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God Is Saying Let People Miss Out On You!
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If they don't want to give you the time
a day, let them miss out on you. If they
don't want to support your dreams, if
they act like your presence is a burden,
if they only clap when it benefits them,
then let them miss out on you. Let them
miss the conversations that healed them.
Let them miss the kind of comfort only
your heart could give. Let them miss the
type of love that stood by them when
they didn't even know how to stand by themselves.
themselves.
Let them miss the real you. The one who
stayed up late making sure they were
good even when you weren't.
See, let them miss the love that made
them feel safe. The loyalty that showed
up without conditions. The consistency
that said, "I got you even when they
never really had your back. Let them
miss out on the youth that showed up
without needing a reason. The you that
never kept score. the you that love loud
when they only whispered back. Because
when people make you feel like you're
too much, God is showing you they were
never enough. Stop shrinking your
presence to fit into spaces that were
never built to hold your greatness. Stop
lowering your standards just to keep
someone around who treat you like an
option. Stop handing out loyalty to
people who only show up when it's
convenient. If God is for you, who can
be against you? See, that's Romans 8:31.
And that verse right there, that's not
just encouragement. That's armor. That's
your green light to walk away without
guilt. That's your reminder that you
don't have to explain your value to
anybody who keeps forgetting your worth.
Because the truth is, the real ones
won't need a lecture towel to love you,
right? They won't make you feel
invisible while they entertain the
world. They won't drain you and call it
love. They won't watch you suffer in
silence and still sleep peacefully at
night. And I get it. You loved them. You
believed in them. You gave them a
thousand second chances and still would
have given them one more. But what did
it cost you? How many nights did you cry
yourself to sleep while convincing
yourself this was love?
How many times did you hide your hurt
behind the fake smile just to keep the
peace? How many times did you show up
for them and leave yourself behind?
See, how many times did you ignore God's
warning signs just because your heart
didn't want to let go? But now it is
time. Time to stop betraying yourself
for the sake of people who don't even
know what to do with someone like you.
Time to stop reopening doors God has
clearly shut. Time to stop pouring into
people who get drunk off your effort and
never pour back. See, it's time to stop
fixing people who break you in the
process. Time to stop feeding
relationships that starve your soul. Let
them miss out. Let them miss out on the
healed version of you that they'll never
get to witness. Let them miss out on a
version of you that's learning how to
choose yourself.
You got to let them miss out on the
future they were never strong enough to
grow into with you. because you you've
cried enough. You've settled enough.
You've forgiven enough. You've bent over
backwards enough. You've been enough for
everybody else. And now it's time to be
enough for yourself. Let them miss the
calls, the check-ins, the emotional
lifeline you used to be. Let them miss
the birthday messages, the random
support, the just thinking about you
energy you always gave without
hesitation. Let them miss that kind of
love because they're not going to find
it again. Not like that at least. Not
from you. And don't you dare feel bad
for choosing peace over confusion. For
choosing healing over trauma. For
choosing forward over stuck. Because
some people only show up when they feel
you slipping. Not because they love you,
but because they love to control. Some
people only love the version of you they
can manipulate. But when you grow, when
you rise, when you start acting like you
matter, they call it selfish. See, but
it's not selfish. It's survival. You got
to protect your peace like your life
depends on it. Let them miss out on you.
Miss out on the light you brought into
every dark room. Miss out on the way you
believed in them when they didn't even
believe in themselves. Miss out on the
way you stayed solid when the whole
world turned their back. See, you were
the real one. You were the rare one. And
they going to feel that. Not today,
maybe not tomorrow, but one day. It's
going to hit them. It's going to hit
them that they fumble. Someone who was
willing to go to war for their soul. And
by the time it hits, you'll be long
gone. See, you'll be healed. You'll be
whole, focused, surrounded by people who
water you instead of actually drain you.
People who choose you out loud. People
who don't make you question your place
in life. Because when God removes, he replaces.
replaces.
And what he's sending next won't come
with confusion. It won't come with
disrespect. It won't come with
inconsistency. It'll come with clarity,
with safety, with love that doesn't
hurt. But before that comes, you got to
let go. You got to stop waiting for
closure. You got to stop asking why. You
got to stop looking back. Because
everything behind you is proof of what
you outgrown. You don't need revenge.
You don't need explanations.
