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first and foremost man um it's a

pleasure having you great to be i' I've

seen yourself for for actually quite

some time and I was saying before we

walking in here I was like oh man I

someone messaged me from your team a

long time ago to to get on uh that

Network that you created uh value

tainment yes

and you know I've been seeing your stuff

more lately obviously I saw you on Rogan

um I've seen you do stuff with Tate I've

seen you do a ton of stuff and and I

just kind of like the perspective you

take on a lot of topics a lot of

things um but first and foremost so you

came in with a book and that's releasing

soon right yes this is coming out

Tuesday December

5th so I I figured I figured like you're

probably doing like a podcast run you're

like kind of like I don't know promoting

the book or just talking about the B I'm

just on the road right now you know but

uh ours wasn't for the podcast run you

and I just connected about doing a

podcast together and it's so interesting

that I saw the I saw the Titleist and

just like just just brought me back man

it was like I've made so many mistakes

not uh I don't even it's it's like

choosing the right enemies just like I

don't know it's like seeing something

before how do I explain this like before

it was a thing like for me on social

media before like I didn't know that

social media was going to be what it is

to day right like I'm 34 years old I

started social media in 201 like 11 2010

before Instagram blew up and was this

thing that was like oh

ecomerce and I learn all the stuff and I

I learned all the you know I learned

everything the hard way I learned

everything the hard way um I learned how

to like do the marketing the hard way I

learned that like everyone's going to

like if it works they're going to take

it and use it for their own um and it's

interesting like it's so funny I I bet

you if I probably read that book like I

don't even know what's in the book which

is based on that title if I probably

read that book before I did all the

Social Media stuff I probably wouldn't

necessarily I mean I could be in the

same situation cuz people tend to make

mistakes even when they're told yo like

you shouldn't do this and here's like

the guidelines not to do this here's

what to look for to not run into this or

to not have this happen and people still

end up making the same sort of mistakes

that maybe you've learned from and

you've written about in that book um I

guess I kind of want to get right into

it with you like you're obviously wildly

successful in a lot of different facets

what do you think for young men is and

let's say like the age range of like 18

to 25 because you know everyone goes

like Oh from you know I always feel like

Gary V be like from this age to this age

you focus on this and this age to this

age you focus on that from like 18 to 25

because it's a lot of the demographic uh

my audience what do you think is the

most important thing for men to or women

to focus on to get closer to like

whatever their goal is I would say the

the the most by the way I got to tell

the audience I thought you were 5'10 soz

I was you about 265 265 if you've not

met him whichever camera I'm looking at

face to face this is a big guy okay yeah

a big I had no idea you're 63 265 I

thought you're like the bodybuilding 510

511 yeah no no yeah it's cool it's

typically we're talking about it tall

guys are not big guys tall guys are yeah

but but you're a legit big guy no so you

know it's a good question you're asking

here's what I would say for me it was

more about you know everybody's trying

to choose an industry or a software or

do I sell this product or do I go do

real estate or do I go do content

creation do I go be a YouTuber do I what

do I sell what do I do do I become a

coder I am more interested at 18 to 25

for me to learn the right habits for

example my kids I got four of them 11 10

72 okay my son everything with me with

my two kids my 11 and my 10-year-old

everything is what do do they love first

what strengths do they have that they

like are they numbers are they

sports are they art movies and then from

there is to give them the best examples

in that area for them to model right so

if I'm 18 to 25 years old and I want to

go out there and win I'm not choosing an

industry I'm choosing a leader so if I'm

18 you and I are buddies at 18 we're

like hey bro let's go make it in

Hollywood our Focus if we were 18 and we

want to go into Hollywood I would have

been like dude what Circle do we need to

get into because you see John favro

always does movies with you know Vince

vaugh you know swingers or whatever

these movies they do together Adam

Sandler always does stuff with you know

these guys always are doing movies

together so I want to get close to a

person I can model that's winning so if

it's real estate I would make the list

of top 10 best realtors in my community

I want to go work for that guy if it's

youtubing you know YouTube I want to go

find out okay Bradley does he need

anybody for me to come work for him

watch him I want to come watch to see

what you're doing I'm going to go choose

a person to duplicate their habits how

they negotiate how they fight how they

lose their emotion how they you know

lower the temperature in a room how they

read different people because you're in

a meeting with four or five people

negotiating but then the best part about

the negotiating is what the debrief on

how you go into a meeting then the

debrief after you leave the meeting so

after you leave the meeting like so

Bradley what did you think about the guy

you think he had the leverage do you

think they meant it do you think that

threat they give us that if we don't

come up at this price they're not going

to go above it you're like I don't

believe them Mary what do you think I

think you're like wow so that's how they

negotiate afterwards so now after

2425 you either are so in love with this

crew you're running with oh you're like

I don't like the way these guys do

things I can do these seven things

better and emem you transition but to me

number one is picking up the right

habits from the Right leader so okay so

I guess because I've been asked this

question so many times myself but

sometimes people just straight up be

like I don't like know what I want to do

so how do you think someone could figure

out what it is they want to do first

right so obviously if I know okay I want

to be a real estate agent I can find

these guys great advice right amazing

advice but if I'm just like looking

around at people and things and I have

an answer for this but I I want yours on

it how do you to figure out what it is

that you want to do and obviously that's

so complex and it's like maybe in this

year you want to do this and you do it a

little and you realize you don't want to

do it and then you move on but how would

you start being like okay this is what I

should go towards so so my counsel is

actually to the people that don't know

what they want because if you do know

what you like for example right now my

you know 10-year-old son he is playing

soccer his day starts off after school

from 3: to four he swims for an hour

then he comes finishes his homework then

5:30 to 6:30 is baseball then 7:30 uh uh

6:30 to 7:30 is soccer then he's going

to do Jiu-Jitsu and then he goes and

does this that's a schedule four or five

days a week

but now he's kind of like starting to

fall in love with soccer we're not going

to pick and shoes until he's around 13

14 years old to kind of be able to focus

on two of them right the kid that knows

what he's going to do at 16 years old

this advice means nothing to that kid

but the person that's in decisive

doesn't know what industry they want to

get in what matters more is the

individual you work for because okay so

let's just say if I uh um spend time

working with you or training with you

I'm a tall guy I'm 18 years old I don't

have the physique you got but I come and

start saying Hey man can I work out with

you three days a week when you work out

I go 5:00 in the morning I go 6 o'clock

in the morning I can watch to see what

you do you're super set how you do it do

you do chest back do you just do push

pull are you push push guy are you a

pull pull guy do you do legs once a week

do you do abs every day what is your

format right and I kind of study you but

I also watch your discipline no matter

what we do you don't eat a certain thing

so whether I leave you and I go do

another another industry what I picked

up from you paying attention to details

the discipline the habits that's going

to help me in real estate so it's it's

got It's industry uh uh uh uh proof it's

got nothing to do with industry you pick

up the right habits from the Right

leader then if later on you find out uh

the right industry or thing you want to

do in your life you're going to be fine

there's a quote that kind of moved me

when I was younger was called sometimes

on a way to a dream you get lost and

find a bigger one sometimes you don't

know it sometimes just kind of going

you're like you know I think I want this

I think I want that like oh there's no

that's what I want and then you're

obsessed you're maniacal you can't stop

thinking about it for 3 months six

months you're like no this is not just a

thing I'm excited about I'm still

thinking about this thing so do you

think that's that's how because all the

things you were saying is like it's all

in hindsight in retrospect of like you

knowing what you know now to be able to

like decipher obviously because I'm

asking you these questions like okay

what should a person look for like you

know you're in these meetings and you're

outside these meetings you're looking

you're attentive you're seeing you come

work out with me oh he does this and he

does that like some people don't even

know to like look for that cuz right now

in the world there's so much of that on

the internet you could just go look at

some YouTube videos you can go get some

information like you can learn so much

information freely and openly where is

like that's what I find interesting that

some people don't see that first and

foremost like that's not the first thing

they go towards like they're not

Discerning the information that way

they're just going like that guy has

success and he works out and even though

maybe they want some of this stuff I

don't know that if they're not like

looking for the right points or pointers

to to like so my my question to you was

before you knew how to look at

everything that way and you were younger

you were 18 19 like how did you start to

find your first like push towards

success where you're like okay like do

you think you're just a different breed

from like born no I I I was a so I was a

1.8 GPA kid in high school I was good in

math but I failed biology I I I was not

uh uh good in school I went to the Army

right after high school because to me

I'm going to do army for 20 years that's

kind of what my deal was that's one day

I'm staying at my sister's apartment

we're partying at the jacuzzi downstairs

off of Burbank and Balo and enino by the

way thatment complex down here yeah and

it's I'm 18 years old and then 4:00 a.m.

