This podcast episode features host Mike Fluke discussing various aspects of relationships, dating, and cultural differences with three Filipina women. The conversation touches upon personal experiences, societal expectations, and differing perspectives between Western and Filipino cultures regarding these topics.
Greetings. My name is Mike Fluke and
you're watching the Filer Republic
podcast. And in this episode, I've got
three other ladies and we're going to do
it a little bit differently this time
around. I just want to start off with a
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production, I won't be able to actually
hear it. You will. So, I can't hear any
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can. Um, but I will uh I'm confident
that it'll be heard. And I'll even
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says in the chat that it's not it's not
working. So, yeah, I guess without
further ado, um let's just get right
into it. I'll start with you and then
we'll work our way around the table for
all the questions. What is your name and
how old are you and
what is your highest level of education?
>> Okay. Um, hello everyone. My name is
Crystal Grace Ramedes. I'm 18 years old
and I'm studying in college. I'm a first
year with a course of computer technology.
technology.
>> All right.
>> Yeah, it's a two years course only. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> All right. So like what kind of stuff
are you learning in computer technology?
>> Like uh just like like office Microsoft
Word or like
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> Like business?
>> Uh no, it's just about computer. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh just uh parts of computer.
>> Oh, hardware. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Ah, okay. Okay. That's cool. Yeah. Okay.
That that's cool. That's really that's
very nerdy for a girl.
>> Yeah. I I'd like to ask this question
because uh one of the biggest criticisms
of Passport Bros, which I like to I'm
going to start calling them Passport Bachelors
Bachelors
because I just bought the domain passportbachelor.com.
passportbachelor.com.
But um yeah, a lot of the girls that
criticize us, mainly uh angry black
women, they like to say that uh the
girls that we try to pursue in in the
developing world are uneducated and
underfed and poor and all these things
like that. So, I always ask the
education question to show how smart you
girls are.
>> So, that's why I wanted to start with
that. Your turn.
>> Hello. Uh, good morning and good evening
out there
out out of the Philippines. Hello. And
by the way, I'm Lauren Jasai, 43 years
old. I just finished my uh high school
way back 1999.
>> Oh, wow. Like that.
>> Same here.
>> Yes. And then I want to continue my my
college but I cannot cuz I have to go to
work. So I just uh just for myself
because I'm not living with my parents
so just by myself. So that's why I need
to work and then Yeah. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> What else?
>> So so education. So high school.
>> Yes. Just high school.
>> And then when when did you have your
first little one?
>> Uh two Wait,
>> what year? the year 2003.
>> Oh, okay. So, you jumped right in. Okay.
>> And then were you a homemaker for a few
years? Like a like a housewife for a while?
while?
>> Um, yeah. And then I decided to work.
>> What year did you start working?
>> Like uh six maybe six months. My baby
when my baby's 6 months. Oh wow. Start I
decided to start work cuz my partner or husband
husband
>> not enough.
>> Okay. Yes.
>> Yeah. So, you're willing to play
>> not enough for us. So, I need to
>> help him
>> in the end. Did you end up making more
than him or less?
>> Uh, just enough for the family to buy
milk, diaper. >> Oh,
>> Oh,
>> just like that. Rice to eat for dinner. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> So, the staples. The staples.
>> It's like a survivor.
>> Yeah. Yeah, I understand.
>> Just like that.
>> Your turn, Kai.
>> Hi, I'm Bea. I'm 27, but now I'm 28 cuz
it's my birthday today.
>> Happy birthday.
>> Happy birthday.
I'm a single mother and I'm a freshly
graduate um last May. Uh I'm graduate
from senior high grade 12.
>> Okay. Okay. All right. So, yeah, I guess
uh I'm just going to jump into it. I
came a little a little uh a little late
to the table here. Um,
what religion are you guys? Are you all
Catholic or is any Protestants here?
>> Well, I am Catholic but >> practicing
>> practicing
something like that.
>> Okay. Okay. When you can
>> but um yeah, I just respect all the
religious around us. >> Okay,
>> Okay,
>> that's it.
>> How about you?
>> And uh before I'm a Adventist if you're
familiar with that.
>> Yeah. Protestant. Now I'm not Adventist
anymore. And actually I don't I don't
know what is my >> religion
>> religion
>> exact religion.
>> Yeah. A religion cuz I don't go to
church anymore.
>> Yeah. As long as you have uh you know
God in your life.
>> Yeah. But my family is uh Catholic.
>> Yeah. Okay. Okay. So So what made you be
different from your family? >> Um
>> Um
>> cuz Adventist is Protestant and then
Catholic is Catholic.
>> Yeah. So you you're you're going to a
different church.
>> Yeah. Yeah. As Yeah.
>> It just happened. >> But
>> But
>> yeah, it's just Yeah. Since my
grandmother is pass passed away. Yeah. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> So I'm not Adventist anymore.
>> Ah, so she was and then you went with
Oh, okay. That's cool. That's cool.
>> Yeah. All right. I always asked this
random question. Uh, do you guys have a
driver's license?
>> Yes, I have.
>> I know you do. Yeah,
>> I don't. You don't have No, no, no, you
don't have like No, you don't have to.
>> I don't have, you know, I don't even
know how to drive. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. No, it just kind of shows like um
you know, it's just one of the
differences, you know, like uh and and I
don't think it's a bad thing at all. I
think if you're going to get a guy and
he's going to take care of you, he'll
he'll take care of you, you know, drive
you around or are you gonna take a
trike? Mhm.
>> But um all right, so I guess now we're
going to get into like the first
questions are always kind of the same,
you know, and uh I didn't sleep again
last night, so I'm a little bit off of
my game today. Um but I I'm I'm going to
ask the first few questions that I asked
in the last episode and then I'm going
to branch off to uh the questions that I
left out from the last show. So we're
going to skip a whole bunch that was
mentioned on the last show just so I can
make this show a little bit different.
But um I just as a foundation, how do
you guys define being single? So would
you define being single as having no men
at all? You're alone, no sex, nothing.
Or would you consider it going on dates
with one? Maybe even trying out a couple
different guys, going on dates with a
couple different guys. And sex is
optional. It's not a no, it's a maybe.
Uh maybe, you know, if the guy's the
right guy for you. Or C, would you call
it a situationship?
I'll start with you.
>> Okay. Uh for me, a single is uh
is like uh you're single, but you're
dating someone, you know, just for fun. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> Yeah. Not just like uh you're in a
relationship, you know, you're just uh
finding someone.
>> Would you sleep with them?
>> Oh, sorry.
>> Like like like you're like whoa. No.
Like uh like like if you met a guy and
it was just like like would you have a fling?
fling?
Yeah. Yeah. Like that.
>> Yeah. How about you?
>> All right. My definition of of being
single, it's like not totally no man. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> You can you can date with him, but more
focus on yourself, what your goals
>> and then Yeah, you can you can date with
him. But having sex, it's like optional.
>> Yeah. Optional. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> I got you.
>> So, because some
>> It's not bad. I'm not judging you. I'm
just trying to see the difference.
>> Yeah. For me, it's okay. Even six years,
no sex or whatever.
>> As long as
>> some girls can last a really long time. It's
It's
>> like hibernation.
>> How about you? M
single is boring but
>> okay I'm happy with my kids a
>> but if you did meet a guy would you would
would
>> um sometimes um date with him
>> yeah all right
okay are are
okay what is what is your biggest flex
for a woman is it having a career here
or having a family? One or the other.
What's the biggest flex? Like what's the
biggest thing that women would be like,
I got this,
>> you know, like like Yeah, that was a
horrible impression. But um yeah, like
like what's a big flex for you guys today?
today?
>> Um I think uh my biggest flex uh is
career, you know.
Yeah, cuz you know career is uh your
building your yourself build your
future. Yeah, something like that. And
then you cannot you cannot uh in you
cannot I mean you cannot focus on your
career without your with the help
without help of your family. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. So yeah, I'm
my biggest flex is >> career.
>> career.
>> Career. Yeah.
>> And you mean like in a multigenerational
family setup. So you could have like
your mom take care of the kids while
you're at work kind of thing.
>> Yeah. Yeah. If I have kids.
>> Yeah. If you have kids.
>> Yeah. If I have
>> Do you want to have kids?
>> Yeah. In my future. Maybe soon. Soon. Of
course I want kids.
>> What age do you think is a good age to
have kids? M I think between 24 or 25. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. And then when would you have to
start dating the guy?
>> Um I have a boyfriend.
>> Oh, you do? Okay. Okay. Okay. Oh, okay.
So, you've already kind of like started
the train, you know, like you're already
working towards it.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Okay, that's cool. How about you?
>> Um for me, maybe both. Uh
>> career and family. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Because But for me,
>> like like which would come first?
>> Family. Oh, okay. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Because um I do my career because of my family.
family. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> That's
>> That's >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Um
>> Um
I can do this just because of my family.
>> My children.
>> So you were willing to like like you
were pretty neutral. You were willing to
go either way. Like if your husband
said, "Don't worry, honey. You can stay
with the kids and relax. I'm going to go
work." I know it's not relaxing to be a
mom. I'm not saying that. I'm not
putting down that role. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> I'm glad I corrected myself on that. Um
but yeah like you you only worked
because you had to work.
>> Yeah but if my husband uh tell me that
oh don't work stay at home and taking
care of the kids. Yes I will do that but
if the money doesn't enough for us then
you have
>> I have I think I have to talk to him
that hey let me work and I want to help
>> to earn money for us for the for our children.
children. >> Yeah
>> Yeah
>> it's like that. So both.
>> Yeah. All right.
>> But first family.
>> I think that's a good way to look at it.
How about you?
>> Yeah. Family as well because family uh
>> really support me for uh wherever I go
will support for me. Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> I like that. Yeah. That that's kind of
where I'm at. Like and I and I think
that's kind of the divide. Like I
mentioned a dividing line uh in the last
episode where girls 22 23 and the number
changes every year as girls age. Um but
22 23 is the line where girls there and
above are willing to be family first and
that family might be a bigger flex and
then the younger ones are the ones that
are like there's like a change
>> at the age of like 22 23 and below. I've
noticed because I've done I did five
shows before I started doing this
channel just as an experiment and uh so
I've already I had 22 girls that I
talked to before this um and then now
this is the second episode but the first
live stream uh since I started this
channel. But yeah, I definitely noticed
that line there. And I think that the
more that we speak, I think we're going
to see that line more. And it's not bad.
I'm not judging at all. It's just like
me and her are pretty much the same age.
I'm a little bit older than her. Um, but
like and I think I think you're also in
the same boat. You're very family
oriented. So, it's going to be a good
diverse discussion. Like, no one's
picking on you. If you disagree with us,
it's okay. Like, yeah. Um, cuz like at
the end of the day, the audience just
wants to see the differences and how
Filipinos are different from Western
girls. So, are your mom and dad still together?
together?
>> Uh, no. They broke up.
>> Yeah. So, they're not living together
either. Like like they're no longer
living in the same house.
>> Yeah, they already have a different family.
family.
>> Okay. Yeah.
>> How long ago?
>> Uh it's 18 years since
>> Oh, wow. So you
>> before I was born.
>> Wow. Okay.
>> Yeah. They broke up.
>> And then you're So who are you living or
who who are you still living with a parent?
parent? >> Uh
>> Uh
>> are you living on your own?
>> I'm living with my cousin now.
>> Okay. And and when did you leave live
like stop living with a parent?
It's uh it's past few weeks. Oh,
>> okay. Okay. So, it's still fresh. Yeah.
And which parent did you live with?
>> My mom.
>> Your mom. Okay. So, and she has moved on
with another man. So, you have a stepfather?
stepfather?
>> Yeah, I have. And I have uh three step sisters.
sisters.
>> Oh, okay.
>> Are they good step sisters or are they
Disney evil stepsisters?
>> Yeah, they could. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
How about you? M
>> they were not uh together anymore cuz my
father ended the relationship with my
mom. He passed away.
>> Oh, okay. Well, >> yeah.
>> yeah.
>> Yeah. Your family's getting hit hard in
that category, eh?
>> Yeah. He passed away. So,
>> but uh before that they were happily married.
married. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Okay. And how about you?
>> Yes. Um we're both still alive and every
year uh we celebrate uh
uh uh my family uh anniversary but I'm
not uh
>> I'm a separately right now because uh
I'm uh rent a house. Okay.
>> But separately from my family.
>> But your parents are still married? Yes.
>> Okay. And they're still together. That's
cool. Yeah. So, yeah, maybe that's part
of the divide, too.
>> Um, okay. So, the next question is
redundant. I was going to ask if you're
married yet. Um, actually, are are you married?
married? >> No.
>> No.
>> Okay. Is the man still around?
>> No, no, no, no. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> I'll block him. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> We have contact each other. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> I'm happy now.
>> Okay. I might ask questions about that later.
later.
>> Yeah. Um, all right. Let's let's change
uh gears a little bit. Do do you girls
use dating apps? And which dating apps
do you use?
>> I Yeah, before I'm using dating apps,
it's uh bad up. >> Badu.
>> Badu.
>> Badu. Yeah. You know, Badu.
>> No, no, I don't. I don't use dating apps.
apps. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Maybe Instagram would count, but
>> so that's it. That's the one.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Not Filipino Cupid or anything like that?
that?
>> Uh, no. No. I think a lot of the other
YouTubers promote that one so heavily is
because they get an affiliate kickback.
>> We keep it real on this channel. So, how
about you dating apps?
>> Well, um when my husband passed away and
I decided to Hey, I need to move on. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And then I used the Asian dating.com way
back six years ago or seven years ago now.
now.
>> Okay. Did Did it work? >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Yes. I met someone there and um we had
six years of relationship for us uh LDR.
>> Oh wow. Longdist relationship. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah. You guys like your acronyms.
>> And then
we both wasted time for that cuz at the end
end >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> We broke up. >> Oh,
>> Oh, >> sad.
>> sad.
>> That's no good.
>> But hey, you know, life goes on.
>> How about you? I don't have because I
don't have idea with that dating app. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> All right. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> All right. Um Okay. Now, now we're
getting a little bit more into it. How
many serious relationships have you had?
>> Um I have two. >> Two?
>> Two?
>> Yeah. Two.
>> How How old were you when you started
dating? I mean, I'm serious with with
them, but I don't think so if if they're
serious to me, you know, because we we
ended broke up, you know. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> So, yeah.
>> So, how old were you when you started dating?
dating? >> Oh,
>> Oh,
>> it's okay.
>> I think 13, but it's just a, you know,
fling puppy love, you know.
>> Yeah. And how old is he? I'm two.
He's 17 years old that time and I'm 13,
you know. I'm not into younger boys,
younger guys, you know.
>> Yeah. No, I mean that's reasonable. Most
most girls go for older guys, you know,
if you're if you're you know, and then
so and then since then you had a second
one that was serious. Are you and that's
the one you're with now?
>> Um no.
in this 17. Okay.
>> I And and I'm 17 and this 21 years old.
>> Okay. And they're both Filipino.
>> Yeah. Both Filipino.
>> Why do you like older guys?
>> You know, I think they more like matured
and they have they know a lot of about
life, you know.
>> I and I'm 17. More experience in life.
Yeah. you know,
>> cuz you know, I'm not into uh I'm I'm
not kind of girl like dating for fun,
you know. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> So, you you do date to marry.
>> Yeah. Yes. Something like that, you know.
know.
>> Christine uh from the last show, she's
watching from Port Barton. She says hello.
hello.
>> Hi, Christine. Hi, Christine.
>> How are you guys?
>> Christine, you can tell me if the sound
is working because I haven't actually
checked it yet. I meant to and then I
didn't. I couldn't get it working. I
guess I can take this earphone out. But
uh she won't hear that for a couple
minutes because there's a delay. But um
yeah. How about you?
>> What's the question again?
>> Uh how many serious relationships have
you had?
>> Oh, I have three. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> First, my husband. Second, that guy with
six years as LDR that I thought he's the
one or the second one. And then the third
third
uh right now I don't I don't know is
serious or what.
>> No, I'm just kidding.
>> It still counts. Oh, there he might
watch this. Is he foreigner or is he Filipino?
Filipino?
>> He's a foreigner.
>> Oh, there's a good chance he's going to
watch it.
>> Living together for 3 years now. So,
>> what's his name? What's his name? Say hi.
hi.
>> Hey, Anthony. Anthony.
>> That's my middle name. Yeah.
Michael Anthony fluke.
>> I know you don't want me to go here, but
>> don't worry, man. I'm on the complete
opposite side of the table.
>> Yes, it's for fun. No worries. I don't
Like I said, I don't embarrass you here.
>> Well, now I might dig. I don't know. No,
I'm kidding. I'm not going to get you in trouble.
trouble.
>> Um, and how about you?
>> Uh, only one. Uh,
>> this the father of my children. [Laughter]
[Laughter]
>> That's wholesome.
>> Yeah. And you're wearing white, you
know, you've got the whole like Yeah.
>> Although you got a tattoo under there,
so there's like, you know, naughty and nice.
nice. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah. Oh, wow.
>> Oh, yeah.
>> All right. Um,
>> and have you ever dated a foreigner or
these are Filipino boys?
