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0:48 hi Zan hi um I see you twice in one
0:51 month so that's interesting and we've
0:53 never met and ever but in one month
0:57 twice once in Saudi once here yes so I'm
1:01 glad it happened um firstly how are you
1:05 really doing I'm good life is good life
1:08 is treating me
1:10 good uh obviously I stopped playing
1:14 football eight months ago different life
1:17 now I accepted to to stop football which
1:19 was a difficult thing because because of
1:23 my ego because of the way I think about
1:25 myself which I think I'm the best I'm
1:29 still the best I could continue but I
1:31 choose to stop
1:33 why I chose to stop because I wanted a
1:36 good life for my family so I wanted to
1:39 be able to do things with my sons cuz my
1:41 consequence was that I would not be able
1:43 to do the things with my son because I
1:46 had problems with my with my one of my
1:50 knees so I accepted I came to a moment
1:54 where I said it's okay let it go and
1:57 start a new chapter in your life then it
1:58 went a couple of
2:01 months I made Jerry Cardinale that works
2:03 for that is controlling the red bird
2:07 fund that bought Milan and he gave me a
2:09 offer I couldn't refuse and I started to
2:13 work with AC Milan and I'm with AC Milan
2:15 three four months and he's treating me
2:19 good I have to say um I saw a recent
2:23 podcast with tier Onre and he was
2:25 speaking about leaving football and he
2:27 said that person died the ti the
2:30 footballer died and
2:33 it made me think that sometimes we as
2:36 men or women we associate our identity
2:38 and our value with something we do so if
2:40 you're a very good father you and the
2:42 moment your kids grow up you feel your
2:45 value is gone if you're a great husband
2:47 and you're wife passes away you might
2:50 feel you're not important anymore and
2:52 footballers or Engineers or whatever
2:54 they can associate with with what they
2:56 do so when some you ask somebody what
2:58 you do like who are you you say I'm
3:00 engineer and the problem sometimes when
3:02 especially men I feel
3:06 retire they feel not visible anymore or
3:08 not as and do you see it the same way
3:11 that theory maybe that Zan the
3:13 footballer had to go now and now there's
3:16 a new I
3:19 mean where I come from where I where I
3:22 grew up I didn't change from that I
3:23 always be
3:26 myself I was successful in what what I
3:29 was doing I was getting famous I was
3:30 earning money
3:33 but I was still the same person so the
3:36 football player was me so I could be
3:37 engineer or football player I I would
3:40 still be me and I think is important
3:43 because I think people change when they
3:46 get success they get independent with
3:50 money they get a certain status in life
3:52 where they think where things becomes
3:54 easier let's be honest it's not like you
3:56 have to stay in the line in in a club
3:59 you become famous you you pass everybody
4:02 they recognize you and and in a way you
4:05 get shortcut to everything but I always
4:08 be myself I promise myself I will not
4:11 change for nothing because remember
4:14 where you come from whatever happens and
4:16 whatever is is in front of you and I
4:18 think when I stop I'm still the same
4:22 person and when you say panicking with
4:26 guys it's correct because they live a
4:28 certain life when they stop they don't
4:31 get the attention anymore so what
4:33 happens they don't have education
4:35 because when you're professional you get
4:38 it in early age you didn't get any
4:41 diploma from school you you get early
4:44 professional you go a career you come
4:48 around 30 35 I was lucky I came to 41
4:51 then your life starts but you're 40 or
4:54 you're 35 so the education is not there
4:56 so basically you're coming out to the
5:00 world but you cannot do things like
5:02 you could do when you were 20 so people are
5:03 are
5:06 panicking I can imagine X players going
5:09 depression I can imagine they get panic
5:11 where people don't recognize them
5:13 anymore because you're not in the in the
5:16 moment anymore they don't get attention
5:17 so now they're looking for this
5:20 attention to be seen they go in front of
5:22 cameras they do whatever just to be seen
5:25 and have this recognition I think you
5:27 can say and when and when they don't get
5:32 it it becomes like like like a no man's
5:34 land but I always promise myself be
5:37 yourself whatever happens whatever you
5:41 do whatever you go through be yourself
5:43 so if I'm the player or not I'm still
5:46 the same guy so for me the the the
5:49 person didn't die I'm still alive trust
5:54 me if I ask you uh who are you
5:57 Zlatan I am
6:00 Zlatan I am
6:03 I am a person with I'm very confident
6:05 people call it arrogance but I'm very
6:08 confident I believe in what I'm
6:11 doing I can do mistakes when I do things
6:14 I will learn from the mistakes I can
6:18 redo a mistake I will still learn but I
6:21 believe being yourself is being perfect
6:24 I don't have this people try to make the
6:27 perfect image of me I try to make the
6:29 perfect image of me just to make just
6:31 for people to like
6:34 me is not important for me the most
6:36 important for me is the people around me
6:38 and people that is in my family they
6:41 know who I am and they like me the rest
6:43 is just a
6:45 consequence because I'm good at
6:46 something I do and that was playing
6:48 football and the whole world likes you
6:52 the whole world H recognize you but in
6:54 the end they like me for the player then
6:56 the person they don't really know
6:59 because the person you can hide behind a
7:02 field or you're just being yourself and
7:04 I choose to be myself even if I would do
7:08 mistakes even if I would do crazy things
7:10 what people would say yeah he's crazy
7:11 he's not good enough he's not good for
7:14 the image blah blah blah but I was just
7:17 being myself and then I grow from there
7:20 you get more mature you get older you
7:22 learn from things you do there is a
7:26 consequence from things you do and that
7:29 shapes the person and I have a big big
7:32 heart but I don't let people come in
7:34 because then I become weak for the
7:36 people and I don't let many people come
7:41 in in my in my zone M because then the
7:43 you have two type of person either you
7:45 meet the good guy or you meet the person
7:49 that will use you so that's why I'm very
7:51 isolated and the more popular you get
7:54 the more people who want to use you 100%
7:55 but there you have to be strong
7:58 and wise to read the person you have to
8:00 feel the situation but not many can do
8:04 it because this comes with experience it
8:08 comes with little bit intelligence so if
8:12 you're good at that you you manage to
8:16 control your childhood in three words
8:19 words suffering
8:32 why was it I know I know generally that
8:34 you didn't have a easy childhood but why
8:37 did you choose those words suffering you
8:39 started suffering because I was in a
8:42 situation where I saw other kids they
8:43 could do things I could I was not able
8:46 to do economically my father did his
8:49 best to make the best thing for me but
8:51 unfortunately the economics was not on
8:54 top how I didn't have the possibilities
8:58 to do things that uh that other kids
9:00 could do let's say I I was playing
9:03 football we went on a trip where we had
9:06 to pay by ourself my father couldn't pay
9:09 sometimes he would not pay their rent
9:10 for the apartment and he would pay my
9:14 trip sometimes sometimes not I saw
9:18 kids eat candies or whatever I could not
9:21 afford it I saw them use clothes nice
9:22 clothes you know you get a little bit
9:26 older cool clothes cool Brands I could
9:27 not buy
9:30 it I tried to steal when I was able to
9:33 steal it I was not always
9:35 successful and I had a very big
9:38 discipline because my father punish me
9:40 if I would do stupid things so it was a
9:43 balance of not survival mode I would not
9:46 say because I'm still alive because
9:49 survival mode feels very hard and deep
9:52 but in that in that way I was suffering
9:54 let's say I I wanted new football shoes
9:56 I couldn't play with new because I
9:58 couldn't afford it and then you see
10:02 other kids have it mhm so that in the
10:12 that I was not accepted like the other ones
10:13 ones
10:16 because I was Foreigner in Sweden so I
10:18 was judged different compared to the
10:22 Swedish people I had brown eyes I had
10:25 big nose I had brown hair typical
10:28 Swedish is blonde blue eyes and in my
10:30 world let's say the football World my
