Sex is presented as a fundamental component of a healthy marriage, crucial for a husband's sense of love and respect, and a shared responsibility that women must embrace with genuine enjoyment rather than obligation.
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sex is how your husband feels loved and
respected your husband is not a
woman he is a man and sex is incredibly
important to a man and it's where we
miss each other and and and and and just
go totally different ways as as as
husband and wives that if you ask a a
good man what what are the top three
things that are most important to him in
a marriage and in a relationship sex is
going to be number one if not number one
two or three if you ask a
woman her you could ask a woman what are
your top 10 most important things to you
in a marriage or a
relationship sex might not even make the
list it might be like number eight nine
or 10 maybe maybe so we have to
understand as women that sex is
incredibly important to men and we know
that that's why we use sex as a weapon
and we use sex to manipulate and control
and we all know how we do that and have
done that and what happens is that we
begin to treat our husbands like
neanderthals and that there's something
wrong with them that sex is so important
to them and we want want to change them
and make them so wrong for just who they
are as a man but you have to understand
when you chose to get married and and
you made vows and you made a a
commitment to your
husband you took on the role and
responsibility to have sex in your
marriage and enjoy it as a part of a
healthy relationship women need to
understand and and this was well let me
finish that thought women need to
understand that sex
is not an option and it is not something
inconsequential sex is part of a healthy
relationship and marriage and this is
one of the things I've been reflecting
on because when I my husband and I got
engaged I had
already started withdrawing and putting
a wall up around sex when in the
beginning of our relationship and dating
and and leading up to us getting married
we had a a a very healthy enjoyable sex
life and then I threw my walls up and
that's very very common for us as women
and it was it was a a really really big
challenge in in even just my early 30s
which is so sad to me now and I had to
learn an important part of my healing uh
in my marriage um and and through this
decade of my 30s in the beginning was
overcoming the walls I had built around
sex in my marriage and and recognizing
that I couldn't have sex with my husband
as a Duty or a chore or an
obligation when we have sex from a place
of obligation or as a chore we feel used
we feel resentful if we're doing what
we're supposed to do that's a Wonder
actually a wonderful example of being
nice is is doing sex to to check the box
and and say done maybe I bought myself a
week or two and then shutting down
that's not okay in a marriage it's not
that's a a cruel cruel way to treat your
husband who is a man in which this is
very important to him so
ladies let me make it very very clear
you cannot have a healthy marriage you
cannot have a healthy
relationship if you are not having sex
with your husband
husband or you are shut down to sex and
doing it as an obligation in a
chore it's not okay and and you can't
have a healthy relationship relationship
or a healthy marriage from that place we
all know sex is part of a healthy
relationship and and and here is
something that is very important
ladies we all enjoy sex
if you remember when you met your
husband or before you met your husband
and you were dating and having different
relationships with
men we couldn't wait we couldn't wait to
get together and meet up for a date and
and and know where that that was going
to lead and and we can reflect back to
the beginning of our relationship before
we got engaged before we got married and
we were in the the
newness we loved and enjoy having sex we
begin to put our walls up in it I'm not
going to get too much into that but I I
do want you all to know trigger
warning we're going to be talking or I'm
going to be talking a lot more about our
relationship with sex as women and the
importance of it in a marriage and how
to overcome the walls that we have built
around it and how to overcome the
withholding of sex that that we have put
into place in our marriage and I'm also
going to be talking about how everything
we've been taught by the experts about
sex is
wrong that we are not Ovens that need to
be warmed up first that's another video
for another time but it's really really
important we have been fed so many lies
and so many myths and so many so much
misinformation about sex as women and
I'm excited to share my journey because
it's been a huge Journey uh and and
wonderful journey in my marriage one of
the things I'm most proud of and my
husband is most appreciative of
um that I have um healed and overcome in
myself and I I'm excited to be sharing
that so we're going to be talking more
about that on the channel but that's the
the number two thing your husband really
wish you knew that that sex is how he
feels loved and respected and that it's
not an option in marriage that when we
made those vows that's the commitment we
made it's part of a healthy relationship
and when as women we can reconnect with
the fact that we enjoy sex too then it's
something we do for ourselves and enjoy for
for
ourselves that we get the benefit of it
and our husbands get the benefit of it
but a key piece is we really do have to
remember that we enjoy it and not have
sex for our husbands as something to
check off the list just because it's IM
important to them they can feel that we
have to learn to be there and be engaged
and enjoy it for ourselves which is all
our husbands want and then we don't have
the resentment or feeling used or
feeling um that that's all we're good
for or that's what we're supposed to do
we can be in it for ourselves and our
husbands get the benefit and you can
have a healthy healthy sex life in your
marriage which is a key piece key
important piece to having being a good
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