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A guy buying you flowers does not mean he loves you. A guy marrying you does not indicate love. A guy giving you money does not indicate love. A guy taking you out on dates does not indicate love. A guy buying you expensive things does not indicate love. Do you know what actually indicates love? When a man does something money cannot buy. You know what it is? It's when a man actually burns when they see you burning. A man that puts your happiness before his. A man that actually sees all the flaws you has and choose you. Chooses you. Always chooses you. A man that knows that he can get better. Yeah. Cuz in all honesty, everybody could get better, but still chooses you because to to him, you're the best. That's that's what indicates love. Anything else is bull sexual relationship is very complicated. Many men are superficial surface level and they are not trustworthy. A man sexing you does not mean he loves you. A man gifting you does not mean he loves you. Like she already said, many men are manipulative and are out to use women. They see women as a tool to play their game. A man getting married does not mean that he's now a new creature. Does not mean that he's brand new. He has changed his ways. Does not mean that. It just might mark the beginning of the woman getting the worst part of him. Is it appropriate to still be to still have a relationship with a person who used to be in a long-term relationship with now that she married? Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Finish the question. I'm I'mma dive a little deep. I'mma dive a little deep. Give him some Let him Let him Let him Hey, hey, hey. He brought it out me. I'm ready to talk now. Go ahead. Let him talk. All right. Now, this person used to be your person before I was married, but I still want to be good friends with him, but my wife has an issue with it. I'm trying to figure out how to make it be okay with me still being friends. Just Just friends. Just friends. Not only are you a walking contradiction, but you got your relationship looking like a joke. And I'm going tell you why, right? Because as long as that woman that has seen your penis can have access to you, she'll feel like she always has the up on your wife. And you as a married man, it is your job to never in this world give anybody a up on your wife. Can you have access to her? And he lost your Get that. Get that out of his hand. Who's that man? Hold on. You bad man. A man can marry you and not want you. A man can literally, I'm not playing, marry you and you're not the woman he really wants. You are the one he has settled for when he was ready to be married. If ever the woman he really wants to be with, the woman he really wants to marry, ever becomes available, he's going to either move around from you, cheat on you, still be married to you. Some of these men will do this. I'm a life coach. I've been a life coach for over a decade. 40% of my practice have been men. And over the years, these men have shared these things with me. There has there have been men that I have worked with that have been married in partnerships, long partnerships, long romantic relationships with women they never wanted, with women they settled for because she was a good woman. She did what she wanted. She did what she needed to do to be a good woman to him. She cooked, she cleaned, she took care of the kids, she took care of the house. But the minute that the the woman that they really wanted became available, they started tricking off on the woman that they have been with. A man will be with you for years and you're not the one he really wants to be with. This is a little bit different than that video I put out about you may be his second choice. You may not have even been a choice because the woman he wanted probably moved around from him cuz he wasn't [ __ ] He probably up and then he settled for you. A place mat, a placeholder. That doesn't mean you're not worthy of love and doesn't mean you're not a good woman. But if you are at all confused in your relationship, if that man leaves you confused, if you don't know where you stand, if you know that he's not coming home at night, if you know you want to always check his phone, you want to check his location, you want to check his socials, you spend your time stalking, you know the answer to all of your questions already. Move around. Do not waste your good years, your good life, your good beauty on a man that doesn't deserve you and that doesn't even want you. I love you. You can never satisfy a man. There is no guarantee that the man will not cheat on his dream girl. It's all about game for a lot of men out there. Ladies, always put yourself first. Do not leave your life to satisfy any man. Just do you and the world will adjust. 50% of marriages end up in divorce. Do you know that over half of the divorce filings have the word Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter in them as part of the of the divorce proceedings? It's one of the reasons that led to divorce. And here's what it usually is. Somebody has reconnected with a old love or they shot their shot, right? They risked it all to DM somebody and they never even met them and was and and it still cost them their marriage. Just the exchange that they were having. Oh, you know, they're texting each other and then they're leaving little voice notes and then they're talking on the phone for four and five hours and that emotional soul tie is as powerful as the physical one. Like their bodies didn't even come together and you say you have to end this relationship now and it's like you don't understand the love I have for them. I can't tell you how many people I know right now who cheated on their spouses with the person and now instead of restoring the marriage, they're about to get married to the to the side chick. Can I slow down right here? You about to marry your side chick and you honestly think you about to stay faithful to her for the next 20 years. At at some point, the