>> Um, it's not it's something like uh, you
know, fleeing.
>> Yeah. But
>> foreigner or
>> for foreign? >> Foreign.
>> Foreign.
>> Yeah. But it's not like, you know,
serious. Yeah. Where did you meet?
>> Because they he's a friend of my auntie. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah. You know.
>> All right. So, you met through family. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> That's a pretty good way to meet. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> But we're not
>> What kind of friend is he with your auntie?
auntie?
>> What kind of I mean my auntie
>> is he working his way through the whole
family or what? >> Um,
>> Um,
what do you mean?
>> Dated your aunt first and now he's
dating you?
>> I know. No. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
Some some guys are into that. I don't know
know
>> because my husband of my auntie is a
foreigner also. So yeah. So yeah because
because of my auntie I met I met also a
foreigner. Oh >> okay.
>> okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> All right. Um,
yeah. Out of all these relationships
that you guys have had without death,
how many relationships were ended by the man?
>> Or did you or did you end all the relationships
relationships
>> except for that one?
>> Can I talk?
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No, I'm gonna
interrupt you one more time. No,
>> okay. uh the from the last one I ended
up cuz
I think there's no
our relationship there's no progressive
or something like that. It's it's kind
of tiring for me. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> Six years together
she's like visit me back and forth once
a year
>> and then
>> video call no video call just chatted. I
don't know.
>> Long distance. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah. Yeah. >> Cuz
>> Cuz
>> that's a long time you're waiting.
>> At night time there is my daytime here.
I'm working time. So >> yeah,
>> yeah,
>> it's my
>> Yeah, it's
>> Did you guys fight a lot? Was he jealous?
jealous?
>> Um actually we don't fight even one.
>> It's weird.
>> They said when you don't fight it's
there's something wrong. But
>> we don't fight honestly.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. It's kind of boring or
>> Yeah. Yeah. Well, it is. I mean, if
you're not there in person. Like, how
long were you actually apart? Like the
whole time?
>> The whole time. The entire the entire
six years. He just visit me like one
week, two weeks in a year.
>> Ah, okay. So, he probably had someone
else too. I'm guessing >> maybe.
>> maybe.
>> But if he still put food on the table,
then it's okay.
>> Yes. uh especially when during a pandemic.
pandemic.
>> Yeah. Yeah. He helped me. That's cool.
>> Because I don't have work so much the time
time
>> but since I met him um I have worked. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> So
>> So
>> All right.
>> Yeah. Work is important. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> I agree. It is important. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And how many rel Yeah. You ended that
that one. You ended the relationship
with the with the father of your child.
What was the nature of the reason for
ending it? Did he get a little handsy or
or
>> No, he's a liar. Uh he's drunk and drunk
and drunk. Okay, I don't have a toxic
relationship. So, we split together. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
my children is with me.
>> Okay, that's good. Separate.
>> Does he pay proper support
>> every month? Yeah. What's What's a
normal amount of support for
>> It's too short. Uh like >> thousand.
>> thousand.
>> How much? >> 5,000
>> 5,000
>> for two kids? >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> So 10 or just five for two?
>> 5,000 per month
>> for So So 2,500 each? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
My wife wanted 20.
>> Maybe I can be
>> combined. Combined. Like I I I not
saying that I'm not saying that to say
anything bad about my ex-wife. Um but I
think they changed the law. It still
relies on whether or not the man can
afford it. But the new outline law is I
think it's like 10 per kid, but I would
still disagree with that from a Filipino
uh perspective because that's
$5 less than what I would be paying for
support in Canada. M
>> that's crazy.
>> Your government is dreaming if they're
going to then make men pay that here. I
mean the average salary is 10 to 20k and
they're going to pay like what half of
that for two kids. Forget that. So yeah, governments
governments
>> and I think here um the to those uh
Filipino with the children. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh I think it depends how much they
earn. Like they earn
>> Yeah, it does. It does. Like if he's not
earning anything, he doesn't have to pay
anything. You know, in America though,
you know what they'll do? >> What?
>> What?
>> They'll start taking it out of your bank
account. Like they'll they'll come after you.
you.
>> And if you don't do it, then they'll
there's consequences. You can go to jail.
jail.
>> Oh, okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> So, it's mandatory there.
>> Yeah. It's much different. Much
different than here. >> No.
>> No.
>> Yeah. I mean, here you can't get blood
from a stone, right? So,
>> that's why some Filipino guys here, they
don't care about if I get pregnant. You,
for example, I get pregnant you.
after that I don't care. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> So, so many Filipino guys here running
away when they >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I I've noticed that there is kind
of some level of uh cowardice. Like I've
I've met guys that had six kids at the
age of like early 20s. Six kids with six
different women. And they were laughing
at it and they thought they were the big
man, you know, like they were proud
like, "Oh yeah, you know, I got six
kids, six different moms. I'm a stud,
you know, like like they're acting like
it's like it's like it's a badge of honor."
honor."
>> And yeah, I mean, I think that's
ridiculous, too.
>> But he's uh irresponsible father.
>> Well, yeah. It's it's it's repulsive and
disgusting like
>> but he was so proud of himself and then
that night he was hitting on another
girl and I'm just like Yeah. Like like
do you find that that's a common thing
here for the men here where they they
aren't like fathers they just sperm
donor they just donate their sperm to
you and then they walk away like like
maybe it's not you but do you see that
with your friends and stuff like that or
is it just something I see cuz I'm looking
looking
>> and also that's fault of the girl too.
>> Oh thank you. Yeah yeah yeah. I mean I I
guess the podcast is finished even
watching the fil. No I'm kidding. I'm a
woman, but
>> No, you're right. Yeah, cuz the girls
pick. But I mean, a lot of the girls I
see too, like, and that's why I do want
to do an episode of single moms in the
future because
>> a lot of the single moms here, it's
still very different from back home uh
in Canada or the United States or Europe
because like you guys are just
inexperienced and dumb, you know? Like
you'll have kids at like 16, 18, and
like I'm not saying you're dumb. If
that, you know, like I I don't know how
old you were. I for I already forget.
But um you know like everybody knows one
you know like
it's tough uh to really hold anybody
accountable when they're that young. And
then you know you guys also have the
backup of a multigenerational family to
help you out. So
it works out still you know like uh
multigenerational families have a better
outcome than single moms you know. So at
least if you have that that's that's
good, right? Yeah. So that's why we
cannot uh blame all the guys out there
why you are being single mother cuz
on the beginning you know what to do. [Laughter]
[Laughter]
>> You know what to do for yourself. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yes. And if you don't want to be a
single mom then don't bl don't
uh let him to do that to you.
>> Yeah. Mhm.
>> And I mean there's clinics all over the
country. I mean we have uh I forget the
name of the one here uh by Jollibee on
is it Malbar? No, this is Malbar
>> on Rosal
>> uh right by Jollibee there by NCCC.
There's the roots of health I think it's called
called
>> and yeah you can walk right in there and
I mean they give you a free IUD.
>> So that's like the copper thing and it's like
like
>> ah it's called
Yeah. And you can put a a thing like
>> I I wouldn't do that if I were you.
>> Oh, in the implants in
>> Yeah, the implants, the injections, or
the drugs.
>> It's hormonal.
>> Yes. I experienced for 3 years about the injection.
injection.
>> Yeah. I mean, like I'm assuming you guys
all got the CO jab, too, right? Um Yeah.
So, you're already like possibly
slightly more likely to get blood clots
and stuff, so you don't want to have to
worry about taking a birth control.
that's going to ramp up that chance even
more, you know? So, it's Yeah. The less
poison you put in your body, the better.
An IUD is great cuz it's not as
effective as the hormonal thing. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> But it doesn't mess with your hormones.
It doesn't mess with your emotions. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And like I don't know if you guys know, um,
um,
we got Maggie's watching too. Hi Maggie. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Hi, Mugs.
>> Oh, who else?
>> I should put my glasses on. We got a
couple people in there watching from Cambodia.
Cambodia. >> Hello.
>> Hello.
>> Oh, okay. Uh, Ubang wants to know what
city he should visit. Uh, Cebu, Manila,
or Angelus. Angelus, if you want to get
into trouble
>> here in Balawa.
>> Yeah, like >> safe.
>> safe.
>> Right back again. Uh, Ubang. And and let
us know like what you're looking for.
Are you looking for a stable relationship?
relationship?
Are you just looking for fun?
>> Um, or are you looking for something
incredibly chill,
super chill? Cuz like I came to Palawan
because I was starting a family. There's
no earthquakes in Paloan. It's safer.
It's kind of boring. It's kind of
boring. If you're a tourist, you can go
to Elito and Port Barton. Um, and other
areas. They're building up San Vicente
and stuff like that. And there's there's
a few things to do for like 4 days, you
know. Um, but you know, like to live
here, I I like it cuz I just like I I
don't even go to the beach very much,
you know. Like I just live my life and I
like it cuz it's like not that crazy
with the tourists either. Um, Cebu I
liked. It's very big. Um, and there's a
lot of really awesome things to see just
outside of the city or you take a bus
for like 5 hours outside of the city and
they got all this other stuff going on
there. Um, I'm sure there's that there's
going to be people in the comments after
this video too is published and up and
um, I'm sure lots of people can make
suggestions in the comments. I was only
in Cebu when I met my wife and we didn't
really do too much. I think I went to Ma
Baal. Ma Bal. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. How do you say it?
>> Is that Cebu or Bul Mal? It's
>> Mal. I think it's Cebu. >> Cebu.
>> Cebu.
>> It's a blur, man. The last decade. >> Mal.
>> Mal.
>> Yeah. Okay. >> Malwal.
>> Malwal.
>> Yeah. I went there. It was like 5 hours
out of town or something like that on a
bus. I It's all a blur, too.
>> Is it outside of the town that Mo?
>> Yeah. Yeah. It was like uh It was
beautiful though.
>> Um but yeah, we we took a bus out there.
>> Um Yeah. And then Angelus is if you want
to like
>> for fun,
>> you you just want to bang. You want to
bang all day long. You want to bang
three to five girls a day. But some of
them, a lot of them, you're going to
have to pay for unless you're incredibly handsome
handsome
>> and have big muscles.
>> You will get free if you are incredible handsome.
handsome.
>> You get it for free. You get it for free
if you're good-looking.
>> Yeah. For free if you're good-looking.
But if you're not, you're paying. So
Cebu, I think, would be the best bet for
him. You know, it's the best of both
worlds cuz he can do all the touristy
stuff. The girls there are very um
positive, you know, like I I didn't date
anybody while I was there because I was
with my my future wife back then. Um but
I think that would be good. Yeah.
Yeah. Okay. So, where were we? I don't um
>> Yeah. I don't know where I Who was I
talking to last? Was I talking to you or
you? Can you
>> I think we're going to we're going to
start from
>> Talia M.
>> I didn't answer your last question yet.
>> Yeah. Yeah. What was it? I don't even
remember now
>> cuz it's not on the sheet. It's about
>> It's about ended up with a guy
relationship. Is that our relationship?
Ended up relationship.
>> So yeah, my
>> Yeah, I I broke up with him. My Yeah, I
mean my ex-boyfriend before, but he's a
good guy, you know. He's a good guy. I
just feel um I know that it's
complicated since I I'm too young. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> And we're uh we're in a longdistance relationship.
relationship.
>> Yeah. That's tough.
>> Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah. I decided to broke
up with him,
>> but we're good. We're not like know um
hate each each other, you know. We're
not like that.
>> So, yeah. You're still friends right now?
now? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Are are you still friends with all your
exes? and no more now.
>> Uh I mean, no, we're not I mean I'm not
>> we're not talking to each other. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Anymore, so yeah.
>> But if he popped back in your DMs, would
you be like, "Hi."
>> Uh no, since I already have a boyfriend
now. So
>> that's cool. That's cool. Yeah. Is your
social media public or private?
>> Um public. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Public.
>> Public.
>> Yeah. Normally I like to take a look at
it before uh before I have people on the
show so I can see if there's any like
bikini ass shots. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> But uh how about you? You're public or
private? Like and I'm thinking Instagram mainly?
mainly? >> Private.
>> Private.
>> Private. Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Private >> also.
>> also.
>> Okay. There's that line again. You know
what I mean? You know, it's what I mean.
It's like I I always notice it. Um when
is too old to start having children?
too old.
>> Maybe start at 32. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. For
>> for me 30. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> 30. Yeah. [Music]
>> Okay. Maybe uh 28. >> 28.
>> 28. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> 28. I'm on the same page.
>> I ag totally agree with a lot of what
you guys are saying. So, all right. Now,
to get into like a little bit more uh
would you ever have a separate bank
account that is yours? Maybe you started
it years before you met your man. Would
you, if you had a bank account that you
started, a savings account before you
met your man, would you just kind of
like keep it a secret as like a backup
plan just in case things go wrong?
>> Um, for me, no. >> No.
>> No.
>> Oh, it's not it's not about about secret.
secret.
Uh, so
I think no.
>> No. Okay.
How about you? Yes, I do have. I do have.
have.
>> Oh, you don't have?
>> I do have.
>> Oh, you do have.
>> Yes, because I
>> There's a members only community.
Anthony, you should join that, too, cuz
we we're going to talk dirt later. I
I'll tell you all my secrets about it
>> cuz I have I have some reasons. That's
why I do that.
>> Yeah. Because whatever happened to me
and him.
>> Yeah. I mean, and and most guys might
not even have a problem with that.
>> Yes. But much better if we we guys have
own money.
>> We have own money
>> telling them or
>> cuz sometimes h can I borrow your money
and then they don't give it to you back.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Because what if you what if
we broke up? I mean me and my partner we
broke up. So
much better if I have my own money. So, so
so
>> especially to those women have children. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Well, if you have children and you can
threaten VOC on them like like I may or
may not have had done to me so they can
make because there's financial abuse,
right? Economic abuse or whatever they
call it. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I had a nice chunk of change for
buying a car. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. But for me,
>> ready to go, you know, it's like
>> I have to explain with that.
>> So yes, uh I do that just because of
whatever happen in the future. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> I have emergency >> pocket.
>> pocket.
>> I have emergency money for this.
>> Yeah. No, that's good. That's good. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Cuz you're not putting everything on
your man.
>> Cuz I I had um bad experience way back >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
um maybe 10 years ago, 11 years ago when
my when my uh daughter has I know very
ill and I need to take her to the
hospital and I don't have any money. I
don't have friends to
>> No, I get you. I get you. And you know
like that reasoning like there's nothing
wrong with that reasoning. Like there's
there's different ways to answer the
question. M
>> you're answering it maybe with the same
outcome that a western girl might, but
your reasoning is way different. Like
your your logic, the way you think, your priorities.
priorities. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Very different. So yeah, like you know,
as they say in Thailand, same same but
different. How about you, >> Pardon?
>> Pardon?
>> Yeah. Like would you have a backup
savings account or you keep money aside?
You don't tell your man if you had a
man? No, we don't have but your money. I
My money is my money. Your money is my money.
money. It's
It's
>> a typical Filipino. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Oh, don't I know it?
>> Joke only.
>> Yeah, I know. I know.
>> Yeah, that's kind of what I was getting
at anyway. So, you saw right through me. >> All right.
>> All right.
>> And if anyone's wondering at this point
in the game in America or whatever why
there's no red meat,
>> what is red meat? Red meat is when I do
some gotcha stuff. I'm keeping it
relatively tame for my first couple
episodes because girls usually don't
watch the whole episode if if I'm doing casting.
casting.
>> But if I am going to use this episode
for casting, I want to make sure it's
nice and clean. No mean stuff. No red
meat. Okay.
>> But I'll keep it interesting. We're
going to get into the interesting stuff
very shortly. But um yeah, I'm not going
to have any gotcha. I'm not going to
slam down body slam and eat single moms
or or whatever they do on uh whatever
Myron does on Fresh and Fit. Um
all right. Yeah, I guess that's it for
that page. All right. I'm going to jump
right into I think I'm going to jump into
foreigners.
Yeah, I've already asked a lot of these.
so
you haven't dated a foreigner before?
>> No, I haven't tried. But
>> now I'm going to try it. I will.
>> Yes, I will try.
>> What's um I guess first I'll start
country. Like is there any country that
you have in mind that that man would be from?
>> Like America, Canada, anything else. >> Anywhere.
>> Anywhere.
>> It can be anywhere. Yeah. Like like
maybe you like uh Italian, Spanish,
maybe you like uh Nigerian, I don't know.
know.
>> Yes. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Would you go um and this isn't
racist or anything like that. Like I'm
going to ask you about races, but it's
because the audience at some point or
another there's going to be cuz the
passport bro term,
white people started the digital nomad
movement and that's just a bunch of
silly boys who go around the world
working online and sell courses. And
then the Passport brothers, they started
the cause because they got tired of uh
of um well angry black women. So they
they left their country and
they actually started the whole Passport
Bro thing. And then uh just got adopted
by everybody else. So a lot of my
audience is probably going to be black.
>> Would you guys ever date a black guy?
>> Oh yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> No matter what, it's they're still human.
human.
