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We are just waiting for two more ladies.
They're on a tricycle. They're on their
way. So, hang tight. Hang tight. We're
going to have four or five. We're going
to have five ladies today. So, stay tuned.
up here.
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You look good.
>> It's going to be hot in here today. More people.
people.
>> But you're not asking me a question.
>> Yeah. Yeah. That's a question. I I'll be
gentle. I'll be gentle. Don't worry. All
right. And then Yeah. Just uh actually
maybe you sit beside me here. Just that
way if you jump out, you won't trip on
the wire. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> And then we'll see if I'm not blocking
your view.
All right. You just It's all ready to go.
go.
You can put on your earphones.
Go. And then uh I guess the only rule is
to keep the microphone as close to your
mouth as you can. Like this.
>> So, I'm just going to listen to all of
you guys.
>> Oh, no. No. I'm I'm I'm asking you
stuff, too.
It's going to be different today as well.
well.
>> Yeah, there you go. Yeah, it's good.
It's nice to have a full full table. So,
hello. Welcome to the Pho Republic
podcast. Sorry we are half an hour late.
It's more fun in the Philippines. The uh
the link on the bottom of your screen is
to super chat, but it also works when
we're not live if you would like to keep
the show going. This is probably the
last one where before I run out of
budget for the ladies. So, uh, yeah, if
you want to do that, that would be fun.
That'd be nice. So, uh, yeah, I guess,
uh, just the disclaimer, uh, the
opinions that I share are not those of
the guests, and the opinions that the
guests share are, uh, not mine or that
of the show. And, uh, yeah, I guess
we'll get right into it. So, we'll start
with you, Joy. uh your name, your age,
your religion,
and your level of education or whatever.
>> Hello. Good morning to everybody. I'm
Joelin Pangalinan Borsy. I'm 20 I'm 44
years old.
>> You could pass. You could pass.
>> And then I finished my two course uh
bachelor science information technology
and computer secretarial.
That's good. And what do you do now?
>> Uh, I was a waitress in PM bar here in
Porto, Princessa.
>> Okay. Okay. How about you, Talia?
Welcome back.
>> Uh, good morning everyone. My name is
Crystal Grace
and I'm 18 years old.
>> Education and religion.
>> Um, I'm Catholic and I'm studying about
computer technology.
>> Okay. Yeah,
>> there you go. Your turn.
>> Hi, I'm Bea. I'm 28 years old. I'm a
born again Christian and yeah, just like you said, I'm a fresh graduate from
you said, I'm a fresh graduate from grade 12.
grade 12. >> Okay. And how about you, Belle?
>> I have Hi, good morning. My name is Jam Butteral
Butteral studying of electronic engineering. I'm
studying of electronic engineering. I'm 20 years old then
20 years old then church.
church. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> And I'm a Baptist.
>> And I'm a Baptist. >> Baptist.
>> Baptist. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> And I got I got my kids baptized in a
>> And I got I got my kids baptized in a Methodist church, but I am a reformed
Methodist church, but I am a reformed >> a reformed Protestant. I don't think I
>> a reformed Protestant. I don't think I said that on the last show or this one.
said that on the last show or this one. So,
So, >> yeah. And I'm 44 and I'm Canadian, Dutch
>> yeah. And I'm 44 and I'm Canadian, Dutch Canadian. And uh I'm a college dropout
Canadian. And uh I'm a college dropout from Concordia University in Montreal.
from Concordia University in Montreal. All right. So, random question. Do you
All right. So, random question. Do you all have a driver's license?
all have a driver's license? >> Yeah, I have.
>> Yeah, I have. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> You don't know?
>> You don't know? >> No.
>> No. >> No. No.
>> No. No. >> Me, too.
>> Me, too. >> No, I don't.
>> No, I don't. >> Okay. That I just throw that in there
>> Okay. That I just throw that in there cuz uh that's one of the different
cuz uh that's one of the different things that that's one of the ways you
things that that's one of the ways you guys differ from girls in the West. Um
guys differ from girls in the West. Um so, if you get your man, you're going to
so, if you get your man, you're going to get your man to drive you around or do
get your man to drive you around or do you guys uh are are you all single?
you guys uh are are you all single? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. You're single, you're not? Yeah,
>> Yeah. You're single, you're not? Yeah, I'm not single.
I'm not single. >> You are and
>> You are and >> taken.
>> taken. >> You're taken. Okay. How long have you
>> You're taken. Okay. How long have you been in a relationship? Uh ship for
been in a relationship? Uh ship for [Music]
[Music] >> two years.
>> two years. >> Okay. Okay. You going to get married?
>> Okay. Okay. You going to get married? You going to have lots of babies?
You going to have lots of babies? >> No,
>> No, not ready.
not ready. >> Not yet.
>> Not yet. >> 10,000 babies. That's that's the the
>> 10,000 babies. That's that's the the order of the day. Um how would Okay, so
order of the day. Um how would Okay, so we're going to start off with the first
we're going to start off with the first questions from the first page like we
questions from the first page like we did last time. There's going to be
did last time. There's going to be people in the audience that never saw
people in the audience that never saw you last time, so it's a repeat for you,
you last time, so it's a repeat for you, uh, you two, but it's it won't be a
uh, you two, but it's it won't be a repeat for everybody. Um, how do you
repeat for everybody. Um, how do you define being single? Does it mean no men
define being single? Does it mean no men at all? You are completely alone if you
at all? You are completely alone if you are single. As in no sex, no kissing, no
are single. As in no sex, no kissing, no dates, no boys. Or does it mean that you
dates, no boys. Or does it mean that you go on dates with different dudes?
Maybe you get intimate or c is it like uh you consider yourself single if
uh you consider yourself single if you're in a situationship and even
you're in a situationship and even though you're taken or not taken? How
though you're taken or not taken? How would you define being single?
would you define being single? I think I choose the letter B.
I think I choose the letter B. >> Letter Yeah. Yeah. So, you just kind of
>> Letter Yeah. Yeah. So, you just kind of play the field.
play the field. >> Yeah. Cuz you know I need to go date on
>> Yeah. Cuz you know I need to go date on somebody else and then getting to know
somebody else and then getting to know each other before I choose one.
each other before I choose one. >> Yeah. No, I get you. That's how I feel
>> Yeah. No, I get you. That's how I feel as well. Yeah. How about you, Talia?
as well. Yeah. How about you, Talia? >> Yes. Same as before. Like I said, uh
>> Yes. Same as before. Like I said, uh being single is like uh for me it's like
being single is like uh for me it's like uh
uh >> dating someone.
>> dating someone. Yeah. They just, you know, it's kind of
Yeah. They just, you know, it's kind of fling.
fling. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Something like that.
>> Yeah. Something like that. >> Yeah. So, you're open. You leave
>> Yeah. So, you're open. You leave yourself open.
yourself open. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. How about you, Bea?
>> Yeah. How about you, Bea? >> Uh, being single is not uh like a
>> Uh, being single is not uh like a romantic relationship.
romantic relationship. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Just uh play the field, maybe date
>> Yeah. Just uh play the field, maybe date more than one guy.
more than one guy. >> No, you know, just
>> No, you know, just >> it's just dating. It's just dinner, you
>> it's just dating. It's just dinner, you know.
know. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Stuff like that. Yeah. You try it out.
>> Stuff like that. Yeah. You try it out. And uh how about you?
>> I know you're taken, but if you were single, would you would you be
single, would you would you be completely alone and that's what you
completely alone and that's what you think single is or would you go on
think single is or would you go on dinner dates and maybe hook up with a
dinner dates and maybe hook up with a guy, maybe have a fling if you like the
guy, maybe have a fling if you like the guy and then maybe go on another date
guy and then maybe go on another date with someone else?
with someone else? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah. Yeah. I think that's see dating
>> Yeah. Yeah. I think that's see dating has changed a lot in the last hundred
has changed a lot in the last hundred years. So that's you know people who are
years. So that's you know people who are single they they often meant you know
single they they often meant you know like in the past they would never dream
like in the past they would never dream of sleeping with somebody. So um
of sleeping with somebody. So um what's the biggest flex for a girl these
what's the biggest flex for a girl these days? What is um what is more um
more ideal? Is it uh starting a family right away or having a career? What is a
right away or having a career? What is a bigger flex?
bigger flex? >> I think having a career first.
>> I think having a career first. >> Yeah. That's not what you said last
>> Yeah. That's not what you said last night.
night. >> But
>> But >> I met her at PM bar. It wasn't at my
>> I met her at PM bar. It wasn't at my house. Relax.
house. Relax. >> But I was young that time, so it was an
>> But I was young that time, so it was an accident, you know.
accident, you know. >> Yeah. But it was a good accident. But
>> Yeah. But it was a good accident. But you are happy that you chose
you are happy that you chose >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> family before.
>> family before. >> Yes. Yes. Before career.
>> Yes. Yes. Before career. >> Yeah. Cuz cuz you can do both, right?
>> Yeah. Cuz cuz you can do both, right? >> Yes. Yes.
>> Yes. Yes. >> Do you think maybe it's easier to have a
>> Do you think maybe it's easier to have a child first and then they grow up a
child first and then they grow up a little bit, then you go to work and have
little bit, then you go to work and have a career?
a career? >> Yeah, it is good.
>> Yeah, it is good. >> It's more optimal. Yes. Yes. Yes.
>> It's more optimal. Yes. Yes. Yes. >> Yeah. How about you, Talia?
>> Yeah. How about you, Talia? >> Um, career, of course, because I'm not
>> Um, career, of course, because I'm not going to put myself uh into making a
going to put myself uh into making a family without
family without uh without a good career, you know.
uh without a good career, you know. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Be
>> Be >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. uh
uh successful career and
successful career and personal happiness and
personal happiness and [Music]
[Music] yeah, financial independence.
yeah, financial independence. >> Okay. And then you think that's a bigger
>> Okay. And then you think that's a bigger flex?
flex? >> Yes, of course.
>> Yes, of course. >> Of course. Oh, she's very passionate
>> Of course. Oh, she's very passionate about that. How about you?
about that. How about you? >> Career first.
>> Career first. >> Career first.
>> Career first. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> You guys are so backwards. You're so
>> You guys are so backwards. You're so backwards in my opinion. But we'll get
backwards in my opinion. But we'll get to that later. Maybe that'll be how I
to that later. Maybe that'll be how I drill you for being late.
