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Oh, time to rise family. It is day three
of the time to rise summit. How you
feeling? Drop one word in the chat.
Let's go. Hello. Yes. Here we go. I got
two words for you. Lit up because I am.
Welcome back everybody. Hello.
Hello.
This is day three energy. That's what
I'm talking about. And this is going to
be such an incredible day because it's
been an incredible journey thus far and
this is going to be the best day yet.
The day that we bring it all together.
So keep this energy up all day and stay
the entire day because today we give
away our grand prize trip. That's right.
That's right. And this is a trip to
Tony's Resort in Fiji called Namali. And
it is Fiji's number one resort named by
Travel and Leisure. And it's one of, no
big deal, just Oprah's favorite places
in the world.
So, you want to stay the entire day,
start to finish, because this is going
to be the most beautiful day. Now, we
want to give a huge congratulations to
every single one of you who have decided
to join us in the 2026 Rise Up
Experience. We are thrilled. We're so
thrilled that you decided to join us and
you're going to be with us at Unleash
the Power Within. And with that said,
every day after the summit, Tony and the
team and myself, we get together and we
debrief and the crew let me know that
there was some clarity that was needed
about the RiseUp experience. So, really
quickly, I want to make sure that we are
all on the same page with our next steps
to move forward and Tony is waiting
right here on the side. He can't wait to
get out here. So, the first question
was, what is the difference between the
RiseUp Experience and Unleash the Power
Within? The RiseUp Experience is the
complete package that Tony created just
for you and it brings together four
parts. The thing you asked about,
Unleash the Power Within, is actually
the first part and it is your virtual
ticket to Tony's most legendary iconic
event. And we want to make sure that
you're most supported. So you have
something beforehand to keep this
momentum going, which is Personal Power
Plus. And then after Unleash the Power
Within, we want to make sure it all
sticks. And that's why we're giving you
our postevent take action workshop. The
last part will be guiding you to free up
your time with the time mastery life by
design. Okay. And the other distinction
we just wanted to make just so we're all
clear is that this is a live event done
virtually from your home and Tony will
be in his studio. No recordings, no
replays. We're all showing up together
in real time and it's like a worldwide
party happening all at once and you get
a front row seat. All right. We got to
get our bodies ready. You know that's
how we do it here at the time to rise
summit. You know the drill. It is the
only way Tony will get out here. All
right. So to help us get our bodies
ready for just two minutes, help me
welcome to the stage Brian Bradley.
>> Good morning. Good morning. Let's get
Okay, guys. Okay, let's get rolling
because I want to make sure that we get
this up. I The energy here is
unbelievable. We're excited about this
and I cannot wait to see you guys in a
month and a half at Unleash the Power.
Can't wait to be back there with you.
So, stand up. Let's get your feet
pointed straight ahead. And for those of
you Well, let's see. Today, we went with
a little bit of uh UK and Aussie stuff.
I hope everybody's happy. I apologize to
the New Zealanders. My All Blacks were
not with me on this trip. So, get your
feet pointed straight ahead, fist width
apart, and you're going to keep your
feet in that position. That's where you
stay. Now, shoulders down, hands up like
this. Hands are in this little position.
Shoulders down. And now let's circle
forward. Let's get your upper back into
a new position.
Keep circling while your feet are
straight. Hey, show some excitement. I
at least want to see some smiles doing
this. Come on. I feed off of your
energy. Let's go. I actually brushed my
There we go. There's some pretty smiles.
Okay, turn your hands up. Remember, this
is just something simple you can do. If
you're driving a car, I don't recommend
it. Not even a Tesla.
>> I love it, kids. You're killing it. Look
at those kids.
Three, two, one. Okay, now we're going
to get a solid 15sec sprint. Are you
ready? We're sprinting.
Five, four, go as fast as you can. As
fast as you can. Faster.
Okay, here we go. Switch to the other
side. Ready, go. You better be
She's killing it.
Four, three, two, one. See you guys later.
later.
>> For Brian Bradley, everybody.
All right,
it is time. It is time to get this day
started. And there is no one better to
lead us than the man who has made this
all possible. So, let's get this energy
up. Help me welcome to the stage the one
and only Tony Robbins.
>> There we go.
Make a little noise if you're feeling
Yes.
Good morning, good afternoon, good
evening, wherever you are in the world.
Give it up for everybody. Day three, our
>> Grab a seat.
>> And when you sit down,
>> create even more energy sitting than
Yes.
Well, we've been on quite a journey
together. How you all feeling this
morning? If you're feeling great, say
yes. Say yes. Say yes.
Well, I've had a a blast again. I got to
get some sleep after this program. Could
you guys keep me up? Uh, watching all
your videos again and seeing all the
beautiful breakthroughs. Who's made some
great breakthroughs these last couple
days and
thumbs up if you're there on YouTube so
I can see. There you go. Great.
Fantastic. Um, and so I thought again,
we have actually some new people today
that have joined us. So, we made a quick
little three and a half minute recap for
you. Take a look. Today's content is
about this concept of identity. It's the
most important distinction that
influences your life. When you activated
the magician, when you activate the
lover, when you activate the sovereign,
what you're doing is changing your
biochemistry in that realm because you
were so open and cleared. I want to
invite you to come to unleash the power
within and march with me. You're going
to be my guest. Give her a hand.
Our beliefs control everything. So we
have beliefs about people, beliefs about
business, beliefs about finance, beliefs
about ourselves. And the beliefs about
ourselves are called identity. Now what
is a belief? A belief is a feeling of
absolute certainty about what something
means. Your brain once it believes
something looks for what it believes and
it only notices that. The secret is not
to be fearful. The secret is get
stronger and better. So when that
happens, you can deal with it. The
strongest force in any human personality
is the need to stay consistent.
with how we define ourselves. If you
keep that habit up, you'll just keep
growing and growing and growing. And
pretty soon, you're going to wake up as
a different person with a whole
different view of life. If you push
through the dark night of the soul, you
will discover who you are. You will
expand your identity. And that is the
only way to have lasting change.
>> Dan's old identity. Dan's okay. He's fine.
fine.
quiet, likes to fly under the radar. My
new identity,
Dan's adventurous.
Dan is taking on some of the world's
problems. Dan is looking to see how he
can contribute. Dan is fun. Dan is
loving. Dan is open. Dan is worthy. Woo.
Woo.
>> My old identity was somebody who was
really I was kind of standing like this.
I was just really down on myself and
then as soon as I did the changing of my
state and I was like yes I was like oh
my god I'm feeling so powerful I'm
feeling successful every day I'm going
to get up before I start my day I start
with meditation now and I'm going to get
into state I'm going to get into the
phys the physiology the physicality of
uh my warrior my my um magician my lover
my uh sovereign all of that and feel
incredible whenever I'm feeling down to
notice it bring awareness shake it off
and get back into state and be feeling excited.
excited.
>> There is a tremendous power around
relationship and for most people this is
the area of the most pain and the most
joy. Ultimately, a relationship is a
place to go give. It's not a place to go get.
get.
>> How do I navigate dealing with with all
those feelings that are coming up on top
of just trying to stay in this happy
state in our marriage?
>> You don't have to be happy every moment.
You do, but you do need to feel
connected. The pain is it's it's an
opportunity to feel more, to become more
intimate, to allow our hearts to be
broken open. Recognize that it's a gift.
It's a gift to love. Thank you both.
>> 90% of success in a relationship is
selection. Who you select to be in this
relationship. If you bring Serena, does
that bring out a different Gabe?
>> It does.
>> So, if you want a different reaction for
him, you got to bring a different you.
You have to wire this woman so that
she's the one who's in charge. So, we're
going to send you to unleash the power
within. And if your husband wants to go,
he can join. Are you up for it?
>> I'm up for it. Thank you.
>> My question is actually about
relationship with my father. How do I
meet him where he is at?
>> By recognizing that this life is
precious. It's such a sacred chapter to
be able to love our parents. They
brought us into this world. Just fall in
love with the beautiful man that he is
and rebirth your relationship.
We're not always given the opportunity.
You know, we life can be taken from us
in an instant. And my invitation would
be don't wait.
>> You got to realize that time is precious.
precious. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And we never know how much time we have
left. So those we love, there's nothing
more important than to express that and
to feel that. >> 150.
>> 150.
>> Send us a picture of you. Is this a
picture of you in your death?
>> Kind of like confused between what's an
expectation and what's something that I
I'm really asking from her that I should
be getting from her as my partner.
>> The answer to your question is whatever
you need, you should be giving her. So,
you believe your woman is more masculine
probably because she's now being
forceful about wanting her way of life,
not just pleasing your ass. And she's
right to do that. But her feminine will
show up when your masculine shows up.
Step up and you will feel the man you're
meant to be and you'll feel proud and
you'll feel alive and you'll serve your
woman and she'll she won't even believe
it. But if you do it consistently,
she'll believe it and everything will change.
change.
>> I only have one thing to share, Carlo.
She's not there to meet your needs.
Oh
yes. So, we've covered a lot of
territory and uh one of the major
focuses in this three days, all this
content we have to share with you in
such limited time is I wanted to make
sure you got the fundamentals of what it
takes to create a breakthrough. And
today, we're going to put that together.
So, if you remember, we said there were
three S's that create a breakthrough and
that most people fail because they do
them in the wrong order. So to remind
yourself when you want to lose weight,
you want to change a relationship, you
want to shift your business, you want to
get closer to your kids, whatever it is
you want to change, most people start
with a how. So remember that's the
strategy. And the problem is when you
start with a how and you haven't done it
successfully before, you've never made
that money, you've never broken through,
you've never lost that much weight,
you've never had a great relationship,
your brain goes in a state of
uncertainty. And so even if someone
shows you how, you don't believe you can
do it or you'll say, "I tried that." The
real problem is the story. The story is
the belief system that holds us back.
That's the glue that even How many have
ever shown someone an answer. You showed
them how to get the solution of what
they wanted and they just pushed it
aside. They couldn't even see it even
though it was right in front of them.
How many have done this before? Say hi.
Because they had a story that says,
"I've tried everything or all the good
ones are gone." And then what we showed
you is what you really need to start
with a reverse order is the state you're
in. So on day one, you got into this
warrior. Make sure your warrior is fully
awake this morning, ladies and
gentlemen. Give the warrior sound inside
your body. Give it full tilt. Feel that.
Feel that. Feel that.
Feel that.
That's it. Feel your magician. Now make
the sound of that magician.
That's it.
That's it. And now you're sovereign.
You're sovereign. Make the sound of the
Yes. How many of you can get in those
states now? Very quickly, make some noise.
noise.
And by the way, when you go in those
states, you come up with a different
story about what you can do when you're
the warrior or the magician or the
lover. And you need to switch them up.
Sometimes it's the warriors got to push
through. Sometimes the magician saying,
"Man, we're making this too complex.
This is so simple. I'm over overthinking
this. I can change the whole thing by
just changing my perception." Or
sometimes it's just bringing love to
something when you're stuck in your head
because get in your head, you're dead,
especially in a relationship. And
sometimes it's really the wisdom of your
king or queen or sovereign. So that was
teaching you one way to get yourself in
the right state. And what we also have
taught you each day is some strategies.
So strategy had a breakthrough. Next day
we had strategies and it was yesterday
was all about identity and how do you
build an identity? Identity is the base
of your story or your brand if you're in
business. How many got some great tools
out of that for yourself yesterday? Make
some noise. Right.
>> But and so you've gotten strategies and
you've gotten states, but now today
we're going to focus on the story. And
this is so valuable because as I watch
your videos and as I've read even the
first night when you didn't do videos,
many of you just wrote things out. It's
so obvious that so many people are in a
painful chapter. You're in a winter
right now. Remember the four seasons.
And when you're in winter, when you're
in that dark night of the soul, it feels
like it's never going to get better. You
think it's going to be horrible forever.
But after every winter, there's a
springtime. And some people don't think
they'll ever get out of it. They get
allow themselves to get overwhelmed. So
my goal today is to give you a tool, a
set of tools, understanding your story,
so you understand where you are in the
process of your own evolution. I
remember Rome on the I think the first
day talked about how he was tried to
commit suicide multiple times and then
he was in that same state and totally
depressed and he heard that little clip
of me somewhere was on a podcast or
something and I talked about the biggest
problem we have is what we think we're
not supposed to have any but problems
are usually the trigger for that growth
and so for me I get stopped every single
day on the street and people want to
take a picture they want to tell me a
story or they want me to like do
something right now to change their
whole life right here in this moment it.
And so over the years, I've had to
figure out how to take complex things
and make them simple enough that I've
looked for what I would call profound
knowledge. Profound knowledge is
something so simple. If you want to
write it down, write down the definition
of profound knowledge. It might be
useful for you to start looking for
this. Profound knowledge is something
that's so simple that's once you
understand it and use it, you can
quickly change your life or anyone you
care about. Found knowledge is something
so simple that when you understand it,
you can immediately make changes in your
own life or help someone else to do it
as well. And I'll tell you where this
came from me the most is gosh, it's been
almost 30 years. This true story, it
sounds ridiculous, but it's true story.
I was going to do this corporate seminar
speech. So, it wasn't one of my own
events. In those days, I didn't have any
security and I didn't need it really
that much. So, I'm in a public restroom
and I'm standing there doing the
necessary and this man beside me looks
over and sees me and you know when
you're standing having this particular
experience, you don't want to be stared
at. And this guy's staring at me,
staring at me and all a sudden he looks
at me goes, "You're Tony Robbins." He
said, "Oh my god." He goes, "I I need
your help. I'm suicidal." And midstream
he turns towards me, true story, and
pees all down my leg.
He said, "I'm suicidal." I said, "I
think I can help you with that suicide.
You need it." Right? So, I I that was
the day that I was like, "I need to be
able to help people quickly because this
guy needs a lot of help." And one of the
fastest ways to help yourself or someone
else is understand that throughout
humanity's history, we have taught each
other through stories. We are wired in
our DNA for stories. Stories are the
greatest teaching tool in the world. And
every story is really if you look at the
Bible Bahav Gita if you if you look at
the Quran if you look at any great
religion I usually have a book the book
is full of stories and what do the
stories teach how to live there's always
two stories there's warnings and there's
examples and that's what life is all of
our lives are either a warning or an
example and if you feel like your life
is a warning right now you can still
become the example you want but it's
going to require you taking action. I'm
going to show you some of the tools that
can make you have that happen. But you
also understand it's a story. Sometimes
we get so caught up in a story then we
forget we got real life and we could
change it right now. We're not our
story. One of the things I tell people
is change your story. Change your life.
Write it down. If you got a story that,
oh man, I've I'm a victim. I've been
through all these things. Everybody goes
through extreme stress. Remember we
talked about that. Everybody's going to
have be robbed at some point or have
their home burned down or be in a
position where somebody they care about
or themselves get diagnosed with a
disease or something's going to happen
to your kid. Everybody's going to have
it in their lifetime. No one escapes. No
matter how good a person you are, no m
loving you are, no matter how smart you
are, no matter how rich you are, it
doesn't matter. No one will escape that
because problems are a sign of life.