>> Well, obviously they're still human, but
you're You're allowed to have
preferences though. I mean, you know,
>> I will. Yeah. If if I if I'm single now,
>> I would go to you guys.
>> There you go.
>> Cuz like like you know, like there's
there's there's a number of them
already, you know, in Puerto already.
Puerto is pretty chill. Puerto is pretty
chill. Um, and there's there's a, you
know, a little community like and and I
say like there's a lot of foreigners,
too. Plus, we got a lot of people in the
military from, you know, I mean, the
American military is pretty much the
United Nations in a sense that like
there's people from all around, you
know, like you got Spanish,
African-American, all that. So, um, how
about like uh another Asian like uh
Korean, Japanese, Chinese?
>> No, not for me. >> No,
>> No,
>> no, I'm not attracted to uh I'm sorry,
but uh in my
>> Don't apologize. You're allowed to have
your preferences.
>> It's my opinion. Um, I'm not attracted to
to >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Japanese.
>> Asian Asian guys.
>> Yeah. I hear that uh people are really
racist in in South Korea.
South Korea. Like uh I had a few friends
that taught English there and they're
hyper hyper racist against like >> really
>> really
>> white people and like Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. This
This
>> is bad. and and they got way too many
like like I wish K-pop didn't exist
>> because that country has the most
plastic surgery in like the world and
they also have like the lowest birth
rate in the world. Koreans won't exist
in like 50 to 80 years.
>> So that's one example. And again, the
point of this podcast is also to learn
from you and and to illustrate how you
guys are different, how you're the same
from Western girls. Um, but normally by
the time I get to the feminist
questions, um, I turn things around on
you guys a little bit, you know, because
I think that you guys are starting to
make, uh, some of the same mistakes that
they do in the West. But may maybe we'll
get to it, maybe we won't.
>> Like I said, I didn't sleep last night,
you would all date a foreigner, though,
right? Yeah. Yeah, you would. You
already Okay. So, uh, if you did date a
foreigner, no matter what race or
country they're from, uh, what would be
your main concerns? So, some examples I
have, I don't want to lead your your
thoughts, but some examples would be
culture, language, um, their motives,
whether or not they're fetishizing you,
like earlier we talked about like what
is exotic, you know, like >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, maybe they just want to bang
because, you know, you're exotic, you
know, and they don't actually care about
you at all. Like that could be a
concern. Yeah,
>> that was like my ex-wife's concern when
we met, too. She was worried about that.
Maybe you're worried about the size of
their junk,
>> you know?
>> Um or whether or not they want kids and
it and it conflicts with what you want.
So, those are just some examples I had.
But what do you guys think? Like, what
concerns would you have if you were to
date somebody from another country or
another culture?
I okay
um I think I don't have a problem with
their country or whatever. Um unless
that guy and I agree with all things.
>> Yeah. So we're good. Yeah. I'm good with him.
him. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I don't have any problem about
their culture or who is he whatever.
Something like that.
>> Some advice. Um, I would make sure that
they back home are very family oriented.
>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. I like
>> Yeah, cuz like like maybe uh someone
with um I mean you guys already got some
Spanish in you, but then if you date
somebody who can have even more Spanish
in you, huh?
But um yeah, cuz they're they're very
family focused and like you know
Mediterranean um you know like like
there's a lot of different cultures that
are very family focused whereas um with
white people it's a mixed bag you know
like you don't know what you're going to
get. You don't know if you're going to
get cuz like a lot of us get kicked out
of the house when we're 18 and go [ __ ]
yourself, get out of my house, you know.
And then other ones like if you because
maybe you guys can't tell the difference
between different white people or
>> uh Greeks would be very very family very
very family focused.
>> Um yeah, I think that would matter for
you guys. And then um another thing that
I've I've kind of picked up on just by
observing relationships because I have a
lot of friends that are girls and
whether or not the man has a good relationship
relationship
with his mother.
So like if his mother was always like
treating him like garbage
>> Mhm. and he was always seeking her approval.
approval.
And if she's like anything like my mother-in-law,
mother-in-law,
um, you know, that that could cause
trouble for you. Like if the mother
doesn't like you or if the mother just
treats her son like trash
>> cuz it can warp his brain, you know,
like and then if you're both hanging
from a bridge and he can only save one
of you, you know, like it's just Yeah. I
don't know. I've just noticed that some
guys got mommy issues. Uh, how about you?
you?
>> What would be your concerns of other cultures?
cultures?
>> My concerns about the other culture, it's
it's
>> now that you you've dabbled. >> Um,
>> Um, >> uhoh.
>> uhoh. >> Sorry.
>> Sorry.
>> It's okay. Get rid of that. Get rid of it.
it.
>> Um, I think I have I am not
>> concerned about the I know the culture.
>> Yeah. cuz in my experience right now
it's all good.
>> How many foreigners have you dated in
total roughly? Two. >> Two.
>> Two.
>> Okay. And one was long distance.
>> Okay. Okay. So that's okay. So and and
everything's good. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Good. Bad
because relationships
>> no perfect. So sometimes there's down
>> mute like mutual and sometimes a hi
>> like happy like oh I'm on the moon
something like that and then sometimes oh
oh
>> did uh
how did how did Anthony adapt when you
were tempo with him the first time?
>> Oh my god. And then maybe before you
start, explain what tempo is and then
explain because I can tell you already
have a story. So yeah, f first what is it?
it?
>> Well, if I have I don't know what is
tampo in English. So they can
>> I mean for me it's just like when your
girl gets like
>> tantrums. No.
>> Yeah, kind of. And then you just kind of
like it's kind of like being on her
period if you're a white guy or you know
just a western guy. You just kind of
like it's like that. But usually girls
just kind of like work things out on
their own and some like my wife would
get tempo
for weeks after like an argument more
than a week sometimes.
>> That's too long.
>> I know. And it was very difficult at times.
times.
>> Um but that again it's different for
everybody. I'm not putting her down in
any way.
>> Um but you know then some people it's
just a few days but you just like back
the [ __ ] off and just let her be and
then it's okay. I mean, but there's
different ways that people express
tempo, right? Like they can have a
tantrum. They can go throw your clothes
in the dumpster.
>> No, no, that happen. Um,
>> how so? So So, so back to Anthony. How
did he react?
>> Okay. This is how he react with my tambbo.
tambbo. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> If I'm in a not in a mood,
he's just I know now he learned from me.
>> He just like being quiet. And then if he
think that hey it's over he going to
make move like he makes joke to make me
laugh or something like that. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And then I was not like the very uh emotional
emotional
>> like oh I I'm angry now until the next week.
week.
>> I'm not like that.
>> Oh you're not like that. If if he make
something uh I know that he wants to be
good again. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> He makes effort. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> That's cool.
>> I will be good.
>> Like so how did you react the very first time?
time? >> Oh.
>> Oh.
>> Did you think that you were going to
like break up with them? Like
>> I almost uh walk away.
>> You almost broke up?
>> Not broke up. I left the house and stay
somewhere overnight.
>> Oh wow.
>> Because I'm so mad. Yeah.
>> And then go back home the next day and
there's like nothing to see him there.
Just go inside and I don't care. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And then
>> he just started to uh
>> to talk to me
>> and then
to work it out again.
>> Yeah. Does it require a lot of like
talking after that?
Oh. Uh,
Maggie says, "Uh, tempo means sulking."
Okay. Yeah. Yeah. I guess that's a good
way. Yeah. Yeah. That's bang on. Thank
you, Maggie.
>> Thank you for helping mom.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Cuz even I didn't Yeah. Even
I didn't know the word for it.
>> Oh, yes.
>> Yeah. So, you're just like
>> Oh, no. I'm not crying.
>> I'm not crying. It's just like me, you
know, like
>> Yeah. But, uh, sometimes he just like
kissing me. that makes me annoy too. And
is the best
>> but in a I know not in the very bad way. So
So
>> I'm going to mess up how to say this,
but uh Cassie Manoa channel PPC says
Tampa is pouting. So yeah, it's very similar
similar
>> pouting. Like
>> what does Cassie manua mean? >> What?
>> What?
>> Cassie manua. >> Casano.
>> Casano. Yeah,
Yeah,
>> I don't know if it's Tagalog word or
Bisayiah or
>> or it's just someone's name. >> Ah,
>> Ah,
>> well, hello there. >> Hello.
>> Hello. >> Hello.
>> Hello.
>> Thank you for watching, guys. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. And then how about you?
>> Was what is it?
>> Just like Oh, no. You You've never
really dated a foreigner, so yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> You're looking though. Members only
community. if they're willing to opt to
share their Instagram account if they're
willing to,
especially if it was their birthday recently,
recently,
then uh you can get that in the
membersonly community if you want to
spark up a conversation with these
ladies. There will be a link in the
description after. Um I think it's just hobospeaks.locals.com.
That's uh one I had set up from my
blogging days. Um yeah.
Would you date a military man? because
they they come and they go.
>> Um for me, not yet. But
um he's studying about uh criminology.
My ex >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> ex-boyfriend.
>> ex-boyfriend.
>> But would you date like a US military man?
man?
>> Um no. >> No,
>> No,
>> not yet. Not yet. >> Sorry.
>> Sorry.
>> If your boyfriend sees this, he's like,
"What's going on there?" >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> No.
>> No.
>> How about you? Um,
>> hypothetically, if you were single,
>> if I'm if I'm single.
>> Yeah, cuz I know there might be a few
military watching.
>> Yes, cuz um I remember there there was a
guy he was an Air Force, US Air Force.
Uh he tried to uh No, uh what you call that?
that?
>> Uh hitting me. Something like that.
>> Oh, hitting on you. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah. Flirting. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Flirting on me. But I am committed
with this relationship. That's good. So
>> there you go. You got a good one, Anthony.
Anthony.
>> Thank you. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Loyal.
>> Loyal.
>> Yeah. Because it's hard to for me.
Uhhuh. For my opinion, it's very tough
when you have two or three boys more cuz >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> It's hard to balance especially your
attention. how you can talk with somebody
somebody
with with him with other men.
>> Like like women cheat emotionally and
men cheat physically,
>> you know, like a guy can zip it up and
forget her name and walk away and then
go on the way home and buy his wife
flowers, you know what I mean? And like
just forget the girl that he just slept with.
with.
>> But if a girl cheats, she's cheating
with her emotions. And that if a girl
cheats with her emotions, the
relationship is over.
>> Oh yes, that's true.
>> Yeah. Like like even if she just opens
the door
>> Yeah. You know, you can a guy can Well,
some guys can't cuz they're [ __ ]
but uh I think I think most men can tell
when a girl is like done, you know.
>> Yeah. Most girls they going to we going
to stay with you guys until we can. But
if we think it's over, when we say over,
it's really over. No coming back.
>> And it was probably over be like a while
before that, too. You know, you guys
probably don't actually say it until
it's really over, you know, like
>> like it's dead.
>> Sorry. Can you repeat the
>> What do you look for in a man? I guess I
can uh put these away because I enjoy
this line of questioning.
uh a man that is uh family I mean what I
I like >> yes
>> yes
>> what I like from a man
>> a man that is a family oriented and
uh generous man and kind
you know and he's good with uh
with other people and you know just I
mean when he know how to collaborate
with other people. So, yeah,
>> that's a very well-rounded answer for an 18-year-old.
18-year-old.
>> Honestly, no, that's that's that's a
great answer, you know, like uh and you
didn't hit all the cliche [ __ ] you
know, like a lot of that was like pragmatic.
pragmatic.
>> So, that Wow. Wow.
>> Yes. Yeah. That's why I like uh
family oriented guy because I came from
a broken family. So yeah, if I'm going
to make my own family, I want the guy
who is family oriented. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So,
>> So,
>> and responsible.
>> Yeah. Responsible. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> How about you? >> Um,
>> Um,
what question again?
>> Okay. I'm looking for the man. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> What? I'm looking for a man. Okay. Um,
be honest.
First, physically attracted. Yeah.
Yeah. >> Second,
>> Second,
um if he has stable job. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> How to handle family or kids or children.
children. >> Yep.
>> Yep.
>> And then
how to respect me. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> And responsible.
>> You guys are killing my my line of
questioning. You're being uh you're
being great. These are all good good
realistic things to look for. How about you?
you?
>> Um, I don't look for a like ideal man as
long as he loves me and my family and children
children and
and um
um
yeah, that's the
know um
that's why you like
then that's uh what's that's the best
for the best for us. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
What if he has his own kids?
>> I will accept him. The kids too cuz I
love I love him. If he has kids, I will
treat his kids like mine. Like now
>> what if they act like his ex-wife?
>> I think what what
>> what if they act like like the kids act
like his ex-wife and they act really [ __ ]
[ __ ]
>> I'm just kidding. I'm only kidding. I'm
only kidding. Or they're really ugly.
No, I'm kidding. I'm joking. I'm joking.
You're going to be different from the
from the ex. Of course, if you're gonna
be the same, >> well,
>> well,
the same thing will happen.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We
>> So, what else?
>> If if a guy had kids, you'd be all right
with it. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I think it's hard to for me it's
hard to accept the guy that has already
kids cuz you know what if they I mean
they still talking with this I mean you
know maybe
>> Oh cuz you don't want the ex-wife around.
around.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Or the ex-girlfriend
>> as they already have a daughter or Yeah. son.
son.
>> You you cannot.
>> Yeah. I think I cannot even you have own
children. children.
>> Yeah. But if I have a children, I'm not
I don't think if he will accept.
>> But if he has children, I don't think if
I can accept that. You know,
>> I think single moms here are different. I think that um a lot of people, a lot
I think that um a lot of people, a lot of guys from the West would be willing
of guys from the West would be willing um to date a single mom here because of
um to date a single mom here because of how you guys had your kids. Like a lot
how you guys had your kids. Like a lot of you were just like like like we
of you were just like like like we talked about earlier just kind of young
talked about earlier just kind of young and stupid you know and like I always
and stupid you know and like I always look at you and I don't mean to I'm not
look at you and I don't mean to I'm not like you know like sorry it's like I
like you know like sorry it's like I don't think it's anyway um but yeah you
don't think it's anyway um but yeah you know like a lot of them were and it's
know like a lot of them were and it's not like uh it's I mean there are some
not like uh it's I mean there are some I've met some here in Palawan um but for
I've met some here in Palawan um but for the most part the women didn't like
the most part the women didn't like reject the man and want to have their
reject the man and want to have their hot girl summer and like get rid of the
hot girl summer and like get rid of the guy and like cuz they felt trapped or
guy and like cuz they felt trapped or whatever. I mean, some women do, you
whatever. I mean, some women do, you know, postpartum is a hell of a drug
know, postpartum is a hell of a drug metaphorically.
metaphorically. >> Um, but yeah, I mean what I was going to
>> Um, but yeah, I mean what I was going to do, you guys were very pragmatic with
do, you guys were very pragmatic with your responses and you didn't give me
your responses and you didn't give me any [ __ ]
any [ __ ] Um, most of the time girls will like I
Um, most of the time girls will like I want him to be nice and like a gentleman
want him to be nice and like a gentleman and like, you know, I just like, you
and like, you know, I just like, you know, and I and he's going to like open
know, and I and he's going to like open the door for me and like, you know, like
the door for me and like, you know, like that kind of [ __ ] And then what I
that kind of [ __ ] And then what I usually do is I turn it around and I'm
usually do is I turn it around and I'm like,
like, if you were to walk into a bar and, you
if you were to walk into a bar and, you know, a guy compliments you on your hair
know, a guy compliments you on your hair and then another guy says, "Your ass
and then another guy says, "Your ass looks good in those pants." Or whatever.
looks good in those pants." Or whatever. And then like some other guy's like,
And then like some other guy's like, "Can I buy you a drink?" And then
"Can I buy you a drink?" And then another guy's like, "No, I want to buy
another guy's like, "No, I want to buy you a drink." And then there's one guy
you a drink." And then there's one guy who's like,
who's like, "You got some like mud on your ass, you
"You got some like mud on your ass, you know, you must have sat in something."
know, you must have sat in something." Or like he just says something that's
Or like he just says something that's like negative like just like you look
like negative like just like you look fat in those jeans, you know, like just
fat in those jeans, you know, like just something like that.
something like that. How would you react to that?
How would you react to that? >> Negative.
>> Negative. >> Yeah. Yeah, he's he's like a nice guy,
>> Yeah. Yeah, he's he's like a nice guy, but he just like he just you can tell
but he just like he just you can tell he's confident, but he's just like, "You
he's confident, but he's just like, "You don't look good in those jeans." Like,
don't look good in those jeans." Like, "Hi." You know, like he's just like
"Hi." You know, like he's just like like, you know, kind of puts you down
like, you know, kind of puts you down like like how would you react to that?
>> You'd kind of be wondering what the [ __ ] this guy's on, right? Like like like
this guy's on, right? Like like like what's his deal?
what's his deal? >> Shocking. Yeah. But um
>> Shocking. Yeah. But um >> and it would tell it would sit in your
>> and it would tell it would sit in your head like free rent, you know? It would
head like free rent, you know? It would just like live in your head, right?
just like live in your head, right? >> Yes. And
>> Yes. And >> he would stand out from the other men
>> he would stand out from the other men that were really nice to you, wouldn't
that were really nice to you, wouldn't he?
he? >> Right.
