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10 Powerful Ways to Command Respect Anywhere & Anytime | Habits of Highly Respected People | Winnie's School of Excellence | YouTubeToText
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This content emphasizes that respect is not passively received but actively mirrored, stemming from how individuals treat themselves and present themselves to the world. It offers practical strategies to cultivate self-respect and, consequently, earn respect from others.
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Have you ever felt overlooked and
disrespected even when you have done
absolutely nothing wrong? Respect is not
given. Respect is mirrored. People will
treat you how they see you treat
yourself. So in today's video, I'm going
to be sharing with you 10 practical ways
that you can command respect anywhere,
anytime, any day. But before we go into
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well. Okie dokie. So, have you ever been
in a space where you feel like no one
ever takes you seriously or you just
feel very unseen. You feel like people
look down on you. Sometimes it not
necessarily because those people are
disrespectful or mean people. It may
just be because of your actions and the
attitude that you portray around them.
And that's pretty much what today's
video is all about. Um for you to see
how you have allowed yourself to be
disrespected by people. Again, it's
important to note that sometimes it's
not the people who are disrespectful. It
is you who are putting yourself in a
position to be disrespected. Because we
live in a world where everybody wants to
dominate, take charge and take over. So
when you keep opening up yourself and
doing things that allow others to
disrespect you, I promise you they will
trample all over you, walk all over you,
and disrespect you and not feel bad
about it. Especially those people who
haven't gotten a lesson or two in
kindness. So today I'm just going to be
sharing with you 10 things or 10 ways
that you can pretty much start
commanding respect in every setting that
you go into so that people can start to
see you as worthy and valuable because
people who are respected the most are
people who know their worth and who
understand their value. And the best way
to show it is through some of the ways
that I'm going to be sharing with you in
today's video. The very first point I've
put down here on my list on how you can
command respect in any setting, whether
professionally or personally, is don't
be too available. I think this one is a
no-brainer and everybody should already
know this, but just in case you don't
know it, don't be too available. Don't
always show up for everyone at any time
whenever they call, especially when what
they're calling you for doesn't align
with your purpose or your values. Don't
just up and leave. Even when you are
free and you know you're not doing too
much or you're not doing anything or you
have some spare time on your hand,
always sit back and ask yourself, how
does this meeting or how does this thing
this person wants me to do align with
who I truly am? So don't just say yes to
every wind of doctrine. Don't just say
yes to every pull or every call.
Sometimes just intentionally say no and
stay on your own and do and rather do
things that align with your values. The
only people the only people who you
should be too available for who whenever
they call you you are literally at their
beck and call are the people who are in
your closest circle. The people who you
know add value to your life. The people
who you know will show up for you any
single time of the day. You need to
identify those people. It's not
everybody that would do that for you. So
identify those people who you can pick
up your phone and call and make a
request on something and then you know
that they will show up for you. Those
are the people that you can call
whenever they in fact when they call you
be like how they tell you to jump you
you say how high should I be jumping.
Those are the people you make yourself
available for because they have also
proven to you that they would always be
there for you regardless of whatever
season you are in your life. But they'll
be there for everybody. You're not a
dumbass. Okay. The second point that
I've put down here on how you can
command respect and make people start
taking you very seriously will be for
you to speak less and listen more.
Talking a lot will leave you saying
things you have no business saying. I've
said this so many times on the channel
that you need to learn to put a premium
on your words. Whenever you open your
mouth to speak, let your words be
quality words that actually edify,
uplift, produce results, and help
somebody else feel inspired. Don't just
open your mouth because you know how to
talk and then just yap all over the
place. Yapping actually lets you talk or
say things that you you shouldn't be
saying. And remember I said at the
beginning of this video that respect is
not given. Respect is mirrored. By the
time you've opened your mouth and said
every single thing about your life, you
have let left left nothing to the
imagination and people can literally
tell every single thing about about you.