familiarity is going to breed cold with this one. You thought you upgraded from a iPhone 12 to a iPhone 14 and you like that one. And guess what? A iPhone 15's coming out with just a little bit more clarity in the third camera. And you like, you know what? I think I need that one. Breaking soul ties is hard. The problem today is not the women, it's the men. There's too many weak men out here that exist. Y'all overweight, not in shape, y'all eat terrible food. All you do is lust and enjoy. You don't want to have a family. Like, what are you doing? You're ruining the whole society. It's a lot of people that blame women, but it's really the men because we create everything. Y'all want to complain about the women? There's no good women left. will blame the men because the men are responsible for accepting the weak women. You got strip clubs. You got Only Fans. Y'all want women to stop this stuff? Then stop paying. Stop spending your money on only fans. Women only do it because they know that men are going to pay for it. So you got to blame the men. It's too many of y'all that's weak. Y'all can't stop doing drugs. Y'all can't stop drinking. You can't get in the gym. You don't want to raise a family. You want to party, drink, enjoy until you 50 years old. Loser. That's a loser. Where's your discipline? Where's the control? Where's the self-control? You don't have any. You have zero. And it's coming from somebody that never had a father. I never had a father in my life. And when he wasn't around without having a valid excuse, I understood how weak he was. Does that give me the right to do the same thing he did? And that's what men do. They'll blame other people for their mistakes or their laziness or their excuses. If you're a real man, you're gonna change the whole situation. No matter how negative people were in your family, no matter how nobody was there for you, you're going to change the whole narrative if you're a real man. Because if you don't, guess what? The people after you are going to be weaker and weaker and weaker and weaker. So someone has to step in and put their foot down and say, "I'm going to change this." So y'all complain about the women online, there's no good women left. Guess what? Stop giving them money. Stop supporting what they do. If they're naked, stop commenting, liking their photos. We're the problem. Don't blame the women. It's the men. For most men out there, their focus is sex, and they are willing to do anything for it. Most men out there are working so hard so they can have enough money that will give them access to women because they believe that all women love money and with good amount of money they can get any woman they so desire to get. But we know that is not right. Some men see relationship with women as them playing video game. You know with some video games you need to get coins to have access. So they go out there work so hard for the money so they can have access to the women of their dreams. Shockingly a lot of men think alike. They think this way when it comes to relationship with women, they see it as game and they've got rules that governs this game. What I would love for women to understand about men is that for them the game is the game. A lot of men who are in their prime, and side note, being in their prime for men is about having money and having access, not about age necessarily. But a lot of men who are in their prime, their entertainment, their fun, their sports in life is women. So they're just trying to sample as many different types of women as they can. And they are trying to do this spending as little time, energy, effort, and money with each woman as they can. So what men will do is they will give each other heads up. So I always talk about a CRB check, which is basically where a guy checks your background. A CRB check is not always to check your virtue. A CRB check can often just be to check your temperature. So, a lot of women will not notice this, but men when they see them out and maybe they pass them by or if you're looking at a guy showing interest, he will check with the men around him. And side note, he won't even have to check. If that guy friends can see that you're interested in him or he's interested in you, they will volunteer any information they have about you. So, a man can turn around to his girl and say, "Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, you can you can chop that." And they will let that man know the caveats. So they will be like, "Oh yeah, you can chop that, but she likes money, so you got to take out a couple of times." Or they will let him know like, "Oh yeah, yeah, my friend chopped that. Like he had to do blah blah blah blah, but yeah, he chopped." And basically the bottom line of the information they will give is whether that guy can smash you. Basically, whether he should waste his time trying to smash you. So guys will also say things like, "If you're a woman that doesn't give it up easily, oh, she's long, like don't like don't waste your time, basically." And just a side note for those of us who have male friends, your male friends will say these things about you as well to their male friends because there is male and female friendships, but there is also the rules that govern male or male friendships. And for men, the withholding of information about other women kind of makes you just look simpish. For a man, men can think like, do you love her? Like, why are you withholding this information? Like, if you want her, just marry her. Like, why? like they don't respect other men who don't give information forthcomingly about women and then their mind will start to go to places like oh is it that you wanted to sleep with her but you couldn't and now you're like why are you withholding the information is she your sister like men just don't respect it and I know for women it's very hard for us to understand because but that's how men think and operate and they really do not see as disrespectful to share this information about the females around