Um, all right. Uh, how many siblings do you
all right. Uh, how many siblings do you guys all have? Like, how big is the
guys all have? Like, how big is the family that you come from?
family that you come from? >> Me, we have only three.
>> Me, we have only three. >> Three. Are where do you fit? Like, do
>> Three. Are where do you fit? Like, do you have brothers and sisters? Are you
you have brothers and sisters? Are you the youngest or the oldest or
the youngest or the oldest or >> I'm on the middle. I have older sister
>> I'm on the middle. I have older sister and me and my younger brother.
and me and my younger brother. >> Okay. So, you're the middle child.
>> Okay. So, you're the middle child. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> How about you? I have uh three sisters
>> How about you? I have uh three sisters and I'm the eldest.
and I'm the eldest. >> Okay. Okay. How about you, Beia?
>> Okay. Okay. How about you, Beia? >> Four.
>> Four. >> Four.
>> Four. >> Yeah. Two boys and two girls.
>> Yeah. Two boys and two girls. >> Youngest or the
>> Youngest or the >> youngest? The girls.
>> youngest? The girls. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Oh,
>> Oh, >> let's see. Oh.
>> let's see. Oh. >> Oh. Uh, somebody in the audience says
>> Oh. Uh, somebody in the audience says that they can't hear you very well.
that they can't hear you very well. >> So, I'm going to turn up all your mics.
>> So, I'm going to turn up all your mics. It's gonna you're going to hear the fan
It's gonna you're going to hear the fan a little bit. Christine Christine's my
a little bit. Christine Christine's my little helper. She was on the first
little helper. She was on the first show. So, yeah. And she was the lucky
show. So, yeah. And she was the lucky one that I mentioned to you. Yeah. Yeah.
one that I mentioned to you. Yeah. Yeah. So, um Okay. Okay. Uh
so, now you were married. >> Yeah. When I was 36 years old.
>> Yeah. When I was 36 years old. >> And how did that go?
>> And how did that go? >> Uh what do you mean? How it yet?
>> Uh what do you mean? How it yet? >> Yeah. Like uh are you married now?
>> Yeah. Like uh are you married now? >> No. Yeah, until now I'm still married
>> No. Yeah, until now I'm still married but
but >> Well, there's no separate but are you
>> Well, there's no separate but are you separated?
separated? >> Yeah, I'm separated with him. I'm just
>> Yeah, I'm separated with him. I'm just waiting for my analment paper.
waiting for my analment paper. >> Okay,
>> Okay, I gotcha. How about you?
I gotcha. How about you? >> I'm taking I know.
>> I'm taking I know. >> No,
>> No, >> no. And you But you got kids.
>> no. And you But you got kids. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Okay. How old are your kiddos? Uh 10
>> Okay. How old are your kiddos? Uh 10 years old and four.
years old and four. >> Yeah. And you're how old again?
>> Yeah. And you're how old again? >> 28.
>> 28. >> 28. So you started young, too. That's
>> 28. So you started young, too. That's good.
good. >> When I was 17.
>> When I was 17. >> All right. So you think even though a
>> All right. So you think even though a career is a flex, you still started a
career is a flex, you still started a family first?
family first? >> That's positive.
>> That's positive. >> Now I changed my mind.
>> Now I changed my mind. >> Oh.
>> Oh. Well, you can't put them back.
Well, you can't put them back. Uh and then how about you? Like uh
Uh and then how about you? Like uh you're not married yet.
you're not married yet. >> Not yet.
>> Not yet. >> Not yet. And I forget. Sorry. How old
>> Not yet. And I forget. Sorry. How old are you?
are you? >> 20.
>> 20. >> You're 20. Okay. Okay.
>> You're 20. Okay. Okay. >> Study first. So next
>> Study first. So next >> So next year you get married, right?
>> So next year you get married, right? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Soon. Maybe soon.
>> Soon. Maybe soon. >> All right. And uh so you got married at
>> All right. And uh so you got married at 36. I want to dig into that one a little
36. I want to dig into that one a little bit.
bit. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> So when did you have your first child?
>> So when did you have your first child? You were 19.
You were 19. >> Yeah. I was 19 years old.
>> Yeah. I was 19 years old. >> And your son is how old now?
>> And your son is how old now? >> 24.
>> 24. >> 24.
>> 24. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> And how come you didn't get married
>> And how come you didn't get married before you had your baby?
before you had your baby? >> It's because this was my first
>> It's because this was my first boyfriend.
boyfriend. >> Closer. Yeah.
>> Closer. Yeah. >> Okay. And then uh
>> Okay. And then uh >> and then after that uh I broke up with
>> and then after that uh I broke up with him when he was three
him when he was three old my son and then I worked to other
old my son and then I worked to other country and then I came back here in the
country and then I came back here in the Philippines and then I fall in love with
Philippines and then I fall in love with a Filipino again. So I got married when
a Filipino again. So I got married when I was 36 years old and then after one
I was 36 years old and then after one and a half year I got separated with
and a half year I got separated with him.
him. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> All righty. Uh, do you guys use dating
>> All righty. Uh, do you guys use dating apps and which ones do you use?
>> What do you think actually of dating apps? Before I ask, do you have a bad
apps? Before I ask, do you have a bad opinion of dating apps or a good
opinion of dating apps or a good opinion?
opinion? >> Good opinion.
>> Good opinion. >> Yeah, good opinion.
>> Yeah, good opinion. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Have you had success?
>> Yeah. Have you had success? >> Um, not really. I just, you know, it's
>> Um, not really. I just, you know, it's kind of
kind of >> you enjoy yourself while using. So it's
>> you enjoy yourself while using. So it's so it's more of like a hookup thing and
so it's more of like a hookup thing and then if you want a real relationship you
then if you want a real relationship you meet them in real life.
meet them in real life. >> Yeah. Yeah. Something like
>> Yeah. Yeah. Something like >> Yeah. How do you
>> Yeah. How do you >> Yeah. I did that before on dating apps
>> Yeah. I did that before on dating apps but I forgot the name of dating apps but
but I forgot the name of dating apps but I only watching there what's they're
I only watching there what's they're doing there.
doing there. >> Yeah. You're spying or lurking.
>> Yeah. You're spying or lurking. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I just want to know what hell there.
>> I just want to know what hell there. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> If it's true or not.
>> If it's true or not. >> I got you. And then you look for them on
>> I got you. And then you look for them on Facebook and then you try to see if
Facebook and then you try to see if they're lying on the dating app.
they're lying on the dating app. >> Yeah. cuz I know then I saw them there
>> Yeah. cuz I know then I saw them there are our customer in PM. So I was
are our customer in PM. So I was laughing.
laughing. >> Yeah, there's uh there's a lot of sneaky
>> Yeah, there's uh there's a lot of sneaky things that ladies do like um with AI
things that ladies do like um with AI you can put a picture into AI and you
you can put a picture into AI and you can say how tall is this person really
can say how tall is this person really >> because many people lie on the dating
>> because many people lie on the dating app and they say that they're 6 feet
app and they say that they're 6 feet tall but if you upload the photo to like
tall but if you upload the photo to like chat GBT
chat GBT >> Mhm. And if they're standing next to
>> Mhm. And if they're standing next to something like a sign or a car, they're
something like a sign or a car, they're standing near a tree or something, then
standing near a tree or something, then AI can tell how tall they really are.
AI can tell how tall they really are. >> Oh,
>> Oh, >> yeah. Little things like that. So, it
>> yeah. Little things like that. So, it depends how much depends how much of a
depends how much depends how much of a lurker you are.
lurker you are. >> But, um, yeah. And then, uh, yeah, like
>> But, um, yeah. And then, uh, yeah, like what do you think of dating apps? Do you
what do you think of dating apps? Do you have a good experience or bad?
have a good experience or bad? >> From now, I experience dating app in
>> You're pretty loyal. Okay, that's cool. >> That he will marry me.
>> That he will marry me. >> Okay. Okay. How about you? Nobody will
>> Okay. Okay. How about you? Nobody will know.
know. >> No,
>> No, >> nobody will know.
>> No, >> no.
>> no. >> I I find a a good guy.
>> I I find a a good guy. >> Okay. He could be a good guy. Maybe he
>> Okay. He could be a good guy. Maybe he fall in love with you. And he's like,
fall in love with you. And he's like, "Oh,
"Oh, >> amazing."
>> amazing." >> All right. Now, let's change it around.
>> All right. Now, let's change it around. You've been with a guy. You found the
You've been with a guy. You found the good guy. You found the good guy. You
good guy. You found the good guy. You know he's good. He's really good. You
know he's good. He's really good. You love the guy. You're gonna marry the
love the guy. You're gonna marry the guy. You're engaged.
guy. You're engaged. Life is good. You hardly ever have a bad
Life is good. You hardly ever have a bad fight. And then he says, "Oh, uh, my
fight. And then he says, "Oh, uh, my friend Bob, he's in he's in from out of
friend Bob, he's in he's in from out of town. He come from Canada. He's visiting
town. He come from Canada. He's visiting me right now. Uh, I'm just going to go
me right now. Uh, I'm just going to go out and we're going to go to Tiki Bar
out and we're going to go to Tiki Bar just for one night, you know, hang out
just for one night, you know, hang out at Tiki Bar."
at Tiki Bar." >> Okay. And it's it's ladies night, you
>> Okay. And it's it's ladies night, you know, but he's going to go there with
know, but he's going to go there with his friend because he wants to help his
his friend because he wants to help his friend get, you know, some some some
friend get, you know, some some some pun.
pun. >> And uh would you trust him around all
>> And uh would you trust him around all those women?
those women? >> It's depend on your relationship, you
>> It's depend on your relationship, you know.
know. >> Yeah. But he's the good guy. He's the
>> Yeah. But he's the good guy. He's the one you like.
one you like. >> Yeah,
>> Yeah, >> of course. I will trust I trust the guy.
>> of course. I will trust I trust the guy. Yeah. Because if you know that he's a
Yeah. Because if you know that he's a good man,
good man, >> of course you will.
>> of course you will. >> You will.
>> You will. >> Would you trust the women? No,
>> Would you trust the women? No, >> depends.
>> depends. >> Like the flirty woman, I don't trust
>> Like the flirty woman, I don't trust him.
him. >> I don't trust them, you know. But I
>> I don't trust them, you know. But I trust my guy cuz it's depend on him.
trust my guy cuz it's depend on him. Even the girl was so flirty and then
Even the girl was so flirty and then even she open her panty and all.
even she open her panty and all. >> If the guy doesn't want
>> If the guy doesn't want >> it's not going to happen.
