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Hi. What is up my beautiful glam Amazon?
Welcome back to my channel and welcome
to 2026 and it's already craziest. I've
been actively
actively trying to make sure I don't go
Anyways, maybe I am the problem because
I'm not going to sit here and lie to
you. This is not the first time that
I've had issues with my friends mans.
Like it's actually it's more often times
than not. Maybe I am the [ __ ] problem
right now. I can name three off the top
of my head for real. Anytime that I feel
like you trying to treat one of my
girlfriends, I don't know, like they're
stupid girl. That is the That is the
fastest way to get on my bad side. This
one was my first my first beef with a
dude. And you know what? He never got
over it. I know that for a fact. I would
go as far to say I think he hates me.
She had super long hair. She always had
her hair real long and it was like past
her waist and she would always put
trenas in it. Now, Christina already had
her community going on by the time I got
involved. Okay. She was my home skillet
and through her I met a ton of different
people, but she had like two cousins
that went to our school. Um, and then
she had her mans and then she had her
sister. Believe it or not, you know,
it's actually kind of hard to find a
native here in Denver. There are so many
implants. Um, so a lot of times I met so
many kids that I went to school with
that were either from California or from
Texas like me. I was very shocked that
Christina was a native. Her family and
her man's native Coloradoatans as well.
She grew up in the area that I had come
from where I went to that middle school
or whatever. So I was meeting like this
whole group of people that was like from
that area, you know, and we actually had
a few people that we knew in common. And
so me and Christina, we like hit it off
really really well. Turns out she lived
in an apartment complex not too far from
me. She always had somebody with her if
not two. Like I said, her and her sister
were stuck at the hip. All right, they
were damn near twins or her mans or
both. Okay, a lot of times I cannot tell
you how many times I would meet up with
her and you know they would both be
there. So they just kind of came as a
package deal. We lived near each other.
We went to the same school. We hung out
all the time. We'll name her sister
Gabby. And then her mans, we'll name him
Michael. I meet their mom, I meet their
dad, and you know, like they're real
friendly and they're always offering me
plates of food. Coming from where I come
from, you already know by now. And if
you don't know and you're new here, my
mom, you know, crazy. My mom's single
mom most of my life. The little boy
situation was never on the table. Never
on the table. And so imagine my surprise
when I see these two girls, too. And I
know their mom and their dad. And they
both have they both have boyfriends. And
the boyfriends are there, girl. Like,
they're there. And I see them in the
apartments and you know, they had like a
little they lived on the first floor and
they had like a little patio and the dad
was always out there barbecuing. Girl,
to be honest, he was like burning his
[ __ ] He would be out there just cooking
and them two little boys would be there
in the apartment. They would have like
the sliding glass door open to their
apartment and girl just in and out. The
boys would just be laid up. Laid up.
Okay. And I was like, "Bo, wow." It was
intriguing to me that, you know, they
could openly date. That's crazy. He
lived in the same apartment complex and
he would just stay there all day and
then like go home to sleep and then be
there the next day all day. Okay. They
had been together since they were kids
on and off and then they started taking
it more seriously in high school because
their parents were friends. Specifically
the dads, both mechanics, worked
together in a shop back in like the 80s
or whatever. Now they work in separate
shops, but they're both mechanics.
They're best friends. Da da da. Okay. So
like match made in heaven. One has a
boy, one has a girl. Tan, right? Okay.
So very very cutesy, very love story.
I'm not playing when I tell you every
single day
not a day was missed that these two did
not stop. They dressed like each other,
the same outfit, black shirt, blue
jeans, black shoes or whatever. And then
Valentine's Day, girl, forget about it.
Pajama day, spirit week, girl, twinsies.
And I got a text one night and she was
like, "Hey, can I call you?" And at the
time I was sharing a room with my steps
sister. And so I used to go into our
walk-in closet and shut the door to like
have conversation is um I called her
immediately and girl, she's crying.
