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The central theme is that God allows women to experience "breaking" – pain, loss, and hardship – not to destroy them, but as a purposeful process of transformation to prepare them for a greater calling and to be used mightily.
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God breaks the woman he wants to use.
What if the pain you're trying to pray
away is actually the preparation God is
using to shape the woman he's called you
to be? In this video, we'll reveal six
powerful lifealtering reasons why God
doesn't break you to destroy you, but to
transform you. He's not crushing you
because you're weak. He's breaking you
because you're chosen. The pain you're
walking through, it's not pointless.
It's purposeful. This video is about to
show you that your breaking is not your
ending. It's your anointing in disguise.
Let's uncover the six divine reasons why
God breaks the woman he plans to use for
something greater than she ever
imagined. Let's begin.
Reason one, God breaks her to remove
false identity. There comes a time in
every woman's life when God in his
sovereign wisdom begins to peel back the
layers of identity she's been clothed
in. Some sewn on by society, others
wrapped around her by trauma, by
tradition, by titles, by relationships
that never saw her, only used her. And
when God has his hand on a woman, when
he's chosen her for something greater
than she ever imagined, he will often
allow her to be broken in the very area
she thought defined her. This is not the
breaking of cruelty but of compassion.
It is not the strike of punishment but
the scalpel of purpose. It is the divine
disruption of everything false so that
what is true can rise.
Somewhere along the way she started to
believe she was only as valuable as her
relationship status.
Somewhere along the way, the echo of her
father's silence, the sting of her
mother's criticism, or the betrayal of
those she trusted became the brush
strokes that painted a distorted
portrait of who she thought she was. And
God, being a master artist, will break
the canvas to restore the original
image. You see, when a woman clings to a
title, wife, mother, CEO, survivor, God
may allow that title to be shaken,
removed, or even destroyed, not to shame
her, but to liberate her. Because if the
title is her identity, then her faith
rests on sand. And the God who loves her
too much to let her build on broken
foundations will shake what can be
shaken so that only what is unshakable
remains. That's why you'll see a woman
lose everything. Her marriage crumbles.
Her job is terminated. Her body changes.
Her children grow distant. And in that
painful unraveling, she finally meets
the woman she never had time to become.
That is not coincidence. That is
calling. That is God allowing the
unraveling of the costume to reveal the character.
character.
The Apostle Paul reminds us in 2
Corinthians 5:17 that if anyone is in
Christ, she is a new creature. The old
has passed away. Behold, all things have
become new. You cannot become new while
clinging to the old. Sometimes the old
must be broken so the new can be born.
And do you remember Gideon?
Judges 6 tells us Gideon was hiding in
fear, calling himself the least in his
family, unqualified and insignificant.
But God called him mighty warrior. And
that's what God does. He will rename you
in the middle of your self-doubt. He
will call you healed while you're still
bleeding. He will call you chosen while
you still feel overlooked. Because he
doesn't speak to your situation, he
speaks to your purpose. Like peeling
dead bark from a tree to reveal the life
beneath. God will peel back the lies,
the labels, the layers. Until you stand
bare and brave before him, not as who
the world said you were, but as the
daughter he knew before you were formed
in your mother's womb. And in that
moment of holy breaking, your true
Reason two, God breaks her to crush
self-reliance. If God is going to use a
woman mightily, he must first teach her
to stop depending on her might. Some
women don't even realize how much
they've been leaning on their own
strength. She's the one with the backup
plan, the vision board, the checklist,
the contingency budget. She's the one
who always knows how to fix it, always
knows what to say, always has a
resource, always has a remedy. But then
comes a season where none of it works.
The doors don't open. The favor dries
up. The plans crumble. The people she
counted on are gone. The strategies
fail. And it feels like the bottom has
fallen out of her life. But this is not
the devil's doing. This is God's divine
strategy. He's not trying to destroy
her. He's teaching her to lean.
Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in the Lord
with all your heart and lean not on your
own understanding. In all your ways
acknowledge him and he shall direct your
paths. Now that sounds beautiful on a
bumper sticker, but living it living it
will break you. Because to truly trust
God means you can't trust you. It means
your intelligence, your giftings, your
experience, your reputation, your bank
account, they all take a backseat. It
means surrender not just in speech but
in strategy. And Paul says in 2
Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is
sufficient for you, for my power is made
perfect in weakness."
Catch that. His power is not made
perfect in your perfection, your hustle,
or your 5-year plan. It is made perfect
when you are at the end of you, at the
end of strength, at the end of options,
at the end of control. It's like a woman
who's learned to walk with a crutch
after years of injury. The crutch has
become part of her rhythm. She's learned
to depend on it. But then the great
physician steps in and says, "No more."