>> it's not going to happen. >> So I trust my guy.
>> So I trust my guy. >> There are limited
>> There are limited >> limitation.
>> limitation. >> Yeah. So you definitely trust the guy,
>> Yeah. So you definitely trust the guy, but you don't trust the women. Yes.
but you don't trust the women. Yes. >> Okay. So, if you don't trust women, why
>> Okay. So, if you don't trust women, why the should men trust women?
>> They don't have they don't have a choice, you know?
choice, you know? >> I think if the man I mean, if the man
>> I think if the man I mean, if the man like women, they should just
like women, they should just >> Yeah. But women are very emotional and
>> Yeah. But women are very emotional and women do initiate like 90% of divorces.
women do initiate like 90% of divorces. >> Mhm. you know, and then they're willing
>> Mhm. you know, and then they're willing to use the kids as as a extortion, you
to use the kids as as a extortion, you know, like we've already been over this
know, like we've already been over this a few times,
a few times, >> but uh yeah, you know, so women I think
>> but uh yeah, you know, so women I think women are very risky these days.
women are very risky these days. >> Yeah. because they initiate so many
>> Yeah. because they initiate so many separations. They I think that because
separations. They I think that because they have so many opportunities,
they have so many opportunities, especially if you live in a tourist zone
especially if you live in a tourist zone like uh Chara,
like uh Chara, you know, if you date a girl from Angela
you know, if you date a girl from Angela City
City >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> she probably has many different secret
>> she probably has many different secret boyfriends and she's going to cheat. I
boyfriends and she's going to cheat. I think women are much more deceptive and
think women are much more deceptive and I think women are better at lying. Do
I think women are better at lying. Do you Do you think women are better at at
you Do you think women are better at at lying?
lying? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. So, so now you know, so back to
>> Yeah. So, so now you know, so back to circle back. I mean, men should probably
circle back. I mean, men should probably not trust women so easy,
not trust women so easy, >> right?
>> right? >> Cuz they have they called white lies and
>> Cuz they have they called white lies and bad lies, you know?
bad lies, you know? >> Yeah. There's white lies and then
>> Yeah. There's white lies and then there's
there's there's there's a difference there.
there's there's a difference there. >> Sometimes white lies not to hurt them
>> Sometimes white lies not to hurt them feelings, you know.
feelings, you know. >> Yeah. So basically roll the story on
>> Yeah. So basically roll the story on that one is that no matter where you go
that one is that no matter where you go in the world, there are certain
in the world, there are certain attributes that are univers uh
attributes that are univers uh universal. It's an AW sandwich.
universal. It's an AW sandwich. Aw, I always say it on every show. It
Aw, I always say it on every show. It means all women are like that, you know.
means all women are like that, you know. So there's certain aspects to femininity
So there's certain aspects to femininity that all women, no matter where you go,
that all women, no matter where you go, you go to Nigeria, you go to Japan, you
you go to Nigeria, you go to Japan, you go to America, you go New Zealand, they
go to America, you go New Zealand, they are all the same in some ways.
are all the same in some ways. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Deceptive,
>> Deceptive, white lies, whatever you want to call
white lies, whatever you want to call it, you know, like just it was
it, you know, like just it was only once, I swear, you know, like
only once, I swear, you know, like whatever. And they never admit to things
whatever. And they never admit to things unless they're caught.
unless they're caught. >> Uhhuh.
>> Uhhuh. >> And in my experience, women
>> And in my experience, women Unless they really up, they never
Unless they really up, they never apologize. They never admit guilt unless
apologize. They never admit guilt unless they like
they like >> Do you get that?
>> Do you get that? >> Like like even if you catch them and you
>> Like like even if you catch them and you catch them by looking at their phone,
catch them by looking at their phone, they're like, "Why were you looking at
they're like, "Why were you looking at my phone?
my phone? >> Why don't you respect me?" And it's
>> Why don't you respect me?" And it's like, "Yeah, but I saw the dickpick."
like, "Yeah, but I saw the dickpick." Yeah. Well, you know, you know, like
Yeah. Well, you know, you know, like they just they argue to the end, you
they just they argue to the end, you know, like you know? So,
know, like you know? So, >> yeah. So yeah, I think if women can't
>> yeah. So yeah, I think if women can't trust women, then men have to be very
trust women, then men have to be very careful, too. Um, how do you feel about
careful, too. Um, how do you feel about um letting your your man know the pin
um letting your your man know the pin code to your phone?
code to your phone? >> Yeah, it means you didn't do anything
>> Yeah, it means you didn't do anything wrong, you know?
wrong, you know? >> Yeah,
>> Yeah, >> you're not cheating.
>> you're not cheating. >> Sometimes it can be complicated though,
>> Sometimes it can be complicated though, like I mean, do you think it should be
like I mean, do you think it should be both ways or one way?
both ways or one way? Well, it's depend on your
Well, it's depend on your >> Yeah, but when women are so deceptive
>> Yeah, but when women are so deceptive and men are less deceptive,
and men are less deceptive, >> I think much better if you agree that
>> I think much better if you agree that both ways, you know.
both ways, you know. >> Yeah. But do you think maybe women
>> Yeah. But do you think maybe women sometimes see things that are
sometimes see things that are but they have their feelings and then
but they have their feelings and then they get mad at the guy for nothing?
they get mad at the guy for nothing? >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Like how do you think a girl if I gave
>> Like how do you think a girl if I gave her my pin code on my phone and she was
her my pin code on my phone and she was able to look at my Facebook messages and
able to look at my Facebook messages and I'm doing casting for a show with women
I'm doing casting for a show with women about dating
about dating >> Mhm. Can you imagine how many arguments
>> Mhm. Can you imagine how many arguments I would have every day with that
I would have every day with that girl?
girl? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Like can you imagine my life would be
>> Like can you imagine my life would be hell?
hell? >> Cuz like I have to flirt with you guys a
>> Cuz like I have to flirt with you guys a little bit to show you I'm not a creo.
little bit to show you I'm not a creo. Like I like Hey.
Like I like Hey. >> Oh yeah.
>> Oh yeah. >> You know I I only take Mand girls to the
>> You know I I only take Mand girls to the show, you know? Like you're you know,
show, you know? Like you're you know, come on. You know,
come on. You know, >> and and then I spend time with you after
>> and and then I spend time with you after the show, too. Like we had dinner the
the show, too. Like we had dinner the other night and like so and I had to go
other night and like so and I had to go to the bar to meet you. And like if I
to the bar to meet you. And like if I have a girlfriend, that's going to be
have a girlfriend, that's going to be very hard if I give her the pin code to
very hard if I give her the pin code to my phone. But if I date a girl, I sure
my phone. But if I date a girl, I sure as expect to get her pin code.
as expect to get her pin code. >> Yeah,
>> Yeah, >> that's fair, right?
>> that's fair, right? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yes, that's true. If you
>> Yes, that's true. If you >> But sometimes code to me, I will give it
>> But sometimes code to me, I will give it to you.
to you. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> But it it shouldn't even be asked. It
>> But it it shouldn't even be asked. It should just be like,
should just be like, >> "Honey, my pin code is this."
>> "Honey, my pin code is this." >> Oh, yeah.
>> Oh, yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Like, like the guy should
>> Yeah. Yeah. Like, like the guy should never have to ask.
never have to ask. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> That's interesting. You see how you see
>> That's interesting. You see how you see how the differences are? Can you imagine
how the differences are? Can you imagine a western girl, Brad? Oh, we got we got
a western girl, Brad? Oh, we got we got we got my other buddy here. We got two
we got my other buddy here. We got two buddies here.
buddies here. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> This is like university for the girls
>> This is like university for the girls wrapped up in 2 hours, not four years.
wrapped up in 2 hours, not four years. Yeah, it's actually 3 hours cuz they
Yeah, it's actually 3 hours cuz they were half an hour late. So, we're going
were half an hour late. So, we're going to go another
to go another half an hour. I'm going to punish them
half an hour. I'm going to punish them an extra 10 minutes and um yeah, it's
an extra 10 minutes and um yeah, it's supposed to be a three-hour show. In the
supposed to be a three-hour show. In the future, when I get more comfortable
future, when I get more comfortable chairs, if anybody wants to super chat
chairs, if anybody wants to super chat me, uh I can maybe buy better chairs in
me, uh I can maybe buy better chairs in the future. And I'm just going to say
the future. And I'm just going to say again, I said it at the beginning of the
again, I said it at the beginning of the show, this may be the last episode for a
show, this may be the last episode for a little while. I'm trying to do it once a
little while. I'm trying to do it once a week. I ran out of budget for my
week. I ran out of budget for my investor. So, um, this could be it for a
investor. So, um, this could be it for a little while. So, if anybody wants a
little while. So, if anybody wants a super chat, I usually drop about 200 US
super chat, I usually drop about 200 US per show out of my own pocket. And I
per show out of my own pocket. And I haven't made a single super chat in my
haven't made a single super chat in my life. So, just putting it out there,
life. So, just putting it out there, Brad. I'm not telling you. I'm saying
Brad. I'm not telling you. I'm saying this because on a future recording or on
this because on a future recording or on a future viewer after this show is
a future viewer after this show is published. I'm really not saying it to
published. I'm really not saying it to you, Brad. I'm not. If anyone watches
you, Brad. I'm not. If anyone watches this show, it's getting cringed now. If
this show, it's getting cringed now. If anybody watches this show in the future,
anybody watches this show in the future, that link at the bottom, uh, pho
that link at the bottom, uh, pho Republic.com/TS,
Republic.com/TS, you can actually do that while I'm not
you can actually do that while I'm not online when I'm not live streaming and
online when I'm not live streaming and I'll still get it and then I can read
I'll still get it and then I can read your chat on the next episode. So, just
your chat on the next episode. So, just like earlier, I had a voicemail from
like earlier, I had a voicemail from somebody, too, on a previous episode.
somebody, too, on a previous episode. All right, let's see what Mike Slayer
All right, let's see what Mike Slayer says. So, so true. These girls are going
says. So, so true. These girls are going to learn more in two. Yeah. Yeah. I
to learn more in two. Yeah. Yeah. I think both of you boys would actually I
think both of you boys would actually I I Brad Brad, do I know you in person?