What we have to learn to do is solve
those problems more quickly. And when we
do, we become more. Problems call us to
grow. And if there's anything I can tell
you beyond a shadow of doubt I've
learned in my life, people say to me all
the time, "What does it take to be
happy? You've met millions of people.
What's the secret to happiness?" One
word, progress. Write down progress
equals happiness. It's not even
achieving your goals that makes you
happy. How many of you have ever
achieved a goal you worked really hard
at and then after you achieved it, your
brain went, "Is this all there is?"
Who's done this? Give me a thumbs up if
you're on YouTube or give me little
motion out here. That's the worst
feeling in the world now because most of
you out there, I'm sure like me is if
you fall down and you fail, you pick
yourself up and you go at it again,
right? But if you succeed and you're
still unhappy, you're now what I call
technically screwed, right? You have to
have a different approach, right? Or
have you done this? How many have ever
achieved an incredible goal and you were
excited? You didn't say, "Is this all
there is?" Who's had a goal you achieved
that was really exciting?
How long did that great feeling last?
Did it last for six years,
a year of happiness, six months,
six weeks, six days,
or six hours? How many of you lasted six
years? You achieved your goal and you're
happy for six years as a result of it.
Okay. I see one person on drugs. That's
about it. Good. Very nice. Okay. How
many of you it lasted a year that
happiness from achieving that goal?
Okay, one or two. How many of you it
lasted six months?
Okay, now we get about maybe 15 20%. How
How many only lasted six days?
Any sixh hour people out there? So, you
might say, "Well, Tony, I achieved I
worked my guts. I achieved the goal and
I only stayed happy this long." Why?
Why? Because you're not meant to sit at
the table of success too long. You'll
get fat and bored. We're made to grow.
Progress equals growth. Everything in
the universe grows or it dies. That's
not my rule. That's the universe. And
everything in the universe also when you
grow, you have something to give, which
is what makes your life meaningful.
Without growth, there's nothing new to
give. I'm only able to be here with you
at 66 years old because I've been
through hell and back so many times that
I can show you the pathway to get out of
hell and get to heaven. Meaning, not
literally, but in your life. That's the
process we're talking about here. And
you you don't feel that aliveness when
it's just about you. You can meet your
own basic needs so simply that you get
bored. But if you can find something you
care about more than yourself, whether
it's your kids or your husband or your
wife or your family, your community or
your mission or your company or
something that you care about, then you
will wake up every day with an energy.
But most of us are dealing with our own
little problems here because we haven't
found how to push through and because we
get stuck in the story. So I want to
give you there's a friend of mine. He
actually just wrote me two days ago sent
me a text and it was I think 35 years
ago. He came to my date with destiny
seminar and in that process we had
people like we do unleash pow then kind
of rewrite their story and he changed it
completely and his story was I've always
been went through all these challenges
in my life and it was this hard knocks
and nothing's gone my way and he was a
martial arts teacher but when I said
what do you want the story to be what do
you want to be about he goes I'd really
I'd love to write a movie that inspires
and brings love to people and brings joy
and makes them laugh and that he goes
but I don't know what to do I said I
don't know what to do anything I'm doing
either. But here's what I did. And I
took them through the framework I'm
going to show you today. And it's a
process of how to get yourself on the
path, continue on the path until you get
where you want to go. Seven quick steps
I'm going to show you. We're going to do
it today. So, and you can do it with any
area of your life. Something you want to
master in your body, your emotions,
relationship, finances, and you'll be
able to use this again in the future.
But he sent me several years, many years
ago, maybe 10 years ago. He said, "Tony,
you know, I'm he wrote Sleepless in
Seattle, by the way, and was nominated
for Academy Award, this great romantic
comedy. Anybody ever see Sleepless in
Seattle? It was a long time ago, right?
And now he's this great writer and he
just sent me, you know, this little
thing saying 35 years later, here we
are. It was really touching. But what's
interesting is he sent me this thing. He
I went to the greatest screenwriter
training in the world. And he gave me
this outline of the greatest stories
have these seven elements. So I want to
give them to you right now because
they're a good like map. It's not
exactly how life is, but it might help
you think about the story of your life
and where you are right now. And then
I'm going to take you through the
ultimate story called the hero's journey
and show you how understanding it can
give you perspective so you can get out
of those lousy states and get to where
you want to go and make the progress
that makes you happy and be able to give
the things you want to give. Who's up
for this here, ladies and gentlemen?
Make some noise if you're up for it.
So jot these down real quick. I'm just
going to give these real fast and then
I'm going to take you through this
hero's journey and then we're going to
go through this little mini workshop
where we're going to pick something you
want to shift and we're going to show
you how to do it. Okay. So this writer
and there are many different approaches.
This said that stories all start with a
desire. If you watch a movie, if you
read a book, you mean the m you meet the
main character and the course of the
story is driven by what do they want?
Some people want to save the world from
bad guys. Some people want to be more
connected to God. Some people's deepest
desire is to find the ultimate
relationship that they can bond with.
Everyone has a desire. And your current
most passionate desire is what's driving
the story of your life. Now some
people's desire starts to I just want to
get by. I want to survive. And if that
becomes your story, life becomes hell.
Because remember I said what really
makes people stressed? It's not what
they think it is. It's that they're
managing their life instead of creating.
They're they're making a living. They're
pushing through. But with enough energy
and focus, you can find a deeper desire.
And one of the reasons I do events is
when you get collectively with a group
of people all over the earth in this
kind of energy. How many feel the
difference when we get your energy dump
just in this group right here can feel
that difference? Right?
If I ask you if I if you're in this
state and I said you know what do you
really want and you're in this state? I
don't know man. Most people tell you
what they don't want they don't want to
be this way anymore. I don't want to be
like this. I don't want to feel like
this. I don't want to act I don't want
to be in this kind of relationship.
Well, whatever you focus on, your brain
starts to move you towards it. There's a
part of your brain called the RA. It's
big words. It's reticular activating
system for short. Most scientists call
the RA. And once you have a desire that
is strong, your brain starts to look for
any way to make it happen. If you don't
just give up that desire, you keep
feeling it, imagining, experiencing it.
And once that happens, you'll notice
things you wouldn't notice. Let's say
you decided, I want to find a way to
invest with no money down in real estate
or apartments or something and you don't
even know how to do it, but you really
get obsessed about it. All of a sudden,
you'll see books. You'll hear
conversations. If you're in Starbucks
and there's somebody four tables over
and they're talking about buying or
investing in real estate apartments like
this, your brain will hear that
conversation because your brain is like
a servo mechanism. In the old days, if
you sent a rocket towards a target and
you were off, it missed it. But the new
rockets have a servo mechanism like your
brain. And if the target moves, who
knows what happens to the rocket? It
moves and follows it. All it takes is
unleashing your desire. That's why I
call it unleash. Not remembering, not
thinking about it, unleashing it. Right?
And you've had a mini experience of that
here a little bit. Now, once that
happens, you'll notice, you'll see,
you'll feel. I'll give you an example.
How many of you have ever like bought an
outfit, ladies, or anyone buying a car
and then you suddenly saw that outfit or
car everywhere? Give me a thumbs up if
you're on YouTube or give me a little
shout out if you know what I'm talking about.
about.
Well, were those outfits around before?
Weren't those cars around before? Of
course, but you didn't notice them
because it wasn't a driving desire. Now
that you own one, your brain notices
anything related to that. So the first
ignition to your story and then you got
to ask yourself is what is my current
most passionate focused desire and do I
have one or is it just my desires to get
by or to survive or get through this
crap? Your desire determines the
direction, the speed and the quality of
the story of your life. So the second
thing that happens is as soon as you
have a desire, if we're reading a book
and you're reading a main character,
you're watching a movie, the second
thing you'll notice, they don't always
notice is there's a problem and there's
a need. The problem is, let's say the
person wants to be wealthy, but they're
selfish, right? And so, you know, this
is not going to happen. Or the person is
wants, you know, to achieve great
things, but they're lazy. or they want a
great relationship, but they're fearful,
so they don't initiate it. There's a
problem or need. So, I'm wondering if
you know what your biggest problem or
need is. The problem has a need. The
need often is for you to grow. The need
might be for you to be, you know, in a
place where you have more faith or more
courage or or more determination. That's
the need. The problem is you're holding
back and not taking action. Third
element of a story is the big one which
is whenever you got a desire and you got
a problem need opponents show up. And
there's three kinds of opponents if you
want to jot them down real fast. There
is an external opponent, there is an
intimate opponent and there's the
internal opponent. What do these mean?
Well, the external opponent is obvious.
How many have been at work in
environment in your business in your
career and like there's somebody
screwing with you or somebody who seems
to get in the way. someone who's holding
your progress back. Who's ever felt like
somebody was fighting you, taking
advantage, right? So, you could do
battle with them, but the more intense
one is the intimate opponent. How many
of you have ever had somebody you really
care about, a family member, a mother, a
brother, a sister, maybe a someone you
thought is a a dear friend, and you felt
betrayed by them, by something they did,
and they were an opponent to you. How
many have you had that experience? Make
some noise and give me a thumbs up.
Which one is more painful? Which one is
more difficult to deal with? The
external opponent or the intimate one?
It's the intimate one, right? That's the
one that if you conquer it, you're going
to grow more. But then there's
ultimately the internal opponent. That's
you. Because most of what's really going
on in the external world, your reaction
to it, your reactions are determining
what how your life turns out. And
they're all coming from inside. Blaming
someone else is your internal opponent.
until one day you go, "It's not my
brother or my sister, my mother or my
father. It's not the government, it's
not Trump, it's not this, it's not that.
It's me." And that's when you can start
to make some progress. Now, by the way,
as you're dealing with the opponents,
most people, fourth step, they come up
with a plan real fast. And if you want
to make God laugh, tell her your plans,
right? Right. Because how many of you
have had plans that didn't work? Make
some noise. You had plans that didn't work.
work.
If you go to a movie, check this out.
Let's say you went to a movie. This is
the story, okay? The story starts out
with a person who's totally healthy.
They're happy. They're in love. They
have great relationships and they're and
they're doing really well in their
business or finances or career. That's
how it starts. And then as you go
through the film, about halfway through,
they're healthy and they're happy and
they're strong and they got great love
in their life and they're doing great
financially and great in their career
and their business. and you get to the
end of the movie and they're healthy and
they're happy and they're have great
loving relationships.
Raise your hand if you're going to go to
that movie. If you're not, give me one
of these. Right. That's right. Because
if there were no problems, if there was
nothing like that, you would not grow.
You wouldn't even want to watch the
movie. What is drama? Conflict. And most
of the conflict you think is the outside
world. It's really inside of you. You
solve it in you, you'll solve it in the
outside world. So you come up with your
plan and then fifth step is you do
battle. You battle with your opponents.
You battle and try to solve the thing
with the external opponent or the
intimate one and you're upset about it
and ultimately you battle within
yourself. And then the last two six now
there's a point in that battling if you
don't give up where you wake up and you
have what's really called
self-revelation. It means you start to
realize oh my god it's not them it's me.
That's when it really happens. And when
that happens, you're you develop new
character. You develop like a different
level of self-honesty or you become more
humble or you find your courage finally
and you stop pulling back and blaming
everything else or you stop telling
yourself the story about why you can't
do it and you just get up and do it even
though you're scared. Right? That
self-revelation changes a person and
that leads to the final step which that
final step is that series when you read
a story or when you to your children it
says they lived happily ever after or in
our world we say life will never be the
same again. It's called equilibrium.
So think about this just for a quick
second. Do you know what desire is
driving you most at this stage of your
life right now? Are you aware of it? Are
you conscious of it? Are you conscious
of what the problem is and what you need
for you to grow? Are you too focused on
the opponents and the battle? Have you
come up with a plan and now you're
disappointed because it didn't work?
Most plans don't work the first time.
That's why we fight for them. That's why
we value it. Have you gotten to the
point where you have some selfhonesty so
you can really make the change and
invest in yourself and take the action
and do what's necessary? Or have you hit
a nice equilibrium where you feel like,
man, life is the best this can be? So,
I'm going to help you take this a little
deeper now, okay? And I don't expect you
to grab this perfectly. I want this to
be a trigger for you. So, what I want to
show you now is the oldest story in
humanity. Many of you have heard of
Joseph Campbell. He wrote a book called
The Hero's Journey. Wrote many books,
but he was a genius. And he spent most
of his life studying every religion in
the world, every mythology in the world
across from centuries. And he looked
through and said, "Wow, everything that
we experience is usually through a
story. If you change the story, you
change how you experience life." But he
also noticed there was one story that
since the earliest days even of cavemen,
it's this theme and it's called the
hero's journey. And he made it somewhat
complex. I'm going to simplify it for
you into seven steps. And I'll give it
to you in a way that'll be pretty
simple. How many of you remember the old
story of the Wizard of Oz? Hopefully
everybody around the world knows that
one, right?
So, we're going to use that as an
example. Now, here's what I want you to
understand. Most of us think we have a
problem because here's how it all
starts. The journey starts with step
one, your ordinary world. Your ordinary
world means how your life is right now.
Your life, you know, can be feeling
pretty good. It's okay. It's pretty
great. Seems wonderful or it's not. But
it's kind of where you've been for a
while. And life demands or you could
call God or the universe, whatever you
prefer. Something out there demands us
to grow because everything in life grows
or it dies. And so we don't always grow
on our own or we grow conveniently
little groups. Remember I said the other
day there's these bursts in life that
happen where you grow a ton and it
changes your life. Well, you got this
ordinary life and the hero's journey is
because the second step is all of a
sudden you have what they often call the
call to adventure. Now, you probably
don't recognize it as a call to
adventure because it looks like your
house burned down or it looks like
somebody cheated you or cheated on you
or someone stole money from you in your
business or your kid won't is screaming
at you or someone in your family won't
talk anymore or you've got somebody
who's the president of the United States
you don't like or whatever the case may
be, right? The call to adventure is this
smash and it doesn't feel good. But if
you can recognize it's a call to
adventure, you can change your life.
Most people don't recognize it. So they
go to the third step, which is they
refuse the call. They pretend that I
don't I don't have to deal with this.
This is not my problem. I can just put
it aside. I can just keep doing my
ordinary life. But guess what? Life will
come in and make you. It'll take you.
Life will give you such a challenge that
you have to grow. and you'll go from
that step three of the you know refusal
mode into really going being taken on
the journey. So let me walk you through
this in the version of like Wizard of
Oz. So let's start with the ordinary
world. You remember the main character
of Wizard of Oz was Dorothy. She lives
in Kansas. The movie by the way is in
black and white which is what her life
is like in the first part of the movie.
It's black and white ordinary Kansas
pretty flat place. and she thinks her
biggest problem, she's all upset because
a neighbor, her dog Toto bit a neighbor
and the neighbor wants her dog taken
away. And so rather than deal with this
little problem, she runs away. She goes
there she there she there she there she
there she there she there there's a call
for her to grow up and she doesn't take
the call. Now the call keeps coming,
right? She decides to run from home, but
then the universe intervenes and a giant
cyclone comes, right? A tornado and it's
coming and all of a sudden she needs to
go back home and she doesn't want to go
back home. That's where her dogs going
to be taken from her and no one
understands her and she's not
appreciated and she's whining about all
this stuff. But when the problem's big
enough, we react, don't we? And so she
tries to run home to take cover. And
when she bangs on the door, no one can
hear her. They went underground to
protect themselves. They were all
worried about her, but they couldn't
find her. She was gone. So to save their
lives, they go underground. So she, to
save her own life, goes in the house and
tries to strap herself down and hang on
to the furniture. And by the way, she
does not want to change. She doesn't
want to go anywhere. But what happens?
