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[Music]
born to win
win
born to win
win
we are
win for the
seeds of
greatness have been so
so
born we are [Music]
[Music]
born born to [Music]
[Music] [Applause]
[Applause] [Music]
[Music] [Applause]
I believe it would be physically
mentally psychologically and emotionally
impossible for you to listen to that
song with that impact into your mind
born to win over and over and over and
not believe it it has just got to be a
part of you well let's take a look and
let me again warn you that you need to
be taking notes because if you write it
down and are reinforced with the goal
planner and the gold planner instruction
manual and all of the recordings and the
music then it becomes a part of you want
to emphatically say that if you're going
to reach your goals whatever the goal is
you must start from a solid
Foundation you must build your life on
honesty and character and integrity and
on faith and on love and on loyalty
regardless of whether you're building a
life a business a corporation a country
a family doesn't make any difference
what it is you must start from a solid
foundation you can take a good engineer
lead him to downtown any City USA he can
look at the hole in the ground and tell
you how high the building is going to be
by the foundation they're going to erect
one of the nicest things about having a
solid foundation is the fact that when
you do experience some reverses in your
life and many times that does happen you
can never fall to the basement all you
can do is go back to the foundation so
you've got a stopping point and any
mountain climber will tell you that you
better put some secured areas there so
that if something happens you can only
follow the certain length of the Rope
which is attached to you that way you
can start climbing again yes you've got
to have that solid foundation as we've
talked about these various goals I
wanted to make it crystal clear that if
you zero in on only one goal you will
probably achieve it but I've never seen
a person who only had one goal who also
was had Happ in the process they might
have a goal to make millions of dollars
and they might well get it but along the
way something's happened to the stomach
and to the family and a few other things
if I were to make literally millions of
dollars and destroy my health in the
process I would not in my mind be a
successful individual if I were to
become the very best in the whole world
at what I do I mean the very finest on
the face of this Earth gain all of the accolades
accolades
internationally and in the process lose
the relationship with those who mean the
most to me then I as far as I am
concerned would have lost it all what a
tragedy it would be if someday my son
were to come to me or one of my
daughters were to come to me and say G
Dad I sure wish you had had time to have
given me some of the the advice you so
freely gave to other people folks it
would tear my heart right out of my body
I believe you got to have the right
foundation I believe you got to keep
your life in perspective I believe you
got to have a series of goals and that
certainly includes the family goals and
the social goals and the spiritual goals
and the career goals that's the reason
in your gold planner itself we have put
those areas aside so that you can write
in and clearly identifying what it is
spelling out and identifying the steps
which you need to take if you're going
to achieve a balanced life and reach all
of the goals which are there and as we
look at these uh goals a lot of times
people say to me well zigger ask me who
should you share your goals with who
should you tell about what you're going
to do well here's a rule of thumb which
I have found to be very effective I
share my go up goals with only those
people I know who are going to support
what I'm doing who are optimistic and
who are enthusiastic and who believe in
what I'm doing I share my give up goals
with virtually everyone now what is the
difference a give up goal is if I'm
going to quit drinking if I'm going to
lose that weight if I'm going to quit
cussing if I'm going to quit beating my
wife if I'm going to you know quit doing
all of these things those are give up
goals if you've got a give up goal then
you want to share it with anybody and
everybody if you're going to quit
smoking let other people know about it
put yourself on the spot they will be
glad to support you now if it's a go up
goal that's an entirely different things
I'm going to make a million dollars and
people look at you and say you are or if
you uh come out you know and if you say
I'm going to be the number one salesman
or the number one sales lady in this
entire organization and you're telling
another sales lady that she's not going
to give you a whole lot of encouragement
in many cases share those go up goals
only with people whom you know are
enthusiastically behind you and who will
support you in reaching that particular
goal the second thing I would say about
reaching the goals or the third thing
really is you got to make the commitment
now I have talked about that a a little
bit earlier making the commitment but
let me emphasize another point about
commitment when I was writing this book
in the first chapter I wrote it on goals
and as I wrote in there I put down that
I weighed 165 pounds I wrote down that I
had a 34in waistline now the minute I
had that typ set I actually weighed 22
lbs I actually had a 41 in waistline now
now can you imagine how effective this
book would have been if I had in there I
weighed 165 lbs and I come waddling out
you know at 202 lbs you know what you
would be thinking all the time you'd be
thinking to yourself I wonder what else
that dude lied to me about let me tell
you one of the basic truisms of life and
the reason I keep getting back to the
foundation you and I are exactly like
like in one respect I catch you lying to
me one time about one thing and from
that moment on I'm going to put a
question mark after everything you tell
me and you do me exactly the same way
you catch me lying to you one time about
one thing and you're going to be putting
question marks after everything I say
and my Effectiveness as an instructor as
a speaker as a teacher as an example is
totally destroyed because my credibility
is gone when I put in there that I
weighed 165 lbs folks I'm I want you to
know that was a commitment because the
second part of the commitment was I
tried to get this book published I sent
it to three major Publishers I just knew
they were going to get all excited about
publishing my book I visualized sitting
there and listen to the bidding war this
publisher bidding this much and that one
bidding this much and that one bidding
that much and I was going to sit back
and say now you fellas be nice to each
other I mean after all I'll write you
another book someday oh I I just knew
that' fall all over themselves to to
publish my book can you believe though
in short order all three Publishers sent
the book back to me and said we don't
think that thing is going to sell you
know I couldn't imagine three
theoretically intelligent people
arriving simultaneously at such an
asinine decision I just it was beyond my
imagination well now I got to make a
decision see do I really believe that
book's going to sell or do I just want
some somebody else to take all the risk
see it's one thing if I say publish my
book and if it sells pay me the
royalties and if it doesn't sell GE I'm
sorry about that I really am now you see
I've got to either fish or cut bait
haven't I I got to make the decision am
I willing to put my money where my mouth
was well I knew the book would sell
because you see I write exactly the same
way I speak now don't write as fast as I
talk so you have a better chance to
assimilate you know what's there but you
know I tell folks I'm like a crossy
discus thrower I I don't set any records
but I do keep the crowd alert you
know I knew that book is going to sell I
decided I was going to publish it myself
now A friend of mine said zigga if you
sell 25,000 copies you got a bestseller
well that appeal to me enormously so I
said well why not 25,000 copies well I
don't know if you knew this about books
or not but I can say this to you that it
cost a ton of dough to publish $25,000
copies because the first copy cost more
than the next
24,999 copies and they cost a ton I have
made a commitment I put it in print I'll
weigh 165 have a 34inch waistline I have Ed
Ed
25,000 books so step number three
literally is you got to make that
commitment now step number four involves
something which I think you need to
understand so many times when I'm making
a presentation you know I'll finish
talking about losing the weight and all
and I'll have some dude come up to me
and say now Ziggler tell me the truth
and lying to me up until now Boy tell me
the truth did you really enjoy getting
up at 5:30 in the morning and doing all
of that running I'm going to tell you
the truth I hated
it that aftere o clock would sound off
you know at 5:30 in the morning and I'd
reach over and I'd shut it off and I'd
think to myself Ziggler what's a 46y old
fat boy like you doing getting up
running all over the neighborhood then
I'd look down at that 41 inch waistline
and I'd say do you want to look like you
or do you want to look like the guy in
the jockey [Music]
shorts well I didn't want to look like
me so I'd get up and I'd go out to run
but just because I was out there running
that doesn't necessarily mean I was
enjoying it I get I don't know what I'm
trying to do acting like a teenag and my
buddies are sound asleep in bed and here
I am out here running I'm going to kill
my sly but I said I was going to do it
and if I said I was going to do it I'm
going to do it I mean that's the way I
am and don't you think I didn't tell
people about it either friends relatives
neighbors and complete strangers about
this terrible sacrifice I was making
because I was getting up in the morning
to do all of that running all friends
let me tell you something you give a
motivational speaker long enough and
before he is through he's going to get
up and with an impassion strain in his
voice and a plea in his face he's going
to say to you you got to
sound like a dying calf in a
snowstorm biggest bunch of baloney ever
forested on an undeserving unsuspecting
American public oh don't misunderstand I
have literally run in the snow of
Winnipeg Canada I've run in Far North
Norway I've run in Hyde Park across from
Buckingham Palace I have run on Safari
in South Africa as a matter of fact I
anywhere I've run in the mountains of
Montana the Sands of aapo the orange
groves of Florida the rain of
Minneapolis I have run literally almost
all over this globe and one day I was
running in Portland Oregon beautiful
spring day about 78 degrees it was high
noon I had a 4:00 seminar scheduled
Portland State University campus is only
two weeks from downtown and as I was out
there uh running you know on Portland
State University campus I I looked
around and a lot of the kids the
students were out there laying on
blanket some are reading some were
studying some were snoozing some were
recording and here comes old Ziggler run
and by sweat running down my back sweat
running down my legs you know and that
day for the first time it hit me like a
ton of BRS I was no longer paying the
price I was having a ball I was having
the time of my life and it hit me that
you see you literally don't pay the
price you enjoy the price because you
enjoy the benefits oh I could talk about
that an awful lot but I don't think
there's anybody alive who could talk
about anything like his well as Diane
Morgan can sing about it so let's call
on Miss Diane Morgan and she's going to
sing for us about enjoying the prize
D I've often heard some folks say the
price is something you must pay you got
to suffer and sacrif
when you pay that painful
price but when you enjoy the prize well
you'll find it mighty
nice you'll have it made when you're making
making
lemonade turn your crown upside down
it'll turn your world
around now take my advice in enjoy the [Music]
[Music]
prize I found success along the way and
it's getting better every day why
getting there is half the fun it's a
journey not a
destination you're going to enjoy the
price and you'll find it's mighty
nice you'll have it made when when
you're making
lemonade turn your frown upside down
well it'll turn your world
tell you miss Diane they just flat love
you and I understand why not only do you
sing good but you sing good advice and
if they listen to what you're saying
about enjoying the price then so many
good things will happen you don't pay
the price for good health you enjoy the
benefits of of that good health you
don't pay the price for Success you pay
the price for failure you enjoy the
benefits of success I have never yet
seen a happy failure we've got to change
our vocabulary ladies and gentlemen
because if we look at it in the proper
frame of reference as we really
understand what we are doing when we're
doing something for ourselves we also in
so many cases are doing things for other
people people you see you can get
everything in life you want if you'll
just help enough other people get what
they want and as I reflect on writing
the book and losing the weight you see
one of those was a career goal and one
of them was a physical goal but let me
tell you what happened along the way
never is there an individual goal every
goal has buddies some of them are good
if they're good goals they're bad if
they're bad goals for example these were
both good goals as a result of writing
the book and losing the weight it
improved for example my career in
writing the book it improved my
financial Life as a result of writing
the book it improved my social life You'
be amazed at the number of invitations I
get to go places because I've written a
book you know it's amazing how so many
of these things are tied together but
the one thing I got to keep referring
back to is the fact that as you think
about in enjoying the price you got to
understand that effort is required not
once will you ever hear me not only the
born to wind course or the how to stay
motivated series or any book I'll Ever
Write or any recording I'll ever make or
any speech I'll ever make never once
will I tell you that life is easy
because I don't believe it is I believe
it's tough but I know to repeat myself
