This content explores the complexities of a budding romantic relationship between two individuals, one of whom struggles with acceptance from their partner's family due to perceived differences in lifestyle and personality. The narrative highlights the sacrifices made and the evolving dynamics as they navigate external judgment and their own feelings.
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Hey.
Wow, [sighs] look at you. You look like
you're ready to ski.
5 minutes really means 15 minutes. When
you factor in my mom forgetting her
purse and my little sister insisting
they don't have to use the bathroom
until they're already getting buckled up
into the minivan.
So, I have 15 minutes with you.
Am I going to be okay?
What? Without you?
Oh, home alone. You mean
one week is nothing. I've done it before.
It's you you should worry about.
Isolated in a ski cabin with my parents
and my annoying siblings for 7 days. Are
you sure you'll be okay? [snorts]
I can't believe you willingly tag along
on my family's vacations.
You realize you're allowed to say no
when they invite you, right?
Just because you're my brother's friend
doesn't mean you have to.
You and I have very different ideas of fun.
I guess there are a few ideas of fun
You should go.
If you're not in the car soon, my
brother is going to come looking for you.
you.
Speaking of, you can't keep coming into
my room to say hi whenever my brother
has you over.
It's suspicious.
He'll think something's going on between us,
He'll hate me more than he already does.
The rest of my family, too.
If my parents find out there's something
between us, they'd probably try to talk
you out of it.
They think that you're too good for me.
Okay. Yeah. Look,
I know you love my family.
I get that you want me to get along with
them as well as you do,
but you don't know what it's like to be
To them, you can do no wrong.
You've been the best friend my brother
has ever had. And by extension, you're
like the whole family's best friend.
With me, it's just different.
They're never going to like me.
Maybe if I were to change everything
about myself,
you know, cover my tattoos, take out my piercings,
piercings,
quit listening to my satanic music.
There's nothing satanic about Gothic
metal, by the way. You know, maybe, just
maybe, I wouldn't be a disgrace to the
family name, but I'm not going to change
myself for them. and they
they don't have to like me just because
So, please stop trying to force it. It's fine.
I'm not hurt or anything.
If that's what you're worried about,
it's not like you're choosing them over me.
me.
I have weekend plans of my own.
I'm going to order takeout from my
favorite Thai restaurant. And then I'm
going to binge all nine seasons of my
favorite show, Grave Danger, and blast
Typo Negative so loud the neighbors complain.
What is it?
So, you are choosing my brother and my
I'm kidding.
It's fine. Go have fun. You shouldn't
Come with you.
You want me to go on my family's vacation?
Fun. Fun?
Fun?
What's fun about it? Freezing my ass off
while I babysit my little sisters on the
bunny hill so the rest of my family can
go ski the big slopes.
Dinner at the hunting lodge. eating elk
or rabbit or whatever they just shot.
Or is the fun part the car ride? Having
to listen to my parents sing along to
their road trip tunes while my little
You and I will barely have any time
Okay, you're good.
Especially the way you're holding my
hand right now.
But even wearing that adorable beanie,
there is nothing in the world you can do
or say that could persuade me to come on
And get ready for the worst singing
Finally.
My legs are so stiff and feels so good
I will help unpack the car in a second.
They told us to unlock the door and turn
on the heater while they grab stuff.
Door is unlocked.
Do you think it's weird they sent us
inside? Why us specifically?
What if they know?
Maybe we give off a vibe.
You're right. If they do know, they seem
to be taking it well.
That doesn't add up. They must not know.
I've never cared what they think. Why
cozying up by the fireplace,
drinking hot chocolate,
[sighs and gasps]
Well, up until this morning, my parents
didn't think I was coming, so
it was either the attic or sharing a
room with my sisters.
It is cold, but
You've been looking forward to this trip
for weeks, right?
Right. I don't care where I sleep.
Besides, it's kind of cool up here.
Dark, isolated.
I don't need any more blankets.
[sighs and gasps]
scarf, hat, gloves.
Oh, wow.
What is all this?
Did you steal every blanket in the cabin?
I don't need all of this.
These are all the blankets from your
These?
Wait, you're sleeping up here
But aren't you worried someone will wake
up and notice you're not in the room
You seemed to care earlier in the
Yes, you did. I was ready for them to
find out. And then the door opened and
I only walked off after you had already
You're scared of my dad. It's okay. You
I should finish unpacking.
It shouldn't take long. I didn't bring
much. I just
packed whatever I could in 2 minutes.
What's this?
Oh, this is one of your shirts.
You grabbed it just now when you got the blankets.
How did you know I didn't have anything
You know me too well. Thanks.
Uh, if you want to just turn around for
This is the first time you've seen me
I suppose a little color every now and
I don't think anyone can hear us up here anyway.
The drive sucked, but now it feels worth it.
My parents singing.
I wanted to throw myself out the car
10 [snorts] hours and they never found
>> I do have some fun memories of coming
the last time I was here, I must have
>> [snorts]
>> My favorite thing was sitting by the
I forgot that there's more to do here
As my siblings got older, we started
spending less time in the cabin and more
time on the slopes.
And I hated it.
So, I started hanging out in the lodge
and there's a cafe
and I just order hot chocolate and read
When I got a little bit older,
my parents let me stay at a friend's
And then eventually
they stopped asking me if I even wanted
But now I remember how beautiful it is here.
This
might even be staying home and binge in
Well, the floor is surprisingly comfortable.
>> Yeah, I'm warm enough. you.
