The Bible emphasizes that finding a virtuous and wise wife is a significant blessing, leading to favor with God and the ability to build a strong, prosperous home.
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because according to the Bible, a woman
has the power to build a house and to
Today we are going to discuss specially
What does the Bible say
in Proverbsapter 18 verse 22? The Bible
says, "Who so findeth the wife findeth
the good thing and obtainth favor of the Lord."
Now here the Bible is talking about finding.
When does a person find?
When he searches, seeks and does it seriously,
If you are really doing it with the
purpose of finding, it will be serious
and it will be seeking [snorts] intensely.
Now when the term is written here
whoever find it if you have to find it
means that particular thing is not
available freely not available in
abundance it is scarce [snorts]
and that is why the need for finding arises.
Because if it is available everywhere
then what's the meaning of finding see
you you will find only if it is not
available everywhere where it is you
can't see where it is you don't know so
you are finding that is the meaning of
finding so here the Bible is talking
about who so findeth the wife which
means this This is something which we
have to understand very very seriously.
Because the Bible says if you find a
wife, you find a good thing and you'll
And all of us know that here when the
Bible talks about finding, it's not
finding with the help of your mind.
Because what you find with the mind does
not impress God because our mind is
always not correct. Very often it is
prone to mistakes. So when the Bible
says finding it means you need the help
of the Holy Spirit, the guidance of the
Holy Spirit to enable you to find what
Because when you find this woman then
through this woman a new power is
available to you. Power to obtain favor
Amazing. You will enable you to find
Lord means the omnipotent God, the King
of Kings, the Lord of Lord, the one who
can bring something out of nothing. And
if you're going to obtain favor, I'm
telling you, it's something amazing
because favor refers to special treatment.
The greater a person is, favor has more impact.
For example, if you find favor with a
tea shop owner, the benefits which you
get will be less. But if you find favor
with the king, the benefits which you
All of us know that Daniel obtained
favor in the sight of the king. Joseph
And you know what happened to Daniel?
He was never below. He was always in the top.
That is the meaning of favor.
And here it is talking about not favor
with the king or favor with the tisha.
It's favor with the king of kings and
lord of lords. Imagine the probabilities
and possibilities of how your life can
be when you can find favor with such a
So who is this woman whom the Bible is
Surely this woman must be an amazing woman.
Somebody rare.
That's why you have to search and find.
Everyone that searchth find it.
So God is telling searching should be
Today we are going to discuss on that.
The first quality proverbs chapter 31:E
See it just puts like this. Who can find?
find?
Did you notice that? Who can find
It doesn't say a price is equal to
rubies. It says far above rubies. I
don't know how far it is above, but it
So here women should understand the
Because in the sight of the Lord, you
But God is amazing and he's living
inside you. That's why the Holy Spirit
is dwelling so that he can make you a
So you don't need to worry.
This message is oriented towards opening
her eyes so that you may understand who
are the women who can be a source of
strength and power not only to God but
Now I went into the meaning of virtuous
and this what it says. A virtuous woman
is one who leads her home with
integrity, discipline and one who is
discipline,
morally excellent. This is what it means.
In the next verse, Proverbs 31:1, the
heart of her husband that safely trust
in her so that he shall have no need of
spoil. She will do him good and not evil
See, look at this. The Bible explains
I like the English Bible. Safely trust
Isn't it amazing?
She will do good all the days of her life.
Pretty child of God. Are we working to
In fact, if this happens before you get
because the Bible says, "Whoever findeth
But no problem. Even after finding the
wife, I think God is giving an
Now, if you want to know more about
virtuous women, I want you to go to the
book of Ruth 3:1
and you will find how this verse is
really, really, really true. And this is
the words of Boaz. And now, daughter,
fear not. I will do to thee all that
thou requires, for all the city of my
people do know that thou art a virtuous woman.
See, look at this. The Bible says Boaz
came to know that Ruth was a virtuous
woman. And this was not known only to
Ruth, but all the people in a city knew
All of us know Boaz was a very rich man.
Ruth was nobody compared to Boaz. In
fact, she had lost her husband. She was
a widow. In those days, widows were not
held in high esteem. She was not only a
You know what was her job? Her job was
cleaning with one of the maidens of
Boas. That is Boaz had lot of women
workers. along with the woman workers.
Ruth will go and green for the harvest.
That's her job in the field. That is her
See Ruth 2:23. So she kept fast. Ruth
kept fast by the maidens of Boaz to
green unto the end of barley harvest and
of wheat harvest and dwell with her mother-in-law.
See this is her job. Every day she used
to go to the field of boas. Lot of
workers were there. She was just one of
till the end of the barley harvest. She
But that's what happened.