and I know that I know that if you're
tough on yourself that life is going to
be so much easier on you never will I
forget I think one of the most important
decisions I've made in the last 10 years
I came in one morning from the West
Coast I got to DFW at 2:55 a.m. I had
had an horrendous day and as I got home
by the time I got my car got home got
dressed ready for bed it was straight up
and down 4:00 now the opportunity clock
was set to get me up at 5:30 a amm as
had been my schedule during all of these
months and I looked at that watch or the
clock and I looked at my watch and I
very quickly drew the inescapable
conclusion that just 90 minutes from
that moment that clock was going to be
sounding off enthusiastically to get me
up and I thought to myself now Ziggler
you are already tired an hour and a half
of sleep is absolutely not enough why
don't you be realistic why don't you
forget it this one morning and sleep in
you know you're not going to be as sharp
you're not going to be as alert and the
stuff you ride at 5:30 in the morning
can't be that good if you haven't had a
reasonable amount of sleep man what you
need to do is get yourself some shut ey
I mean play it smart ziggly and the more
I thought about it man the better that
sounded to me and when it dawned on me
what I was doing I literally jumped for
the clock I pull the plug and at 5:30
the next morning I got up did my running
and started my writing no sir I didn't
want to get up by no stretch of
imagination yes I would have been better
off had I slept until at least 8:00 or
9:00 or even 10:00 and probably would
have gotten more done then you say why
did you get up very simple I was within
one month of reaching my objective I
knew ladies and gentlemen that if I gave
in when this old body of mine was as
tired as it was that another week might
come along and after 5 hours of sleep I
would decide I deserve to sleep in that
morning also and then a few more days
might go by and I would decide do I
really want to get up at all what I'm
really saying is the time comes when you
got to suck it up and tough it out and
just hang in there life is not always
easy but I can say to you without
batting an eyelash that I believe that
that decision I made that morning has
done more for me than almost any
business decision I have made in the
last 10 years as a result of hanging in
in there when the going was tough I
believe I've been able to get more done
in the last years than I've been able to
get done in the previous 46 years of my
life you got to hang in there tough is
what I'm really saying step number six
if you want to reach your goals and
obviously ladies and gentlemen you must
know how to train fleas and so my
question in this uh live presentation
here in front of all of you folks how
many of you in this audience and all I
want you to do is be honest with me how
many of you do not know how to train
fleas can I see your hands please hey
you got here just in
time I know you heard the one about the
two fleas at the bottom of the hill and
one of them says well do we walk or take a
dog but anyhow you uh you train fleas by
putting them in a jar and you put the
top on the jar and you watch those fleas
and they'll jump up and they'll hit the
top over and over and over and over and
over and over you watch them jump and
finally after they've been jumping a
long time you will notice that even
though they continue to jump all of a
sudden they are no longer jumping high
enough to hit the top then it's an
absolute fact you can just take the top
off of the jar and they'll keep on
jumping and jumping and jumping and
jumping but they cannot I repeat cannot
jump out you see they have conditioned
themselves to jump just so high and once
they've conditioned themselves to jump
just so high that's all there is there
ain't no more man is the same way he
starts out in life to climb the mountain
to write the book to break the record to
do something with his life but along the
way he bumps his head he stubs his toe
and he becomes what I call a snop now
that's spelled SN i o p and that's a
person who is susceptible to the
negative influence of other people for
example the 4-minute mile everybody's
familiar with that for years the
athletes have said hey I'm going to run
the 4minute mile but the coach would get
his watch out and said man you can't do
that it's never been done nobody will
ever be able to break that 4minute
barrier the doctor would get his
stethoscope out and he had put his on
put it on the athletes heart and say man
A 4minute mile is out of the question
why your heart will come right out of
your body and for years and years and
years nobody could run a 4minute mile
until one day a flea trainer named Roger
banister came along and he ran the
4minute mile now when banister ran the
4minute mile it wasn't long long before
athletes all over the world started
running the mile in less than four
minutes as a matter of fact Landy of
Australia ran it less than six weeks
later at this time there have been four
different occasions where as many as
eight young men in the same race ran a
mile in less than four minutes a 37 year
old man has read a 37 year old man I
should say has run a mile in less than
four minutes over 500 different people
at this time have run a mile in less
than 4 minutes not because man has
gotten that much faster but because they
understood that the 4minute mile was not
a physical barrier it was a
psychological barrier and once that
psychological barrier had been broken
one did it then later somebody else did
it then later somebody else did it and
later somebody else did it now in case
you have missed the point a flea trainer
is a person who jumps out of the jar a
fleet trainer is a person who is driven
from within a fleet trainer is an
individual not influenced by the SN Ops
of life and the negative forces of life
but rather they decide for themselves
what they're going to do they understand
that you can get everything in life you
want if you will just help enough other
people get what they want Fleet trainers
don't tell other people where to get off
they show them how to get on a fleet
trainer doesn't try to see through
people a flea trainer sees people
through if you're going to reach the
objectives you have in life yes it's
absolutely true that you must be a flea
trainer step number seven if you are
going to reach your goals and you've
obviously got to keep a winning attitude
now in the born to win series we talk a
tremendous amount as a matter of fact we
spend over 6 hours hour talking about
keeping uh that winning attitude we go
into how do you control your habits how
do you use your mind how do you get the
things you want out of life instead of
having to want the things you've got in
the how to stay motivated series also we
go into how to keep that winning
attitude and yet it's absolutely
critical that you keep feeding your mind
you're what you are you are where you
are because of what's gone into your
mind you change what you are you change
Where You Are by changing what goes into
your mind yes you absolutely must have
the right mental attitude step number
eight if you're going to reach your
goals you've got to get other people
involved nobody climbs the high mountain
by themselves we spent a lot of time in
the relationship segment talking about
the fact that you must get along with
other people but let me ask you a
question how many of you have ever seen
a flock of Canadian geese flying
overhead at any time may I see your
hands please if you have never seen them
the next time you do see one or when you
see a flock notice them and watch them
you will observe three things about them
number one they always are flying in a V
formation number two one leg of the V is
always longer than the other leg and
number three if you will watch them when
they come into sight and stay with them
about 15 minutes and they go out of
sight you will notice there is some
apparent confusion in the flock now as a
matter of General curiosity how many of
you have ever wondered why one leg of
that flock of geese one leg of the V is
always longer than the other how many of
you have ever wondered about that okay
let me clarify that for you it's because
in the longer leg there are more geese
I don't know why but that one just
always strikes me as being hilarious I I
I can't wait till I get to that
particular one okay now let me explain
on a serious side the reason that they
are flying into v formation is they've
discovered in Wind Tunnel test that in a
V formation the flock of geese will fly
71 or 2% further than it could fly if
they were not flying in the v formation
the reason for the apparent confusion in
the flock is they regularly give the
leader of the flock a rest simply
because he's the one carrying the brunt
of fighting the headwind and he creates
a partial vacuum for the other geese and
so they trade off like that isn't it a
shame that the geese you know uh we
always sometimes talking about somebody
and we occas call somebody a goose well
isn't it a shame that we don't work
together more carefully so that we too
can get further in The Game of Life
that's the reason in the born to win
series we talked so much about the
segment of getting along with your
family and getting along with others
because it makes the trip to the top not
only easier and more certain but it's
far more fun as you go along the way I
don't know if you've ever watched kids
on railroad tracks but on an abandoned
section of uh railroad track if you ever
watch them you'll notice maybe one of
the kids will walk a few steps and off
HEI come another walk a few steps and
off heeld come if those kids were to
reach across the rail from each other
and hold hands they could walk around
the world literally together because
each would balance and support the other
to reach your objectives in what I'm
saying is you got to work with and get
along with other people to repeat about
the 90th time you can get everything in
life you want if you want just help
enough other people get what they want
in order to reach your goals you've got
to get in shape you need to get in shape
physically you need to get in shape
mentally you need to get in shape
spiritually because man is physical he
is mental and he is spiritual I you know
do a lot of talking about my own
exercise program I guess this is going
to sound a little bit like it's bragging
and if you want to know the truth I
guess I could understand it if you were
to think it was bragging I'm 54 years
old I stayed on the treadmill at Cooper
Clinic longer than any member of the
Dallas Cowboy football team I rate in
the upper 2% of the health brackets of
the world as far as men over 50 years
old and I rate in the upper 5% of the
health brackets of the world regardless
of their age I can out run 98% of the
college Kids In America on a fivemile
run I can do things today I could never
have dreamed of doing when I was 2 years
old now why am I putting so much stress
on that simply because it gives me so
much extra energy I've extended my
workday by a full two hours you see what
happens when you exercise is you
activate the pituitary gland now I'm a
jogger you might prefer swimming or the
bicycle or fast walking or whatever but
but when you activate the pituitary
gland which is what you do when you
exercise your system is flooded with
endorphins which are members of the
morphine family and but they're 200
times more powerful than morphine and
you end up on a natural chemical high as
a result of it I really urge you to get
some good advice some good counsel as I
did but take care of your body because
your body and your mind are so closely
related they are working together you
will feel better mentally physically and
spiritually as you take care of that
body you need to be in good shape now as
I say it sounds kind of like I'm
bragging and I guess I do Bragg a little
bit but long about then you know Dr coer
will say to me Zig let me tell you about
this 65 year old lady started jogging
when she was 59 years old at this time
she has now Run 10 marath
and two of them are 50 miles long and
when I get up off the deck you know he
said and let me tell you about this
15-year-old girl she stayed on the
treadmill Ziggler nearly 3 minutes
longer than you did now what that really
means that's kind of like running the
Boston Marathon after you just finished
a 10 mile marathon that's what that
really boils down to so what am I saying
am I really bragging on me or the 65
year old lady or the 15y old girl not a
chance what I'm saying is that inside of
you there is such an incredible amount
of potential but I'd like to see you
recognize your own physical and mental
and spiritual and career potential which
is there because if you go to work to
develop it you'll be absolutely
astonished at what comes out of inside
of you step number 10 if you're going to
reach your goals you've got to literally
be able to see yourself is already there
you've got to see the reaching I kept
that picture of that guy in those jockey
shorts in my bathroom literally I looked
at that thing hundreds and even
thousands of times I saw myself I
visualized myself as already being at
that weight over a quarter of a century
ago I dreamed my dream that I would be
speaking to you here today in this
presentation oh now I know what you're
thinking thinking now wait a minute this
studio wasn't even here and some of the
people in the audience were not even
born no I was not specifically thinking
about this audience at this moment but
well over a quarter of a century ago I
dreamed that I would be literally going
all over the world making speeches to
all kinds of people in all kinds of
groups everywhere and I want to say in
those dreams there were some more dreams
I made literally tens of thousands of
speeches in my mind before I ever made
one in person you remember earlier I
simply said that you've got to
understand that when will meets
imagination that imagination is going to
win that's the reason a lot of people go
on the diet and then go off because they
see something which is so good well the
only thing that's going to whip
imagination is Imagination positive
imaginations in my mind I made those
thousands of speeches all over the world
I rehearsed every word I was going to
say and one of the tragedies is that we
could not film one of those
presentations which I made in my mind
folks I'll tell you if we could have
filmed one of those oh you talking about