I Brad Brad, do I know you in person? Have I met you? Um, but I know Mike
Have I met you? Um, but I know Mike Slayer personally, and I think he's a
Slayer personally, and I think he's a great person, and I think you two would
great person, and I think you two would get along on a lot. But, uh, all right,
get along on a lot. But, uh, all right, let's let's keep moving on. Let's keep
let's let's keep moving on. Let's keep moving on. Um,
moving on. Um, okay. We're going to go back on the
okay. We're going to go back on the script.
script. Yeah. So, you guys have met guys on
Yeah. So, you guys have met guys on social media. You've you've kind of
social media. You've you've kind of dated. You had a little moment dating a
dated. You had a little moment dating a guy that you met, whether it was through
guy that you met, whether it was through a dating app or social media. How did it
a dating app or social media. How did it go? Like, what was the
go? Like, what was the how did it go when you met somebody
how did it go when you met somebody online versus when you meet them in real
online versus when you meet them in real life? Like, do you have a better
life? Like, do you have a better connection when you meet them in real
connection when you meet them in real life?
life? That one. I cannot answer that one cuz I
That one. I cannot answer that one cuz I never tried that one. Met online.
never tried that one. Met online. >> Okay. But you never had a guy message
>> Okay. But you never had a guy message you on Facebook and say, "Hey, I want to
you on Facebook and say, "Hey, I want to buy you dinner."
buy you dinner." >> Yeah, they have, but I never entertained
>> Yeah, they have, but I never entertained them.
them. >> Ah, okay. How about you girls? How does
>> Ah, okay. How about you girls? How does it go? Like, do you do you have better
it go? Like, do you do you have better better luck meeting in real life or have
better luck meeting in real life or have you had good luck with dating apps? I
you had good luck with dating apps? I asked you about this earlier, but I'm
asked you about this earlier, but I'm just coming back.
just coming back. >> I think in real life.
>> I think in real life. >> Yeah,
>> Yeah, >> cuz you know it's more like more fun
>> cuz you know it's more like more fun >> to meet that guy in person.
>> to meet that guy in person. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Me, too. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Me, too. Yeah. >> But my husband, I met him online.
>> But my husband, I met him online. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> And then that How long did that
>> And then that How long did that relationship last?
relationship last? >> My husband?
>> My husband? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Like two to three years.
>> Like two to three years. >> Oh.
>> Oh, wrong one. >> Wrong button.
>> That's two farts. All right. There we go.
go. >> And so I think
>> And so I think >> Yeah. Go ahead.
>> Yeah. Go ahead. I just cut somebody off.
I just cut somebody off. >> Talia. Okay. What were you saying?
>> Talia. Okay. What were you saying? >> And I think it's also more um memorable
>> And I think it's also more um memorable for me if you meet that person
for me if you meet that person >> in personal in person also.
>> in personal in person also. >> Yeah. And it's cuz of what I was saying
>> Yeah. And it's cuz of what I was saying before with that scientific study, the
before with that scientific study, the way they smell and all the all that
way they smell and all the all that other stuff too.
other stuff too. >> The invisible factors.
>> The invisible factors. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Uh do you girls take birth control
>> Uh do you girls take birth control supplements? Like any type of pill or
supplements? Like any type of pill or injection?
injection? >> No.
>> No. >> I do.
>> I do. >> You do? No.
>> You do? No. >> Me? Yeah. And it's the injection, right?
>> Me? Yeah. And it's the injection, right? >> Implant.
>> Implant. >> Implant. I already knew that from the
>> Implant. I already knew that from the last show. Yeah. Do you do you think
last show. Yeah. Do you do you think that changes the outcomes, you know, in
that changes the outcomes, you know, in how you act, how you how you emote, how
how you act, how you how you emote, how you feel emotionally? Do you think it
you feel emotionally? Do you think it changes anything?
changes anything? >> Uh
>> Uh side effect
side effect >> uh in my body. It's my spinal cord
>> uh in my body. It's my spinal cord broke. Oh my god. Then my headache and
oh >> and sometimes I get I feel
I feel asleep. >> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> In my side effect of my body. Yeah.
>> In my side effect of my body. Yeah. >> Try to be a little closer to the
>> Try to be a little closer to the microphone.
microphone. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah. It's okay cuz what you hear is
>> Yeah. It's okay cuz what you hear is louder than what they hear.
louder than what they hear. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Uh Okay. Yeah. Like
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Uh Okay. Yeah. Like personally like I I think I said this in
personally like I I think I said this in the other show too. Um what is it like
the other show too. Um what is it like depot something?
depot something? >> IOD like
>> IOD like >> Yeah, but Depo is one of them. And I
>> Yeah, but Depo is one of them. And I remember one of the very first
remember one of the very first iterations of that. It's like a
iterations of that. It's like a threemonth injection or something like
threemonth injection or something like that.
that. >> Yeah. Three months in injectable. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Three months in injectable. Yeah. >> Yeah. That one in the early days of
>> Yeah. That one in the early days of that. So I guess this would be like in
that. So I guess this would be like in the
the early 2000s. Uh, I had a girl be totally
early 2000s. Uh, I had a girl be totally suicidal. Totally suicidal after taking
suicidal. Totally suicidal after taking that.
that. >> So, yeah, like you got to be very
>> So, yeah, like you got to be very careful.
careful. >> Uh, oh, we're getting another one. What
>> Uh, oh, we're getting another one. What island is best for women? Oh, this one's
island is best for women? Oh, this one's tough.
tough. >> And yes, these girls do seem great. Um,
>> And yes, these girls do seem great. Um, Mr. Brad May says that uh, these girls
Mr. Brad May says that uh, these girls seem great. I love their English. And
seem great. I love their English. And then he's asking, "What island is best
then he's asking, "What island is best for women?" Now, we're going to be
for women?" Now, we're going to be taking the show on the road in the
taking the show on the road in the future, and I plan to go everywhere. Um,
future, and I plan to go everywhere. Um, it matters on what you want. If you want
it matters on what you want. If you want dirty dirty and you don't mind sometimes
dirty dirty and you don't mind sometimes paying for it, Angelus City in around
paying for it, Angelus City in around Clark is very good. And Clark is also
Clark is very good. And Clark is also the best airport to use. Um,
the best airport to use. Um, Cebu is good for like easygoing,
Cebu is good for like easygoing, funloving girls. um every girl or every
funloving girls. um every girl or every island, you got to remember there's like
island, you got to remember there's like 7,000 islands and all of those people on
7,000 islands and all of those people on those islands were generally landlocked.
those islands were generally landlocked. They had no need to leave their island.
They had no need to leave their island. So they have multiple generations like
So they have multiple generations like multi-generational families where their
multi-generational families where their basically their gene pool for the island
basically their gene pool for the island varies from one island to another. So
varies from one island to another. So every island has a different gene pool.
every island has a different gene pool. They have a different dialect. They have
They have a different dialect. They have a different look. They have different
a different look. They have different slightly different uh culture slightly
slightly different uh culture slightly slightly different values. Uh some
slightly different values. Uh some islands have more Muslims for instance.
islands have more Muslims for instance. Um but they have a different gene pool
Um but they have a different gene pool which means you're going to get girls
which means you're going to get girls that look different. For me personally,
that look different. For me personally, my wife who I still think is incredibly
my wife who I still think is incredibly mand.
Um, she was from Kagayenda Oro and I think those girls now are gorgeous. I
think those girls now are gorgeous. I think Cebu girls are gorgeous. I think
think Cebu girls are gorgeous. I think Palawan girls are absolutely the ugliest
Palawan girls are absolutely the ugliest women I've ever seen in my life. I think
women I've ever seen in my life. I think that the girls here are very um very
that the girls here are very um very laid-back, very beautiful. Uh, like No,
laid-back, very beautiful. Uh, like No, that's what I got to say. I'm just
that's what I got to say. I'm just with you. Don't worry. Don't
with you. Don't worry. Don't worry. No, but uh generally speaking, uh
worry. No, but uh generally speaking, uh yeah, I think Palawan girls are
yeah, I think Palawan girls are definitely um
definitely um I think that things are more stable here
I think that things are more stable here if you but Palawan has different parts
if you but Palawan has different parts of the island, too. Like if you go to
of the island, too. Like if you go to Puerto Princessa and maybe even Port
Puerto Princessa and maybe even Port Barton, I think you can find a good
Barton, I think you can find a good girl. But if you get a girl in Elnito,
girl. But if you get a girl in Elnito, she's probably not from Elito. She's
she's probably not from Elito. She's probably from somewhere else in the
probably from somewhere else in the country and she's probably ran through.
country and she's probably ran through. So if you want a good girl, you'd get a
So if you want a good girl, you'd get a girl from Puerto or Port Barton. And
girl from Puerto or Port Barton. And then if you want a girl that's ran
then if you want a girl that's ran through but really fun, you'd go to
through but really fun, you'd go to Elito. Just make sure you wrap it. And
Elito. Just make sure you wrap it. And don't drink the water in Puerto either
don't drink the water in Puerto either because they have a or don't drink the
because they have a or don't drink the water in Elito.
water in Elito. >> It's like uh you get the Bali belly
>> It's like uh you get the Bali belly whole thing, you know, like
whole thing, you know, like >> contaminated.
>> contaminated. >> It's very contaminated there. And the
>> It's very contaminated there. And the main part where all the boats are, like
main part where all the boats are, like that little beach.
that little beach. >> Don't go swimming in the beach where all
>> Don't go swimming in the beach where all the boats are and where all the bars are
the boats are and where all the bars are cuz it's where all their goes. Too
cuz it's where all their goes. Too big.
big. Contaminated for rehabil. Yeah.
Contaminated for rehabil. Yeah. >> What would you girls say? Like uh is
>> What would you girls say? Like uh is there any island like like which island?
there any island like like which island? And I know your default is going to be
And I know your default is going to be Paloan. I like Balabak. Balabak.
Paloan. I like Balabak. Balabak. >> Yeah, I've been there.
>> Yeah, I've been there. >> Yeah. And you think the girls are
>> Yeah. And you think the girls are beautiful?
beautiful? Like it's only about the girls. He's
Like it's only about the girls. He's asking only about the girls.
asking only about the girls. >> I just There's no girls there.
>> I just There's no girls there. >> And well, there's some girls in
>> And well, there's some girls in Balabback. I know a lot of guys that
Balabback. I know a lot of guys that live there.
live there. >> Yeah, but
>> Yeah, but >> Muslim part. Oh,
>> Muslim part. Oh, >> okay.