I come in the morning upstairs sister

wakes me up saying I don't know what you

did last night I'm about to get evicted

I'm like I don't want to hear this right

now it's I got to sleep I slept very

late you got to figure something out I'm

like I'm not figuring nothing out I get

up in the morning to go to my car 1983

Toyota Cora my mother left him when she

went back to Iran cuz I just sold my

Chevy S10 long bit with those low

profile wheels and the system that was

me at 18 years old I bought that truck

from an MS13 leader the day I bought it

that night I got arrested in LA in front

of Arena at 16 years old so that's my

story what it was at that time but so I

go outside to find a Corolla it's stolen

can't find it yeah we find find it a few

months later in Tijana but I that that

moment I come upstairs I'm in the

balcony I said what am I going to be

doing I call my dad I said come pick me

up take me to the recruiting station we

go to glandel the guy the recruiter

Jesus Gara I've been looking for this

guy since I was 18 he had been following

up with me since 14 years old he told me

at 14 a guy like you should join the

Army I said if you can get me to go to

the Army tomorrow I'm in he said it's

going to take 6 months I said I'm not

signing up he makes calls two did you

want to go so bad I just wanted to get

the hell away from here nothing was

going my way I was working on Burger

King at the time at 18 years old uh I'm

I'm with crowd of kids you know one of

the guys goes to jail for eight years

for selling ecstasy 100,000 ecstasy

pills he gets caught with another guy

ends up dying from taking Viking and

pills my best friend in the world and it

just it was a bad environment I just

wanted to get it I'm like I'm I I do not

want to be here so I got away and I go

into the army I said I'm going to do 20

years then I'm going to get out I'll

I'll be a firefighter and then I'll be a

cop and I'm good so I go to the Army I'm

in it 2 and a half years I'm the best

Hummer mechanic at my unit not a big

deal but to me I'm winning in life right

I'm a Hummer mechanic and I'm I'm a

bodybuilder that's who I am I'm training

I'm I see some old pictures of you the

old pictures yeah cuz I was goingon to

be like you would come to my room I had

a picture of like all the angel Tevis

Amy fidal and then I had Chris Cormier

Arnold you know Ronnie Aon Baker that

era that was my era right so and then

one day I get a call from a guy named

kogan and this is the key to kind of

give you maybe the answer to the

question here he calls me kogan he says

uh what are you doing I said nothing man

he says how's everything I said you

realize it's 10:00 I'm in Kentucky

you're in La what are you doing call me

at I got formation the morning he said

what are you do I said everything's

going good tomorrow I'm reenlisting for

six years you going to reinlist I said

of course I'm re it's my ceremony I'm

getting an army accommodation medal from

Lieutenant Colonel PX they got

everything I wanted on my order go to

DLI I speak multiple languages sear

School 18 Delta I'm going to Venza Italy

they're giving me

everything he says you can't do that I

said why can't I do that he says you

just can't do that he spent an hour on

the phone pleading with me to get out I

said tell me why he says because Pat I'm

telling you I believe you can be very

successful outside of the military who

was this person kogan okay this is the

this the only guy that came and visited

me in the Army he was with me for 3

weeks we had a great time when he said

this to me this was the first time

somebody poured into me where I'm like

whoa this is an interesting language on

what you're talking about believe in

you're capable of this I go to sleep I

wake up in the morning I can't go to

sleep I go tell Colonel PX I'm going to

get out I'm not staying in the army

anyways I get out and obviously from

there things change but to answer the

question for you in life those who do

something big and I'm talking very big

they have three things in common okay

one they experienced unconditional love

from one person that's all you need they

experience

unconditional love you can screw up you

can get arrested you can come home drunk

acting like a fool you're sick as a dog

throwing up all over the place it's okay

baby mommy loves you you're like man

this person loves me like this I was an

idiot tonight and you still love me wow

the possibility of this kind of love

exist that's hope two you need

Unbelievable pain of betrayal of someone

whose approval you will never gain you

will never win you're going to go it's

could be an ex could be a father could

be a mother could be a uncle a coach a

sibling somebody that shattered your

heart publicly humiliated you and no

matter how much you win no matter how

much money you make no matter how buff

you are how much you bench how much you

squat you're never going to win that

person over it's unbelievable pain

the third

one is choosing the right

enemy the third one is choosing the

right enemy explain that one the first

two I understand very clearly the second

one I understand extremely personal the

the third one I I want to understand

your perspective on it I I can tell by

the way I'm saying this to you because

that's that's kind of my life these

three the third one is like dude we

choose so many wrong enemies for no

reason like you know you're I'm a dieh

hard Laker fan screw the Clippers and

the Celtics what a waste of an enemy and

we consume our time looking at the

numbers and the data for what how much

time am I putting into this enemy Lakers

don't pay you what do you mean

enemy or this is now later on if you own

a team and you're like now you can have

real enemies because there's business

involved enemies could be you know

somebody you're competing with or maybe

a level above you it's not like a big

deal like oh okay this and then some

people just do something to you that

wake your ass up I'm

24 years old 23 24 years

old

and at this point I'm going to Vegas 26

times a year I skip the zizzi X the

drive the three and a half hour drive

that you make to go to you know Vegas

and I'm partying pimpson hoes and all

this stuff and naked was the club back

in the days that was a big deal and all

these but this is you know Garden of

Eden sentury club I'm talking Dublin's

I'm this is old school stuff you're 35

I'm 45 36 I think you said I'm 34 okay

so so 11 years so you know maybe you

know those names you probably don't know

those names but I will tell you what

happened one day I go to Christmas party

with my dad a Syrian family we're in

Glendo we're nobody our family's nobody

there's no one in our family that has

something to say say well you know the B

David family this my dad's working at a

99 cent store on uh Manchester right

next to Great Western foran Englewood

he's had so many heart attacks my dad is

like you know he went from being

successful in Iran lost everything and

he just came me a divorce just one of

those reputations incredible man so

we're at this Christmas party and 28

years old I'm 23 24 years old bro this

one relative who's a sweet guy says one

condescending comment about my

dad I have no idea what

happened I look at this guy like I'm GNA

kill

you and then I look at my dad and I saw

my dad go like this a little bit

oh so again disgust her in in

embarrassment and in pain yeah and then

I looked at him and I said I'm giving

you permission to talk to my dad like

that no problem

you want to talk to my dad like that

it's your fault Pat I said Dad we're

leaving he said what do you mean I said

we're leaving he said we just got here I

said we're leaving he said we're not

leaving my family here you're not going

to embarrass me I said Dad we're leaving

pulls me said he says this is my family

I said Dad I'm telling you we're leaving

I'm your ride tell them we're leaving

and then I go around hey thank you

everybody thank you so much we're

leaving we walk to the car we're

fighting the entire time we get in the

car we got a 30-minute drive back to

Granada Hills cuz I'm living in Granada

Hills at the time I said he doesn't talk

to you like that I said ' these people

you helped I know these people who the

hell is he to talk to like that and then

I asked my sister to come home and my

brother-in-law Sam to come on POC and I

said I don't care what happens the world

is going to know your last name they're

going to know how incredible of a father

you are they're going to have to kill me

but they're going to know who you are

Bradley I didn't know that was going to

be my enemy all of a sudden I call my

girlfriend I said we're done I go 17

months no sex my I'm telling you 17

months no sex I go 17 months no sex cuz

I'm single at this time I drop Vegas I

tell all my friends don't call me

anymore they thought I'm bullshitting

them everything for me became obsessed

about winning to make this guy proud

that fire at 2324 is still here and it's

still

pushing now enemies is not just that

story I'm telling you it comes in many

different shapes and sizes and shapes

and forms but for you and I say you I

say anybody

it's you'll make a very interesting

exercise one of my flights back from

Chicago I took a yellow notepad out and

I just started writing people who said

comments or a look that were piercing

and I just wrote it

down and I wrote

down kept writing right on right on next

page cuz typically like I'm the best I'm

the greatest you're a leader you're a

this

you're yeah whatever I read this I'm on

flight and I'm ready to roll and then

that became my affirmation rather than

the affirmations for me being all the

positive things it becames these

affirmations of what people said and

then that produced jeice in me wanting

to go in ways I wouldn't have normally

gone because to do something big and

like look what elon's going through

right now it to talk to you about this

yeah I mean if you look at what elon's

going through right now who the hell

wants to be Elon why would you I mean

think about it right now imagine you got

$245 billion right now yeah you're worth

$300 billion you're going to go byy

Twitter and be the most hated man in

America yeah and and not only that but

he's it's it's I always find it

interesting how like I I see people's

comments even just about that where

people say like oh this guy's going to

be broke in x amount of years like you

think the the one of the richest men in

the world who got to this point you know

is just going to be broke it's just a

crazy thing the way that people kind of

like will dig at you

but in regards to this Elon thing what

what is your take on it what do you

think about cuz I I I feel very strongly

I I definitely agree with the idea of

okay if these people are you know saying

oh we're not going to advertise here

because we don't like the fact that

you're on a platform and you're

allowing basically free speech that's

not being tailored to one side or the

other um then it's just a weird concept

that I see it's like are are people

resisting that like is that the res is

it the resistance towards that because

he went on to say in that I don't know

if you saw the excert he went on to say

like when he was speaking to that guy he

went on to say like if this company

fails it'll be at the hands of these

people who said we're not going to give

you you know all this money anymore and

the the guy who's who's interviewing him

is like well aren't people just going to

say like you just made Bad Business

decisions and I find it I just find the

whole thing so interesting because at

the core of it is it is it the

resistance of free speech that people

are like cuz everyone's starting to see

it now like I could even speak from a

perspective as a Creator on YouTube and

other social media platforms where I'm

like I can't say certain things I can't

do certain things I know that if like a

really dumb

example if I didn't bleep out swear

words in my podcast I would be you'd be

demonetized you'd be like a little bit

you like your videos won't show up and

it's like I could understand this one

but you know back when it was

like the co stuff it was like you talked

about this your videos were like shadow

man your account sh it's just

like it's like what became like what's

becoming of and this is a whole greater

conversation we could have but we'll

talk about that after this Elon thing

it's just becoming like a weird place

where even as a Creator and as someone

who's been on the internet I because

I've been on the internet for the last

YouTube for the last 12 years Instagram

for the last 15 like since like well I

guess 14 13 14 years since 2011 and I I

just noticed I've seen all the

transitions of it when it was like it

first started being this you know I

think back in 2017 familyfriendly was a

thing and then you know they just keep

like guising it in different things of

essentially you know all these big

advertisers wanting these platforms to

function a certain way and then

obviously the big platforms like kind of

you know moving for those advertisers

and then now you have this guy Elon

who's like well obviously he's very

successful highly one of the most

successful men in the world and he's

like it and then you have these people

interviewing question like well you're

just going to be like they're going to

say you made bad decisions and I just

find it so interesting the whole thing

where it's like what's what's happening

and where is this going like in the long

run is

it is

it I'm not trying to get so political

and like so divisive because like that