10:33 Swedish was not perfect and they didn't
10:36 accept me for who I was and I had this cocky
10:37 cocky
10:41 style I had a big uh big mouth but that
10:44 for me was confidence because I be I
10:46 said that was the best and I really
10:48 believed I am the best and that for them
10:51 they is not normal because they are like
10:54 stay in your place stay in line don't
10:57 jump over on somebody and then this new
10:59 thing comes which is different it was
11:01 hard because I had to be better than
11:04 everybody to show myself I had to go
11:06 through things that nobody else went
11:09 through I had to break walls to be
11:12 accepted and to to open doors for the
11:15 Next Generation that came in the from
11:17 the same situation like me let's say the
11:20 second generation Swedish that has
11:22 different background and is not typical
11:25 Swedish but is the new Sweden let's
11:28 say that's hard and uh aggressive would be
11:29 be
11:31 because I come from a family that we are
11:34 very aggressive so the way we show love
11:37 we don't hug and that we
11:40 are we were strong against each other my
11:43 father was aggressive against me and uh
11:46 and I became him so when he discussed
11:48 with me he didn't understand he's
11:50 discussing against himself because he
11:54 created the product so in that way the
11:56 the situation was very aggressive and
11:59 and I brought it with me in school so so
12:01 my Approach was aggressive
12:05 even if that was the way my way to show
12:08 love or positive
12:10 situation but they didn't see it like
12:12 that they see it his aggressive way of
12:14 doing things but that's the way I was
12:16 raised so it was not to
12:20 be threatful or or or being like
12:23 aggressive physically against somebody
12:26 they the mood was just like
12:29 aggressive um is like I'm curious ious
12:32 when you were this young man or teenager
12:35 or kid and you said that you're the best
12:38 in that that age Zlatan did you actually
12:40 believe you the best or it's like a
12:42 front that I need to fake it to believe
12:44 it you know no fake it till you make it
12:46 you know that saying like people think
12:49 he's an actor in front of the camera he
12:51 says things but really deep inside he's
12:53 not no no I really where I came from you
12:54 needed to be the best because it was
12:56 some kind of survival mode because
12:57 everything we did we challenge each
13:00 other you you wanted to show you were
13:03 the number one so the number one would
13:08 take his his Adventure from there and
13:09 not stay in that
13:12 whever ghetto let's say people call it
13:14 ghetto I call it home
13:18 so you needed to show you are the best
13:20 and be the best to take yourself from
13:23 there and in everything we did whatever
13:25 it was it could
13:29 be simple game easy game Crazy Game
13:31 stupid game you wanted to be the best
13:33 and in everything I did I was the best
13:37 and I had this Bulletproof Mind even if
13:39 I didn't win I'm still the best so I
13:41 convinced myself all the time in
13:45 everything I do I'm the best so that was
13:49 like talking to myself and I think in
13:51 normal life everything starts there I
13:53 cannot tell you you're the best you have
13:54 to convince yourself first that you're
13:57 the best absolutely it's like a smoker
13:59 you smoke cigarette
14:01 if you don't understand yourself you
14:03 have to stop I cannot help you you take
14:06 the first step and I will push you I
14:08 will give you the Boost is the same
14:10 thing with the mindset I believe I'm the
14:12 best then the rest follows but you have
14:16 to convince yourself if you're not
14:19 convinced other people they can give you
14:21 compliments and that but in the end when
14:23 you're alone because in the end you're
14:26 alone against everybody trust me so when people
14:27 people
14:30 think I give you a perfect example when
14:32 we win big trophies when we win they go
14:35 on the stage they say thanks to my
14:38 family thanks to my friends thanks to my
14:40 my
14:42 whatever the only one you have to thank
14:44 first of all is yourself because
14:46 yourself are going through everything
14:47 you're going through the stress you're
14:50 going through the whatever suffering the
14:52 training the recovery the
14:54 eating in my case you're in a stadium
14:57 there is 80,000 you come in a moment
14:58 where you
15:00 decide now I have to score in my
15:02 situation if I don't score what happens
15:04 they destroy me if I score I become the
15:07 hero the media which a big pressure
15:09 because when you play on the highest
15:11 level is a big pressure you depend you
15:14 are judged for what you do not for the
15:16 human being because you can be nice or
15:19 bad but still they destroy you if you're
15:21 nice and you're doing
15:24 bad so this there is this classic thanks
15:25 to them thing in then you have to thank
15:27 yourself because you go through it
15:30 yourself this might sound like a ego but
15:31 it's not a ego thing because I went
15:33 through it all
15:37 myself every consequence every I stand
15:39 in front of people to explain myself for
15:42 whatever action I did so the other ones
15:45 they help me they give me boost they
15:48 push me but in the end you do it
15:50 yourself that's why I say if you're
15:52 strong in your mind you go through everything
15:53 everything
15:57 M it's it's very true what you said that
15:59 I I mention us
16:01 you can't sell something if you don't
16:03 believe in it like people feel the
16:05 energy that you're insecure or you're
16:08 just saying it and another I think this
16:10 quote you might know I think you like it
16:12 it's when you said that you know you
16:14 have to take the first step one of my
16:16 favorite quotes is when the student is
16:20 ready the teacher will appear so I can't
16:21 teach you if you're not ready to learn
16:23 exactly but if you're ready to be the
16:25 best you can have a good coach exactly
16:26 but you can have the best coach coach
16:28 but if you're not interested it doesn't
16:30 matter you you don't even want you have
16:32 to take the first step 100% because I
16:36 believe 50% is in your head in whatever
16:39 everything we are doing athlete whatever
16:42 engineer whatever you do 50% in is in is
16:45 in your head because there is no saying
16:47 I was born a football player trust me
16:49 that's all I was born with a
16:53 football on my feet this is all to make
16:57 the story more wow or whatever like come
16:59 on you don't sell a fake story you sell
17:02 a real story hard work pays off you work
17:03 hard you arrive
17:05 arrive
17:08 um where what was something that you
17:11 were insecure about growing
17:15 up I mean not being accepted insecure of
17:18 doing things like what people if people
17:20 would like it or not so I came in a
17:22 moment you do
17:24 things because obviously you're not
17:28 always in control because other people
17:31 has to choose you or accept you for who
17:34 you are or for how good you are and that
17:38 was not always in my hands so becoming
17:41 insecure that you will not be accepted
17:43 or or
17:46 succeed it it happened in the young
17:52 age and I was asking other players we
17:53 talk football because my world is
17:56 football so to compare and before that
17:58 because I always played football and I
18:01 was in school and that I was insecure
18:03 talking to girls because I didn't have
18:05 the confidence at that time
18:09 because I was not feeling accepted so
18:10 obviously you feel
18:14 insecure and in the football game was
18:17 like I had to show I was 10 times better
18:19 than the other ones but I was not sure
18:21 if I did the right thing so I tried to
18:23 ask other ones for guidance or whatever
18:25 but everybody said we have never we
18:27 haven't been in your situation we cannot
18:29 help you and then I realized realiz it's
18:32 all about myself if I will make it it's
18:35 up to me I will have to find my own way
18:37 so there was no way that somebody told
18:40 me go right or go left sometimes I went
18:42 right sometimes I went left and from
18:44 left I went right and so I find my own
18:47 way and I did a lot of mistakes I did a
18:49 lot of crazy things a lot of stupid
18:53 things but in the end I found my
18:56 path I became
18:59 stronger I became very strong and even
19:01 stronger and from there there was no
19:04 stopping me then I went through every
19:07 wall were you bullied a lot in school I
19:10 was and I bullied other ones
19:12 also that's why I was bullying other
19:14 ones because I I was bullied also so it
19:17 became like a defense you bully me I