>> Right. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> And then if I know that I'm look good
>> And then if I know that I'm look good and someone saying that to me.
and someone saying that to me. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Well, I ignoring you like
>> Well, I ignoring you like >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> You are air or wind on my
>> You are air or wind on my >> Maybe it's just a drunk that's why you
>> Maybe it's just a drunk that's why you said that because it's a bar, you know.
said that because it's a bar, you know. >> Pretend it's a cafe.
>> Pretend it's a cafe. Yeah. And
Yeah. And >> my reaction is just look at him and just
>> my reaction is just look at him and just ignore.
ignore. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I I don't think you'd ignore. If he was
>> I I don't think you'd ignore. If he was handsome, he'd be like,
handsome, he'd be like, >> "Who are you? Why are you Why are you
>> "Who are you? Why are you Why are you >> No, I'm not like I'm not like that. So,
>> No, I'm not like I'm not like that. So, just ignore him alone."
just ignore him alone." >> Yeah. You You guys are more wholesome,
>> Yeah. You You guys are more wholesome, you know? It's um It's tough with you
you know? It's um It's tough with you girls. There's even when I try to dig up
girls. There's even when I try to dig up some red meat, I can't. M
some red meat, I can't. M >> um another thing I was going to say is
>> um another thing I was going to say is like um if you girls were you know on
like um if you girls were you know on that wavelength I would also point out
that wavelength I would also point out that women in my experience generally
that women in my experience generally like men and no one's hit the like
like men and no one's hit the like button guys. I don't see any likes on
button guys. I don't see any likes on this video.
this video. What's going on over there? I got like
What's going on over there? I got like three viewers and you can't even help.
three viewers and you can't even help. >> You can ask something guys if you like.
>> You can ask something guys if you like. >> I had to pay these girls.
>> I had to pay these girls. >> Yeah.
But um yeah, I know this one's not as good as the last one. I didn't sleep
good as the last one. I didn't sleep again. I didn't sleep before the last
again. I didn't sleep before the last one either, but um yeah, like uh girls
one either, but um yeah, like uh girls like guys that are generally desired by
like guys that are generally desired by other girls. So I guess I mean you guys
other girls. So I guess I mean you guys maybe you're not on that level. Um but
maybe you're not on that level. Um but would you agree that there's a good
would you agree that there's a good chance that like you walk into a room
chance that like you walk into a room and there's a guy that like your friends
and there's a guy that like your friends they all told you, "Oh, he that guy,
they all told you, "Oh, he that guy, look at that guy. He's he's smoking.
look at that guy. He's he's smoking. He's
He's >> pogy,
>> pogy, >> you know.
>> you know. >> Yeah. He's he's guapo, you know. Um you
>> Yeah. He's he's guapo, you know. Um you know, like that that would probably also
know, like that that would probably also pique your interest the same as a guy
pique your interest the same as a guy being a little critical, you know, like
being a little critical, you know, like and um Am I right?
and um Am I right? >> Yes, you're right.
>> Yes, you're right. >> Yeah, cuz he's like pre-qualified,
>> Yeah, cuz he's like pre-qualified, you know. Now, how do you think um
Yeah. Yeah. Like it doesn't work with you guys cuz you were too pragmatic. I
you guys cuz you were too pragmatic. I was going to do a gotcha and I couldn't
was going to do a gotcha and I couldn't get it going. But um yeah, I was going
get it going. But um yeah, I was going to say like it's basically the opposite
to say like it's basically the opposite for men and women. So like you know like
for men and women. So like you know like a girl might like a guy that had a lot
a girl might like a guy that had a lot of other girls, you know, like if he's
of other girls, you know, like if he's got a bit of a reputation, he's been
got a bit of a reputation, he's been validated by multiple women already.
validated by multiple women already. He's, you know, maybe a bit of a [ __ ]
He's, you know, maybe a bit of a [ __ ] boy. And um you know, that that might
boy. And um you know, that that might make you more attracted to him. And then
make you more attracted to him. And then I was going to point out how it
I was going to point out how it everything that attracts you to a man is
everything that attracts you to a man is actually the opposite for a man when
actually the opposite for a man when he's attracted to a woman. So if you
he's attracted to a woman. So if you like a guy that has a lot of, you know,
like a guy that has a lot of, you know, beautiful women that love him and like,
beautiful women that love him and like, you know, chose him, selected him for
you know, chose him, selected him for whatever, uh, then you might be more
whatever, uh, then you might be more attracted to him. But if a guy found out
attracted to him. But if a guy found out that you had a lot of guys,
that you had a lot of guys, you know, um, some women wear that like
you know, um, some women wear that like a badge of honor. if they have a lot of
a badge of honor. if they have a lot of guys, they they wear it like, "See, you
guys, they they wear it like, "See, you know, guys like me, but guys don't find
know, guys like me, but guys don't find that attractive." So, but we didn't even
that attractive." So, but we didn't even go down that hallway. So, I can't
go down that hallway. So, I can't continue on that one really.
continue on that one really. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Um
>> Um >> I I have a question.
>> I I have a question. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Uh you guys, what are you looking for?
>> Uh you guys, what are you looking for? The
The >> women,
>> women, >> a girl that is peaceful and happy. She
>> a girl that is peaceful and happy. She brings joy.
baby face. Thank you. Sorry about that. Uh, anybody in the
Sorry about that. Uh, anybody in the chat, if you can let me know if we're
chat, if you can let me know if we're back on and everything's fine.
back on and everything's fine. >> Yeah. If you guys um want some ano,
>> Yeah. If you guys um want some ano, if you guys uh want something like what
if you guys uh want something like what you want to know about Filipinas,
you want to know about Filipinas, if you want to date Filipinos, just say
if you want to date Filipinos, just say something.
something. >> There we go. Video is back.
>> There we go. Video is back. >> Welcome back. OBS just crashed, man. I
>> Welcome back. OBS just crashed, man. I don't know. Uh, let me know in the chat
don't know. Uh, let me know in the chat if everything's working.
if everything's working. It hasn't pulled up on the YouTube, so
It hasn't pulled up on the YouTube, so you guys can't see that yet.
>> Can you see us now? >> It should be working. Yeah, it's
>> It should be working. Yeah, it's delayed, but
[Music] >> But I know why
>> But I know why >> somebody hit like. Somebody hit the like
>> somebody hit like. Somebody hit the like button.
button. >> While you're working there, I have a
>> While you're working there, I have a question.
question. >> Yeah. Go ahead.
>> Yeah. Go ahead. >> Is sex does matter for the guy?
>> Is sex does matter for the guy? >> Sex?
>> Sex? >> Yes,
>> Yes, >> definitely.
>> definitely. >> I think most of the foreigner like
>> I think most of the foreigner like Yeah, I mean I I think it does for all
Yeah, I mean I I think it does for all men, but I just think Filipino men are
men, but I just think Filipino men are so
so underconfident
underconfident >> about sex
>> about sex >> and you know, like I'll be real. I think
>> and you know, like I'll be real. I think that there's a a crisis of testosterone
that there's a a crisis of testosterone in the Philippines.
in the Philippines. >> So, what do you think if your partner or
>> So, what do you think if your partner or girlfriend, wife,
girlfriend, wife, uh refuse you?
uh refuse you? >> Um, you know, really pisses me off.
>> Um, you know, really pisses me off. um that a male's gender role is enforced
um that a male's gender role is enforced by law. Like if she wants to buy
by law. Like if she wants to buy something and I say no, she can say oh
something and I say no, she can say oh that's that's uh economic abuse.
that's that's uh economic abuse. >> If a girl like tells me like you know I
>> If a girl like tells me like you know I wish your mom was dead, I wish her
wish your mom was dead, I wish her family was dead. They should have
family was dead. They should have aborted you. You know, and like they say
aborted you. You know, and like they say like a girl says all these things to you
like a girl says all these things to you and then like you know if just to get
and then like you know if just to get her to shut up like if you were to lay
her to shut up like if you were to lay hands on her and just give her a little
hands on her and just give her a little slap in the face like don't talk to me
slap in the face like don't talk to me like that. VOC again comes after you. So
like that. VOC again comes after you. So like cuz men and women fight
like cuz men and women fight differently, right?
differently, right? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. So if you're going to say horrible
>> Yeah. So if you're going to say horrible things and do that in public especially,
things and do that in public especially, you're humiliating your man. You're
you're humiliating your man. You're destroying his reputation. That
destroying his reputation. That reputational damage is far worse than a
reputational damage is far worse than a little on a cheek, right? But we are our
little on a cheek, right? But we are our hands are tied behind our back on
hands are tied behind our back on everything. So,
everything. So, I would think, and I made a video about
I would think, and I made a video about this, um,
this, um, if all of my gender roles are are
if all of my gender roles are are legally enforced,
legally enforced, you're damn right you're going to make
you're damn right you're going to make that st you're going to give me that
that st you're going to give me that steak and [ __ ] on steak and [ __ ]
steak and [ __ ] on steak and [ __ ] day. You know what I mean? Like,
day. You know what I mean? Like, >> you got to like like now they have
>> you got to like like now they have girlfriend day, they have Valentine's
girlfriend day, they have Valentine's Day, they have all these days for women,
Day, they have all these days for women, but like men get the real short end of
but like men get the real short end of the stick. I mean, there are so many
the stick. I mean, there are so many laws here. Like, if if if you were to
laws here. Like, if if if you were to cheat, um,
cheat, um, it's it it
it's it it virtually no consequence because
virtually no consequence because infidelity was one of the issues in my
infidelity was one of the issues in my marriage, which I found out right after
marriage, which I found out right after the fact.
the fact. >> And, uh, you know, it's like, oh, well,
>> And, uh, you know, it's like, oh, well, you know, whatever. But if I do it, the
you know, whatever. But if I do it, the girl can pull out a, you know, a pew pew
girl can pull out a, you know, a pew pew and she can bash me right in the back of
and she can bash me right in the back of the head and and unalive me. I have to
the head and and unalive me. I have to say different words because of YouTube
say different words because of YouTube >> and uh and and she she doesn't get any
>> and uh and and she she doesn't get any legal like she'll never go to jail.
legal like she'll never go to jail. You're allowed to unalive your husband
You're allowed to unalive your husband if you catch him in the act cheating and
if you catch him in the act cheating and you can unalive the girl that he's
you can unalive the girl that he's cheating with.
cheating with. Like make it make sense. You guys have a
Like make it make sense. You guys have a political party that is exclusively
political party that is exclusively focused on women's rights rights. It's
focused on women's rights rights. It's not about equality anymore. It's about
not about equality anymore. It's about supremacy. And I would actually say that
supremacy. And I would actually say that the laws in this country are even worse
the laws in this country are even worse than the ones in mine. So yeah, we like
than the ones in mine. So yeah, we like we talked a little bit about last time.
we talked a little bit about last time. Like I'll I'll ask you this question too
Like I'll I'll ask you this question too cuz it's controversial. If um if you
cuz it's controversial. If um if you were to have a tantrum and and and
were to have a tantrum and and and embarrass your man in public at a
embarrass your man in public at a restaurant, in a hotel lobby, at a
restaurant, in a hotel lobby, at a resort, stomp your feet and make a big
resort, stomp your feet and make a big scene.
scene. Maybe no one can see you though, but
Maybe no one can see you though, but they can hear you. and he was just to
they can hear you. and he was just to like get really mad and tell you to
like get really mad and tell you to stop, stop, stop, and you keep going,
stop, stop, stop, and you keep going, you keep going, you keep going, and then
you keep going, you keep going, and then he gives you a little slap in the face,
he gives you a little slap in the face, what would you do? Would you report him
what would you do? Would you report him right away?
right away? >> No.
>> No. >> Uh I think no.
>> Uh I think no. >> Yeah. Like would you be like, "Hey,
>> Yeah. Like would you be like, "Hey, what's up?" You know, like like like
what's up?" You know, like like like what are you doing there? Or would you
what are you doing there? Or would you escalate or would you pipe down when you
escalate or would you pipe down when you realize you cross the line? Like like
realize you cross the line? Like like what? Like
what? Like >> how does a guy get to a girl like get
>> how does a guy get to a girl like get her attention so she stops freaking out,
her attention so she stops freaking out, right? Like cuz some girls freak out.
right? Like cuz some girls freak out. they really freak out.
they really freak out. >> How do you shut them up? Right? Like
>> How do you shut them up? Right? Like especially if you're in public, it's
especially if you're in public, it's like it stop,
like it stop, >> you know, like how does a man show he's
>> you know, like how does a man show he's serious because his hands are tied by
serious because his hands are tied by behind his back by the law.
behind his back by the law. >> So how do you how do you deal with it?
>> So how do you how do you deal with it? >> Like like if a guy were to like not like
>> Like like if a guy were to like not like leave a mark on you and and I'm not
leave a mark on you and and I'm not encouraging violence, but like if that's
encouraging violence, but like if that's how a man reacted, what would you do?
how a man reacted, what would you do? >> I uh for me
>> I uh for me >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I walk away.
>> I walk away. >> Walk away.
>> Walk away. >> Yes.
>> Yes. Yeah. Like walk away from the
Yeah. Like walk away from the relationship or walk away from that
relationship or walk away from that moment.
moment. >> Both.
>> Both. >> Oh, both.
>> Oh, both. >> Because it's toxic. Yeah.
>> Because it's toxic. Yeah. >> So, but so
if he didn't slap you, would you walk away still?
would you walk away still? >> I'm going to talk to him. Yeah.
>> I'm going to talk to him. Yeah. >> After you embarrass him in public? Cuz
>> After you embarrass him in public? Cuz remember that was the scenario. So, you
remember that was the scenario. So, you embarrass him in public and then you
embarrass him in public and then you won't walk away from him after doing
won't walk away from him after doing that.
that. >> But then if he reacts, then you do walk
>> But then if he reacts, then you do walk away from him. So, he's screwed either
away from him. So, he's screwed either way. You've ruined his reputation and
way. You've ruined his reputation and then you dumped him.
then you dumped him. >> I'm going to walk away then when I go
>> I'm going to walk away then when I go home. When I go home.
home. When I go home. >> Do you see how that could be abusive?
>> Yeah. You know, you ruin his reputation in public and then you dump him.
in public and then you dump him. >> Yeah. So, you see what I mean? you know
>> Yeah. So, you see what I mean? you know and and a lot of guys are coming to this
and and a lot of guys are coming to this country to escape that like but I think
country to escape that like but I think generally all the girls except for two
generally all the girls except for two now out of 22 25
now out of 22 25 out of 28 girls only two said that they
out of 28 girls only two said that they would walk. So you're you're one of only
would walk. So you're you're one of only two. All the other girls said no. And
two. All the other girls said no. And other girls have actually said like I
other girls have actually said like I would actually like re-evaluate how the
would actually like re-evaluate how the hell I'm talking to him and maybe like
hell I'm talking to him and maybe like deescalate. Um, and I'm not mad at you
deescalate. Um, and I'm not mad at you for that. I'm not mad at you for that.
for that. I'm not mad at you for that. That because it's a very it's it's like
That because it's a very it's it's like like I think maybe you have experience
like I think maybe you have experience in this category too and that's why
in this category too and that's why you're you're saying that as well. So I
you're you're saying that as well. So I respect that completely. Um, you know,
respect that completely. Um, you know, but it's just it's something I like to
but it's just it's something I like to ask like or another question um how do
ask like or another question um how do you how do you view single mothers? Like
you how do you view single mothers? Like do you do you look at single mothers
do you do you look at single mothers with dignity? Do you look at them like
with dignity? Do you look at them like maybe they're victims?
maybe they're victims? Like do you look at them like maybe
Like do you look at them like maybe they're great, they're strong, they're
they're great, they're strong, they're powerful,
powerful, or do you look down on them? Do you look
or do you look down on them? Do you look down on single mothers?
down on single mothers? >> Do you think like single mother?
>> Do you think like single mother? >> Um maybe it depends. But since I don't
>> Um maybe it depends. But since I don't know what's the what's the real
know what's the what's the real situation about them
situation about them >> but since single mother is good because
>> but since single mother is good because they survive.
they survive. >> Yeah. about relation the children. Yeah.
>> Yeah. about relation the children. Yeah. >> But some of them remove the children
>> But some of them remove the children from their father. Is that a good thing?
from their father. Is that a good thing? >> I think no. But
>> I think no. But >> I mean I just I just look at my own
>> I mean I just I just look at my own life, right?
life, right? >> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. >> Um
>> Um >> think so.
>> think so. >> Yeah. Now, how would you look at a guy
>> Yeah. Now, how would you look at a guy whose wife left him and he got divorced?
whose wife left him and he got divorced? Would you kind of think, "Oh, is there
Would you kind of think, "Oh, is there something wrong with this guy? Why did
something wrong with this guy? Why did she leave him?
Is he a loser? >> No.
