:40 you kind of close the door on them and
3:43 make them wait on you. So, if you're
3:47 usually somebody who responds very
3:50 quickly um from a text or a message or a
3:54 phone call, when they're reaching out
3:56 and trying to get to you, perhaps ignore
3:59 them for a couple of days and don't get
4:02 back to them so quickly. It's like pull
4:05 your energy back and focus on what's
4:07 best for you, what you want to do this
4:10 weekend, and don't worry about the rest.
4:13 Because whoever this is, I just feel
4:16 they're going to let you down. Um, and
4:18 if you're trying to have like a
4:20 heart-to-he heart conversation with
4:22 them, it's just it's not going to go
4:24 anywhere and you're going to feel very
4:27 very frustrated and why do I even try?
4:31 Because hanged man is an energy of do
4:34 not proceed forward. Three of Wands is
4:37 an energy of waiting. And just depending
4:39 on the other cards, it could also be
4:42 about something finally coming in that
4:44 you've been waiting for. But here with
4:47 the six of pentacles, you know,
4:49 reciprocity, give and take. And I feel
4:52 you've been giving, but you're not
4:54 receiving anything back. and it's
4:57 causing you to be in a bit of a bind or
5:01 causing
5:02 you anxiety, upset emotions, things like
5:05 that. So, also this weekend is a good
5:08 time to really
5:10 evaluate who is there for you, who is on
5:14 your side, who is on your team. Start
5:17 giving them more time, energy, and
5:19 attention. And those people who are kind
5:22 of flaky, but they always have a really
5:24 good excuse or they're super
5:26 charismatic, that kind of stuff. I feel
5:29 your time needs to be off limits to
5:33 them. You need to be harder to get a
5:35 hold of. You need to be harder to reach
5:38 because they're very selfish. Um, I'm
5:41 not feeling like it's this super
5:44 nefarious type of energy, but it's time
5:48 to take stock of who is really there for
5:51 you. And that's where you want to put
5:54 your attention and time and energy into,
5:56 not who's kind of flaky in and out. Even
5:59 if it's somebody you deeply deeply care
6:01 for, I feel you need to put them on ice.
6:06 You need to make them wait and give them
6:09 a dose of their own reality
6:12 because they're not given back to you
6:15 the way that you have been given to
6:17 them. They're just not there for you.
6:20 And spirit's really acknowledging that.
6:22 And if you go above and beyond um go
6:27 beyond your means, decide to, you know,
6:30 even though you don't want to, okay, I
6:32 will do this for you. I will go there
6:34 with you. Whatever the case may be, it's
6:36 just going to make you feel even more
6:39 empty. And when we are dealing with
6:42 people who don't really fully honor and
6:46 respect, it does chafe away at your
6:49 self-esteem. Sometimes when somebody is
6:52 so used to you always being there, they
6:55 start taking you for granted. And again,
6:57 that doesn't have to be like they're
6:59 negative and bad, but if they're used to
7:01 you always being there and always giving
7:04 without requiring much of them, they
7:06 start taking you for granted. And that's
7:08 what I'm seeing here is you feeling
7:10 taken for granted. So this weekend,
7:13 spend your time, your energy, your money
7:17 doing what you want and what's best for
7:20 you. And if they're like, "Oh, I'm just
7:22 I'm in such a bind." You know what?
7:24 Sorry. I don't have it. I don't have it
7:27 this time. Or, sorry, I'm busy all
7:30 weekend. No, I can't help you move for
7:33 the fifth time. You know, just stuff
7:35 like that. Unless it's somebody who is
7:38 giving back to you equally through this
7:40 six of pentacles, you really need to
7:43 kind of shelf them and give them a taste
7:46 of their own medicine and not um so they
7:49 don't feel that you're so easily
7:52 accessible and that you're just always
7:55 there. Yes, we want people we love and
7:57 care about to trust us and know that we
8:00 are there. But when you're not getting
8:02 that back, that's having boundaries,
8:05 okay? And I do feel you need to lay your
8:08 boundaries down this weekend. Really put
8:11 your foot down with somebody. So, let's
8:13 pull some more cards. Let's see what
8:15 else spirit has to say.
8:32 Oh yeah. Look at that. Your energy, your
8:35 time, your resources, your love is
8:38 precious. And you don't need to give to
8:41 anybody who's not giving back to you.
8:43 And I get it. I have a very very hard
8:46 time saying no to people that I care
8:49 about and I don't like to rock the boat
8:51 and create conflicts and fights, you
8:54 know, because sometimes no, it's not a
8:56 big deal. You need 20 bucks. Okay, here
8:58 you go. But when I'm asking for
9:00 something, you can't be bothered, you
9:03 know, but then again, they come back
9:04 around. I get it. When you really care
9:06 about somebody, it's hard to say no. But
9:10 this is a weekend to really say
9:12 absolutely
9:14 not. You got the star. That's what's
9:17 best for you and that's loving you and
9:20 honoring you. Next is the knight of
9:26 wands, the five of
9:31 cups and the world.
