0:08 so fellas no first off man I want to let
0:10 you all know it's an honor and a
0:12 privilege you know to be before you all
0:15 I got great respect and admiration from
0:16 what you all are part of and your
0:18 journey I wanna think Duke man thank you
0:20 so much for thinking enough of me and
0:22 provide me with this opportunity and the
0:24 whole organization I wanna think Rob and
0:26 Rob is like a brother to me using my
0:28 wedding he's my roommate in college I
0:29 remember when his car you should get
0:32 declined you know all that come pay his
0:34 rent all that right so that's my guy
0:38 but um the reason I showed that clip it
0:41 was one line in there that hit me and it
0:46 stuck and the one line was um like the
0:48 dude that came to see him on the horse
0:50 like I don't know if y'all remember the
0:52 movie but he was riding with him like he
0:54 was riding with him at every single
0:56 battle like it was a point in every
0:59 single battle when it got tough and
1:01 leonidas with his 300 when he got a
1:02 little tough he would call on the
1:04 Arcadians and they'll come from between
1:05 the rocks they'll come out with their
1:07 cool and wipe out whoever they was going
1:09 against and they'll handle it right and
1:11 so at a certain point my man saw up on
1:13 the hill he saw a little humpback dude
1:15 and he saw some more soldiers more than
1:17 they had ever saw and so he came to him
1:19 he was riding with him at every single
1:21 battle but he came to him when he saw
1:23 more than he had ever saw and he said to
1:26 him it's over and he said we must
1:28 surrender and I don't know if you saw
1:29 the movie but every time somebody said
1:30 something to him
1:32 like they wanted to make him King they
1:33 told me I'll give him everything he was
1:35 fighting for they came to him at one
1:36 point they came to United I said we'll
1:39 give you everything you want like you
1:40 fighting for your land you can have your
1:42 land you won't want it like you can have
1:43 you want everything you fighting for
1:45 we'll give it to you and we'll make you
1:47 king your reign supreme over everything
1:49 and everybody got to report to you they
1:51 told him that but they said one word
1:53 when they said the one word every time
1:55 they said the one word he'll walk off
1:57 for Neil shake his head and the one word
2:01 that they said was cement every time
2:03 they mentioned submission it was like he
2:04 just went into another mole and he
2:06 wasn't trying to hear him so when my man
2:07 came to him on the horse he said we got
2:09 to submit when he said we got to submit
2:10 you saw
2:12 eyes got big he went in he transformed
2:14 into something else he went to him up
2:16 the thing that stuck to me Duke he told
2:19 him every man must search his own soul
2:21 and he said while you at it like you've
2:22 been battling with me you've been going
2:24 with me but when the adversity in the
2:26 opposition and the challenge got tougher
2:29 you said you got to go like we did so
2:31 you said while you're at it you searched
2:33 your own soul and you run off you tell
2:34 everybody we're gonna stand we gonna
2:36 live we're gonna die by what we stand
2:38 for and everybody gonna know what we
2:40 represent and what we're a part of
2:42 because we said at a certain point we
2:43 said we was going to live when we're
2:45 gonna die by it and the thing I love
2:46 about sports and the thing I love about
2:49 life whatever you want you got to be
2:50 willing to accept whatever come with it
2:52 like it's like a cat in the street if
2:54 you want to be a gangster you can't be
2:56 against it until you meet a gangster
2:58 like you can't be a warrior until you
3:00 meet a warrior you say no I want to be a
3:02 warrior no more like you got to be
3:04 willing to accept whatever come with it
3:06 and he's done about 11 15 meetings and I
3:07 was talking to rob in the car
3:09 and I said man the dangerous thing about
3:10 having talent like when you're in the
3:12 league everybody can run fast jump high
3:14 hit cats everybody can cut it in slices
3:16 I ever you want to cut it slice it
3:18 everybody can play ball right but the
3:20 thing about it I told Rob you got to be
3:22 careful when you got talent because
3:23 sooner or later if you're not careful
3:25 you could become a victim of your own
3:27 talent and when you become a victim of
3:29 your own talent you don't value the
3:31 small things anymore and at a certain
3:33 point in the early years the small
3:35 things with the foundation and that's
3:36 the thing that got you to the point that
3:38 you are at now but now we don't value it
3:40 because we feel as if we've gotten to a
3:42 certain point like adversity is
3:43 adversity opposition is opposition
3:46 challenges are challenges but it's not
3:47 so much about the opposition and
3:50 adversity that we face as it is about
3:51 the perspective that we have about the
3:53 opposition and adversity that we face
3:55 meaning perspective drives performance
3:57 every day of the week how you view what
3:59 you do will always affect how you do
4:01 what you do now I gotta love 300 just
4:03 because when they said retreat my man