>> No. >> I think a lot of girls do
>> I think a lot of girls do be honest. Would you look would you kind
be honest. Would you look would you kind of be wondering you like like what's you
of be wondering you like like what's you know you look at the guy a little side
know you look at the guy a little side and you're like what's wrong with him?
and you're like what's wrong with him? >> So we going to we going to I know we're
>> So we going to we going to I know we're going to figure it out why he divorced
going to figure it out why he divorced her, why
her, why >> Yeah. But then you got to get into that
>> Yeah. But then you got to get into that whole can of worms, right? Then you got
whole can of worms, right? Then you got to dig into it. So you would investigate
to dig into it. So you would investigate if it was a guy, but you wouldn't
if it was a guy, but you wouldn't investigate if it was a woman. What I'm
investigate if it was a woman. What I'm trying to do is illustrate how there's
trying to do is illustrate how there's like girls are very um
like girls are very um like men always get the short end of the
like men always get the short end of the stick, you know, like when it comes to
stick, you know, like when it comes to reputational damage and stuff like that,
reputational damage and stuff like that, bad things that can happen there and
bad things that can happen there and then the man reacts. Then there's all
then the man reacts. Then there's all these laws to protect the girl. So it's
these laws to protect the girl. So it's not equality anymore. It's superiority.
not equality anymore. It's superiority. And then, you know, when it's a single
And then, you know, when it's a single mom, oh, you're stunning and brave. And
mom, oh, you're stunning and brave. And then when it's a divorced man, it's
then when it's a divorced man, it's like, what did you do? You know what I
like, what did you do? You know what I mean?
mean? >> Um,
>> Um, >> I mean, if you're really honest, you
>> I mean, if you're really honest, you know, like you meet a guy and he slips
know, like you meet a guy and he slips into the conversation. Oh, I just got a
into the conversation. Oh, I just got a divorce.
divorce. Even for a second, you'd be like, what
Even for a second, you'd be like, what did he do?
did he do? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Right.
>> Right. In my situation,
in my situation right now, like my boyfriend,
boyfriend, he he just separated through the ex.
he he just separated through the ex. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> And the kids is with him with us
>> And the kids is with him with us >> right now.
>> right now. >> So
>> So actually I don't know how to react with
actually I don't know how to react with that know with that situation cuz they
that know with that situation cuz they have own situation. We have own
have own situation. We have own situation right now.
situation right now. So the matter is
So the matter is your kids here I going to taking care of
your kids here I going to taking care of them.
them. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> And you too as long as you taking care
>> And you too as long as you taking care of me like in proper way.
of me like in proper way. >> Yes.
>> Yes. Just like that.
Just like that. >> Um
>> Um who do you think
who do you think >> I don't care about the ano? I I don't
>> I don't care about the ano? I I don't care about what happened in the past
care about what happened in the past their past. I think where you're at in
their past. I think where you're at in your own life, um,
your own life, um, I think that divorce matters less
I think that divorce matters less because you've been through your own
because you've been through your own life, you've seen stuff, you've seen
life, you've seen stuff, you've seen other people's scenarios,
other people's scenarios, >> but I think the younger the person gets,
>> but I think the younger the person gets, the divorce is a red flag. If the man is
the divorce is a red flag. If the man is divorced
divorced to to a younger girl that like, and I'm
to to a younger girl that like, and I'm I'm not saying that's like, you know,
I'm not saying that's like, you know, it's just because they've had less
it's just because they've had less experiences
experiences >> and they have more options. So then they
>> and they have more options. So then they would think, I have so many options. Why
would think, I have so many options. Why would I give this guy time, you know,
would I give this guy time, you know, when I have like Chad Thunderstroke over
when I have like Chad Thunderstroke over here? Um, and then I guess I'll go one
here? Um, and then I guess I'll go one one last example. Um,
one last example. Um, who do you think would be a better
who do you think would be a better single parent? Who is more capable
single parent? Who is more capable as a single parent, a mother or a single
as a single parent, a mother or a single mother or a single father? Just default.
mother or a single father? Just default. Answer it as quick as you can. Just say
Answer it as quick as you can. Just say mom or dad. Uh, for me, single mother.
mom or dad. Uh, for me, single mother. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Um,
>> Um, yes. Yes.
yes. Yes. >> Okay. I'm going to get into emotional
>> Okay. I'm going to get into emotional intelligence next.
intelligence next. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> But, um,
>> But, um, the answer is single father.
the answer is single father. Um, you know, single mothers are more
Um, you know, single mothers are more emphatic. Like one of the uh the nose
emphatic. Like one of the uh the nose ring girl that never came on the show.
ring girl that never came on the show. Hi. I won't say her name, though. U we
Hi. I won't say her name, though. U we we got into it cuz she wanted to meet at
we got into it cuz she wanted to meet at the at Gold Cup before uh we did it. She
the at Gold Cup before uh we did it. She flaked out like five times over two
flaked out like five times over two episodes. I'm coming. I'm not coming.
episodes. I'm coming. I'm not coming. I'm coming. I'm not coming. But um
I'm coming. I'm not coming. But um yeah, like we just looked at like like
yeah, like we just looked at like like how would you react if your kid was like
how would you react if your kid was like you had a son and I'm going to focus on
you had a son and I'm going to focus on sons just cuz like that's more
sons just cuz like that's more I think sons benefit more having a
I think sons benefit more having a father. I think I think daughters like
father. I think I think daughters like daughters are less likely to be
daughters are less likely to be promiscuous
promiscuous to be [ __ ] if they have a father in
to be [ __ ] if they have a father in the house, you know. Um, so like I I I
the house, you know. Um, so like I I I think that getting rid of fathers or
think that getting rid of fathers or whatever reason is dangerous. But I
whatever reason is dangerous. But I mean, if the guy was bad and he was
mean, if the guy was bad and he was dangerous or he was an alcoholic or all
dangerous or he was an alcoholic or all that stuff, I am not picking on on that
that stuff, I am not picking on on that scenario. Like I think that you probably
scenario. Like I think that you probably made the right decision. Um, but if it's
made the right decision. Um, but if it's a guy, you know, that's like not such a
a guy, you know, that's like not such a bad guy. It just didn't work out and you
bad guy. It just didn't work out and you wanted to have a hot girl summer. Um,
wanted to have a hot girl summer. Um, children of single f single fathers have
children of single f single fathers have a higher rate of high school graduation.
a higher rate of high school graduation. Uh, they're more likely to have college
Uh, they're more likely to have college college attendance. They have fewer
college attendance. They have fewer behavioral problems. Um, they're
behavioral problems. Um, they're associated with lower delinquency and
associated with lower delinquency and better grades. Household income. your
better grades. Household income. your your children of a single father are
your children of a single father are more likely to have a higher average
more likely to have a higher average income and they're less likely to be
income and they're less likely to be dependent on social programs and welfare
dependent on social programs and welfare when you get free money from the
when you get free money from the government.
government. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Uh children in father-only households
>> Uh children in father-only households had a lower poverty rate uh than
had a lower poverty rate uh than children in uh motherly households. It's
children in uh motherly households. It's 12.7% in America for children who are in
12.7% in America for children who are in a father-only household versus 26%. So
a father-only household versus 26%. So almost double. No, that is that's over
almost double. No, that is that's over double for single mothers. Um, you know,
double for single mothers. Um, you know, but it's it's just funny how the bias,
but it's it's just funny how the bias, you know, like all that bias against
you know, like all that bias against men. Um, and then there's a lot of Oh,
men. Um, and then there's a lot of Oh, um,
um, cities and neighborhoods in the United
cities and neighborhoods in the United States with a higher concentration of
States with a higher concentration of single mother families experience 48%
single mother families experience 48% higher total crime rate, 118%
higher total crime rate, 118% higher violent crime rate, and 255%
higher violent crime rate, and 255% higher homicide rate.
higher homicide rate. >> Wow.
>> Wow. >> Yeah. Prison demographics. A study from
>> Yeah. Prison demographics. A study from 1996 showed that 70% of youths in
1996 showed that 70% of youths in long-term juvenile detention were from
long-term juvenile detention were from single mother households.
single mother households. And uh I'll leave it there. I got more
And uh I'll leave it there. I got more stats. But yeah, so you know you know
stats. But yeah, so you know you know it's just something to think about when
it's just something to think about when we got these these biases.
we got these these biases. >> Yeah. I think for me cuz uh what I saw
>> Yeah. I think for me cuz uh what I saw to my partner right now, he's very
to my partner right now, he's very responsible
responsible >> father. I mean, it's you got to remember
>> father. I mean, it's you got to remember too though, like to your benefit, there
too though, like to your benefit, there are less statistics of fathers having
are less statistics of fathers having the kids because the laws are only
the kids because the laws are only starting to go that way now. Like
starting to go that way now. Like there's a lot of men who fought to be
there's a lot of men who fought to be fathers. Like I've got a war on my hands
fathers. Like I've got a war on my hands too
too >> um that I'll deal with. And uh yeah
>> um that I'll deal with. And uh yeah um but you know uh I think that because
um but you know uh I think that because there's so few statistics with men it is
there's so few statistics with men it is a little bit helping those statistics
a little bit helping those statistics work in male favor you know so
work in male favor you know so but generally speaking it's like if
but generally speaking it's like if you're if your kids being bullied what
you're if your kids being bullied what would you do what would you do
would you do what would you do >> for me um of course I got to ask who
>> for me um of course I got to ask who Yeah.
Yeah. >> Just let a mother react, right? Just
>> Just let a mother react, right? Just like, oh, it's like a fire.
like, oh, it's like a fire. >> Would would you like call their parents
>> Would would you like call their parents or would you like like what would you
or would you like like what would you do?
do? >> For example, it happened in the school.
>> For example, it happened in the school. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> I will go to the school, I talk to the
>> I will go to the school, I talk to the teacher, then they're going to make um
teacher, then they're going to make um appointment both parents and we get to
appointment both parents and we get to talk about it.
talk about it. >> Sounds like a lot of work.
>> Sounds like a lot of work. >> Yeah. Likewise.
>> Yeah. Likewise. >> You know what I would do?
>> You know what I would do? >> What? Punch.
>> What? Punch. >> Do you want to answer too? Uh yeah,
>> Do you want to answer too? Uh yeah, same.
same. >> Yeah, same.
>> Yeah, same. >> Sounds like a lot of work,
>> Sounds like a lot of work, >> you know, like I would just uh get
>> you know, like I would just uh get depending on how old my kid was, let's
depending on how old my kid was, let's say he's eight.
say he's eight. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> I'd buy him some kettle bells.
>> I'd buy him some kettle bells. >> Just buy him some kettle bells and
>> Just buy him some kettle bells and within 9 months
within 9 months >> cuz he's probably feeling really shitty
>> cuz he's probably feeling really shitty about that bully. So that'll give him
about that bully. So that'll give him the,
the, you know, like but then he's going to
you know, like but then he's going to get muscles.
get muscles. Yeah.
Yeah. >> And he's going to be bigger than the
>> And he's going to be bigger than the bully.
bully. >> Oh, you're going to scare him or
>> Oh, you're going to scare him or >> it'll be a nonviolent solution because
>> it'll be a nonviolent solution because he'll just be bigger.
he'll just be bigger. >> He'll be intimidating and the problem
>> He'll be intimidating and the problem will solve itself
will solve itself >> and then the man, you know, and then if
>> and then the man, you know, and then if the bully still continues to escalate,
the bully still continues to escalate, well then I'm taking my kid to taekwondo
well then I'm taking my kid to taekwondo or uh
or uh >> you know, whatever. Like like I would
>> you know, whatever. Like like I would actually encourage you take that kettle
actually encourage you take that kettle bell and just pow if you don't bring
bell and just pow if you don't bring home two teeth then uh you know. But uh
home two teeth then uh you know. But uh no, I'm kidding about the violence. But
no, I'm kidding about the violence. But like yeah, like I just I like that's how
like yeah, like I just I like that's how how a father thinks. And I think that's
how a father thinks. And I think that's more pragmatic because if you go to the
more pragmatic because if you go to the school, the kid's going to find out. The
school, the kid's going to find out. The bully's going to find out. And then what
bully's going to find out. And then what do you think that bully's going to do to
do you think that bully's going to do to your son? It's going to make it worse.
your son? It's going to make it worse. So I just think that a father would just
So I just think that a father would just be more different. You know, like I'm
be more different. You know, like I'm not better, you know? I I'm not saying
not better, you know? I I'm not saying better in in any way. Like I use those
better in in any way. Like I use those stats just as like an example to
stats just as like an example to disqualify the thought that mothers are,
disqualify the thought that mothers are, you know, better as single parents. Um I
you know, better as single parents. Um I mean like I I thank God that my my kids
mean like I I thank God that my my kids right now currently are in a
right now currently are in a multigenerational family scenario. So
multigenerational family scenario. So there is a man around at least. So and
there is a man around at least. So and he's athletic. So I think that's cool.
he's athletic. So I think that's cool. Eddie boy, you're a good man. That's why
Eddie boy, you're a good man. That's why I named one of my sons after you. So
I named one of my sons after you. So yeah, you know, like it's good. But if
yeah, you know, like it's good. But if there's no man at all, then we've got
there's no man at all, then we've got then I I think that's actually the
then I I think that's actually the problem with men today. And I think
problem with men today. And I think that's actually a big problem of why the
that's actually a big problem of why the men in the Philippines in particular,
men in the Philippines in particular, the snake is biting its own tail because
the snake is biting its own tail because the men here, would you agree that like
the men here, would you agree that like foreign men are more masculine?
foreign men are more masculine? >> Oh, yes. Yeah.
>> Oh, yes. Yeah. >> Instantly, right?
>> Instantly, right? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Um do you think it's all testosterone or
>> Um do you think it's all testosterone or do you think it's also how they're
do you think it's also how they're raised?
raised? Um,
Um, >> I think maybe it's
>> I think maybe it's >> both.
>> both. >> Both. Yeah,
>> Both. Yeah, >> it could be. Could be.
>> it could be. Could be. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Those blue plastic jugs everyone drinks
>> Those blue plastic jugs everyone drinks from and you guys get hot soup and
from and you guys get hot soup and plastic bags.
plastic bags. >> There's hormone disruptor chemical in
>> There's hormone disruptor chemical in that plastic and then it gets into the
that plastic and then it gets into the food and then you guys are having it
food and then you guys are having it every freaking day. So, I think that's
every freaking day. So, I think that's why you guys have more trans per capita
why you guys have more trans per capita than Thailand.
than Thailand. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Which is pretty crazy by the way.
>> Which is pretty crazy by the way. >> Um,
>> Um, yeah. Okay. So yeah, I think that there
yeah. Okay. So yeah, I think that there you guys have a crisis of um masculinity
you guys have a crisis of um masculinity in your country, but then you look at
in your country, but then you look at the number of single mothers. I think
the number of single mothers. I think you guys have even more single mothers
you guys have even more single mothers than America.
than America. So the snake is biting its own tail.
So the snake is biting its own tail. So now I think most single mothers up
So now I think most single mothers up until like maybe
until like maybe 5, 10, 15 years ago, um it was
5, 10, 15 years ago, um it was circumstantial. You guys weren't like
circumstantial. You guys weren't like boss babes that wanted Hot Girl Summer.
boss babes that wanted Hot Girl Summer. You didn't reject your man because of
You didn't reject your man because of just silly reasons. You had good
just silly reasons. You had good reasons. But I think today's generation,
reasons. But I think today's generation, your generation, but not you
your generation, but not you necessarily.
necessarily. >> Um you guys are rejecting men because of
>> Um you guys are rejecting men because of [ __ ] you see on social media.
[ __ ] you see on social media. >> Yes. Some of the some of that, but not
>> Yes. Some of the some of that, but not >> or or you'll you'll get tingles because
>> or or you'll you'll get tingles because some new guy will come into the DMs and
some new guy will come into the DMs and stuff like that. No,
stuff like that. No, >> maybe not in your case or your your
>> maybe not in your case or your your circles. and you seem really wholesome,
circles. and you seem really wholesome, so that's good. Like, you're a perfect
so that's good. Like, you're a perfect example of like the kind of girl that I
example of like the kind of girl that I want to show. All three of you are.
want to show. All three of you are. >> Um, but yeah, I I'm personally seeing it
>> Um, but yeah, I I'm personally seeing it myself. Um, you know, I've been alone
myself. Um, you know, I've been alone for a few years now. Things have
for a few years now. Things have definitely changed. Um, from before I
definitely changed. Um, from before I was married, cuz I was with my wife for
was married, cuz I was with my wife for a total of eight years, and uh, after.
a total of eight years, and uh, after. So, in that 8year gap, wow, have things
So, in that 8year gap, wow, have things changed. Holy [ __ ] balls. So,
changed. Holy [ __ ] balls. So, yeah. Okay. Uh, these are questions I
yeah. Okay. Uh, these are questions I never got to last time. Let's do a time
never got to last time. Let's do a time check. It's 12:41. We got another hour
check. It's 12:41. We got another hour and 20 minutes. Does anybody want to use
and 20 minutes. Does anybody want to use the CR or take a little
the CR or take a little >> No.
>> No. >> No.
>> No. >> Anybody want a glass of water?
>> Anybody want a glass of water? >> No.