them because every guy who's in his prime want is going to want to be in his prime with other males and you always want to be respected by other males. I'm sure a lot of us know men love each other like they love their boys. The respect of the mandm is the most crucial thing to them. The fact is nobody wants to look like a s. All men want to look like a striker. Football terminology again. Basically a striker someone who scores. Great. So, I had a guy hit me up in a DM asking me, "Well, since these women don't belong to you and it's simply your turn, how can you remain detached emotionally?" Well, you got to always know that women are talking to more than one guy. You're never the only one. I don't give a damn if you're in a relationship. I don't give a damn if you're married. It don't matter. Women need that constant IV drip of attention. Period. And you can never give them enough. They love that outside attention. and they love the feeling of doing some [ __ ] they ain't got no doing. That's just how women are. That's how they're hardwired. Why? Because Satan is their daddy. The devil convinced them to do all of this stupid ass [ __ ] So why would you say in your mind and make the hard assumption that oh this my girl, she belong to me. She'll never cheat on me. You know, she'll never talk to any other guy. She ain't talking to other guys. She's loyal to me. Don't be the idiot to the moment that you make that hard assumption, you put your own heart on the chopping block and you give her the knife. Did you just hear what the [ __ ] I said? When you make that hard assumption that a woman belongs to you and you only and she's not talking to anybody else and she's being faithful and loyal to you, you put your own heart on the chopping block and you hand her the big ass butcher knife. you do it and the gun and the bullets so she can destroy you by line. When you're dating these women and she's in your physical presence, it's your turn. When you're not physically around this woman, you don't even really need to be thinking about this woman. That's how I go about it. I don't even think about their ass until they text me. Other than that, I got my mind on I got my mind on some money. That's it. I'm chasing a bag. I'm not chasing no relationship. I'm not trying to [ __ ] uh get my emotions tangled up with a creature that's sharing herself with other people. All right? In this generation, women cheat for sport. Not all. I don't want to get attacked by all police. Not all women are like this. I repeat, not all women are like this. But most, and when I say most, I'm talking 99.9%. Y'all guys got All right. Bring the emotions down, fellas. All right. Up the intellect. Up the logical thinking, up the masculinity. When you're too in your emotions, guess what? Life has a platter of pain for your I already told you guys before, pain is the result of wrong thinking. When you think the wrong way about a thing, you get pain. When you think the wrong way about a woman thinking that she belongs to you and she's mine and she'll never do this, she'll never do that. Guess what's coming? [ __ ] pain. Why? You're thinking, not her. You thought the wrong way about it. Wake up, bro. Listen fellas, if you want to avoid heartbreak and disappointment when it comes to dating in this generation, open up your ears and soak this game up. The best place for you to be mentally is to love the women that you date. And I'm not saying being in love, but you know, love them. You know, have an open heart, but at the same time, you have to be perfectly okay with never seeing them again. when they try to pull back, when they try to play games, when they leave you on red, or when they don't return your phone calls, you have to be okay with never talking to them again. When a woman starts out hot and heavy in the beginning and then she pulls back, that's her way of trying to make you chase, especially if she didn't gave you the already. You do not want to be the donkey chasing the carrot on the stick and string. These [ __ ] goofy. One minute they like you and they show all of this interest and the next minute they pulling back to make you chase. Love them, enjoy your turn, but at the same time be okay with never seeing them again. The question should be, ladies, are you aware that most men are playing games in relationship? I don't think a lot of women understand what is going on. I don't think we understand how men view relationship with women. I'm not even talking about marriage because they also view marriage differently. So I doubt if women are really in the know if they know what is going on. Some women get into relationship with men with a large heart hoping to be there for that man be supportive build with him not knowing that that man got into relationship because he thinks it is his turn. He thinks he needs to sleep with her and move on. Mix match. How then is it going to work? You're obviously not on the same level, not on the same plane. How then do you expect that to work? A lot of men are playing games. What if I just want one girlfriend and I want to be happy with her? Let me tell you something, bro. Before you find that one girlfriend, the girl who you think is the one, you better be dating at least 50 to 100 women in your lifetime, because you're not going to know what to scream for. You're not going to know who the good girls are, who the bad girls are, who's using you for money, whether or not they're manipulating you, whether or not they're cheating on you, whether or not you're being finessed by a woman. Without experience, you won't know these things. I could look at a woman and I can tell right away, this is a high quality woman. She knows how to communicate with a man. She's not going to jump from guy to guy if things go wrong. She's not going to do that if she's feeling spiteful. A high quality woman will uplift you, will add value to your life. She ain't trying to use you. She'll respect you. So, you better make sure you're going to be a player first. And you better make