I remember I went for a video shoot one
day and there was one of the content
creators there, some guy who would not
stop talking. Literally would not stop
talking. At some point when I couldn't
take it anymore and I'm like, "Can you
please keep quiet?" Like, I couldn't
take it anymore. I couldn't take it
anymore. This guy kept yapping for good
1 hour 20 minutes of the shoot. At some
point, I had to say, "Stop talking.
There's no way I'm going to give that
guy my respect regardless of who he is
if I see him somewhere else. If I
practice to him somewhere else, I'll be
running away from him because he
couldn't just stop talking. Sometimes
just stop talking and rather listen.
People actually enjoy listeners. Have
you ever wondered when you find yourself
in the midst of people and you are the
one doing the talking and someone else
is listening, do you enjoy being
listened to? So sometimes or most often
than not, be the one who is listening
instead of the one who is always
talking. Only be the talker when you are
again in your close circle of friends
who you know will not judge you if you
yap from now to tomorrow. But even in
that closer circle of friends, don't
wear people out with your words.
Sometimes shoo it. Okay, imagine that
you don't talk a lot and you are the
person, the quiet person who is always
observant, is always just there
listening and all. And then the day you
eventually now say you want to open your
mouth to talk. I'm not saying don't
talk. It's important to talk. But be
very mindful of the what you are saying.
So the day you now finally open your
mouth to talk, I promise you everybody
will stop and listen to you. The reason
why people don't stop to listen and then
you feel overlooked or on on unseen or
not taken seriously or taken for granted
is because you talk a lot. So when you
when you keep quiet and you stop talking
and the day you say you want to talk
people would actually stop and listen to
what you want to say because they'll be
like ah this one that doesn't talk today
he's talking let me hear what he has to
say and then what you have to say will
make sense to them and they will respect
you for it. Okay. The third point that
I've put down here on how you can
command respect and have people actually
start taking you very seriously is for
you to be about your life's purpose.
See, I've said this so many times on
this channel on different episodes and
there is something so magical, something
so endearing, something that attracts
you to a person who is about their
life's purpose. People can see that you
go the extra mile to make your work
excellent. People can see the amount of
dedication and passion and commitment
and effort that you put into your work
that you literally will glorify your
work. Glorify the office that you're in.
Glorify whatever position that you do. I
tell you, there is no one on earth that
will not respect a person who is working
in line with their true God orained
purpose. when you're all about your
life's mission. I remember when I
started living life intentionally and
being so focused on what I've been
called to do, especially when I first
started Delicious Foods. The amount of
respect that I garnered, not just from
the people around me or in my circle,
but from strangers. I'll just be walking
on the way and people are just all like
so admired and inspired by what I do
because I constantly would show up. I
mean, you don't you don't have to show
up in front of a camera to fulfill
purpose. The people around you, the
people in your circle would actually let
you know that you are actually being all
about your purpose by how they respect
you, how they respect your time, how
they respect the things you say and how
you do the things that you do. People
know when you put in effort into doing
something. When you're lacadasical about
stuff, when you're nonchalant, when
you're lazy, you don't even put in any
effort. Nobody is going to respect you.
And again, like I said, respect is not
given. Respect is earned. Respect is not
just for people who are older than you.
Respect is for the younger folks as
well. If I see somebody, a young person
who is about their life's mission, who
puts themselves together, who walks the
walk, talks the talk, is all about doing
the most to make their lives beautiful,
the respect I'm going to have for that
person, like dove cap respect. And
definitely there's no way I'm going to
look down on them just because they are
younger than me. So the one way to
actually gain respect or command respect
and have people take you seriously is
being about your life's purpose. Now at
this point I would like to talk to you
guys about the vision and purpose
mashway webinar that's supposed to come
up on the 23rd of August. Now I'm not
sure when this video is going to air on
the channel. But if it airs before the
23rd of August, then you can still join
the vision and purpose mastery webinar
that's happening on that day at 300 p.m.