19:19 bullied the third guy just to feel my
19:21 defense but I couldn't bully the guys
19:24 who bullied me but I will not exaggerate
19:26 this is not like I was bullied and going
19:29 around because I was like a I said I was
19:30 pretty aggressive and tough in school
19:33 also but it happened that I bully other ones
19:35 ones
19:39 and and I got bullied in different ways
19:42 they say um hurt people hurt
19:46 people could be and healed people heal
19:48 people you know but it's also an
19:49 experience because when you're young you
19:51 think different AB I
19:54 mean every five years the person change
19:57 I'm not the same guy when I was 15 I'm
20:00 not the same guy when I was 20 20 25 30
20:03 this is all experience this is all all
20:05 the consequences you go through shapes
20:07 the the person so you could be the worst
20:09 guy when you were
20:12 15 but the best in the world when you
20:15 are 25 so it's all about experience and
20:19 and this if you decide exactly you you
20:22 you go through things and yeah it shapes
20:24 you who you are so every there is a bump
20:26 in the road every time but from every
20:29 bump it shapes you everything is not
20:30 perfect people think the world is
20:33 perfect everybody's perfect everybody
20:35 tries to find this perfect world and
20:37 exist in that perfect world is not like
20:38 that it doesn't exist and now with this
20:42 social media becomes even more difficult
20:44 because they think the world is is
20:46 social media they don't understand there
20:49 is another world outside and there we
20:51 talk filter you you you live a life
20:54 through a filter that is dangerous for
20:58 me um was it I I read a bit about you I
21:00 don't like to read too much because I
21:02 don't want to go biased so I always like
21:05 to ask was there a teacher that was
21:06 brought to you as special teacher to
21:10 help you in school to do better or
21:13 something I had a teacher assistant that
21:15 helped me because they thought something
21:20 was wrong with me so and I felt very
21:22 offended because I wanted to be treated
21:24 like everybody else it's always there
21:27 when we talk about not being accepted so
21:30 I had an assistant in the class from
21:33 20 students I was the only one had
21:35 assistant because they said yeah I was a
21:37 problem child I couldn't sit still he's
21:39 aggressive he's this and made me even
21:41 more Angry it didn't help me because I
21:44 was feeling different and they made me
21:47 feel feel different and I didn't like it
21:48 and I became
21:51 more more aggressive against the person
21:53 and against my environment because they
21:57 made me feel different what was her name
21:59 I don't remember but she she remembers
22:02 my name don't worry if she's still alive
22:03 and going to watch this what would you tell
22:04 tell
22:07 her she would say she never thought this
22:08 will happen because I said it will
22:10 happen and they were all joking and
22:13 laughing to meh but I'm not that guy I
22:15 will put it back to them or something I believe
22:16 believe
22:20 in win-win situation she tried her best
22:23 somebody gave her the job to do it if
22:25 she really wanted to do it or not I
22:31 they don't deserve me to go back against
22:33 them and hate them for me I don't work
22:37 like that I don't work I I'm happy with
22:40 with who I am about my situation and
22:42 maybe I wouldn't be here if these things
22:44 that didn't happen to me that's why I
22:45 say everything we do is a consequence
22:48 for what we become so maybe it was good
22:50 for me or not I don't know in that
22:52 moment not maybe now I say maybe it was
22:56 good for me because I became who I am so
23:00 but I don't believe in throwing back to
23:02 to the people who didn't believe in me
23:04 on that I don't give attention to them I
23:06 don't I would care less about them I
23:09 don't give them importance because they
23:11 don't deserve
23:14 it um and the
23:18 author um who co-wrote your
23:21 book which one there is many books one
23:24 of them you have many
23:28 sorry so one of them wrote that you are
23:32 a mix of a warrior because you had to be
23:33 and vulnerable is that a good
23:36 description of you as a person I think
23:38 so I think so vulnerable because I told
23:40 you I have a big heart people might not
23:42 think about it and me saying it yeah
23:46 yeah just saying it to to say it and the
23:49 warrior is the survival mode
23:52 so I think you have these balcan people
23:55 where they might seem strong and hard
23:58 which they are but with big heart M so
24:00 you might judge somebody just because
24:03 they are strong or
24:06 whatever but behind the strong and
24:11 the aggressive no but the the yeah the
24:13 toughness there is a big heart but you
24:15 just have to reach the heart and when
24:18 you reach the heart you will understand
24:20 who I am but you have to reach it and
24:22 not many reach it that's the difference
24:25 now that's why it stops there yeah he's
24:27 that he's that but they don't reach the
24:28 real the
24:31 real but it's not a weakness you cannot
24:33 say it weakness because I believe it's
24:35 strength actually yeah abely it's a
24:38 strength because if you come in you
24:41 don't lose you gain
24:44 so yeah but you have to come there which
24:46 is the hard part and then it can happen
24:49 you let people go in come in and then
24:51 you get disappointed because of things
24:54 story of my life you get disappointed
24:57 and you ask yourself you don't give the
24:59 blame to to the other person you give
25:02 the blame from yourself because you said
25:06 why was I so stupid to not understand or
25:08 to to
25:11 read the situation but we learn from
25:13 that because the next because it can
25:16 happen again so from the next time in
25:19 all these things I believe in you get
25:21 stronger you don't get weaker you get
25:24 stronger the only thing is you PID the
25:27 price for what you did before so you get stronger
25:29 stronger
25:33 and you get more more confident because
25:36 I mean from mistakes you learn that it's
25:37 simple you don't do mistakes you don't
25:41 learn yeah and when you're failing or
25:44 when like negative things happen you
25:48 learn more than from success and good things
25:50 things
25:54 happen it's it's I I relate a lot
25:55 because I also believe I have a very
25:58 small circle and the problem is some
26:01 sometimes I feel inside me like a kid
26:03 when I finally let somebody inside that
26:05 small circle I get so excited so I try
26:08 to give them everything share my family
26:10 share my love share my attention come
26:12 with me let's go because it's such a
26:14 small apartment that when finally I
26:15 allow somebody to come in that apartment
26:18 I'm like yeah but then sometimes that
26:20 hurt is the biggest hurt that you can
26:22 ever get it could be a friend but you
26:24 feel so betrayed and stupid you're like
26:27 ah like how how did this happen you feel betrayed
26:29 betrayed
26:31 but it Happ it happens it happens it's
26:33 part of the part part of the life
26:36 actually mhm but it's not only depending
26:39 on you it's depending also on the on the
26:42 opposite side yeah because I believe I
26:45 give you one chance if you don't take it
26:46 I will not give you the second because
26:48 if you didn't take the first one you
26:51 will absolutely not take the second so
26:53 that's and it's not like I'm doing a
26:54 favor it's
26:57 like more to open up yourself but one
27:00 chance not two but when you say one
27:02 chance so after would you give a person
27:04 no so they make one mistake they're out
27:07 out finish so would you think that you
27:08 don't deserve a second chance if you
27:11 made a mistake with a friend or with a
27:13 anyway one chance you don't deserve no
27:15 you don't believe people change when you
27:18 when you break a glass and you repair it
27:20 how does the glass look like not the
27:22 same but it could be repaired but not
27:25 the same could be but how does it look
27:29 clean like before no exactly M you can
27:31 shape it do whatever you want but still
27:35 you will see all the whatever you
27:38 fixed how was your um Zlatan
27:39 relationship with your mom and dad when
27:41 you were young was good was good I mean
27:45 my mom is he's a cleaner she had like we
27:48 we're a mix a big mix of family so I
27:50 have two sisters from my mother's side
27:52 bigger sister that I'm not in contact
27:53 with I have
27:56 a the smaller sister that is still older
27:58 than me that we have the same mother and