sure you know how to screen a woman because one woman can ruin your entire life. And I'd rather go through a heartbreak like I did when I was 20 years old than when I'm married with children, going through a terrible divorce, losing my house, losing everything because I didn't know how to screen for the right woman in my life. You guys get it twisted. Charging her to the game means the game has certain rules, right, and principles. And when I charge her to the game, it's getting charged to those principles. I can miss her how much I want. I could love her how much I want. I could want her however much I want. But I will never sacrifice my integrity, my manhood, and and what I know, my principles, and how I move. So, I got to charge it to the game cuz it it at the end of the day, I'm not taking the hit. My my principal is not taking the hit. My the game is getting charged to the game. It is what it is. Respectfully, the game card don't never decline. I got to stand on business. It is what it is. You know what I'm saying? That's all that mean. You're doing your dating roster all wrong if you weren't following these three rules. So, I went on the Tamron Hall show to talk about it. Are you dating 20 at a time? Another 20 at a time. I mean, I'm not judging cuz I'm good with 20 at a time. I'm good with it. The roster gets lower and lower until you're just down to one. The roster gets But you had a roster. I absolutely had a roster. I like that. I had a roster. Listen, I'm not ashamed of that. Rule number one, no more than three men at a time on the roster. Any more than that gets really confusing and stressful. Don't be that girl that sends the wrong text to the wrong guy. Plus, if you're dating with intention, you want to give each of these men your proper attention and collect data. Rule number two, do not let a man sit on that roster for more than 3 months. If you guys haven't connected well enough to be exclusive at this point, you need to kick that guy off the roster to make room for the next one. Learn to break up sooner. The moment you figure out that you're not compatible, it's time to move on. Rule number three, once you find a gem, abandon the roster. Cut off all the other guys. A gem is hard to find. Trust me, you'll regret this if you end up fumbling a good man because you were being a little selfish. Good luck with your roster. Happy dating. If you can't beat them, join them. If your desire is to date men in this current day and age, you need to be very much aware of what is going on. You need to know the games they are playing and you should also step up to that game. If you don't do that, they will use you and dump you. Please let me know what dating is like for you in the comment section. Some people date one person at a time. Some people date five people at a time. Don't get me wrong. Please don't misunderstand what I'm saying. Dating does not necessarily mean you are in a relationship with the person. Dating is a talking stage where you get to know the person. You meet different people. You get to know different people before deciding the person you really want to be in a relationship with. And at that talking stage, you're not expected to sleep with anyone. I know some people go as far as sleeping with people. I know men might be sleeping with women, but you're not expected to sleep with anyone. You're not even required to sleep with anyone. You just want to know if the person has the qualities you're looking out for. So, let me know what your dating stage is like for you in the comments section. You should only approach women and take women on dates when you're really excited to get to know them. And I do think you should only focus on one woman at a time. And what I mean by that is only date one woman actively at a time. And this is a rule that's in the book I'm writing is very important for me. Has worked really well for my clients because in the modern world, men can get this grasses greener fallacy. So, you're always wondering if something is better. The only way to see an opportunity through to really have a good discernment for what's in front of you is to only look at one person and say, "Do I see a future with you?" If the answer is no, you close the loop and then you go move on to the next opportunity. If the answer is yes, then you continue exploring that until the answer is no or until you get in a relationship. So, I really think it is a numbers game in terms of reaching out to women, but you should only entertain the future or having a future with one woman at a time. I'm just here to remind you that some of the girls that he's friends with were actually a failed talking stage at one point in his life. I'll make it even easier for you. If homie has a girl that's a friend at all, he wanted a hit and she said no. So now he's playing the waiting game like a little Don't be that guy. I saw a video where a guy said his biggest flex is that he can hand his phone to his girl without any worries because he's not a piece. My guy, um, that's the bare minimum. If you're having a girl, not being a piece and not cheating and trying to holler at a bunch of women and sling other women's DMs while you have a girl is literally the bare minimum. That's not a Doing the bare minimum. Y'all got to understand something. doing the bare minimum of being not being a piece of being a good human being uh not people over being loyal to your person who you're exclusive to. That's bare minimum. Unless we have changed what the bare minimum is, right? Like unless we've made being a piece okay, then I guess then he would have a point, right? But being a never been okay in my eyes. So not being a is not a flex. It's the bare minimum. Okay, rant over. Please let me know your thoughts on this in the comment section. And if you'd love to watch more videos like this, click this video to find out the truth behind men calling independent women masculine. And I will see you all in the next one. Thanks for watching.
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