She's absolutely like balling. Um and so
she could like barely talk for like the
first literal like 15 minutes of this
conversation. And I was so scared. Girl,
like who died? She was like, "Me and
Mike broke up." You know how like
Christy and Desmond broke up, you know,
on from Tik Tok? It was kind of like
that, but like girl, left field, like
left field. I What are you talking
about? Like he's at your house every
day. He's at your house every day. The
next time I saw her at school, she's
like puffyfaced. You could tell. And
like her sister is all over her because,
you know, she's like going through it,
right? And I had plans with like my
bestie at the time. And I was like, "Hey
girl, like I'mma have lunch with
Christina, just like check in on her cuz
like I, you know, I'm worried about her
or whatever." So I met up with her at
lunch and girl, she's like not eating.
She's hardly speaking and she's just
like pale, okay? And her sister is doing
all of the talking. And so Gabby is like
filling me in and she just kind of I
just see her sneaking looks at
Christina. Fast forward, the end of the
day comes around and we end up walking
home and like I saw them after school
and I was like, "Yeah, you know, it was
just one of those days that I decided
not to take the bus." So, I was like,
I'm just going to walk home with them.
So, we start walking home and
Christina's completina is completely
silent. And I mean, the whole way back
to our apartments, she's completely
silent. We get over to her apartment,
her sister goes inside, and me and her
are just standing out there kind of
giving her a pep talk. And I was like,
"Hey, you know, like you need to eat.
you need to make sure you eat. And she
was like, I know. Like, I'm going to
try. I'm just really upset. I think I'm pregnant.
pregnant.
And girl, I felt like symbols were like
being rang in my ear. Like,
their patio is right there. And her dad
comes up to the window and like gestures
for her to come inside. And so, she
starts like wiping her face. And she's
like, "I don't know. I just, you know,
I'm going to figure it out. I'm going to
figure it out." And I'm like, "Oh my
god." Like, "Are you going to tell him?
Are you going to tell your parents?" She
was like, "No." And like the minute that
I mentioned her parents, girl, that's
how I know cuz like with me, I would
have been like, "My mom will have my
head on a platter." You hear me? But
with her, she was like, "They will be so
disappointed." Like my dad will cry.
Like it and it was just so you could see
the panic. Like she was just girl, you
know, I still have like the people that
I'm normally hanging out with. So, but
I'm like still kind of like checking in
on her. And she I would see her, you
know, with her sister, her sister's
friends. like she was never alone. But I
also wanted to kind of give her her
space cuz you know she got people. She
got her cousins and stuff like that. But
once used to be, you know, stuck at the
hip. I mean, they were like opposites,
bro. Like wherever one was sitting, the
other one was like completely diagonal
all the way across the room. And it was
intentional. Mike was a very, very
talkative person. So, he had a lot of
friends. I see this boy being extra
cheesy cheesy chummy chum with some
girls at the table. And I'm talking
about showing all his mers, okay? And
you know how guys are. Don't sit up here
and look at me stupid. You know exactly
what I'm talking about. You know, like
when they know they know that, oh,
[ __ ] like they know you're in the
vicinity. And so they just going to act
all kinds of crazy. They going to act
all kinds of nice. They going to be
like, oh my god, I'm the man. You know
what I'm saying? Like they they all of a
sudden are just like a a people person,
you know? And that's my home skillet.
That's my girl. And my girl IS WITH A
CHILD. I get up, I go over there, and
I'm like, "Hey, can I talk to you for a second?"
second?"
The girls at the table.
She's real talkative. What's up, Nikki?
What's up, Nikki? You know, you need to
go talk to her. Why is she she send you
over here to tell me to talk to her? If
she wants me to talk to her, she needs
to talk to me herself. I wanted to dump
him right in the middle of the forehead.
Got in his ass about doing that [ __ ] on
purpose. And I was like, and he was
like, I'm not even I don't even know
what you're talking about. Like trying
to smirk and [ __ ] And I was like, don't
be messy. I know exactly what you're
doing and you need to [ __ ] stop. like
this is, you know, that's my home girl.