You need healing. You need purpose. You
need silence so you can hear what God is
trying to say. And he's saying this,
they weren't meant to go. They weren't
meant to grow with you. They were a
lesson, not a lifetime. Let them miss
out. And don't water down your new life
to make them feel comfortable in your
presence again. You don't owe them
access to the version of you they
weren't strong enough to handle. You
don't owe them to heal you just because
they mishandled the broken you. See,
this is your season to choose yourself
the way they always chose them. This is
your season to love yourself loud, to
walk away without looking back, to rise
without waiting for applause, to speak
life into your own soul
because they missed out. And that's
between them and God.
You got a destiny to chase, a purpose to
fulfill, a peace to protect. Let them
miss out because what God has next for
you, don't come with pain. It comes with promise.
promise.
You got this.
In order to let them miss out on you, it
cuz it's easier said than done. It's
easier like we can scream that all we
want, but you have to kind of go to like
I'm just going to be 100% real. You have
to go about it with a strategy. And how
what do we do in that strategy? You need
to start getting motion. You need to
start doing something. You need to start
focusing on your life,
focusing on building your project. Write
down how do I envision my life? What
what what would I be? What are the
things that I need in my life that will
make me happy without them? Whether
that's the project of, you know, how
what you want to do financially, how you
want to help people, whatever, whatever
the case may be. Y'all get what I'm
trying to say. You got to get some motion.
motion.
You got to start doing things cuz it's
easier to just say, "Oh, I'mma let them
miss out. Man, this person was the love
of your life, and all of a sudden, you
just supposed to forget them. Let them
miss out." No. Start focusing on
yourself. And when you start focusing on
yourself and you start seeing things
move in the way you want, that's when
that healing is going to begin. And now
you're not just thinking about them.
Let's be real. Sometimes when you so
idle, that's all you have to do is just
you you you just going to be thinking
about them. Just thinking, "Oh, I wonder
what this person was doing."
That's what I That's what I used to do.
I I would be like, "Man, I'm letting
this person, man, forget you. I'm gone."
You know, letting this person miss out.
I wasn't doing nothing. When I'm laying
in the bed, I'm sitting there thinking,
"Oh, she probably she probably she
probably with with old boy right now."
And guess what? 90% of the time, your
thoughts be right. Like like like
whatever you you think they doing
sometimes, like not all the time, but
whatever you think I said 90% of the
time, whatever you think they doing,
they probably doing it.
But if you got that motion and you
focusing on your own life, your own
projects, even when it's hard, even when
when when you just have the urge to text
them to go snoop on their Instagram and
stuff like that, when you practice
focusing on your own self and your
projects, all that withers away. It
happened to me. I am not fibbing when I
say this.
I used to be up 12:00 at night on my
fake profile on my on I'm checking see
what they doing. You know what I'm
saying? Like a little girl.
What I said, what am I doing? What What
but I get it. It's hard because you had
a life with this person or or you shared
a lot of good memories. That's okay. But
snap out of it. Let's It's time to move
on. It's time to move on now. It's hard.
Yes, of course it's hard. But God got
something better for you. I promise you
that. If they don't want to be with you,
why you want to be like, I ain't going
to say that because I understand why you
probably would want to be with them. But
if they don't want to be with you, then
you shouldn't even really want to be
with them. Like, you don't even want me.
Why would I want somebody they don't
even want me?
It really kind of like don't make no
sense. Like, it it should be a mutual
thing. So if they choose to go, let
them. That's okay.
Deal with the pain. You're okay. You're
you're you're not going to die. I
promise you that.
I seen a baby cry. The second later, she
laughs. The beauty of life, the pain
never lasts. Y'all know y'all know I
love that that that that JCole quote.
Y'all know I love that one.
Let them miss out, man. It's hard, but
let them miss out.
put all that energy into you and I prom
and I say it all the time too. You put
all that energy into you when you
shining, you doing your thing, you
walking with a glow, you know they going
to come back and don't don't they
disrespect they disrespected you. Don't
you let them come back.
If you let them if you let them come
back I'm If you let them come back,
I'm coming to find you. You going to
have to deal with me.
See, some of y'all said like, "Oh, you
know, you ain't nothing, John." All
right. Probably ain't. I'm yapping right
now. But, uh, until next time, I'll see
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