Now, this webinar is pretty much for
anyone who is seeking clarity on their
life's purpose. You don't know what your
life's purpose is and you really want to
know because I always say that if you're
not living your life's purpose every day
on the earth, you're pretty much wasting
your time. Your life's purpose is
actually what brings you the most
fulfillment, what brings you the most
satisfaction, and what actually it is
that you're supposed to be doing with
your life. Because everybody on earth
was sent to this world for a particular
reason. So, if you don't know for sure,
for sure what that life's purpose is,
then this webinar is definitely for you
because we're going to be sharing
strategies and frameworks and tools that
actually help you open up your eyes to
see what that life's purpose is and then
how you can create the grandest vision
possible based on that life's purpose.
and then how to tailor your daily steps
and your daily actions to align with
your life's purpose and the vision that
you have created. Don't waste another
day living life on this direction when
you know you're supposed to be going in
this direction. Don't stop wasting your
life. So join the webinar. I'm going to
put a link in description box down below
on how you can access more details about
it. So check the description box down
below for that link. Okay. The next
point on how you can command respect and
have people listen to you and not take
you for granted will be for you to be a
person of excellence. This one I have
actually shared so much on the channel
and this is actually what this channel
is about. Excellence. Be the best at
what you do and always go the extra mile
to ensure that everything you do has a
stamp of excellence on it. Now
excellence is not something that is so
grand is some it's just intentional
steps and actions that you take.
consistently to ensure that you're
always putting your best foot forward
with regards to any single thing that
you set your heart to do. Excellence can
show up in how well your home is, how
organized your home is, how peaceful
your relationships are, how organized
your car is. When I come on your
computer or on your laptop, how
organized the folders and the files on
that computer is. Excellence shows up in
how you communicate with other people,
how you deal with other people, how you
handle problems, how you how you show
up, how you carry yourself, excellence
shows up in literally every single thing
that you do. So when you are a person of
excellence and people can see how very
detailed you are, paying attention to
the very tiny details that sometimes
people get to overlook, I tell you it
commands respect. People will literally
respect you and want to get to know more
about you because of how p and proper
they see you do the things that you do.
So become a person of excellence. I mean
you're on this channel watching. I
presume that excellence is something
that you're literally going after. So
strive for excellence. Continue at
excellence. It comes with it own fair
share of work. But I tell you it
actually is a way to put your life
together, organize yourself and then
have other people look and say see over
there in that girl's territory. You
can't come and do any how. You need to
come correct. You need to show correct.
You need to be mindful of how you show
yourself. That's what I call respect.
So, be a person of excellence. Okay.
This next one I I know I've preached
loudly, but it's worth reiterating at
this point and it's just pretty much
always look good and carry yourself with
grace. Dress with intention. See,
looking good is a form of personal
affirmation that lets other people know
I value myself. I take care of myself.
I'm worthy. I am valuable and I am all
that. Remember what I said about
respect. Respect is mirrored. When a
person sees that you have put in the
effort to look put together, to look
good and then you carry yourself very
elegantly, you carry yourself with
grace, there's no way anybody will look
at you and look down on you or look over
you. Now, I was in a setting one day. It
was a social setting. It was like a
party of some sort. And then everybody
was dressed very elegantly and all. And
then this girl comes in and then her I'm
sorry people judge you based on your
appearance. She was looking like a
prostitute. I'll put it that way. With
her cleavage showing, she was putting on
very something very short. Felt like she
wasn't even putting on the panties
because her bum was just bouncing and
flapping all over the place. And then
her hair wasn't put together and she was
chewing gum
in the most awkward manner. And then she
comes in and everybody grows. I will
never forget that day. Everybody just
goes silence. Like you could tell that
place was noisy, but it was quiet
because you could literally tell what
everybody was thinking at the same time.
And then when the girl came and expected
everybody was going to give her some
form of attention. She was literally
ignored throughout. I mean, I know we
were supposed to be kind and all, but
she didn't look like us. I'm sorry. The
dress code says come looking elegant. We
look and it was awkward looking at her
boobies. It was so awkward. It was
awkward going to have a conversation
with her. So, everybody literally
avoided her. That to me is not the way
you want to be treated when you walk
into a place. So, please try your best
to look put together. It's like somebody
who goes for an interview and you're
looking sloppy. Your hair is unckempt.