Y'all are my friends. I just talked to
her. And he was like, "Ah, you know,
being so [ __ ] stubborn." And I'm
sitting there, girl, in the back of my
mind. And I am like the go like this is
so much bigger than y'all having a
little tiff. Like, there's a baby
involved. And girl, THANK GOD. I went
right across that cafeteria. I went
straight up to Christina. She is glaring
at me. And as soon as I walk up to the
table, she's like, "What are you doing?"
And I was like, "No, no, no, no. He's
not going to be doing all that." you
know, in the lunchroom because, you
know, it was so evident. The lunchroom
wasn't that big, girl. It really wasn't.
So, it was JUST LIKE, AND EVERYBODY
KNEW, you know how I am about the
principal. You know how I am. You're not
going to be making my home girl look
stupid. Like, you're just going to be
sitting there flirting in front of her.
Everybody here knows that y'all were to
get like, "Come on. Stop.
Come to the bathroom." Girl, we get up.
I feel like I'm going to the principal's
office. My friend takes me to the
bathroom. of her sister automatically.
Automatically, I didn't even have to
question that Gabby's coming. And I I
thought they were gonna jump me for a
second. I WAS LIKE, "WAIT A MINUTE. THIS
STORY HAS ALREADY BEEN DONE BEFORE.
OKAY, I'M NOT GETTING INVOLVED with
another pregnant lady." Now, one more
time. Did you tell him? Please tell me
you did not tell him. She was like, "He
doesn't know. He doesn't know. He
doesn't know." And I was like, "He
doesn't know."
And it clicked in that moment. And I was like,
like,
this boy had no idea that Christina is
with child. She was like panicking. She
thought that I had told him and I was
like, "No." But that's why I was going
so hard at him because I thought that he
knew. So like now girl, Mike is all
hella confused because I did. I was
like, you know, I'm going at him like
you about TO BE A FATHER. YOU NEED TO BE
THERE AS A CHILD AND ALL. But I didn't
say that. I was like, you need to go
over there and talk to her. Like there
was a significance and an importance in
my mind because like y'all need to work
this out. There's a child. So, I'm
coming at him with that type of energy
and he don't even know, girl. And I was
like, so I prom I told her I was like, I
promise you that none of that came out
of my mouth. I I now I understand why he
was looking at me crazy. Like, he wasn't
surprised that I was talking to him. He
was surprised that I was talking to him
with such gumb, girl. Cuz I was like
very serious to walk away from that
situation looking like the crazy lady.
But at least I did not spill the beans.
And why is that me? Her parents don't
know. only her sister knows and one of
her theas that's real close in age to
her. The thea gave her basic the
realistic options, right? You're still
early enough. You have a decision that
you can make and we can make it happen.
Can't even imagine being in this
situation, let alone having to make
these type of decisions. But she told
me, you know, about the options that she
had. Either way, Mike is Mike doesn't
know nothing. She doesn't know when
she's going to tell him or if she's
going to tell him. She's trying to
figure out this decision right here,
right now. I was not fully grown into
Nikki as I am now. So, I didn't know how
to give her no advice. I was like,
"Zang, girl, like let me know how things
work out." You know, not too long after
that, my girl was gone from school. You
know, this is this isn't something that
you just come right up the street and
you're like, "Hey, like, did you do it?"
See her around the neighborhood cuz, you
know, I used to walk around. I used to
like go everywhere. I walked everywhere.
Her dad is the one that was like,
"Nick." AND I WAS LIKE, "OH, HEY, MR. So
and so." And so, you know, I go over
there. I see her. You know, she invites
me on this walk and I'm like, "Yeah."
So, you know, I say bye to her dad and
we take off on a little walk. They had
like a little trail in the back of her
apartments and we're just walking had
there was some drama going on that had
just gone on and so she was asking me
about that and so you know I get through
my whole spiel and then I was like it
just kind of got quiet and she was like
what you going to ask or what? And I was
like ask what am I acting stupid? She
was like about the baby. I don't know.