a presentation well in these
presentations I made in my mind I had
the audience sitting there in openmouth
astonishment amazed that any mere mortal
could utter such incredible words of
wisdom not once in my imagination in
these speeches did I ever lay even one
small egg everything thing was
absolutely perfect I mean it was right
on the button in every sense of the word
you've heard about people having people
rolling in the aisle some speaker or
some comedian you know listen I had them
rolling up and down the steps in my
imagination when I made those speeches
and standing ovations listen my average
standing ovation that I made or got as a
result of those magnificent speeches I
was making in my mind my average
standing ovation was 11 minutes minutes
long oh I wish we could have filmed some
of those but ladies and gentlemen let me
is you a little word of warning be very
careful about what you dream especially
if you write it down and put a date on
it if you list the obstacles you got to
overcome in order to get there if you
identify the people the groups the
individuals you need to work with if you
spell out what you need to know in order
to reach your objective if you devise a
game team plan in order to get there and
if you list what's in it for me be very
careful when you follow those steps
because ladies and gentlemen every dream
I've ever dreamed until just three years
ago of any significance at all has
already come to pass goals absolutely
work ladies and gentlemen but you got to
take the steps you got to do the things
you got to follow the plan you got to
write it down you got to believe and
finally if you're going to reach your
goals you've got to clearly and very
specifically understand what I say in
two stories many years ago a young
sailor was at Sea in the days of the
sailing ship and a Squall was
approaching a small storm and they sent
him a loft to trim the sails and as he
was climbing a loft he made the mistake
of looking down and the roll of the ship
and the turbulence of the sea caused him
to become slightly nois and he started
to lose his balance and an old sailor
underneath shouted up at him look up son
look up and the young man looked up and
he immediately regained his balance what
the message really says is when things
don't look good in your life you take a
careful look and make absolutely certain
you're not looking in the wrong
direction if the Outlook isn't good try
the uplook because it's always good and
finally let me conclude with the story
of Houdini Houdini was the master
magician he also was the Master
Locksmith made the boast he could get
out of any jail cell in the world if you
would let him walk in that jail cell
with just a street clo on well a small
town in the British Isles built a new
jail they were tremendously proud of it
they said who didn't we don't believe
you can get out of this jail come give
us a try well there's a lot of publicity
a lot of fanfare and yes who didn't was
going to make a lot of money in the
process too and he liked all of those
things and the big day arrived he St
he stroe confidently into that jail cell
he took his coat off as they closed the
door behind him secreted in his belt was
a 10-in piece of Steel very tough very
durable he went to work on uh that lock
at the end of 30 minutes that confident
expression on his face had disappeared
at the end of an hour he was literally
drenched in perspiration at the end of
two hours he literally with exhaustion
collapsed against the
door which
opened because you see ladies and
gentlemen the door had never been
locked now the truth of the matter is
there might be some people who could
temporarily stop you from reaching your
goals but you're the only one who can do
it permanently you see Houdini's door
was locked in his mind that me it was as
locked as if every locksmith in Britain
had put their best lock on the door the
reason we deal with a complete person in
the born to win concept the reason we
spend as much time in all of the facets
of it in the gold segment as we do is
because we want you to understand that
you are a complete person you were
designed for accomplishments you're
engineered for Success you're endowed
with the seeds of greatness you can go
anywhere you want to go you can do what
you want to do you can be like you want
to be you can get the good things of
life so long as you understand that you
must not violate in spiritual or moral
principles and invade or trample on the
rights of others by these ideas do the
things I've been talking about and I'll
close this presentation by saying if you
will I can absolutely guarantee it I
will see you in more ways than you can
at the moment imagine at the top [Applause]
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you is that [Music]
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good thank you [Applause]
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well you know things are a lot quieter
now than they have been throughout the
goals program that you've been
participating in I'm going to keep it
soft and low and quiet but I want to
look you right in the eye now and talk
with you about something which is
critically important what' you get out
of the program more importantly what are
you going to do
with the program in my book see you at
the top I end the book in a rather
unusual way I end it with the beginning
that's right the last page in the book
says the beginning if you got involved
in the goals program and you're excited
about it right now or even if you come
up to me and say you know Zig I really
enjoyed that I'll smile but I'll
certainly expect you to say more than
that if you come to me and say you know
I got a lot out of that I'll smile even
more broadly but frankly I didn't record
the program to entertain you if you come
up to me though and say you know I
enjoyed the program I got an awful lot
out of it and here is what I'm going to
do then I'll get excited man I'll jump
up and down and I'll say hot diggity dog
we hit the target now what I really want
to talk about in the quietness now
relative quietness since we don't have
an audience in front of us and I'm not
jumping up and down and whooping and
shouting and hollering is simply this
now you've got to go to work you need to
take your gold planner and we've set out
some Specific Instructions they're very
clear there's no way you can
misunderstand them you need to work on
this this program is going to involve
work but this I promise you if you will
spend the 12 or 15 or 18 or even 20
hours necessary to put your goals
program in operation with inside of a
month you'll discover that it will be
saving you from one to as many as 5
hours a week and it'll be saving you
that for the rest of your life more
importantly you will be accomplishing so
many more things now I've already
suggested this but I'm going to tell you
again each morning when you get up put
your goals program your gold planner if
you will underneath your pillow so that
night if you neglect for any reason
whatever to spend the five to 10 minutes
each day you must spend in order to keep
your program functioning to the degree
that really you want it to function and
which you should want it to function you
need to work on it every day and when
you lay down if you haven't uh worked in
your goal planner that day I'll
guarantee you you're not going to be
able to sleep on this goal planner no
I'm not going to tell you this is fun
I'm not going to try to motivate you any
further I hopefully have already done
that but if res results appeal to you at
all I'm going to say to you as I look
you as clearly in the eye as I've ever
looked anybody in the eye in my life
that if you will follow the program as
we've outlined it in the go program
you're going to be amazed and delighted
at the results what it enables you to do
is use the Ability which you have and it
puts it on a track it aims it at a
Target and regardless of what your goals
are and there will be many goals this
will enable you to get far more out of
life take me dead seriously when I say
that if you really will use this program
if you will discipline yourself just for
about a month even 21 days where you do
it every single day then that habit will
have been established and my friend
you're going to be amazed at what you
can do with the ability which you have
hey buy this idea will you because if
you will I can close this little segment
by saying I'm Zig Ziggler and I
definitely will see you at the [Applause]
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fantastic wow my goodness I don't
appreciate that but I certainly deserved
it it was January the 23rd 1981 it was a
Friday it had been one of those weeks I
had been literally drove hard and hung
up wet as we'd say down home I mean I'd
been about as busy as a man can get that
particular Friday morning we had a 4our
recording session now when you're record
you got to move it up a notch because
you don't have your body language and
your eye contact to communicate it's got
to be all voice so I was Full Speed
Ahead wide open 280 words a minute with
gust up to 550 I mean it was all there
well at the end of the 4 hours I wasn't
just whipped I was whooped and there is
as I say quite a difference in the two
we had a flight going back to Dallas
leaving at 3:00 the airlines had said to
us now because you've got all of this
gear you need to get out here at least
an hour early so we can secure it so
straight up and down at 1:00 when I
finished my son-in-law Chad Whitmire who
works with me uh packed up all of the
gear as quickly as possible we caught a
cab made a Mad Dash to the airport got
out there straight up and down 2:00 as I
walked in the front door there were two
humongous lines and I picked out the one
which I thought was the shortest and
prepared to wait but I noticed after it
been there just a moment or so that a
little lady was walking around behind
the counter and I looked on one end and
there was a sign which said position
closed my experience told me that pretty
soon position closed was going to swing
open over to position open so I got
ready I wanted to be the first in that
new line and sure enough about a minute
later down comes position closed up goes
position open and the little lady looked
out at the two long lines of people and
smilingly said those of you who have a
seat on the 3:00 flight to Dallas come
over here well quick like a bunny rabbit
I'll tell you I was over there first in
line little lady looked at me and
grinned as she said the 3:00 flight to
Dallas has been
cancelled I said
fantastic she said what' you say I said
fantastic she said now I got to ask you
I've just told you your flight's been
cancelled and you say it's fantastic now
why would you say thing like that and I
said ma'am it's very simple there are
only three reasons on the face of this
Earth why anybody would ever cancel a
flight to Dallas Texas I said number one
something must be wrong with that
airplane or number two something must be
wrong with a man going to fly that
airplane or number three something must
be wrong with the weather that man going
to fly that airplane in now if either
one of those three situations exist I
don't want to be up there I want to be
right down here f
fantastic she said yeah but the next
flight doesn't leave until
6:05 I said
fantastic well by now the other two long
lines are people are looking over as if
to say who is that nut that says
everything is
fastic so I said ma'am uh you know as
she responded to me rather by saying why
would you say it's fantastic when I tell
you that you're going to have a 4-Hour
wait here in the airport in Kansas City
I said ma'am it's very simple I Saidi am
54 years old and never before not even
once in my entire lifetime have I ever
had a chance to spend four solid hours
in this airport here in Kansas City
Missouri and I said Do You Realize at
this precise moment there literally are
tens of millions of people on the face
of this Earth who not only are cold but
who also are hungry and here I am in one
of the most beautiful facilities in the
whole world bitterly cold outside but
nice and warm on the inside and there's
a nice coffee shop right down the way
going to go down there get myself a cup
of coffee going to do some relaxing for
just a few minutes then I've got some
critically important writing which I
must get done and who can think of a
better place than a beautiful facility
like this for me to do my creative work
I say it's
fantastic now those of you who might
have picked up just on this particular
segment of the born to wind program
might be thinking to yourself well now
I've heard about those positive thinkers
but that it's ridiculous
Ziggler now you know you might also be
wondering to yourself I wonder if he
really said that tell me the truth
Ziggler is that really what you said
well as we'd say down home Scouts Honor
folks that is exactly what I said okay
you said it now tell me this is that the
way you felt I mean did you really feel
that way tell me the truth ziggly did
at least initially I did not feel that
way but you see folks as your instructor
in the born to win program will tell you
many many different times and many many
different ways whether you respond or
react is going to determine just how
high you're going to go in The Game of
Life you see to respond is positive to
react is negative I chose to respond for
very one or two or three very simple
reason you see I don't have ulcers I
don't want ulcers I don't need ulcers I
honestly don't think I will ever have
ulcers because I respond instead of
react you see you go to the doctor and
you're sick and he gives you a
prescription and says see me tomorrow
and if you go back the next day and he
begins to shake his head and say uhoh
your body is
reacting to the medicine then everybody
gets upset but if he looks at you and
says oh boy your body is responding
to this medicine then you're really
going to get excited because you know
it's doing you some good you see folks
you do good when you respond but you're
not doing so good when you react you see
I responded for that reason now I had a
couple of reactions I actually could
have had you know I could have gotten
pretty sarcastic when he when she told
me that the next flight didn't leave
until 6:05 or that my flight had been
cancelled I could have said that's great
that's just great I break my silly neck
running through all this traffic trying