>> okay. >> Oh, I thought I was looking for the
>> Oh, I thought I was looking for the place, you know.
place, you know. >> No, no, he's he's looking for
>> No, no, he's he's looking for >> he's looking for ladies. He's looking
>> he's looking for ladies. He's looking for love.
for love. >> He's looking for ladies. Why don't you
>> He's looking for ladies. Why don't you try uh go to Bangkok?
try uh go to Bangkok? you can find
you can find >> you're in Roy princess.
>> you're in Roy princess. >> Yeah. Yeah. It's a bang where where she
>> Yeah. Yeah. It's a bang where where she lives.
lives. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> And uh she's actually she's going to
>> And uh she's actually she's going to have her social media information. I put
have her social media information. I put it inside the members only community.
it inside the members only community. >> And I do that so she doesn't get a fire
>> And I do that so she doesn't get a fire hose.
hose. >> So that way she can qualify, you know,
>> So that way she can qualify, you know, like she's not going to meet a million
like she's not going to meet a million creepers. She'll just meet one or two,
creepers. She'll just meet one or two, >> you know. But um Yeah. Yeah.
>> you know. But um Yeah. Yeah. >> She belongs to the streets.
>> She belongs to the streets. >> Yeah. So, you know, but her you'll be
>> Yeah. So, you know, but her you'll be able to contact her if you want to. Her
able to contact her if you want to. Her her information is going to be in the
her information is going to be in the members only community. It's like seven
members only community. It's like seven bucks a month. It's not a big deal, but
bucks a month. It's not a big deal, but uh and then you help the show. Maybe I
uh and then you help the show. Maybe I can buy a proper chair or a table. All
can buy a proper chair or a table. All right. Um
right. Um okay, we're coming towards the end. Um
I don't really want to ask you some of these questions cuz I don't give a
these questions cuz I don't give a Um,
Um, yeah.
>> Yeah. Okay. So, would you date a guy that is talking to a lot of different
that is talking to a lot of different girls? Just talking phase as the girls
girls? Just talking phase as the girls say.
say. >> It's okay.
>> It's okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. You guys would?
>> Yeah. You guys would? >> Yeah. Yeah. Because girls is also
>> Yeah. Yeah. Because girls is also talking to
talking to >> too many. Yeah. Just
>> too many. Yeah. Just >> but at the end of the day,
>> but at the end of the day, >> they will just pick one.
>> they will just pick one. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I don't think girls can make a decision.
>> I don't think girls can make a decision. I think girls have to try them all
I think girls have to try them all first.
first. >> Maybe
>> Maybe >> Yeah. But uh Yeah,
>> Yeah. But uh Yeah, >> for me it's okay to me.
>> for me it's okay to me. >> Yeah. How about you?
>> Yeah. How about you? >> It's okay.
>> It's okay. >> Yeah, it's okay.
>> Yeah, it's okay. >> Yeah, that's another answer that varies
>> Yeah, that's another answer that varies from Western girls mostly.
from Western girls mostly. Um,
yeah, that was supposed to be a trap because I was going to compare it to,
because I was going to compare it to, you know, how many times men get
you know, how many times men get rejected? They get rejected a lot. So,
rejected? They get rejected a lot. So, of course, they're going to be talking
of course, they're going to be talking to multiple girls. So, if you would have
to multiple girls. So, if you would have disagreed with that, then I would have
disagreed with that, then I would have jumped down your throat.
jumped down your throat. >> Um, would you date a man if he had
>> Um, would you date a man if he had female friends?
female friends? >> Of course.
>> Of course. >> Yeah. Yeah, you would. Eh, yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah, you would. Eh, yeah. >> Yep.
>> Yep. >> Yeah. I don't see a problem with it. I
>> Yeah. I don't see a problem with it. I think it's different.
think it's different. >> Yeah. But again, a man will not date you
>> Yeah. But again, a man will not date you if you have male friends. Is that double
if you have male friends. Is that double standard? Okay.
standard? Okay. >> Uh, you know, cuz
>> Uh, you know, cuz >> or or if he Okay, so in the beginning of
>> or or if he Okay, so in the beginning of your relationship, you have male
your relationship, you have male friends. He has female friends.
friends. He has female friends. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> And then he eventually says, "You have
>> And then he eventually says, "You have to get rid of your male friends, but I'm
to get rid of your male friends, but I'm keeping my female friends."
keeping my female friends." >> That's not fair.
>> That's not fair. >> It's not fair.
>> It's not fair. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah. You don't think it's fair
>> Yeah. You don't think it's fair >> for me?
>> for me? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> No. No. I'm not judging you. I'm just
>> No. No. I'm not judging you. I'm just asking. Yeah. I mean, I'm I'm not going
asking. Yeah. I mean, I'm I'm not going to rebut that one. I think that's uh
to rebut that one. I think that's uh Give me more more likes. Give me some
Give me more more likes. Give me some likes. I only see one. Unless I'm not
likes. I only see one. Unless I'm not seeing the the clear image. Maybe
seeing the the clear image. Maybe there's more now. But I only see one. I
there's more now. But I only see one. I only I only see one. In the future, I'm
only I only see one. In the future, I'm going to like play beduts until they do
going to like play beduts until they do it. So, like I would do this here. I
it. So, like I would do this here. I just got to flip through my soundboard.
just got to flip through my soundboard. I would do this.
Like somebody has to hit like. [Music]
>> All right, that's enough of that. But uh yeah, normally that's what I'm going to
yeah, normally that's what I'm going to do in the future. It works on Fresh and
do in the future. It works on Fresh and Fit, so if it works for them, it'll work
Fit, so if it works for them, it'll work for me. Um All right. So yeah. So if a
for me. Um All right. So yeah. So if a guy did that, um you wouldn't accept
guy did that, um you wouldn't accept that?
that? No. Well,
No. Well, >> no, no, none of you. You wouldn't take
>> no, no, none of you. You wouldn't take that double standard,
that double standard, >> I think. Why don't you both leave those
>> I think. Why don't you both leave those friend? I mean, the guy will leave the
friend? I mean, the guy will leave the >> leave her her friend,
>> leave her her friend, >> his friend. And the woman will leave her
>> his friend. And the woman will leave her friends also.
friends also. >> No.
>> No. >> And you can just
>> And you can just >> Yeah. What if Yeah. What if
>> Yeah. What if Yeah. What if >> What if like um what if there's
>> What if like um what if there's something else to it? like um like if a
something else to it? like um like if a woman has a male friend, I mean, she
woman has a male friend, I mean, she shouldn't be confiding anything about
shouldn't be confiding anything about their marriage to that other man because
their marriage to that other man because there's a chance that you could do
there's a chance that you could do reputational damage to your man, right?
reputational damage to your man, right? So, you can't talk about your man to
So, you can't talk about your man to your male friend. So, that cuts out a
your male friend. So, that cuts out a big chunk of what you would talk about.
big chunk of what you would talk about. So, now you already have less purpose
So, now you already have less purpose for that other man. And then there's a
for that other man. And then there's a lot of other things. The guy doesn't
lot of other things. The guy doesn't like it. So, that's that's another
like it. So, that's that's another negative. Mhm.
negative. Mhm. >> Um, that other guy is probably trying to
>> Um, that other guy is probably trying to you. And because you're emotional,
you. And because you're emotional, it just takes one argument with your man
it just takes one argument with your man and a little bit of alcohol and you
and a little bit of alcohol and you might find yourself in a situation where
might find yourself in a situation where you end up cheating and now you've
you end up cheating and now you've killed your relationship.
killed your relationship. And if you do kill your relationship, it
And if you do kill your relationship, it will haunt you whether or not you wanted
will haunt you whether or not you wanted to or not. You'll feel guilty or
to or not. You'll feel guilty or whatever, but you'll start having
whatever, but you'll start having arguments with your man and it'll fall
arguments with your man and it'll fall apart. Now, if a guy has a chick friend,
apart. Now, if a guy has a chick friend, yeah, she might want to him. You
yeah, she might want to him. You know, if she's real like ratchet and
know, if she's real like ratchet and she's like like a banshee, she's like a
she's like like a banshee, she's like a barb, you know, dirty girl, then yeah, I
barb, you know, dirty girl, then yeah, I fully respect a woman's wish to get rid
fully respect a woman's wish to get rid of that. Um, but if it's like um, you
of that. Um, but if it's like um, you know, like another situation where, you
know, like another situation where, you know, maybe maybe they've got some sort
know, maybe maybe they've got some sort of past thing or maybe he has like
of past thing or maybe he has like reasons for knowing her, like
reasons for knowing her, like networking. Like for instance, for me um
networking. Like for instance, for me um when I was married, I would have never
when I was married, I would have never to get married in that would marry a
to get married in that would marry a foreigner that is not a member. Like you
foreigner that is not a member. Like you have to normally be a member of the
have to normally be a member of the church to get married there. Uh I
church to get married there. Uh I wouldn't have found my first nanny. I
wouldn't have found my first nanny. I wouldn't have found my first cleaning
wouldn't have found my first cleaning lady unless I made friends with girls at
lady unless I made friends with girls at Hibiscus.
Hibiscus. And if my wife was jealous, then I
And if my wife was jealous, then I wouldn't have been able to do that. And
wouldn't have been able to do that. And then I wouldn't have had all these
then I wouldn't have had all these things that made my life improved. So
things that made my life improved. So sometimes men just need to network,
sometimes men just need to network, >> you know. Mhm.
>> you know. Mhm. >> Um, but I don't see any value in a woman
>> Um, but I don't see any value in a woman having a male friend
having a male friend >> once you're married. I also would say
>> once you're married. I also would say that you'd have to cut out your most
that you'd have to cut out your most ratchet single friends, too. I think we
ratchet single friends, too. I think we talked about that one last time, too. Or
talked about that one last time, too. Or if you've got really ratchet single
if you've got really ratchet single friends,
friends, >> cuz they're always going to talk
>> cuz they're always going to talk about your man
about your man >> and they're always going to try to put
>> and they're always going to try to put you in a situation where it destroys
you in a situation where it destroys your relationship because they want you
your relationship because they want you to be single just like them.
to be single just like them. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Cuz misery loves company. So I think a
>> Cuz misery loves company. So I think a guy has the full right you know like and
guy has the full right you know like and then it goes down to like you know like
then it goes down to like you know like last time with you guys I asked about
last time with you guys I asked about you know like should a wife obey the man
you know like should a wife obey the man you know in situations where you know I
you know in situations where you know I already know that you guys would say
already know that you guys would say well if we talk about it first and then
well if we talk about it first and then I would say yeah but what if he doesn't
I would say yeah but what if he doesn't want to talk about it cuz he doesn't
want to talk about it cuz he doesn't feel the need to explain himself to you
feel the need to explain himself to you all the time and he just says no
all the time and he just says no honey on this one I'm making an
honey on this one I'm making an executive decision would you obey your
executive decision would you obey your man you
man you Um,
Um, >> no.