4:04 like we ain't going nowhere
4:06 hey you came to me you came to me you
4:08 disrespected my wife you disrespected
4:10 like he could have quit gotta stop
4:13 fighting for it but the purpose for what
4:15 he was fighting for was greater than any
4:17 individual and so he went to war the
4:19 purpose meaning a thing of what she was
4:20 fighting for
4:22 was greater than any individual was
4:24 breathing in any 300 and when he died
4:25 I'll never forget one of the soldiers
4:28 laid down he said man it was an honor to
4:31 die by you it was an honor to die by you
4:33 and he told me it was honor to live by
4:35 you like you know the reason he said I
4:37 was one of the most important people in
4:39 his life it wasn't that I could run fast
4:41 I played corner I wasn't the biggest the
4:44 fastest the strongest but he knew every
4:45 time we stepped out in between them
4:48 lines I was willing to die for it Luke I
4:50 almost lost my life for it
4:53 like it ain't just words like I made a
4:55 tackle against air force in the fourth
4:56 quarter two minutes left in the game
4:58 they carried me off on a stretcher we
5:00 got to the emergency room they ran some
5:01 tests and the doctor came into the room
5:04 and he said everybody rush out we got to
5:05 rush this kid back to the emergency
5:08 surgery he's about to die and I'm
5:10 looking at him like died like man you
5:11 can't use another word like use a
5:15 synonym like Dada and he's like yeah you
5:16 ruptured an artery in your chest you're
5:19 bleeding internally gotta rush back take
5:20 the main vein out of your left leg
5:21 plugged into your chest in order to save
5:26 your life next morning I woke up I love
5:28 the game of football have been playing
5:31 since I was seven but the next morning I
5:35 woke up my arm is paralyzed been
5:38 paralyzed for the past 12 years
5:41 got cut six times down my left eye one
5:43 time across the left side of my neck one
5:44 time across the right side twice through
5:46 my right ribs cut out my right PEC
5:49 bottom on my own pit to the bottom of my
5:51 hand for 350 staples in my body they
5:52 banished me for my neck to my knees
5:56 saying lip service they told me to go
6:00 home some terrible happen to you go home
6:04 go back to Atlanta take a break take
6:07 some time off you got injured that take
6:10 time off what go on for what I'm gonna
6:11 go to practice on Wednesday even though
6:14 I can't compete I'm gonna go to practice
6:15 until I can't compete even though my
6:16 career's over
6:18 I'm gonna get a gun Joyce Ling and I'm
6:19 gonna be in the sandpit with my
6:20 teammates and my line Luke stocker
6:22 I'm gonna run every here with my
6:25 teammate I'm gonna run around the block
6:27 with my teammates even though I can't
6:29 play but I made a vow to something that
6:30 was a lot greater than me and so what I
6:33 made a vow to was more important
6:36 like for me what trumps everything is
6:37 character and integrity
6:39 what Trump's everything is when a cat is
6:40 walking with me he'd know at a certain
6:42 point I'm not retreating and form with
6:44 him and I say I'm going home we're going
6:46 home and whatever got to happen on the
6:48 way to get home if we got a wife some
6:50 cats out on the way to get home like
6:51 you've got two types of cats in the
6:53 world you got a cat that's toilet it
6:55 until it get hot in the kitchen then you
6:56 cap you got a cat that's just all out
6:57 with it
6:59 you got certain cat stay with it until
7:00 it get hot then they don't want
7:01 definitely cats in the fourth quarter
7:03 they tapping their helmet like coach I
7:05 need to come out sub me then you've got
7:07 casters say that's why I play the game
7:10 this is what I signed up for like when
7:11 we do everything like all that other
7:13 stuff is cool but when it get hot in
7:14 this fourth and goal like and nobody
7:16 wants it I won't like you got cast that
7:19 Scott like that like it's a crazy thing
7:21 I was reading a story about Navy SEALs
7:22 and it was talking about the Navy was
7:24 talking about the training that they go
7:26 through and it was talking about hell
7:28 week and they say hell week is literally
7:30 designed just to break him send him
7:32 through hell like you want to be you
7:34 want to be a war you want to be a sail
7:36 toughest of the tough badass of the bat
7:38 we're gonna see how bad you want to be a
7:40 sail and the way they gauged it was they
7:42 let him push themselves and see if they
7:44 was willing to die for it and so when
7:47 cats would pass out and almost die they
7:48 would wake him up in a castle wake up
7:49 and they would be like I'm ready they
7:51 were slapping and saying all you good
7:52 you put your life on the line you good
7:55 and when they got into hell week the
7:58 crazy thing was like they had units in
8:00 this particular book and the unit's that
8:02 they had Jamie's right they started to
8:04 trace it back in the unit's because some
8:06 cats that made it through hell week the
8:08 year prior they didn't make it the next
8:11 year right it's just like the lead some
8:12 cats they're gonna make it this year
8:14 next year they're gonna be nowhere to be