You know the reason Boaz selected was
because he found that Ruth was a
A virtuous woman in the sight of the
Lord. And that's why because of Ruth the
In fact, the name of the book in the
Do you know that it doesn't say Boaz? It
should be actually Boaz, but it's
Ruth
because this woman was in favor with the
Lord God Almighty. though she was a
All of us know the Moabites are cursed
But Ruth was a virtuous woman in the
She was ready to sacrifice her family,
everybody, and willing to accept a life,
a life of total sacrifice with her
She was willing to identify with the
And though she had lost everything, she
She didn't faint.
Oh, I've lost everything.
Now my job is gleaning in the field with
She didn't know that she's going to
How can somebody think like that?
Can you imagine?
A virtuous woman.
Because when you find a virtuous woman,
naturally you're going to obtain favor
a good thing and he obtained favor of
the Lord.
Did Boaz obtain favor of the Lord?
Let's see. Go to Ruths 4 21. And Solomon
begat Boaz. And Boaz begat Oed. And Oed
Now look at the lineage of David and the
lineage of Jesus Christ. You have to
understand where Jesus Christ is coming.
Okay? Look at the lineage of David.
Salman begat Boaz. Boaz begat Oed. Oed
>> So who is actually Ruth? The great
And if you see the New Testament, the
See, isn't it amazing? Don't you think
that Boaz found favor in the sight of
Don't they how in what way? What is the
relationship between finding a wife and
obtaining favor of the lord? I don't
believe all this. I don't know what is
your opinion. But the bible says
whosoever findeth a wife findeth a good
thing and obtainth favor of the lord. for
today. Child of God. That's why women
should go all out to be a virtuous woman.
You should not be moved by your
circumstances and realities which are
You will not allow the enemy to touch you.
you.
So the first quality is a virtuous woman.
The second quality, second woman,
Proverbs chapter 14 and verse 1. Every
wise woman buildth her house, but the
foolish pluckketh it down with her hands.
Here we find a wise woman
But it also tells us what a wise woman
will do, what a foolish woman will do.
Wise woman will build her house. A
foolish woman will pluck it down with
A wife whom you find should be a woman
A wife whom you find should be a woman
If she is a wise woman, then your house
a foolish woman, then that woman is
That's what the Bible is saying
because the wisdom in her enables her to
take the right decisions which will
All of us know that wisdom cometh from God.
And it comes from outside.
Get wisdom.
See, get wisdom.
Why? Wisdom is the principle thing.
Today child of God,
if you don't have wisdom also, no
problem. God is telling you to get wisdom.
Don't forget, don't keep on thinking
about the mistakes which you have done.
God is going to rectify everything and
He's waiting for an opportunity for him
Get wisdom
today. That's our job.
We have to get wisdom.
How do you get it?
By waiting in the presence of the Lord.
By reading the word of God again and again.
By digesting the word of God.
by allowing the word of God which has
gone inside to work inside your hearts
Just like how you allow the food which
has gone inside which is digested to
work inside you. In the same way you
allow the word which has gone inside to
work inside you. And the net result is
just like how the food which you eat
when you allow to work inside it becomes
energy and the result is you have a lot
of strength you can do many things which
today is necessary in the world in the
same way the word of God which goes
inside you when it's allowed to digest
and work inside you. Then it will give
you wisdom and make you do many things
which you have to do in this world
But at the same time, a woman should
In fact, in the book of Proverbs chapter
19 verse14, there's an amazing verse. It
says houses and riches are the
inheritance of fathers and a prudent
amazing houses and riches are the
English Bible says prudent but the Tamil
look at this
is from the Lord means is a gift from
which means only God can give
That means it can come only from God.
From the Lord. From the Lord. From the
Lord. Not from your parents.
Not because of your money.
Not because of intelligence.
Not because of your skill.
He's from the Lord.
That's why God wants you to spend time
Because when you spend time then God
who is from the Lord
who is from the Lord.
Truly child of God. It's an amazing verse.
verse.
Isn't it amazing? It doesn't say a
I'm not saying you're not but I'm just
giving reference to the verse here. Here
the verse says a prudent woman is from
but there's no specific words like that
though it's not there definitely they
Here it talks about the power of a
Today some women are thinking Lord I
I've been so foolish Lord.
Oh I wasted my life.
I messed up everything, Lord.
Forgive me, Lord.
Definitely, God is forgiving.
Definitely, God's going to give you one
more chance.
God's going to restore everything you lost.
lost.
He's going to give you a double portion.
Today, child of God. Even now, it's a
time for you to come back to be God and
Turn it to the stronghold.
Turn it to the stronghold.
I will render double unto thee.
So don't worry that you messed up your
life. God is speaking to you and giving
This message is going to boost your faith.
Are you happy today?
Thirdly, the Bible talks about another woman.
woman.
We saw a virtuous woman and we saw a
or the English Bible calls wise and
prudent woman.
So now let's go to the third quality.
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