I have a hat and gloves in my suitcase
I think the ceiling high stack of
What?
I know it is festive. I can be festive.
The Nightmare Before Christmas is the
It's a Halloween movie and it's a
Christmas movie. That's what's so great
Oh, wow. You look adorable.
That's the book I brought.
It's a Gothic horror.
I'm going to read it in the lodge while
Even if you wanted to get out of it,
I can get out of it because they don't
like me,
ski. Have fun.
I'll be fine.
I'll be reading all warm and cozy with a
cup of cocoa. The book's like 700 pages.
It's about a vengeful ghost haunting an
attic. Are you sure that's the best idea
Okay, fine. I'll read it till we fall asleep.
The Blackstone Manor had only known one
occupant in its 87 years of standing tall.
Uh, why is my family hovering behind you?
you?
They look concerned.
>> You hurt your shoulder.
>> Okay, tell me later. Uh, how long is my
family going to stand over there
They want you to take a break. Okay.
Okay.
>> They wanted to know if I would look
Must be pretty bad.
Okay. Well, I think it's a good idea to rest.
You are now officially under my care.
Hey, easy.
Take it easy. Okay.
You made the whole thing up.
I can't believe you faked an injury just
Oh. To spend time with me. That's
I'm impressed they let you quit.
When I was eight, I had an ear infection
>> Do you want something to drink? >> Sure,
>> Sure,
I'll get it.
You're hurt, remember?
>> [sighs]
>> So, how long are we going to keep this up?
>> I I was talking about your injury,
but actually, you're right. We need to
talk about that, too. Are we together?
Are we not together? Would they care? Do
I did a little at first.
I don't know if it was me caring what
they think as much as it was just
me not wanting to deal with it.
If we tell them that we are together,
first of all, it feels so stupid to like
announce it. It's not a big deal.
[snorts] And if we tell them that we're
together, they're going to be hovering
they're not going to let us be alone
>> They'll worry that I'm going to corrupt you.
Oh, yeah. What did you think of that
That's one of their best songs.
Pete Steel wrote Bloody Kisses about his cat.
cat.
She passed away after like 18 years and
he buried her in his backyard and it was
really hard on him. So, he wrote Bloody
Kisses, but he made it super
metaphorical cuz he didn't think anyone
would want to listen to a song about his
Okay, so we
keep us a secret, right?
As long as we're on this trip.
Maybe once we get back, we can stop
>> What? My book? Oh, yeah. It's really
good so far.
I'm only a few chapters in, but very spooky.
spooky.
I have a feeling that she isn't really a
ghost. I think she's alive and she's
locked in the attic hoping someone will
come save her.
That's my prediction anyway.
>> Want to share this muffin with me? It's huge.
>> I think the guy said it's pistachio.
I don't know. I just ordered it cuz it
>> Hey, [snorts]
[snorts]
Yeah, I heard my brother yelling, "No,
no," when he won.
It's fine. I figured he wouldn't be able
to sneak up here after.
I slept very comfortably up here by
No ghosts.
Maybe I'm the ghost.
You got out of skiing again?
Oh,
wow. Yeah, that was very convincing.
I think the little wse really solves it.
Uh, question. Why are you limping if you
Oh, gotcha. Gotcha.
So, they all just left.
So, no one can hear us for miles and miles.
Do you think it's um
finally time for you to fulfill that
[snorts] Are you thinking what I'm thinking?
I'm pretty sure I ruptured my eard drums.
drums.
We shouldn't have turned it up all the way.
way.
Okay, blasting typo negative through a
surround sound speaker system is an
entirely different experience than
blasting it through my tiny Bluetooth
speaker at home. I could feel it
vibrating my bones. I can still feel it.
I know you promised,
It hurts.
[laughter]
No, I'm glad you did.
Otherwise, I never would have come.
[gasps]
I love watching the mist.
I can't believe you were able to
convince me.
If you could talk me into this trip, I
think you can probably talk me into anything.
No one has ever had that kind of power
over me.
but now
And when I'm with you, it's like I
remember the good parts instead of the
But I think from now on, I'm only ever
going to be able to think about this
In this whole trip, you've put me above
everything else.
it's snowing.
That's the most beautiful view out the window.
This fireplace.
I want a fireplace
at home. [sighs]
I think I would just sleep in front of
Have you ever been so relaxed in your life?
There is nothing in the world that could
Uh, what was that?
I thought they were getting dinner at
Great. What are we supposed to do?
Okay. [gasps]
Yeah. Why should we keep hiding it?
Looks like our alone time together is
Really? You're putting your arm around me?
me?
That's your bad arm. Your shoulder, remember?
remember?
It sit on the other side of me. Yeah.
They do not seem surprised.
They quit skiing to come watch the snow
by the fireplace.
They haven't picked a night in over
You might have.
The other day you
mentioned to them that watching the snow
But
why would they?
Skiing while it snows is like the best
time to ski.
That can't be true, can it? They must
have come back for you. They want more
They
had a feeling there was something
Apparently,
they kept catching you staring at me
through the rear view mirror.
Well, uh, I had to ask my dad to repeat
himself because at first I thought I was
misharing him. Ruptured eard drums, you
know. But, uh, he's
he's
And he's happy that we like each other.
He thinks that maybe you'll be a good
Shut up.
That's your good shoulder, [ __ ]
I think that maybe you already are
maybe not in the way my family would like.
like.
No chance I'm losing the piercings, but
I don't know. I guess
you help me see things in a different way.
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