28:00 father we were the closest one and then
28:02 I had a big brother that passed away a
28:05 couple of years ago sorry then I have a
28:07 little brother that is from my mother's
28:11 side and uh so it's a big mix
28:15 but it is what it is we're nine so yeah
28:19 exactly it's part of the 2024 let's say and
28:20 and
28:23 um I have good good good relationship
28:27 with my mother less with my father but
28:29 it doesn't mean he is a bad because you
28:31 have to stand the balcon I don't know
28:32 how many friends you have that is from
28:35 balcon it's big
28:39 proudness who brings food to the table
28:42 who take care of the home so obviously I
28:44 came my father created the product like
28:47 I said to you but he created himself but
28:51 I took it to to other levels in sense of
28:53 economics and that so I made more things
28:57 possible so the proudness is you don't
28:59 help me I don't need nothing when I try
29:01 to help but I still help and I and I
29:04 still do what I believe in because I
29:05 think it's important you have to do what
29:08 you believe in not what people tell you
29:10 what to do because when you do those
29:12 things always something come back
29:15 because you're being yourself and when
29:16 you do it you do it from the heart not
29:18 from the brain because when you do from
29:20 the brain you try to be too intelligent
29:22 but when you do from the heart you
29:24 really want to do
29:27 it let's say charity people send money
29:29 to charity it and they go out and they
29:32 brag with it that they help charity and
29:35 that help charity without saying nothing
29:37 then you do it from the heart and then
29:38 you do it because you really want to do
29:41 it not to look good not to get applauds
29:44 from people he's a nice guy I don't need
29:48 that I don't need that and with my
29:51 father we are the same person proudness
29:54 proudness confident
29:55 confident
29:58 and and we do our own like
30:01 we do it in our own way so what happens
30:03 to golad golad the
30:06 Clash but he's still my father and he
30:09 will always be my father his name isik
30:13 orik shafik and Mom Jor yorka yulka
30:15 yulka I was I asked I called my Swedish
30:17 friend I'm like how can I say her name
30:18 yeah yeah y
30:24 y okay um why do you do all that you do
30:26 like did you ever figure out what's your
30:28 purpose why do you do everything cuz you
30:29 don't have to you could have stopped
30:30 football before you could have become a
30:33 businessman there's a purpose I mean
30:36 there is challenges in life first of all
30:39 if people is Happy around me I become
30:42 happy and that is the first question
30:45 what is happiness I believe happiness is
30:47 moments it doesn't last forever I could
30:49 be happy to sit here but in 30 minutes I
30:51 will tell you to go and yourself
30:54 for example sorry the language but you
30:55 understand what I mean you can swear as
30:58 much okay and that for me is happiness
31:00 is moments and you choose those moments
31:02 when it's happiness and that
31:04 and and I believe when people around me
31:06 my surrounding I make them
31:11 happy I become happy and then obviously
31:14 I have I had this childhood you cannot
31:16 make it you're not good enough you're not
31:18 not
31:21 accepted and that for me it burns it
31:23 burns because I go against all of those
31:25 things and I will demonstrate and I will
31:28 show you that's why I have this
31:32 winner Instinct I'm a winner I will win
31:35 I will do anything to
31:39 win and I will show you how I win so for
31:42 me that for me it burns and I will not
31:45 stop until I win so I do these things I
31:47 always have this saying why
31:50 be normal when you can be the best so
31:53 when I do my things I don't want to be
31:55 normal for me normal it doesn't exist I
31:57 want to make the difference and when you
31:58 make the difference
32:01 you're are being the best so for me is a
32:04 challenge so in reality I'm fighting
32:06 against myself not against the other
32:08 ones because I want to be the best
32:12 version of myself and take me myself to
32:14 limits and and try myself that's the
32:17 purpose and not be compared with other
32:19 ones because I don't compare myself with
32:21 nobody which you shouldn't because no
32:23 there's no apple to Apple in any case
32:25 your childhood is different from another
32:27 footballer from another it's not the
32:29 same it's the same different height
32:32 different skills exactly so for me it's
32:33 just how can you be the best but I'm
32:35 never satisfied that's my problem I
32:38 cannot enjoy the moment so whatever I do
32:42 in life I have difficult to enjoy
32:44 because I seek for the new challenge
32:47 straight if that is good or not there is
32:50 two ways because people could say you
32:53 should have enjoyed while you had it or
32:55 you should enjoy it while you were
32:59 living or the same say you have a lot of
33:03 will to to achieve more so it's a mix of
33:05 everything why there is no why we do it
33:08 because we want to do it like I said to
33:10 you I choose to do it and I don't want
33:13 to stop and I believe it drives you like
33:17 a person I don't I don't believe in just
33:20 sit still and wait for other ones to do
33:23 things I want to do my own
33:26 things I smile slightly sometimes when
33:29 you talk because you don't know how much
33:32 I connect to things you say okay it's
33:35 crazy like sometimes of course we're two
33:37 different human beings but we're very
33:39 same of course I'm a freak of nature in
33:42 what I'm doing doesn't exist two types
33:45 of my type I don't want to be zatan and
33:47 you don't want to be honest we're okay
33:50 trust me I'm good where I am
33:52 um because when you're talking about
33:54 never being satisfied one of my favorite
33:56 quotes is always grateful never
33:59 satisfied and I feel it represents me
34:01 I'm grateful alhamdulillah I have good
34:03 things in my life I have a family I feel
34:06 good I feel healthy but I'm never
34:08 satisfied that and like I and I think I
34:11 will die if I am satisfied like it it
34:13 will it's but I think it drives you also
34:15 that's why it takes you to a levels that
34:17 you would not achieve if you would not
34:20 be like that so it's you as a person you
34:23 you are like that because of your roots
34:26 what you went through so it's all a
34:28 consequence from what we go through yeah
34:33 so and then I believe your
34:36 surrounding the surrounding has to be
34:38 positive energy because like you said
34:40 your friend said or maybe he's not your
34:43 friend he came in a group and he was
34:46 pushed to do things because of the group
34:48 yeah and when the surrounding is not is
34:51 negative you become negative but at the
34:53 same time you have to be strong
34:57 because you choose to go in that group I
35:00 choose to say among positive energy yes
35:03 but if I'm around negative energy it's
35:07 because I choose it and that is you
35:10 choose and not being
35:12 satisfied like I said it can be positive
35:14 it can be negative but I think it drives
35:16 you it has to drive because it makes you
35:18 feel alive and you want to feel alive
35:20 yeah I'll rest when I'm
35:23 dead when you're dead we start to sleep
35:26 yeah for the long one um in the
35:29 co-author said that if 100 people went
35:31 through what you've been through 99
35:34 wouldn't make it so my question is how
35:36 but you're always about what other one
35:39 says what do you say that's what I'm no
35:41 what do you say I don't care what was
35:43 written in the book I want to ask you
35:45 because that's somebody wrote about you
35:46 I want to ask you ah they wrote about
35:49 what did they say that if they say a lot
35:51 of things about me and they still don't
35:52 somebody approved it somewhere so tell
35:55 me what did they say he said that if a
35:57 100 people went through what you've been
35:59 through true yes 99 wouldn't make it
36:02 like you obviously so my question is
36:04 you're talking about decisions right
36:07 yeah how did you use everything you've
36:10 gone through for you not against you
36:11 because a lot of people can be in your
36:14 shoes and be a victim oh my childood oh
36:16 this oh my school oh in Sweden nobody
36:19 except there is a thousand excuses but
36:23 used it for you let's say I'm on fire
36:26 and you put gas on fire what happens so
36:28 all these things is gas
36:31 so the fire becomes bigger and if you
36:34 want to play with fire I'll burn you so
36:36 it makes me everybody that went went
36:40 against me talk against in whatever I do