The universe takes her. The tornado
takes the house, spins it out to a
different world, which is what life does
when you face these challenges. It's
going to take you to a different world.
And so we put it back on the screen for
everybody. Then you can't refuse the
call. Put it up there for everybody. The
next step, you find yourself in a
position where now you go on a journey.
And when you go on that journey, you're
going to meet new mentors. You're going
to gain some new allies. You're going to
find some new friends. And it's going to
start to create a change in your life.
And so the thing I want you to think
about is think about it this way. Think
about it like she didn't want to go. Now
she's in a different place. She's
doesn't know where she is, doesn't
just let let's say you were in LA during
the fires. I had my home burned down 20
years ago in California and it was my
favorite home I'd ever had. It was
called the Delmare Castle. It was a made
of castles in Europe. I leveraged
everything I had said, "I want my family
to live here." And I 24 years old. I
just stretched myself like crazy in ways
I never thought possible. And I got this
home to be our home. And then one day
the whole thing burned down. There was a
candle in the house. It flipped over on
the bed. It literally burned out and
everything that I had that I owned was
gone. In those days you didn't have
pictures in the cloud. So all my
pictures, all my history, all my back,
all of it was gone. But I had three
children and we all made it out alive.
And so I had to set an example for them.
Thank God. So what did I do is like I
said, listen, we want to be grateful.
Look, we're all healthy. But what it
made me do is I had to go on a journey.
We had to move. I had moved to a new
location and went to move location. I
met new people, new friends. I met some
new mentors and it started me on the
journey. Same as what Dorothy did. So
Dorothy gets there and she meets these
little miniature people and she decides,
I got this problem still. I got to solve
it. I got to get home. They say follow
the yellow brick road. Think of this.
You got to get on the path because I'm
going to explain this to you in a
moment. You got to get yourself on the
path. and they show her where to start,
how to get on the path. And as she
starts to try to make progress towards
what she needs and what she wants to
solve her problem and really meet her
needs, she meets some people along the
way. She meets, first of all, the good
witch who takes the old witch. By the
way, her her house kills the old witch.
Everybody's celebrating it. And she
meets these people along the way. She
meets the scarecrow and she finds out he
has problems. He thinks he doesn't have
a brain. And then she meets the tin man
and he feels like he doesn't have a
heart, remember? And then he meets she
meets the lion and he doesn't seem to
have any courage. He's scared. And they
go on this journey and she wants to help
her friends and they want to help her.
And so they all decide we're going to go
see the wizard who's going to solve all
this for us. We're going to go see the
Wizard of Oz. And on the journey though,
this is the next step. Throwing it up on
the screen so people can follow please.
The big circle if you would. So there's
a point where you call cross the
threshold. That means you can't go back.
Who's ever finally committed yourself
like where you said, "I'm going to make
a change. I'm on the road. I've gone
through hell, but I'm not going back."
Who's ever done that here, ladies and gentlemen?
gentlemen?
When you cross the threshold, something
magical happens inside of us as human
beings. It's like I always tell people,
if you want to take the island, burn the
boats. Because as long as you have a way
back, you're not going to go forward.
Because your brain will rationalize, I
can't do this right now. I mean, what's
the favorite phrase people have? Yeah, I
really want to do that someday. People
tell me about my seminar that some
someday leads to a town called nowhere.
It doesn't exist, right? Someday is
And so what happens is once
you pass the threshold, there's no more
someday. You're like, you're taking
action. You're moving forward. There's
no way back. And when that happens, you
go to the next step, which is you do
battle. You go through what some people
call it the ordeal, but it means a
transformation. You have to fight the
dragons and slay your own dragons. Your
fears, your emotions, not feeling
enough. Think about that. All these
creatures, the the man without the
brain, without the heart, without the
courage, those are qualities that they
needed, but they actually were inside
them. They just didn't know it. And so
they face the wicked witch of the west.
And she tries to harm them and attack
them. And they fight to them. And they
get all the way, make it for after all
this ordeal, they make it to the wizard
and this giant wizard shows up and he
says, "No, I won't help you." They
thought he's going to be kind. No, you
have to bring me the broom of a wicked
witch. Like, how are we going to do
that? And so, they go and they do
something they don't think they could
possibly do. They fight the ultimate
battle with someone no one else has been
able to defeat. And sure enough, Dorothy
of all people drops water on her, if you
remember, and she fizzles away. And the
world is free. And they go to see the
wizard and he's still really acting
intense and then all of a sudden little
Toto sees there's a guy behind these
doors and he's running all this machinery.
machinery.
It's kind of like how I feel. People
come to see me to get a brain or find
their heart or find their courage and
you know I show them it's already there.
I just get them to awaken it so they can
feel it and keep it and condition it so
it doesn't go away. And all of a sudden
they find he is a kind wizard and he
helps each one understand what their
qualities are they have is inside. He
does what's necessary for them to own
it. Their brain, their heart, their
courage. And then she discovers that
what she's wanted all along is to go
home was always right there. All she had
to click her feet together and say,
"There's no place like home. There's no
place like home. There's no place like
home." How many remember the story? Make
some noise if you do, ladies and gentlemen.
So, how do we relate this to our lives?
Well, you've got an ordinary life.
Ordinary might be a great life, but it's
whatever your current life is. If you
don't make aggressive action to take
your life to the next level, at some
point, life is going to interrupt you in
a way you probably won't call the call
to adventure because it won't be
pleasant, but that's what it is. And if
you can recognize when hell breaks loose
and you can say to yourself, okay, life
is always happening for me, not to me.
It sure looks like life's happening to
me, but I know there's a benefit here.
How many of you, again, I asked you this
the other day, but I want you to really
think about it. How many of you have had
an experience in your life that was
incredibly painful? It was horrible.
You'd never want to go through it again.
You'd never want somebody you care about
to go through it. But years later, you
look back and said, "Man, I see why the
universe or God gave me that experience
because it made me so much stronger or
made me more compassionate or made me
care more or it made me learn or grow."
How many have found an experience like
this, you can relate to make some noise,
I would submit to you that if you study
humanity and you see what our lives are
like, everything is a gift, but it's our
job to find it. It doesn't feel like a
gift in the beginning. So, one thing
could help you is it's like when I get
an opponent,
it takes a lot to shake me up. If I got
someone who really shakes me up, I go,
"Ah, a worthy opponent." You know why
that's valuable? Because I'm going to
grow. Now, see, if you look at a movie,
what determines how great the hero is?
Well, you can only have a great hero if
you have a great villain. If you
remember years ago, Tony Hopkins,
Anthony Hopkins, a good friend of mine,
who made Silence the Lambs. How many
remember Silence of the Lambs is a movie
out there? You remember that one?
What made, you know, uh, what was the
lady's name? Um, blanket. I'm seeing her
face. The actress, what made the main
actress there, Jodie Foster? What made
Jodie Foster such a great hero is she
was dealing with this man who could
smell her, think, or predict her
thoughts. I mean, he was so intense, she
had to grow accordingly. That's what
life is. Life is offering you a worthy
opponent. It could be the death of
someone you love. It could be losing
your job. It could be something happens
to your kid. It could be your own
health. It could be you've been in
marriage for 25 years and all of a
sudden it ends. It is a worthy opponent.
It is the world, the universe calling
you to action, calling you to go on an
adventure. But if you refuse it, you're
going to stay in stress and eventually
life's going to take you anyway. So why
not go on the journey? Why not commit
yourself to take action? Get beyond the
threshold of control. Fight your
battles. slay the dragon and become home
the hero of your own life. And when you
come home the hero, because you've
slayed those dragons, you have something
to give. And when you got something to
give, life is meaningful. And all of us
have had this. Who's had something
you've been through and now you've been
able to help someone else because of it?
Your kids, your friends, somebody like
that, right?
Listen to me. Please listen to me. In
the end, what you get will never make
you happy. Nothing. It's never enough.
But who you become by pushing through
that'll make you really happy. It'll
give you it gives me grace tears to
think about it. I would there's no
regrets in my life. The stuff I've been
through, I wouldn't bore you with the
details. Some of it would shake you to
the core if I told you the stories. But
it's like my mom. Thank God my mom
wasn't the mother I wanted her to be. I
wouldn't become the man I've become. So
if we can embrace it, we get to go on
this journey of life and we become more.
And as we become more, life is so rich.
And that's a happiness doesn't go away
because it's not fake ego pride. It's
not cuz people tell you you're great.
People tell you you're great all your
life and not believe it. Like we talked
about the other day. They tell you
you're lousy or you're stupid. You don't
have to listen to it. you know when you
push yourself through difficult times
and so instead of trying to avoid them,
embrace them and go on the journey and
your life will be magnificent. And by
the way, just when you're celebrating
being the hero and other people are
celebrating you and you're able to
share, who knows what happens next? Who
who knows? Write in the right now in the
chat box, what do you think happens next
after you've returned the elixir? You're
the hero of your own life. The life is
magnificent. Tell you, what do you think happens?
happens?
That's right. Peace for sure. Joy for
sure. But the next venture will show up.
The next call to adventure will show up.
See, it's not life without problems.
It's just like better quality ones.
Right now, you get a better quality
challenge. Apple was trying to survive
20 years ago. Then they came up with the
idea of doing music on, you know,
iTunes. And pretty soon they own the
digital market at 88% of the market.
It's hard to grow when you have 88% of
the market. That's a quality problem,
isn't it? But it's a problem. They say
you got to solve and keep growing. Now
they're one of the most successful
companies in history and they're near
bankruptcy, right? It's like we're going
to continue to be called. So why not
embrace life instead of feeling beat up
by it? Because your story of I'm being
beat up by life versus I'm on the
journey, the hero's journey can change
everything. How many see value in this?
and looking at your own life at some
stage here. Make some noise so you can
get some value in this. Stand up. Shake
your body out just for a moment. Stand
Make some noise that makes you feel
good. Make a sound of excitement. Ladies
Yes. Get a virtual high five or a fist
bump. Say you rock, baby. So do I. Nice.
>> Now sit down in a peak state.
>> If you're feeling strong, make that fist
say yes. Say yes. Say yes.
How many of you right now, how many of
you right now are being called on an
adventure? You may have called it I have
a big ass problem. How many been called
on an adventure? Right. Right. And if
you resist that, the stress is going to
go through the roof. But you know what?
When you decide to go for it, that's
when you'll start to create new
solutions, new ideas, new opportunities.
And when you're creating, there is not
that same stress. Even when you're
dealing big challenges and you got train
yourself when a big problem comes. Ah,
finally a worthy opponent. That's what's
going to make me a bigger hero. That's
how it works. Now, let's take this and
turn it into a mini workshop where you
can make practical progress immediately.
One of the things that I've noticed in
life is you don't have to be to your
where you want to be yet to be fully
alive. In other words, let's say you're
30 pounds overweight. And you know, you
think, oh, when I lose the 30 pounds,
I'm going to feel so great. But as I
pointed out earlier, you will, but for
how long? What actually makes us feel
great is progress. If you can feel like
you're what I call on the path, who
knows what I mean by on the path, like
you're on the path of progress, on the
path of achieving it, right? If your
relationship is not where you want to
do, but you just start on the path of
making it better, or you your finances
suck, but now you decide, hey, I'm going
to get on the path of this, right? And I
and I and I do something that I know I'm
moving forward. There's enormous energy.
If you're overweight and you just start
working out and you eat a little better
for four or five days, a week, 10 days,
a couple weeks, all of a sudden, you're
not there yet, but you lose a few
pounds, you feel better, you feel
stronger, you feel alive when you're on
the path. That's what we're all seeking.
We're all seeking to feel more alive.
How many agree with me on that? Make
some noise if you agree on it.
Which by the way is why I'm so committed
to conditioning and getting your entire
nervous system. So this isn't a thought
you understand. It's a habit of how you
live. It just happens. That's why we do
conditioning. And I can't do that for
you in three hours, but I can give you
the tools. So let's do this. Let me walk
you through what I consider the seven
steps to take yourself from the
beginning to achieving what you really
want in any area of your life. And I
call it the path. And I will tell you
the first four steps are the hard ones.
The fir the next three are too simple.
We'll go through them real fast and I'm
gonna walk you through these and but I'm
gonna ask you, we're going to stop and
actually do each step a little bit.
Who's up for a little work here where
you make some progress right now? All
right. All right. So, I need you to keep
your energy high in your chair. Create
That's it.
All you on YouTube, if you're rocking,
give me that thumbs up so I know you're
Yes.
Because if you're going to make
progress, it starts with your state.
That's why we're doing this each time,
right? If we just do it in our heads, it
won't matter. So, we're going to keep
our state strong. Okay? Whatever we got
to do. And by the way, the way to change
state fastest is a radical change in
your body. The way you move, way use
your voice, tone, sounds, all that will
do it. All right? So, what is the path?
Let me give you a picture of it. Let's
throw it up on the screen for you here.
It looks like a lot going on there. So,
don't worry because we're going to do
each step one step at a time. You can
take a picture of that if you want. If
you got your camera there and want to
take a little snapshot, you're welcome
to do so. But I will walk you through it
one step at a time so you have a chance
to do it. So you'll see that the path
starts I'll just kind of walk you
through it gently. The path starts with
you get on the path when you know what
you really want. And when I say what you
really want in any area you're not going
to make progress in your body just like
I want to just feel better. It's got to
be more specific. What do you want to
lose a certain amount of weight? Do you
want a certain level of energy? Do you
want to be a certain size? It's like
what do you want? But not only knowing
what you want to want, but you got to
activate and awaken your hunger. Write
that down. awaken my hunger. Remember
the other day I said to you, people ask
me all the time, what what's the
difference in people's lives? The most
successful people in the world, what do
they have in common? I was up early this
morning after all your stuff, even less
sleep because I was with Michael Milin.
He has a program here with some of the
most successful people in the world. And
they're all trying to figure out how do
we really make sure the American dream
is fully alive. They want to be on this
board with them. Brilliant people. But
you know what? You can look around the
room. Most of the people there are, you
know, doing unbelievably well. You know,
a good number of the room is 10 figures,
11 figures in net worth, meaning
billion, 10 billion. It's pretty pretty
wild room. Almost 80 people of that
caliber. And the one thing they all have
in common is hunger. I mean, they could
sit back and do anything. They don't
need anything in their life, but they're
hungry. They're hungry to grow. They're
hungry to give. They're hungry to find a
way to make them the country better.
They're hungry to make a difference.
Hunger. Awakening your hunger is the
first thing. Now, what most people do is
they get so disappointed that they
deaden their hunger or they drug
themselves with food or alcohol or
prescription drugs because they've been
disappointed so many times they don't
want to get excited. They don't want to
get their hunger up because they're
afraid of being disappointed. Let me
tell you something. Write this down.