to get out here you know to catch a
plane as you had told me to do expecting
it to leave and I get here and you tell
me that you've canceled a flight well
let me tell you something when I drove
up I noticed that you've got a dozen
airplanes sitting out there not doing a
cotton picking thing now why can't you
let me get on one of those and go down
to D why can't you do that just answer that
that
question I could have done that and the next
next
605 now folks let me tell you something
there some things you just are not going
to change if you're black you're going
to stay black if you're white you're
going to stay white you're not going to
add one cubit I don't care how much you
think about it to your height you're not
going to change who your parents were or
where you were born you're not going to
change a thing which has happened in the
past that is over and done with but the
question is do you respond to situations
and make them positive or do you react
which is negative see I could have had
another reaction I could have ranted and
raved and whooped and shouted and
snorted and screamed and holled I could
have gotten obnoxious and made a
complete idiot out of myself right then
and there I could have said that's crazy
who's a dumb dumb that made such an
idiotic decision anyhow I want to go to
Dallas I've been gone all week long my
family misses me and I miss my family
let me see the man who made this dumb
now I could have done that
and the next
605 I know that many of you are very
familiar with what happened when our
president was shot in
1981 you know what happened at the sound
of The Gunshot and I'm absolutely
convinced he is alive today because the
man who had been assigned to guard his
life responded in a very positive way at
the sound of The Gunshot they instantly
moved him into the backseat of the
limousine and they sped off to the
hospital and it's only been in the last
few months that we have learned that we
came within a whisper of losing our
president the way our president himself
responded to me said a whole lot about
the man himself you remember the scene
he was there in excruciating pain he was
absolutely almost in shock his wife was
there scared to death the television
cameras were on him and he looked at her
and smilingly said honey I just forgot
to duck and 200 million Americans said
that a boy Ron there's my president I
learned more about him in two minutes
than I'd learned about him in many many
years by watching him respond you see I
could watch you for a six months or a
year or two years follow you around and
watch everything you do and I could
learn a whole lot about you but the
truth of the matter is I can watch you
under adverse circumstances for two
minutes and I can learn as much about
you when the pressure is on when things
are not going well when things are tough
I can learn more about you in two
minutes than I can normally by watching
you for days and weeks and months do you
respond or do you react suppose that the
sound of The Gunshot those men assigned
to protect the president's life supposed
one of them and said did did did did you hear
hear
that well wonder what that was you know
and and suppose the president suppose he
said oh no here I am 70 years old I've
worked all of my life for this job and
now 68 days after I get it somebody
shoots me it's not fair you see the way
you respond is important do you respond
or do you react you see the truth of the
matter is I did not know a single soul
at that big old Airline I mean not a one
didn't know the president the chairman
of the board or the ticket agent or
single St this and as far as I was
concerned though it was their Airline
they could literally cancel my flight
but there's no way they're going to
cancel my day you see the day is mine as
a matter of fact God himself gave it to
me he even told me to rejoice in this
specific day no I'm going to let him
cancel my flight because it's their
Airline I'm not going to let them cancel
my day because it belongs to me to use
productively you see I don't know if
you've ever been guilty of this but I
know some people you know maybe they're
riding down the freeway on the way to
their job in the morning you know uh
neither thinking negative or positive I
mean they're just kind of in neutral and
all of a sudden some idiot pulls right
in front of them and they hit the brakes
and the horn all at the same time and
they shake their fist you know I mean
they really get after them why don't you
watch where you're going you dumb bunny
I could have been killed not only do
they proceed to give them a piece of
their mind there but when they get down
to the office they ran and raving and
whooping they shouting and snorting
scream and they holler and they just
carry on why know they make people
around here get licenses they don't know
how to drive here I mean this is wild
this is crazy hour two hours three hours
they still talking about the dodo that
pulled in front of them and in the
meantime the man who committed the
along completely unaware of the fact
that you even
exist but he is is in complete control
of your life telling you how to think
and how to act and how to feel affecting
your uh attitude with your fellow
employees and affecting your
productivity tremendously and you see
folks that's just not a good idea that's
one of the reasons we're going to get
into a formula here in a few minutes
about what you can do to build an
attitude formula or foundation so
solidly that when somebody does rain on
your parade when things don't go exactly
like you want them to go your attitude
is still going to be good now we've got
lots to overcome because you know this
started long time ago it really started
in the Garden of Eden you remember the
scene God had given Adam and Eve I mean
absolutely everything Paradise he said
now you can have it all except there's
one tree that has some fruit on it you
can't eat it well you know the story
they ate the fruit then the Lord came
walking in the garden that evening and
as I said earlier this conversation is
not going to be verb him but the Lord
came walking in the garden you know and
he said Adam where are you over here
Lord Adam did you eat that fruit simple
question he doesn't want a theological
answer just wants yes or no but you know
what Adam said he said Lord let me tell
you about that [Laughter]
woman the Lord said eve did you eat that
fruit simple question yes or no is all
he wants but Eve said Lord let me tell
you about that
Serpent and of course the serpent didn't
on now you know what I'm going to say to
you is that you don't have a leg to
stand on either when you blame other
things and other people for your difficulty
difficulty
want to Simply say to you that you can
learn to respond instead of reacting and
that really is what this segment of Born
To Win is all about want to tell you
that every action is preceded by thought
and every thought is preceded by input
into your mind so you see when you
control the input you control the
thoughts which control your action
that's the reason it is so critical that
we be careful about what our children
and for that matter what we permit to go into our minds I'm distressed many times
into our minds I'm distressed many times when we have Educators on occasion some
when we have Educators on occasion some of them who will say you know get an
of them who will say you know get an education it's important you know what
education it's important you know what you put in a kid's mind is vital then on
you put in a kid's mind is vital then on the other hand they will say but don't
the other hand they will say but don't worry about censorship because after all
worry about censorship because after all what possible harm could come from the
what possible harm could come from the things you put into their minds now
things you put into their minds now folks that really it doesn't make any
folks that really it doesn't make any sense at all now I want to Simply say as
sense at all now I want to Simply say as we go through this again I'm not going
we go through this again I'm not going to tell you it's easy because I don't
to tell you it's easy because I don't think life is I think life's tough oh
think life is I think life's tough oh but it's so much fun it's so exciting
but it's so much fun it's so exciting it's so rewarding and you can prepare in
it's so rewarding and you can prepare in advance for the difficulties you're
advance for the difficulties you're going to encounter you see you lay aside
going to encounter you see you lay aside uh money for the rainy day you can build
uh money for the rainy day you can build up an attitude reserve for those rainy
up an attitude reserve for those rainy days which happens in many of our Lives
days which happens in many of our Lives you prepare in advance I happen to be a
you prepare in advance I happen to be a man of the fight ring I've studied the
man of the fight ring I've studied the life story of all the heavyweight
life story of all the heavyweight champions from John El Sullivan up
champions from John El Sullivan up through Joe Lewis I lost a little
through Joe Lewis I lost a little interest at that point but jean tunny
interest at that point but jean tunny was one of my favorites Jean tunny was a
was one of my favorites Jean tunny was a scientific boxer when he was scheduled
scientific boxer when he was scheduled to meet uh Jack Dempsey for the title
to meet uh Jack Dempsey for the title most people didn't think he had a chance
most people didn't think he had a chance but jean tunny prepared for the fight by
but jean tunny prepared for the fight by running backwards now does that mean
running backwards now does that mean that he was afraid of Dempsey no it
that he was afraid of Dempsey no it simply meant that he knew when he got in
simply meant that he knew when he got in the ring with Dempsey he might well get
the ring with Dempsey he might well get clobbered and when Dempsey hit you you
clobbered and when Dempsey hit you you were hurt and so he conditioned himself
were hurt and so he conditioned himself in spine sessions and in training
in spine sessions and in training sessions and jogging go backwards
sessions and jogging go backwards backward backwards and when he was hit
backward backwards and when he was hit then he would automatically do that well
then he would automatically do that well you remember the famous Long Count when
you remember the famous Long Count when he was knocked down and they started to
he was knocked down and they started to count Tony himself says that he was in
count Tony himself says that he was in complete control of his faculties and he
complete control of his faculties and he started to get up but then he remembered
started to get up but then he remembered all of the training you see every
all of the training you see every fighter who has ever been in the ring
fighter who has ever been in the ring when he's hurt really thinks he's all
when he's hurt really thinks he's all right and so Tony wisely stayed down and
right and so Tony wisely stayed down and he went on and a lot of people don't
he went on and a lot of people don't realize this but he knocked Jack Dempsey
realize this but he knocked Jack Dempsey down in the next round went on to defend
down in the next round went on to defend his title successfully for the
his title successfully for the championship he had prepared in advance
championship he had prepared in advance you see you are going to encounter some
you see you are going to encounter some difficulties and what I want to do is
difficulties and what I want to do is simply to give you a formula so that you
simply to give you a formula so that you can literally be ready for the negatives
can literally be ready for the negatives of life and be prepared to accept all of
of life and be prepared to accept all of the good things in life which are in
the good things in life which are in fact going to come your way now there
fact going to come your way now there are several steps to it the first step
are several steps to it the first step which you need to follow in this formula
which you need to follow in this formula is you need to reverse the way you get
is you need to reverse the way you get up now I don't mean that you get out of
up now I don't mean that you get out of bed backwards but I simply mean that you
bed backwards but I simply mean that you reverse the way you get up you know how
reverse the way you get up you know how a lot of people get up you know the
a lot of people get up you know the opportunity clock sounds off you know
opportunity clock sounds off you know and you reach over and you and maybe you
and you reach over and you and maybe you you finally find it and you shut it off
you finally find it and you shut it off and you slap your face a time or two and
and you slap your face a time or two and you say oh hone is it time to get up and
you say oh hone is it time to get up and go to work again you know a lot of
go to work again you know a lot of people start every day that way but in
people start every day that way but in the future you're not going to start
the future you're not going to start that way you have made a commitment to
that way you have made a commitment to yourself to take certain steps and so
yourself to take certain steps and so when that opportunity clock sounds off
when that opportunity clock sounds off tomorrow morning you're going to reach
tomorrow morning you're going to reach over and you're going to shut it off now
over and you're going to shut it off now I think that's important you know and
I think that's important you know and then you're going to sit straight up in
then you're going to sit straight up in bed and you're going to slap your hands
bed and you're going to slap your hands and you're going to say oh boy it's a
and you're going to say oh boy it's a great day to get out there and get them
great day to get out there and get them now I want you to get the scene here you
now I want you to get the scene here you are and you're sitting on the side of
are and you're sitting on the side of your bed your hair is down in your eyes
your bed your hair is down in your eyes you're slapping your hands if they hit
you're slapping your hands if they hit and you're acting like an eight-year-old
and you're acting like an eight-year-old child and you're saying oh boy it's a