>> No. >> Okay,
>> Okay, >> let's continue.
>> let's continue. >> Yeah. There's some particular questions
>> Yeah. There's some particular questions I'm looking for that I asked last time
I'm looking for that I asked last time though that were like,
though that were like, >> "Yeah, I think this is it." No.
>> "Yeah, I think this is it." No. Okay.
[Music] What? Okay. Um,
what would be worse? Okay. Like like I I guess I'll start it first with like who
guess I'll start it first with like who cheats more, men or women?
cheats more, men or women? >> I think uh physically
>> I think uh physically >> just in general cheating in a very
>> just in general cheating in a very general way.
general way. >> No way. Because we do agree that men and
>> No way. Because we do agree that men and women cheat differently.
women cheat differently. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So cheating is cheating. So who do you
>> So cheating is cheating. So who do you think cheats more?
think cheats more? >> I think
>> I think I'm not sure. But for me in my situation
I'm not sure. But for me in my situation before men
before men >> you think so? Yeah.
>> you think so? Yeah. >> Yeah. Men.
>> Yeah. Men. >> How about you?
>> How about you? >> Women.
>> Women. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Men also.
>> Men also. >> Yeah. You see? You see?
>> Yeah. You see? You see? >> Yeah. Did you know
>> Yeah. Did you know >> when he cheat I cheat also? But silent
>> when he cheat I cheat also? But silent is my revenge.
is my revenge. Silent cheating.
Silent cheating. >> Oh
>> Oh >> yes.
>> yes. >> So I mean they did a study on um I think
>> So I mean they did a study on um I think it was Tinder
it was Tinder and um it took a man like uh something
and um it took a man like uh something like like I do you swipe right when you
like like I do you swipe right when you like the person or left? Swipe right
like the person or left? Swipe right when you like them. Right.
when you like them. Right. >> Swipe right. Swipe right.
>> Swipe right. Swipe right. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I don't remember. So
>> I don't remember. So they had to swipe right on like 200
they had to swipe right on like 200 girls
girls to get like four or five matches.
to get like four or five matches. >> And then of those four or five matches,
>> And then of those four or five matches, four or five of the girls just didn't
four or five of the girls just didn't respond.
respond. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> So in some cases now they would out of
>> So in some cases now they would out of 200 they would end up with nothing. So,
200 they would end up with nothing. So, a man would have to swipe a thousand
a man would have to swipe a thousand times
times to get like one date to even get his to
to get like one date to even get his to shoot his shot and he's got to buy your
shoot his shot and he's got to buy your dinner or whatever, you know? Um, I
dinner or whatever, you know? Um, I don't know, man. After all that work, do
don't know, man. After all that work, do you think like an average normal guy
you think like an average normal guy would cheat after all that work and that
would cheat after all that work and that rejection?
rejection? I think after
I think after after all of that his effort I'm I think
after all of that his effort I'm I think he's not going to cheat. I think
he's not going to cheat. I think >> less likely and it's harder to cuz he's
>> less likely and it's harder to cuz he's going to have to swipe at a thousand
going to have to swipe at a thousand girls just to cheat on you.
girls just to cheat on you. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So, but that's an average guy. That's an
>> So, but that's an average guy. That's an average guy. Like a normal
average guy. Like a normal most people kind of guy like
most people kind of guy like >> now if you're an alpha Chad like myself,
>> now if you're an alpha Chad like myself, I'm just kidding. I'm kidding. Mhm.
I'm just kidding. I'm kidding. Mhm. >> Um,
>> Um, then you got more options as a guy.
then you got more options as a guy. You don't even have to use a dating app.
You don't even have to use a dating app. Um,
Um, you just got more options, more likely
you just got more options, more likely to cheat, you know. Um, not saying I
to cheat, you know. Um, not saying I would, I'm just using myself as an
would, I'm just using myself as an example. So, I think a lot of the times
example. So, I think a lot of the times when girls say that they think more men
when girls say that they think more men cheat, it's because the girl might be a
cheat, it's because the girl might be a five out of 10 or she might be a six out
five out of 10 or she might be a six out of 10, but she's going for an eight out
of 10, but she's going for an eight out of 10 or a nine or even a 10, an alpha
of 10 or a nine or even a 10, an alpha Chad or Chad Thunderstroke or whatever
Chad or Chad Thunderstroke or whatever Better Bachelor calls him. And uh
Better Bachelor calls him. And uh because you're going up above your
because you're going up above your league, you know, then there Yeah. It's
league, you know, then there Yeah. It's so it comes down to being your fault.
so it comes down to being your fault. Not your fault, but like if a girl says
Not your fault, but like if a girl says that all men cheat, it's cuz she chose
that all men cheat, it's cuz she chose the wrong man. Maybe she chose a guy out
the wrong man. Maybe she chose a guy out of her league. Cuz like ain't no average
of her league. Cuz like ain't no average or ugly guy getting a lot of options.
or ugly guy getting a lot of options. You know what I mean? It's the
You know what I mean? It's the good-looking ones, the ones that clearly
good-looking ones, the ones that clearly have the options. Like if a man does
have the options. Like if a man does cheat on you, what do what kind of
cheat on you, what do what kind of cheating do you think is worse? Do you
cheating do you think is worse? Do you think uh giving money to another woman
think uh giving money to another woman is worse or do you think having sex with
is worse or do you think having sex with another woman is worse? Of those two
another woman is worse? Of those two options, which is the worst one?
options, which is the worst one? >> I think having sex with other woman.
>> I think having sex with other woman. Yeah.
Yeah. >> So like if I was dating her and then
>> So like if I was dating her and then like you know I'm like, "Hey."
like you know I'm like, "Hey." >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Here's uh here's 10,000 pesos. Don't
>> Here's uh here's 10,000 pesos. Don't tell don't tell. And then
tell don't tell. And then >> wouldn't that raise an eyebrow? Or I
>> wouldn't that raise an eyebrow? Or I guess I should have reversed it.
guess I should have reversed it. >> And then what's what's for what? What is
>> And then what's what's for what? What is the reason why you gave her?
the reason why you gave her? >> Well, you're not going to know.
>> Well, you're not going to know. >> Oh, okay. I think
>> Oh, okay. I think >> it could be anything.
>> it could be anything. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> But they didn't have sex.
>> But they didn't have sex. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Cuz there was only one or the other,
>> Cuz there was only one or the other, right?
right? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> But he's still giving away resources
>> But he's still giving away resources that you could use for a vacation.
that you could use for a vacation. >> Mhm. I think
>> Mhm. I think >> that you could use as food for your
>> that you could use as food for your baby, you know? So, he's giving away his
baby, you know? So, he's giving away his resources.
resources. My god, it's hard. It's
My god, it's hard. It's >> And then question.
>> And then question. >> What do you think is worse? You know,
>> What do you think is worse? You know, like if people find out about it, like
like if people find out about it, like >> if they find out about him having sex
>> if they find out about him having sex with someone else or they find out about
with someone else or they find out about him like supporting somebody else?
him like supporting somebody else? >> Um
>> Um >> what's more embarrassing to you?
>> what's more embarrassing to you? I think here in Philippines it's more
I think here in Philippines it's more embarrassing with having sex with other
embarrassing with having sex with other but
but uh
uh other in other countries it's not sex is
other in other countries it's not sex is just you know it's nothing
just you know it's nothing >> depends where you're from like if you're
>> depends where you're from like if you're French or Spanish or whatever then it's
French or Spanish or whatever then it's just like
just like >> exercise
>> exercise >> it's you know actually it's a hard
>> it's you know actually it's a hard question
question >> I know
>> I know >> but yeah here in Philippines sex is more
>> but yeah here in Philippines sex is more you Oh
you Oh >> yeah.
>> yeah. >> Yeah. What do you call that? Yeah. But
>> Yeah. What do you call that? Yeah. But in other countries, sex is just nothing,
in other countries, sex is just nothing, you know,
you know, >> for them.
>> for them. >> Yeah. It varies. I think it varies based
>> Yeah. It varies. I think it varies based on culture and stuff like that.
on culture and stuff like that. >> Yeah. It depends.
>> Yeah. It depends. Well, for me, you better having sex with
Well, for me, you better having sex with with someone and then after that stop.
with someone and then after that stop. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Cuz giving money it's the rest of her
>> Cuz giving money it's the rest of her life.
life. >> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. >> And said that money,
>> And said that money, >> it doesn't have to be the rest of her
>> it doesn't have to be the rest of her life. It could just be like, "Oh, here's
life. It could just be like, "Oh, here's 50,000."
50,000." >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> It's okay for me. Okay. With No,
>> It's okay for me. Okay. With No, >> you wouldn't care if he gave money away.
>> you wouldn't care if he gave money away. >> Yeah. Instead, you give her money to
>> Yeah. Instead, you give her money to her. Just give money to him for our
her. Just give money to him for our kids, for our for our uh
kids, for our for our uh >> So, what would you rather if you if he
>> So, what would you rather if you if he had to cheat on you in one way or the
had to cheat on you in one way or the other, would you rather?
other, would you rather? >> As long as I didn't know, it's okay.
>> As long as I didn't know, it's okay. >> Fair. Yeah,
>> Fair. Yeah, >> but don't if you do that, don't tell me.
>> but don't if you do that, don't tell me. >> The night I met my ex-wife in person,
>> The night I met my ex-wife in person, she told me that she understood that men
she told me that she understood that men and women cheat differently. And she
and women cheat differently. And she just said, "If you ever do, don't
just said, "If you ever do, don't embarrass me."
embarrass me." >> You know, and and I think that at the
>> You know, and and I think that at the end of the day is is, you know, depends
end of the day is is, you know, depends on who you are, though. If you're just
on who you are, though. If you're just an average guy or you're broke and you
an average guy or you're broke and you cheat, I think you're scum because not
cheat, I think you're scum because not only is the girl, you know, maybe having
only is the girl, you know, maybe having to go go back to work
to go go back to work >> because you're not pulling your weight,
>> because you're not pulling your weight, but then you're going to you're going to
but then you're going to you're going to disgrace her, too,
disgrace her, too, >> you know, whereas at least if she's
>> you know, whereas at least if she's sitting home comfortable, she's got her
sitting home comfortable, she's got her feet up, she's got
feet up, she's got >> slippers with diamonds in them or some
>> slippers with diamonds in them or some [ __ ] you know, and she's living a
[ __ ] you know, and she's living a good life, she's eating healthy foods,
good life, she's eating healthy foods, and she's got like four happy, healthy
and she's got like four happy, healthy kids that are going to a good school,
kids that are going to a good school, maybe you could just ignore it, you You
maybe you could just ignore it, you You know, like, but if it's like some guy
know, like, but if it's like some guy that just broke, I I just see a
that just broke, I I just see a difference there because remembering
difference there because remembering that men don't cheat with their heart,
that men don't cheat with their heart, right? So, you're not going to lo you
right? So, you're not going to lo you don't have to worry about losing the
don't have to worry about losing the guy.
guy. >> Why you guys cheating on your
>> Why you guys cheating on your not I don't say you no the the other
not I don't say you no the the other guys there. Why are
guys there. Why are >> guys cheating on their women? I think
>> guys cheating on their women? I think that there's a number of different
that there's a number of different reasons why a guy might I think um and
reasons why a guy might I think um and I'm going to pull from our conversation
I'm going to pull from our conversation like so I'm going to use those examples
like so I'm going to use those examples first.
first. >> You mentioned uh you know not not
>> You mentioned uh you know not not sleeping with your man anymore,
sleeping with your man anymore, >> you know, or not giving it to him when
>> you know, or not giving it to him when he wants to. I think that's grounds.
he wants to. I think that's grounds. >> Oh
>> Oh >> yeah. Depending on the amount of time. I
>> yeah. Depending on the amount of time. I mean because again like you've got a
mean because again like you've got a subset of laws that protect you. He's
subset of laws that protect you. He's got nothing, you know? He's got nothing.
got nothing, you know? He's got nothing. And like and then and then if you're not
And like and then and then if you're not doing that one thing for him,
doing that one thing for him, >> but I've never in all of my panels, I've
>> but I've never in all of my panels, I've never had a girl say that she wouldn't.
never had a girl say that she wouldn't. A Filipina anyway. If it was a white
A Filipina anyway. If it was a white girl, I'm sure she'd be like,
girl, I'm sure she'd be like, you know, like.
you know, like. >> But I've never had a Filipina say that
>> But I've never had a Filipina say that she wouldn't if the guy really like
she wouldn't if the guy really like said, "Hey, you know, like do it."
said, "Hey, you know, like do it." >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> You know,
>> You know, >> so what you going to tell me about this?
>> so what you going to tell me about this? So me and him.
So me and him. >> Mhm. Um, like sleeping with spirit bed.
>> Mhm. Um, like sleeping with spirit bed. >> That's I I don't see a problem with
>> That's I I don't see a problem with that.
that. >> There's no problem with that.
>> There's no problem with that. >> No, no, I don't see a problem with that
>> No, no, I don't see a problem with that at all. I just as long as you're still
at all. I just as long as you're still having like you're taking care of his
having like you're taking care of his primal needs, right?
primal needs, right? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Like Like how old is Anthony?
>> Like Like how old is Anthony? >> Uh 46.
>> Uh 46. >> Okay. So he's still a young guy. Okay.
>> Okay. So he's still a young guy. Okay. So yeah, I mean like yeah, as long as
So yeah, I mean like yeah, as long as you're taking care of him, I'm sure he
you're taking care of him, I'm sure he still has a very active, you know, way
still has a very active, you know, way of living. I'm not going to get into
of living. I'm not going to get into details or anything but um yeah as long
details or anything but um yeah as long as you're taking care of his needs
as you're taking care of his needs >> and sometimes I ask him why you do for
>> and sometimes I ask him why you do for example about this that's why I asking
example about this that's why I asking you is sexuality
you is sexuality is
is >> it's very important in
>> it's very important in >> yeah very important
>> yeah very important >> because it's it's how we communicate
>> because it's it's how we communicate >> yeah cuz in our situation
>> yeah cuz in our situation it's sometimes
once a month >> no I I understand that there's certain
>> no I I understand that there's certain situations. But I mean,
situations. But I mean, >> yeah, but uh I'm used to it. So I didn't
>> yeah, but uh I'm used to it. So I didn't I didn't complaining about it.
I didn't complaining about it. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> As long as he didn't complain.
>> As long as he didn't complain. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I mean I mean if
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I mean I mean if you want to get graphic, um that time is
you want to get graphic, um that time is actually a great time because you you
actually a great time because you you can't get pregnant,
can't get pregnant, you know. So if you don't mind a little
you know. So if you don't mind a little bit of the the not so good thing, then
bit of the the not so good thing, then you benefit because it might be more
you benefit because it might be more fun, you know, and I'll leave it at
fun, you know, and I'll leave it at that. We'll just move on. But out of
that. We'll just move on. But out of respect uh for your for your friend but
respect uh for your for your friend but >> but I mean
>> but I mean >> I'm I'm telling to my friend about that
>> I'm I'm telling to my friend about that >> and she said oh why is that it's not
>> and she said oh why is that it's not it's not normal.
it's not normal. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Maybe for you guys not normal but
>> Yeah. Maybe for you guys not normal but uh for me
uh for me >> for me rain or shine you know like like
>> for me rain or shine you know like like I don't care like like the only time
I don't care like like the only time >> the only Yeah. Like the only time that I
>> the only Yeah. Like the only time that I won't is if it's like the beginning of
won't is if it's like the beginning of that time when Aunt Flo is visiting and
that time when Aunt Flo is visiting and it, you know, it's really nasty, then I
it, you know, it's really nasty, then I won't. But if it's like on the tail end
won't. But if it's like on the tail end of it, I don't give a [ __ ] Fine, let's
of it, I don't give a [ __ ] Fine, let's go to the shower. You know, like I'm
go to the shower. You know, like I'm serious, man. Like if I, you know, cuz
serious, man. Like if I, you know, cuz like especially when you're like going
like especially when you're like going to the gym a lot and you're very active
to the gym a lot and you're very active and you know, you're doing a lot like
and you know, you're doing a lot like like if a man exercises his legs for
like if a man exercises his legs for instance, and I clearly haven't. I have
instance, and I clearly haven't. I have chicken legs. But if he does, the longer
chicken legs. But if he does, the longer the muscle that you work, the more
the muscle that you work, the more testosterone your body releases. So, if
testosterone your body releases. So, if you're a more fit person and you're and
you're a more fit person and you're and you're exercising on a regular basis,
you're exercising on a regular basis, you're eating the right foods, um, you
you're eating the right foods, um, you know, then you're going to be more sex
know, then you're going to be more sex drive and as a result, you know, it's
drive and as a result, you know, it's going to be very frustrating if you
going to be very frustrating if you know, three times in a row because
know, three times in a row because you're not just saying no to sex, you're
you're not just saying no to sex, you're rejecting your man, you know, and three
rejecting your man, you know, and three strikes for a lot of guys, you won't
strikes for a lot of guys, you won't even get that far.
even get that far. >> But
>> But >> you'll be banging a side [ __ ] ever
>> you'll be banging a side [ __ ] ever happened to you that you
happened to you that you refuse your women in terms of the
refuse your women in terms of the >> Never thing?
