This video serves as a comprehensive guide to texting, emphasizing that its primary purpose for men is to secure a date, not engage in prolonged conversation, and that success hinges on understanding and acting within distinct communication stages.
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this video will serve as your texting
Bible it doesn't matter what your skills
are or which goal you're talking to in
this video I will explain everything you
need to know about texting in detail and
if you ever feel confused or face any
issues with texting come back to this
video and you'll 100% find the solution
to your problem the first thing you need
to understand is that the purpose of
texting is to set up a date and meet the
woman not just to chat the goal of
texting is not just conversation but
meeting up listen carefully as a man you
won't gain anything from texting it's a
waste of time and won't bring you any
benefit this is the first point I want
you to understand the second point is
that a woman will not develop feelings
for you just through texting and this is
the mistake that many men make they text
just for the sake of chatting no you
should use texting to get to the stage
of setting up a date and here I'll
slightly diverge to talk about something
important men who talk to girls who
don't live in the same city if you live
in one state and the girl lives in
another that means you shouldn't waste
your time with her and I'm not
criticizing anyone but if you're talking
to a girl who doesn't live in your city
why are you talking to her what will you
gain even if you meet once a month or
once every 3 months you need to
understand that this is a losing
equation for you as a man there are
hundreds of thousands maybe even
millions of women in your city so why
are you looking for a girl in a Nova
City think carefully before you waste
your time and energy on this finally the
third point I want you to understand is
that texting is just a conversation in
the digital world this digital
conversation although it has rules
different from The Real World Is Still
still just a reflection of the real
world this means that to succeed in the
digital world you first need to know how
to communicate in the real world if
you've been following my series on how
to attract women you probably won't have
an issue with this because I've
explained everything you need and you
likely already understand how a woman
thinks if you haven't watched this
series please when you finish this video
go back and start from the first episode
so you can get the most benefit from
today's video now let's return to the
topic of texting from my experience I've
noticed that the mistake I used to make
and that most guys make when texting is
that they don't know when to ask a girl
for a date that's why I'm now going to
explain a basic concept in texting you
need to know what stage you're in are
you in the stage where you should ask
for a date or in the stage where you
should just continue the conversation or
are you in the stage where you need to
build attraction the important thing is
that you know which stage you're in now
now I'm going to give you a compass that
I want you to hold on to this Compass
will help you figure out which stage
you're in if you're texting a girl or
want to start talking to one there are
four stages you might be in stage one
the silent stage this is when she leaves
you on read and doesn't reply this means
that attraction has dropped don't worry
we'll discuss this in detail just be
patient with me stage two the testing
stage this is when she criticizes you
disagrees with you or talks about other
guys if you've watched the entire series
you already know that I always say girls
test guys it's a biological Instinct
they have and they do it without
realizing it I also always tell you that
I'll make a video explaining how to pass
these tests I apologize for the delay
but soon I'll make a video where I
explain these tests in detail stage
three The Logical stage this is when she
starts discussing topics with you
logically or sometimes emotionally stage
four the attraction stage this is when
the girl starts showing her attraction
towards you like sending you her
pictures reacting positively to your
pictures or hinting at a possible Meetup
in any text conversation with a girl
you'll always be in one of these stages
100% you need to know which stage you're
in right now so you can act accordingly
and don't worry I'll explain what you
need to do in each stage to make it
clearer let's assume you're in the stage
where the girl has shown her attraction
to you and what did you do you continued
talking to her and carried on with the
conversation here my friend you've made
a big mistake why are you still talking
to her when you reach this stage it
means you should ask her out if you
don't ask for a date and just keep
talking after a while she'll reject the
idea of a date because you didn't
recognize the stage you were in and
didn't take the right action or let's
assume you're in the first stage where
the girl responds with a few words and
leaves you on read without replying
further then you go ahead and ask for a
date that's another mistake you've taken
an action that doesn't fit the stage
you're in so once you know what stage
you're in it's time to figure out the
right way to handle the situation with
the girl but before I tell you what to
do in each stage I need to explain
something about the world of texting if
you've been following me for a while
you'll know that women are emotional
beings for them the world of texting is
an emotional game and all of their
actions are based on emotions as a man
you won't be able to play this game with
her because you're not an emotional
being you're a logical one that's why in
this video I'm explaining things to to
you from a logical perspective I want
you to understand texting from a logical