36:42 it putting gas on the fire so that makes
36:45 me it drives me more I want to do
36:49 more I want to exaggerate doing more so
36:53 it doesn't stop me it keeps me going
36:55 and people would say yeah but you
36:57 shouldn't be affected and that but
36:59 unfortunately it's not like you can be
37:01 affected in many ways depends how you
37:05 use it I use it as a fuel to do more
37:08 people break from it people get affected
37:10 by by it in a negative way because they
37:12 go yeah they write a comment about me in
37:16 social media whatever yeah but you know
37:18 social media is about comments
37:20 also so if you know that will happen why
37:23 are you reading it you think the world
37:25 is perfect from 10 comments you think 10
37:27 comments is wow is that like like that
37:29 because you have jealousy you have
37:31 people that whatever you're doing they
37:33 want to break you they want to go
37:36 whatever against you just to put you
37:39 down and that from 10 people not 10 want
37:42 to do that things and and give you
37:44 clapping hands or give you count
37:46 compliments that's why I say when you
37:49 say some talk bad about you some talk
37:51 good but when they talk bad you're doing
37:53 a good job my friend trust me I went
37:56 through all of this even if we were same
37:58 age but I talk with experience yeah you
38:02 have way more um like if I got 1%
38:06 criticism you got 100 but I I prefer to
38:08 be hated than loved I will be honest to
38:10 you because when they say they love you
38:11 you don't really know when they say they
38:14 hate you trust me they hate you it's
38:19 true that is it's at least honest
38:30 bro you tried to go in my brain now e
38:32 tried to come in my head there's
38:34 something I liked bro I'm flying I'm not
38:37 working people they walk I fly I will
38:39 fly with you I will bring you under my
38:41 wings my
38:44 friend I'll fly next to you
38:45 you
38:49 um you said that uh anger really helped
38:52 you to play well is this true yes it
38:53 keeps me on my toes because it makes me
38:56 connect better it makes me be on my toes
38:59 it makes me become more at pay
39:03 attention it it it drives me cuz when I
39:05 was not angry I was too relaxed so I
39:07 just needed a trigger point and in the
39:09 beginning I didn't find it because I
39:11 used anger in a stupid way because I
39:12 would get a red card I would do
39:15 something stupid that was a consequence
39:19 against me then I made anger to improve
39:22 my game because I was wasting energy in
39:25 the beginning like getting angry then I
39:27 changed because like I told you I was in
39:31 a aggressive environment so wherever I
39:34 come my Approach was
39:36 aggressive and that
39:39 anger in the beginning was going against
39:41 me but then I started to
39:44 learn and I made it my friend and then
39:47 we connected and then I used it
39:52 like like a ability in uh in making me
39:55 better and then when I was not angry
39:58 instead of other ones make me angry I
40:00 was looking for the anger so I was
40:03 trying to get the trigger points M just
40:06 to create a situation and then then
40:08 became different Michael Jordan used to
40:10 do that I don't know yeah I saw his
40:12 documentary obviously I don't know him
40:15 personally but obviously I was very
40:17 judged by everything I did yeah
40:19 teammates that he's the worst teammates
40:21 he's the best you cannot play with himam
40:23 he's aggressive he's put pressure on you
40:26 and that then I saw the last dance and
40:28 then I was very happy I was smiling just
40:31 like you do now because that is exactly
40:34 what describes the mindset mentality and
40:38 a winner because he wanted to bring the
40:42 the situation to another dimension and
40:44 that is what I try to do you don't drag
40:46 me down I will drag you up and that is
40:49 what he did because he was a winner and
40:53 winners they are like that so it's all
40:57 about either are you fly with me or you
41:00 or you fall down you
41:02 choose yeah I believe and I believe
41:05 sometimes people and I remember maybe
41:06 one of the few I love that documentary
41:08 and one of the few moments he got really
41:13 emotional which is rare he said um they
41:15 like they used to think I'm not a good
41:17 teammate or I'm pushing I'm very cruel I
41:19 just wanted them to win exactly but if
41:20 you're not understanding what I'm trying
41:23 to do as a bigger picture because I'm
41:25 trying to tell you I'll win with you
41:27 I'll make you a champion just work with
41:30 me so that's why I'm being hard on you
41:32 but it not it's not always go exactly it
41:34 doesn't always go in your way because
41:36 people come from different environment I tell
41:37 tell
41:39 you I came from very aggressive
41:42 environment and I was that person but I
41:44 didn't mean I wanted you bet it mean I
41:48 was like that obviously you Collide you
41:49 go along with
41:53 some but always you're judged by
41:56 by by the short moment instead of the
41:58 long purpose
42:01 did you ever regret a club move no I
42:03 don't believe in that I believe in
42:06 destiny whatever happens should happen I
42:07 swear if you watch an interview of me
42:09 it's like I should just put my sentences
42:12 and we'll complete this interview bro
42:14 there's only one L I
42:18 swear I can sit here three days with you
42:21 that's good news but bro trust me one
42:22 hour you I give you effective sign
42:24 because I believe in long terms you get
42:26 tired and in the end you're repeating
42:28 your words you're but you don't get my
42:31 questions every day yeah but you think
42:34 too much okay I'll remove the thinking
42:36 no you are a thinker no I mean in the in
42:38 the final no but I mean now you're a
42:40 thinker I am I don't like stupid
42:42 questions no there is no stupid
42:43 questions trust me a question is
42:45 question because you want answers
42:47 whatever question you do there is an
42:49 answer okay then next question but you
42:52 try to study me don't do that I swear
42:54 I'm just curious I'm a curious human
43:00 Okay um who's Dr Freddy Fu ah Freddy Fu
43:04 was became my friend and in a way he
43:07 saved my career because when I got
43:08 injured I got a very bad injury in
43:12 Manchester United I got a multi- injury
43:14 same thing there when I got injured in
43:16 my mind I was not injured because I said
43:19 to myself no no everything is okay and
43:22 everybody said no HRA this is this is a
43:24 very bad injury no no everything is good
43:26 and I tried to prove them that I could
43:29 walk that everything was okay in the
43:32 moment of the heat because a lot of
43:33 adrenaline so when the adrenaline is
43:36 there obviously you don't feel the the
43:39 same when the adrenaline is not
43:41 there so the day after I come no
43:44 everything is good do it
43:49 check it's all broke inside the knee
43:52 so this is my first major injury and I
43:55 have never been injured in that that
43:58 kind of injury so people said six months
44:01 one year one and a half year and for me
44:05 this is now this is hard because I never
44:07 this is like drowning me and I never
44:10 been drowned before because I like to be in
44:11 in
44:14 control I feel I'm like Untouchable in a
44:17 way that nothing will happen to me
44:19 because of my confidence because of my
44:21 ego because
44:25 of the way I am and I'm not in control
44:28 now cuz now there is a situation I have
44:31 to go through he more mental will I
44:34 make it will I not and remember when I
44:36 said guess on fire so everybody starts
44:39 now I'm 35 years old
44:43 36 36 and a half my career is over I
44:46 will never come back I will never make
44:50 it this is over finished too old ah my
44:52 friend now they're teasing now they're
44:55 burning they're getting burned because
44:57 and I'm not the guy who will go out out
44:59 and say you will
45:02 see cuz one thing is you talk and one
45:05 thing you show cuz I I prefer to work in
45:07 silence but I will perform in violence
45:10 that is my Approach and when I perform I
45:13 will show you but not by people think he
45:16 has a big mouth and that because I work
45:18 hard what people underestimate me for I
45:20 work very hard
45:23 and and not saying to you like everybody
45:26 says I'm the first in training and I go
45:27 out last in training but what does it
45:30 mean you can come first drink coffee
45:32 until you go home and let you have to
45:35 really show that you're working so I met
45:36 Freddy and know we were talking around
45:39 me and my manager
45:42 minola who would be the doctor to to do