Your edges are not even um put in place
or maybe you have an an awkward smell.
How would your interviewer take you
seriously? How? How people who say m
those things don't matter. I tell you
they matter and they actually determine
the quality of your life because
fortunately or unfortunately we live in
an earth system where people judge by
what they see. So be mindful of how you
show up both in your appearance and with
the way you carry yourself. Okay. Next
point on my list again in fact I think
all this point I've said um I put down
on this place I've said at different
times on the channel and this one is
pretty much polish your diction
bank polish your diction
bank see yeah there is something about
having the right words to use to express
your ideas your thoughts and your
feelings there's something it makes you
have it makes you have some form of
confidence you open your mouth and talk
and not feel awkward. The reason a lot
of people are shy in social or even
professional settings, not necessarily
because they are shy, they may be held
back because they don't even know how to
speak correctly or because they have an
inferiority complex about the way they
speak or about the way they sound. If
you have identified that the way you
speak and the way that you sound is a
problem for you, how about you just fix it?
it?
Because to be quite honest with you, I
take people seriously when they are able
to boldly come to my face and talk to me
about certain matters. Come and say it
into my to my direct face. Be able to
articulate your sentences, your words.
Articulate the things that you're
feeling. Say it and speak it out clearly
so that the other person who listens
would understand what you're saying.
That can only happen when you have gone
to polish your diction. Go and polish
your English. You want to communicate in
English language, polish it. There's so
many ways. We even have a course called
the art of speaking eloquently and
elegantly course. And in that course, we
literally delve deep into how you can
start speaking eloquently. And of
course, apart from just giving you the
tips, the strategies and the framework,
we also put in a lot of words there that
you can use to build up your word bank.
And then practical tips that you can
actually use and start putting to work
every day to build up your word bank. I
for one, for example, I'm a good talker.
I talk smoothly. I flow when I when I
speak. I wasn't always like this. I was
the girl who used to stutter. I was the
girl who had the thickest thickest thickest
thickest
um would I say it wasn't an accent. I
just used to pronounce my words
incorrectly. I remember when somebody
called me out on it. Let me give you
guys the story. Right. So I was on the
phone with this guy who had come from
the UK and then I can't remember how we
were talking and the conversation led to
me having to you say the word cucumber
at the time I used to pronounce it as
cucumber that's what I used to call it
cucumber when I said the word the guy
was like no what did you say what did
you say I said cucumber maybe I said I
wanted to eat cucumber or that's what
I'm about to eat and the guy is like
what are you saying what did you say
cucumber cucumber what's that is that is
what's that is that a is that a local
dish that's what this guy was talking to
me and said I'm like, "No, cucumber.
Cucumber the vegetable." The guy was
like, "You mean cucumber?"
I was so freaking embarrassed. I'm like,
"What? Cucumber? Is that what you people
call it over there?" The guy said, "No,
that's actually how it's pronounced.
It's pronounced cucumber.
Girls and boys of the Lord." I was so
embarrassed. I wouldn't even lie. And
that was the day I made up my mind. See,
we're not the originators of English.
So, please, enough with this whole
that's how we sound in Nigeria. We're
not the originators of English. You can
have a Nigerian accent and still
pronounce the English words correctly so
that people can understand it
universally. So, it's important and I
just said that story to just tell you
guys that if you know that you're
lagging behind when it comes to the way
you speak or the way you pronounce
things and it's making you shy and
making you hold back um from from
speaking up your feelings and your
thoughts, then why not you why not work
on it? There was a time in my life where
I I used to pronounce pineapple as
pineapple. Pineapple. Pineapple. What
the heck?