8:15 found because they don't have that same
8:17 bite not that they don't have enough
8:19 talent they gonna add the same bite
8:21 whether they got Brant whatever the case
8:23 may be whether they got a whip but how
8:24 whatever the cake thing will have that
8:26 same bite right and so they started
8:28 tracing it the craziest thing was they
8:31 found out the cast that surrender
8:34 everybody they train with surrender they
8:35 know it's the cats that quit and so I
8:36 thought this was what I wanted to do
8:38 they traced it back to that group
8:41 everybody they trained with quit and
8:42 said this is what I thought I want if I
8:43 got to go through that
8:46 I don't want it so bad anymore then they got
8:46 got
8:48 the cast that made it and it wasn't like
8:51 they put him in a separate separate
8:52 environment they put him through the
8:55 same training it's like all sees
8:56 everybody go through the same offseason
8:58 there's like MCATs going away from
9:00 everybody go to the same weight room but
9:01 everybody don't come out the same way
9:03 it's like we're cats on the team
9:04 everybody get the same schedule but
9:06 everybody don't go about that schedule
9:08 in their business the same way it wasn't
9:10 like they put one set of cats in this
9:12 water another set of cats in that water
9:13 we put you all through these rope drills
9:14 know everybody went through the same
9:17 drills and the cats that made it and
9:19 beat it they said man listen we already
9:21 know what time it is we know they finna
9:24 try to break us we already know they
9:26 think we didn't we already know that we
9:28 know they coming at us we know they're
9:29 gonna throw everything they got at us so
9:32 here's how we gonna beat it catch a
9:33 sound look at you
9:35 guess if we get in the water we get in
9:37 the midst of adversity and start getting
9:38 a little tough the pain starts to set in
9:40 I'm just gonna look at you and you look
9:42 at me and I don't have to say a word
9:44 because what we working for is greater
9:45 than me and you it so we got to press
9:47 forward and we got a conquer it we don't
9:49 have to say it what we just looked at
9:50 each other and when I look at you the
9:52 power of the other person the
9:54 accountability and the responsibility of
9:56 what we working for and I respect you so
9:58 much and I know you're handling your
9:59 business I'm not gonna quit on you see
10:01 the problem is there's a lot of cats
10:03 that be talking but when it comes to
10:05 their actions their actions betray their
10:07 words and so now you got a contradiction
10:09 in accounting respecting that when you
10:11 start talking about men men a respecting
10:13 that like they get here you talk about
10:15 it but if you ain't living it a caddying
10:17 trying to hear it and the cat's actions
10:18 betray their words every day of the week
10:20 I got asked to catch two weeks ago I
10:22 said man do you think it's possible that
10:24 you can be a great football player but
10:26 you can suck as a father
10:29 cat told me yes sir that's impossible he
10:31 said how so I said you take the same
10:34 monster and said the same mindset your
10:35 approach ball with it's gonna be the
10:36 same mindset when one day you get
10:38 trusted with something that's the like
10:40 greater than you like as a father right
10:41 when you got a family you call to be
10:43 three things you call to be a priest a
10:45 provider and a protector that's it
10:47 and so if you can't be trusted in the
10:49 huddle what make you thinking you get a
10:52 shorter you and me like I got you when
10:54 you don't feel like it like everybody is
10:56 good until they don't feel like it then
10:58 when they don't feel like it the actions
10:59 and everything they said
11:00 goes out of the window like I find it
11:03 amazing I find it amazing how a cactus
11:06 say they want something right like I
11:07 could say man I'm all-in with you let's
11:09 ride they could say they want something
11:11 and then conditions and circumstances
11:14 change and the words that they once
11:18 spoke means nothing to her like the
11:19 commitment level of it like I was
11:21 talking and staying true to what you
11:23 said you was true too long after the
11:25 mood that you said it in has left
11:26 meaning on the days when we don't feel
11:28 like doing we once said we was gonna do
11:30 we're gonna step up we're gonna do it
11:31 anyway because those are the days that
11:34 build character like those type of days
11:36 right like I just want one thing from
11:37 you man
11:40 I got no you got it I know you can ball
11:42 I know you can run John I know you could
11:44 do it I know you can fill a gap blow a
11:47 cat up I know that but everybody don't
11:50 got that mentality like everybody don't
11:52 got that mentality when a cat dropped
11:53 five in a row and they come to work and
11:55 they still got that bite and they go
11:56 about their business the same way as if
11:57 they would have won five in a row
12:00 everybody one got their bite because
12:01 everybody ain't trained like cat got
12:04 like light switch mentalities they turn
12:06 it on turn it off depending upon who