She was very matter of fact about it.
She was very calm and she was like there
I just it wasn't the right time. It
wasn't the right time you know of course
you know I'm like oh my god like are you
okay? And I was like do your parents
know and she was like no my parents
don't know her heard thea helped her out
with this situation. They figured it
out. My one additional question was did
you ever tell Mike? Like does Mike know
for what? It wasn't his decision to
make. It was mine. She almost got a
little defensive and I was like no no no
no. I was like, "I know that it's I
understand that you you have you don't
have to explain to me, honey bunch, that
that is your decision." I was like, you
know, I respect it. I was just asking. I
was just asking. She was like, "No, he
does not know. He does not need to
know." Made the decision. It's what's
best for me. It's my body and you know,
it's my future. So, no, I'm not going to
ask any more questions. I just need to
know so I don't open up my big mouth.
You know, Christina goes, I mean,
essentially back to normal. She ends up
getting a job. You know, she's she's
just a little bit more reserved. You can
tell this experience changed her. I
can't like I can tell you definitively
that she was not the same. She was happy
and everything but there was just
something that was a little bit
different in her eyes and you know I
just always felt bad for my friend
because I feel like it's heavy to hold a
secret like that you know. Yummy boy I'm
gone. I'll see you later alligator. And
um I end up girl tell me why you want to
guess. I tried my best to keep in
contact with my friends. I really did,
but there was just a lot of moving parts
and I typically lost contact with a lot
of them and Christina was one of them. I
want to say I'm like 22 23 years old. I
am working a few jobs at this time and I
was getting off of my night job. If you
know, you know. 3:34ish
in the morning. And I'm going there with
a friend of mine who also works at the
same spot that I work at. So, we're
getting off at the same time. And um we
were hungry, girl. Believe it or not,
like my sleep schedule was all kinds of
crazy. Plus, I was a lot younger and I
could get away with a lot less sleep. We
decided to go to a Denny's that was
nearby. I got out the car and I told my
home girl, I was like, "Oh my god."
Like, this was the first place that I
stopped here in Denver when my mom and I
moved here. It's so crazy. We go inside
this Denny's and there's probably, I
don't know, maybe like two or three
other people that are in the diner. We
start counting our tips and we start
talking. I knew her voice before I even
looked up. jumped out my seat. I You
could not keep my butt. My butt was on
fire. I jumped out of my seat and I get
her into a bear hug. Christina and like,
you know, girl, I held on to We just
held on to each other for so long. This
is my girl. THIS IS CHRISTINA.
CHRISTINA, this is my home girl that
works at the Coach Nada Club with me.
Finish my conversation with my home
girl. We wrap it up. She pays. She
leaves. I'm already done eating. So,
she's like, "Hey, come over here." Cuz
you know, I guess they don't let her sit
out in the dining area for her breaks.
We caught up on everything. Her mom and
dad had like bought property. You want
to know why I'm working at Denny's?
Girl, a hustle is a hustle. You could
have found me at in a Walmart aisle
somewhere selling axe spray. Okay, I
knew a hustle when I saw one. So, I was
like, "Okay, Ann, like how are your
tips?" Kind of disappointed cuz like I
wanted to go to college or whatever. And
I was like, "Girl, college is not for
everybody. Have you seen the prices? Who
has $100,000?" Like, and I knew where
she came from, girl. And so, I was like,
"Girl, don't be so hard on yourself."
And she was like, you know, like and
this is where I find out that she has
babies. And she was like, you know, I
have to provide for my kids and you
know, this is the spot that gives me
the, you know, most hours and it's a
little bit more flexible. And I was
like, oh, okay, cool. And so I was like,
"Oh my gosh, you have babies." And she
was like, "Yeah." And so she shows me
and she has two boys, you know, I see
her hand and sure enough, she's I was
like, "You're married?" And she was
like, "Yeah, to Michael." Couldn't get
rid of him. And I was like, "Oh my gosh,
you guys ended up married." I was like,
"That is so cute." My heart was so full.