in and of itself is also just like

creating more discourse that doesn't

need to be there nor more problems that

doesn't need to be there but like I just

don't I don't see the a problem in

having a platform that you can say

things without it being like just it's

gone and you you can't do that in your

accounts gone now you know first of all

heroes depending on the levels of hero

are born based on tension right if there

is tension there's resistance and you

stand up then you're a hero so the more

the resistance the bigger the hero okay

a hero could be somebody as small as you

know the raccoon is chasing the little

girl the mom comes and grabs the raccoon

you've seen this video going viral and

she throws the raccoon and gets the kid

coming in closes the door that's a hero

but she resisted the pain of the raccoon

biting her hand that's a level of a hero

right right it could be you know uh a

fight breaks out you and I are at a bar

or at a restaurant and we see a guy

talking to a girl and he raises his

hands and he hits her like dude listen

we don't know what's going on here guys

this can't happen you guys got to figure

this thing out we'll go and break we're

a hero for a minute in that bar right

but what this guy is

doing they are D they're trying to

tarnish destroy his reputation at the

highest level and he's standing up

saying go f yourself and says yeah Bob

you know when he says Bob you know who

he's talking about Disney CEO Bob Iger

Disney CEO right so but let's look at

this let's actually look at

this do you know how much Disney has

lost

in year and a half of their stock you

know how much they' lost I know the

details but I do know I've I've read a

good amount about just like I don't know

if it's the boycotting just of like the

certain movies that they're putting out

like that but I've seen it go down so

$195

billion they've lost 56% of their stock

it's so bad right now that guess who's

celebrating behind closed doors Apple

because Apple's the only one that can

buy him and now Bob Iger is kind of

trying to split up the company so people

can buy pieces at a time he facts these

are facts this is online you can go take

a look at this so they've been having a

conversation with apple Apple's sitting

right now on 150 give or take billion

dollars of cash you're sitting on real

cash you know is what they have and

that's public info it may even be a low

number I'm giving you so let's look at

Bob Iger Bob Iger chose the wrong

enemies what did Bob do Bob chose

parents as enemies B Bob chose parents

as enemies and he chose the transgender

Community as his allies what your number

one customer isn't kids your number one

customer is the person that controls has

the power of the remote that is the

parent you you thought for a second the

the kid is putting on you got to win the

parents over so what happens flop after

flop after flop after flop after flop

that Disney has so for Elon when he's

taking a position like this or even Dana

you saw the clips with Dana you know

with pelaton or Dan couple of the

companies he talked about you're seeing

guys like Dana guys like Elon inspiring

others and some of this started off with

a little bit of trump where he was not

backing down from the media inspiring

others to say I want to have a backbone

you just saw Connor right now saying

what are you doing to my country like

this is this is when you're starting to

see hey I like the fact that you got

pride in what you're doing I like the

fact that you got pride in certain

values and principles that you got going

on and elon's definitely got that but to

me I think this is a very normal

transition that you're going through uh

uh were your parents married or did you

did they go through a divorce oh my uh

my mom my mom remarried my my my parents

got divorced when I was five like my

father had passed away when I was very

young yeah he took his life when when I

was six and then my mom remarried after

that I had no idea no it's fine yeah

that's the whole sorry to hear that bro

yeah we talked about the pain thing

earlier that was like the driving factor

for a lot of I totally got you so when

you like think about your mom gets

remarried you're five right boys no

matter how old you are you're protective

we're all protective right in a weird

way we're all kind of protective of our

mom say the man comes in and he imposes

himself on your mom

okay and he does a little bit and your

mom's like I'm sorry Johnny a little bit

more I'm sorry Johnny and then he now

starts becoming an and then now

he pulls out the violent card or now he

starts becoming like a jerk now he

starts humilating in front of everybody

all of a sudden one day you're 12 years

old you just come and you punch him in

the face and you throw some at him

or you even at that moment you all

you're thinking about is protecting your

mom you hit him with a baseball ban okay

and he's bleeding you know what just

happened he just

realized he can't screw around see the

way Bullies Are wired Bradley is they're

going to go as much as you let them go

yeah mainstream media bullied

politicians bullied government bullied

today Joe Biden tweeted something out

and he says did you know if we tax the

billionaires in America 25% of their

wealth over the next 10 years we would

get $440 billion think about what we can

do with that $440 billion you know what

I said I tweeted back I said you're you

would spend it within a half a second I

said I trust money being more in

innovators hands than politicians hands

because they know what to do with it

yeah they're not sending it in random

places that's the point but the point is

now we have these social media tools to

push back and then people who are trying

to figure things out they'll sit there

and say you know what he makes sense

he's right why would we give that money

to the government so the great equalizer

has been what Elon did if Elon doesn't

buy Twitter you think YouTube would have

been looser today YouTube would have

been tighter today what Elon did with

Twitter he opened up the floodgates for

everybody two companies Spotify not

dropping uh uh Rogan big deal yeah Elon

buying Twitter and I would even put

Rumble in there with what Chris is doing

right these three companies got

everybody to be like Whoa We have

competition now guys we can no longer

bully we can't just control we can't and

that's a good thing I have a question

though you know when we because when we

talk about like this whole like these

companies being bullies right and I I

very much I've seen a lot of your stuff

obviously I'm just say like I'm not just

over here like just citing everything

you say but I'm I'm on the same page as

you but I want to play The Devil's

Advocate CU otherwise it's like we're

just in aamber so my question is like do

you think that uh these companies have

some like just cause in their mind for

the decisions that they're making like

do do you think that they think that

they're doing like a good thing like

genuinely do you think these people are

just like in a room being like we're

evil and we want to do evil to

people cuz I also don't think that

that's true but I don't know to what

degree yeah it's okay so let's let's

unpack that so a percentage of people

maybe I actually do believe a percentage

think some people are evil a percentage

of people think they know what's right

and you don't okay they think they're

better than you they think they're

smarter than you they think they know

what's best for you and I simply because

of a piece of paper they got from a

university that brainwashed them into

thinking they're a leaders and were

dummies okay a percentage falls into

that camp so one a group that's true

believers that think the opposition is

evil two is a camp that has been

convinced that they are uh uh right and

the rest of us are dumb and we're greedy

we're selfish whatever we are right and

then you have a third Camp the third

Camp

is a camp where um you know these are

guys that are owned by the money people

for example

why why did Elon say go f yourself let

me say one more time go f yourself right

why did he say

that because he has money he doesn't

need your money he doesn't need

advertisers money so he has put himself

in a position to not need the

advertiser's money so he can't say that

now flip it okay if your name is but do

you think Elon could sustain Twitter

without advertisers money well here's

what's going to this is going to be

great case study by the way there's a

big risk to it right yeah so the the the

greatest risk to it is the people that

support what Elon is doing they have to

keep him in business for example every

time we go to Barnes & Noble I want

Barnes & Noble to stay in business

because I want a bookstore to stay

business so we'll go in and we'll buy a

few thousand dollar of stuff we

literally will go in and they know

they're here so we'll get cases kids go

boom boom boom boom and I always ask the

cashier how's business when he go your

calls are the profits good we're still

doing okay fantastic that's great and I

encourage everybody to go keep buying

Barnes & Noble books for them to stay in

business right okay if you support what

Elan is doing you got to support him

financially you got to support him by

defending him you got to support him by

making sure that he makes it the company

makes it that's what customers have to

do what's happened with Disney you know

what people have said with Disney I'm

canceling my membership that's what

they're doing so this is what happens

when you forget who the customer is you

make some mistakes and Elan is trying to

say this is who I am so the people who

respect his boldness have to jump in

there and say how can I help you how can

I support you so to the last Community

with this whole ESG Community the Dei

Community the CI Community the corporate

Equity index the diversity Equity

inclusive you know we got to hit these

numbers if you guys got this score we'll

invest money into your company if you

don't we won't give money into your

company you'll be downgraded as your

stock if your stock gets downgraded and

all this other stuff

so watch what happens this last year uh

out of all the uh major league baseball

teams right do you know what's the only

major league baseball team that didn't

have pride

night I don't the Texas Rangers oh

should have figured you know the world

the freaking Rangers won the World

Series think think about how weird that

is for a second yeah Texas but that

can't CH I mean but the point is they're

not the best team in the league I'm a

Yankees guy I'm you understand I'm like

think the energy is that real but but

that's not the point the point to me is

Sometimes some some things are in our

control maybe God is trying to say

something I don't know what the hell was

the Rangers doing winning you were not

the top five best team in the league

they won the damn worlds and they're the

only one that didn't have a pride night

so what's really going on today I think

today is like today's a like if there's

ever been a time where you know the the

right enemy the right thing that drives

you can bring out the best in certain

lead leers that we haven't even yet seen

like imagine how many

Elan how many kids Elon is inspiring

like we don't even know the next layer

of yeah 50,000 elans that are I'm going

to be Elon I'm going to be think about

what they're going to be doing we're not

going to see that for 20 years yeah so

so so the point is these guys that are

standing up they're inspiring an entire

different generation of people but Elon

also needs the backing from the people

who support him to also defend him

that's how we show support to a certain

value and principle that we're about as

well yeah yeah I mean dude I I I love I

love what he's done I love what he's

doing I I love what he stands for I love

the fact that you know you don't take

like that and because obviously he's in

a position to not have to take like that

um and I just I just think like nowadays

it's becoming I don't know the internet

and social media and news and politics

and Wars it is becoming a very

interesting thing I think I I was

talking to someone about this the other

day but you you would I mean only 10

years older but I feel like it's kind of

always been sort of this like way it's

just been a lot more in our face because

of so social media and the way

everything is more rapidly spread like

do you think that social media is

having CU I remember it was so funny

when social media first started I it was

doing Instagram and like like even

YouTube everyone's talking to you like

oh you're like some like stupid kid like

this is kid like this is not really

going to be anything that like oh this

is dumb and like these are all real jobs

and like this is all like and now it's

like there's so much focus on social

media oh yeah it's just it's crazy how

it's all progressed but I guess do you

think that social media has been like a

a net positive or a net negative in this

whole like seems to be like ideological

war in a sense all right guys quick

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it's done yeah so you know back in the

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Taco and you're their vice president

you're making 150 a year and you get

into fight with your wife okay you get

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terrible fight you're on your way home

on 405 free way you got a 45 minute

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calm down before you get home and