>> no. >> Yeah, I know. I don't want to go down
>> Yeah, I know. I don't want to go down that rabbit hole because we're short for
that rabbit hole because we're short for time, but uh, in the end, you know, I
time, but uh, in the end, you know, I usually I'm pretty good at arm wrestling
usually I'm pretty good at arm wrestling you into agreeing with me. Um,
yeah, a lot of these questions are already asked. Uh,
already asked. Uh, [Music]
[Music] yeah.
Would you give one man 50 chances or 50 men one chance? This is the cool down
men one chance? This is the cool down period. It's going to get a slightly
period. It's going to get a slightly little less interesting. I'm wrapping it
little less interesting. I'm wrapping it up. We're winding down now. So, um would
up. We're winding down now. So, um would you give one man
you give one man uh would would you give one man 50
uh would would you give one man 50 chances uh you know if they make a
chances uh you know if they make a mistake or would you give 50 men one
mistake or would you give 50 men one chance?
chance? >> I choose the number one.
>> I choose the number one. >> You give one man 50 chances.
>> You give one man 50 chances. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. How about you?
How about you? It basically means like, are you willing
It basically means like, are you willing to let a guy make more than one mistake?
>> Would you give one guy 50 chances before you dump him?
you dump him? >> No. I think just a few chances, not
>> No. I think just a few chances, not >> more like 50.
>> more like 50. >> Yeah, cuz
>> Yeah, cuz >> it's kind of metaphorical. It's like not
>> it's kind of metaphorical. It's like not literally, oh, 50, you know, like on a
literally, oh, 50, you know, like on a weekend, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Uh yeah,
weekend, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Uh yeah, >> but uh you know or would you just like
>> but uh you know or would you just like date different guys and if they up
date different guys and if they up once they're out next, you know, like
once they're out next, you know, like very impatient?
very impatient? >> No, I will give a chance.
>> No, I will give a chance. >> One man, multiple chances.
>> One man, multiple chances. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> And that's for everybody.
>> And that's for everybody. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> All right, we're we're getting there.
>> All right, we're we're getting there. I'm going to hold you guys for another
I'm going to hold you guys for another 10 to 15 minutes.
10 to 15 minutes. >> Um how often do or did you have serious
>> Um how often do or did you have serious arguments with your man?
arguments with your man? me before. Yeah, we fight always.
me before. Yeah, we fight always. >> Huh?
>> Huh? >> Who who would start the argument? Like,
>> Who who would start the argument? Like, are you kind of argumentative a little
are you kind of argumentative a little bit?
bit? >> Um, no. He's the one who start the
>> Um, no. He's the one who start the argument cuz I was asking something. I'm
argument cuz I was asking something. I'm not going to ask if I never saw
not going to ask if I never saw something on his phone, you know.
something on his phone, you know. >> Yeah. Okay. So, so you were kind of like
>> Yeah. Okay. So, so you were kind of like digging into him a little bit and he
digging into him a little bit and he didn't like it.
didn't like it. >> Yeah. And he doesn't want it. Why you
>> Yeah. And he doesn't want it. Why you don't want me to know it? Now I know why
don't want me to know it? Now I know why you're hiding something.
you're hiding something. >> No, it doesn't mean you're hiding
>> No, it doesn't mean you're hiding something. It just means no, that's none
something. It just means no, that's none of your business. It's kind of like what
of your business. It's kind of like what I said earlier about the pin code.
I said earlier about the pin code. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> The man can have the pin code of the
>> The man can have the pin code of the girl, but the girl doesn't have to have
girl, but the girl doesn't have to have the pin code of the man cuz the man
the pin code of the man cuz the man doesn't need to explain anything.
doesn't need to explain anything. >> But my attitude only I I'm going to ask
>> But my attitude only I I'm going to ask if I saw something example uh on his
if I saw something example uh on his phone. I saw some message that pop up.
phone. I saw some message that pop up. Hello babe.
Hello babe. >> I'm going to start, you know, to ask
>> I'm going to start, you know, to ask that. And
that. And >> I'm trying to ask you if you're going to
>> I'm trying to ask you if you're going to admit or not.
admit or not. >> If you're not going to admit, so I'll
>> If you're not going to admit, so I'll forgive you. And then next time again,
forgive you. And then next time again, >> I'll forgive you. And then if you keep
>> I'll forgive you. And then if you keep trying to arguing with me
trying to arguing with me >> that I know already that you are
>> that I know already that you are cheating with me, that's the person that
cheating with me, that's the person that going to argue.
going to argue. >> All right, I'm going to make it a little
>> All right, I'm going to make it a little bit more interesting. I'm going to pull
bit more interesting. I'm going to pull out of the cool down period for a
out of the cool down period for a minute. If um let's follow that. So,
minute. If um let's follow that. So, let's say that you get really upset.
let's say that you get really upset. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> And you start yelling and screaming and
>> And you start yelling and screaming and you start smashing dishes. You know, you
you start smashing dishes. You know, you start to get like crazy
start to get like crazy >> and you're acting very bad. And then and
>> and you're acting very bad. And then and then the neighbors can hear you.
then the neighbors can hear you. >> So now you're embarrassing your man, you
>> So now you're embarrassing your man, you know, and you're maybe causing
know, and you're maybe causing reputation damage because he, you know,
reputation damage because he, you know, generally people think it's the man's
generally people think it's the man's fault when something goes wrong.
fault when something goes wrong. >> Mhm. you know,
>> Mhm. you know, and you know, you smash the dishes, you
and you know, you smash the dishes, you cause all this trouble, and then just to
cause all this trouble, and then just to stop it, he tries to he tries to reason
stop it, he tries to he tries to reason with you. He tries to say, "Calm down.
with you. He tries to say, "Calm down. That's enough. Calm down. Calm down."
That's enough. Calm down. Calm down." And you don't. He slaps you. What do you
And you don't. He slaps you. What do you do? Right in the face. Not hard, but
do? Right in the face. Not hard, but enough to scare you. What do you do? Do
enough to scare you. What do you do? Do you report him?
you report him? >> No.
>> No. >> No.
>> No. >> I'm going to cry only cuz he slapped me.
>> I'm going to cry only cuz he slapped me. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah. I mean, if it happens a lot,
>> Yeah. I mean, if it happens a lot, that's really bad. and then he should be
that's really bad. and then he should be reported cuz that's abuse. If it happens
reported cuz that's abuse. If it happens all the time, that's disgusting and no
all the time, that's disgusting and no man should do that to a woman. I just
man should do that to a woman. I just want to be clear.
want to be clear. >> Yeah. You know,
>> Yeah. You know, >> I'm not going to.
>> I'm not going to. >> But in a rare moment and you're acting
>> But in a rare moment and you're acting really bad.
really bad. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> So, you wouldn't report him and do a
>> So, you wouldn't report him and do a voc.
voc. >> No, I'm not going to report him cuz at
>> No, I'm not going to report him cuz at the end of the day, it's all my mistake.
the end of the day, it's all my mistake. And then you're going to regret
And then you're going to regret everything.
everything. >> Yeah. And then you blow up the
>> Yeah. And then you blow up the relationship.
relationship. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> How about you?
>> How about you? >> I already know your answer, but unless
>> I already know your answer, but unless maybe it'll change this time. But I
maybe it'll change this time. But I don't know.
don't know. >> I think No.
>> I think No. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I I think No.
>> I I think No. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Because there's a reason why he's slap
>> Because there's a reason why he's slap you.
you. >> Yeah. Yeah. And And if it's after
>> Yeah. Yeah. And And if it's after everything I just said, like you're
everything I just said, like you're smashing dishes and you're acting crazy
smashing dishes and you're acting crazy and
and >> you're also hurting his reputation.
>> you're also hurting his reputation. Because sometimes like
Because sometimes like >> like a woman is born automatically she's
>> like a woman is born automatically she's attractive, she can have babies, she has
attractive, she can have babies, she has value.
value. >> But a man, it takes his entire life to
>> But a man, it takes his entire life to build his reputation. M
build his reputation. M >> and in one moment his girl if he has a
>> and in one moment his girl if he has a shitty girl she can just take away his
shitty girl she can just take away his reputation and destroy it in one second.
reputation and destroy it in one second. Happens all the time to celebrities and
Happens all the time to celebrities and everybody else too. Men in general. So
everybody else too. Men in general. So yeah they can destroy it. So yeah so
yeah they can destroy it. So yeah so he's taking a risk by doing that but
he's taking a risk by doing that but yeah you would you know like I think
yeah you would you know like I think Annie said uh on the first show that she
Annie said uh on the first show that she would try to deescalate. I think that
would try to deescalate. I think that was Annie.
was Annie. I don't know. Uh you weren't there
I don't know. Uh you weren't there anyway. But um yeah how would you react?
anyway. But um yeah how would you react? Would you report if it's a rare
Would you report if it's a rare occurrence? I don't report him but I
occurrence? I don't report him but I will say
will say >> blackmail
>> blackmail that.
that. >> Yeah, but I I don't uh
>> Yeah, but I I don't uh >> I will say that don't do that again
>> I will say that don't do that again >> because if you don't if you really
>> because if you don't if you really that again
that again >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> you will sleep at the jail.
>> you will sleep at the jail. >> Yeah. How about you, Belle? This is
>> Yeah. How about you, Belle? This is Belle, by the way, Brad. Um, he's asking
Belle, by the way, Brad. Um, he's asking about you. So, how would you react if uh
about you. So, how would you react if uh if it was a very rare thing, you had an
if it was a very rare thing, you had an absolute freak out and then he slapped
absolute freak out and then he slapped you? What would you do?
you? What would you do? >> Go.
>> Go. >> Yeah. Don't interrupt. Give her Give her
>> Yeah. Don't interrupt. Give her Give her the the respect. How would you react?
the the respect. How would you react? >> I'm mad. But
>> I'm mad. But >> yeah, but would you call the police or
>> yeah, but would you call the police or the bang?
the bang? >> Yeah. If like what Shabsu said,
>> Yeah. If like what Shabsu said, >> she do it again.