Disappointment is the secret to success.
If you're not disappointed, you haven't
done squat, right? It's like criticism.
Like, how do you not be criticized?
Simple. do nothing, be nothing, say
nothing, and no one will criticize you.
Not even in social media, right? That's
the that's the secret. No, that's not
going to make you alive. What you have
to be able to do is you got to
discipline your disappointment.
Disappointment happens all the time. If
you can turn disappointment into drive
now, you're going to have a different
life. But to do that, you got to train
this body and this mind so that that
happens automatically. You have to think
about it. Once you're in a disappointed
state, it won't work. You got to train
yourself. Now when I say awaken your
hunger that means you got to develop a
vision you know in the Bible it says and
I'm not telling you you have to read the
Bible but the Bible says without a
vision people perish and it's true if
you don't have a compelling future
anyone can deal with a difficult today
if they have a compelling tomorrow. But
most people don't know what they want.
You ask them what they want. What do
they say? They tell you what they don't
want. I don't want to be this way. I
don't want to be in this relationship. I
don't want to feel like this. I don't
want to earn so little money. I don't
want whatever. So, write this down.
Reasons come first, answers come second.
Reasons come first, answers come second.
See, if you got a big enough reason to
do something, a big enough why, you'll
figure out how. Even if no one else
shows you, you'll find the how. That's
what happened in my life. So, the first
step is that. So, I want you right now,
just for a second, I want you to think
of an area of your life that you'd like
to make a significant improvement in.
Could be your body. It could be your
relationship. Could be your finances.
Could be your career. Could be your
level of happiness or joy. How many of
you can think of an area right now that
you'd like to make a significant
improvement in?
Okay. The first step to knowing you're
on the path is your brain knows what it
wants. Because we want to activate that
RA, that reticular activating system
that'll start noticing and helping you
get there. But it only do that if you
don't not only know what you want, but
you awaken that desire and you got
strong enough reasons. So I want you to
think of an area of your life right now
you want to improve and I want you to
take your iPad, your your piece of paper
in front of you, whatever it is. Don't
just think this. If you don't write it,
it's worthless. So get something so you
can write or your computer, your phone,
whatever you're going to do and or you
can put on your little otter and dictate
it right now if you want. But what do
you really want? What's a specific
result you want in that area? Could be
your body, could be relationship, could
be finances. I don't care what the area
is. And be as specific as possible. Not
I want to lose some weight. I want to
lose 22 pounds. I want to lose 10 pounds
of fat. I want to turn my husband or
wife into a raving fan, not a satisfied
customer. You know, satisfi satisfied
customers go away. Raving fans stay.
Apple has raving fan customers.
Microsoft not so much. Right? It's I
know that not making a judgment.
Microsoft, I got a room of 10,000 people
and I'll say, "Make the sound you
associate to this company." And I'll go,
"Microsoft." And you get murmurss. I go,
"Apple." And people cheer. That's a
trillion dollar difference, right? So,
what do you really want? What's a
specific result you want to accomplish?
Maybe something you want to accomplish
in the next 6 to 12 months or less. Be
specific. That's what makes your brain
work. If you say, "I want more money."
Your brain goes, "Here's a dollar."
You're done. Uh, I want to lose some
weight. You lose a pound. In the brain,
your ra goes, okay, we've achieved it.
Be specific. And then write down why is
it a must for you to achieve? Why? What
will it change in the way you feel about
yourself? How will it make you feel if
you achieve this? Why is this so
important to you personally? What will
this do for your family, for your kids,
for the people you love? What would it
do for you? Why must you? Why will you
make this happen? All right, you got 60
And then the most important thing is the why. The reasons why. Why is it a must
why. The reasons why. Why is it a must to achieve? Why? How will it change? How
to achieve? Why? How will it change? How will it feel to accomplish this?
will it feel to accomplish this? How much more alive would you feel? How
How much more alive would you feel? How much more fun? How much more joy? How
much more fun? How much more joy? How much more love? How much more energy
much more love? How much more energy would you have? How much more inner
would you have? How much more inner pride?
All right, finish up real quick. Make sure it should put a smile on your face
sure it should put a smile on your face if you think about achieving it. It
if you think about achieving it. It should make you feel good.
Something maybe would excite you that you know in the next six months to 12
you know in the next six months to 12 months you could achieve it if you
months you could achieve it if you really committed yourself 100%.
really committed yourself 100%. Something that would get you excited,
Something that would get you excited, get you up early and keep you up late.
get you up early and keep you up late. And you know if you achieved it, it
And you know if you achieved it, it would be awesome.
All right. Give me a thumbs up if you got something
Give me a thumbs up if you got something you're excited about, something you got
you're excited about, something you got some strong reasons for.
some strong reasons for. Okay. CL write down clarity is power.
Okay. CL write down clarity is power. The more clear you are about what you
The more clear you are about what you want, the easier it is to get to it. And
want, the easier it is to get to it. And clarity, not only what you want
clarity, not only what you want precisely, but why you want it because
precisely, but why you want it because the reasons make the difference. Now,
the reasons make the difference. Now, let's say you got absolute clarity. And
let's say you got absolute clarity. And by the way, you can go back and refine
by the way, you can go back and refine this more later. We're doing it quick. I
this more later. We're doing it quick. I want you to. And you can do it more than
want you to. And you can do it more than one area of your life, one at a time.
one area of your life, one at a time. The second step on this path, if you see
The second step on this path, if you see going up here, that second step is now
going up here, that second step is now we got to find and face the truth. We
we got to find and face the truth. We got to find, write it down your notes,
got to find, write it down your notes, find and face the truth. Which means, by
find and face the truth. Which means, by the way, there's a simple phrase, the
the way, there's a simple phrase, the truth will set you what? Free. We all
truth will set you what? Free. We all know it's true, but most people don't.
know it's true, but most people don't. So, this step is about making a note.
So, this step is about making a note. It's about getting clear. It's about
It's about getting clear. It's about being honest with yourself about what's
being honest with yourself about what's got in the way in the past. Like,
got in the way in the past. Like, sometimes people set a goal. Who's ever
sometimes people set a goal. Who's ever done this? Have you ever set a goal
done this? Have you ever set a goal said, "I'm going to go do this." And
said, "I'm going to go do this." And then after you say it in your head, your
then after you say it in your head, your brain goes, "Who are you kidding?" Who's
brain goes, "Who are you kidding?" Who's done this before? Make some noise if you
done this before? Make some noise if you have, ladies and gentlemen. Right? So,
have, ladies and gentlemen. Right? So, what we want to do is have strong enough
what we want to do is have strong enough reasons. We'll go for it. But now, we
reasons. We'll go for it. But now, we got to tell oursel the truth. This is
got to tell oursel the truth. This is what most people don't do. It's like New
what most people don't do. It's like New Year's resolutions. They set a goal and
Year's resolutions. They set a goal and then, you know, they don't do anything.
then, you know, they don't do anything. So, we got to face the truth. And the
So, we got to face the truth. And the truth is, let's get clear and honest
truth is, let's get clear and honest about why you've not done this in the
about why you've not done this in the past. Not beating yourself up, just
past. Not beating yourself up, just being honest. In other words, think of
being honest. In other words, think of it this way. My job is to help you close
it this way. My job is to help you close the gap between what you really want and
the gap between what you really want and where you are. If you're here, I want to
where you are. If you're here, I want to help you close that gap as quickly as
help you close that gap as quickly as possible. In order to close the gap, we
possible. In order to close the gap, we got to know what's getting in the way.
got to know what's getting in the way. And there's usually five things. Jot
And there's usually five things. Jot them down. Five different things that
them down. Five different things that tend to get in the way that if you
tend to get in the way that if you become aware of them, you can change
become aware of them, you can change them very quickly. The first one is
them very quickly. The first one is fear.
fear. Look, everybody gets fear. And by the
Look, everybody gets fear. And by the way, when when someone says that, you
way, when when someone says that, you know, you need some courage, courage
know, you need some courage, courage doesn't mean you're not afraid. Courage
doesn't mean you're not afraid. Courage means you're afraid, but you're doing it
means you're afraid, but you're doing it anyway. Who knows what I'm talking about
anyway. Who knows what I'm talking about here? Make some noise if you push
here? Make some noise if you push yourself through it, right?
yourself through it, right? And one way to do that is change your
And one way to do that is change your state, right? You can find courage in
state, right? You can find courage in your warrior. No question about it. You
your warrior. No question about it. You might find courage in your king or your
might find courage in your king or your queen or your sovereign. Those are just
queen or your sovereign. Those are just metaphors for states that you can go
metaphors for states that you can go into. But the bottom line is if you let
into. But the bottom line is if you let the fear stop you, you're in trouble.
the fear stop you, you're in trouble. And fear is physical. That's why
And fear is physical. That's why changing our bodies can make a
changing our bodies can make a difference. When you're really afraid,
difference. When you're really afraid, you can feel it in your throat. You can
you can feel it in your throat. You can feel it in your gut. But if you snap
feel it in your gut. But if you snap your body into a strong state, all of a
your body into a strong state, all of a sudden the fear disappears. You take
sudden the fear disappears. You take action. The o write down. The only cure
action. The o write down. The only cure for fear is massive action. The only
for fear is massive action. The only cure for fear. As long as you think
cure for fear. As long as you think about it, you're going to be scared. So
about it, you're going to be scared. So when I'm afraid, I just step into it.
when I'm afraid, I just step into it. And I discover 90% of the time it's not
And I discover 90% of the time it's not as intense as I think it's going to be.
as intense as I think it's going to be. And more importantly, when I'm taking
And more importantly, when I'm taking action, the fears tends to move aside.
action, the fears tends to move aside. It's more courage. And courage, by the
It's more courage. And courage, by the way, write down courage is a habit. It's
way, write down courage is a habit. It's like a muscle. The more you use it, the
like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it gets. So if you're not very
stronger it gets. So if you're not very courageous, doesn't matter. Make
courageous, doesn't matter. Make yourself do it. But so is that it? Or if
yourself do it. But so is that it? Or if it's not that, is it a limiting belief
it's not that, is it a limiting belief that's getting in the way? The one of
that's getting in the way? The one of the most important things we do unleash
the most important things we do unleash the power within is we have you uncover
the power within is we have you uncover at least three of the most limiting
at least three of the most limiting beliefs in your life. I'm not enough.
beliefs in your life. I'm not enough. Right? This has occurred. I can't do it.
Right? This has occurred. I can't do it. I've never made them whatever it is. And
I've never made them whatever it is. And we don't just intellectually deal with
we don't just intellectually deal with them. I don't know if you remember, I
them. I don't know if you remember, I think it was Kate on the first day with
think it was Kate on the first day with the red glasses talking about how she
the red glasses talking about how she completely changed their life. It was
completely changed their life. It was through this process of destroying the
through this process of destroying the old belief that she had, which is I got
old belief that she had, which is I got to please everybody or I'm not enough.
to please everybody or I'm not enough. But the way we did it was not
But the way we did it was not intellectual. We didn't just write it
intellectual. We didn't just write it down. It's about a three-hour process
down. It's about a three-hour process because you got to get it out of your
because you got to get it out of your body. You got to get that out and then
body. You got to get that out and then we got to replace it with a new belief.
we got to replace it with a new belief. So beliefs control and beliefs create.
So beliefs control and beliefs create. How many have had some beliefs in the
How many have had some beliefs in the past that you've known better? Man, how
past that you've known better? Man, how many even have a belief today that you
many even have a belief today that you may intellectually know better, but it
may intellectually know better, but it still gets in your way at times in your
still gets in your way at times in your relationship or your business, your
relationship or your business, your finance.
finance. There is no progress. You're going to be
There is no progress. You're going to be stopped with your having a goal or
stopped with your having a goal or desire. You're not going to continue on
desire. You're not going to continue on the path unless you face the truth and
the path unless you face the truth and you get this process right now clear so
you get this process right now clear so that we can face it and deal with it.
that we can face it and deal with it. Does that make sense? Putting it aside
Does that make sense? Putting it aside or pretending it's not there won't do
or pretending it's not there won't do it. Or maybe the third thing that often
it. Or maybe the third thing that often is there is maybe it's a disruptive
is there is maybe it's a disruptive emotion other than fear. It could be
emotion other than fear. It could be feeling lonely. It could be feeling sad.
feeling lonely. It could be feeling sad. It could be feeling overwhelmed.
It could be feeling overwhelmed. Allowing yourself feel stressed. And
Allowing yourself feel stressed. And that's why we train you to change your
that's why we train you to change your emotions. So you do it. you as quick as
emotions. So you do it. you as quick as most of you are doing warrior. We can do
most of you are doing warrior. We can do that with any emotion once you learn
that with any emotion once you learn how. But we got to get where you're not
how. But we got to get where you're not remembering it again. You just do it.
remembering it again. You just do it. And then the third one, fourth one I
And then the third one, fourth one I should say, is it a habit that gets in
should say, is it a habit that gets in the way? You say, you know, you're going
the way? You say, you know, you're going to lose 20 pounds and you start every
to lose 20 pounds and you start every day by going to Starbucks and having a
day by going to Starbucks and having a mocha smoke of whatever that's it is. Of
mocha smoke of whatever that's it is. Of course, you're not going to lose the
course, you're not going to lose the weight. Your habit is in the way. You
weight. Your habit is in the way. You have a great desire, but you got a
have a great desire, but you got a terrible habit. What habit do you got to
terrible habit. What habit do you got to change? Or the fifth one very often is
change? Or the fifth one very often is you're missing a skill or a set of
you're missing a skill or a set of skills. I like for example, how many of
skills. I like for example, how many of you own your own business out there?
you own your own business out there? Make some noise. You own your own
Make some noise. You own your own business.
business. How many of you own your own business?
How many of you own your own business? Have lots of free time.
