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How to let go & move on from someone u really loved?
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In this video, I'm going to tell you
exactly how to stop missing a man that
you think you love so much. I'm going to
give you effective explanation of what
to do and how to help yourself. But
before we start this video, I just want
to show you the flower that I just got
delivered. I'm literally screaming. I'm
like the happiest girl in the world
right now, like guys. And the reason why
I'm showing you this because this is
literally the proof that if one man
didn't, another always would. Girl, my
slapping mother taught me every mixed
man is better than your previous one.
It's a rule. If we really get to the
bottom of this, okay, the real question
is why are you obsessing over someone
and miss someone who does not miss you?
No, respectfully, why? If the person
clearly showed you, I am not choosing
you, why are you keep choosing that
person? Any healthy person with a
healthy self-esteem and healthy mental
health will look at that person and be
like, "Okay, thank you so much for
telling me that information, but I want
to be with someone who wants to be with
me." And the other side is going to be
like, "Wait, what? You're not mad?" No,
babe. I'm not mad. Thank you for telling
me that you're not choosing me, which
saves my time so I can go and be with
someone who wants me, who values me, who
sees me as their partner. Thank you for
letting me go. Bye. Why are you crying
and obsessed with someone who is not
obsessed with you, who doesn't even care
about you? If you are that person who's
giving yourself to someone who doesn't
understand your value and doesn't know
how to treat you, one day you will wake
up and you will start questioning your
worth. To recognize that you are
birking, you have to put yourself in a
room where luxury is understood and
appreciated and does not need any
explanation. Do you understand? Do you
get where I'm going with that? If they
are trying to lose you, let them. Babe,
I know it hurts. I really know how it
hurts. I've been there. It hurts so much
when someone you care about does not
choose you. It is so painful. But please
open your ears and listen to me
carefully. In any relationship that you
enter, I want you to be the best
possible woman you can be. Kind, loving,
and genuine. Stop listening to every
single person who's telling you be
distant. Act cold. Play with men. Shut
up. Be genuine. Be kind. Be loving. Be a
real woman. A woman that this world
needs and lacking. Never become bitter.
Never treat people out of your pain.
Never regret your kindness. If you ever
think, "Oh, I should have never been so
nice to him. I should have never treated
him with so much kindness and care." No.
because you were literally the best
thing that ever happened to him, the
best woman that he ever had. So, he
either will come back to you when he
realizes that he's not able to replace
you, or it's God protecting you from the
person who couldn't even recognize how
valuable and amazing you are. And both
of these outcomes are amazing. But
whenever you were the best woman you
could be, it's never your loss when the
person leaves you. But you were
literally amazing in the relationship.
You were a great woman. You didn't lose
anything. They did. Just imagine.
Imagine becoming a woman that truly
feels and knows her worth. Her worth is
not her beauty, not her looks, not her
bags, not her clothes. She knows that
any man that will take care of her will
be taken care of even more. Every man
that makes her happy will be even
happier. She treats her men with
respect, kindness, and love. She creates
such a safe place for her men where he
feels like she is home. Imagine becoming
that kind of woman. Now think how rare
this is in the world that we're living.
If this man didn't, another 100% would.
If you are that woman, every smart man
will want that woman next to them. They
will fight for you. I had a situation in
my life where I literally met a guy
where I thought this is it. This is all
I ever wanted. He checked all the boxes.
We became super close in such short
period of time. I experienced the most
beautiful connection in my life with him
where I literally felt like I I met my
soulmate. We got close so fast, but it
was very organic. It was never forced. 3
weeks later, everything is going
amazing. 3 weeks later, I get a call. My
love, I adore you, but I'm so
overwhelmed with my problems with my
work. Unfortunately, we met in a wrong
time. We should slow down. And
basically, his let's slow down was let's
stop talking. After that moment, I
didn't hear from a man. It was so
painful. You have no idea. I was in bed
for a couple of weeks. In such a short
period of time, I experienced such a
painful heartbreak. I will never tell
you, be strong. Be independent.
them. these guys. I'm a human. I'm
alive. I feel the pain, too. And
sometimes I'm weak, too. But my weakness
doesn't make me weak. It makes me
vulnerable. And vulnerability is
beautiful. Your heart is alive. You are
alive. As long as you feel something,
you are alive. So, he disappeared. Okay.
I stopped hearing from him after hearing
every single day. Good morning, my love.
How are you, love? I miss you. And then
just silence. Wow. It was
painful. After that moment, I didn't
text him, too. In the relationship, it
has to go both ways. If you take one
step towards me, I take one step towards
you. If you pull back and I attack you
with the messages, like, that's just not
my way of living. When a man disappears,
I don't focus on him. I focus on me and
I ask myself what is it that I'm
feeling? What is it that I am
experiencing? How am I doing? Because
these are the moments when you need
yourself the most. And instead of
picking on yourself and trying to figure
out what's wrong with you and what did
you do wrong, you have to support
yourself as much as you can. I'm here
for you. I'm not letting you down. He
left, but I'm not leaving you. I'm here
for you, babe. I love you. You are my
biggest love. So when they don't
appreciate your presence, let them
appreciate your absence then. But
please, please promise me that you're
not going to question your worth.
Especially when you didn't do anything
wrong. You did not do anything wrong to
a man. He just decided for his own
personal reasons or whatever the hell
he's going through that you cannot be
his priority right now and you deserve
to be someone else's priority. So it's
okay, but it has nothing to do with you.
So when something like that happens, you
break up with something and you're
trying to forget someone, you're trying
to move on, you understand that you will
never be with that person ever again,
you are letting him go, babe. No
contact. There's no other solution.