He takes the crutch, not to punish her,
but because he's ready to heal her, and
it hurts. It's unfamiliar. But as she
learns to walk without it, something in
her begins to strengthen. Muscles she
didn't even know she had start firing
again. Faith she didn't even know she
needed begins to awaken. That's what God
does. He removes the things we lean on
so we learn to lean on him. He breaks
the illusion that we're in control so he
can sit on the throne of our hearts.
Because if we don't need him, we'll
never seek him. And if we never seek
him, we'll never know the fullness of
what he designed us to carry.
Sometimes the only way he can introduce
you to your true strength is to break
your false strength. Sometimes before he
gives you a supernatural assignment, he
has to remove your natural support. Not
because he's cruel, because he's calling
you deeper. So don't curse the breaking.
Bless it. Don't resist the wilderness.
Walk it. Because in that lonely,
stripped down place where the applause
is gone and the plans have failed,
that's where your dependence becomes
your deliverance. That's where God
becomes not just your provider, but your
plan. Not just your father, but your
foundation. Not just your redeemer, but
your reliance.
And when that kind of woman rises, no
longer leaning on her own wisdom, no
longer defined by her role, no longer
driven by fear, that woman cannot be
manipulated. That woman cannot be
bought. That woman cannot be intimidated
because she's been broken. And in the
breaking, she's been made whole.
Reason three, God breaks her to awaken
hidden oil. God does not waste pain. He
repurposes it. When God breaks the woman
he wants to use, it is not to empty her
of value. It is to press her until the
oil flows. She may not know it, but
there is an anointing inside of her that
can only be released through pressure.
There is revelation locked in her
suffering. There is power wrapped in her
pain, and there is wisdom sleeping
beneath her wounds. So when God allows
her to walk through the fire, the
betrayal, the heartbreak, the isolation,
it is not to consume her. It is to
extract what he planted long ago.
Because oil never flows from whole
olives. It only flows when the olive is
crushed. This woman has survived battles
nobody saw. She cried in silence. She
wiped tears in the bathroom mirror, then
walked out smiling so no one would ask.
She endured seasons where she was being
pressed from every side emotionally,
mentally, spiritually, and yet she kept
showing up. But what she didn't realize
is that heaven was collecting every
tear. God wasn't ignoring the pain. He
was distilling it into oil. Her
disappointment was not just a moment. It
was a mechanism. God was using what hurt
her to heal others through her. He was
allowing the press to unlock a deeper
grace, a deeper patience, a deeper
sensitivity to the suffering of others.
She's not just a survivor. She's a
vessel. And what's being poured from her
now didn't come from comfort. It came
from crushing. In 2 Kings 4, the widow
came to Elisha with nothing but a small
jar of oil. She was at the edge. Her
sons were about to be taken. But Elisha
told her, "Go borrow vessels, not a few,
and pour out. As long as she kept
pouring, the oil kept flowing." And
that's what God is doing with this
woman. He's taken the little bit left in
her, the broken strength, the leftover
faith, the weary prayer life, and he's
saying, "Start pouring." Because the oil
inside her multiplies in the pouring.
The anointing is awakened through
obedience. Not when she feels full, but
when she feels empty and pours anyway.
The pain was never purposeless. Her
silent suffering became the seed of her
ministry. Her darkest night became the
oil of her testimony. And like the
alabaster jar in the Gospels, God
allowed her to be broken, not to waste
her essence, but to release it. The room
didn't smell like her worship until the
jar was broken. The anointing that
blesses others doesn't pour until what
contains it is shattered. That's why
Psalm 23:5 says, "You anoint my head
with oil, my cup overflows." God fills
her until she overflows. But it begins
with the press. In real life, the
pressing looks like laying on the
bathroom floor saying, "God, I don't
have anything left." It looks like
waking up to another unanswered prayer
and still choosing to say, "Though you
slay me, yet will I trust you." It looks
like taking care of everybody else while
nobody sees how empty she feels. And
yet, that's when the oil flows. That's
when God says, "Now I can use you."
Because now she's not ministering from
talent. She's ministering from
testimony. She's not loving from
comfort. She's loving from compassion.
She's not praying because it's cute.
She's praying because it's necessary.
The oil has been awakened. So if she's
in the press, she needs to know God is
not killing her. He's anointing her.
He's drawing out of her the oil that
will break yolks. The wisdom that will
shift atmospheres, the empathy that will
heal generations. And when the oil
flows, so does purpose. So does
provision. So does power. It was always
in her. She just had to be pressed to
discover it.