child and you're saying oh boy it's a good day to get up and get them now let
good day to get up and get them now let me tell you something if you live to be
me tell you something if you live to be a thousand you'll never tell a bigger
a thousand you'll never tell a bigger one than that
one but two things first of all you are up and that is where you wanted to be
up and that is where you wanted to be when you set that opportunity clock to
when you set that opportunity clock to sound off the next morning number two
sound off the next morning number two you are starting to take control of the
you are starting to take control of the day instead of letting the day take
day instead of letting the day take control of you then there's a third
control of you then there's a third thought you see you did not decide to
thought you see you did not decide to get up when you set that opportunity
get up when you set that opportunity clock the night before what you do is
clock the night before what you do is you decide when you set the clock I am
you decide when you set the clock I am going to get up now what you're going to
going to get up now what you're going to do is decide how I'm going to get up at
do is decide how I'm going to get up at the sound of the clock you can either
the sound of the clock you can either get up negatively or you can get up
get up negatively or you can get up positively the way I'm talking about now
positively the way I'm talking about now is a very positive way to get up now I
is a very positive way to get up now I don't recommend you do this for a
don't recommend you do this for a lifetime but I will say that if you'll
lifetime but I will say that if you'll do it for 21 days you will begin to
do it for 21 days you will begin to experience some rather exciting things
experience some rather exciting things which will be happening in your life and
which will be happening in your life and I want also say that you are digging
I want also say that you are digging just an awful lot deeper than you
just an awful lot deeper than you realize you see when you sew an action
realize you see when you sew an action you reap a habit when you sow a habit
you reap a habit when you sow a habit you reap a character and when you sow a
you reap a character and when you sow a character ladies and gentlemen you reap
character ladies and gentlemen you reap a destiny William James the father of
a destiny William James the father of American psychology long ago said that
American psychology long ago said that if you really want to change in your
if you really want to change in your life you got to do it
life you got to do it flamboyantly and you got to do it
flamboyantly and you got to do it immediately and this idea of getting up
immediately and this idea of getting up in the morning is the greatest
in the morning is the greatest procrastination killer you have ever
procrastination killer you have ever seen But the exciting thing is if you
seen But the exciting thing is if you understand anything at all about human
understand anything at all about human nature and about habits is this every
nature and about habits is this every destructive habit known to man
destructive habit known to man regardless of what that habit might be
regardless of what that habit might be whether it's obesity profanity
whether it's obesity profanity promiscuity alcoholism drugs or whatever
promiscuity alcoholism drugs or whatever if the Habit is a destructive one it
if the Habit is a destructive one it starts very slowly and very gradually
starts very slowly and very gradually and before you realize you've got the
and before you realize you've got the Habit The Habit has got you my good
Habit The Habit has got you my good friend Dr farest ten at UCLA who in my
friend Dr farest ten at UCLA who in my mind is the number one drug Authority in
mind is the number one drug Authority in this country for example has said that
this country for example has said that when we solve the smoking problem we
when we solve the smoking problem we will eliminate the drug problem and he
will eliminate the drug problem and he says that because you see 95 plus perc
says that because you see 95 plus perc of the kids who smoke pot started with
of the kids who smoke pot started with cigarettes and 99% of those people who
cigarettes and 99% of those people who go in into heroin and into cocaine
go in into heroin and into cocaine smoked pot along the way so he says that
smoked pot along the way so he says that if you eliminate the cigarettes you
if you eliminate the cigarettes you eliminate the drug problem well what I'm
eliminate the drug problem well what I'm talking about there is a very similar
talking about there is a very similar thing your destructive habits start
thing your destructive habits start slowly but your good habits are the
slowly but your good habits are the opposite if it's a good habit you got to
opposite if it's a good habit you got to grab on to it and hang on to it for dear
grab on to it and hang on to it for dear life whether it's tithing or being nice
life whether it's tithing or being nice to people or getting up in the morning
to people or getting up in the morning if you've had the other habit ingrained
if you've had the other habit ingrained otherwise you need to grab it and you
otherwise you need to grab it and you need to grab it very firmly and
need to grab it very firmly and vigorously now let me also say uh that
vigorously now let me also say uh that if you've got a fulllength mirror in
if you've got a fulllength mirror in front of you then this one has a double
front of you then this one has a double benefit because there you are looking in
benefit because there you are looking in the mirror at such a ridiculous sight as
the mirror at such a ridiculous sight as you'll ever see and you can't look in
you'll ever see and you can't look in that mirror at yourself with your hair
that mirror at yourself with your hair all down in your eyes acting like an
all down in your eyes acting like an eight-year-old and keep a straight face
eight-year-old and keep a straight face to save your life now if you're married
to save your life now if you're married you and your mate both do it now you've
you and your mate both do it now you've got a double comedy In Living Color and
got a double comedy In Living Color and I'll tell you it really will do some
I'll tell you it really will do some things for you so as you look at this uh
things for you so as you look at this uh idea of getting started that way when
idea of getting started that way when you go in for breakfast of that morning
you go in for breakfast of that morning then what you need to do uh you know
then what you need to do uh you know regardless of what the mate might have
regardless of what the mate might have prepared for you you need to smile and
prepared for you you need to smile and simply say honey do you mean to tell me
simply say honey do you mean to tell me that we had bacon and eggs and grits for
that we had bacon and eggs and grits for breakfast this morning that's what I was
breakfast this morning that's what I was hoping you'd have even if you've had
hoping you'd have even if you've had that breakfast for
that breakfast for 287 consecutive days then you need to do
287 consecutive days then you need to do that yes when you seow that action you
that yes when you seow that action you begin to do an awful lot of things you
begin to do an awful lot of things you put the good stuff in as Diane Morgan
put the good stuff in as Diane Morgan Sayang earlier and you get the good
Sayang earlier and you get the good stuff out now step number two if you're
stuff out now step number two if you're going to build that winning attitude
going to build that winning attitude with this formula is you need to
with this formula is you need to establish some symbols in life a long
establish some symbols in life a long time ago John shed a great sales manager
time ago John shed a great sales manager said we don't need to be told but we do
said we don't need to be told but we do need to be reminded and so with this in
need to be reminded and so with this in mind on every cor it seems to me in
mind on every cor it seems to me in every city in America they have some
every city in America they have some signals now some people call them red
signals now some people call them red lights some call them stop lights some
lights some call them stop lights some call them traffic lights but ladies and
call them traffic lights but ladies and gentlemen you and I know what they are
gentlemen you and I know what they are they are go lights and they're put there
they are go lights and they're put there for the express purpose of making
for the express purpose of making traffic go and if you don't believe that
traffic go and if you don't believe that you just watch H what happens when one
you just watch H what happens when one of them is cut off you know traffic
of them is cut off you know traffic backs up for Block around not because
backs up for Block around not because the uh stop light is off but because the
the uh stop light is off but because the go light is off then why do people call
go light is off then why do people call them stop lights red lights and traffic
them stop lights red lights and traffic lights it's because there are snop a
lights it's because there are snop a snop s ni i o p a person who is
snop s ni i o p a person who is susceptible to the negative influence of
susceptible to the negative influence of other people now here's what you got to
other people now here's what you got to keep in mind 27 hours every year the
keep in mind 27 hours every year the average American sits there in front of
average American sits there in front of the go lights waiting on the right color
the go lights waiting on the right color now I know none of you folks in this
now I know none of you folks in this fine would do a thing like this or even
fine would do a thing like this or even those of you who are watching this film
those of you who are watching this film later on would do it but have you ever
later on would do it but have you ever pulled up to one of the GOL lights you
pulled up to one of the GOL lights you know and you're sitting there waiting
know and you're sitting there waiting and you're going to you know as I say
and you're going to you know as I say spend 27 hours a year doing that but you
spend 27 hours a year doing that but you noticed out of the side of your eyes
noticed out of the side of your eyes there's some dude sitting over there and
there's some dude sitting over there and he's too waiting on the go light but
he's too waiting on the go light but he's got a good firm grip on that
he's got a good firm grip on that steering wheel I mean he doesn't want
steering wheel I mean he doesn't want that car to go anywhere and then you
that car to go anywhere and then you notice he's got his mouth all fixed in
notice he's got his mouth all fixed in case he has to talk to that thing and
case he has to talk to that thing and then you watch him he's got his foot on
then you watch him he's got his foot on his accelerator he's racing the engine
his accelerator he's racing the engine to change the color of the
light now folks if you think it's juvenile to get up in the morning and
juvenile to get up in the morning and slap your hands and say oh boy it's a
slap your hands and say oh boy it's a great day to get up and get at them what
great day to get up and get at them what do you think it is to race the motor to
do you think it is to race the motor to change the color of the light now I got
change the color of the light now I got news that's just not going to work for
news that's just not going to work for you here's what you're going to do from
you here's what you're going to do from here on in every time you pull up in
here on in every time you pull up in front of one of those go lights you're
front of one of those go lights you're going to sit there and you're going to
going to sit there and you're going to visualize it as being your own with your
visualize it as being your own with your name on it it's put there for me so I
name on it it's put there for me so I can go more smoothly more safely and
can go more smoothly more safely and more quickly to my destination and uh
more quickly to my destination and uh you know when you're talking to people
you know when you're talking to people about directions how do you go from one
about directions how do you go from one side of town to another you're going to
side of town to another you're going to say to them you go down to the first go
say to them you go down to the first go light and you turn left and I'll tell
light and you turn left and I'll tell you what I'll bet you I'll bet you can't
you what I'll bet you I'll bet you can't say go light with a straight face to
say go light with a straight face to save your life and the minute you say go
save your life and the minute you say go light you're going to be brought right
light you're going to be brought right back to this film presentation and it's
back to this film presentation and it's going to remind you about a whole lot of
going to remind you about a whole lot of things and that's what it's all about as
things and that's what it's all about as I said earlier you don't need to be told
I said earlier you don't need to be told you do need to be reminded have a close
you do need to be reminded have a close friend named Bernie luk he's really more
friend named Bernie luk he's really more like a brother lives up in Winnipeg
like a brother lives up in Winnipeg Canada most positive man I've ever seen
Canada most positive man I've ever seen in my life Bernie is so positive he's
in my life Bernie is so positive he's never once had a cold occasionally he
never once had a cold occasionally he does have a
does have a warm he's so positive he never even
warm he's so positive he never even talks about the weak end he calls it the
talks about the weak end he calls it the strong end and you might you know you
strong end and you might you know you might think to yourself now Ziggler wait
might think to yourself now Ziggler wait just a minute it uh you know hand
just a minute it uh you know hand slapping go lights warm strong in is all
slapping go lights warm strong in is all of that necessary no you can be mediocre
of that necessary no you can be mediocre without