There's no other way to let him go and
heal, but no contact. If you keep
reaching out, if you're texting him, if
you're calling him, it will never heal.
Not talking to him will hurt like hell,
but I promise it's the most effective
way to move on with your life. So the
first week after that happened to me
with that guy, I was literally in bed. I
didn't want to get out of my house. I
was getting into a mini depression and
nothing could distract me. I would talk
to my friends. I would go to the gym. I
would still feel the pain and think
about the person so much. But these are
the moments where I turn to God even
more. I was in bed. I would literally
open my prayers book and I would pray
nonstop. I would literally set a timer
for 10 to 15 minutes and I would repeat
a prayer, the same prayer for 10 to 15
minutes non-stop, just like a mantra.
And I don't know how it works. I have no
explanation, but it helps. When I'm with
God, I'm never alone. To any meeting
that I go to and I'm stressed, I'm
nervous. I just talked to God before.
Please be with me right now. Just please
take my hand, guide me. I'm never alone.
When I was crying in bed, when I felt so
lonely that he left me, he didn't choose
me. I was never alone actually because I
had God. An even bigger realization this
time it was much easier for me to let go
because few years ago when I wasn't that
religious or I wasn't really you know
praying and diving into my religion I
would cry so much and think why is life
so unfair to me? Why is this happening
to me? I literally got everything I
wanted and literally God life or whoever
universe took it away from me. Like is
this a game or something? what's wrong
with me? Why is my life doing this to
me? When now I look at the same
situation and I'm like, "Wow, thank you
so much, God. Thank you so much for
protecting me from that person because
for whatever reason, he left my life
because probably in the future he would
destroy me or he would make me cry so
much more. So you showed me that
everything I want really exists, but
maybe not with this person. But you
showed me a little glimpse of the
happiness and beautiful connection they
I can have, but maybe not with this
person. And thank you so much for
protecting me from him. Thank you so
much. I wish him everything the best. I
wish him to be the happiest person in
the world, but maybe just not with me.
And I deserve to be happy. And I know
that you will bring the person that I
will be so happy with. I know that I
will be loved the way I deserve to be
loved. Just maybe not right now. And I'm
patient. I'm gonna wait for it. I'm not
gonna waste myself. I'm not going to be
scared to be alone because I'm not
alone. I have God. But I will get it
because I trust and I pray for it and
God hears me. One more thing, don't
publicly talk about your pain. Don't
show it to people. Only your closest
circle. Don't post about it. If you feel
mad, if you feel angry, that's okay.
That's totally fine. He pissed you off.
He left you. He didn't choose you.
Remember, if you keep swallowing the
anger back, it's going to choke you.
Anger is a very powerful emotion. It
will always find the way to get
released. But how? That's the question.
Don't suppress it. If you feel angry,
talk to Chad talk to your
therapist, talk to your family, talk to
your friends. Don't call him. Don't text
him. Write it out. Write a letter to him
and then burn it. Go to the gym. Do
boxing. do a tennis session where you
just like, you know, play with the ball,
hit something, release it, hit the
pillow, but when you hold it right here,
it's literally going to choke you. So,
release the anger. Okay? So, after the
time passes, don't rush it. Okay? Take
your time. Some people they heal in
days, some people they heal in weeks,
some people need years to heal. But do
not compare your healing journey to
someone else's healing journey because
you are you. If you need more time, give
yourself more time. Don't try to rush it
and be this powerful independent woman
who doesn't need anybody. Just please, I
beg you, stop showing everyone on social
media and in real life how strong you
are, how independent you are, how you
don't need a man, posting all these
quotes like this just embarrassing. Just
feel it. Feel the pain and admit that
yes, I am going through this right now.
Yes, I feel so sad and disappointed and
weak, but I am here for myself. I love
me and I choose me. After that period of
time, the anger will transition into
sadness. You'll just feel sad. Yeah.
When I think about him, sad it didn't
work out. Sad I had to let him go. And
after that sadness, when even more time
passes, you will actually feel
gratitude. I promise you, girl, you will
wake up and you will feel grateful for
that person, for the pain that you
experienced, for the lessons that he
taught you, because he literally taught
you what you don't want in a partner. He
literally taught you such valuable
lessons of how you cannot be treated and
how you don't want your future
relationships to be. How would you
appreciate love and happiness if you
didn't experience pain? And the moment
you feel grateful that this whole thing
happened to you, that's when you healed.
Gratitude in your heart means that you
are healing. This is beautiful. This is
where the growth happens. Unfortunately,
some situations they really leave a scar
on your heart, but they teach you how to
protect it. But can I just ask you a
question respectfully? Why are you
always so caring with these men and
never with yourself? Why do you always
treat them with so much care and love
but never yourself? Oh, you don't need
to answer because I know the answer.
What happens to you unconsciously? You
treat them with so much care, love, and
respect because you hope that they will
reciprocate and they will give it back
to you. But that doesn't work like that,
babe. Open your ears right now. A man
cares about a woman the way she cares
about herself. It's a rule. And
sometimes, babe, honestly, all you got
to do is just say, "My future husband
would never do this to me." And move on.
Well, that was it for today, guys. I
really hope that at the end of this
video, you feel better. I know that I
cannot heal you, but I hope that this
video made your heart feel a little bit
better with me. You're in a safe place
on my channel. You're always safe with
me. I'm so grateful for your support.
I'm so grateful that you're watching my
videos. And before I say goodbye,
remember that today is your day. I love you.
you. [Music]
[Music] Bye.
[Music]
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