Reason four, God breaks her to teach her
the voice of God.
The woman God wants to use cannot afford
to live her life guided by noise. She
must learn how to discern the whisper.
And so God breaks her not just to humble
her, not just to strip her pride, not
just to release her oil, but to teach
her how to hear him. Because the call
that's on her life requires clarity. And
clarity doesn't come in comfort. It
comes in the wilderness. That's why
Hosea 2:14 says, "I will lead her into
the wilderness and speak tenderly to her
there. It is in the silence, in the
solitude, in the sacred space of
brokenness that she finally learns to hear."
hear."
Before the breaking, she was too busy.
Her schedule was packed. Her mind was
noisy. Her heart was distracted. She
prayed, but not to listen. She prayed to
move on. She studied but not to be
transformed. She studied to perform but
then the breaking came and suddenly
everything she once relied on is gone.
The friends stop calling. The
opportunities dry up. The comfort
disappears. And there in that holy
quiet, God speaks. Not with thunder, not
with fire, but with a whisper. And for
the first time, she hears. This is
exactly what happened with Samuel in 1st
Samuel 3. The word of the Lord was rare
in those days. People weren't hearing
God. But one night, as the boy lay near
the ark of God, God called his name, Samuel.
Samuel.
And it wasn't until Samuel said, "Speak,
Lord, for your servant is listening,"
that the conversation began. You see,
God is always speaking, but he waits for
a listening posture. That's what the
breaking does. It shifts her posture
from control to receptivity. Real life
breaking teaches her the value of God's
voice. It sounds like this. Before the
heartbreak, she didn't seek God unless
she needed something. Now she doesn't
move without a word from him. Before the
loss, she prayed out of ritual. Now she
prays because it's her lifeline. Before
the confusion, she followed her
instincts. Now she follows his voice.
The breaking shuts off the static. It
silences the crowd. It removes the
distractions so she can hear her father.
Like tuning an old radio, the signal of
God's voice requires adjustment. You
don't just turn it on, you have to tune
in. You have to turn down the volume of
fear, insecurity, and people pleasing.
You have to cut off the opinions of
others and the noise of culture. God
will allow the disruption, not to
disorient her, but to align her because
what's coming next in her life will
require intimacy. And you cannot walk in
divine assignment if you are deaf to
divine instruction. And let me say this,
once she learns his voice, she is no
longer easily manipulated. Once she
hears clearly from heaven, no devil in
hell can deceive her. The voice of God
becomes her compass. His whisper becomes
her weapon. His word becomes her anchor.
And the next time the enemy comes with
confusion, she'll say, "I don't need
your opinion. I've already heard from
God." So to the woman who's wondering
why everything feels silent right now,
don't panic. God isn't absent. He's
present in a new way. He's pulling you
close. He's teaching you to recognize
his tone, his rhythm, his spirit.
Because in this next season, he doesn't
want you to be impressed. He wants you
to be instructed. He doesn't want you
led by emotions. He wants you led by
revelation. And that level of
discernment doesn't come in the noise.
It comes in the breaking.
The woman who learns to hear God in the
wilderness becomes unstoppable in the
world because now she doesn't need
confirmation from people. She walks in
conviction. Now she doesn't second
guessess every step. She moves in
alignment. And now because she's broken,
she's tuned. And tuned women don't waste
time. Tuned women don't beg for
validation. Tuned women don't settle.
They hear God and they move. They speak
and heaven backs them. They walk and
strongholds fall. Reason five, God
breaks her to birth a ministry. There is
no such thing as a ministry without a
wound. God does not birth divine
assignments from comfort. He births them
from contractions. And when he breaks
the woman he wants to use, he does so
because something inside her must come
forth. Not just ideas, not just
ambitions, but ministry. You see,
ministry isn't something she signs up
for. It's something she survives. And
after she survives it, God gives her a
microphone. Not always in her hand, but
in her life. Her scars begin to speak.
Her pain becomes her pulpit. Her story
becomes her sermon. Her breakdown
becomes someone else's breakthrough.
This is the woman who used to cry
herself to sleep because of depression.
But now, after God walked her through
the valley, she has compassion that
medicine can't give and wisdom that
school can't teach. She becomes a
counselor not because she read the books
but because she lived the pages. This is
the woman who buried her child and
thought her life ended with that grave.
But now she stands with broken mothers
and whispers, "You will survive this
too." She no longer speaks from theory.
She speaks from testimony. What tried to
destroy her became the very door through
which her ministry was born.