decrease the chances of a terrible fight

today you're that same vice president at

Del Taco you're making 150 200 Grand a

year you get into a fight with your wife

at 6 o' you got 50 minutes drive time

your texting her your calling her your

FaceTiming her your immediate reaction

emotionally is experienced right off the

bat okay right so we offend we

disrespect the tension goes higher and

we don't have a oh boom go back to be

normal right reality reality this thing

exaggerates everything right it's an

exaggerator it's a two but it

exaggerates now having said that if used

properly you know it can do a lot of

good if used negatively it can do a lot

of damage we're seeing the negativity on

kids with Tik Tok we're seeing you know

the craziest thing we're seeing that

that's being done that's inspiring

younger kids like if you look at the

percentage of kids that are part part of

the lgbtq community you look at the

traditionalist it's 7% these are people

that are born in the you know they're

they're pre- Boomers Boomers is like

1.7% then it goes to like 5% then 10%

genz 21% identifies as lgbtq what you

mean in 50 years we went from being 0.5

5.7% to one out of five yes how the hell

does that happen because they're on Tik

Tok and on Tik Tok whoever they turn

into a hero we going to model so for

example watch this when you and I were

coming up it was about life of the Rich

and Famous right so it's like oh my God

this show life of the did you see that

limo one day I'm G to have a limo when's

the last time you got Lio limo think

about a limo right limos used to be like

do we getting picked up in a limo

tonight when we go out right today limo

companies are going out of business

there's no such as a limo thing right

wow look at the house look at the

helicopter look at the pool look at this

today it's you know almost confusing

that that's bad it's gone from being the

life of the Rich and Famous to the life

of the poor and victim like oh my God

you know so what can I do to get a

bigger reaction of people feeling sorry

for me today so that's very confusing so

now

kids are indirectly like the the the

Energy power Fame Prestige brings to

want to have that like no matter who you

are at whatever level you want to walk

into a room and you want to have some

respect you want to have some Fame

within your cousins I'm the one that got

my four-year degree from UCLA you know

I'm famous for the UCLA grad or I'm

famous because I just got promoted to my

regional vice president of Budweiser and

I'm doing this I'm just about my first

condo we want a little bit of that

Prestige and the fame and the respect

become like a trophy yeah we but

whatever

hero that whatever the market turns into

hero kids want to look up to and become

that right emulate yeah emulate exactly

so it's very I mean the Market's turning

some of the most weirdest things into

Heroes Tik tok's turn some of the

weirdest people into Heroes so is

Instagram so is mainstream media so kids

are so flipping confused like if there's

ever been a time to take your kids out

of Public School today's a time like

when you and I went to did you go to

public or private school both okay yeah

so I went to private and fifth grade in

Iran and then it was all public school

from Germany and in La I went to

glendell high school and Wilson junor

High School so public school I went but

public school back then was not the

public school of today today's public

school is a very different public school

okay it's been 16 17 years since you

went to public school and it's been a

long time for me as well it ain't the

same thing today so protecting your kids

to make sure the influence they're

getting having the conversations with

them asking them what do you think about

this asking them what teachers are

saying asking them what kids are saying

in school talking to your kids early

about that kind of stuff most parents

are afraid of doing that and if you

don't teach them trust me somebody else

will and you're going to lose your kid

for 5 10 15 20 years and it's it's

interesting I've had I had a few

conversations with people like I just

randomly went to a beach uh I don't know

a couple months ago I randomly went to a

beach in down in San Diego and I was

just like standing there some guy

recognized like oh you're Bradley I seen

your podcast and then he starts telling

me about like his his daughter and how

she's in school and like these these

things that that these teachers are

teaching her um in regards to the LGBT

stuff and then in regards to like some

socioeconomic stuff and I'll just give

you the socioeconomic stuff he's like he

was having this conversation with this

this like teacher after the fact CU he

was listening during a zoom like

teaching because this must have been

during like the end of or something and

uh the teacher was like she he said

something and he asked the daughter like

he hears the teacher talk about like oh

this uh this is a homeless guy or some

like there's someone with a Ferrari

and the person with the Ferrari should

sell the Ferrari and like give money

that a homeless guy and uh and then he

goes back to his daughter and he's like

hey what what was this like conversation

like what did you take from this when

cuz he heard it and then he went and

asked her oh and the daughter was

telling him how like oh

like uh people with money not are bad

but they don't need it and they should

give it to other people and I'm like and

he was also like this is just a weird

there's no real like how do you teach a

kid there's without any sort of context

outside of that like how did the person

get the Ferrari how long did they work

to get the Ferrari like how did the

homeless not that like you shouldn't

help other people but it's like to just

go from like okay like that's a that's a

very like high level like socioeconomic

like like Conversation Piece that you

your teacher doesn't need to be having

like I think the class was like math

like they should be have a conversation

about math and like the problems that

they're solving in that class and not

like this this teacher's own sort of

input on the socioeconomic status of the

world and how you should treat people in

it and stuff it's just it's just a weird

thing to have your teacher teach that

without teaching any sort of perspective

around that and also just kids are not

like they're not ready for those certain

conversations yet and if they are maybe

it's with from their parent right and

not from a teacher that's supposed to

teach math or like social studies or

something and it's just kind of it's

weird because I didn't realize that

until that point because I've always

heard these conversations that people

have and they're saying this and I'm

reading on Twitter everyone's fighting

over this and kids in schools and all

this like I don't and then I finally had

these conversations I had one there and

I had like two other ones in like Santa

Monica same kind of situation walking

around and people talking to me and like

they're with their family and I just

have like little conversations and I'm

like wow this actually happening that

like people are obviously teachers have

their own sort of input of like oh I

believe this or I believe this and

they're like injecting this into

children and it's like

that that there should be some sort of

like line there you know what I'm saying

and there's just I don't think there's a

line there like because there you can't

even control it cuz unless you're in the

class 24/7 you couldn't be like what's

being taught to my kids that's right and

it's just a weird time and then like you

said you go to social media but the

social media one trips me out a little

bit because it's also like algorithm

based right I don't know like are the

algorithms themselves a platforms

themselves injecting this sort of like

narrative into itself to like spread cuz

algorithm algorithm based stuff is like

specifically nowadays you click on

something it knows it knows your phone

knows everything you touch everything

you type everything you say it knows

everything and it it puts it into these

platforms and gives you more content

based on the things you're saying like

you never you know you're on Amazon it's

like you buy something it gives you like

10 other things to buy all this kind of

is all based on your input so I also

with the social media side of it

obviously the parent side is a little

bit like more cut and dry even though it

has to be like looked at for it to be

fully understood which is like a whole

another undertaking but social media

side is is like it's too it's too hard

to say this is exactly what's happening

unless there's some other outside Source

that's like injecting I don't have kids

no I want kids you do want kids I I

totally want kids okay so you're not

you're not part of the camp that's

afraid of having kids I mean I'm

somewhat but but I want a family I want

a family more than anything I love that

yeah but but what I'm saying is like

social media is like the algorithm based

if I'm a kid and I'm looking at this

then I just start seeing more of it yeah

of course I I go down that road just

like politically speaking people they

listen to this way this person talks

they just get more of that or more of

like that side of the spectrum of right

and wrong and in this political sphere

but the same thing with like that sort

of content because you don't just start

getting that content randomly unless

like you're kind of engaging with it you

know what I'm saying so that's what I'm

saying when when we talk about the

social media and like people getting

these like Heroes that they're looking

up to and like kind of like starting to

emulate I'm I'm wondering is that coming

directly from the platform pushing it or

is it the kids are actively like

searching it and finding it because

they're being questioned or asked about

it well regard regardless of what it is

if if the algorithms favor a certain

content going viral more than another

one I mean it's there's already certain

words you use in your titles that if you

do it's going to get suppressed you know

that's so the the the the major virtual

governments these social media companies

have the power and the authority to

control what goes viral and what doesn't

go viral they have that influence period

right yeah like you know how you go to

your video creative Studios and like

suggestions how many views out of the