I was so happy cuz like I was I was
upset. You know, I love love and I was
really upset that they had broken up
when we were back in high school. But I
knew it. I knew that they would find
their way back to each other because
they just had so much history. She's
like trying to save and you know her
babies are happy and healthy and so you
know what? It was like a really good
catchup, right? So when I left there, I
made sure to find her on Facebook and I
found her sister, right? And so I
requested both of them and then that day
we both we became friends. And so, you
know, I'm seeing their post almost every
day and now all of you know, now we're
connected again, right? So fast forward,
I end up telling David, oh my gosh, I
ran into my home girl and like she and
her and her man's made it and like love
wins and that's great and whatever,
right? David's friend's little sister's
makeup, okay? She was at my house and
we're at my vanity and I'm like in front
of her and so I have my home girl. I
have Christina on speaker cuz she had
called me call her Stephanie and I'm
doing Stephanie's makeup, right? I'm
like, "Yeah, girl. You know, this spot
just opened up and I had just gone to
like this event and like this rooftop
spot and I was telling her about that
and I was like, you know, that would be
real cute but I don't know. It might be
a little expensive." Oh, hold on, Nikki.
And she was like, "Huh?" And she was
like, "No, I think I left it in the
truck." sounded like he was coming
closer to the phone like he was talking
TO HER. HEY MICHAEL. OH MY GOSH, it's
Nikki. Oh my gosh. How are you? [ __ ]
you. Tell her don't be [ __ ] TALKING
TO ME. DON'T TALK TO ME. LOOKING AT
STEPHANIE ALL STUPID. I'M LIKE HE'S SO
FUNNY. MICHAEL, FOR REAL. This man was
completely dead serious. I don't even
remember everything he was saying
because like I just heard like scuffling
on the phone. Oh, don't talk to her like
that. Like give me my phone. Wait a
second. I take it off the speaker and
I'm like hello for real. like hello cuz
like what do you mean? Let me call you
back. I'm just going to I'll call you
back. And girl, she hangs up the phone
on me and I am sitting there like
did that man just say [ __ ] me like that
that it be strong. It was oh it was from
space. It you know like he put his whole
bed in it girl. Girl this I'm talking
about hatred spewed out of that man's
mouth and I WAS LIKE OH MY GOD. I hear
from Christina less and less. I mean,
we're not so close to where, you know,
I'm going to be banging down her door.
Like, love you down, but, you know,
don't know what's going on, but I'm not
going to push it. I end up getting a DM
on Facebook, and it was from Gabby. I
don't know, maybe like a week out from
her birthday. And she starts asking me
about these places that I had mentioned
to Christina, you know, when we were
talking about where she could have her
birthday and stuff. Calls off and she
was like, "Well, I would invite you, but
you know, Christina told me not to, and
I really don't want to be in the
middle." In the middle of what? Okay,
fine. You going TO BRING IT UP? BAM. I
WILL CALL YOU ON IT. FINE. That's fine.
Need to know more more info, please. So,
what issue? Why? Like, can you please?
And so, I was straight up with her and I
was like, "Hey, not trying to cause any
problems, but if you could just please
like let me know like what's up. Like,
what did I do? I'm very confused." Um,
and so I told her, I was like, you know,
he cussed my ass out. I don't know what
I did. How is this girl, the same one
that literally two seconds ago was just
asking for my advice on where she should
have her birthday party is going to sit
up here with the attitude? I know that
it's been a long time, but let's not act
like you don't know why he's not talking
to you. She for real said like let's not
act like like don't act like you don't
know or like let's not act like you
FORGOT AGAIN. LIKE STOP TALKING IN
PARABLES, GIRL. What are you talking
about? any man deserves to know about
his family and you just lie to him every
single day. If he has a problem, I don't
know what he's talking about, but if he
has a problem, he can take it up with
me. Like, y'all don't all have to be
talking about me or whatever. And now
Gabby got a little funky attitude with
me. And you know what? Quite frankly, I
don't know you like that. I don't know
you like that. Me and Christina are home
girls. So, you know what? I'mma call
Christina. So, I got on my phone. I DID.