45:44 the operation because we got a call from
45:46 the whole world now everybody wants to
45:48 operate me but they don't even know what
45:50 I have
45:53 which which for me was very strange
45:54 because with these things you don't joke
45:57 you don't play around so we inform
45:59 ourself who would be the best and Freddy
46:01 Fu came in the
46:04 picture said okay from because we gave 10
46:06 10
46:10 persons a a task let's say give me three
46:12 names who could operate a multi- injury
46:15 so not only one injury like
46:18 multi and from all 10 one name was in
46:20 all the
46:23 10 answers and that was Fredy fo we
46:26 called him the next day we we travel we
46:27 come to him
46:29 4:00 in the morning they were all in a
46:31 road said we can do it tomorrow also no
46:34 no no we do all everything now the test
46:35 everything and
46:38 obviously you get a opinion only you're
46:40 not deciding so wherever you go you get
46:42 a opinion but you need a first opinion
46:44 second third so you feel
46:45 feel
46:48 confident who will do it for you because
46:49 it's a big
46:52 responsibility but it felt confident
46:57 from the first minute when I met him
46:59 because when he
47:03 talk he look in my eyes first second
47:04 afterwards he was not looking at me
47:07 anymore he was walking around I was like
47:09 this guy's crazy what is he doing he was
47:11 talking we will do like this we will do
47:13 that we will do that blah blah blah you
47:16 will come back blah blah basically he
47:18 was talking to himself but still the
47:22 voice was against me and I said this
47:25 guy because all genius they said they're
47:27 crazy and I said this crazy CRA guy he's
47:30 the right guy I felt immediately he's the
47:31 the
47:34 one and
47:37 then and then there is a funny story and
47:39 because he said to me I don't operate
47:42 humans only I operate animals also so I
47:44 said perfect I'm in good hands because I
47:45 am an
47:48 animal become little bit joke because
47:50 obviously the situation was very
47:53 hard I get operated the day I get
47:57 operated he said we wait one week
47:59 said okay I'm in Pittsburgh because the
48:01 office was in
48:03 Pittsburgh after two days he called me
48:06 he said tomorrow we operate and I look
48:09 tomorrow it's only past two days you
48:12 said one week I had a dream I have to
48:14 operate you tomorrow I was like I'm
48:17 not a crazy guy I meet now but I believe
48:20 in this because like I said before it's
48:23 Destiny he said wait outside the
48:25 hospital 4 o'clock in the morning said
48:27 okay me and Mino we're outside he picks me
48:28 me
48:31 up like the story doesn't doesn't end he
48:33 brings me to the
48:35 hospital he goes prepare I go whatever
48:38 do to clean and that he
48:42 comes and in the day of the operation
48:44 he's just looking at
48:47 me and I'm like oh this
48:50 guy I already decide but I said this
48:51 guyy is not normal because he's making
48:54 me now feel like what's going on because
48:56 many want to have proudness to just to
48:58 operate and then they don't know not
48:59 like they don't know they don't care
49:01 about the outcome because the operation
49:04 is as important as the
49:07 rehab he just look at me look at
49:10 me the guy he was carrying me in a way
49:13 that I put my career let's say in his
49:18 hands and then he operate and that we
49:21 finish and then it's a long story I make
49:23 sure he fixed everything in my knee he
49:25 said trust me you will come back and you
49:28 will be as strong as before and that for
49:31 me is important because
49:34 now you give me words that I can believe
49:37 in instead of me finding my own like I
49:39 said to you you pump yourself you
49:42 convince yourself instead he said to me
49:46 you will be as strong as before and now
49:48 but it's up to you because of the re
49:51 rehab and I went through through a rehab
49:54 that was a mental training I never did
49:56 before but I believe in those things
49:59 like I said before in a bad situation
50:01 you become stronger than in a good
50:04 situation I came back I start to play my
50:07 game again and and unfortunately Freddy
50:13 away couple of years ago and was a sad
50:15 moment for me
50:18 because he said he gave me a second life
50:19 in my
50:22 career and I'm not sure I would have
50:24 that if if it was not for him so I'm
50:27 very thanksful for him for what he did
50:29 for me and I will always he will always
50:33 be remembered in my career MH
50:37 so or less like
50:41 this I'll ask you a favor can I get 1990
50:43 minutes cuz I have a lot you're
50:47 negotiating now if you can how long is a
50:49 movie usually yeah nowadays goes up to 2
50:52 hours but usually we go for 90 90 minute
50:54 you're on Netflix yeah how long is on
50:57 Netflix depends which movie Heimer is
50:58 three you're ready for three yeah but
51:01 you fall asleep after 1 here you don't
51:03 fall asleep I told you 1 hour effective
51:05 time but I will give you 90 minutes
51:08 alhamdulillah okay um because I will
51:09 save your
51:11 show because I will bring you the real
51:13 deal not like the other on they will
51:14 tell you what you want to hear I will
51:16 tell you the what's the real story you
51:19 have one more compliment that's not a
51:21 compliment that's fact have one more
51:25 fact it's coming keep going what does
51:27 success mean to you
51:29 what is success depending what you
51:31 believe is success for me success people
51:33 think I'm successful just because I
51:35 became a football player but successful
51:37 can be many
51:40 things depends what what you're aiming
51:48 mean Successful People would say I make
51:50 I give food to my family you're also
51:54 successful there successful would be I
51:58 made it from my neighbor Hood but for
52:01 me if we talk about my neighborhood for
52:03 me my neighborhood was Paradise I was
52:06 feeling good I was feeling home I would
52:10 prefer to live there than where I live
52:12 today now I live where I live because of
52:15 my situation of life but there I was
52:17 feeling home here I feel home but not in
52:21 the same way so what is success whatever
52:22 you choose it to
52:25 be what do you this is also success
52:27 because you made me come here so for you
52:31 is a big success and for you for me I'm schooling
52:32 schooling [Laughter]
52:34 [Laughter]
52:36 you okay
52:39 Zan what does love bro I gave you I told
52:41 you this is something else this this
52:43 mindset is different but okay I'm
52:46 feeling you this is why I'm by the way
52:47 we you don't need to impress me I that's
52:48 why I was laughing when I saw the
52:51 pictures outside but it's okay there's
52:53 some good pictures no no beautiful
52:55 pictures we're going to add yours but
52:57 you want yours bigger no no no you don't
53:00 need to even to put me everybody place
53:03 no I don't humans are equal here we're
53:06 all important what does love mean to you
53:09 what is love
53:12 love love is a strong
53:16 word I think love can be a weakness and
53:19 can be a strength because sometimes love
53:22 goes against you what you love and it
53:24 goes with
53:26 you it's a natural thing it's nothing you
53:27 you
53:30 choose it comes by itself you cannot
53:32 choose to love somebody that comes by
53:35 itself so it's a very strong
53:39 word but it grows naturally it's not
53:45 programmed what does Helena mean to you
53:47 everything I
53:50 think if she wouldn't have the
53:52 patient and if she wouldn't if she's 10
53:55 years older than me I read 11 but I'll
53:57 take you away 11 yeah I take one year
53:58 away from
54:01 her so if she I think if she would not
54:04 be 11 years older than me she would not
54:07 stayed with me because she had the
54:08 patient to stay with that person that
54:13 was all these things I told you in the
54:16 beginning and she had a lot of patient
54:18 what we went through because she had her
54:21 own career so it's not
54:24 like she became something because of me
54:26 in a sense
54:28 career she had her own so she always
54:30 says to me remember who took care of you
54:32 before you started to take care of the
54:35 family if you understand the what I'm
54:38 trying to say so she had her career and
54:41 she gave up her career for me because I
54:45 choose it to be like that
54:48 and and she went through everything she did
54:50 did
54:53 basically she gave everything to me and
54:57 gave up everything for me
54:59 and that for
55:01 me what do you give back you you you
55:04 cannot give more back
55:05 back
55:08 to arrive on that level because you try
55:11 to do your best but imagine you give up
