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Una Sesion de Psicoterapia Gestalt con Fritz Perls 3 [Subtitulado Español] | guerozone | YouTubeToText
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This content explores the dynamics of emotional avoidance and the struggle to express vulnerability, highlighting how individuals often mask their true feelings with aggression or a facade of indifference to avoid perceived judgment and rejection.
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H well I don't feel I've got a right
when I don't like somebody or I disagree
what somebody's doing if if I should
respect them if they're above me they're
Superior to me I don't feel I've got a
right to really really tell you how mad
I am at this that's that's
garbage you're not JY JY you're getting
picked into your safe Corner that's the
way it feels that's what the safe Corner
feels like to me now go back to your
safe Corner because we have to part very
soon you stay your safe caller you came
out for a moment you nearly met me could
get a little bit angry with me now go
back to your safety I feel like you're
telling me the only way you respect me
as a human being if I'm aggressive and
forceful and strong yeah I feel like you
couldn't even accept my I'd be scared to
death to cry in front of you I feel like
you'd laugh at me and call me a phony I
feel like you don't accept my weak side
only when I'm yelling back at you or
hollering at
you you must be cry in my presence
well I wouldn't even give you the
satisfaction see this again no see this
again I try not to I try not to cry in
front of you or show my weak spot for
fear You' jump on me again are you
really that your eyes are moist I'm
aware that I feel more chokey yes I feel
me pretend but not for real why not for
me well because I don't hate you that
much no you want to choke my tears B you
want me to choke you so you wouldn't
cry I'd like to if I'd like to choke you
it would be to make you cry I'd like to
see you
vulnerable what would do this do for
you make me feel like I'm I have more of
a right to be hurt and you wouldn't jump
on me so quick would you jump on me if I
would cry no mm- but I would jump on you
if you would
cry you're sure of
this no I'm not sure of it
uhhuh what would what would you like me
cry I was you're smiling you're smiling
something off well because I got two
feelings I was going to say I want you
to I want you to love me and hug me but
then I thought no I don't want to what's
your objection I'd be scared to be too
close to
you now we're getting somewhere first
you want to be close to me now you're
afraid to be too close to me this what
I'm saying but that's right now we got
the two PS of your existence but they're
two different feelings close I mean
emotionally but not
physically but you've got the two PS of
your existence now either far away in a
corner or be so close that you get melt
person and apparently you travel between
extremes I do you know what I'm thinking
when I am really hurt and really uh
upset about something and I want someone
to love me like my girlfriend will do it
a lot and she'll come up to hug me I
don't I don't want it exactly
see that's what I'm talking about
contact okay this is
garbage but are you afraid if you were
too close to your girlfriend if you let
her hug you um the only thing I'm aware
of is like when I perspire It
embarrasses me that should feel how wet
I am and it should hold my body up close
and I don't know just are you aware of
your facial expression that kind of
disgust com me yes I am do this more please
please it's
it's
icky it's just icky I can just feel what
it is I don't like it can you say this
icky no
no what's your difficulty cuz I feel
like if you really believe me that would
hurt your
feelings oh you mustn't hurt my
feelings well I thought I was so
indifferent as you see before that no
nothing could touch
now you suddenly discovered a way to
touch me isn't
it will you know what I believe I
believe you're the type of person sort
of like me that you act like it wouldn't
hurt your feelings but it really would
you act strong but you're you're soft
too I think your feelings could be hurt
sure but I don't think you'd show it very
very
easy what would I
do how would I conceal my feelings by
turning it back on me by saying now what
did you get from that Gloria you turn
the whole thing back on me instead of
showing how hurt you were now can you
see this to Fritz how did you what did
you get out of this Fritz see this to
what you get out of what what you just
sentence sure I know what you'd get out
of it if I said what did you get out of
this FR you'd
say no nothing it didn't bother me it
was you that did it you still wouldn't
let me know you were hurt but I know
what it would be if you told your true
feelings that you didn't want to show
your hurt so you covered it up same way
with me in the corner now if I were hurt
me you would be you wouldn't be so
Superior to me you'd be more vulnerable
and I could pacify you and make you feel
better you could hug me yes and I could
be the baby
yes yes
I'd like that you'd feel more On My
Level I wouldn't have to feel so dumb
with you and the other way around you
would have to be my
baby she would cry you would like to
play the baby and be comforted and huged
and the poor thing well I like that
too but I tell you something I think we
came to a nice closure I think we came
to a little bit of
understanding I think we finish this
right uh the demonstration was in my
opinion uh quite successful and
consistent with my theoretical
Outlook the avoidance of the genuine
encounter manifested itself in three
ways the patient was first taken control
by putting on a smiling sophisticated
phony mask of oscillating between a
pretense of being frightened and yet at
the same time having me figured out thus
being or believing to be fully in
control of the situation
situation
secondly she was
withdrawing by fantasizing of hiding in a
a corner
corner
thirdly she was blocking the real
Encounter of melting through crying
which then would have been the real
emotional meaning of this
meeting the patient was capable of
identifying herself with several
fantasies she had projected onto me she
was this was especially evident with
regard to her initial denial for a need
to be
respected the need for environmental
support started to come out besides her
need to get respected
it was verbalized in a wish to be cared
for rescued from the
corner and so on I broke off the session
when the first tears begin to appear she
began to play the role of the Lonely
child and apparently wanted to be hugged
and comforted but here too the
assimilation of her projection began to
work and she began to experience holding
baby if apart
from assisting her assimilating her in
some projections the main theraputic
Factor was to show her the inconsistency
of her verbal and non-verbal behavior
for instance saying that she was
frightened and smiling at the same time
a frightened person does not
smile where I feared was in the
direction of her
embarrassment and this embarrassment was
protected by her raess and anger to get
to existence existential embarrassment
we would have to work through and
eliminate the phoniness that is the ease
with which we can superficially assume
any role that is required for a specific
situation this pseudo adaptation is her
way of coping with life this is about
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