million views how many of them were

suggested videos oh okay and you look at

somebody else's Channel you're like 49%

is suggested I'm at 22% huh yeah that's

interesting you're getting 49% suggested

why got it what if you were 49% it's a

very interesting data to look at yeah on

your videos right so all of that

stuff is around but again for parents we

have to simply be involved we have to

simply be asking a question like with

your friend the guy you met at the beach

in San Diego when you're walking the

guys come and say hey Bradley I know who

you are and what the teacher did to them

you just have to have the conversations

with them yeah and let them what do you

think about it what do you think about

this so the other day my kids and I

we're at this restaurant we go to Louis

bossi in uh for laudale and I typically

used to go there three to five times a

week I would have my meatballs and

balsamic glaze my you know the B with

Martel and all this stuff they been with

your Arnold pump they treated me royally

but I haven't been there for 2 years cuz

I moved to Fort laale so I don't

recognize the camp I go to my wife and

kids and the hostess at the front has

her back towards me hey is it going to

take a long time to

no interesting that's the service yeah

okay finally they take a CTI us on a

back waitress comes up uh so you guys

going to have a same thing is it just

going to be water I'm like ma'am is

there any way you can lower the

temperature NOP

you can't turn off the

nope okay let's go what happened I I

don't pay for customer service like this

right out of here no no no I'm so sorry

just I said no no we're out of here my

kids this has happened in front of my

kids I said guys my wife knows okay

let's go where we going babe I said babe

where do you guys want to go let's go to

Seasons 52 we haven't been to Seasons 52

in boa for two years so now we go to

Seasons 52 boa and I tell him so now

we're talking in the car so tell me what

happened there well you know she

shouldn't have said nope I said but

what's the point though so I explain

them the tears I said you know there's

this thing called Yelp if you go on

McDonald's Yelp the average McDonald's

Yelp rating is one and a half out of

five and a worst score you can get is

one so they suck in customer service but

guess what you're only spending 10 bucks

what do you expect yeah you're not

getting a low of service for the money

you're spending so there's tiers to

restaurants lowest tier don't expect

great customer service that's why you're

paying such a little money then it's

next year then next year then this tier

this tier if you're paying 200 bucks

ahead guess what they better give you a

level five service right or else I said

we went to here so Daddy risked going to

a restaurant where the food isn't that

expensive so the waitress could or could

not give you get service that's my risk

but I get to choose what I expect from

service and I chose to leave now we're

going to go to this

restaurant when we walk in if this guy

gives us great service and asks the

right question I want you guys to pay

pay attention we will determine what tip

this guy gets the average tip people

give is around 18 to 20% but we'll

decide what we're going to give this guy

the guy comes in hi hi Mom hi Dad hey

how are you guys okay so what can I get

you what would you like Mom what would

you like Dad great d d how about how

how's he doing so far oh like a nine and

a half okay so he doesn't know we're

doing this to a guy named Michael

anyways it ends crushes it I've never

met this guy before gives incredible

service food ends everything is good he

keeps coming back grief on time

everything on time I said what should we

tip this guy Daddy I think this guy

deserves 30% I said how about we give

him 100% he says 100% I said 100% but I

said but here's what I want you to do I

want you to take the receipt to him and

tell him the reason why we chose to give

you 100% is because we the bed David

Family Value people who go above and

beyond with service and we value what

you did to us you were fantastic

they take the bill they go up to the guy

Michael we chose to do this and I'm

recording this and I take a I said do

you mind if my kids take a picture with

you the gu's emotional in tears we take

a picture with the guy and then we leave

we get in the car so watch what happened

there they just experienced that making

a sudden decision of waking up and

leaving to then if I don't do the second

part these kids could grow up being

yeah I see so you have to do

the second part and explain it to them

and say hey here's what's going on with

these kids the average kids that I go

through that feel like they have this

they typically have mommy issues or

daddyy issues or upbringing or they

didn't have this figure or they didn't

have that figure you have to understand

that you have that and this person

doesn't have that and why do you think

this person feels this way so I'll have

my kids watch uh like you got to have

real early conversation with your I had

my boys at five and seven years old in

my shower in Plano I said okay mommy's

there brushing her teeth I said okay

guys I got to have a conversation with

you come

here why what's going on come here stand

right here we're all taking a shower

Sons Daddy and the two boys I said' who

peee is that and you're like looking at

me all weird I said whose dangling is

that mine who is that mine who is this

yours okay who gets to play with

yours who only you God gave it to you

for you to play with it who gets to play

with yours only me who gets to touch

that nobody nobody okay who can one day

touch it who when one day you meet a

girl then she'll do that and help you

touch it but till then it's only for

yours to touch mine is your mommy's

yours you're going to find yours you

know what's crazy about this I've never

actually ever thought about cuz

obviously I want to be a father I want

have kids I've never actually thought

about how real this the way you're

explaining this in this moment would be

is like but you know when you going to

do explaining it and they're going to be

like okay but guess what happened to

them now they understand this is mine I

play with it you play with it you play

with it great you don't know what's

going to happen in school when somebody

comes us I show you mine you show me

yours and all this other stuff with two

boys and all this you're like no yeah no

you're not going to do it and it's only

for a girl one day it's only for a girl

one day you shape their mindset that way

God will choose a girl for you one day

right so then they replicate that to

each other and it is a standard and you

have the same conversations and I ask my

my wife just ran out she like this to un

I said baby you're going to have this

conversation with your daughter one day

but we need to have these conversations

today probably more than ever before and

if parents were open about it we're

talking about it then we're setting them

up for Success it doesn't mean they're

going to be bulletproof and people can't

try to find ways to exploit them or take

advantage of them but at least when that

opportunity comes they're going to know

daddy and mommy had the conversation

with them on how to make a decision for

themselves what what do you think

changed what do you think change where

we got to the point where we are now

where it's just so everything's so like

loose cuz you you you know you're a

little bit older obviously you have

children yeah what changed is it just

like some like what cuz cuz in my

opinion not my opinion but my question

to you is really like what what what

would be the purpose of this like I'll

tell you I'll tell you solution of okay

so I'll give you my there's three

communities that have ruined America

three communities that have ruined

America it's the tolerant

Christians it's the do your thing

Libertarians and it's the rich

Republicans that don't want anybody to

know that they're Republicans because

they're afraid they're going to lose

their Democratic friends they won't be

invited to those parties so let me

unpack this for you most Republicans are

cowards internally they're frightened

they're so afraid they're so scared they

and when I say republican forget about

Republican let's say conservative is the

word most conservative what's

conservative it's my money I worked hard

for you know my kids conservative I

believe in family I believe in man and a

woman married have kids and they rais

conservative beliefs right okay so why

Christian tolerant Christians because

there's so much like it's okay hey it's

okay where the hell are your standards

say it's not okay what do you mean it's

okay no it's not okay stand up and say

no it's not okay the pope it's okay come

have a lunch in with us yeah invite that

trans group yeah let's do this what the

hell do you mean it's okay where's your

backbone what's the manual you follow

did you recreate one do you have a new

one you know why Muslims are growing at

the pace that they're growing say what

you want about Muslims they average 2.9

kids per woman Christians average 2.1

the way it's going right now within 30

years Muslims are going to be running

America whether you like it or not the

house the Senate Governors are going to

be Muslims it's what's going to happen

they're having more kids because of the

birth rate it's just not you're not

going to be able to compete with them

it's purely mathematical okay Christians

non-muslims are not having enough kids

us at this pace if we go with the math

it's going to be a Sharia law in US it

may take 30 50 years but it's eventually

going to happen because Christians only

only have one kid or two kids Muslims

they want to keep having kids and God

forbid you say something about Prophet

Muhammad God forbid you say something

about their God God forbid you

disrespect them do you know what happens

if you do that kabib is an a press

conference with Connor yeah the guy asks

a question and he says hey uh uh kabib

uh you know uh uh Salam alaykum hey and

also Conor want to congratulate you on

your proper 12 drink kib responds hey

hey you can't say those two things at

the same time you can't say Salam Alum

and and then he says yeah shut the

what are you going to do do something

about it right he did yeah and he

wouldn't let go and then he lost his

mind you think khib gives a about

money had him at my event a few months