Well, let me tell you, how many have a little bit of stress when you're not
little bit of stress when you're not with your business, not in your
with your business, not in your business? And for a lot of people, their
business? And for a lot of people, their business is like an extension of their
business is like an extension of their identity. It's like their kid. It's like
identity. It's like their kid. It's like a part of their life. It's their
a part of their life. It's their well-being. It's who they are. Well,
well-being. It's who they are. Well, most people fail in business, right?
most people fail in business, right? Most of you know 50% of businesses are
Most of you know 50% of businesses are gone in a year. 80% are gone in 10 years
gone in a year. 80% are gone in 10 years and five years. 96% are gone in 10
and five years. 96% are gone in 10 years. 4% make it. Make it doesn't even
years. 4% make it. Make it doesn't even mean they're profitable. And that's
mean they're profitable. And that's because you're what I call an operator.
because you're what I call an operator. Operators are always stressed. You're
Operators are always stressed. You're not an owner. An owner is someone has
not an owner. An owner is someone has the skill. Like, I'm here with you right
the skill. Like, I'm here with you right now. I've been with you day and night.
now. I've been with you day and night. And I got 121 companies and we're doing
And I got 121 companies and we're doing 12 billion in sales. I'm not telling you
12 billion in sales. I'm not telling you that to impress you. I'm telling you
that to impress you. I'm telling you because it impresses me to me, right? I
because it impresses me to me, right? I get to be with my daughter here. I get
get to be with my daughter here. I get to be with you. I get to do all these
to be with you. I get to do all these other things because I learned how to
other things because I learned how to become an owner, which was skills,
become an owner, which was skills, different skills than an operator who's
different skills than an operator who's doing everything himself all the time. I
doing everything himself all the time. I couldn't even operate a business that
couldn't even operate a business that did less than half a million dollars and
did less than half a million dollars and I was burnt out. Now I'm doing all this
I was burnt out. Now I'm doing all this and I'm fresh as I could possibly be.
and I'm fresh as I could possibly be. So, this is a skill you got to get. It
So, this is a skill you got to get. It might be the skill of decision- making,
might be the skill of decision- making, right? It's a skill. It might be the
right? It's a skill. It might be the skill of how to do something within your
skill of how to do something within your personal life. But if you don't get the
personal life. But if you don't get the skill, you can have this dream all day
skill, you can have this dream all day long desire. You're bullshitting
long desire. You're bullshitting yourself. There's no progress. Who
yourself. There's no progress. Who understand? Who agrees with me on this?
understand? Who agrees with me on this? By the way, make some noise. You agree
By the way, make some noise. You agree with me.
with me. Which means you need to invest in
Which means you need to invest in yourself. Whatever's going to get you
yourself. Whatever's going to get you through the fear, whatever's going to
through the fear, whatever's going to get you shift the emotion, whatever's
get you shift the emotion, whatever's going to change the belief, whatever
going to change the belief, whatever skill you need, you got to go get it.
skill you need, you got to go get it. These days, learning AI is a pretty
These days, learning AI is a pretty critical skill. And a lot of people
critical skill. And a lot of people overwhelmed by it. By the way, we we
overwhelmed by it. By the way, we we trained in that also. I have a training
trained in that also. I have a training on that as well. But you don't need to
on that as well. But you don't need to come to us. Lots of people do it. But
come to us. Lots of people do it. But boy, maybe that's something you need,
boy, maybe that's something you need, but you need to invest in yourself
but you need to invest in yourself because if you don't, life's going to
because if you don't, life's going to come get you. But if you got a standard
come get you. But if you got a standard education, you're going to have a
education, you're going to have a standard life. And most people's
standard life. And most people's standard life is not a happy, fulfilled
standard life is not a happy, fulfilled one. Are most people, you tell me. Show
one. Are most people, you tell me. Show of hands. Are most people really
of hands. Are most people really physically fit and strong? This means
physically fit and strong? This means yes. This means no. Which one? Yes or
yes. This means no. Which one? Yes or no? No. Are most people in a
no? No. Are most people in a relationship where they're totally
relationship where they're totally passionate in love? Listen to this. No.
passionate in love? Listen to this. No. Okay. Are most people in a position
Okay. Are most people in a position where they're earning what they really
where they're earning what they really want to earn?
want to earn? Are are most people really the happiest
Are are most people really the happiest that they think they can be?
that they think they can be? You go, Tony. This is depressing stuff,
You go, Tony. This is depressing stuff, right? No. I'm telling you this because
right? No. I'm telling you this because I want you to know I'm not an idiot. I
I want you to know I'm not an idiot. I know most people aren't, but I'm not
know most people aren't, but I'm not interested in that. I'm interested in
interested in that. I'm interested in helping those people. But I'm first
helping those people. But I'm first interested in who's having those
interested in who's having those experiences. Who is fit and strong that
experiences. Who is fit and strong that used to be 30 or 40 pounds overweight
used to be 30 or 40 pounds overweight like I was and kept it off for 20 years.
like I was and kept it off for 20 years. Who's been in a relationship 20, 30
Who's been in a relationship 20, 30 years and they're still passionate for
years and they're still passionate for each other. They're not like barely know
each other. They're not like barely know each other living different lives. Who
each other living different lives. Who is really in this incredibly happy
is really in this incredibly happy state? Who started with nothing has
state? Who started with nothing has become financially free because they're
become financially free because they're not lucky. Success leaves clues. We can
not lucky. Success leaves clues. We can study what they do, but we got to get
study what they do, but we got to get those skills. We got to get those tools.
those skills. We got to get those tools. And if you don't invest in yourself,
And if you don't invest in yourself, you'll never see them. It's the most
you'll never see them. It's the most important investment. So figure out
important investment. So figure out right now. I want you to write down what
right now. I want you to write down what has gotten in the way in the past of
has gotten in the way in the past of this goal, this dream, this thing you
this goal, this dream, this thing you wrote down of the five things we just
wrote down of the five things we just did. We'll throw them back on the screen
did. We'll throw them back on the screen so you see them. What's the truth you
so you see them. What's the truth you need to deal with? What has been gotten
need to deal with? What has been gotten in the way? What's been in the gap? Is
in the way? What's been in the gap? Is it a fear? And if so, what was it? Is it
it a fear? And if so, what was it? Is it a limiting belief? I've tried
a limiting belief? I've tried everything. I did this, it didn't work.
everything. I did this, it didn't work. What's that belief? Is it some other
What's that belief? Is it some other emotion? Is it feeling just depressed or
emotion? Is it feeling just depressed or sad or stressed out or overwhelmed?
sad or stressed out or overwhelmed? Is it a habit? What's the habit that
Is it a habit? What's the habit that gets in the way of you having what you
gets in the way of you having what you really want and joy or happiness or
really want and joy or happiness or love? Is it the habit of giving up when
love? Is it the habit of giving up when you have a relationship argument and you
you have a relationship argument and you don't know what to do? Is it giving up
don't know what to do? Is it giving up on even finding love in your life? Is
on even finding love in your life? Is there a skill? Maybe you need to learn
there a skill? Maybe you need to learn how to connect with people again. Maybe
how to connect with people again. Maybe you need to learn how to expand your
you need to learn how to expand your relationship. That's a skill you can
relationship. That's a skill you can get. You get in books. You get in
get. You get in books. You get in videos. You can get in classes. You get
videos. You can get in classes. You get it anywhere. But if you don't pursue it,
it anywhere. But if you don't pursue it, great ideas are never going to interrupt
great ideas are never going to interrupt you. They have to be pursued. And if you
you. They have to be pursued. And if you pursue them like I've done for a
pursue them like I've done for a lifetime, you're going to have an
lifetime, you're going to have an extraordinary life. But you will have
extraordinary life. But you will have nothing. If you just dream about things,
nothing. If you just dream about things, even with lots of reasons, that's how
even with lots of reasons, that's how you start the path. But if you're going
you start the path. But if you're going to continue, you have to find and face
to continue, you have to find and face the truth. So jot down right now what
the truth. So jot down right now what has gotten in the way so that we can
has gotten in the way so that we can handle it. 20 seconds. You don't need so
handle it. 20 seconds. You don't need so much time for this one. It's pretty
much time for this one. It's pretty obvious.
Some of you putting in the chat, if you want, put in the chat, fear of
want, put in the chat, fear of rejection,
rejection, right? What is it that's got in the way?
right? What is it that's got in the way? Lack of knowledge,
Lack of knowledge, fear of failure,
fear of failure, thinking I'm being beat up by life, a
thinking I'm being beat up by life, a bad story, ego,
bad story, ego, limiting beliefs.
limiting beliefs. I thought it was money. Money isn't it,
I thought it was money. Money isn't it, guys. You can get the money if you've
guys. You can get the money if you've got the right plan. It's not a money
got the right plan. It's not a money issue. That's a That's a belief issue.
issue. That's a That's a belief issue. That's an emotion issue. Losing my
That's an emotion issue. Losing my focus, some bad habits,
focus, some bad habits, failure,
failure, stacking my failures, communication
stacking my failures, communication skills I'm missing. Okay. So, now, how
skills I'm missing. Okay. So, now, how many know what's gotten in the way? How
many know what's gotten in the way? How many are honest with yourself? Make some
many are honest with yourself? Make some noise.
noise. If we know what's gotten in the way, we
If we know what's gotten in the way, we can deal with it. But let me show you an
can deal with it. But let me show you an example of someone who's done this. Just
example of someone who's done this. Just a little three minute video. Take a
a little three minute video. Take a look.
>> I remember having this thought of, oh, so this is what it means when someone
so this is what it means when someone says their world falls apart.
says their world falls apart. It started off basically with finding
It started off basically with finding out that my mom had terminal cancer and
out that my mom had terminal cancer and uh my then husband and I were just
uh my then husband and I were just having a really difficult time in our
having a really difficult time in our marriage. He decided to break up with me
marriage. He decided to break up with me over a text on the morning that I had a
over a text on the morning that I had a miscarriage.
miscarriage. The dominant story that I kept telling
The dominant story that I kept telling myself at that time was I can't start
myself at that time was I can't start over at this age. I'm never going to be
over at this age. I'm never going to be able to support myself. No one's ever
able to support myself. No one's ever going to want me. I couldn't see my my
going to want me. I couldn't see my my identity. I felt like I lost myself.
identity. I felt like I lost myself. What changed everything was being
What changed everything was being introduced to Tony's work. I had a
introduced to Tony's work. I had a neighbor who I'd become very friendly
neighbor who I'd become very friendly with who happened to be a coach. And
with who happened to be a coach. And she's like, "Do you ever listen to Tony
she's like, "Do you ever listen to Tony Robbins?" She sent me two interventions.
Robbins?" She sent me two interventions. I watched them.
I watched them. I felt something that I had not felt in
I felt something that I had not felt in so long, which was inspired. My brain
so long, which was inspired. My brain like lit up. That was like the moment of
like lit up. That was like the moment of the fork in the road. I went to my first
the fork in the road. I went to my first Unleash the Power Within. UPW is the
Unleash the Power Within. UPW is the most emotionally cleansing experience
most emotionally cleansing experience you will ever have. And one part of UPW
you will ever have. And one part of UPW was something called the Dickens process
was something called the Dickens process where you kind of imagine yourself 5
where you kind of imagine yourself 5 years into the future, 10 years into the
years into the future, 10 years into the future, 20 years into the future, and
future, 20 years into the future, and you're imagining what your life would be
you're imagining what your life would be if you make no changes, if you don't
if you make no changes, if you don't change, and then you imagine what your
change, and then you imagine what your future could be if you were to make
future could be if you were to make these changes to the way that you think.
these changes to the way that you think. That was very profound cuz I'd never
That was very profound cuz I'd never I've never done anything like that
I've never done anything like that before, ever in my life. Some of my
before, ever in my life. Some of my limiting beliefs were focused around my
limiting beliefs were focused around my marriage, which was
marriage, which was I'm not good enough or I'm not good
I'm not good enough or I'm not good enough for him to stay. My identity was
enough for him to stay. My identity was wrapped up in being his wife and being a
wrapped up in being his wife and being a yoga teacher. But there was another part
yoga teacher. But there was another part of me that wanted more, especially when
of me that wanted more, especially when it came to career. There was no vision.
it came to career. There was no vision. It was like I was in a tunnel in the
It was like I was in a tunnel in the middle of winter during a snowstorm.
middle of winter during a snowstorm. So I became obsessed with two things.
So I became obsessed with two things. When I started to really spread this I
When I started to really spread this I started doing like free workshops and
started doing like free workshops and you know I was going to Tony's events
you know I was going to Tony's events and I was coming and I was integrating
and I was coming and I was integrating it into my own experience and my own
it into my own experience and my own understanding and then I would teach it
understanding and then I would teach it and it was like wow life is really
and it was like wow life is really starting to get better. This is when the
starting to get better. This is when the pages started to turn and the the
pages started to turn and the the writing on the pages started to change
writing on the pages started to change into a different story.
into a different story. >> Jillian Touki.
>> Jillian Touki. >> Jillian Trekki.
>> Jillian Trekki. >> Jillian has helped thousands over the
>> Jillian has helped thousands over the last 20 years through her teachings,
last 20 years through her teachings, courses, and writing.
courses, and writing. >> Jillian is one of the world's leading
>> Jillian is one of the world's leading relationship experts.
relationship experts. >> Jillian Turki.
>> Jillian Turki. >> Well, um, I guess you could say I'm a
>> Well, um, I guess you could say I'm a relationship expert, relationship coach.
relationship expert, relationship coach. I wrote a New York Times bestseller. And
I wrote a New York Times bestseller. And when I even utter those words, I I get
when I even utter those words, I I get emotional. This book is literally the
emotional. This book is literally the the direct result of my experience and
the direct result of my experience and my experience learning all of this from
my experience learning all of this from Tony. I have my own podcast um that is a
Tony. I have my own podcast um that is a top podcast in the relationships and
top podcast in the relationships and personal development space. I have
personal development space. I have courses. I have a membership for women
courses. I have a membership for women cuz I'm very passionate about helping
cuz I'm very passionate about helping women step into their own power. I have
women step into their own power. I have close to 5 million followers across
close to 5 million followers across social media. Like I just
social media. Like I just who am I? I don't know. Yeah. Life right
who am I? I don't know. Yeah. Life right now is about taking things actually to
now is about taking things actually to the next level cuz so much that got me
the next level cuz so much that got me here was like was from this story that I
here was like was from this story that I had and now it's like okay so what's the
had and now it's like okay so what's the next chapter going to be? on the most
next chapter going to be? on the most satisfying part of this new chapter of
satisfying part of this new chapter of my life has been helping others. We are
my life has been helping others. We are truly the creators of our own reality
truly the creators of our own reality and destiny.
and destiny. >> Give it up for Jillian. She's here
>> Give it up for Jillian. She's here watching. Give it up for her, ladies and
watching. Give it up for her, ladies and gentlemen. Nice to see you, Jillian.
Jillian, you're beautiful. Thanks for paying it forward and helping so many
paying it forward and helping so many people. Give it up for her. Let her hear
people. Give it up for her. Let her hear you. Everybody.
Yes. Jillian didn't get there by just desire. She had to face the truth of
desire. She had to face the truth of what was holding her back. She had to be
what was holding her back. She had to be crystal clear. She had to get rid of
crystal clear. She had to get rid of those limiting beliefs, those limiting
those limiting beliefs, those limiting emotions. But when you do, you can go to
emotions. But when you do, you can go to the next step on the path. So, let's
the next step on the path. So, let's follow it. We go figure out what we
follow it. We go figure out what we really want. We get enough reasons. We
really want. We get enough reasons. We find the truth and we face it. Now, we
find the truth and we face it. Now, we got to create a map. A map means a
got to create a map. A map means a massive action plan. And all that means
massive action plan. And all that means is finding two or three things you're
is finding two or three things you're going to do immediately. People think,
going to do immediately. People think, well, I got to think this through. Like,
well, I got to think this through. Like, somebody wants to get a trainer, like,
somebody wants to get a trainer, like, you know, they got to lose weight. They
you know, they got to lose weight. They go, I got to find a trainer and I got to
go, I got to find a trainer and I got to join the club and and you know, they
join the club and and you know, they come up with a million things they got
come up with a million things they got to do instead of just taking some
to do instead of just taking some action. Most business successes for
action. Most business successes for example what you see in AI or what you
example what you see in AI or what you see let's say in in Silicon Valley they
see let's say in in Silicon Valley they have something called iteration. You
have something called iteration. You take action and you learn and you change
take action and you learn and you change and you learn and you change and that's
and you learn and you change and that's how we succeed while you're busy trying
how we succeed while you're busy trying to come up with this complex plan.
to come up with this complex plan. There's no replacement for massive
There's no replacement for massive action. Write it down. Massive action is
action. Write it down. Massive action is the cure all. Write it down. Massive
the cure all. Write it down. Massive action. You could do something right now
action. You could do something right now today. So, I want you to write down to
today. So, I want you to write down to get to what you really want to conquer
get to what you really want to conquer what's been in the way of you, whatever
what's been in the way of you, whatever your truth you need to face. What are
your truth you need to face. What are two or three things you could do? What
two or three things you could do? What are two or three actions you could take
are two or three actions you could take right now? What's a decision you can
right now? What's a decision you can make right now? I'm going to give you
make right now? I'm going to give you just one minute. Decide. By the way,
just one minute. Decide. By the way, before you decide, make the sound of
before you decide, make the sound of your warrior so you're in that state.
your warrior so you're in that state. Ladies and gentlemen, come on. Make the
Ladies and gentlemen, come on. Make the sound of your warrior. Come on.
sound of your warrior. Come on. Make the sound of your magician,
Make the sound of your magician, your lover.
your lover. You're sovereign.