without it you might say mediocre I'll have you
it you might say mediocre I'll have you know I'm president of my company
know I'm president of my company mediocre I'll have you know I'm worth
mediocre I'll have you know I'm worth over a million dollars mediocre I've got
over a million dollars mediocre I've got my PhD mediocre I'll have you know I'll
my PhD mediocre I'll have you know I'll led the entire Salesforce well bully for
led the entire Salesforce well bully for you you see success is not measured Meed
you you see success is not measured Meed by what you do in competition with
by what you do in competition with others you might have 10 times their
others you might have 10 times their ability success is measured by what you
ability success is measured by what you do as compared to what you are capable
do as compared to what you are capable of doing the simple process of
of doing the simple process of reminding yourself through these little
reminding yourself through these little signals these little ideas will enable
signals these little ideas will enable you to use the Ability which you have
you to use the Ability which you have step number three if you're going to
step number three if you're going to build uh a winning attitude you need to
build uh a winning attitude you need to change the way you treat people now
change the way you treat people now whether it's in person or on the
whether it's in person or on the telephone I'm going to suggest to begin
telephone I'm going to suggest to begin with that you get out your Yellow Pages
with that you get out your Yellow Pages and get one of your buddies to do that
and get one of your buddies to do that whatever City you live in you look up
whatever City you live in you look up six your buddy looks up six y'all swap
six your buddy looks up six y'all swap numbers and call the numbers the other
numbers and call the numbers the other one looked up you'll discover that you
one looked up you'll discover that you cannot identify more than two of the
cannot identify more than two of the places of business based on the way the
places of business based on the way the average business answers its telephone
average business answers its telephone today they snatch the telephone off they
today they snatch the telephone off they H good money's Right company and you
H good money's Right company and you don't have any more idea than a goat who
don't have any more idea than a goat who you've got tell you what you ought to do
you've got tell you what you ought to do you ought to call our office just to
you ought to call our office just to learn how to answer the telephone now
learn how to answer the telephone now we've got a a watch number but I'm not
we've got a a watch number but I'm not going to give it to you you ought to
going to give it to you you ought to spend your own dollar and call them
spend your own dollar and call them it'll do you more good the number is 214
it'll do you more good the number is 214 233 9191 and you'll notice that when our
233 9191 and you'll notice that when our lady answers a telephone she says good
lady answers a telephone she says good morning and you flat know it's a good
morning and you flat know it's a good morning then she makes a motivational
morning then she makes a motivational speech now not as long as a motivational
speech now not as long as a motivational speech as I make but she makes a
speech as I make but she makes a motivational speech she says it's a
motivational speech she says it's a great day a lot of times people say
great day a lot of times people say Zigler is it always a great day it sure
Zigler is it always a great day it sure is and if you don't believe it you just
is and if you don't believe it you just try missing one of
try missing one of them it's a great day then she
them it's a great day then she identifies the name of the company now
identifies the name of the company now when I'm at home and I stress this as at
when I'm at home and I stress this as at home I answer the telephone differently
home I answer the telephone differently many times I'll answer it singing oh
many times I'll answer it singing oh good morning to you now be the first to
good morning to you now be the first to admit
admit sometimes there's a long
pause and then I'll sing of another little diddy if you don't speak up I'm
little diddy if you don't speak up I'm going to hang up a lot of time they say
going to hang up a lot of time they say who is this and I'll say it's whoever
who is this and I'll say it's whoever you want who do you want and you know a
you want who do you want and you know a lot of time they say man you sure do
lot of time they say man you sure do feel good today and I said yes many
feel good today and I said yes many years ago I decided I was going to feel
years ago I decided I was going to feel good today most doctors will tell you
good today most doctors will tell you that 90% of the way you feel is
that 90% of the way you feel is determined by the way you want to feel
determined by the way you want to feel and by the way you expect to feel makes
and by the way you expect to feel makes all the difference in the world a lot of
all the difference in the world a lot of times I'll answer the telephone at home
times I'll answer the telephone at home simply by saying heidy heidy Heidi or I
simply by saying heidy heidy Heidi or I might pick up the telephone and say good
might pick up the telephone and say good morning this is Jean Ziggler's happy
morning this is Jean Ziggler's happy husband never will forget one Sunday
husband never will forget one Sunday afternoon I picked up the telephone I
afternoon I picked up the telephone I said good afternoon this is Tom
said good afternoon this is Tom Ziggler's dad little voice at the other
Ziggler's dad little voice at the other end said is is Tom there I said he sure
end said is is Tom there I said he sure is he said can I speak to him I said of
is he said can I speak to him I said of course Tom youngster thought I'd laid
course Tom youngster thought I'd laid the telephone down he turned to his
the telephone down he turned to his mother and he said boy they've sure got
mother and he said boy they've sure got a weird way of answering the
telephone but I noticed for the next 60 to 90 days every time I pull my car in
to 90 days every time I pull my car in the driveway about two minutes later the
the driveway about two minutes later the telephone was ringing and I love to
telephone was ringing and I love to answer the telephone little Sam Wing
answer the telephone little Sam Wing from down the street would be at the
from down the street would be at the other end and I'd give it one of the
other end and I'd give it one of the little diddies you know and old Sam
little diddies you know and old Sam would say is Tom there is Tom there
he didn't want to talk to Tom he wanted to hear me answer the
to hear me answer the telephone you might say Okay Ziggler so
telephone you might say Okay Ziggler so what here's the so what I can tell you
what here's the so what I can tell you this with as much certainty as I can
this with as much certainty as I can tell you anything about the game of life
tell you anything about the game of life when your child is between the ages of 9
when your child is between the ages of 9 and 15 when they're undergoing more
and 15 when they're undergoing more physiological and psychological changes
physiological and psychological changes than any other time in their entire
than any other time in their entire lifetime when they always change school
lifetime when they always change school one once and often times twice when
one once and often times twice when they're subjected to the morality of the
they're subjected to the morality of the me media the morality of the TV and the
me media the morality of the TV and the morality of their peer group and the
morality of their peer group and the morality of the family and the morality
morality of the family and the morality of the church often in Conflict when
of the church often in Conflict when they so desperately need a mother and or
they so desperately need a mother and or a daddy to put their arms around them
a daddy to put their arms around them and tell them they love them and spend
and tell them they love them and spend time with them the average American
time with them the average American parent according to the National PTA in
parent according to the National PTA in the University of Pennsylvania is
the University of Pennsylvania is spending seven and one and a half
spending seven and one and a half minutes a week talking to their children
minutes a week talking to their children now I'm not talking about eating with
now I'm not talking about eating with them I'm not talking about watching
them I'm not talking about watching television with them I'm talking about
television with them I'm talking about talking to those kids we discover that
talking to those kids we discover that if we created an environment of
if we created an environment of excitement and happiness and love that
excitement and happiness and love that the neighborhood kids would come to our
the neighborhood kids would come to our house to see our son and our daughters
house to see our son and our daughters and I'd rather have 19 of them in my den
and I'd rather have 19 of them in my den and me know everything that's going on
and me know everything that's going on than to have my children in somebody
than to have my children in somebody else's home where I did not know what
else's home where I did not know what was going on and I stress this in the
was going on and I stress this in the born to Wi program for the very simple
born to Wi program for the very simple reason that your relationship with your
reason that your relationship with your mate and with your children has a direct
mate and with your children has a direct bearing on your future and on your
bearing on your future and on your career they're all tied together man is
career they're all tied together man is physical and he is mental and he is
physical and he is mental and he is spiritual and unless we deal with the
spiritual and unless we deal with the whole ball of wax we're going to miss
whole ball of wax we're going to miss out on some critical parts and we're
out on some critical parts and we're going to be hurting somewhere the simple
going to be hurting somewhere the simple process of answering the telephone does
process of answering the telephone does make a difference and then the way you
make a difference and then the way you greet people in person if you ever
greet people in person if you ever notice of a critically negative way a
notice of a critically negative way a lot of people exchange greetings how you
lot of people exchange greetings how you doing uh I'm
doing uh I'm surviving how you doing I'm fine since
surviving how you doing I'm fine since it's Friday how you doing not too bad
it's Friday how you doing not too bad whatever in the world that is how you
whatever in the world that is how you doing great since I'm on vacation how
doing great since I'm on vacation how you doing well uh since I get off in 45
you doing well uh since I get off in 45 minutes fantastic or as my friend Roy
minutes fantastic or as my friend Roy Hatton who also does a lot of speaking
Hatton who also does a lot of speaking says when somebody ask how you doing
says when somebody ask how you doing don't you love it when they pull
don't you love it when they pull themselves up to their full height and
themselves up to their full height and say well under the circumstances you
say well under the circumstances you know makes you wonder what they're doing
know makes you wonder what they're doing under there in the first place does it
under there in the first place does it you know now the next time you greet
you know now the next time you greet somebody and when they say how you doing
somebody and when they say how you doing why don't you just tell them the truth
why don't you just tell them the truth why don't you RAR back and say
why don't you RAR back and say fantastic but I'm improving you know or
fantastic but I'm improving you know or super good but I'll get better you might
super good but I'll get better you might say well now wait a minute ziggly
say well now wait a minute ziggly suppose I'm not really feeling that good
suppose I'm not really feeling that good am I telling the truth well of course
am I telling the truth well of course you're telling the truth you're just
you're telling the truth you're just telling it in advance that's all why
telling it in advance that's all why wait for the good stuff now you might
wait for the good stuff now you might say okay where do you get your
say okay where do you get your information all right I can validate it
information all right I can validate it from three critically important areas
from three critically important areas first of all from the Bible itself Jesus
first of all from the Bible itself Jesus Christ said I thank you Father for what
Christ said I thank you Father for what you are going to do claiming in advance
you are going to do claiming in advance you see and that's the key you might say
you see and that's the key you might say yeah but now wait a minute I'm not a
yeah but now wait a minute I'm not a Christian all right if you don't believe
Christian all right if you don't believe all of the Bible then let me simply
all of the Bible then let me simply refer you to the psychiatrist Dr William
refer you to the psychiatrist Dr William gra James the father American psychology
gra James the father American psychology said you do not sing because you're
said you do not sing because you're happy he says you are happy because you
happy he says you are happy because you sing that's right Dale carneg you said
sing that's right Dale carneg you said it you want to be
it you want to be enthusiastic and act
enthusiastic and act enthusiastic you know the first
enthusiastic you know the first psychology book I studied in school uh
psychology book I studied in school uh the author kept referring to you know
the author kept referring to you know things like H the relationship with your
things like H the relationship with your mate and he said simply that if you've
mate and he said simply that if you've fallen out of love with your mate if