9:35 So, by you having boundaries, you saying
9:38 no, you doing what's best for you, and
9:41 see look at what's even on the bottom.
9:43 The seven of swords and right next to
9:46 the devil and then the 10 of swords.
9:53 See, if you go against
9:57 yourself because they have a sob story
9:59 or they try to butter you up, you're
10:02 going to just end up feeling very
10:05 defeated with 10 of swords, the devil,
10:07 and the seven of swords here. You're
10:09 just going to feel very, very defeated.
10:13 And see, holding your energy back
10:15 actually brings blessings in for you.
10:17 It's not selfish. Even if they're like,
10:19 "You're selfish, you don't care, blah
10:22 blah blah." Don't even let that phase
10:24 you because you know how much you've
10:26 already done and been and given to this
10:30 particular person. And so if they try to
10:33 play that on you, don't fall for it
10:35 because they absolutely might. Okay? or
10:38 they may make their situation seem so
10:42 much more important than you and what
10:45 you've got going on. And they're just,
10:48 like I said, I don't feel like they're a
10:50 horrible person. They're just very
10:53 selffocused and they don't see beyond
10:57 their wants and their needs. And I
10:59 actually had a friend like that and I
11:01 just I had to cut her off because every
11:03 single time we would talk it would be
11:06 like, "Oh, hi. how are you blah blah
11:08 blah and then you know two seconds into
11:10 me talking oh my god I've got to tell
11:12 you this and just want to unload and it
11:15 doesn't even have to be like they're
11:16 asking you for something but it's like
11:18 they want to vent to you tell you their
11:21 drama tell you the tea all of that stuff
11:24 and not really care about how you're
11:27 doing what's going on in your life all
11:29 right so this weekend it is all about
11:33 you and it's no longer about them and
11:36 I'm seeing is if you extend yourself to
11:38 them, you're going to end up feeling
11:40 very sad about it. I just I feel they're
11:44 going to let you down. Okay? Or if this
11:48 is where you had plans with somebody
11:51 this weekend and all of a sudden they
11:54 have this excuse, oh, I'm sick or I've
11:56 got to work late or this happened in my
11:59 family. It's crap. It's not the truth.
12:02 Okay. Um, they want to do something else
12:06 and they're just used to you being very
12:08 in the flow, very cool about things, but
12:12 I feel it's time to put your foot down.
12:14 It's time to close off your energy from
12:18 this person and not be so accessible to
12:21 them because Knight of Wands is also an
12:23 energy that comes in really fast and
12:26 then exits really fast, especially
12:28 around romance. This is the wham bam
12:31 thank you man right here. Okay. Like,
12:34 oh, let me sweet talk you. Let me get
12:37 what I want from you and then the next
12:39 day I'm out of here. Or, you know, this
12:42 could even go the other way around where
12:44 you're a masculine and you're dealing
12:46 with a feminine and she comes and she
12:48 goes and she needs something or um she's
12:51 just feeling down and sad and low
12:54 self-esteem right now. So, she wants to
12:55 come to you because you always honor her
12:59 and respect her and make her feel good
13:01 about herself and it's just it's going
13:04 to be in and out really quick no matter
13:07 what the person is saying. So, this does
13:10 feel a bit of an extension from the
13:12 message we got earlier in the week, but
13:14 not quite as severe. I just see if you
13:19 open yourself up, you give, you share,
13:22 you're going to end up in this five of
13:24 cups energy because they're just very
13:27 selfish, self-motivated. And this is a
13:30 time for you to focus on what you need.
13:33 And by you pulling your energy back,
13:35 even if it does make you sad, you know,
13:38 by the time Monday comes around, you're
13:40 going to feel happy because that
13:42 worrying about yourself and protecting
13:44 yourself the same way you would do for
13:47 anybody else. That's an act of self-love
13:50 right there. And you deserve your love
13:53 and your nurturing as much as anybody
13:55 else that you would give it to. And so
13:58 this weekend, if it's not good for you,
14:01 it's not what you want to do, don't
14:04 bother. And you know, if this is
14:06 somebody in your home, like your
14:08 romantic partner, um, family member,
14:10 even for some of you, this might be your
14:12 kids, it is time to really put your foot
14:15 down. Even if it rocks the boat, ruffles
14:18 feathers, makes them mad, upsets them,
14:20 whatever, it doesn't matter. You need to
14:23 have boundaries with whoever this is.
