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Evil Narcissist Do THESE Five Things To Cause Soul Crushing Pain
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A lot of people will tell you, "Oh,
narcissists just react in anger." No,
that's not the case. Evil narcissists
design damage and destruction. They wait
for the moment they know will leave a
mark on your soul, not just a bruise on
your skin. They want you to go through
the kind of suffering that you will
never recover from. And then they want
you to think you did it to yourself.
They quietly move pieces around your
life like a chessboard. They remove the
help you need. They feed you the wrong
step at the right time. They interrupt
the exact spark that kept you alive. And
then they stand back as you blame
yourself for the fallout. This is their
campaign of destruction against you. And
you need to understand that thoroughly
if you want to save yourself. I'm
Danish, a narcissistic abuse recovery
professional. Welcome to my channel. The
topic for today is evil narcissists do
these five things to cause you soul
crushing damage. Before we get started
with number one, make sure you sign up
for the weight list for my membership
program called Thrive After Narcissistic
Abuse, which just closed. Link is in the
description. Sign up right now. The
first move is they intentionally let you
mess up. You could be standing at a
crossroads in life, unsure of which way
to go. You may turn to them because you
assume they care or because they seem
more experienced. In that moment, they
see your blind spot. They see the wrong
choice you are about to make and they
know exactly how it will end. But
instead of warning you, stopping you,
instead of stepping in, they stay
silent. Sometimes they even give you a
small push, a half answer that nudges
you toward disaster. It could be
financial. It could be a career choice.
Could be something as important as
missing a document deadline, signing the
wrong paper, or trusting the wrong
person. They see you about to ruin
yourself and they let it happen. Why?
Because the aftermath entertains them if
they're sadistic. And when the
consequences finally crush you, they
step back in, not with compassion,
never, but with extreme judgment. They
say things like, "You should have known
better. What happened to your education,
your degree, or I thought you had it
under control?" That's their favorite
part. Letting you suffer while they play
the wise critic. I still remember my
father saying to me, "Never show anyone
the right path. Always derail them. Keep
them guessing. Keep them busy." He meant
it. He lived by it. People would come to
him for advice and he would deliberately
leave out the most important part. So
they never move forward. That is the
level of envy and cruelty we're talking
about here. And when you fail, they do
not just stand by. They blame you for
it. Triggering false accountability,
pseudo accountability, making you feel
stupid for not seeing what they saw all
along. The crazy part is they feel
really powerful to be able to influence
your life in such a devastating way.
Have you experienced this? Let me know
in the comments. The second move is they
ruin the one thing you love most.
Narcissists cannot stand sharing your
affection or attention with anything
that gives you hope or life. If your
soul feels at home in your pet, your
art, friendships, career, or your
family, they see it as a competition. to
them. How dare you love something as
much as or more than them? That jealousy
is not passive. It becomes a mission for
them to destroy what matters to you
most. Sometimes this looks like subtle
poisoning of relationships. They slowly
convince you your good friend is not
good for you anymore. They drip feed
suspicion until your family feels
distant. They tell you your job does not
value you. They chip at it bit by bit.
Other times it's brutal and direct. A
pet suddenly dies. A partner suddenly
turns on you. A career ending mistake
suddenly happens that traces back to
their influence. That's who they are.
The devastation this creates is deeper
than the loss itself. It is the way it
makes you question whether you are even
allowed to love anything without any
punishment. Imagine waking up to find
your cat poisoned, your job gone, or
your closest bond severed. That is the
kind of damage they want. That's why
they're evil. Not temporary pain, but a
lifelong scar that makes you associate
joy with danger. That way, every time
you start to love something again, you
will hear their voice in your head
warning you not to. The third move is
they deliberately withhold urgent
information. This one is as quiet as it
is devastating. They see the email come
in with your deadline. They hear the
voicemail from the recruiter. They know
the bill is due. The appointment is
near. The family emergency is happening
and they sit on it. They let the clock
run out. Then when the opportunity is
gone, they casually mention it or worse,
they deny knowing about it at all. What
this does to you is more than missing a
chance. It makes you doubt your own
competence. You start to believe you are
always late, always disorganized, and
always behind. They manufacture this
narrative by controlling the flow of
facts. And when your life feels like a
series of failures, they position
themselves as the calm one, the one who
manages better, who is there for you. So
you never question them. The truth is
you are not chaotic. They created the
chaos and they enjoyed every bit of it
because each missed chance chips away at
your confidence and that leaves you more
dependent on them. People who love you
hand you information to see you thrive.