>> she do it again. >> Yeah. Then then that's a pattern.
>> Yeah. Then then that's a pattern. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> That's a bad pattern. Yeah. I agree. If
>> That's a bad pattern. Yeah. I agree. If it gets abusive.
it gets abusive. >> Yeah. All right. Now,
>> Yeah. All right. Now, it is requested that you tell us a
it is requested that you tell us a little story. So,
little story. So, um I'm going to try to think of a way to
um I'm going to try to think of a way to get that to happen. Um,
oh, Yeah. Um, yeah. I don't know. I had some other stuff. I I He wants to
I had some other stuff. I I He wants to hear you talk, but I don't want to do it
hear you talk, but I don't want to do it for no reason.
for no reason. >> It has to still benefit the rest.
>> It has to still benefit the rest. >> Why me?
>> Why me? >> Oh, there's You know, I told you on one
>> Oh, there's You know, I told you on one of the other episodes, one of the girls
of the other episodes, one of the girls got a sugar daddy. He wished her a happy
got a sugar daddy. He wished her a happy birthday and he gave her some
birthday and he gave her some >> date.
>> date. >> So, you know, I'm not saying that's
>> So, you know, I'm not saying that's going to happen now at all. Um,
going to happen now at all. Um, [Music]
have you ever gone on a date just to get a free meal?
No. >> No.
>> No. >> Would you though?
>> Would you though? >> I don't think it's so bad personally. I
>> I don't think it's so bad personally. I mean,
mean, >> but it always happened.
>> but it always happened. >> Yeah, it's going to happen sometime
>> Yeah, it's going to happen sometime because you're not going to have the
because you're not going to have the chemistry, right?
chemistry, right? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Um I Yeah, these are all short answers.
>> Um I Yeah, these are all short answers. I got to think of a question with a
I got to think of a question with a longer answer.
longer answer. >> Um
>> Um >> Okay. Do you think I mean, and this is
>> Okay. Do you think I mean, and this is still kind of a yes or no, but I'm going
still kind of a yes or no, but I'm going to ask you why, and then it'll be longer
to ask you why, and then it'll be longer than a yes or no. Um, if you see a guy
than a yes or no. Um, if you see a guy that's my age, he's at the bar, and he's
that's my age, he's at the bar, and he's surrounded by women that are your age,
surrounded by women that are your age, do you think that looks weird?
do you think that looks weird? >> I'm 44 and and you're 20.
>> I'm 44 and and you're 20. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Do you think that's the weird?
>> Do you think that's the weird? >> I I think no.
>> I I think no. >> You're not going to insult me. Like, you
>> You're not going to insult me. Like, you can tell the truth.
can tell the truth. >> No.
>> No. >> No. You don't think it's weird? Now,
>> No. You don't think it's weird? Now, what do you think if you see a woman
what do you think if you see a woman who's 44?
who's 44? cover your ears.
cover your ears. And and and she's surrounded by
And and and she's surrounded by 20-year-old men. Do you think that's a
20-year-old men. Do you think that's a little worse or do you think it's equal?
little worse or do you think it's equal? >> Yeah.
I think it's okay. It's okay. Yeah. Okay. So, I'm trying to get out of talk,
Okay. So, I'm trying to get out of talk, Brad. I'm trying to I was I was going to
Brad. I'm trying to I was I was going to ask you to elaborate on it.
ask you to elaborate on it. >> Sorry.
>> Sorry. >> That's okay.
>> That's okay. >> Tell me a story. So, tell me about uh
>> Tell me a story. So, tell me about uh about your school. Just Just talk for
about your school. Just Just talk for like two minutes. Give me Give me two
like two minutes. Give me Give me two minutes. Tell me a story. I know I'm
minutes. Tell me a story. I know I'm putting you on the spot. I don't mean
putting you on the spot. I don't mean to.
to. >> Tell me about uh tell me about the
>> Tell me about uh tell me about the things that you really like about your
things that you really like about your man. There you go. And you can say
man. There you go. And you can say something really nice and positive.
something really nice and positive. >> I don't like anymore.
>> I don't like anymore. >> Why do you like him? Why did you choose
>> Why do you like him? Why did you choose him?
>> Yeah, he's a gentleman. >> Yes. Yes. Of course. Efforts.
>> Yes. Yes. Of course. Efforts. Then
Then you know just like what I've said
you know just like what I've said religious
religious then
then >> time. Yes.
>> time. Yes. >> Quality.
>> Quality. >> Quality time.
>> Quality time. Love language. Yes.
Love language. Yes. That is my love language.
That is my love language. Physical touch.
Physical touch. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So like like like what kind of stuff do
>> So like like like what kind of stuff do you guys do together? Do you like cook?
you guys do together? Do you like cook? Do you watch movies? Like like what are
Do you watch movies? Like like what are what are your favorite activities?
what are your favorite activities? >> Movie marathon.
>> Movie marathon. >> Yeah. Movie marathon.
>> Yeah. Movie marathon. >> Netflix and chill.
>> Netflix and chill. >> Good trip. Food trip.
>> Good trip. Food trip. >> Yeah. And how long were you with him
>> Yeah. And how long were you with him again? H
again? H >> how long are you together?
four months. >> Okay. Okay. So, you're still fresh?
>> Okay. Okay. So, you're still fresh? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Still new. All right.
>> Still new. All right. >> There you go, Brad. You got a story and
>> There you go, Brad. You got a story and you got to hear how she speaks. She does
you got to hear how she speaks. She does speak more fluently, though. I just
speak more fluently, though. I just think she's shy. So, she's speaking in
think she's shy. So, she's speaking in little spurts.
little spurts. >> So, that's what I've noticed about you
>> So, that's what I've noticed about you cuz I heard you you gabbing away
cuz I heard you you gabbing away earlier. So, you're a little shy. It's
earlier. So, you're a little shy. It's okay. It's endearing. I think it's cute.
okay. It's endearing. I think it's cute. >> All right. Well, that wraps that one up,
>> All right. Well, that wraps that one up, but I'm not letting you guys off the
but I'm not letting you guys off the hook yet.
hook yet. I want five more minutes. Five more
I want five more minutes. Five more minutes and then we'll wrap it up. Um,
if you were to date a foreigner, what concerns would you have? Some examples
concerns would you have? Some examples of that could be culture, language,
of that could be culture, language, motives. Are they fetishizing you?
motives. Are they fetishizing you? They're only you because you're
They're only you because you're Asian and they have a Asian thing, you
Asian and they have a Asian thing, you know? Uh, would you worry about the size
know? Uh, would you worry about the size of their
of their or whether or not they want kids. Like
or whether or not they want kids. Like if you want kids and they don't or if
if you want kids and they don't or if they don't and you do or whatever,
they don't and you do or whatever, whatever. Like what kind of concerns
whatever. Like what kind of concerns would you have if
would you have if >> motives? Their motives.
>> motives? Their motives. >> Their motives. Yeah. Like if they're
>> Their motives. Yeah. Like if they're going to rob you.
going to rob you. >> We don't know it. They're going to use
>> We don't know it. They're going to use you only for boom boom, right?
you only for boom boom, right? >> Yeah. I know. And that's the one thing
>> Yeah. I know. And that's the one thing you always worry about. I don't want
you always worry about. I don't want boom boom.
boom boom. >> It's because you know
>> It's because you know >> No, I get you.
>> No, I get you. >> If you want boom boom to the person that
>> If you want boom boom to the person that you like.
you like. >> Yeah. Oh, we get that.
>> Yeah. Oh, we get that. >> And then also to remember to um to
>> And then also to remember to um to circle back to um something that she
circle back to um something that she said earlier, if you're just tuning in
said earlier, if you're just tuning in now, uh she mentioned that she would be
now, uh she mentioned that she would be okay with her man
okay with her man getting boom boom elsewhere as long as
getting boom boom elsewhere as long as he was open with her about it, she would
he was open with her about it, she would be okay with that. So, she's not
be okay with that. So, she's not necessarily uh, you know, she she
necessarily uh, you know, she she doesn't have all the prowess in the
doesn't have all the prowess in the bedroom, but she she gives good back
bedroom, but she she gives good back rubs and she won't mind if you go and,
rubs and she won't mind if you go and, you know, water someone else's flower.
you know, water someone else's flower. So, that's an interesting that's an
So, that's an interesting that's an interesting
interesting >> I did this before.
>> I did this before. >> Yeah. No, you did it before. So, um, how
>> Yeah. No, you did it before. So, um, how about you? What What concerns would you
about you? What What concerns would you have dating a foreigner? Like, what
have dating a foreigner? Like, what would you worry about the most?
would you worry about the most? I think
I think I'm not really
>> I think if he just want to have sex with >> Yeah. Or Yeah. Because most
>> Yeah. Or Yeah. Because most >> I think it's okay for me like
>> I think it's okay for me like >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. cuz I know that most of the
>> Yeah. cuz I know that most of the foreigners like sex.
foreigners like sex. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yep. They do. It's very true.
>> Yep. They do. It's very true. >> I mean, I also think too though like uh
>> I mean, I also think too though like uh cuz you said that that foreigners are
cuz you said that that foreigners are more masculine,
more masculine, >> right?
>> right? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> And with masculinity comes a higher
>> And with masculinity comes a higher testosterone.
testosterone. >> And with a higher testosterone,
>> And with a higher testosterone, um you know, comes more sex. But also, I
um you know, comes more sex. But also, I mean, I speak for myself, but I do think
mean, I speak for myself, but I do think that a lot of men are like this, where
that a lot of men are like this, where you talked about love language earlier.
you talked about love language earlier. You mentioned that. Um, a man can really
You mentioned that. Um, a man can really tell the temperature of his relationship
tell the temperature of his relationship with his woman based on how she
with his woman based on how she because if she's mad at him, he can tell
because if she's mad at him, he can tell because there's involuntary things that
because there's involuntary things that happen during sex. You can tell if she's
happen during sex. You can tell if she's still really into him.
still really into him. three orgasms every time you bang, but
three orgasms every time you bang, but then suddenly she's
then suddenly she's rigid and she's just not into it. Like
rigid and she's just not into it. Like you can just like, you know what I mean?
you can just like, you know what I mean? You can just tell she just lies there.