55:14 everything just for one person so maybe
55:16 your dreams or whatever achievement
55:20 you're looking for or objectives and and
55:21 I'm very thanksful I have her I
55:24 appreciate a lot we have been together a
55:28 very long time m and we trigger each
55:31 other we we are more than a
55:34 relationship so I would ask her for
55:37 advice in whatever I do if I follow not
55:40 every time because sometimes I just want
55:44 to hear opinion so depending on the
55:46 answer maybe I'm looking
55:51 for a different answer but not getting
55:52 it and still looking for the for the
55:54 other one if you understand what I mean
55:57 I do I would go against her even if she
56:00 says yes and for me still no so just to
56:02 get an opinion but we talk a lot and I
56:04 think she's an amazing mother for my
56:07 boys and that is the most important the
56:09 rest I know it will be it will be
56:11 resolved whatever there is the most
56:14 important is she's there for my boys
56:17 what do maximilan and Vincent mean to
56:19 you I mean children you change as a
56:23 person trust me before them I
56:26 was I was a Superman when they came in
56:29 the picture I became a teddy bear so
56:33 they became it's strong strong to say
56:36 but in life children they they are they
56:39 are your weakness but in not it may
56:43 sound in a bad way but they they are
56:45 your weakness because whatever happens
56:47 to to them happens to you MH and you
56:50 don't want something to happen to them
56:53 so you want to teach them obviously you
56:54 want to make them independent you want
56:57 to teach them discipline respect
57:00 give them education to grow up and keep the
57:01 the
57:04 same raise you had but with different
57:06 opportunity obviously because I don't
57:08 raise I raise them the same way I was
57:10 raised but obviously they have different
57:14 opportunity so so there is a balance you
57:16 always think you do the same the the
57:19 right thing but maybe it's not the right
57:20 thing because a third person can judge
57:24 you but from inside you always think you
57:26 you're doing the right thing for them
57:28 and that is what you're trying but it
57:30 maybe it's not the right thing but at
57:32 least you think it is
57:36 so the discipline the the the
57:39 responsibility the respect which for me
57:41 is more important than than
57:44 religion so all these things is is a big
57:47 responsibility so now I know what my
57:51 parents went through when I got my boys
57:55 and it's not easy what is masah mAh is a
57:56 I know okay
57:59 perfect um you said you've been together
58:01 for a long time long time what is the
58:02 most important thing for your
58:06 relationship or any healthy partnership
58:09 I think when you meet your girlfriend
58:11 first day is not the same person after
58:13 five years and after five again becomes
58:16 a different person so it's all
58:20 about it cannot die out it has to be a
58:23 life the situation the relationship so
58:26 you trigger each other you grow up as
58:30 one you try to stimulate each other
58:32 things happens every day is not a
58:35 fantastic day but you go through it you
58:36 have to understand the partner you're
58:39 with you have to respect and don't
58:41 believe don't think you're above the
58:44 person because then obviously you need
58:46 to trigger the person to feel to give
58:49 energy back to give this back what you
58:51 give the person
58:54 so I think in relationship don't have
58:56 this ego that you're above somebody else
59:00 I believe more 50/50 then obviously some
59:03 areas she has more responsibility some
59:05 areas I have more respons responsibility
59:09 but I think the the key of our
59:12 relationship is that we try to live as
59:14 normal as possible people might think
59:18 that we are a family that has a luxury
59:21 family I can tell you she does the
59:23 laundry she cooks the food the only
59:25 thing we have the cleaner that helps us
59:26 with that
59:29 I drive the kids to school I pick them
59:32 up from training like a normal classic
59:34 family and that is the way we choose to
59:37 have it so there is no I'll give you an
59:40 example we were living in La Beverly
59:43 Hills so from the whole school only my
59:46 children took their bicycles to school
59:48 but the other ones there was the nanny
59:51 dropped their kids Nanny bring up the
59:54 kids or a driver this is not who we are
59:56 I bring them I pick them up she bring
60:00 them or she pick them up she do the things home whatever home what do you
60:03 things home whatever home what do you say homework they have I go through it
60:05 say homework they have I go through it if I'm not able she goes through it
60:08 if I'm not able she goes through it normal family M with different
60:16 possibilities if you could teach Zlatan every child in the world one lesson what
60:19 every child in the world one lesson what lesson would it
60:21 lesson would it be
60:23 be discipline nice I believe in discipline
60:28 discipline nice I believe in discipline discipline will keep you alive will
60:30 discipline will keep you alive will bring you to to wherever you want to
60:33 bring you to to wherever you want to come I believe it's I think is the most
60:36 come I believe it's I think is the most is the most strongest but he the most
60:37 is the most strongest but he the most difficult and when one one of the most
60:40 difficult and when one one of the most underrated I feel I believe I follow
60:43 underrated I feel I believe I follow discipline and I try to teach them what
60:45 discipline and I try to teach them what discipline
60:47 discipline is um what is an unforgivable
60:52 is um what is an unforgivable action unforgivable action would be a
60:55 action unforgivable action would be a consequence that you you have to live
60:57 consequence that you you have to live with if I'm understanding that no like
61:00 with if I'm understanding that no like what if what is an action if somebody
61:02 what if what is an action if somebody did to Zlatan finish one chance I told
61:04 did to Zlatan finish one chance I told you but what would be lying cheating it
61:07 you but what would be lying cheating it can be whatever whatever you give trust
61:09 can be whatever whatever you give trust to somebody he don't take care of that
61:11 to somebody he don't take care of that trust he doesn't mean it's I am doing
61:13 trust he doesn't mean it's I am doing you a favor to that I'm giving you a
61:16 you a favor to that I'm giving you a chance but you give you take I mean I
61:19 chance but you give you take I mean I open up for you you open up for me and
61:22 open up for you you open up for me and we get to
61:23 we get to know you disappoint me or you you lose
61:26 know you disappoint me or you you lose that trust one chance I don't believe I
61:30 that trust one chance I don't believe I mean two people say yeah you would give
61:32 mean two people say yeah you would give an extra chance but it will not be the
61:35 an extra chance but it will not be the same thing 100% you will have because
61:39 same thing 100% you will have because you look in one way the first time if it
61:42 you look in one way the first time if it goes not like it is the second time you
61:45 goes not like it is the second time you will look at that that way but not the
61:48 will look at that that way but not the same
61:49 same way I went through those things so but
61:53 way I went through those things so but it's not like me it might sound like I
61:55 it's not like me it might sound like I arrogant I give you a chance to get to
61:57 arrogant I give you a chance to get to know or I make you a favor I give you a
61:59 know or I make you a favor I give you a chance no it's not in every situation
62:01 chance no it's not in every situation there is one chance I believe two if I
62:04 there is one chance I believe two if I give you a task to do if you don't make
62:06 give you a task to do if you don't make it in the first who says you will make
62:08 it in the first who says you will make it in the second one it means I had to
62:10 it in the second one it means I had to repeat to you to do it the second time
62:12 repeat to you to do it the second time so you were not doing that the first
62:13 so you were not doing that the first time so you're not able to do
62:16 time so you're not able to do it what is a question in your mind that
62:20 it what is a question in your mind that you
62:21 you still don't have the answer to I think
62:24 still don't have the answer to I think there is answer for everything