Genesis 50:20 declares, "You meant evil
against me, but God meant it for good to
save many lives." That was Joseph's
declaration, but it's also her destiny.
Because God has a way of using the
enemy's worst attack to produce heaven's
greatest assignment. What the devil
meant to bury her in shame, God turns
into a calling that lifts others out of
it. And 2 Corinthians 1:4 makes it plain.
plain.
He comforts us in all our afflictions so
that we can comfort others with the same
comfort we received. Ministry is not
performance. It's transfer. It's giving
away what you fought to receive. And
don't you know by now her most painful
season was not a prison. It was a
delivery room. Every contraction had a
purpose. Every wave of pain pushed
something out of her spirit. The tears
weren't wasted. They were watering the
seed of purpose. Her heartbreak was
heaven's announcement. Something is
being born in you that this world needs.
That's why she couldn't quit. That's why
she couldn't die. Because what she
carried was bigger than her pain. And
when the ministry is finally born, when
she starts teaching, writing,
encouraging, serving, counseling, people
won't always know the cost. They'll
admire the strength, but never see the
suffering. They'll praise the oil, but
never know the crushing. But that's okay
because she knows God didn't break me
randomly. He birthed something eternal
through my earthly pain. And every time
she opens her mouth to speak life, every
time she lays hands and prays healing,
every time she hugs someone who's
breaking the way she once did, heaven
smiles. Because the ministry wasn't
built on her talent, it was built on her testimony.
testimony.
Reason six, God breaks her to rebuild
her in power. But hear me, God does not
leave a broken woman lying in pieces. He
is not a God who wounds and walks away.
He is the healer, the restorer, the
builder. And when he allows her to be
broken, he does so because he already
has a blueprint in mind. He knows
exactly how to rebuild her. Not as she
was, but as she was always meant to be.
Stronger, wiser, bolder, more anointed,
more discerning, unshakable. She will
not be rebuilt to impress. She will be
rebuilt to impact.
The woman God rebuilds no longer finds
her confidence in the crowd. She no
longer defines herself by who accepts
her. She no longer trembles at the
thought of rejection because she has
already been accepted by God. The old
her fell apart when people walked away.
The new her says, "If God is for me, who
can be against me?" The old her needed
constant validation. The new her moves
in revelation. The old her questioned
her worth. The new her declares, "I am
fearfully and wonderfully made." Psalm
147:3 says, "He heals the brokenhearted
and binds up their wounds." That means
God doesn't just put a bandage over her
soul. He stitches her with grace. He
doesn't just patch her together. He
breathes into her again. He gives her
new language, new vision, new authority.
Isaiah 6:14 declares, "They will rebuild
the ancient ruins and restore the places
long devastated." That's not just a
prophecy for a city. That's a word for
her. Her ruins will be rebuilt. Her
devastated places will be restored. Her
life will not end in fragments. It will
end in fullness. Think of a house
rebuilt after a storm. The structure may
be gone, but the foundation remains. And
if the foundation is Christ, what's
rebuilt will be stronger than what was
lost. That's what God does with her. He
rebuilds her in power. Power that is not
loud but effective. Power that doesn't
panic. Power that doesn't need to prove
itself. Power that just walks in the
room and changes it. Real life. This is
the woman who used to let insecurity
silence her. Now she's leading. Now
she's writing. Now she's mentoring young
women who look like who she used to be.
This is the woman who used to break down
when life shifted. Now she holds peace
like a weapon because God didn't just
put her back together. He redefined her.
And now when storms come, she doesn't
run. She rises because she knows if God
allowed the breaking, it means the
rebuilding is going to be glorious. The
breaking you've experienced, the
isolation you've walked through, the
pressing you've endured, the silence
you've lived with, the tears you've
cried in secret, they all have purpose.
Every single piece of it. God doesn't
break to destroy. He breaks to bless. He
breaks to build. He breaks to birth. He
breaks to awaken. And every woman God
has ever used, he has broken first. Not
because she was weak, but because she
was chosen to carry something strong.
Amen. So to every woman watching this
right now, if you've ever wondered, why
did God allow that season? Why did he
let them walk away? Why did he leave me
in the fire so long? Now you know. It
wasn't punishment. It was preparation.
You were not being dismantled. You were
being divinely designed. You weren't
just breaking. You were becoming.
Becoming who God saw before the world
touched you. Becoming who he predestined
before pain ever marked you. If this
word has ministered to you today, I want
you to comment below. I'm being rebuilt
in power. Let the world know that your
story doesn't end in pieces. It ends in
purpose. You've been broken, but now you
are being used. And what God is building
in you will bless generations.
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