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How to Get Over Someone You Never Even Dated | The Unknown | YouTubeToText
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This content addresses the pain of getting over someone you never officially dated, emphasizing that the healing process involves recognizing you fell for an idea, not the reality, and reclaiming your own worth and closure.
Hey, bro. Yeah, you. Let's talk about
something nobody really prepares you
for. Getting over someone you never even
dated. No relationship, no closure. But
still, it hurts. It lingers. You replay
every conversation, every text, every
almost. You imagine what it could have
been because you felt something real,
but reality never caught up. And that's
what makes it worse, right? There's no
breakup, no final argument, no reason to
cry. So people don't understand why it
messes with you so much. But I do
because I've been there. So tonight, no
distractions, no visuals, just you and
me. Let's figure out how to let go of
the person you never really had. You
fell for the idea, not the person.
Here's the first truth. You didn't fall
in love with them. You fell in love with
the idea of them, with the way they made
you feel. When they smiled, when they
texted back fast, when they gave you
just enough to hope. You built a version
of them in your mind. Not who they
actually were, but who you hoped they
could be. And that version, that version
loved you back. But real connection
doesn't live in potential. It lives in
action. And if they weren't showing up
for you, if they weren't making you feel
seen, chosen, or safe,
then you weren't in love. You were in
fantasy. And that's okay. We all do it.
But you can't move on from someone you
never saw clearly. Start there. Separate
who they were, from who you made them in
your mind. They gave you crumbs and you
called it a meal. Let's be honest, they
didn't give you much. But you held on to
every little thing, a like on your
story, a your funny during a late night
chat, a smile across the room, and you
twisted it into hope, into meaning, into
maybe this time it's different. You
overanalyzed. You waited. You gave
energy to someone who never gave it
back. And that's not on them. That's on
you. Because deep down, you knew. You
just didn't want to admit it. You
deserved more. You still do. But when
you're starving emotionally, even crumbs
feel like love. So, stop chasing
validation. Stop making excuses for
their inconsistency. You're not crazy.
You were just hungry for something real.
Next time, wait for someone who serves a
full meal. You were available. They were
not. This part stings, but it's the
truth. You were ready. You showed up.
You were emotionally present and they
weren't. Maybe they liked the attention.
Maybe they flirted when they were bored.
Maybe they didn't even realize the
weight of what they were doing. But they
were never allin. And you felt it. You
hoped they'd wake up one day and finally
see you. But that day never came. And
every time they pulled away, you felt it
in your chest. That imbalance, it eats
at your confidence. Makes you question
if you're enough. But hear this. You
are. They just weren't capable of
showing up for the version of love you
were ready to give. So stop waiting for
someone who was never meant to stay.
Closure isn't something they give you.
It's something you choose. You keep
thinking if they just explained why they
pulled away. You could move on. If they
just said, "Sorry, I led you on." You'd
be fine. But that's a trap. Closure
doesn't come from them. It comes from
you. You close the chapter when you stop
rereading the old pages. You move on
when you stop needing answers from
someone who never gave them in the first
place. You don't need an apology to
heal. You don't need them to admit
anything. You just need to say enough.
Enough waiting. Enough hoping. Enough
carrying their silence like it means
something. Because silence is your
answer. And your peace begins. The
moment you stop looking back, you'll
miss them. But one day it won't hurt.
Some days will still sting. A song, a
smell, a memory. You'll wonder if they
ever think about you. You'll feel the
old ache come back. That's okay. Healing
isn't linear. You're allowed to feel it.
But don't stay there. Don't text them.
Don't spiral. Instead, breathe. Come
back to yourself. Remind yourself that
just because it didn't work doesn't mean
you weren't worthy of something that
will. You gave your heart even when you
didn't have a title. You loved in
silence. And that kind of love, it's
rare. It's powerful. And it deserves to
be returned. So, keep walking, keep growing.
growing.
The person meant for you won't leave you
wondering. You're healing already. Hey,
you made it this far and that means something.
something.
This wasn't about forgetting them. It
was about remembering yourself. You
don't need their love to feel whole.
You've got your own. You've got clarity
and you've got a future that's bigger
than one person who never chose you. If
this helped, like the video. so more
guys can hear it. Drop a comment. What
part hit hardest? And if you're serious
about healing and evolving, subscribe.
We're dropping talks like this every
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