fallen out of love with your mate if you'll go back to courting them as you
you'll go back to courting them as you did when you fell in love with them that
did when you fell in love with them that you will fall back in love with that
you will fall back in love with that mate in other words he's saying take the
mate in other words he's saying take the physical Ang ction and then you will
physical Ang ction and then you will have the emotional response to the
have the emotional response to the action okay you might say okay I don't
action okay you might say okay I don't believe the Bible I don't believe those
believe the Bible I don't believe those egg heads either all right there is
egg heads either all right there is still a third source and it validates
still a third source and it validates again what I'm talking about that source
again what I'm talking about that source is infallible folks because it's you
is infallible folks because it's you your own experience how many of you have
your own experience how many of you have ever participated in team Athletics
ever participated in team Athletics could I see your hands in this live
could I see your hands in this live audience please okay how many of you
audience please okay how many of you ever went out for practice when you just
ever went out for practice when you just flat didn't want to go out for practice
flat didn't want to go out for practice you get out there and say well the coach
you get out there and say well the coach said he's going to can me if I miss
said he's going to can me if I miss another day well I ain't going to do
another day well I ain't going to do anything he's not watching me you know
anything he's not watching me you know and you just drag around hoping he won't
and you just drag around hoping he won't see you you know and then after you've
see you you know and then after you've been out there about five or 10 minutes
been out there about five or 10 minutes you finally said well as long as I'm out
you finally said well as long as I'm out here I might as well get after it and
here I might as well get after it and you really start getting after it how
you really start getting after it how many of you ever went out for practice
many of you ever went out for practice feeling awful and 10 minutes later felt
feeling awful and 10 minutes later felt fantastically good can I see your hands
fantastically good can I see your hands I want to give you one sentence worth
I want to give you one sentence worth the entire born to win program you might
the entire born to win program you might think to yourself will you you dirty dog
think to yourself will you you dirty dog why don't you just give us that we could
why don't you just give us that we could you know we could have been long
you know we could have been long gone well the answer is very simple I
gone well the answer is very simple I don't believe in giving people their
don't believe in giving people their money's worth I believe I got to give
money's worth I believe I got to give them a bargain and I believe if I do
them a bargain and I believe if I do give them a bargain if I give you more
give them a bargain if I give you more than You' expected then I believe you're
than You' expected then I believe you're going to tell other folks about the born
going to tell other folks about the born the win program you see we literally
the win program you see we literally believe that you can get everything in
believe that you can get everything in life you want if you'll just help enough
life you want if you'll just help enough other people get what they want here's
other people get what they want here's the sentence logic will not change an
the sentence logic will not change an emotion but action will when you slap
emotion but action will when you slap your hands you're creating an action
your hands you're creating an action you'll feel better you can go into your
you'll feel better you can go into your company and literally change the
company and literally change the attitude of every person there change
attitude of every person there change the environment when somebody responds
the environment when somebody responds or ask you how you doing for you simply
or ask you how you doing for you simply to start saying
to start saying fantastic uh but I'm improving or super
fantastic uh but I'm improving or super good but I'll get better it is more
good but I'll get better it is more catching than the flu the MS or the
catching than the flu the MS or the measles all put together I mean it
measles all put together I mean it really is change the way you greet
really is change the way you greet people and then when you part company
people and then when you part company with somebody instead of saying so long
with somebody instead of saying so long or see you around or have a good day
or see you around or have a good day that's not too bad but when you start
that's not too bad but when you start part company why don't you look I'm dead
part company why don't you look I'm dead center and say well I'll see you at the
center and say well I'll see you at the top now you see that is far far more
top now you see that is far far more positive so step number three change the
positive so step number three change the way you greet people step number four to
way you greet people step number four to build a winning attitude is you need to
build a winning attitude is you need to set set your gyroscope now I don't know
set set your gyroscope now I don't know how many of you were around to watch
how many of you were around to watch Candid Camera this might have been 25
Candid Camera this might have been 25 years ago it was the original Candid
years ago it was the original Candid Camera never will forget darthy Collins
Camera never will forget darthy Collins I believe it was was on this particular
I believe it was was on this particular episode she had been one of the Hit
episode she had been one of the Hit Parade singers and she was standing out
Parade singers and she was standing out in the hallway of an office building and
in the hallway of an office building and she had a suitcase there and the
she had a suitcase there and the suitcase had a gyroscope in it and the
suitcase had a gyroscope in it and the gyroscope was set to go straight ahead
gyroscope was set to go straight ahead and darthy would be standing there and
and darthy would be standing there and some dude would be walking down the
some dude would be walking down the hallway you know and she'd say Sir would
hallway you know and she'd say Sir would you mind taking my suitcase into my
you mind taking my suitcase into my office that's a little heavy and old boy
office that's a little heavy and old boy gr you know and he'd reach down and he'd
gr you know and he'd reach down and he'd say certainly and he'd pick it up and
say certainly and he'd pick it up and he'd start walking this way and he'd try
he'd start walking this way and he'd try to turn left and he can turn left all he
to turn left and he can turn left all he wants to but that gyroscope is going to
wants to but that gyroscope is going to resist any turn it's going to go
resist any turn it's going to go straight ahead now I mention that
straight ahead now I mention that because you see in every creature on the
because you see in every creature on the face of this Earth there is a buil-in
face of this Earth there is a buil-in gyroscope
gyroscope the young duck is going to fly south
the young duck is going to fly south even if there is not another young duck
even if there is not another young duck anywhere inight because God built into
anywhere inight because God built into that duck the law of self-preservation
that duck the law of self-preservation is going to go south the young squirrel
is going to go south the young squirrel even if no other squirrels around will
even if no other squirrels around will store nuts for the winter that law of
store nuts for the winter that law of self-preservation is there now man too
self-preservation is there now man too has a built-in gyroscope but we have
has a built-in gyroscope but we have complete control of our gyroscope we
complete control of our gyroscope we were given Minds to think with and to
were given Minds to think with and to use you go to the Lakeshore or the
use you go to the Lakeshore or the seashore and you want sailing boats out
seashore and you want sailing boats out there they're going in 300 different
there they're going in 300 different directions but wait a minute the wind is
directions but wait a minute the wind is blowing only in one but on the boat
blowing only in one but on the boat there's a human being and the human
there's a human being and the human being is set to sail and it's the set of
being is set to sail and it's the set of the sail that determines the direction
the sail that determines the direction of the boat not the way the wind is
of the boat not the way the wind is blowing but the way the sail is set you
blowing but the way the sail is set you see the wind is not going to always blow
see the wind is not going to always blow in your direction but if you set your
in your direction but if you set your sails right in this case I'm calling it
sails right in this case I'm calling it a gyroscope you can keep your life In
a gyroscope you can keep your life In All Phases of it going in the right
All Phases of it going in the right direction please don't misunderstand
direction please don't misunderstand that's not saying that you never have
that's not saying that you never have your difficulties but you already know
your difficulties but you already know how to get up when you have those
how to get up when you have those difficulties this is simply building
difficulties this is simply building that Reserve which gives you that
that Reserve which gives you that winning attitude you set your gyroscope
winning attitude you set your gyroscope by doing this the next time the
by doing this the next time the telephone rings and you get involved in
telephone rings and you get involved in a long conversation and you know how
a long conversation and you know how some people doodle they'll sit there and
some people doodle they'll sit there and draw a little circle you know then they
draw a little circle you know then they put a triangle in the circle then a
put a triangle in the circle then a rectangle and a triangle in the circle
rectangle and a triangle in the circle and a square and the rectangle and the
and a square and the rectangle and the triangle in the circle and then they'll
triangle in the circle and then they'll start their fancy shading you know and
start their fancy shading you know and some of them get pretty good at it while
some of them get pretty good at it while they even sign it so that in case
they even sign it so that in case somebody comes along and discovers it
somebody comes along and discovers it you know maybe they'll get a high price
you know maybe they'll get a high price for it let me ask you a question what is
for it let me ask you a question what is the going price of Doodles in your
the going price of Doodles in your hometown Now That's What I Call doodling
hometown Now That's What I Call doodling according to hall now if you want to set
according to hall now if you want to set your gyroscope you got to Doodle
your gyroscope you got to Doodle according to Ziggler and the doodle
according to Ziggler and the doodle according to Ziggler is simply this when
according to Ziggler is simply this when you get on that long conversation to
you get on that long conversation to start writing down I can I can I can I
start writing down I can I can I can I can over and over I can lose 37 pounds I
can over and over I can lose 37 pounds I can get along with my mate I can raise
can get along with my mate I can raise positive children I can quit smoking I
positive children I can quit smoking I can quit drinking I can get the
can quit drinking I can get the promotion I can make more sales right
promotion I can make more sales right down whatever it is write it and write
down whatever it is write it and write it and write it and reinforce it you are
it and write it and reinforce it you are setting your gyroscope and now the
setting your gyroscope and now the bottom write the final thing and I will
bottom write the final thing and I will step number five if you want to build a
step number five if you want to build a solid attitude Foundation you need to
solid attitude Foundation you need to feed your mind interestingly enough I
feed your mind interestingly enough I have never yet had anybody say you know
have never yet had anybody say you know I'm about to starve I just don't know
I'm about to starve I just don't know what I'm going to do about it do you
what I'm going to do about it do you have any suggestions it's amazing isn't
have any suggestions it's amazing isn't it that when we are hungry physically we
it that when we are hungry physically we know that we got to go get something to
know that we got to go get something to eat and yet I see people who are
eat and yet I see people who are attitudinally wise starving to death
attitudinally wise starving to death emotionally they are starving to death
emotionally they are starving to death and they don't have any earthly idea
and they don't have any earthly idea about what to do about it I'm going to
about what to do about it I'm going to even point this out there many times I
even point this out there many times I have seen people you know and they'd say
have seen people you know and they'd say well you know I was so busy yesterday I
well you know I was so busy yesterday I didn't even have time to eat lunch I
didn't even have time to eat lunch I said man pay attention I said I didn't
said man pay attention I said I didn't even have time to eat lunch I mean it's
even have time to eat lunch I mean it's a big deal and when I ask him when is
a big deal and when I ask him when is the last time you ate a good solid
the last time you ate a good solid mental meal and say huh you see I fly
mental meal and say huh you see I fly believe that if you'll feed your mind as
believe that if you'll feed your mind as often as you do your stomach then you'll
often as you do your stomach then you'll never have to worry about feeding your
never have to worry about feeding your stomach or roof over your head or