So pretty much what I'm saying under
this point is find ways find ways to
develop a rich word bank and then
improve your addiction. I tell you it
helps you express yourself confidently
and when you are able to express
yourself confidently. People take you
more seriously and they respect you for
it. Okay. The next point that I've put
down here on my list will be for you to
be a person of honesty and integrity. Be
a passing of your word. Be the one who
says something and does it or says they
won't do something and not actually do
it. Speak the truth always and let
people know you as a person of your word
and be honest about all things. Don't be
shady in your dealings. Don't be the one
who comes to tell somebody to their face
what you know they want to hear. But the
minute you leave them, you go do
something else. They won't respect you
for it because guess what? Eventually
they would find out. So why not just be
truthful? I also believe that the people
who lie the most are the people who are
afraid. If you're not afraid of
somebody, why are you not why are you
lying or why are you being shady? Why
don't you just come correct and say what
you want? Own your truth. Own it. Own
it. The person that would like you will
like you. The person who will not like
you will be going. But just own your
truth and say what you mean and mean
what you say. Okay. Another way that you
can command respect will be for you to
be gracious to others. Show empathy.
Show respect. Show kindness. Don't be
mean. When you're mean to people, they
are they they're going to automatically
not be nice to you or they will not
respect you to just look at you funny.
And please, at this point, I think it's
important to note that respect is not
about calling people titles um or trying
to do ballet or cutsy when you want to
greet somebody. Those things are not how
you show that you have respect for a
person. That's not respect. Respect is
that feeling you have inside about a
person that makes you regard them and
respect on and rever them for who they
are. Not in how you say maybe you in one
sentence you want to say call the person
sir good morning sir good morning sir
the people that say good morning sir
good morning sir those are I don't even
I don't even believe are respectful
that's not respect respect is not when
you kneel down to greet I've seen
somebody kneel down to greet a person
and immediately like one minute later
behind that person's back they were
throwing their nose up at that same
person they knelt down to greet all
those things are not respect respect is
how you internally feel about a person
based on your perception of them and
that feeling now allows allows you to
revert them whether in front of them or
behind them. You treat them with with
kindness and then you hold them to high
esteem and to a high value. That is what
respect is. I thought to chip that in.
Now, another point that I've put down
here is you need to be assertive. If you
want to command respect, you need to be
assertive. Know how to speak up for
yourself boldly, firmly, and
respectfully. Don't let people walk all
over you. Set healthy boundaries that
protects you mentally, physically,
emotionally, and know how to express it
with your words. So that people know
that on this territory, in this playing
field, there's all there's only going to
be one boss, and it's going to be me.
And the boss and in my own field and in
my own lane, what I say is what is
final. Whether you like it or not, you
have to obey my rules and stay true to
my own terms. That's how people respect
you. when they know you are definite
about what you want and you don't play
around with who you are or your
territory. So be very assertive and be
bold when you are communicating it to
others. That's one way to actually build
respect for yourself. Okay, this next
point is something that a lot of people
usually somehow confuse and mix up as
the same thing. We shot a short form
video content for it and it's simply
don't be nice, be kind. Now a nice girl
will allow people walk all over her but
a kind girl won't. Being nice often
means you try to please others. Being
nice often means you try to diminish
yourself or deem your light so you can
avoid conflict so that you can just um
ensure that you nobody perceives you as
bad. But being kind on the other hand is
someone who is respectfully assertive,
holds their own, dishes out their
boundaries in the most respectful
manner. Um is somebody who is kind will
say see I love you. I pro I protect you.
I am I'll be there for you, but I'm not
going to diminish my light just to just
to see you shine. I'm not going to be
disloyal to myself just to be loyal to
you. No, a nice person has no
boundaries. But a kind person has a lot
of boundaries. So, it's important that
you are not the nice person who
everybody can walk all over. You are the
kind person who has integrity, who shows
empathy, who is compassionate without
compromising your boundaries or your
values. Okay, that is what um being a
kind person is. kindness would actually
earn you more respect than neness
because with ness you've opened the door
for people to come in and do tumbo
tumble with your whole life and you
don't want that for yourself. Okay, this
next one is actually one of my absolute
favorite ways to command respect and let
people take you seriously. It's
maintaining emotional control even when
under pressure. Don't lose your temper
and get flustered in a conflicting or
chaotic situation. Maintain your
composure when everybody's running fire.
