The content argues against settling for romantic partners without initial physical or sexual attraction, emphasizing the importance of pursuing genuinely desired individuals and focusing on self-improvement rather than self-deprecation.
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hi everybody I just found this channel
he has like short and interesting videos
so my videos are going to be short and
interesting let's just get into it never
go for somebody that you have no initial
physical or sexual attraction too yeah
never go for them uh I can speak from
personal experience like once I gave a
chance to girl that um basically I went
on her I went with her on a date and uh
after that I know I just wasn't too
interested and then I
just U yeah I I did not plan to go on
the second date and we did not meet for
like an year and during during this year
I was like dating other girls that I
liked more but yeah you know
relationships ended and somehow we ended
up together again and uh yeah we did get
into a
relationship and she could just feel it
that um yeah she was not my first
choice and um yeah I wasn't treating her
as as as as I I'm was treating the
others and she could feel it that I'm
like together with her for like being
feeling sorry they really did feel sorry
in a way for her like I don't know I
just I just couldn't break up with them
and um yeah she she just started acting
like mean towards me cuz yeah you I I'm
I'm not going to fake like if if I'm not
like falling in love I'm just not going
to act fake but for some reason I don't
know I felt lonely or something but yeah
I just I just couldn't I just couldn't
break up with her so in a way I kind of
made it made her break up with me but
yeah I I was I was really young back
then and I didn't know any
better I hate to say it but this is one
thing that I think men excel at I mean
we sit there crying about these straight
up losers that we had to take weeks to
convince oursel that he was even attractive
attractive
like this is very
familiar like when when the girl is girl
was like in front of me I kind of I'm
not saying she was like bad looking
maybe like some of you if you would see
her you would have like a different
opinion maybe she just wasn't my style
or some girls like that are like
considered a t or whatever or some
people consider it like really hot
sometimes for them it they just wouldn't
do it I don't know it it can be like
like um hot or attractive to certain
certain people but to me I don't know
I'm I'm looking for something else and
there's nothing wrong with it and yeah I
I I was like like this like trying to
convince myself that yeah that this
person it is beautiful like it
definitely there were times when we were
laughing a lot and and it it was like
like really good and and Precious
Moments together but yeah I did found
myself that H is this all
like I I think I think I could do better
like many times it crossed my mind I'd
much rather be crying about a boy that I
really liked and was really attracted to
and exactly this is very true like you
would rather go and try
to to get the person that you really
want to get and know that you failed
then just settle down with someone that
you don't really like it's going to be really
really
disappointing yeah you're not going to
be lonely but in the same time you're
wondering what did you miss out on like
what if you tried to to get the person
that you you are really attracted
to just like wasn't a piece of [ __ ] then
crying about some loser that somehow
made me fall in love with him even
though I have no anybody who would
criticize this girl is just someone that
uh doesn't understand that some people
just have options and um yeah there's
nothing wrong with that and some people
have more options and some people have
less options this is just just
reality oh sexual or physical attraction
do I don't want to sound shallow in
saying this but seriously like stop
giving ugly guys a chance if you you got
triggered if you got triggered then what
because you consider yourself ugly my
friend you may
ugly I don't know this is always comes
from feedback I mean you can have like a
fake idea about yourself that you're
ugly or you can have a fake idea that
you're you're handsome but um it it
always it always comes from feel back I
mean I know some people just try to put
you down and call you ugly when you're
not or they try to call you handsome
when just to just to please you and to
to like sugarcoat sugar coat what they
really have to say to to get something
out of you just to manipulate you but uh
when when you ask like let's say 100
girls or you you get like feedback from
like multiple people then I don't know
you you should should be realistic to
yourself and don't be like
delusional fail to see the fact that she
just proved that ugly guys do get a
chance and quite commonly yeah they do
get a chance of
course I I also don't consider myself to
be like super super handsome but um yeah
um I did get together before with the
hottest girl in the in the school and it
was her that was initiating the
the the relationship like like she
wanted to hang out with me she she asked
for my for my number behind U behind my
back and she just messaged me hey how
are you doing whatever and yeah we we
did get together and that was like such
a confidence move that I I never settled
in my life for for less than what I
deserve except that one time that I'm I
I told you that yeah but yeah I I kind
of regret that but for settling for less
than what I deserve back then but hey
that relationship ended and it was like
a learning
experience in fact how many times have
you missed a great opportunity or an
experience because of your limiting
beliefs and exactly never limit yourself
exactly so right now you're like
contradicting yourself you should never
settle for less um you should always try
the the best what you can get even to
even considering like a girlfriend you
should just just go and try ask the the
best out like and if if they talk to you
and whatever just see where it goes
negative selft talk these are of no use
to you so there's no reason to go to go
to the gym or
whatever I I'm just I'm just uploading
my my uh exercise my video related to
exercise why I'm doing this but yeah
drop them keep working on yourself
believe in there's nothing to work on
yourself just just eat the right food
and um yeah just just don't stress
yourself I know work when it's when it
comes to work it's kind
of sometimes it's kind of un unavoidable
to to not get stressed but yeah if
you're treated well by
others especially by a woman that you like
like
um and you give yourself the right
nutrition that's all the work you need
to do on yourself yeah don't don't go to the
the
gym yourself be positive and you'll have
a yeah yeah be positive and you'll have
a beautiful girl yeah be positive
definitely don't be like like negative
like yeah but uh if you're really really
goodlooking and you're negative or
whatever she's going to she's going to
come and come to you and and make you
relax and yeah
just just be nice around you and
feminine and yeah that's going to be
easy for you to calm down and get some
positive perspective I'm telling you a
beautiful girl one day take care like
there were times when when I saw
everything as dark or whatever and uh
like like someone really really precious
to make him in my life and uh yeah they
just transformed my whole perspective of
life and yeah I like I was thinking
negative about many things but uh not
about her cuz yeah she she just changed
my life in a way okay thanks for watching
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