ago we we're doing an interview khib is

such a believer of his country and his

religion that they're not tolerant so

the tolerant Christian in America ruined

it like yeah let's take out let's take

out

prayer out of school and replace it with

what whatever you take you have to

replace it with something for example

let's just say you're a smoker and you

smoke two three packs a day I'm going to

stop smoking the way you quit is you got

to replace it with something right what

are you going to replace it with Vape

it's the same well I'm going to

quit smoking this but I'm going to

replace I'm going to quit doing this but

I'm going to okay what is that going to

be there's got to be a replacement we

replace prayer with what indoctrination

so number one problem was number one

Community was the tolerant Christians I

don't want to go too much into it but

that's the first one the second one

thing is Libertarians and I identify as

a Libertarian because I'm kind of like

the guys like look let me just do my

thing and just kind of leave me alone

that's what I want to do yeah because

let's talk about this and then I want to

talk about more about tolerance we'll

talk about it after no problem yeah so

so the the libertarian side is kind of

like you know who the the the most guys

that just work and do their thing and

they're kind of independent they're

Libertarians they have the wiring of to

I don't care if I want to put drugs in

my body it's my if I want to smoke with

it's my body if I want to do this it's

my body all right cool to to each his

own right okay that's great but the do

your thing libertarian Community gave so

much leeway to The Establishment that

finally they're like oh now we're going

to do our thing with your kids because

they're with us now in school eight

hours a day they spend more time with us

than they they do with you mommy and

daddy oh we screwed up what's the

purpose though like what what's the

point it's control and to get him into a

way of thinking that's different than

yours and mine look if you want data in

America Public Schools do you know what

percentage of English teachers donate to

the Democratic party

98% do you know what percentage of

science teachers donate to democratic

party 97% do you know what percentage of

Math teachers in public school this is

public information Math teachers is not

98 is not 97 it's 87 why because at

least math you and I get to sit there

and say yeah that that logic doesn't

make sense the logic doesn't make sense

what are you talking about this just

doesn't make sense so there is a and by

the way in Twitter when one of the first

things that Elon Musk when they went and

found out about all their employees 98%

of Twitter employees were donating to to

the Democratic party so that was one of

the first things that Elon kind of

leaked to the public he's like wait a

minute what the hell is going on here

with the Twitter files when they

released it to the public so the first

one is a tolerant Christian second one

is a li do your thing Libertarians and

the last one is is the the rich

conservatives that are afraid of being

targeted God forbid they target them so

hey make sure we don't tell anybody

because if they know we will not be

invited to that party you know what's

funny about this one yeah I have a

really famous friend like a super famous

friend who's uh in the music industry

and uh I I'll never say the name but he

uh I remember he was talking about not

posting like or having to post uh

congratulations for Biden for winning

the

election um when he didn't feel that way

but he knew that if he didn't post it

he'd be somewhat alienated from this the

I mean essentially the music industry

that's right and you know I guess a

portion of his audience and he would be

but that's crazy it is cuz like

I guess the thing that I I I could I

could see why but I also go like what

what's happening like why why are we

losing we've lost our backbone that's

what I'm trying to say we've lost our

backone

so we have gone away from putting a

leader first a leader with backbone as

first okay everything in life is but is

it because everyone's afraid of losing

money no no we've made money God instead

of leadership and values and principles

like don't get me wrong you got to have

money to have a bigger mic for sure yeah

but at what cost at what cost so you

know how much money can I give you for

you to become gay tomorrow can I give

you a billion dollars it wouldn't change

my sexuality for money but but do you

understand what if I told you starting

tomorrow I want you to do a surgery I

want you to become a girl I want you to

get a boo I'm being honest with you but

I want you to think about this would you

do it for a billion dollars no would you

do it for10 billion no I love be me what

if I made you the richest man in the

world no that's the point we need more

guys like you but but watch how stupid

of a question this is what I'm asking

like kind of a question does somebody

ask me what are you talking about that's

the point we got to get back to that

there's certain limits in life but we're

not even talking about a billion dollars

here for most people it's like I know

that but but but but trust me like

sometimes it's become Fame and money has

become more valuable than actually being

a valued leader with character that's

tough that's stubborn that's willing to

stand up that's able to reason and able

to you know give his message give his

argument get people to say here's how I

think about this here's what I think we

ought to do here's why we ought to rise

up and stand up for this we have we are

out of whack in our priorities we we

look at heroes in a complete different

way because of social media error it's a

very confusing way of what we look at

you know it's it's not it's not it's no

longer about how many followers can I

how many likes did I get how many this

and by the way this goes across the

board to everybody versus n I'm good man

we're not taking money for that no we're

not going to be doing that part you know

like the other day had a conversation

with a couple of our sponsors they're

like well you know we'll give you a

million dollars nope we're not doing it

we'll give you million and a half

dollars whatever the number they were

offering us am I guy the marketing guys

doing the math he like man 7% path we

got to do this I'm like I'm not doing

this what do you mean you're not doing

this I'm telling you I'm not doing this

I'm not going to do this for any amount

they give us that's not my brand that's

not what I believe in what sort of

products are you talking about it it

it's a random product that I mean for me

if you told me right now for me to do

alcohol say you know uh uh I don't drink

beer okay I used to drink uh uh a good

what do you call it what was Blue Moon I

love Blue Moon I don't drink beer um I

will have an oldfashioned okay and if

you ever have an old fashioned with me

and they'll bring it I I'm going to have

one4 of it and that's it okay I have a

glass of wine if it's a nice super

tuskin wine in my house I got a few

hundred, worth worth of alcoh when he

comes to South Florida we'll have you on

and I'll we'll have lunch at the house

together you'll see tell me what I know

about the alcohol nothing and by the way

I try to finish all the qua tequila when

I was in the Army couldn't do it I drank

tequila every day in the and I'm telling

you that's that was me every single day

my fridge had the cheap $8 bottles of

tequila that everybody would come and

get I was broke every month because that

was my priority that's funny but but the

point is like

we we need to talk more like Elon Dana

gets up there and says go screw go f

yourself go this like yeah backbone

stand up and say no to some of the money

so I I agree now here's the question for

for most people though right they don't

have the hundreds of millions to be able

to stand in that position not saying

that you can't stand in that position

without that money it is it is from a a

more not that they just were given it or

they just found themselves there like

obviously they did a ton to get there

but people now who let's say are just

working to figure it out do you see why

it's harder for them to stand and say

this because they kind of maybe they got

a job at in Disneyland you know what I'm

saying or even during the where it was

like you can't go to school yeah no I

just yeah go the answer is leave just

leave no dude that's why I said at the

beginning when you said like 18 to 25

what do I do choose look so you know how

every year we do business planning okay

and when we're doing business planning

by the way I'm only saying this because

I know people will be like what about

this to get it bro I because I

understand I get what you're saying but

what what I'm saying is like you know in

life when we're doing business planning

and December is typically when we start

planning for next year like okay I'm

going to do a life plan or a business

plan okay so what do you actually go

through I put something on Twitter today

about the

10 things right here's what I said

number one manage which friends

co-workers and relatives influences you

both negatively and positively so for

example when you go through this make a

list positive influence negative

influence and if I spend this many hours

a week with these guys and this many

hours a week with these guys dude I'm

cutting this fat and I'm done and the

way you train your friends is in the

following way if you typically respond

back to them within 2 minutes cuz you

know friends you text them within 2

minutes respond back to them within 6

hours then the people you respond back

to in 6 hours move them into the 12h

hour category the people you respond

back to in 12 hours move them into the

24-hour category talking about removing

removing the negative people out of your

life is one of the first things you got

to do so now watch the second thing I

have here on the I won't go through the

whole 10 thing but I'll tell you the

second thing which is very very

important is choose which circles you'd

like to be in make a list and say man

which like I remember back in the days

when I started creating content I'm like

dude who do I want to be like okay these

are the guys that are here I don't

relate to this I don't like his style

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there's boom that's my guy I relate to