You're sovereign. All right. From that place, make a
All right. From that place, make a decision. What are two things you're
decision. What are two things you're going to do right away to make progress?
going to do right away to make progress? What are you going to do right away?
What are you going to do right away? What's a little thing you could do today
What's a little thing you could do today at the end of this class? Who's someone
at the end of this class? Who's someone you could call? What's something you can
you could call? What's something you can enroll in? Who could you sit down with?
enroll in? Who could you sit down with? Who could you coach? Who could you get
Who could you coach? Who could you get mentored by? What could you just make a
mentored by? What could you just make a decision say no more about? What's a
decision say no more about? What's a little thing you could do right now? And
little thing you could do right now? And then what's a big thing that if you did
then what's a big thing that if you did it right now, you'd you'd not like be on
it right now, you'd you'd not like be on the path, you'd keep on the path. You'd
the path, you'd keep on the path. You'd condition it. You'd move yourself
condition it. You'd move yourself forward. You wouldn't let this just be a
forward. You wouldn't let this just be a couple days of great things just to
couple days of great things just to become the launch pad for even more.
become the launch pad for even more. Write them down real fast. Two actions
Write them down real fast. Two actions you could take. One that's easy, one
you could take. One that's easy, one that be a little bit harder, but if you
that be a little bit harder, but if you made yourself do it, you know you go to
made yourself do it, you know you go to the next level. Just 20 seconds. Jot it
the next level. Just 20 seconds. Jot it down real fast.
down real fast. Here we go.
What's a little action that could change everything? What's a big action? What's
everything? What's a big action? What's an action that would commit you to
an action that would commit you to follow through?
follow through? All right.
All right. How would you feel if you started taking
How would you feel if you started taking action? Would you feel like you're more
action? Would you feel like you're more on the path than just thinking about it
on the path than just thinking about it or just knowing what stopped you? Of
or just knowing what stopped you? Of course you will. You'll start to get
course you will. You'll start to get momentum with this step.
momentum with this step. You don't have to have to be perfect.
You don't have to have to be perfect. There's something that moves you forward
There's something that moves you forward right now. Something's going to put you
right now. Something's going to put you in the environment of getting better.
Give me a thumbs up if you're on Facebook or excuse me if you're on
Facebook or excuse me if you're on YouTube and you've got two actions. If
YouTube and you've got two actions. If you're here, make some noise. Let's see
you're here, make some noise. Let's see see if you got two decisions, two
see if you got two decisions, two actions here.
actions here. All right. So, let's continue the
All right. So, let's continue the journey. Now this these three of and
journey. Now this these three of and fourth one is the hardest step. The
fourth one is the hardest step. The first four once you do that it's easy.
first four once you do that it's easy. Last three I'll tell you in two seconds.
Last three I'll tell you in two seconds. So what is step one? We get clear what
So what is step one? We get clear what we really want and we awaken our desire
we really want and we awaken our desire and we come up with reasons why it's a
and we come up with reasons why it's a must why we're going to do it. Step two,
must why we're going to do it. Step two, we don't BS oursel. We tell oursel the
we don't BS oursel. We tell oursel the truth. We find and face the truth. What
truth. We find and face the truth. What of these five got in the way? And now
of these five got in the way? And now what's my map? What am I going to do to
what's my map? What am I going to do to solve it? What's a little thing? What's
solve it? What's a little thing? What's a big thing? And the minute you take
a big thing? And the minute you take action, how many know it'll you'll feel
action, how many know it'll you'll feel momentum once you start taking action
momentum once you start taking action here, right? By the way, the hardest
here, right? By the way, the hardest thing in the world is momentum. But the
thing in the world is momentum. But the only way you get momentum is action. But
only way you get momentum is action. But you can't have momentum if you don't
you can't have momentum if you don't know what's getting in the way. You know
know what's getting in the way. You know what's getting the way? Now you take
what's getting the way? Now you take action. Finally, step four. And step
action. Finally, step four. And step four, as you see, as the road goes up,
four, as you see, as the road goes up, now you got to do what's hard. You got
now you got to do what's hard. You got to do whatever you're putting off that's
to do whatever you're putting off that's hard. You need to slay your dragons.
hard. You need to slay your dragons. This is where you're going to become the
This is where you're going to become the hero of your life. You got to You've now
hero of your life. You got to You've now faced the truth. You got a map, but now
faced the truth. You got a map, but now do what's hard. Change what has to be
do what's hard. Change what has to be changed, right? Get the skills. Go out
changed, right? Get the skills. Go out and get those skills now. Go sign up for
and get those skills now. Go sign up for the class. Go enroll yourself in the
the class. Go enroll yourself in the piece. Take massive action. And maybe
piece. Take massive action. And maybe you need to transform your part of that.
you need to transform your part of that. Facing the dragon is changing your story
Facing the dragon is changing your story from the old story of what your life is
from the old story of what your life is to the new story of what who you really
to the new story of what who you really are today. Your old identity, the new
are today. Your old identity, the new identity, right? That piece of slaying
identity, right? That piece of slaying the dragons is the piece that very few
the dragons is the piece that very few people do. And so again, they stay they
people do. And so again, they stay they never get to where they want to go. They
never get to where they want to go. They stop somewhere along the way. And when
stop somewhere along the way. And when you stop along the way, you lose
you stop along the way, you lose momentum. It gets hard and life feels
momentum. It gets hard and life feels hard. That's when you start to feel
hard. That's when you start to feel stressed because you know you're not
stressed because you know you're not growing. Progress equals happiness. You
growing. Progress equals happiness. You make progress. And by the way, when you
make progress. And by the way, when you slay the hardest thing, I was
slay the hardest thing, I was interviewing a guy from my business
interviewing a guy from my business mastery program the other day who
mastery program the other day who created the Spartan races and they're
created the Spartan races and they're incredibly hard and difficult. And he
incredibly hard and difficult. And he originally did this one was called the
originally did this one was called the death race. Only eight people signed up.
death race. Only eight people signed up. you had a sign of things saying you
you had a sign of things saying you could die on this thing and he just
could die on this thing and he just pushed people through it. But what
pushed people through it. But what happened was when people he says he
happened was when people he says he starts his morning with a hundred
starts his morning with a hundred burpees and he told me the reason is
burpees and he told me the reason is after that everything in the day is
after that everything in the day is easy. He does this piece. So it's like
easy. He does this piece. So it's like if you'll do I start my day I most of
if you'll do I start my day I most of you know if you know my routine I get up
you know if you know my routine I get up in the morning and the first thing I do
in the morning and the first thing I do is jump in that freezing water a you
is jump in that freezing water a you know 56 52 degrees if I'm in my home in
know 56 52 degrees if I'm in my home in Sun Valley it's the river and during the
Sun Valley it's the river and during the winter I'll go through the snow and get
winter I'll go through the snow and get there it's about 45 degrees. I don't do
there it's about 45 degrees. I don't do it because I look forward to it. There's
it because I look forward to it. There's never a day I say I can't wait to jump
never a day I say I can't wait to jump in the cold water. I do it because
in the cold water. I do it because there's a radical change in my body but
there's a radical change in my body but also a change in my mind. I do what's
also a change in my mind. I do what's hard first and when I I don't negotiate.
hard first and when I I don't negotiate. They don't go, "Well, let me get warm
They don't go, "Well, let me get warm first. Let me see if I'm ready." I've
first. Let me see if I'm ready." I've trained my brain to say, "When I go, we
trained my brain to say, "When I go, we go." And when you do the hardest thing,
go." And when you do the hardest thing, it feels so good. Like 2 minutes later,
it feels so good. Like 2 minutes later, you feel incredible. But if you know,
you feel incredible. But if you know, now I've been doing this for 18 years.
now I've been doing this for 18 years. It's now become popular the last five or
It's now become popular the last five or 10 years for people to do this stuff.
10 years for people to do this stuff. But do something. It's hard. Or I go
But do something. It's hard. Or I go lift or I go run. I do the I acknowledge
lift or I go run. I do the I acknowledge people in my life because that's an
people in my life because that's an important piece for me in the day. I'd
important piece for me in the day. I'd call somebody, leave a text, do
call somebody, leave a text, do something that's warm and loving because
something that's warm and loving because I just want to do that. I want to give a
I just want to do that. I want to give a gift to somebody. and then I do the
gift to somebody. and then I do the hardest thing first. And what that does
hardest thing first. And what that does is it gives you momentum and you crush
is it gives you momentum and you crush your days. But in your life on this
your days. But in your life on this area, do what's hard. Write down what's
area, do what's hard. Write down what's hard that you need to solve. What's hard
hard that you need to solve. What's hard that you're going to face? What are you
that you're going to face? What are you going to do so you don't BS yourself and
going to do so you don't BS yourself and just say, "I want this," but you
just say, "I want this," but you actually create it. I'm going to give
actually create it. I'm going to give you less than 20 seconds. You know what?
you less than 20 seconds. You know what? What's the hard thing? What's the dragon
What's the hard thing? What's the dragon you're going to slay? What's the thing
you're going to slay? What's the thing you're going to push through? What
you're going to push through? What limiting belief? What limiting emotion?
limiting belief? What limiting emotion? What limiting habit?
What limiting habit? What skill are you gonna go get now?
What skill are you gonna go get now? Even if it's not easy, I'm gonna go get
Even if it's not easy, I'm gonna go get it. I'm gonna find it. I'm gonna make it
it. I'm gonna find it. I'm gonna make it happen.
happen. When you got that and you act on that,
When you got that and you act on that, you're going to have so much momentum.
you're going to have so much momentum. You're going to make the whole thing
You're going to make the whole thing work.
That's right. Do what's hard. Slay the dragon. That's when you become the hero.
dragon. That's when you become the hero. And the bigger the dragon, the bigger
And the bigger the dragon, the bigger the problem that you solve, the more you
the problem that you solve, the more you become as a man or a woman, the more
become as a man or a woman, the more proud you'll be of yourself.
proud you'll be of yourself. What needs to be solved? What do you
What needs to be solved? What do you need to push through?
If you know what it is, put your thumb up there. If you're on YouTube, raise
up there. If you're on YouTube, raise your hand here. Make some noise if
your hand here. Make some noise if you're out there in Zoom land here with
you're out there in Zoom land here with me, ladies and gentlemen.
me, ladies and gentlemen. Awesome. Awesome. So, let me show you.
Awesome. Awesome. So, let me show you. Let me show you an ultimate one because
Let me show you an ultimate one because if you think, "Oh, my problem is so big.
if you think, "Oh, my problem is so big. My problem is too big. I can't." You
My problem is too big. I can't." You don't know what I'm going through, Tony.
don't know what I'm going through, Tony. Excuse my French. I don't know
Excuse my French. I don't know if is French, but you get the idea,
if is French, but you get the idea, right?
right? I met every person. I've been through
I met every person. I've been through things most people never been through,
things most people never been through, and I've met every person's ever done.
and I've met every person's ever done. Let me show you one story that might
Let me show you one story that might inspire you just for three minutes. Take
inspire you just for three minutes. Take a look at my friend Jeff.
>> Hi, Tony. If you will allow me, I feel compelled to tell you why you are a
compelled to tell you why you are a personal hero of mine.
I was just 21 years of age when I got ALS. I was a junior at the University of
ALS. I was a junior at the University of Oregon and a fledgling guitarist. My
Oregon and a fledgling guitarist. My plan was to be a millionaire chick
plan was to be a millionaire chick magnet living my fantasy of playing to
magnet living my fantasy of playing to pack stadiums by my mid20s.
pack stadiums by my mid20s. Instead, at 28, I was broke and moving
Instead, at 28, I was broke and moving back into my parents house with my
back into my parents house with my 13-month-old daughter because my wife
13-month-old daughter because my wife had run off with another man.
had run off with another man. My spirit was broken and my body
My spirit was broken and my body decaying. I don't think I could have
decaying. I don't think I could have gotten any lower.
gotten any lower. I was mesmerized by your infomercial for
I was mesmerized by your infomercial for Personal Power and acquired the program
Personal Power and acquired the program on cassette.
on cassette. Tony, that saved me.
Tony, that saved me. This turned my life around. There were
This turned my life around. There were many impactful parts of the program, but
many impactful parts of the program, but the most powerful for me was the concept
the most powerful for me was the concept of proactively choosing to associate
of proactively choosing to associate pleasure or pain with something. That
pleasure or pain with something. That completely changed how I looked at
completely changed how I looked at everything negative staring me in the
everything negative staring me in the face. In 1990, all I wanted to do was
face. In 1990, all I wanted to do was die. Since then, I have raised my
die. Since then, I have raised my daughter as a single father from a
daughter as a single father from a wheelchair. Now, she is preparing to
wheelchair. Now, she is preparing to direct her first feature film. I have
direct her first feature film. I have heard words of gratitude from people all
heard words of gratitude from people all over the globe for my inspirational
over the globe for my inspirational writings. I have lived out my dream of
writings. I have lived out my dream of coaching football now for 21 years,
coaching football now for 21 years, including winning two state
including winning two state championships
championships and mentoring dozens of amazing kids
and mentoring dozens of amazing kids from all backgrounds.
from all backgrounds. Hey Jeff, it's Tony Robbins. Listen, I
Hey Jeff, it's Tony Robbins. Listen, I just want to reach out and wish you a
just want to reach out and wish you a happy birthday. I hear it's number 61
happy birthday. I hear it's number 61 for you. Mine's coming in a couple weeks
for you. Mine's coming in a couple weeks and I'll be 65 myself. But brother, I'm
and I'll be 65 myself. But brother, I'm so proud hearing of the incredible
so proud hearing of the incredible things you've done with your life in
things you've done with your life in spite of all the things you've had
spite of all the things you've had conquer and challenged and pushed
conquer and challenged and pushed through. Sending you lots of love. I
through. Sending you lots of love. I know you've been to some of my events,
know you've been to some of my events, but if you ever want to come in person
but if you ever want to come in person as my guest and we'll make it happen,
as my guest and we'll make it happen, okay? Love to you, buddy. Happy
okay? Love to you, buddy. Happy birthday.
birthday. Whoa.