You just take your your not going to
burn in the fire
or you see somebody try to ruffle you up
in a combative manner. They want to they
want to fight. They want to be they're
feisty with their words. Don't engage.
No, don't do that. Don't engage. Remain
composed and remain quiet and just look
at them and be like, in fact, your
calmness will shut them up. So, compose
yourself. When there's panic, relax.
Don't be the one who expresses
themselves in a panic state or in a in a
ruffled state, especially when the
situation calls for you to be ruffled.
Nah, maintain your emotional control.
When somebody's getting you upset or
working you up, maintain your composure.
I tell you, that's one of the quickest
ways to command respect from others when
you are not the one who is flustered or
who is easily shaking, but yet you are
able to control your emotions. you're
able to control yourself and then still
produce tremendous results in the
different settings that you find
yourself in. That's how you command
respect. The 12th one that I put here is
don't shrink or dim your lights to
accommodate someone else or make them
feel comfortable. Mm- let your light so
shine. That was the instruction. There
was no condition after that statement.
Let your light so shine only when the
other person's light is not shining
brightly or let your light so shine only
when the other person's light is also
shining. There was no condition. The the
the instruction was simple. Let your
light so shine. If you have to dim your
light for someone else's light to shine,
then there's something wrong with that
equation. You can shine and then help
another person shine right afterwards.
You don't have to shine at the same
time. And it's easier for you to help
somebody else shine when you are already
shining. So don't shrink or deem your
light to accommodate someone else or
make them feel comfortable. Don't do
that. For example, you are dating. This
one happens so so popularly in the
dating world and it happens to the women
folks especially. You're dating a guy.
Maybe you are the one who is financially
buoyant in the relationship and then
somehow the guy feels threatened by your
accomplishment and by your wealth and
then because of that you now start
saying I'm going to start hiding this.
I'm going to I'm going to shrink myself.
I won't be I won't talk much so that the
guy doesn't feel intimidated. It's on
him to feel insecure about your level
up. First of all, you don't even have a
business to begin with with a guy who is
insecure and won't even get up and go
and do something for himself so he can
meet you where you are. You don't have a
business with that kind of guy. So if
you want to date a guy who is or if you
want to be in a relationship with a guy,
I'm not saying there's anything wrong in
it. I mean there's no rule that says
that it's the man that must be richer
than the woman in a relationship. No.
But the dynamic is both of you must be
willing and ready to accommodate each
other in love, in respect, and in
honesty. The man should don't and
mustn't shrink your lights just because
he's not on the level that you are in.
You don't do do that. That does that's
not a way to make him respect you. In
fact, that's the that's the quickest way
for him to walk all over you and
disrespect you in the most meanest ways.
So, first of all, if you find yourself
as a woman who's doing so well and you
find yourself in a relationship with an
insecure man, it's time to pack your
bags and leave. You don't have a
business with that man. Go find a man
who is secure in his own in his own self
and is not concerned about your social
financial status. Okay? So, never deem
your lights for somebody else's lights
to shine. Okay? I know I said 10 points
at the beginning of this video, but some
for some reason I have 15 points on my
on my notes and I'm going to say all 15
because they all matter. In fact, this
next one is actually one of my absolute
favorite ones as well. Stop waiting for
external validation. My sisters and my
brothers, learn to validate yourself so
that the opinion of others who don't
mean a thing to you won't matter much to
you. Don't wait for someone to tell you
you're beautiful. The one that I see
commonly is, for example, when you want
to post a picture or want to post a
content on social media. I used to do it
before, but now I'm like, mm- if I
believe it's okay, then I will go ahead
and post it. You want to post content
and then you ask 10 people for their
opinion before you make the move. Why?
And then by time you ask 10 people, they
give you different conflicting opinions
and then you are now confused on what to
now post or what to now do. You want to
post something, go ahead and post it if
your heart tells you to do so. Right?
Validate yourself. Love on yourself. Be
confident in yourself. Know who you are.