>> Never thing? >> I don't think I've ever refused sex.
>> I don't think I've ever refused sex. >> Never in my life.
>> Never in my life. >> Oh, girls, you're lucky.
>> Oh, girls, you're lucky. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Have you Have you girls ever had a
>> Yeah. Have you Have you girls ever had a guy reject it
guy reject it >> when you wanted it? Or did you do it
>> when you wanted it? Or did you do it like five times already and then he's
like five times already and then he's and then you're like I want number six
and then you're like I want number six and he's like I can't do it captain you
and he's like I can't do it captain you know like
know like >> yeah it happened to me
>> yeah it happened to me >> like just the first time right out of
>> like just the first time right out of the gate you he he turned it down or was
the gate you he he turned it down or was it like you already did a couple times
it like you already did a couple times that day.
that day. You know what women it's very very shy
You know what women it's very very shy to us men in terms of sex right
to us men in terms of sex right >> that's why it's kind of slap on our face
>> that's why it's kind of slap on our face when you refuse me or refuse us
when you refuse me or refuse us >> about it.
>> about it. >> Yeah. Yeah. I mean maybe maybe once or
>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean maybe maybe once or twice in my life I have
twice in my life I have >> you know but like
>> you know but like it would definitely be rare. Very rare.
it would definitely be rare. Very rare. Very rare. That's why sometimes, oh
Very rare. That's why sometimes, oh jeez,
jeez, >> do I look good still or
>> do I look good still or >> do I still look
>> do I still look Maybe I have to
Maybe I have to >> work on it more.
>> work on it more. >> Oh, it's all your fault. I think I need
>> Oh, it's all your fault. I think I need to put um poll in here and do a dancing
to put um poll in here and do a dancing pole something.
pole something. >> No, just just joking. I mean, maybe, you
>> No, just just joking. I mean, maybe, you know, maybe he's he's sad because his
know, maybe he's he's sad because his dog died or, you know, maybe he's really
dog died or, you know, maybe he's really stressed about money or there's some
stressed about money or there's some something else going on.
something else going on. >> Um, sometimes that oh because of my uh
>> Um, sometimes that oh because of my uh surgeries or something like that and he
surgeries or something like that and he took a lot of medicines maybe it affect
took a lot of medicines maybe it affect with that. I don't know.
with that. I don't know. >> Yeah, possible. It's possible. A lot of
>> Yeah, possible. It's possible. A lot of guys got a lot going on and um
guys got a lot going on and um I mean like younger men and I don't I
I mean like younger men and I don't I don't know about older men because I'm
don't know about older men because I'm only 44 so I'm not like a retiree yet so
only 44 so I'm not like a retiree yet so I don't know like um I think younger men
I don't know like um I think younger men though in my experience cuz I have been
though in my experience cuz I have been a younger man. I think that if a girl
a younger man. I think that if a girl wanted sex I probably turned down sex a
wanted sex I probably turned down sex a couple times when I was younger because
couple times when I was younger because a man [ __ ] his [ __ ] his own brain like
a man [ __ ] his [ __ ] his own brain like he'll be so worried if the girl's going
he'll be so worried if the girl's going to like it. kid. He'd be like, "Oh, I
to like it. kid. He'd be like, "Oh, I hope she likes it. Has she ever had
hope she likes it. Has she ever had another guy with a bigger dick than me,
another guy with a bigger dick than me, you know, and like all this other and
you know, and like all this other and you start like all these scenarios in
you start like all these scenarios in your head and then you just can't get
your head and then you just can't get hard, you know, and it's it's it's
hard, you know, and it's it's it's humiliating and then and then you're
humiliating and then and then you're humiliated and then it and then it just
humiliated and then it and then it just like it turtles it turtles inside of
like it turtles it turtles inside of your body and then you just can't you
your body and then you just can't you can't perform. So, I mean, there are
can't perform. So, I mean, there are different situations. The male brain is
different situations. The male brain is a very interesting thing. So, I I don't
a very interesting thing. So, I I don't knock anybody um that ever has turned it
knock anybody um that ever has turned it down. Me personally, I've got ginger
down. Me personally, I've got ginger beard, like ginger.
beard, like ginger. >> So, gingers are usually more um you
>> So, gingers are usually more um you know, like back in the 80s and the 90s,
know, like back in the 80s and the 90s, we used to call the girls that had red
we used to call the girls that had red hair, we'd call them fire crotch.
hair, we'd call them fire crotch. So, if that's any indication,
So, if that's any indication, um yeah, let's let's Okay, so
I even forget what the question was on that one. Does anyone want to keep going
that one. Does anyone want to keep going in that topic or do you want to move on?
in that topic or do you want to move on? Yeah, we cannot move on now.
Yeah, we cannot move on now. >> Just move on.
>> Just move on. >> Okay,
>> Okay, >> just move on.
>> just move on. >> Yeah. And uh no disrespect, Anthony.
>> Yeah. And uh no disrespect, Anthony. It's only because I know Maggie and
It's only because I know Maggie and that's how she came in. I know
that's how she came in. I know >> her niece. So, all right. Um,
>> her niece. So, all right. Um, do you prefer it or like it when your
do you prefer it or like it when your man confides in you about his feelings,
man confides in you about his feelings, fears, weaknesses, failures, or
fears, weaknesses, failures, or inadequacies?
inadequacies? So, like I don't want to go to work
So, like I don't want to go to work tomorrow because Bob was being mean to
tomorrow because Bob was being mean to me.
>> Um, yes. But it depends to the scenario if
yes. But it depends to the scenario if it's necessary to know about it or
it's necessary to know about it or >> you think first do I have to tell this
>> you think first do I have to tell this to her?
to her? >> Maybe she going to react like, "Wow,
>> Maybe she going to react like, "Wow, you're like a guy."
you're like a guy." >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Just like that.
>> Just like that. >> Yes. Do you all feel the same way or cuz
>> Yes. Do you all feel the same way or cuz I I tell I could I knew you had a
I I tell I could I knew you had a thought. You had a thought. I saw it. I
thought. You had a thought. I saw it. I saw your gears turning
>> like what you said. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Cuz like in the west it's funny
>> Yeah. Cuz like in the west it's funny cuz like uh recently there was an
cuz like uh recently there was an article uh that came out with the
article uh that came out with the opposite. I'll get to that in a second.
opposite. I'll get to that in a second. But in the west it's been a big deal
But in the west it's been a big deal where you know I want a sensitive man. I
where you know I want a sensitive man. I want a man that's going to like share
want a man that's going to like share his feelings, talk about his feelings.
his feelings, talk about his feelings. like, you know, it's so toxic when
like, you know, it's so toxic when you're a certain way and like you should
you're a certain way and like you should be able to o be more open with your
be able to o be more open with your feelings and there was all these
feelings and there was all these articles about that and then last week
articles about that and then last week there was an article about like
there was an article about like mankeeping. It's just so damn difficult
mankeeping. It's just so damn difficult and it's like, you know, so it's like
and it's like, you know, so it's like women don't know what they want, you
women don't know what they want, you know, in the west and that's why guys
know, in the west and that's why guys are coming here too. Like it seems to me
are coming here too. Like it seems to me that you guys are very straightforward
that you guys are very straightforward and yeah, there there's not much red
and yeah, there there's not much red meat in this one. Maybe even less than
meat in this one. Maybe even less than yesterday or uh last week. Um, but I
yesterday or uh last week. Um, but I guess that's a good thing and I I hope
guess that's a good thing and I I hope that's why you guys are watching, you
that's why you guys are watching, you know, cuz there are subtle differences
know, cuz there are subtle differences and nuances between the two, Western and
and nuances between the two, Western and Filipino. Um,
Filipino. Um, yeah. So, I can't really ask why you
yeah. So, I can't really ask why you would, and you already said why you
would, and you already said why you wouldn't.
wouldn't. So, yeah, it doesn't really benefit the
So, yeah, it doesn't really benefit the relationship. It would probably make you
relationship. It would probably make you feel less safe. You know, you you know,
feel less safe. You know, you you know, it's like, oh, do you want me to choose
it's like, oh, do you want me to choose what we're going to have for dinner,
what we're going to have for dinner, too? You know, it's like, do I do I have
too? You know, it's like, do I do I have to start using my own brain? Because if
to start using my own brain? Because if he's not going to handle things for you,
he's not going to handle things for you, then what's the point of having him
then what's the point of having him around? Nobody has hit like yet.
around? Nobody has hit like yet. Nobody has hit the like button. Nobody.
Nobody has hit the like button. Nobody. I am going to start to feel insecure.
I am going to start to feel insecure. I'm kidding. I'm joking. Yeah. Actually,
I'm kidding. I'm joking. Yeah. Actually, that brings up another question. How do
that brings up another question. How do you feel if a guy that you just started
you feel if a guy that you just started dating calls you insecure? How does that
dating calls you insecure? How does that make you feel?
make you feel? >> I feel offended.
>> I feel offended. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> How about you?
>> How about you? >> What? You just start dating a guy and
>> What? You just start dating a guy and he's like, "You're kind of insecure."
>> Maybe. Yeah, it's offended me.
Yeah, it's offended me. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> See? Yeah.
>> See? Yeah. >> Okay. I'm going to use that one for
>> Okay. I'm going to use that one for later. Uh I'm definitely coming back to
later. Uh I'm definitely coming back to that one though. Um
yeah, I've asked so many of these questions already. How do you know when
questions already. How do you know when a man likes you? Oh, the way they
a man likes you? Oh, the way they staring at you, of course.
staring at you, of course. But it depends. There's a stare like
But it depends. There's a stare like just he likes you as for fun.
just he likes you as for fun. >> And there also stare like, "Oh, I like
>> And there also stare like, "Oh, I like this. I like this girl." Like, "I like
this. I like this girl." Like, "I like it. I like her."
it. I like her." >> Do you think you'd know if a man likes
>> Do you think you'd know if a man likes you,
you, wants to [ __ ]
wants to [ __ ] >> Yeah. You think you would know all the
>> Yeah. You think you would know all the time?
time? >> Not all the time
>> Not all the time actually
actually just feel good.
just feel good. >> Yeah. How about you?
>> Yeah. How about you? >> I think um
>> I think um the way he loves me, he approached me.
the way he loves me, he approached me. Yes. And
Yes. And >> but you would always know like you know
>> but you would always know like you know like like like do do you think men and
like like like do do you think men and women can be friends?
women can be friends? >> Yes.
>> Yes. Yes. I have a guy friends. Yeah.
Yes. I have a guy friends. Yeah. >> Is he gay?
>> Is he gay? >> No. No.
>> No. No. >> No. Is he How would you describe him if
>> No. Is he How would you describe him if you rated him out of 10?
you rated him out of 10? >> I mean
>> I mean out of 10.
out of 10. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> No. Nine.
>> No. Nine. >> Oh, he's good-looking.
>> Oh, he's good-looking. >> Goodlook.
>> Goodlook. >> He's a nine out of 10.
>> He's a nine out of 10. >> Yeah. Eight.
>> Yeah. Eight. >> Okay. So,
>> Okay. So, >> about his look, his looks, eight.
>> about his look, his looks, eight. >> Yeah. And then his personality
>> Yeah. And then his personality >> 10.
>> 10. >> Really? Okay.
>> Really? Okay. >> Yeah. For me, no.
>> Yeah. For me, no. >> Yeah. Yeah. I knew you'd say that cuz
>> Yeah. Yeah. I knew you'd say that cuz it's it's a generational thing I think.
it's it's a generational thing I think. Um
>> cuz I don't trust girl. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Girl women's or I know you know what
>> Girl women's or I know you know what women is much more flirty than men.
women is much more flirty than men. >> Yeah. I mean like if you were dating a
>> Yeah. I mean like if you were dating a man that you really like you were
man that you really like you were together with for a long time and he was
together with for a long time and he was in a room full of girls, would you trust
in a room full of girls, would you trust him?
him? You've been dating a while. Like
You've been dating a while. Like Anthony, if you saw Anthony in a room
Anthony, if you saw Anthony in a room full of women.
full of women. >> Yeah. I uh in, for example, they are in
>> Yeah. I uh in, for example, they are in a room.
a room. >> Like you guys go to Tiki Bar.
>> Like you guys go to Tiki Bar. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Or he or he goes with the boys. Me and
>> Or he or he goes with the boys. Me and Anthony go hang out.
Anthony go hang out. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> And uh and we're at Tiki Bar.
>> And uh and we're at Tiki Bar. >> Yeah. I let him go.
>> Yeah. I let him go. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah. And you'd be And you you you would
>> Yeah. And you'd be And you you you would trust him?
trust him? >> Yes. But
>> Yes. But >> would you trust the girls?
>> would you trust the girls? >> No.
>> No. >> Okay. So if like do you all agree? You
>> Okay. So if like do you all agree? You know, like you might trust your man, but
know, like you might trust your man, but you probably won't trust the girls
you probably won't trust the girls around him.
around him. >> Because I don't trust them both.
>> Because I don't trust them both. >> Because you know what? If women
>> Because you know what? If women >> That's fair. That's fair.
>> That's fair. That's fair. >> Yeah. I don't If women do not something
>> Yeah. I don't If women do not something don't do something with men,
don't do something with men, >> the men doesn't do with them too cuz men
>> the men doesn't do with them too cuz men it's like a
it's like a food for chicken.
food for chicken. >> Yeah. But I mean like I like when I had
>> Yeah. But I mean like I like when I had a wedding ring on, I used to wear that
a wedding ring on, I used to wear that with pride,
with pride, >> you know, and I actually found that
>> you know, and I actually found that girls would approach me more when I had
girls would approach me more when I had a wedding ring.
a wedding ring. >> I think it depends of the first case.
>> I think it depends of the first case. >> Yeah. If you like that,
>> Yeah. If you like that, >> it depends where you are.
>> it depends where you are. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> But generally speaking, you know, if
>> But generally speaking, you know, if you're at tiki bar,
you're at tiki bar, >> you're not going to trust the women.
>> you're not going to trust the women. I have uh for me I I don't have trust
I have uh for me I I don't have trust the girls but I have to trust my like
the girls but I have to trust my like your men.
your men. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yes. But would you trust the girls?
>> Yes. But would you trust the girls? >> Girls is uh
flirty flirty. >> Flirty like what I said.
>> Flirty like what I said. >> So yes or no?
>> So yes or no? >> Um it depends on the
>> Um it depends on the >> yes or no. You had to choose one.
>> yes or no. You had to choose one. >> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. >> You yes to trust or no to trust the
>> You yes to trust or no to trust the girls? No.
girls? No. >> Okay. So, if women don't trust girls,
>> Okay. So, if women don't trust girls, why should men trust women?
why should men trust women? >> Because
>> Because >> um that's
>> um that's >> I know.
>> I know. >> Okay. Um yeah, if you don't do anything
>> Okay. Um yeah, if you don't do anything for me, yeah, you can trust me.
for me, yeah, you can trust me. >> Oh,
>> Oh, >> yes.
>> yes. >> Oh, okay.
>> Oh, okay. >> But like what I said, if you cheat me, I
>> But like what I said, if you cheat me, I cheat silent
cheat silent >> and I will punch the girls.
>> and I will punch the girls. I wouldn't mess with you at all.
>> Yeah, it depends to the girl maybe. Well, do you think you're going to trust
Well, do you think you're going to trust I I mean you're going to trust that girl
I I mean you're going to trust that girl that you meet in Tiki Bar
that you meet in Tiki Bar >> and make her girlfriend or wife?
>> and make her girlfriend or wife? >> Um,
>> Um, no. I for me
no. I for me >> uh for me for example my boyfriend has
>> uh for me for example my boyfriend has another girl with at the bar. I think uh
another girl with at the bar. I think uh I trust that
I trust that maybe you know it depends to my
maybe you know it depends to my boyfriend if he will let that girl
boyfriend if he will let that girl >> flirting him
>> flirting him >> flirt him. So
>> flirt him. So >> yeah it depends on my boyfriend. I don't
>> yeah it depends on my boyfriend. I don't have a problem with a girl
have a problem with a girl >> girl because if that's her personality,
>> girl because if that's her personality, if that's her, I don't care. I'm just
if that's her, I don't care. I'm just I'm just thinking about my boyfriend if
I'm just thinking about my boyfriend if if he will let her.
if he will let her. >> So why why why do you think your
>> So why why why do you think your Chad, you know, Thunderstroke male
Chad, you know, Thunderstroke male friend is friends with you?
friend is friends with you? >> What do you
>> What do you >> Yeah, like you have a male friend. Why?
>> Yeah, like you have a male friend. Why? Like like what is it about you that you
Like like what is it about you that you think he is your friend? Like why why is
think he is your friend? Like why why is he your friend?
he your friend? >> Oh
>> Oh >> specifically what do you offer him that
>> specifically what do you offer him that makes him want to be your friend?
makes him want to be your friend? >> It's about uh it's only about school
>> It's about uh it's only about school because
because >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah. Yeah. I met
>> Yeah. Yeah. I met >> So he's more of a classmate.
