0:00 I'm on my way to have a session with my
0:03 life coach. I think today I really want
0:06 to go through with her stuff I've been
0:08 going through over the last few months
0:09 with Tommy and
0:11 stuff. We're going to be invincible
0:13 today. So, we're all working
0:15 [Music]
0:19 on morning. Hello
0:23 [Music]
0:32 Good morning. Okay. You look gorgeous.
0:36 You You always look gorgeous. Thank you.
0:37 How's life? What's going on? Update me.
0:40 Tell me like what's happening? How you
0:41 feeling? I kind of want to start working
0:44 on my ability to feel a bit more
0:50 confident, which you now know cuz we've
0:52 worked together long enough that that is
0:53 a choice. Yeah. Right. If you wanted to
0:56 say, you know, I want to feel confident
0:58 today, then how can you think about it
1:00 differently? You're very good at
1:03 constantly doing the next thing, the
1:04 next thing that and you're not great at,
1:06 which many of us are not great at, of
1:08 stopping for a second and saying, well,
1:10 if I look back and say like, what have I
1:12 done from 15? I think you'd be surprised
1:16 at the amazing things that you've, you
1:19 know, experienced and achieved and done.
1:21 Yeah, that's true. I don't know. I feel
1:24 like because of my relationship with
1:25 Tommy and I've had confidence knocks
1:27 that now makes me say no to things. What
1:30 exactly do you struggle with? I struggle
1:31 with like you know am I wasting my time
1:34 hoping for an outcome that isn't going
1:36 to be the outcome. Clearly something
1:39 needs to be worked
1:40 out like yeah just the trust. It's trust
1:44 and the respect and building up that
1:46 relationship again that unfortunately
1:49 like broke
1:51 [Music]
1:53 down. It's like I just wish I could have
1:55 like a crystal ball. I wouldn't even
1:57 want to see any other part of my life
1:58 like my businesses, my health, anything.
2:00 I just would want to see like is the
2:02 future Tommy and I and Bambi or is that
2:05 not? So I think when you're spending you
2:07 know time worrying about well what's it
2:09 going to look like? It's a very painful
2:11 place to live in. I really would like to
2:14 work on that to be honest because I
2:15 think that's consuming me a lot, right?
2:18 Is he going to be the person that he
2:19 once was and that I know we the family
2:21 that we can be cuz right I've had
2:23 glimmers of it like when we've spent
2:25 time together again and like co-parented
2:27 but like had a really nice time
2:28 together. There's no love gone from my
2:30 side cuz I never wanted any of this to
2:31 happen. I mean I don't know much about
2:33 you know what's gone on. I'm not in your
2:35 relationship. The only people that know
2:36 what has really gone on is you and
2:39 Tommy. So, you know, me again, huh? He's
2:42 calling me again. Do you want to take
2:44 her? No, it's fine. He can wait. You
2:46 sure? Yeah. Makes me wait. So, okay.
2:48 Whatever you want to do. My point is
2:50 that usually at these sorts of things,
2:52 um, that love is not black and white.
2:54 Yeah. 100%. Each relationship is
2:57 different. It's all about the gray area
2:59 in relationships. Some people can do
3:01 things other people just can't do. Some
3:03 people can get over things other people
3:04 can't get over. And, you know, you can
3:06 only do your best. You can't do someone
3:08 else's best. Well, you told me whatever
3:10 you water grows. Definitely. Whatever
3:13 you don't water dies. That's exactly
3:15 right.
3:17 Do I keep watering it? I think you know
3:19 the answer, Molly.
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