Own you who you are with your full
chest. And don't wait for somebody to
come and tell you, "Oh, you're good
enough at something," before you get up
and take action. Take action. Whether or
not you hear somebody clapping for you
or urging you or nudging you or
motivating you to go, take the action
and do it on your own. Take the
initiative and do it on your own. Stop
waiting for external stimuli.
Stimulate yourself from inside. Validate
yourself from within you. Okay. The 14th
point on my list will be for you not to
share too much about your life. This one
I have a whole video on the channel
about it. Don't talk too much about your
life. Don't give details about your
life. Don't go on social media telling
everybody the pances that your husband
wore to have sex with you the other day
or what don't do that. Keep some things
to yourself. Not everything should be
shared. Something should be left to the
imagination. Don't carry all your
personal life and go and be throwing it
out to the public sometimes.
Okay, shut it. And finally on my list on
how you can command respect and have
people take you seriously will be for
you to honor the promises you made to
yourself and don't compromise for
anything that doesn't help you uphold
it. You've made a promise to yourself.
Honor it. You've made a promise to
yourself to wait until you're married
before you engage in sexual activities.
Honor that promise. I'm talking to
somebody on this channel right now.
This is a message for somebody watching
me right now. Don't let anybody [Laughter]
[Laughter]
go you or bully you into giving up
things that you know that you should not
be giving up just because they has been
talking you into that person will leave
you and then you'll not be crying. Don't
do that. Okay. So, honor the promises
you've made to yourself. Again, if the
promise is okay, you wanted to start a
project or you wanted to do something or
you wanted to get better at something or
you wanted to read a book and you
promised yourself to do better. You
promised yourself to wake up earlier
tomorrow, you promised yourself to start
going to the gym, you promised yourself
to start eating healthy, you promised
yourself to start working on your
personal appearance, you promised
yourself to start working on your on
your body carriage. You promised
yourself that you want to start being an
organized person. You want to be a good
cook. You want to go and get that
degree. You promised yourself you buy
that course. Keep the promise you made
to yourself. People know when you keep
the promise you made to yourself. And
remember what I said at the beginning,
respect is not given. Respect is
mirrored. People will respect you or
treat you based on how they see you
treat yourself. When I come into your
territory, and I see that in your
territory, there is no messing around. I
see that in your territory everything is
10. There's boundaries. There's
composure. Everything is organized. I
would never treat you another way. I
would treat you how I see you treat
yourself based on what I'm observing
with my eyes. So these are pretty much
some of the points that I know
personally can help a person start
commanding respect every day and ensure
that other people take you very
seriously in whatever setting whether
it's personally or professionally. If
there is any point that I missed out and
you know that should be added to this
list as always let's continue the
conversation in the comment section down
below. But before I go, I just wanted to
quickly remind you of the Excellence
Elite membership group. We're going to
be closing the group real soon. So, if
you still want to join and be a part of
my inner circle, then click the link in
description box down below to get more
details about the value of the of the
group and then how you can access it as
well. And then remember that we have
lots of resources in the Windows school
of excellence library where you can
actually access and start leveling up
your lives in a different area. We have
the art of speaking eloquently and
elegantly cost for anyone who wants to
improve their communication. We have the
mindset reset digital resource on
breaking free from limiting beliefs. It
contains an ebook, a nine-part video
series that goes in depth into limiting
beliefs, how they affect a person's
life, how they ampire with your growth,
and then how you can overcome them and
and literally break free from the
shackles of them. And then it also
contains a workbook that literally helps
you hold your hands and walk walk you
through practical steps on how you can
break free from limiting beliefs. And
then finally, of course, we have the
vision and purpose mastery webinar
that's coming up on the 23rd of August.
Like I said, if this video goes up
before the 23rd, then you can still join
us on the 23rd of August. But if the
video goes up after, then you would have
to um watch the replay for the webinar.
All of the links to everything I've
mentioned now will be in the description
box down below, so be sure to check it
out there. Okay, that's pretty much all
that I have for you for today. Again,
again, finally guys, before I go, if you
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Until then, remember to stay very very
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