stomach or roof over your head or clothes on your back or anything else
clothes on your back or anything else now the question is who deliberately
now the question is who deliberately selects the proper material to put in
selects the proper material to put in your mind who are some of the people who
your mind who are some of the people who are doing the things I'm talking about
are doing the things I'm talking about well let me give you a list which I
well let me give you a list which I think is pretty impressive Mary Kay as
think is pretty impressive Mary Kay as if Mary Kay cosmetics told me that she
if Mary Kay cosmetics told me that she never cranks a car until after she's
never cranks a car until after she's cranked up her cassette recording of
cranked up her cassette recording of motivational material de Clement s in
motivational material de Clement s in excess of a half a billion dollars told
excess of a half a billion dollars told me that he listens every day to
me that he listens every day to motivational recordings HL hunt till
motivational recordings HL hunt till after he was 80 years old before his
after he was 80 years old before his death listened every day to motivational
death listened every day to motivational recordings Wallace Johnson co-founder of
recordings Wallace Johnson co-founder of holiday ends told me he listens every
holiday ends told me he listens every day and reads at least three good books
day and reads at least three good books a month Alan Bean one of the astronauts
a month Alan Bean one of the astronauts who walked on the moon told me that when
who walked on the moon told me that when they were on their way to the moon and
they were on their way to the moon and on the space platform going around the
on the space platform going around the earth those 59 days they were listening
earth those 59 days they were listening to motivational recordings I'm delighted
to motivational recordings I'm delighted to be able to say to you that at least
to be able to say to you that at least some of the recordings they were
some of the recordings they were listening to were
to you need to feed your mind now in your home you probably have a kitchen
your home you probably have a kitchen and a bedroom and a bathroom to take
and a bedroom and a bathroom to take care of your physical needs what you
care of your physical needs what you need in your home is a room to take care
need in your home is a room to take care of your mental needs you see no nobody
of your mental needs you see no nobody really is worth more than 200 bucks a
really is worth more than 200 bucks a week from the neck down from the neck up
week from the neck down from the neck up there's no limit to what you're worth
there's no limit to what you're worth and so you need time and space to feed
and so you need time and space to feed your mind I'll say it again you can
your mind I'll say it again you can change what you are and you can change
change what you are and you can change Where You Are by changing what goes into
Where You Are by changing what goes into your mind be very careful select the
your mind be very careful select the good the clean the pure the powerful and
good the clean the pure the powerful and the positive because if you want the
the positive because if you want the good things over here you got a plant of
good things over here you got a plant of good things here tell me what you want
good things here tell me what you want in the tomorrows of your life I can
in the tomorrows of your life I can almost write you a form formul a
almost write you a form formul a prescription that if you'll feed these
prescription that if you'll feed these things in your mind here you'll have an
things in your mind here you'll have an infinitely better chance of getting them
infinitely better chance of getting them later you do need to feed your mind you
later you do need to feed your mind you need to listen many many times 16 times
need to listen many many times 16 times is what we believe is required
is what we believe is required University of Southern California says
University of Southern California says that if you drive 12,000 mil a year in a
that if you drive 12,000 mil a year in a congested area that in three years time
congested area that in three years time you can acquire the equivalent of two
you can acquire the equivalent of two years of college education we do all of
years of college education we do all of our recordings in front of live
our recordings in front of live audiences because as a mentioned you got
audiences because as a mentioned you got to hear the same message 16 times to get
to hear the same message 16 times to get all of it and the only way I'm going to
all of it and the only way I'm going to get you to listen to it twice is for you
get you to listen to it twice is for you to enjoy it that's the reason every nine
to enjoy it that's the reason every nine minutes I have you laughing you know I
minutes I have you laughing you know I tell folks I'm like a crosseyed discus
tell folks I'm like a crosseyed discus thrower don't set any records but I do
thrower don't set any records but I do keep the crowd alert and uh you know I
keep the crowd alert and uh you know I think that is important when you listen
think that is important when you listen repeatedly it goes into your
repeatedly it goes into your subconscious mind it becomes a part of
subconscious mind it becomes a part of you in the gold segment you recall I
you in the gold segment you recall I told told you the incredible story of
told told you the incredible story of Tom Hartman and what it had done for him
Tom Hartman and what it had done for him other people of course have been
other people of course have been listening and they get all of the
listening and they get all of the benefits from it and what I really want
benefits from it and what I really want to say about all of the feeding of the
to say about all of the feeding of the minding all of the steps is simply
minding all of the steps is simply you're now ready for step number six and
you're now ready for step number six and step number six tells me that you got to
step number six tells me that you got to take care of your body let me ask you a
take care of your body let me ask you a question here in the live audience how
question here in the live audience how many of you here have got a racehorse
many of you here have got a racehorse worth in excess of a half million dollar
worth in excess of a half million dollar okay I don't see any hands those of you
okay I don't see any hands those of you watching the film answer the same
watching the film answer the same question do you have a racehorse wor a
question do you have a racehorse wor a half million dollars let me ask you the
half million dollars let me ask you the next question if you did have one worth
next question if you did have one worth a half million dollars would you keep
a half million dollars would you keep him up half the night let him drink
him up half the night let him drink coffee smoke cigarettes eat junk food
coffee smoke cigarettes eat junk food and booze let me would you do that or
and booze let me would you do that or would you rightfully say no way then why
would you rightfully say no way then why do you abuse your own body you see if
do you abuse your own body you see if you take care of your body it creates
you take care of your body it creates energy and when you've got the energy to
energy and when you've got the energy to be more productive then you're going to
be more productive then you're going to get their raises their promotions better
get their raises their promotions better relationship with every individual
relationship with every individual because it takes energy to do it and
because it takes energy to do it and this step really gives it then step
this step really gives it then step number seven is you need to take time to
number seven is you need to take time to be with the members of the family whom
be with the members of the family whom you love I indicated earlier that you
you love I indicated earlier that you need a good relationship there because
need a good relationship there because that makes you more effective doing for
that makes you more effective doing for whatever else you're doing you need to
whatever else you're doing you need to spend that time and step number eight
spend that time and step number eight and this is going to surprise some of
and this is going to surprise some of you since I've been so noisy myself and
you since I've been so noisy myself and moving around and whooping and shouting
moving around and whooping and shouting and hollering but folks you need to take
and hollering but folks you need to take time to be quiet you need those silent
time to be quiet you need those silent moments if you're really going to build
moments if you're really going to build a winning attitude one of the reasons I
a winning attitude one of the reasons I love to jog is because I have those
love to jog is because I have those moments of Silence right by myself I
moments of Silence right by myself I feel closer to my God when I'm jogging
feel closer to my God when I'm jogging than at almost any other time you need
than at almost any other time you need the moment of silence alone in a room by
the moment of silence alone in a room by yourself just for yourself so that you
yourself just for yourself so that you might pray or plan or meditate or do
might pray or plan or meditate or do whatever it is that you will it's during
whatever it is that you will it's during those Quiet Moments you see at Valley
those Quiet Moments you see at Valley Forge that Washington found the strength
Forge that Washington found the strength to lead our country to Freedom it was
to lead our country to Freedom it was during those Quiet Moments that Martin
during those Quiet Moments that Martin Luther made the translation of the Bible
Luther made the translation of the Bible and did other things which have had such
and did other things which have had such an impact on mankind it was during those
an impact on mankind it was during those Quiet Moments at Gethsemane that Christ
Quiet Moments at Gethsemane that Christ found the strength for his ordeal you
found the strength for his ordeal you need ladies and gentlemen that quiet
need ladies and gentlemen that quiet time with the television set off the
time with the television set off the radio off the record player off just
radio off the record player off just because you need that time for thinking
because you need that time for thinking and reflection I believe this last
and reflection I believe this last generation could aptly be called The
generation could aptly be called The Noise generation noise is destructive
Noise generation noise is destructive and it's very tiring and debilitating
and it's very tiring and debilitating take some quiet time for yourself now
take some quiet time for yourself now let me warn you in advance when you do
let me warn you in advance when you do all the things that I've been talking
all the things that I've been talking about when you get up in the morning you
about when you get up in the morning you know with a hand slapping when you say
know with a hand slapping when you say super good but I'll get better when you
super good but I'll get better when you answer the telephone enthusiastically
answer the telephone enthusiastically when you feed your mind when you speak
when you feed your mind when you speak lovingly and optimistically of other
lovingly and optimistically of other people when you take care of your body
people when you take care of your body when you are considerate of other people
when you are considerate of other people you do all of these things there going
you do all of these things there going to be some people are going to be
to be some people are going to be critical of you but let me remind you
critical of you but let me remind you that since the beginning of time nobody
that since the beginning of time nobody has ever erected a statue
has ever erected a statue to a Critic there are going to be some
to a Critic there are going to be some people are going to laugh at you but let
people are going to laugh at you but let me remind you that the little world
me remind you that the little world laughed but the big world gathered on
laughed but the big world gathered on the banks of the Hudson River when
the banks of the Hudson River when Fulton went steaming by the little world
Fulton went steaming by the little world laughed but the big world gathered at
laughed but the big world gathered at Kitty Hawk when the Wright brothers made
Kitty Hawk when the Wright brothers made that historic flight the little world
that historic flight the little world life but the big world tuned in when
life but the big world tuned in when Alexander Graham Bell made that historic
Alexander Graham Bell made that historic phone call which changed Communications
phone call which changed Communications for
for the little world might life as you set
the little world might life as you set out on this born to win Venture but I
out on this born to win Venture but I want to tell you that you'll be the one
want to tell you that you'll be the one who'll be laughing life because you'll
who'll be laughing life because you'll be crossing a Finish Line as you reach a
be crossing a Finish Line as you reach a destination which many people believed
destination which many people believed you would never make yes you'll get
you would never make yes you'll get there and what you get by reaching your
there and what you get by reaching your destination is important but not nearly
destination is important but not nearly as important as what you will become by
as important as what you will become by reaching your destination you see you
reaching your destination you see you will become the winner you were bornn to
will become the winner you were bornn to be and with that in mind then you see I
be and with that in mind then you see I can close this attitude segment of Born
can close this attitude segment of Born To Win by saying you do these things
To Win by saying you do these things follow these steps and procedures and I
follow these steps and procedures and I definitely will see
definitely will see you at the
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