0:02 gasps you have to understand something
0:05 come to this realization when you text a
0:09 woman 24/7 when you call her when you
0:11 check in with her like she's your parole
0:13 officer when you buy her a lot of things
0:16 or take her shopping what this is doing
0:18 it's kind of productive you think that
0:21 this is gonna keep a woman around but
0:23 what it's doing is driving women away
0:26 she's losing respect and attraction for
0:28 you see a lot of men are taught I was
0:31 taught growing up as well to respect
0:35 women be a gentleman and make her life
0:39 easier make your life about hers give
0:42 her the world this is not going to work
0:44 it's kind of productive it's not like in
0:48 the movies where you see the guy trying
0:50 and trying and trying and he finally
0:52 gets the girl at the end of the movie
0:54 after he's big and he's done all these
0:57 obstacle courses and he put up with all
0:59 her tests after she got with the bad boy
1:02 and and and whatnot listen that does not
1:05 work necessarily in real life it doesn't
1:08 I got an email from subscriber his name
1:10 is Justin he's in the Marines currently
1:13 stationed in San Diego I myself am a
1:15 u.s. Navy veteran shoutout to all the
1:18 men who have served in the Armed Forces
1:23 you are very much appreciated Justin had
1:25 met this one he was head over heels for
1:29 her the fifth time they hung out he told
1:31 her that he was in love with her which
1:33 is a wrong move when you express your
1:36 feelings to women too early his name if
1:38 a woman doesn't express her feelings to
1:40 you and you express yours - hers first
1:44 she will lose attraction for you the
1:46 respect for you will start to gradually
1:49 fade soon enough he started to
1:51 experience her getting cold and distant
1:54 after he expressed to her that event you
1:58 know he was in love with her text
2:00 message starts to get slower when he was
2:03 out to sea and he called she almost
2:05 seemed like he was too busy most of the
2:08 time she kept things short she wanted to
2:11 hang out and see him less and less she
2:12 just really didn't care too much about
2:13 him she was
2:17 too much too fond of them about the six
2:18 to seven month that they were together
2:23 but what she did was when he noted he or
2:26 she always sent her money back via
2:28 Western Union he used to always asked
2:30 for money for her bills and different
2:33 things and um eight months in when he
2:34 started when he said hey he doesn't have
2:37 any money right now she quickly dipped
2:39 on him and broke it off and called it
2:42 quits so basically she used him for money
2:42 money
2:45 and everything in our nature guys gotta
2:48 understand this when you buy women's
2:50 stuff when you do all these things off
2:52 the jump because I know you're taught
2:55 this to worship women happy wife happy
2:57 life here's the thing this is why you
3:00 see a lot of married men still get
3:03 divorced and a wife is all unhappy he
3:05 took care of her he took her places and
3:08 everything but what men don't understand
3:10 at her in relationships is when you make
3:13 your world about hers slowly but surely
3:17 she will lose respect for you when
3:19 you're always checking in on her when
3:21 you're doing different things to
3:24 accommodate her life see what this guy
3:27 Justin did I noticed I asked him so what
3:31 does she do for you he said oh uh she
3:33 didn't do much of anything but you know
3:35 she looked really good
3:37 and that's the thing women lose respect
3:40 for men when they don't have to put in
3:44 any work when when you guys just come
3:46 out of the gate you know showering her
3:48 with praise and gifts and complimenting
3:50 her she loses respect for you because
3:53 she didn't have to work for that when a
3:55 woman does not invest in you she can
3:57 leave you easily it's easy for her to
4:00 leave you and and just use you when we
4:03 can spot an easy guy who has money and
4:08 can she can use a manipulate there are
4:11 their respect listen if a woman loses
4:13 respect for you when she starts treating
4:17 you certain ways it's over with calling
4:18 him blowing a woman up is it's kind of
4:20 productive it's not going to work you
4:23 have to always put yourself first and in
4:25 anything in life especially with women
4:27 because I've noticed when I just
4:29 my life about them or I was always
4:31 trying to make them happy when you send
4:33 lunch to the job when you buy them
4:37 flowers she won't respect that like just
4:40 think about how many times that a woman
4:42 has left you a broker with you after you
4:44 did everything you could you you know
4:46 you made her happy you bought her stuff
4:48 you did this is net and for some reason
4:49 it just seemed like it wasn't good
4:52 enough that's because she hadn't earned
4:56 it also you just pedestal eyes her for
4:58 no reason you didn't make her invest you
5:00 didn't make her do anything and just
5:02 like this guy here Justin in the Marines
5:07 she left when you make your word about
5:09 her when you tell a woman how you feel
5:11 she will lose attraction for you over
5:15 time and that's why I tell guys stop
5:17 giving these women the world out the
5:20 gate stop trying to prove your worth to
5:23 her make her prove her worth to you make
5:26 her fold clothes and and do your laundry
5:29 and buy you things because she'd be most
5:32 likely less apt to leave you but when
5:34 you come out of the gate and and trickin
5:37 off your money buying her stuff shoes
5:39 heels guess what she gonna do she might
5:42 accept those things then her demands
5:46 will go up but over time her respect for
5:49 you an attraction will go down and then
5:51 after so long she'll just leave you and
5:53 this is why the women go for the quote
5:55 unquote bad boys it's not necessarily
5:57 because they're bad it's because those
5:59 bad boys those quote unquote
6:02 alpha males they have a life they make
6:05 their life about them and if the woman
6:08 wants to come along ok cool he doesn't
6:11 you know text and and blow DS women up
6:13 he doesn't worry about these women and
6:16 have them have you know them on his mind
6:19 all the time you checking in with women
6:22 all the time and and and seeing what
6:25 she's doing a woman wants to wonder
6:26 about you she wants to think about you
6:29 she wants to know what's going on with
6:31 this guy well I haven't heard from him
6:33 in a while but when you're always being
6:38 a nice guy and worrying about what's
6:39 going on with her
6:39 did she
6:44 eat are you hungry babe let her let her
6:48 eat found a whole way to eat when you
6:51 continually to pedestal as these women
6:52 it needs to stop
6:54 I know you were taught this but it's
6:57 counterproductive it's only going to
7:00 drive her away her attraction for you
7:03 will go down and she will lose respect
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