him that's my kind of guy guess what

some circle is going to take six months

to get into some 12 months some may take

a decade to get into right yeah but

today the circle is also the company you

work for go work for a company that you

believe in their values and principles

go work for an organization that you're

willing to run through the wall for can

you imagine you work for a company that

you don't believe in what they believe

in now you may say but I grew up loving

Disney it's not the same Disney but I

grew up

loving you know what these guys stood

for it's not the same company it's a

very different company today the founder

is dead it's not the same founder so you

got to go figure out a way to work with

a community that you relate to because

if you can't here's what it sounds like

for

example okay I go home and they're like

so what do you do for I said dude I work

for freaking Bradley Martin what is it

like freaking awesome guy you know this

guy let me show you here's what you know

how I was looking let me tell you what

happened to him when he was six years

old here's what he went through and I

feel it because I know it's a pain and I

feel it in his eyes I love this guy I

freaking would do anything for this guy

are you serious now you go sell me your

job yeah I mean it's

just no bro sell where you're working at

sell your crew sell your gang sell your

heritage sell like one of the things

that when you think about people that

say I'm Puerto Rican and let me tell you

what I'm Puerto Rican I'm this and I'm

that and I'm this good you are this

whole concept about well it's not good

that you know you're proud American and

this no be a proud American be a proud

Armenian be a proud Assyrian be a proud

Irishmen I respect the fact that you are

proud to be whoever you are I respect

that Muslims are proud Muslims I wish

many Christians were just as proud as

being their religion as Muslims are I

respect the fact that you're proud I

respect the fact that you represent you

know how a player plays for a team and

they love that team and you know how

players like yeah i' like to be Trail

like Zion Williamson you think he loves

playing for freaking Pelicans I own his

best card and I watch this guy play I'm

like what an annoying guy to have on a

team I would never want to draft a guy

like Zion Williamson as excit he's a guy

that I actually believe could score

points in a game he does not want to be

on the Pelicans he's being talked about

his agent behind closed doors cuz he's

trying to go to the Knicks he's going to

end up going to the Knicks but you know

what he's not happy being at the

Pelicans okay fine then go for play for

the kns but at least come through for

the kns but you see certain players that

play for a team and you see them you're

like dude this guy's a freaking true

49er that guy's a true Laker like you

know there's pride in that yeah so again

going back to the answer to the question

if you're working out a place and it's

not something you value match their

values and principles go be some we can

be proud of well this I I guess the the

dissolution of it comes back down to

this tolerance thing though because like

you know you talk about the groups like

you talk you speak about Muslims being

like this is exactly how it's going to

be there's less there Le there's less

wavering of Tolerance of certain ideals

right whereas the other groups you're

speaking about are there's they're more

the tolerance is like it's more wavy and

there's more like accepting of this and

that so cuz like there there has to be

some level of Tolerance and then there

has to be some level of like line so

it's hard to go because everyone's so

uniquely different right like everyone

gets to Unique points in their life

where it's like okay now I understand

this because this happened to me and I

learned from it no bro like my opinion

again listen the thing about life is

it's going to take us until we die to

see what we were right I may be a bad

parent we're going to find out about 30

years I say the way you judge if you

were a great parent or not is when you

have grandkids if your grandkids do well

you were a great parent so I'm probably

never going to find that if I'm a great

parent cuz by the time my oldest kids

have kids and they're 30 years old to be

somebody I'm not going to be around so

it's going to take a while to know who's

right who's wrong everything that I'm

talking about here comes with a risk of

being wrong right to

um is there areas to be tolerant with

your

kids like no you have to do the sport

maybe he doesn't like it let him try two

other sports fine yeah yeah okay cool

but is there to be tolerant with being

disrespectful to the mom no zero is

there tolerance in you know one time one

of my kids talked to my

nanny in a disrespect I said what what

are you doing and I see my nanny's

crying and she loves me she's been with

us for 14 years she I I have my nanny

living with us right now and her mom is

sick I moved her mom in here from Mexico

she lives with us right now we're on the

second floor we I brought a chiropractor

yesterday did adjustments on both of

them she's 85 years old they're sitting

there doing adjustments is a ridiculous

chiropractor in Florida but

so he said something to my nanny I said

melva's crying or so I'm sorry what did

what' she say m no no daddy no it's okay

I said no what did he say I said let's

go to Club room right now he goes to the

club room with me I said who do you

think you're talking to like that I said

do you know how many diapers she Shang

with you know how many times you peed on

her you know how many times you pooped

on her you know how many times she sped

you what makes you think you can talk to

this woman like this I say you know in

your life of people that have taken care

of you she's in the top four people in

your life bro you best bring respect to

her you do not get to talk to her like

that ever for the rest of your life

because you're can have a problem with

me I'm not going to be tolerant there

bro so when it comes down to values and

principles you cannot have tolerance

because God forbid you give them this

much they will bully the hell out of you

if you give them this much Zero

Tolerance when it comes on to values and

principles now am I uh micromanaging

this I'm not that's not my style like if

you one of my direct reports CFO coo

whatever they work for me I'm like hey

here's what I need from you this is the

expectation you got 30 days to learn the

system get to know the people this is

what I want to see you do put your 30 60

90 days together I need a weekly report

being sent to me on Friday what you did

what's the good bad ugly what are your

new hires who are you working with how

are the projects give me the project

management Monday morning we go through

8:30 to 10:15 report to eight different

companies I'm managing how are we

looking at with man what's going on with

this year what are we with that how are

we looking at with this how much money

are we spending on this how's vt.com

doing are the revenues up what are we

doing with the ads what's the row as

grade 10 1015 to 11: I have my insurance

accountability with my four direct seu

the CSO the president gives me a report

the CTO gives me a report great so long

as you're doing your stuff and you're

doing your thing I'm not a micromanaging

guy but you cross the line with values

and principles I have zero tolerance for

so it is right to unpack what to be

tolerant with what not to be yeah but

dude you can not like you right now a

minute ago I gave you all the money in

the world you had zero tolerance that's

the point that's the values and

principles you know and sometimes we're

confused I used to pray for four things

and I changed one of them for for since

1997 I've asked God for four things

courage wisdom tolerance understanding I

was an atheist for the first 25 years

from 18 to 25 I prayed just because in

the army they sent me to be with this uh

camp at this house with like 20 of us

and we could play po and jump in the

lake but every night we had to do Bible

study with this old 75y old man or what

however old he was last day he gives me

the Bible that his parents gave him

December 24th 1974 I have it till today

he says son you need this more to me I

said trust me I don't believe in God he

said just trust me you need this I said

you're wasting your time giving it to me

he says son God told me to give it to

you you know how much that messes you up

I'm like don't don't do this to me man I

don't believe in God I saw war in IR I

don't believe in no God my parents got

divorced twice from each other I don't

believe in God gives it to me I walk

freaking ay I je down I'm freaking I

gota be thinking about all day long so I

start praying I said God I don't believe

you

exist but if you

do I'm going talk to you like a friend

here's what I'm going through today this

is what's happening here and then I

started praying for courage wisdom

tolerance understanding courage because

I'm going to be put into situations

where I'm going to be scared and don't