People who want to own you keep it from
you so you fail. The fourth move is they
twist your moral compass until you
betray your own values. This is the most
common thing. It's not about shouting at
you to do something wrong. It is far
more subtle. They create situations
where going against yourself feels like
the easiest and the rightest path. Maybe
they ask you to lie for them. Maybe they
nudge you into cutting someone off
unfairly. Maybe they encourage you to
shade the truth at work because everyone
does it. Right? The first time you feel
uneasy, but you push past it, then it
happens again. Slowly you start stacking
compromises until you barely recognize
yourself. And the problem is once you
have betrayed your own values, shame
does their work for them. You carry
guilt that keeps you quiet. You stop
reaching for help because you are afraid
of being exposed or embarrassed. You are
afraid of being a narcissist. Later,
they use the very choices they pressured
you into as weapons. They call you a
hypocrite. They mock you for pretending
to be good. They accuse you of betrayal
when you try to leave as if they were
the standard all along. The truth is
they trained you into violating your own
integrity and then they used your shame
as a leash. And finally, the fifth move
is they deliberately corrupt your
creative flow. They watch you come alive
when you create. Maybe it is writing.
Maybe it is painting, dancing, planning,
designing and building. They see that
spark. They know this is the one place
you feel free. The one place they cannot
fully reach. So what do they do? They
don't nurture it. Forget it. No, they
target it. Notice the evil pattern. You
finally sit down to work and inspiration
strikes right at that moment. Not
before. No, no, no. Not after they
interrupt. a fight, a guilt trip, urgent
request, allow distraction, anything to
break the state because they know that
creativity is not just about time, it's
about flow. It's a fragile doorway and
once it slams shut, it's gone. Over
time, you start believing. You lack
discipline. You think you cannot finish
projects. You call yourself lazy,
scattered, and inconsistent. None of
that is true. What is true is you were
being trained to associate creation with
interruption. They want you to stop
trying so your identity crumbles.
Instead of seeing yourself as an artist
or a builder or a writer, you start
seeing yourself as someone who never
completes anything. And the the problem
is you can't prove any of this to
anyone. You can't tell anybody that this
is what he or she does the minute I sit
at my work table. Nobody believes you.
They say, "Oh, come on. They're not
shouting. They're not hitting you.
They're not doing anything. So, what
abuse are you talking about?" Instead of
seeing yourself as an artist or a
builder or a writer, you start seeing
yourself as someone who never completes
anything. That is the deepest theft of
all because it convinces you that the
best part of you does not exist. And
that in my eyes is the biggest harm. So
look at the thread connecting all five
moves. They want you to blame yourself.
They want you to believe you are
incompetent, unworthy, chaotic,
hypocritical, and uninspired. They
create the collapse, then stand back and
watch you carry the shame as if it were
yours. But let me say this very clearly
and once for all. You were not too
careless. You were not too lazy. You
were targeted. Period. They set the trap
and then they laughed when you fell into
it. The moment you see the playbook, the
game changes. You start noticing when
silence is not forgetfulness but
strategy. You start projecting the
things you love as sacred and
untouchable. You create systems that
give you information directly instead of
through them. That's what I want you to
do. You step back into your values and
reclaim them. and you guard your
creative flow like the flame that lights
your future. That is how you break the
campaign of destruction. That's how you
rise from the damage they designed. I
hope you found this advice helpful. Let
me know in the comments. With that,
let's bring this episode to an end. I
will talk to you in the next one. And
until then, as always, let the healing
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