62:26 there is answer for everything there is no answer not answered there is
62:30 there is no answer not answered there is answer depends only who you are and how
62:32 answer depends only who you are and how you answer the
62:34 you answer the question like is there a question that's
62:36 question like is there a question that's still going in your mind all the time
62:38 still going in your mind all the time and no no and see if I would have a
62:40 and no no and see if I would have a question I will find the
62:42 question I will find the answer yeah I believe most of the
62:44 answer yeah I believe most of the answers are within
62:46 answers are within us yeah but I think people they
62:48 us yeah but I think people they exaggerate they seek for something
62:51 exaggerate they seek for something that becomes too poetic to it it's
62:54 that becomes too poetic to it it's simple you find that answer if you want
62:56 simple you find that answer if you want you find the answer it's not more
62:59 you find the answer it's not more difficult than you if you make it
63:01 difficult than you if you make it difficult it's difficult if you make it
63:02 difficult it's difficult if you make it simple it's
63:04 simple it's simple because it's not
63:07 simple because it's not so difficult like people might think it
63:09 so difficult like people might think it is there is an answer for everything and
63:13 is there is an answer for everything and time answer like time finds answer the
63:17 time answer like time finds answer the the the answer is time for
63:19 the the answer is time for everything that is what I try to say
63:22 everything that is what I try to say what is a moment where you felt deep B
63:27 what is a moment where you felt deep B betrayal I mean there's many moments you
63:29 betrayal I mean there's many moments you feel betrayed but which one comes
63:33 feel betrayed but which one comes up nothing nothing
63:36 up nothing nothing specific nothing what I
63:39 specific nothing what I can betrayal depends how you mean in my
63:42 can betrayal depends how you mean in my profession of work or in my normal life
63:45 profession of work or in my normal life that hurt you you feel
63:53 betrayed there is many small examples but often the small examples is the big
63:55 but often the small examples is the big hits M because I believe in small
63:58 hits M because I believe in small details makes the difference so small
64:01 details makes the difference so small examples make the difference but I don't
64:03 examples make the difference but I don't have really CU like I told you betrayal
64:06 have really CU like I told you betrayal I don't go back and I look at it and I
64:08 I don't go back and I look at it and I feel like I have to give back or
64:12 feel like I have to give back or Revenge I don't believe in those things
64:14 Revenge I don't believe in those things you had your moment we go on you have to
64:17 you had your moment we go on you have to go on
64:19 go on because you have to keep keep striving
64:22 because you have to keep keep striving to go
64:23 to go go go in front we don't go backwards we
64:26 go go in front we don't go backwards we go forward so this betrayal is you can
64:31 go forward so this betrayal is you can cough bro you okay you need my water
64:34 cough bro you okay you need my water take my water it's okay you can
64:36 take my water it's okay you can drink okay
64:44 um who's a person that passed away and every time you remember them your heart
64:52 aches I had my my manager Mino Rola when he passed away it was a big hit for me
64:54 he passed away it was a big hit for me because he was not just my manager he
64:56 because he was not just my manager he was he was everything for me but when I
64:59 was he was everything for me but when I say everything is everything he was
65:01 say everything is everything he was father agent he was friend he was
65:05 father agent he was friend he was advisor he
65:12 was whatever my cook ever whatever I did 360 Degrees he was there and when he got
65:17 360 Degrees he was there and when he got sick he was too much of a ego he and he
65:20 sick he was too much of a ego he and he would not say he was sick because he
65:22 would not say he was sick because he wanted to show his players and he had
65:24 wanted to show his players and he had some players he was very close to and I
65:26 some players he was very close to and I was one of
65:28 was one of them he didn't want to show to us that
65:30 them he didn't want to show to us that he was weak and he had that
65:34 he was weak and he had that ego by not sharing with him that he was
65:43 sick and uh and I would it was a big hit for me
65:46 uh and I would it was a big hit for me because I was not ready for that I was
65:48 because I was not ready for that I was absolutely not ready for that because
65:50 absolutely not ready for that because everything I went through I went through
65:51 everything I went through I went through with him and suddenly it went so fast I
65:55 with him and suddenly it went so fast I was there
65:57 was there alone without him and doing
66:00 alone without him and doing things without him so it was not the
66:02 things without him so it was not the same thing anymore so I couldn't share
66:06 same thing anymore so I couldn't share my moments with him whatever I went
66:09 my moments with him whatever I went through private life or professional
66:11 through private life or professional because we really did
66:13 because we really did everything what whatever we went through
66:16 everything what whatever we went through so that's for me when I look back he's
66:20 so that's for me when I look back he's he will always be remembered and he will
66:22 he will always be remembered and he will always be in my
66:23 always be in my heart because he he changed me a lot
66:26 heart because he he changed me a lot also as a
66:34 person if um God give you a long life but hypothetically if today was the last
66:37 but hypothetically if today was the last day of your life and you had no chance
66:40 day of your life and you had no chance of communicating with anybody before
66:42 of communicating with anybody before you're gone who would you feel regret
66:45 you're gone who would you feel regret that you didn't have a chance to
66:53 contact nobody because when you're away you're away my friend there is no less
66:55 you're away my friend there is no less wish Last Chance friend you regret that
66:58 wish Last Chance friend you regret that you even sent that
67:06 message when was the last time you cried when Mino passed away I told you
67:09 cried when Mino passed away I told you it was a big hit for me and I cried
67:13 it was a big hit for me and I cried until the last airdrop you say yeah
67:16 until the last airdrop you say yeah finished and he still not finished
67:19 finished and he still not finished because sometimes I get flashbacks and
67:21 because sometimes I get flashbacks and it brings me down in a in a way that I
67:24 it brings me down in a in a way that I miss him too much and I think everybody
67:27 miss him too much and I think everybody that knows him and me they know how
67:29 that knows him and me they know how close we were when did he pass passed
67:33 close we were when did he pass passed away last
67:34 away last year if you could text him now and he
67:37 year if you could text him now and he will read it what you would tell him I
67:39 will read it what you would tell him I miss
67:41 miss you last question is latan in one
67:46 you last question is latan in one word
67:49 word gold thank you boss thank you very much
67:53 gold thank you boss thank you very much you bro I look sharp or I
67:56 you bro I look sharp or I good I don't think he has a choice huh
67:59 good I don't think he has a choice huh like yeah it's the best
68:08 direct yeah he was the one who told me you're Arenal fan you doing the
68:12 you're Arenal fan you doing the show nice to meet you nice I met you
68:17 show nice to meet you nice I met you [Music]
68:27 already before we sit down we stand up you can start by saying how what did you
68:29 you can start by saying how what did you think about the okay good how's your
68:31 think about the okay good how's your father is
68:32 father is good good is it giving you discipline or
68:37 good good is it giving you discipline or [Music]
68:43 not I'm happy this happened no coincidence it's two times in one month
68:45 coincidence it's two times in one month from any friend and brother thank you
68:47 from any friend and brother thank you very
68:49 very [Music]
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