You can just tell she just lies there. You know, that's that's our love
You know, that's that's our love language.
language. >> So, I think that when you're getting
>> So, I think that when you're getting that combination of more masculinity,
that combination of more masculinity, higher testosterone,
higher testosterone, and all the other qualities, the the
and all the other qualities, the the benefits of a foreigner, um I think that
benefits of a foreigner, um I think that sex is going to be a major part of that.
sex is going to be a major part of that. And if you're not putting out, you know,
And if you're not putting out, you know, we we've already established that men
we we've already established that men are the prize. You all agreed with me on
are the prize. You all agreed with me on that. You all agreed with me that you
that. You all agreed with me that you date up, men date down. You've already
date up, men date down. You've already agreed with me on a lot of those things
agreed with me on a lot of those things that, you know, if a man doesn't
that, you know, if a man doesn't embarrass you,
embarrass you, if a man cheats on you, I personally
if a man cheats on you, I personally think that, you know, and I'm not
think that, you know, and I'm not encouraging it and I'm not endorsing it,
encouraging it and I'm not endorsing it, okay? But for your own well-being, for
okay? But for your own well-being, for your own future, for your own happiness,
your own future, for your own happiness, all your bills are paid, your life is
all your bills are paid, your life is good, he's good. And if he cheats on
good, he's good. And if he cheats on you, you know, with a pretty young
you, you know, with a pretty young things that he might not he might not
things that he might not he might not even remember her name, you know,
even remember her name, you know, because men don't cheat with their heart
because men don't cheat with their heart like you do.
like you do. >> You're not going to lose the guy.
>> You're not going to lose the guy. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So, if you turn a blind eye and you just
>> So, if you turn a blind eye and you just let it go.
let it go. >> Yeah. instead of nuking the entire
>> Yeah. instead of nuking the entire relationship and then losing everything,
relationship and then losing everything, you know? I mean, if he does it all the
you know? I mean, if he does it all the time, then that's too much. But, I mean,
time, then that's too much. But, I mean, like, if it's like once, like very rare.
like, if it's like once, like very rare. And and you don't even know for sure
And and you don't even know for sure because if he's not embarrassing you,
because if he's not embarrassing you, then you shouldn't even know.
then you shouldn't even know. >> But if you ever suspect it just, you
>> But if you ever suspect it just, you know, or or another thing girls do is
know, or or another thing girls do is they lie and they say that, "Oh, I think
they lie and they say that, "Oh, I think I saw your guy with some other girl."
I saw your guy with some other girl." And you know, like he's usually a single
And you know, like he's usually a single friend, you know, one of those ones
friend, you know, one of those ones that's going to,
that's going to, >> you know, try to up your
>> you know, try to up your relationship.
relationship. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> You know, that's why men also hate
>> You know, that's why men also hate single friends.
single friends. >> But, um, yeah. Would you let a guy would
>> But, um, yeah. Would you let a guy would you forgive him if if he just did it
you forgive him if if he just did it once, cheated on you once, but he was
once, cheated on you once, but he was like
like >> masculine, paid all the bills, took care
>> masculine, paid all the bills, took care of you, and he loved you. Really loved
of you, and he loved you. Really loved you. Would you turn a blind eye if he
you. Would you turn a blind eye if he cheated on you once?
cheated on you once? No. Eh. Yeah. That's see that's that's
No. Eh. Yeah. That's see that's that's one of those Tik Tok brain things I
one of those Tik Tok brain things I think because I think that women in the
think because I think that women in the past past generations including your
past past generations including your your own parents I think that they would
your own parents I think that they would turn a blind eye because
turn a blind eye because it's a lot of work to maintain a sexual
it's a lot of work to maintain a sexual relationship and as you can see here
relationship and as you can see here women start to lose that when they get
women start to lose that when they get older right
older right >> and
>> and why would you want to like basically
why would you want to like basically give your house key away to the next
give your house key away to the next girl you're just you're you know it's
girl you're just you're you know it's like here you Oh, side girl. You can
like here you Oh, side girl. You can have you can be the main girl now. You
have you can be the main girl now. You know, like why would you want to is that
know, like why would you want to is that what she deserves? Like why would you
what she deserves? Like why would you let her win? You know what I mean? So
let her win? You know what I mean? So like that's
like that's >> I mean it's different though. Like
>> I mean it's different though. Like on the flip side of that, you know, I've
on the flip side of that, you know, I've heard stories of Filipino men where
heard stories of Filipino men where they're broke
they're broke and they cheat.
and they cheat. I think, you know, I think anyone that
I think, you know, I think anyone that is broke, doesn't matter whether you're
is broke, doesn't matter whether you're Filipino or foreigner or whatever, if
Filipino or foreigner or whatever, if you're
you're you're an idiot and you should break up
you're an idiot and you should break up with that guy. But if he's given you a
with that guy. But if he's given you a home, he built a house, you know, he did
home, he built a house, you know, he did all these like expensive things for you
all these like expensive things for you and he he clearly loves you, he knows
and he he clearly loves you, he knows how to cook your favorite meal,
how to cook your favorite meal, >> if he has one moment, I just And
>> if he has one moment, I just And especially if you have kids, too,
especially if you have kids, too, >> would you really destroy everything just
>> would you really destroy everything just because you want revenge? Because I
because you want revenge? Because I think a lot of girls do that for
think a lot of girls do that for revenge.
revenge. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> You know, and they So, I don't know. I
>> You know, and they So, I don't know. I just Yeah. I guess on that note, we'll
just Yeah. I guess on that note, we'll wrap it up. I'll check the chat if
wrap it up. I'll check the chat if there's any more questions. That is a
there's any more questions. That is a wrap. Uh again, just want to let
wrap. Uh again, just want to let everybody know that the link on the
everybody know that the link on the bottom of the screen, it will work if
bottom of the screen, it will work if we're not live streaming as well. So, if
we're not live streaming as well. So, if you want to make a donation for the
you want to make a donation for the channel, this may be the last episode
channel, this may be the last episode for a little while because I don't have
for a little while because I don't have enough budget to pay the girls anymore.
enough budget to pay the girls anymore. And uh let's be real, you know, I'm not
And uh let's be real, you know, I'm not going to come to the developing world
going to come to the developing world and ask to take the, you know, 4 to 5
and ask to take the, you know, 4 to 5 hours of these girls time and then not
hours of these girls time and then not pay them. I think that would be very
pay them. I think that would be very rude of me. So, if you want to help a
rude of me. So, if you want to help a brother out, I've already put in
brother out, I've already put in thousands and thousands of dollars into
thousands and thousands of dollars into this. I've taken out loans for this. So,
this. I've taken out loans for this. So, if you want to help a brother out,
if you want to help a brother out, please uh consider dropping a super chat
please uh consider dropping a super chat or making a donation after the fact.
or making a donation after the fact. There's links in the description. And uh
There's links in the description. And uh I guess did you guys have any final
I guess did you guys have any final words? I wanted to ask you actually
words? I wanted to ask you actually before we go.
before we go. What did you think about being on the
What did you think about being on the show? And you guys have been on the show
show? And you guys have been on the show before, so I'm going to ask you last.
before, so I'm going to ask you last. What did you think, Belle, of coming on
What did you think, Belle, of coming on the show before you came on? Were you
the show before you came on? Were you nervous?
nervous? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah. And then how do you feel about it
>> Yeah. And then how do you feel about it now? And and what advice would you give
now? And and what advice would you give other girls that are thinking about
other girls that are thinking about coming on the show, but they're not
coming on the show, but they're not sure.
sure. >> Don't be shy.
>> Don't be shy. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Show you what you are.
>> Show you what you are. >> Like, did you have fun?
>> Like, did you have fun? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah. Did you like the cinnamon bun? I
>> Yeah. Did you like the cinnamon bun? I saw you nibbling on one.
saw you nibbling on one. >> But it was a good time, right? And and
>> But it was a good time, right? And and what do you think of the girls that are
what do you think of the girls that are on the show? Like, you think they're
on the show? Like, you think they're pretty cool, too? Yeah. Yeah. Except
pretty cool, too? Yeah. Yeah. Except this one. You
this one. You >> No, that's cool. And and and what would
>> No, that's cool. And and and what would you say, Joy, to anybody else that's
you say, Joy, to anybody else that's thinking about it? They're on the fence.
thinking about it? They're on the fence. They're not sure.
They're not sure. >> It's re it's really fun to have to have
>> It's re it's really fun to have to have here.
here. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> It's really enjoying
>> It's really enjoying >> and yeah, we're meeting a new friends.
>> and yeah, we're meeting a new friends. [Music]
[Music] >> Yeah. Their show that they were on. Um
>> Yeah. Their show that they were on. Um >> they Yeah, they they made friends with
>> they Yeah, they they made friends with >> And this show is really a good advantage
>> And this show is really a good advantage if you want to make if you want to meet
if you want to make if you want to meet other other guy outside of your country.
other other guy outside of your country. >> Yes. Yeah.
>> Yes. Yeah. >> Yeah. Cuz one girl got a sugar daddy.
>> Yeah. Cuz one girl got a sugar daddy. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. For her birthday. Members only
>> Yeah. For her birthday. Members only community. Gentlemen, if you want to
community. Gentlemen, if you want to contact these ladies, that's how you do
contact these ladies, that's how you do it. Link in the description. And I guess
it. Link in the description. And I guess um any last words? You guys want to say
um any last words? You guys want to say any last thing?
any last thing? >> Last word.
>> Last word. >> Before I hit the button.
>> Before I hit the button. >> Okay. Thank you, viewers.
>> Okay. Thank you, viewers. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah, that was nice. Enjoy.
>> Yeah, that was nice. Enjoy. >> Thank you for watching us.
>> Thank you for watching us. >> 74 people came through, so that was
>> 74 people came through, so that was pretty cool. That's It's not bad.
pretty cool. That's It's not bad. >> It's only our second live stream.
>> It's only our second live stream. And we only had one technical difficulty
And we only had one technical difficulty this time. So that's good. All right.
this time. So that's good. All right. Thank you very much for watching. My
Thank you very much for watching. My name is Mike Fluke. Keep watching the
name is Mike Fluke. Keep watching the Fer Republic and stay tuned for the next
Fer Republic and stay tuned for the next one. Hopefully with any luck, we'll have
one. Hopefully with any luck, we'll have one next Tuesday again. So we stream
one next Tuesday again. So we stream 11:00 p.m. Eastern time on Tuesdays
11:00 p.m. Eastern time on Tuesdays right now and as we get more support, we
right now and as we get more support, we can do more episodes. Thank you very
can do more episodes. Thank you very much for watching. I'll see you in the
much for watching. I'll see you in the next one. Thank
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