14:26 And through you asserting your
14:29 boundaries, that's teaching them to
14:32 respect you and honor you because we
14:36 teach people how to treat us. And if
14:39 somebody continually takes advantage,
14:41 continually lets you down and they just
14:45 they get away with it. You might
14:46 complain a little bit, but nothing
14:48 changes. You're still open arms. That's
14:51 teaching them that they can treat you
14:52 like that and there's no consequence.
14:55 And so it's important to assert your
14:58 boundaries and stand firm in that no
15:00 matter how much they kick and scream, no
15:04 matter their sob story because that's
15:06 teaching them, no, I will not tolerate
15:09 this. You're teaching them to respect
15:12 you. And with the world there at the
15:15 end, okay, it is time for a big change
15:19 in how you see yourself and what you're
15:21 willing to put up with. And the thing is
15:23 is whoever this person is, I don't feel
15:26 that you would tolerate this behavior
15:28 from just anybody. Don't let your
15:31 emotion, your connection, your history
15:33 with somebody run over your boundaries
15:37 because you deserve so much better than
15:39 that. Spirit's coming in very, very
15:42 strong and saying that. So this weekend,
15:45 you do what is best for you and have no
15:49 shame in it.
15:52 and let them be sad. Let them weep.
15:55 Whatever the case may be, let them
15:56 figure out their own problems. Sometimes
15:59 that's the best thing you can do for
16:01 somebody, even if you really care about
16:02 them, is not save them from their
16:05 struggle. Because if they're always
16:07 saved from their struggle, they never
16:09 learn how to be on their own two feet.
16:12 And if if you're not doing it and nobody
16:14 else is going to help them, then they've
16:16 got to figure it out, right? Or if you
16:19 refuse to help and they do find somebody
16:21 else, guess what? No longer your
16:37 problem, truth, ceasefire, resolve,
16:41 prosperity. So you don't have to be
16:43 mean. You don't have to be angry.
16:46 Asserting yourself can be done in a very
16:49 calm manner. Or just don't even
16:52 acknowledge them. If they're messaging
16:53 you, they're calling you, all of that
16:55 stuff. Just don't answer. And then come
16:57 Monday, oh, sorry. I wasn't feeling good
17:00 this weekend or I was really busy. You
17:02 know, what did you need? So, this is a
17:04 card from spirit saying you don't need
17:06 to be mean or nasty about it, but you do
17:10 need to assert your boundaries and that
17:12 brings you prosperity. And that comes in
17:14 with the star. Something about really
17:17 standing up for yourself and asserting
17:19 your boundaries is opening opening you
17:22 up to some unexpected blessings and is
17:25 actually going to be very healing for
17:28 you. So, don't be afraid to say no.
17:33 And even if this is a situation where
17:36 somebody doesn't take advantage of you
17:38 and things like that, but they're asking
17:40 something of you and you really just
17:42 don't have the time, the energy, or the
17:44 resources. It's okay to say no. Their
17:47 problems are not your problems to fix.
17:50 And saying no this one time doesn't mean
17:53 the door is going to close for whenever
17:55 you might need help. That nobody's going
17:57 to be there. Because chances are when
17:59 you need help, this person is not the
18:01 one that you would go to
18:04 anyways. Heart of
18:06 roses. Okay. See, you need to love
18:10 yourself and put yourself first this
18:13 this
18:14 weekend. Coales connection seeds of
18:19 love.
18:23 Beautiful and longevity. Relish
18:27 persistence everlasting. You asserting
18:30 your
18:31 boundaries is going to change the
18:33 dynamics of this connection. And more
18:36 than that,
18:37 energetically, you're affirming to the
18:40 universe that you're not a doormat.
18:43 Okay? That what we what we tolerate from
18:47 others is it's all energy. And even if
18:51 you love somebody, it's very important
18:53 to always have your boundaries. and put
18:56 your foot down when those boundaries are
18:58 being crossed. Um because I just feel if
19:02 you given time, energy, resources this
19:05 weekend, it's like it will be a long
19:08 time if ever that it's returned to you.
19:10 And some of you are just not even in the
19:12 position to help somebody out, but you
19:15 have such a big heart that it's hard to
19:17 say no. And you don't want anybody to
19:20 struggle. But this weekend, it's not
19:23 your problem to fix. Just ask the angels
19:25 to find somebody else to help
19:28 them. Oh my gosh. And look at the card.
19:32 Self-care. Tend your garden. Exactly.
19:37 1,000%. All right. So, those are your
19:40 weekend messages. Again, if you feel you
19:42 need a personal tarot reading, love
19:44 reading, or mediumship reading, curious
19:47 information will be below. I am sending
19:49 you so much love and light. Take care.
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