CUZ LIKE, what you mean? LIKE, WHY ALL
Y'ALL got something to say? And now
Gabby got something to say about it.
Like, something to say about what? So,
let me get it from the horse's mouth.
You are my friend. So, I call Christina.
Know for a factual fact that I didn't do
anything to his funky ass. So, what is
what is going on? I'm not trying to
cause you no problems or nothing, but I
got your sister over here talking to me
crazy after trying to ask me for a
favor. I don't know what's going on, but
if anything, if you don't want to tell
me, that's fine, but you better get your
sister. Don't be listening to her and
like, stop messaging her. You know,
she's messy or whatever. And she tells
me to stop messaging your sister. And I
was like, fine. I will stop messaging
your sister. She's the one who messaged
me first. Let's get that clear. if it's
not big enough for you to have a
conversation with me, then it's not big
enough at all and you just want to have
a problem. So that's basically what I
told her and I was like, "Y'all just
want to have a problem? Have a problem
and [ __ ] silence. But if I hear
somebody else talking [ __ ] to me, [ __ ]
about me or like cussing me out for
something that I don't even know what
the [ __ ] is going on." I was like, "I'm
serious." Like I ain't a whole lot
changed. When we were in high school, I
made the decision that I made when I got
pregnant and I didn't say [ __ ] I DIDN'T
SAY NOTHING. I DID WHAT YOU WANTED ME TO
DO. LIKE WHY AM I IN TROUBLE? I know. I
know that. She was like and I've told
them that. I told him I'm the one who
told you to keep like to keep that to
yourself. Mike feels like y'all were
friends too and like you betrayed him
because you didn't tell him about his
child. She was like, "Gabby was the one
who ended up telling Michael in the
first place. That's the only reason why
he found out." She said that it was too
hard on her conscience and that she
needed to tell that, you know, he
deserves to know about his child. And so
she ended up telling him and he wanted
to know if I had told anybody else and
Gabby told him that I had told you all
that time we were in school and
everything that you never told him and
he considered you guys friends. That's
why he was so like said it from his chest.
chest.
[ __ ] you. Like he was oh like it came
from his soul. But now I understand why
because this man was mad at me that I
did not come to him as his friend and
cuz he felt like we were all friends and
we were but I didn't tell him I didn't
tell him that my girl
made a very very hard decision. Five
plus years later this man was still mad
at me. He was seething angry at me and
by this point they have two additional
kids. Maybe to this day this man hates
me because I I feel like that's not my
lane. I don't I don't feel like that's
my lane. I maybe maybe maybe maybe maybe
I don't get it. We were friends. I'm not
going to sit here and be like, "Oh, you
know, Michael Michael and I were
friends, but Christina and I were
friends first. I'm sorry. I'll I'm I'm a
vault. I'll go to my grave with
something. If my home girl tells me not
to tell, I'm not going to tell." Cuz I
mean, look, this phone call was years
ago, but it was just something that, you
know, I just added it to my roster of
all of the mans of my friends that don't
like me. And so I'm like, you know what?
Whatever. Whatever. Like, wasn't my
place. That's where I stand. But
anyways, let me know your thoughts down
below. Thank you guys so much for coming
to chill with me for story time today. I
love you. I miss you so, so much. Be
safe out there. And I will be back with
another story time. I will be back at
you with some more content here very
soon. I love y'all very, very much. And
I will see your fine self in my next
video. Peace out. Girl, you hear the
munchkins? They trying to break in. They
trying to break. Who is it?
>> It's me.
>> It's to make charm bracelets. Do it. You
>> want to make charm bracelets? >> Yes.
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