know how to handle it God give me

courage wisdom I will be leading people

that are older than me I need wisdom

give me wisdom tolerance cuz some people

going to be tough to work with

understanding to know that everyone's

dealing with something I need

understanding I need wisdom I need

courage I am no longer praying for

tolerance I don't want tolerance today I

don't want it anymore I stopped praying

for it six months ago six months ago

ially six months ago hold on let me let

me run the bathroom real quick I want to

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this is I love this by the way this is

great thank you so much man don't choke

on that water it's funny you my mom I

swear I swear dud growing up my mom

would choke on water and I'd be like

what the what are you doing and I

started getting older I was like what

happen to choking on water dude

just goes down the wrong pip but so

let's talk about the tolerance thing um

why did you stop and I want to talk

about the God thing and the atheism

thing why did you stop praying for

tolerance six months ago specific why

did I stop praying for to tolerance okay

because I saw what was going on and the

more like sometimes when you pray for

something you know I believe God puts

you into a situation for you to be

tolerant I don't want you to put me in a

situation anymore to have to be tolerant

I don't want to be tolerant I don't want

to be tolerant when it comes down to

certain things

where Society is trying to make me think

it's normal it's not it's just not

normal to me it's not normal behavior

it's not uh natural behavior you know

some people have lived a different life

and it's a tough life they've lived and

they're choosing to do certain things

because they're lost today you want me

to be tolerant because a famous

basketball player like Dwayne Wade's

younger son wants to transition and his

wife the mom is saying why don't we just

wait until the kid is 18 years old no so

he moves to California the wife was

saying that yeah the wife's like no

let's wait till 18 he's like no I'm

moving to California so they come here

and the kid Transitions and and it's

like what are you doing so now no here's

what we have to so because I can't live

in Florida I can't believe what Florida

stands for and doesn't let kids have

access to this kind of stuff yeah I'm

good you know I I'm not entertaining

that and there's no fear of well you

know why would you say something like

that from Dwayne Wade would't you like

to have him on the podcast I'm not going

to compromise my values for that right I

would have to have a conversation with a

guy like that he would never do it

because there's no way he's going to

have questions like that being answered

because the career path he's going he

wants to be a show host he wants to be

you know doing that if you want to do

that those guys are expecting you to

believe in a certain thing to get those

cool points no I choose not to be

tolerant and I'm banking onone a camp

initially saying you've lost your mind

you're crazy you're unfair you're this

and long-term saying holy respect

for having a backbone and you were okay

losing a few people initially and

longterm you gained the world I'll do

that I'll be the thing for me when I

kept my gym open during the pandemic

it's like everyone was like what the are

you doing and then looking back

everyone's like well you did the right

thing of course such a weird I remember

that such a weird thing like it's just I

I don't know is it just like you just

innately feel like oh this is right you

just like certain things you just know

you just look at the situation for what

it is you know like one of the best

exercises you could do is everything to

me like if you think about like how do

you judge a leader right let's see how

do you judge a leader okay well you know

he sets the example that's one what's

two you get people to do things they

typically wouldn't do on their own okay

like inspiration kind of Okay cool so

now how do you measure somebody's

leadership like how do we give somebody

a score who have they built who have

they duplicated who came from the the

reason why Jack Welch was known as a

Godfather of building leaders because

anybody that ever recruited an executive

that worked under Jack Welch for 6 10

years and you brought him to a different

company those guys were Killers because

if he can handle working under Jack

Welch for 10 years and he fires the

bottom 30% every year guess what Jack

Welch great leader right you go to you

know Andy Grove who took Intel I think

they grew 100% every year for a freaking

decade everybody in Silicon Valley that

was their God everybody jobs everybody

looked up to this guy and there was this

other guy named Bill Campbell the

trillion Doll Coach very good book to

read trillion dollar coach but we judge

people based on leaders they develop

okay eventually it's like oh wow look at

that Coach Bill Walsh he produced this

guy he produced that guy he produced

this guy respect oh look at that Coach

he produced this guy produced okay

respect look at John Wooden respect why

what is what is building what are you

building what what is a Jack Welch

building like what are we measuring it

on it's based on habits values

principles that's what that is it's

habits values principles so here's an

exercise it's December they're going to

see this thing in December right

so 2024 is around the corner do you know

what values and principles I can't buy

you on like what are you not willing to

compromise you're getting married let's

just say like my my my wife and I were

getting married on our second date I

bought her a book called 101 questions

to ask before you get engaged yeah so

here write this book and I said you know

I'm looking for a wife not for a

girlfriend so one of the things on the

list that I made is my three

non-negotiables so guess what it doesn't

matter who the CR is I'm not negotiating

these three things we have to have

non-negotiables you may have different

non-negotiables than mine but it's a

non-negotiable right so you kind of

write that down and said this is what I

want to do others must say you're crazy

Bradley who would you're so judgmental

for having that as a non negotiable are

you marrying the girl are you are you

doing I'm Marrying the this is my values

and principes so the exercise of taking

an hour or two and writing out your own

values and the reason why we don't do

this kind of stuff because life is so

chaotic and fast that we don't take a

lot of timeouts by the way if you think

about timeouts we used to take a lot of

timeouts pre-social media we used to

take a lot of timeouts when do we take

timeouts we don't take timeouts anymore

now it's

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just 85 years old you know what's also

really interesting you kind of mentioned

it like when you said the person being

like yo you're you're this you're that

and it's like yo you're not the one

marrying this one it's me right your

your kind of like perspective on how

you're going to move forward in the

marriage or if it makes sense for you or

not right you know what's also really

interesting about today's world society

internet is like I think a part of the

reason why people fail to really stand

on their values is because of of the

peanut gallery because so many people

meaning meaning like nowadays you say

like you're doing something let's say

for example I'm like I post a picture

let's say I post a picture of me and my

girl or whatever right let's or me and

my my wife to be and let's say my wife

does this for a living or she does that

for a living it's and let's say they

someone doesn't like it or someone

doesn't like the perspective of it or

the the view of it and you get all these

reasons why like oh this she's this or

she's that or she's weird or she's this

or everything is a a Jud judement zone

now so I think that's also a part of the

reason why people you know even if we

talk about like we were talking about

like Dwayne Wade and is it's like

obviously he's choosing this and he's

he's he's helping this but he's trying

to get the appeal of like this side or

whatever it is and you you still have

this like world where it's like even my

friend I said you know he can't post

that he wanted this guy to win he's got

to post that so I'm saying like we're in

this spot in the world where like people

are so especially like people with the

big microphones are so also judged and

like ripped apart or or or you know

pointed at for like certain things or

flaws that I think sometimes people are

afraid that they could stand on their

morals not that they can't not that they

shouldn't but I think that's something

that's like besides just like just

genuinely like you're talking about

being able to work in a certain industry

because you have to kind of like play a

certain role to be able to be that you

know TV you know guy whatever the but I

think just even beyond that like people

are so afraid I think of like judgment

and I think judgment has become so much

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