>> And then I was invited to UPW in Anaheim.
Anaheim. Tony's Dickens process is a
Tony's Dickens process is a visualization exercise. You look at your
visualization exercise. You look at your past, your present, and your future. You
past, your present, and your future. You feel what happens if you don't change,
feel what happens if you don't change, and you feel what's possible if you do.
and you feel what's possible if you do. The Dickens process hit me hard. It made
The Dickens process hit me hard. It made me realize how precious time really is.
me realize how precious time really is. It made me realize the importance of
It made me realize the importance of sharing my message with as many people
sharing my message with as many people as possible.
I took what I learned at UPW and brought it back to my team.
it back to my team. We worked through their fears and
We worked through their fears and anxiety. I helped my quarterback let go
anxiety. I helped my quarterback let go and remember why he loved the game. The
and remember why he loved the game. The team didn't just change. They won the
team didn't just change. They won the state championship and I saw what's
state championship and I saw what's possible when people believe in
possible when people believe in themselves again.
themselves again. Now, I have partnered up with Live Heads
Now, I have partnered up with Live Heads Up to continue to inspire and mentor our
Up to continue to inspire and mentor our current youth and future leaders. To
current youth and future leaders. To borrow a phrase from you, I don't tell
borrow a phrase from you, I don't tell you this to impress you. I tell you this
you this to impress you. I tell you this to impress upon you the incredible
to impress upon you the incredible impact you have had on my life and the
impact you have had on my life and the lives of everyone I have touched. I am
lives of everyone I have touched. I am just one drop of water in the pond of
just one drop of water in the pond of lives that you have affected. I'm not
lives that you have affected. I'm not sure that this incarnation of Jeff would
sure that this incarnation of Jeff would even exist if not for Tony Robbins.
even exist if not for Tony Robbins. Thank you.
Thank you. >> Will you give a hand for my hero, Jeff
>> Will you give a hand for my hero, Jeff Young, who's right here with us today?
Young, who's right here with us today? >> Life is a gift and every day I choose to
>> Life is a gift and every day I choose to live it fully.
live it fully. >> Live the unlimited life you have and
>> Live the unlimited life you have and don't let anything life's given you stop
don't let anything life's given you stop you. If you had a different belief, he
you. If you had a different belief, he wouldn't have had this life. He did it,
wouldn't have had this life. He did it, not me. We're grateful for you to be
not me. We're grateful for you to be here and for your example. Give him a
here and for your example. Give him a hand, ladies and gentlemen. Me like
hand, ladies and gentlemen. Me like Jeff.
And Jeff is here viewing. Give it up for Jeff. There he is.
Jeff. There he is. >> Love you, brother.
Oh, let him hear you wherever you are in the world. If he inspires you, let him
the world. If he inspires you, let him hear you.
hear you. Love you, brother.
Yes. >> So, uh, if you think you got a dragon to
>> So, uh, if you think you got a dragon to slay, I I don't think so.
slay, I I don't think so. Imagine being left by your wife at that
Imagine being left by your wife at that stage and then having this happen, still
stage and then having this happen, still find a way to raise your children,
find a way to raise your children, inspire people all around the world. He
inspire people all around the world. He wasn't supposed to live another five
wasn't supposed to live another five years. You know, he's 61, about to be 62
years. You know, he's 61, about to be 62 years old, and he's still inspiring
years old, and he's still inspiring people in that championship they just
people in that championship they just won last year. He came back to learning
won last year. He came back to learning the Dickens process, turned his
the Dickens process, turned his quarterback around, and they won the
quarterback around, and they won the championship. It's like anything's
championship. It's like anything's possible if you get on the path and you
possible if you get on the path and you actually do what's necessary and you
actually do what's necessary and you slay your dragons, my friends. And we
slay your dragons, my friends. And we all are capable of. And when you slay
all are capable of. And when you slay your dragons, there's grace in that.
your dragons, there's grace in that. There's a sense that you're not alone.
There's a sense that you're not alone. That if you're willing to face your
That if you're willing to face your dragons, it's like a strength will come
dragons, it's like a strength will come to you. But you have to do it. You have
to you. But you have to do it. You have to do what's necessary. You have to do
to do what's necessary. You have to do more than it's necessary. But if you
more than it's necessary. But if you push through, the victory is so sweet.
push through, the victory is so sweet. As I know it is for Jeff. And this
As I know it is for Jeff. And this victory for Jeff is not even about Jeff.
victory for Jeff is not even about Jeff. It's about all the people he's touched
It's about all the people he's touched as it is in my life, too. So give it up
as it is in my life, too. So give it up one more time. But for Jeff, this
one more time. But for Jeff, this amazing man. Be like Jeff. It's one of
amazing man. Be like Jeff. It's one of our big pieces here.
Yes. All right. Well, let's finish these last ones and we'll get in our body
last ones and we'll get in our body here. So, I told you these first four,
here. So, I told you these first four, that's the base. The last three are
that's the base. The last three are really fast. Once you slay your dragons,
really fast. Once you slay your dragons, you got a lot of momentum. So, if you
you got a lot of momentum. So, if you follow the road, you'll see. We'll put
follow the road, you'll see. We'll put it up here for you. Now, you just need
it up here for you. Now, you just need to have a daily practice to keep
to have a daily practice to keep yourself going. Like, what are you going
yourself going. Like, what are you going to do each day to put yourself in state?
to do each day to put yourself in state? What are you going to do each day to
What are you going to do each day to make sure your head is on straight? What
make sure your head is on straight? What are you going to do each day to be in
are you going to do each day to be in the right emotion? What are you doing
the right emotion? What are you doing each day to deepen your relationship?
each day to deepen your relationship? What are you going to do each day to
What are you going to do each day to move you forward financially? We just
move you forward financially? We just need a couple of basic fundamental
need a couple of basic fundamental things that you can do each day. And you
things that you can do each day. And you know I teach a whole series of these
know I teach a whole series of these obviously but you can pick them and
obviously but you can pick them and those you are getting personal power
those you are getting personal power plus you start with personal power with
plus you start with personal power with no AI you can do something every day for
no AI you can do something every day for 30 days and the events we're going to
30 days and the events we're going to give you a set of skills you can do it
give you a set of skills you can do it on your own but you need some new daily
on your own but you need some new daily habits and then once you have that and
habits and then once you have that and by the way you can write those down in a
by the way you can write those down in a second because we'll do them then you go
second because we'll do them then you go to the next step and that is okay I got
to the next step and that is okay I got my you know daily practice now I need to
my you know daily practice now I need to just raise my standards and measure more
just raise my standards and measure more often like if you don't if if you don't
often like if you don't if if you don't measure your weight, you're going to
measure your weight, you're going to gain weight over the years. That's just
gain weight over the years. That's just call it part of being human, right? In
call it part of being human, right? In at least in modern culture, like but if
at least in modern culture, like but if you weigh yourself, it's like a
you weigh yourself, it's like a business. If you measure your business
business. If you measure your business once a year, you're going to have bad
once a year, you're going to have bad years. If you measure once a month, you
years. If you measure once a month, you won't have bad years because you have 12
won't have bad years because you have 12 times to make it better. When I take
times to make it better. When I take over a company, I start to measure
over a company, I start to measure elements and I measure them daily
elements and I measure them daily because I don't want to have bad weeks.
because I don't want to have bad weeks. And in some situations in the beginning
And in some situations in the beginning we measure them hourly because the more
we measure them hourly because the more you measure the more conscious you are
you measure the more conscious you are the quicker you make a change. But if
the quicker you make a change. But if you let things slide then it's really
you let things slide then it's really hard to do. So what are you going to
hard to do. So what are you going to measure? How are you going to measure
measure? How are you going to measure your progress? What's going to be a
your progress? What's going to be a daily practice? And what's going to be
daily practice? And what's going to be the way you measure? And then finally
the way you measure? And then finally once you do that the final step is
once you do that the final step is celebrate. Because if you don't
celebrate. Because if you don't celebrate the victory then what are you
celebrate the victory then what are you doing it all for? Some people they work
doing it all for? Some people they work their guts out achieve a goal and they
their guts out achieve a goal and they go, "Oh, thank God I achieved it."
go, "Oh, thank God I achieved it." Right. Right. Religion, the word
Right. Right. Religion, the word religion comes from religio, which means
religion comes from religio, which means to celebrate. But some people don't
to celebrate. But some people don't celebrate. They don't celebrate the gift
celebrate. They don't celebrate the gift of life. So, you got to allow yourself
of life. So, you got to allow yourself to celebrate. How many have done a
to celebrate. How many have done a little more celebration the last couple
little more celebration the last couple of days even in these couple days here,
of days even in these couple days here, right? Make some noise, right? So, I
right? Make some noise, right? So, I want you to stand up. Let's stand up and
want you to stand up. Let's stand up and let's do this. Stand up. And we're going
let's do this. Stand up. And we're going to do this in our bodies real quick.
to do this in our bodies real quick. Shake your body out. Shake it out. and
Shake your body out. Shake it out. and make your move. Make your move. Make
make your move. Make your move. Make your move. Make your move. Say yes. Say
your move. Make your move. Say yes. Say yes. Say yes. Make the sound of your
yes. Say yes. Make the sound of your warrior as loud as you can. Go.
warrior as loud as you can. Go. Go. Go.
Come on. Do it. The sound of your warrior. Go.
That's it. That's it. Come on. Make your warrior
That's it. Come on. Make your warrior loud.
Make the sound of your magician. Your magician.
Your magician. Your magician.
Your magician. Make the sound of your lover.
Make the sound of your lover. Your lover. Your lover.
Your lover. Your lover. Make the sound of your sovereign, your
Make the sound of your sovereign, your king or your queen, the wise one within
king or your queen, the wise one within you.
you. So now that you're in state, close your
So now that you're in state, close your eyes. Stay in this state with your eyes
eyes. Stay in this state with your eyes closed. Let's do step one. Get in your
closed. Let's do step one. Get in your body. What do you really want? You wrote
body. What do you really want? You wrote it down, but now see it. Feel it. What
it down, but now see it. Feel it. What do you want? Let's activate your hunger.
do you want? Let's activate your hunger. What do you want to achieve? What do you
What do you want to achieve? What do you want to make happen in the next 6 to 12
want to make happen in the next 6 to 12 months that's going to excite you, get
months that's going to excite you, get you up early, keep you up late, make you
you up early, keep you up late, make you feel fully alive? What is it? What do
feel fully alive? What is it? What do you really want? Feel it. Enjoy it.
you really want? Feel it. Enjoy it. Experience it. That's it. Feel it inside
Experience it. That's it. Feel it inside your body.
your body. Now say out loud what you want, but say
Now say out loud what you want, but say it like you're going to do it. Say, "I
it like you're going to do it. Say, "I am going to achieve this and this is
am going to achieve this and this is why." Go say it out loud. I'm going to
why." Go say it out loud. I'm going to achieve what? I'm going to make what
achieve what? I'm going to make what happen and why. Shout it like you're
happen and why. Shout it like you're ranting. Like you're going on a red. I'm
ranting. Like you're going on a red. I'm going to achieve this and this is why.
going to achieve this and this is why. For this reason. For that reason. That's
For this reason. For that reason. That's it. Go for it. Go for it. Perfect.
it. Go for it. Go for it. Perfect. That's it. All your intensity. All your
That's it. All your intensity. All your intensity.
intensity. That's it. That's it. That's it. Do it
That's it. That's it. That's it. Do it again. One more time. This is what I'm
again. One more time. This is what I'm going to achieve. This is what it's
going to achieve. This is what it's going to mean when I achieve it. This is
going to mean when I achieve it. This is why I'm going to achieve it. That's it.
why I'm going to achieve it. That's it. That's it. Then make the sound of
That's it. Then make the sound of victory in your body as loud as you can.
victory in your body as loud as you can. The sound of victory. Sound of victory.
All right. Make your move. Make your move. Make your move. Make a
Make your move. Make your move. Make a move.
move. Say yes. Say yes. Say yes. Awesome. All
Say yes. Say yes. Say yes. Awesome. All right. How many feel like you're on the
right. How many feel like you're on the path right now? How many feel like
path right now? How many feel like you're on the path? Make some noise.
you're on the path? Make some noise. Give me a thumbs up.
Give me a thumbs up. Let's close your eyes. Let's do step
Let's close your eyes. Let's do step two. Let's find and face the truth. The
two. Let's find and face the truth. The truth will set you free. So, what's the
truth will set you free. So, what's the truth? Let's get clear and honest with
truth? Let's get clear and honest with oursel. In the past, there's been a gap
oursel. In the past, there's been a gap between where you want to be and where
between where you want to be and where you are right now. If we're going to
you are right now. If we're going to close that gap, what's gotten in the way
close that gap, what's gotten in the way in the past?
in the past? What is it? What has it been in the way?
What is it? What has it been in the way? Has it been fear?
Has it been fear? Has it been a limiting belief? If so,
Has it been a limiting belief? If so, what was it? A limiting story about your
what was it? A limiting story about your life? Belief or story?
life? Belief or story? Is it some other emotion? Frustration,
Is it some other emotion? Frustration, overwhelm, sadness, tired, stressed?
overwhelm, sadness, tired, stressed? Is it a habit that needs to change or is
Is it a habit that needs to change or is this a skill you need?
this a skill you need? And maybe to get that place, it's a new
And maybe to get that place, it's a new identity. Who do you need to be?
identity. Who do you need to be? There's a part of you already that can
There's a part of you already that can get this done. Who do you need to be to
get this done. Who do you need to be to achieve this? Who do you need to do to
achieve this? Who do you need to do to break through this limitation?
break through this limitation? Then right now decide, I'm going to
Then right now decide, I'm going to break through this thing. I'm going to
break through this thing. I'm going to own it. And when you decide it, you know
own it. And when you decide it, you know what it is and own it. Make your move.
what it is and own it. Make your move. Make your move. Make your move. Make
Make your move. Make your move. Make your move. Say yes. Say yes. Say yes.
your move. Say yes. Say yes. Say yes. Say yes. Say yes.
Say yes. Say yes. Now close your eyes. What's your map?
Now close your eyes. What's your map? What's your massive action plan? What's
What's your massive action plan? What's something you could do right now, today,
something you could do right now, today, tonight, in the morning? Something you
tonight, in the morning? Something you can do right away. That's something
can do right away. That's something simple that would commit you to follow
simple that would commit you to follow through.
through. What could you just tell you? You don't
What could you just tell you? You don't just say you're going to do it, but you
just say you're going to do it, but you actually follow through.
actually follow through. And what's a big action you could take
And what's a big action you could take in the next today or within the next
in the next today or within the next week? And if you took that big action,
week? And if you took that big action, you'd hate some momentum. Maybe you're
you'd hate some momentum. Maybe you're going to fire something or you're going
going to fire something or you're going to fire yourself from something. Maybe
to fire yourself from something. Maybe you're going to end a relationship or
you're going to end a relationship or begin one or you're going to commit and
begin one or you're going to commit and get yourself out there. What are you
get yourself out there. What are you going to do that would be uncomfortable,
going to do that would be uncomfortable, but it would mean that you're absolutely
but it would mean that you're absolutely pushing through? It would set you up for
pushing through? It would set you up for the next step.
the next step. If you know, if you know some action
If you know, if you know some action you're going to take right now, say yes.
you're going to take right now, say yes. Say yes. Say yes. Make the sound of your
Say yes. Say yes. Make the sound of your warrior again when you say yes this
warrior again when you say yes this time. Go.
time. Go. Your magician, your lover, your king,
Your magician, your lover, your king, and your queen.