12:08 they going against like it's like in
12:10 college when you got a little paper
12:12 captain right and he's getting on all
12:15 the wall corners but with his boys he
12:18 ain't saying nothing he won a challenge
12:20 everyone want to say nothing but I
12:21 thought at the foundation of football
12:23 the Brotherhood of it I thought it was
12:26 love and so if I love you I love you
12:28 enough to check you and say something to
12:30 you not only because I want you to be a
12:32 great football player I want you to be a
12:34 great man because I understand this well
12:35 who we are as people will always be more
12:37 important in who we are as football
12:38 players and what I mean by that is who
12:40 we are as fathers and husbands and men
12:42 in general will always be more important
12:43 than who we are as athletes
12:45 I got a certain point man Tyler can only
12:48 take you so far at a certain point
12:50 character gotta kick in I'll never
12:51 forget when I watched
12:54 EBE be left chemo and he went to the
12:58 track one day after chemo I went to the
13:00 track and I'm talking about running for
13:03 hundreds in crime going around the track
13:06 crying after chemo and he cried and he
13:07 said I'm crying not because there's so
13:09 much pain I'm crying because I'm not who
13:11 I used to be but I know I'll come back
13:12 one day stronger than you think
13:16 talent got his hair shape eyebrows fell
13:19 off mustache fell hey tell me that's
13:22 essence that's who I am
13:24 warrior like that's just who you get hit
13:26 with kids whatever the case may be on
13:28 son like that's essence like some
13:30 casters show up for game when it's the
13:32 cast essence that's who they are they
13:34 catch you in the jungle they catch you
13:35 on the beach they catch you in a
13:37 facility they gonna do you whenever they
13:39 see you that's just who cats are and you
13:41 got some cats ain't got that mentality
13:43 like that like yesterday what you did
13:45 like the thing I love about football man
13:47 and we all know I like I play boy y'all
13:49 play ball the thing I love about it is
13:52 like X's and O's and strategies that's cute
13:53 cute
13:55 they could do it we could run a stunt we
13:58 can run a blitz we call a great play but
14:02 when it all boils down to what it is
14:05 mano-a-mano and if you ain't got more
14:08 heart than me if you ain't been looking
14:11 harder than me if you ain't sacrifice
14:14 more than me I'm gonna destroy you and
14:17 I'm not retreating I'm not running I
14:19 don't care what they say on paper I
14:21 don't care how many games you want I
14:24 don't care if you say we outnumbered we
14:26 live by this and we die by this we don't
14:29 retreat we don't run every man must
14:31 search his own soul that's why that
14:32 Martin Luther King quote that's why I
14:34 said well like you don't judge a person
14:36 by where they stand in times of comfort
14:37 and convenience you're judging by where
14:39 they stand in times of challenge and
14:41 controversy and the feeling work like
14:42 when you work for something and gives
14:44 you a different type of attachment to it
14:46 the harder you work the harder it is to surrender
14:46 surrender
14:48 that's why casket give up so easy they
14:51 ain't got nothing invested they work for
14:53 dane sacrifice for word every time you
14:56 get tough they go blow we ain't working
14:57 for word right there you got men
14:59 sacrificing to it but when a cat work
15:02 for some I'm gonna cap in sacrifice for
15:03 some where you gonna have a cold day in
15:05 hell before you take it from them
15:08 because they value it different they
15:10 look at even if they drop one or two
15:12 it's a part of the process its evolution
15:14 embrace the process trust the process
15:16 but most importantly you got to respect
15:17 the process Tyler would never supersede
15:21 it I just want one thing from you man
15:24 and life no matter for cat play ball no
15:26 matter if a cat isn't
15:28 the artist whatever the case may be cats
15:30 don't burn out because of what they do I
15:32 catch them just start saying man you
15:33 know what I thought I wanted to play ball
15:34 ball
15:36 whatever Oh cats burn out because life
15:39 makes them forget why they do it
15:43 opposition adversity challenge never
15:46 forget why you do what you do I'm not
15:48 talking about college I'm not talking
15:50 about when you first got to the league
15:52 and you got drafted I'm talking about
15:55 when you was coming up and Cali New
15:59 Jersey Indianapolis Miami and using the
16:04 street or you was at DePaul and your mom
16:06 had to go sacrifice and work so you get
16:08 your pericles i'm talking about that
16:11 bite because everybody don't remember
16:13 that people don't burn out because of
16:15 what they do people burn out because
16:16 life makes them forget why they do it
16:19 character supersedes talent every day of
16:23 the week no retreat no surrender we live
16:26 when we die by this everyman my searches
16:28 on soul at a certain point
16:30 don't let your actions betray your words
16:33 now that's my time god bless y'all [Applause]