point of view and approach it that way
so you don't get pulled into the
emotional game that women try to involve
you in this may sound strange to you but
this is just how women are for them
dating is like a game and it's part of
their nature consider it an unavoidable
reality but when you enter this game and
see it through a logical lens you can
win because logic is your strength this
is what I try to do in all my videos
even if you don't always realize it in
this series I'm not just giving you
information I'm trying to shift your
perspective on dating so you see it in a
more logical way if you'd like me to
make a video discussing the logic of men
versus the emotions of women let me know
in the comments now let's get back to
our topic and go through the stages one
by one by the way these stages aren't in
a fixed order you could find yourself in
any stage and sometimes you might even
start in the attraction stage so let's
begin with the first stage the silence
stage in this stage the girl doesn't
respond or takes a long time to reply or
she might not seem interested in this
case you should avoid overwhelming her
with messages don't send too many and
don't ask for anything that requires a
response most importantly don't bring up
a date the only thing you can do is
leave a simple comment like reacting to
her story or saying something that
doesn't require a reply the goal here is
to maintain your value and not show any
neediness even if she doesn't respond
the second stage is the testing stage
here the girl might start provoking you
talking about someone else or
disagreeing with you this stage is
relatively easy because all you need to
do is pass her tests I'll explain this
more in a dedicated video but briefly
here are some ways to pass these tests
one completely ignore what she said two
take a comment and turn it into a joke
three give a response that's completely
unrelated to what she said in this stage
don't ask for a date yet because
attraction is still being built stage
three is the conversation stage where
the conversation flows more naturally
and might even involve exchanging voice
messages at this point you can ask for a
date in this stage I want you to apply
everything you've learned in this series
like qualifying techniques or asking
emotional questions and try to
incorporate them into your texting but
remember texting is slightly different
from talking on the phone or having a
face-to-face conversation to succeed in
texting you need to include a lot of
humor in your messages the funnier your
texts the more positive responses you'll
get from the girl one key to text
messaging success is to avoid using the
girl's real name instead give her a
playful nickname like munchkin cutie or
my dear these nicknames will help you
get faster replies here's a text
messaging technique I've personally
developed that Works quite well you hey
chickp how good is your memory on a
scale of 1 to 10 huh well 10 you okay
let's test it if you lose you're buying
me dinner ready huh yes you what color
shoes was I wearing when we met H hm I
think black you wrong answer young lady
now you owe me dinner big time then call
her immediately after even if she gives
the right answer still call and
playfully argue that you had on a
different color shoes see how simple
this is all you need is a bit of
creativity and you can easily secure
date after date with minimal risk of
rejection the the reason some guys often
get rejected is because their messages
are just too dull they send texts like
can I call you are you free would you
like to watch a movie not only are these
messages boring but they are also
practically asking to be rejected here
are a few examples of messages that will
get you quick and positive responses you
won't believe how badly I embarrass
myself today my mom would be so ashamed
call me I'm starving I'll let you buy me
a burger if you promise to take me out
my cousin's here she's just like you you
have to meet her this is the best day of
my life I finally did it buzz me when
you're free as long as your messages
include humor mystery and a touch of
excitement you'll always get positive
responses Now we move on to the final
stage where the girl starts sending you
her pictures or showing significant
interest such as engaging positively
with your pictures at this stage if you
haven't met her in person yet it becomes
essential and Urgent to ask her for a
date if you don't ask for a date at this
point you risk losing her if you like
the girl and want to keep talking to her
you must ask her for a date if you don't
she'll either place you in the friend
zone or stop talking to you altogether
now you should have a clear
understanding of the text in game like
any game There are rules you need to
know and follow to succeed in short
these rules are in general keep your
text short and to the point they should
be emotionally stimulating she should
feel something from your text you should
not be texting her all the time you are
a man who has important things to do
texting her constantly is not one of
them every text should serve a purpose
to spark her emotions or to set up a
date send her the first text within 48
Hours of getting her number don't ask
boring questions don't try to impress
her don't be mentally waiting for her to
respond go about your busy day as you
normally do and respond to her texts
when you get a chance text like a man
don't ask her too many questions instead
of asking questions make statements and
commands and here we have come to the
end of our guide in the description
you'll find the link to the full series
for free on YouTube if you're still
watching at this point don't forget to
hit the like button and if you have any
questions leave them in the comments so
I can know what challenges you're facing take
take care
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