>> So he's more of a classmate. >> Yeah. Classmate. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Classmate. Yeah. >> Okay.
>> Okay. [Music]
[Music] >> Is he in your specific class?
>> Is he in your specific class? >> Yeah. Yeah. But I'm not really into
>> Yeah. Yeah. But I'm not really into friendly with another guy just for
friendly with another guy just for nothing. I mean, yeah.
nothing. I mean, yeah. >> And how many male friends do you have?
>> And how many male friends do you have? Is he like one of the only ones?
Is he like one of the only ones? >> I think
>> I think it's not like
it's not like friends. I mean,
friends. I mean, >> or you know, but he's he's a classmate
>> or you know, but he's he's a classmate that you associate with. You probably
that you associate with. You probably have on Facebook,
have on Facebook, >> you know, like you have on social media.
>> you know, like you have on social media. You talk.
You talk. >> Yeah. Yeah. And are there any other men
>> Yeah. Yeah. And are there any other men like that in your class?
like that in your class? >> Mhm. Yeah, I have two.
>> Mhm. Yeah, I have two. >> Okay. Two.
>> Okay. Two. >> Yeah. Two.
>> Yeah. Two. >> And And how would you rate the other one
>> And And how would you rate the other one out of 10?
out of 10? >> 10. But the other one
>> 10. But the other one >> So they're both good-looking men.
>> So they're both good-looking men. >> You see what I'm getting at, right?
>> You see what I'm getting at, right? >> Yeah. A bit. A bit. A bit. A little. You
>> Yeah. A bit. A bit. A bit. A little. You know.
know. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> But the
>> But the >> Now there's I bet you there's 99.9% of
>> Now there's I bet you there's 99.9% of your class is average, but you chose the
your class is average, but you chose the two good-looking ones.
two good-looking ones. >> Yeah. but the other guy already has a
>> Yeah. but the other guy already has a girlfriend.
girlfriend. >> That doesn't matter.
>> That doesn't matter. >> Especially not to a man. That doesn't
>> Especially not to a man. That doesn't matter at all.
matter at all. >> And and usually, okay, like, so I'm
>> And and usually, okay, like, so I'm going to give you a little tip that um
going to give you a little tip that um that guys know if they've been around
that guys know if they've been around and they, you know, have experience with
and they, you know, have experience with women. If you walk up to a girl and you
women. If you walk up to a girl and you say, "Hey, baby," you know, like
say, "Hey, baby," you know, like whatever, and she's like, "Not
whatever, and she's like, "Not interested." And she walks away,
interested." And she walks away, >> you give up. But if the first thing that
>> you give up. But if the first thing that comes out of her mouth is, "I have a
comes out of her mouth is, "I have a boyfriend."
boyfriend." >> Personally, I take that as a challenge.
>> Personally, I take that as a challenge. >> Well, what are you doing here alone? Why
>> Well, what are you doing here alone? Why isn't he here protecting you? You know,
isn't he here protecting you? You know, I actually wish I had it ready to go.
I actually wish I had it ready to go. Um, I technically do, but I'd have to go
Um, I technically do, but I'd have to go through my computer and I don't want it
through my computer and I don't want it to show up on the screen. I'll have this
to show up on the screen. I'll have this ready for another one. Um, but there's a
ready for another one. Um, but there's a line of questioning that is absolutely
line of questioning that is absolutely perfect to get a girl to turn a no into
perfect to get a girl to turn a no into a yes. And this isn't from some pickup
a yes. And this isn't from some pickup course or, you know, it's not any of the
course or, you know, it's not any of the the whatever they call that. Um, men in
the whatever they call that. Um, men in the West make courses about how to pick
the West make courses about how to pick up chicks and I think that shit's cheesy
up chicks and I think that shit's cheesy as [ __ ] Um, but uh yeah, it's just it's
as [ __ ] Um, but uh yeah, it's just it's a line of questioning to turn a no into
a line of questioning to turn a no into a yes, you know, and uh
a yes, you know, and uh it's it's possible. And I guess just to
it's it's possible. And I guess just to wrap it up with you, either one person
wrap it up with you, either one person likes the other at least sexually
likes the other at least sexually or or both parties like each other
or or both parties like each other sexually when there's a male female
sexually when there's a male female scenario. And you learn it as you get
scenario. And you learn it as you get older. Now, if a if you're dating a guy
older. Now, if a if you're dating a guy and your boyfriend says, "Oh, don't like
and your boyfriend says, "Oh, don't like that. Get rid of him." Would you think
that. Get rid of him." Would you think that your boyfriend's insecure?
that your boyfriend's insecure? [Music]
[Music] Yes. Yeah.
Yes. Yeah. >> Yeah. Do you remember when I asked you
>> Yeah. Do you remember when I asked you how you felt if uh you were called
how you felt if uh you were called insecure?
>> Yeah. So like so like you know it's like men have different preferences. It's
men have different preferences. It's kind of like what I pointed out earlier
kind of like what I pointed out earlier too where you know like uh girls
too where you know like uh girls generally are attracted to men who get
generally are attracted to men who get the approval of many women whether it's
the approval of many women whether it's because they slept with them or the
because they slept with them or the girls just commented um you know uh
girls just commented um you know uh because then you feel that the
because then you feel that the qualification process is complete. Other
qualification process is complete. Other people did it for you. So now you know
people did it for you. So now you know that that person five girls in the room
that that person five girls in the room like this one guy then he's obviously
like this one guy then he's obviously got something going right. So then, you
got something going right. So then, you know, but it's the opposite for men.
know, but it's the opposite for men. Men like girls that aren't on the radar
Men like girls that aren't on the radar of a lot of other men, you know, like
of a lot of other men, you know, like you're not doing your Tik Tok dances,
you're not doing your Tik Tok dances, you know, and like, you know, and
you know, and like, you know, and showing off your your world. Um, so it's
showing off your your world. Um, so it's the opposite. So men have different
the opposite. So men have different preferences, and one of those
preferences, and one of those preferences would be that she's not
preferences would be that she's not going to confide in, she's not going to,
going to confide in, she's not going to, you know, have a friend where, you know,
you know, have a friend where, you know, she cries on his shoulder. all those
she cries on his shoulder. all those responsibilities belong solely to your
responsibilities belong solely to your boyfriend.
boyfriend. So, it's actually a red flag. So, when
So, it's actually a red flag. So, when you get older, you'll figure that out.
you get older, you'll figure that out. And I'm not condescending to you.
And I'm not condescending to you. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Um it's just like like if I like that's
>> Um it's just like like if I like that's why like and you asked if I would take a
why like and you asked if I would take a girl seriously at the bar or trust a
girl seriously at the bar or trust a girl that I meet at the bar.
girl that I meet at the bar. >> Hell no.
>> Hell no. >> No. I get what I want and then I'm done,
>> No. I get what I want and then I'm done, you know? And I will be honest about
you know? And I will be honest about that. I'm not saying I've done that in
that. I'm not saying I've done that in the last few years. M
the last few years. M >> um but if I was hypothetically
>> um but if I was hypothetically because uh you know I'm still married on
because uh you know I'm still married on paper
paper >> but um you know hypothetically speaking
>> but um you know hypothetically speaking if I was to venture back into the dating
if I was to venture back into the dating world um yeah I mean I would just ride
world um yeah I mean I would just ride it out as long as I wanted to you know
it out as long as I wanted to you know um but I think that my dating preference
um but I think that my dating preference right now uh would be that I would allow
right now uh would be that I would allow for a relationship to last a maximum of
for a relationship to last a maximum of 9 months and if I had met a girl at a
9 months and if I had met a girl at a bar, I would probably just say whatever
bar, I would probably just say whatever you can, you know, my place is your
you can, you know, my place is your place, you know, because if I met her at
place, you know, because if I met her at a bar, I don't want her going around
a bar, I don't want her going around banging her, you know, whatever other
banging her, you know, whatever other guy. So if she's not annoying, it could
guy. So if she's not annoying, it could reach up to maybe 9 months,
reach up to maybe 9 months, >> you know,
>> you know, >> before before
>> before before >> before I I just say, you know what, and
>> before I I just say, you know what, and then I do something I do something that
then I do something I do something that sabotages it, you know, like uh you
sabotages it, you know, like uh you know, maybe I just like
know, maybe I just like just whatever, you know, either I come
just whatever, you know, either I come forward, I just say I don't want to
forward, I just say I don't want to >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> uh be together anymore, or you know,
>> uh be together anymore, or you know, maybe I'll just be like I kind of like
maybe I'll just be like I kind of like that other girl now. I think I think
that other girl now. I think I think this is done. Is that cool?
this is done. Is that cool? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> You know, like I wasn't asking you, but
>> You know, like I wasn't asking you, but I was, you know, like I would be like,
I was, you know, like I would be like, >> but I agree.
>> but I agree. >> But yeah. Yeah. It's just like Yes.
>> But yeah. Yeah. It's just like Yes. >> Yeah. Cuz like I I've given up on that
>> Yeah. Cuz like I I've given up on that and you know, like I think that the only
and you know, like I think that the only I I think I've been married as much as
I I think I've been married as much as I'm ever going to get married,
I'm ever going to get married, >> you know, and I'm never getting married
>> you know, and I'm never getting married again. Ever.
again. Ever. >> Oh,
>> Oh, >> yeah. Cuz I I
>> yeah. Cuz I I >> Is it Is it I know. Is it u traumatized
>> Is it Is it I know. Is it u traumatized for you?
for you? >> It's not trauma. It's just I learned
>> It's not trauma. It's just I learned that all women are full of [ __ ]
that all women are full of [ __ ] >> you know, and I just happened to pick,
>> you know, and I just happened to pick, you know, like I, you know, I was lied
you know, like I, you know, I was lied to um about body count and that's
to um about body count and that's another factor that men really care
another factor that men really care about. Um but there were flags and I
about. Um but there were flags and I wasn't as uh aware when I met her, you
wasn't as uh aware when I met her, you know, I guess now it's like 9 or 10
know, I guess now it's like 9 or 10 years ago. So, you know, I've had my
years ago. So, you know, I've had my journey, but um no, because tingles,
journey, but um no, because tingles, man, tingles, it really changes things
man, tingles, it really changes things and the availability. Uh, girls are very
and the availability. Uh, girls are very um,
um, yeah, I don't know. I I I I think I'll
yeah, I don't know. I I I I think I'll leave my thoughts out. Um, but again,
leave my thoughts out. Um, but again, it's not to poo poo on the Philippines.
it's not to poo poo on the Philippines. I think if you if you're going to have
I think if you if you're going to have luck anywhere in the world, you're going
luck anywhere in the world, you're going to have a better a better shot here. So,
to have a better a better shot here. So, but yeah, I mean, just for me, I got a
but yeah, I mean, just for me, I got a bad taste in my mouth and I already got
bad taste in my mouth and I already got two awesome kids. Now, I would consider
two awesome kids. Now, I would consider doing the Elon Musk thing. I still want
doing the Elon Musk thing. I still want four more kids. So, I'd be willing to
four more kids. So, I'd be willing to like
like find a woman that would be willing to be
find a woman that would be willing to be a single mom and I would pay support,
a single mom and I would pay support, you know, and take care of her, maybe
you know, and take care of her, maybe even get her an apartment and still be
even get her an apartment and still be an active role in that kid's life, too.
an active role in that kid's life, too. Of course, I would want to, but would I
Of course, I would want to, but would I be exclusive with her? No. So, I'm
be exclusive with her? No. So, I'm dreaming. You'd have to be rich to be
dreaming. You'd have to be rich to be able to do that, you know. But
able to do that, you know. But super chats. No, I'm kidding. I'm
super chats. No, I'm kidding. I'm joking.
joking. Um,
Um, yeah. So, I went full circle on the last
yeah. So, I went full circle on the last thing that I said I was going to go full
thing that I said I was going to go full circle on. It was about the insecurity
circle on. It was about the insecurity thing. Um, what kind of age difference
thing. Um, what kind of age difference is acceptable for a girl when you're
is acceptable for a girl when you're dating a guy?
Um, for me maybe older like I prefer like 55
I prefer like 55 to 60.
to 60. >> And you're
>> And you're How old are you?
How old are you? >> 43.
>> 43. >> Okay. So 43 to 5. So yeah, it's about
>> Okay. So 43 to 5. So yeah, it's about like 12, 14 years.
like 12, 14 years. >> Yeah, it doesn't matter. Age uh like age
>> Yeah, it doesn't matter. Age uh like age doesn't matter for me.
doesn't matter for me. >> Yeah. How about you? like 40.
>> Yeah. How about you? like 40. >> 40.
>> 40. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Okay, then. And And how old are you
>> Okay, then. And And how old are you again? I forget.
again? I forget. >> 28 right now.
>> 28 right now. >> Okay. Okay.
>> Okay. Okay. >> Uh for me, 25 above.
>> Uh for me, 25 above. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. So, you all you all go for, you
>> Yeah. So, you all you all go for, you know, and uh see you guys answered so
know, and uh see you guys answered so many of these questions in such a good
many of these questions in such a good way. Like when I asked you, how old is
way. Like when I asked you, how old is too old to have kids? And you all gave a
too old to have kids? And you all gave a very decent age. Like I would say you
very decent age. Like I would say you guys are very close to the line. Um but
guys are very close to the line. Um but then you even brought up too that you're
then you even brought up too that you're you're working on the dating part now.
you're working on the dating part now. So you can like a lot of girls when you
So you can like a lot of girls when you ask okay like when is old to have kids
ask okay like when is old to have kids and they'll be like 28 or whatever which
and they'll be like 28 or whatever which was an answer here and then I'll be like
was an answer here and then I'll be like yeah but are you going to be just
yeah but are you going to be just starting without a guy without a
starting without a guy without a relationship of a few years already you
relationship of a few years already you know and then that that's when the
know and then that that's when the answers vary um but you guys gave good
answers vary um but you guys gave good answers um cuz then I would point out
answers um cuz then I would point out like
like age is a big factor like there's going
age is a big factor like there's going to come a year and actually I'll ask you
to come a year and actually I'll ask you uh when you surpass last 34 35
uh when you surpass last 34 35 did you find that the ooh ah you know
did you find that the ooh ah you know like all the attention that you probably
like all the attention that you probably got cuz like you know I've seen other
got cuz like you know I've seen other members of your family at different ages
members of your family at different ages right so did you find that the attention
right so did you find that the attention started to decrease after the age of 34
started to decrease after the age of 34 >> I think so
>> I think so >> yes
>> yes >> did it get to a point where you were
>> did it get to a point where you were willing to even lower your standards on
willing to even lower your standards on a man just to not be alone
be honest. It's okay. Like, it's I mean, I think I already know the answer. I
I think I already know the answer. I mean, I I know what I would do.
mean, I I know what I would do. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> You know, like if
>> You know, like if >> for me, yes. I'm going to down my pride
>> for me, yes. I'm going to down my pride for him.
for him. >> Oh, there you go.
>> Oh, there you go. >> Be honest.
>> Be honest. >> No. Yeah. No, I like it. I like it.
>> No. Yeah. No, I like it. I like it. >> You have spice. I know you have spice.
>> You have spice. I know you have spice. >> You're you're you're a fiery fiery girl.
>> You're you're you're a fiery fiery girl. But, uh yeah. Did you notice a little
But, uh yeah. Did you notice a little bit things uh you know like you're
bit things uh you know like you're willing to change your standard a little
willing to change your standard a little bit like maybe in the past you would
bit like maybe in the past you would >> want the the six sixes six foot tall
>> want the the six sixes six foot tall sixack.
sixack. >> Absolutely. Because I'm getting old so I
>> Absolutely. Because I'm getting old so I don't have to to get what I want or
don't have to to get what I want or ideal man. So I have down my
ideal man. So I have down my >> Yeah. Whatever.
>> Yeah. Whatever. >> Most important thing is communication is
>> Most important thing is communication is the key.
the key. >> Yes. That's what best for us.
>> Yes. That's what best for us. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Oh yeah.
>> Oh yeah. >> I agree. I agree.
>> I agree. I agree. >> Guys, she's single.
>> Guys, she's single. >> Ready to meet?
>> Ready to meet? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Are you going to drop your socials for
>> Are you going to drop your socials for me to put in the members only community?
me to put in the members only community? >> Yes. Just Yeah.
>> Yes. Just Yeah. >> Absolutely.
>> Absolutely. >> There you go. There you go. You heard it
>> There you go. There you go. You heard it here first, folks. Um Yeah. Okay. So,
here first, folks. Um Yeah. Okay. So, like Yeah. Um
like Yeah. Um it changes things. So, like having kids
it changes things. So, like having kids and all that at a certain age is
and all that at a certain age is definitely important.
definitely important. >> Yeah. Actually, I don't have an I don't
>> Yeah. Actually, I don't have an I don't have uh
kidding. But, uh, yeah. All right. Peace out, everybody. Say goodbye.
out, everybody. Say goodbye. >> Bye. Thank you, guys.
>> Bye. Thank you, guys. >> Bye, Maggie.
>> Bye, Maggie. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Thank you for inviting me here.
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