the quickest way to deal with anxiety is gratitude
gratitude gratitude
gratitude
the more grateful
the heart
the less anxious
the soul
as you look at your blessings you will
see anxiety slip out one heartfelt thank
you will suck the oxygen out of the
world of worry
so say it often take your mind off your
burdens and count your blessings
now when you aren't focused on your burdens
burdens
you have sudden availability of some
brain space so use it for gratitude but
then also and then lastly
meditate on good things
just meditate on good things
and the apostle gives us a pretty good
list here it takes up a paragraph
finally brethren
whatever things are true whatever things
are noble whatever things are just
whatever things are pure whatever things
are lovely whatever things are of good
report if there is any virtue if there
is anything praiseworthy
meditate on these things
don't let anxious negative thoughts take
over your mind meditate
meditate
on good things anxious negative thoughts
did you see what i just did a-n-t
a-n-t
a counselor told me that once
he said most people who struggle with
anxiety let those little ants
anxious negative thoughts
just creep into their brain
and take over their thoughts but the
apostle says meditate
meditate on
on
one of the toughest days of my life
found me
in a diner in dalton georgia
i was 19 years old
summer job
i was a thousand miles away from home
and i was spending each night in a
salvation army shelter where the night before
before
an inebriated guy on the bunk above mine
had rolled over and thrown up
if homesickness were water i would have
been soaked to the bone
on the promise of new sites and fast
cash i had taken a job and joined up
with two friends
to sell books door to door
my friends quit and went home during
sales school
i was all alone
so i went out my first day
into the field and i made a discovery
that i wish someone had told me before i
left and that is people don't like
door-to-door salesman
did you already know that
hello i'm max slim
hello i'm max slim
this went on all day and the second day
was not any better
around noon of the second day i
pulled my car into a diner and i took my
bruised ego in and i sat down and i
ordered a hamburger and i felt sorry for myself
myself
as i was paying my bill i spotted a
display of of magnetized rubberized
truisms little slogans maybe you have
won or have seen them you can buy them
and affix them to your refrigerator or
your stove
and there was one that was shaped like a
lemon and as i begin the quote you'll be
able to finish it
the quote said when life gives you a lemon
you have the same little
rubber lemon don't you
i know the slogan is worn out
it's folksy it's corny it's homespun but
somehow in my 19 years i'd never heard
it and i needed to
so i bought that little
thing i took it out to the car and i
have fixed it
to a metal strip on the dashboard of my 1973
1973
and whenever i got discouraged i would
just rub my thumb over
that little rubber lemon
and remind myself
i can make myself miserable
or i can make myself
some lemonade
now you know people still slam doors
and i still wondered what in the world i
was doing so far from home
i was 19. you know i turned 67 a couple
of weeks ago i'm closing in on 50 years
half a century has passed
and much has changed
it does
of course my prospects of a miserable summer
summer
are nothing compared
to some of the lemons that you've been handed
last sunday at church i visited with a
single mom
three kids
pulling at her from every direction
all single-digit age
she hadn't heard from her husband
she said max i can't remember when i've
had a good night's sleep
a few months ago i received a call from a
a
friend a former neighbor of ours
who was about to have to take
the car keys away from her dementia-ridden
dementia-ridden husband
and now he can't drive a car
i need to return a call to a friend
who's going through a divorce
and he is honestly convinced he'll never
be happy again
life still
gives lemons life gives lemons to old
people to young people
life gives lemons to
bad people to good people
life gives lemons to all people life
comes with lemons but you know what my friend
friend
[Applause]
many years ago ago i wrote this resolve
in my journal
today i will live today
yesterday has passed
tomorrow is not yet
i'm left with today
so today i will live today
relive yesterday no
no
i will learn from it
and i will take joy in it
but i won't live in it
the sun has set on yesterday
yesterday
the sun has yet to rise on tomorrow
worry about the future
to what game
it deserves a glance nothing more
i can't change tomorrow until tomorrow
today i will live today
i will face today's challenges with
today's strength i will dance today's
waltz with today's music i will
celebrate today's opportunities
with today's hope today
may i laugh listen
learn in love and tomorrow if it comes
in his fine book
who has passed on into heaven
retired episcopalian priest in san antonio
antonio
in that book he tells a story about
growing up in georgia
and as a 12 year old boy his summer job
was to pull stumps out of the ground
the purpose of that was to turn those
stumps into fire kindling
that could be used
used
later in the year
he remembers on one occasion his father
driving off to work as he went out to a
particular stump
and he worked all day on that stump and
he could not get it out of the ground
he used every tool at his disposal and
he pushed and he pulled that he pushed
and he pulled
and he was covered with sweat and
finally his father came home
his father parked his car his father
walked to the field his father walked
over to
bill where bill was working and bill was
just pulling and tugging on that
stump and still couldn't get it out of
the ground
the father sat on another stump
and watched his son work
until finally the father spoke up and
said bill
i think i see your problem
and bill said what
and the father said
you're not using all your strength
oh that
caused bill to erupt
dad i've been working all day
i'm exhausted i've used all my strength
and the father said no you haven't
and the boy said yes i have
and the father said no
for some of you this business of dealing
please forgive me if i'll leave the
impression that it can be dealt with easily
easily
i do not mean to do so
but i do mean to encourage you
who is saying to you i'll help you
in the anxiety that has marked your days
thus far need not mark them from now forward
forward
there is a new day awaiting you my friend
friend
and in the name of jesus christ the king
of kings the miracle worker
we declare over you
you
fresh healing
fresh hope
fresh strength your heavenly father here
to help you strengthen you and to guide you
you
and to lead you
into a life
in which you can honestly say i'm anxious
anxious
for nothing
gracious heavenly father now have your
mercy upon all who hear these words
you be the speaker
and you please do what only you can do
and that is bring healing
from top to bottom
from inside out
do the work you can do please
we declare and pray in the name of jesus christ
christ
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