Now, now it's time to do what's hard. Time to
now it's time to do what's hard. Time to slay the dragon.
slay the dragon. What do you need to slay? What is it you
What do you need to slay? What is it you need to push through? What belief? What
need to push through? What belief? What emotion? What is it? But this time, I
emotion? What is it? But this time, I want you to see and feel yourself in the
want you to see and feel yourself in the situation where you normally would pull
situation where you normally would pull back, but now you push through. Feel it.
back, but now you push through. Feel it. Close your eyes and feel like you're in
Close your eyes and feel like you're in the situation used to stop you and you
the situation used to stop you and you slay the dragon. You deal with your
slay the dragon. You deal with your fear. You push through that limitation.
fear. You push through that limitation. You wouldn't got that skill and you feel
You wouldn't got that skill and you feel it. You feel yourself getting that
it. You feel yourself getting that skill. You feel the progress. You feel
skill. You feel the progress. You feel the momentum. You feel the power of
the momentum. You feel the power of massive action. You feel your expanded
massive action. You feel your expanded identity cuz you're doing things you
identity cuz you're doing things you wouldn't have done before. You've
wouldn't have done before. You've invested in yourself. You pushed
invested in yourself. You pushed yourself forward. You learned the skill.
yourself forward. You learned the skill. You got yourself where you wanted to be.
You got yourself where you wanted to be. You destroyed that old belief. You
You destroyed that old belief. You didn't just learn about intellectually.
didn't just learn about intellectually. You did it. And when you feel like
You did it. And when you feel like you're doing it inside like you can feel
you're doing it inside like you can feel it in your body, make the sound of
it in your body, make the sound of victory again. Nice and loud. Go.
victory again. Nice and loud. Go. The sound of victory.
That's it. Now, with your eyes closed, what's something you could do daily to
what's something you could do daily to keep yourself on the path? Is it
keep yourself on the path? Is it something you want to listen to, read,
something you want to listen to, read, or do each day? What's something just
or do each day? What's something just daily, just a daily habit that'll keep
daily, just a daily habit that'll keep you in the right state, doing the right
you in the right state, doing the right things? Is it a workout? Is it listening
things? Is it a workout? Is it listening something? Is it being inspired? What
something? Is it being inspired? What are you going to do? If you already know
are you going to do? If you already know something that real quick, a daily habit
something that real quick, a daily habit that'll help you, just say, "I." I.
that'll help you, just say, "I." I. >> Say, "I." If you're at home, give me
>> Say, "I." If you're at home, give me that thumbs up if you're on YouTube so I
that thumbs up if you're on YouTube so I know you got it. Awesome. Make your
know you got it. Awesome. Make your move. Make your move. Make your move.
move. Make your move. Make your move. Make your move. Now, what's the standard
Make your move. Now, what's the standard you're going to raise? What are you
you're going to raise? What are you going to do more than before? And how
going to do more than before? And how you going to measure it? Are you going
you going to measure it? Are you going to measure yourself more often? What are
to measure yourself more often? What are you going to measure? Because you know,
you going to measure? Because you know, we get what we tolerate in ourselves.
we get what we tolerate in ourselves. So, what are you going to no longer
So, what are you going to no longer tolerate? What are you going to measure?
tolerate? What are you going to measure? Make sure you're really making progress.
Make sure you're really making progress. You're not kidding yourself. What are
You're not kidding yourself. What are you going to do to make it happen?
you going to do to make it happen? Raise your hand right now. Give me a
Raise your hand right now. Give me a thumbs up if you know something you're
thumbs up if you know something you're going to measure more often here in this
going to measure more often here in this area.
area. Awesome. Make your move. Make your move.
Awesome. Make your move. Make your move. Make your move. Make your move. Now when
Make your move. Make your move. Now when I say now, I want you to think about how
I say now, I want you to think about how good it feels not only be on the path
good it feels not only be on the path but to make it happen in your life in
but to make it happen in your life in this area and know you know you could do
this area and know you know you could do with any area of your life. And then
with any area of your life. And then what I want you to do, I want you to
what I want you to do, I want you to feel your warrior, your magician, your
feel your warrior, your magician, your lover, your king. And I want you to
lover, your king. And I want you to celebrate like a little kid like all
celebrate like a little kid like all this is already done. It's in your body
this is already done. It's in your body and it's done. On three, more energy
and it's done. On three, more energy than you've had all week. Ready? 1 2 3
than you've had all week. Ready? 1 2 3 go. Celebrate that victory, ladies and
go. Celebrate that victory, ladies and gentlemen.
Yes. And you got it in your body. Say yes. Say yes. Say yes. All right. Have a
yes. Say yes. Say yes. All right. Have a seat. Feeling strong. And don't sit down
seat. Feeling strong. And don't sit down clap. Sit down like you're in charge.
clap. Sit down like you're in charge. That's it. If you feel in your body,
That's it. If you feel in your body, make your fist and say yes. Say yes. Say
make your fist and say yes. Say yes. Say yes. Say yes.
yes. Say yes. All right. So, let me give you two final
All right. So, let me give you two final things here tied to this that's really
things here tied to this that's really important. Okay. You get this thing.
important. Okay. You get this thing. You're on the path. You feel the
You're on the path. You feel the progress. You're making it go. How do
progress. You're making it go. How do you keep the momentum going? Number one,
you keep the momentum going? Number one, I've said, but I'm going to say it again
I've said, but I'm going to say it again because it's a principle of success at
because it's a principle of success at the most basic level, but we forget it.
the most basic level, but we forget it. We know it intellectually, but we don't
We know it intellectually, but we don't do it. And that is you must take massive
do it. And that is you must take massive what, my friends? Action. The time to
what, my friends? Action. The time to take action is now, not in the future.
take action is now, not in the future. In fact, here's what I tell people. How
In fact, here's what I tell people. How many of you have done this? How many of
many of you have done this? How many of you have gotten excited about something?
you have gotten excited about something? You set a goal, made a desire, made a
You set a goal, made a desire, made a decision to change something, and you
decision to change something, and you meant it when you set it. And then
meant it when you set it. And then you're going to start tomorrow, right?
you're going to start tomorrow, right? Or next week, and then you get to
Or next week, and then you get to tomorrow, next week, and you don't do
tomorrow, next week, and you don't do it. Because when you made the decision,
it. Because when you made the decision, you were in a peak what state. But now
you were in a peak what state. But now you get caught up in all of your texts
you get caught up in all of your texts and your stat slacks and your emails and
and your stat slacks and your emails and your social media and the demands of
your social media and the demands of your family and you're no longer in
your family and you're no longer in state. Who's ever done this? Who's ever
state. Who's ever done this? Who's ever had something you really committed to
had something you really committed to do? You wanted it for you and you didn't
do? You wanted it for you and you didn't do it cuz you dropped out of state later
do it cuz you dropped out of state later on. Who's done this before? Make some
on. Who's done this before? Make some noise if you can relate to it. So let me
noise if you can relate to it. So let me give you the most important principle. I
give you the most important principle. I teach this to all my children. In fact,
teach this to all my children. In fact, I'll tell you a quick two-c story about
I'll tell you a quick two-c story about my daughter. I had this experience with
my daughter. I had this experience with my daughter. But here's the principle.
my daughter. But here's the principle. Never leave the site. Write this down.
Never leave the site. Write this down. Never leave the site. Never leave the
Never leave the site. Never leave the moment of setting a new outcome, setting
moment of setting a new outcome, setting a new goal, or making a decision. Never
a new goal, or making a decision. Never leave that site without doing something
leave that site without doing something that commits you to follow up follow
that commits you to follow up follow through later while you're still in
through later while you're still in state. I'm going to say it again. Never
state. I'm going to say it again. Never leave the sight or the moment of making
leave the sight or the moment of making a decision or setting a goal without
a decision or setting a goal without doing something in that moment. While
doing something in that moment. While you're in state that commits you to
you're in state that commits you to follow through later on. So while you're
follow through later on. So while you're in state, you make the call. You enroll
in state, you make the call. You enroll in the class. You call the person you
in the class. You call the person you want to hire. You say, "I'm going to"
want to hire. You say, "I'm going to" You book a meeting to have the
You book a meeting to have the interview. You set something up where
interview. You set something up where you're going to sit down with your
you're going to sit down with your relationship a day at a time. You you
relationship a day at a time. You you book it. You create it. you lock it down
book it. You create it. you lock it down because action, an action that commits
because action, an action that commits you while you're in state is the secret
you while you're in state is the secret to it all. So many things in my life
to it all. So many things in my life early on I didn't do and I was so mad at
early on I didn't do and I was so mad at myself and frustrated and I just
myself and frustrated and I just realized it's all momentum. So in state
realized it's all momentum. So in state you do it and I'll give you a fun
you do it and I'll give you a fun example. My daughter Jolie who is my
example. My daughter Jolie who is my older daughter um when she was gosh I
older daughter um when she was gosh I think she was 19 maybe just about turned
think she was 19 maybe just about turned 20. She was in college. Yeah, 20, almost
20. She was in college. Yeah, 20, almost 20. And she came home for Christmas. And
20. And she came home for Christmas. And so we had a great Christmas and then
so we had a great Christmas and then one, you know, I always take my kids
one, you know, I always take my kids aside oneonone and boom, I have this
aside oneonone and boom, I have this one-on-one time with her and I said,
one-on-one time with her and I said, "Joe," I said, "How you doing on your
"Joe," I said, "How you doing on your dream?" She goes, "What do you mean?" I
dream?" She goes, "What do you mean?" I said, "Jolie, you know what your dream
said, "Jolie, you know what your dream is." Her whole life she talked about
is." Her whole life she talked about wanting to be a dancer on Broadway and
wanting to be a dancer on Broadway and she's now in college, right? She goes,
she's now in college, right? She goes, "Well, Dad, you know, I'm I'm in college
"Well, Dad, you know, I'm I'm in college and I'm 4.0." I said, "I know. I'm
and I'm 4.0." I said, "I know. I'm really proud of you." And she goes, "And
really proud of you." And she goes, "And I am still dancing. I do these dance
I am still dancing. I do these dance competitions and I'm winning like crazy.
competitions and I'm winning like crazy. I said, "I know. That's what concerns
I said, "I know. That's what concerns me." She said, "It concerns you?" I
me." She said, "It concerns you?" I said, "Yes, honey, because you're
said, "Yes, honey, because you're winning all the time. So, it shows me
winning all the time. So, it shows me you're not coming against difficult
you're not coming against difficult things that going to make you grow and
things that going to make you grow and you're winning in Pasadena, California,
you're winning in Pasadena, California, and LA. The greatest dancers in the
and LA. The greatest dancers in the world are in New York. Your goal has
world are in New York. Your goal has always been to dance in New York. You
always been to dance in New York. You want to be a you want to be on
want to be a you want to be on Broadway." She goes, "Yeah, I know, but
Broadway." She goes, "Yeah, I know, but you know, I'm in school." And I said,
you know, I'm in school." And I said, "Jolie," I said, "Honey, I think I know
"Jolie," I said, "Honey, I think I know you respect me, and I think you probably
you respect me, and I think you probably think I'm a genius." And of course I am
think I'm a genius." And of course I am because I'm your father, you know.
because I'm your father, you know. And I said, "But I don't think you know
And I said, "But I don't think you know what my genius is." My genius is when an
what my genius is." My genius is when an opportunity comes, I grab it by the
opportunity comes, I grab it by the hair. I didn't have the money. I don't
hair. I didn't have the money. I don't have the time. It seems impossible. It
have the time. It seems impossible. It seems difficult. I don't let anyone go
seems difficult. I don't let anyone go by. Not Not everyone is the right
by. Not Not everyone is the right opportunity, but you'll never know
opportunity, but you'll never know unless you grab them. And I said,"I have
unless you grab them. And I said,"I have a sense of urgency that's missing from
a sense of urgency that's missing from you." Like, I have an urgy. It it has to
you." Like, I have an urgy. It it has to happen now. And you don't have that
happen now. And you don't have that right now, honey. And that's nothing
right now, honey. And that's nothing wrong with that. I mean, you grew up in
wrong with that. I mean, you grew up in this environment different than me, and
this environment different than me, and you've had a great quality of life and
you've had a great quality of life and live near the beach, and you're on the
live near the beach, and you're on the beach, all these great environments, and
beach, all these great environments, and you're a great kid, great. But if you
you're a great kid, great. But if you want your dream, you need more urgency.
want your dream, you need more urgency. Because I said, "Listen to me. There's a
Because I said, "Listen to me. There's a timeline on a dancer. You're not going
timeline on a dancer. You're not going to start become a Broadway dancer at 35.
to start become a Broadway dancer at 35. And I don't even know if that happens at
And I don't even know if that happens at 25. I don't know. All I know is, are you
25. I don't know. All I know is, are you getting closer to your dream right now
getting closer to your dream right now doing what you're doing? She goes,
doing what you're doing? She goes, "Well, Dad, I'm in college. You told me
"Well, Dad, I'm in college. You told me to go to college." I said, "Yes, I was
to go to college." I said, "Yes, I was wrong." Not wrong about college. Just
wrong." Not wrong about college. Just wrong about maybe it's not the right
wrong about maybe it's not the right thing for you right now. It's your prime
thing for you right now. It's your prime chance to do this. She's saying, "Well,
chance to do this. She's saying, "Well, what are you suggesting?" I said, 'I'm
what are you suggesting?" I said, 'I'm suggesting you move to New York City,
suggesting you move to New York City, you become a working actress and you
you become a working actress and you take classes with the best and you go
take classes with the best and you go compete with the best on earth. I said,
compete with the best on earth. I said, I think you have the talent, but I'm
I think you have the talent, but I'm your father. But I do know one thing. If
your father. But I do know one thing. If you don't do this, you're going to have
you don't do this, you're going to have something no one wants to have. Regret.
something no one wants to have. Regret. You know, discipline weighs ounces.
You know, discipline weighs ounces. Regret weighs tons.
Regret weighs tons. She's saying, "Well, that's a big move."
She's saying, "Well, that's a big move." I said, "Yeah, that's how you get big
I said, "Yeah, that's how you get big results. You make big moves. you make
results. You make big moves. you make big decisions, take massive actions,
big decisions, take massive actions, everything I've taught you since you're
everything I've taught you since you're a kid. She goes, "Well, when were you
a kid. She goes, "Well, when were you thinking of doing this?" I said, "When
thinking of doing this?" I said, "When would now be a good time?"
would now be a good time?" And she said, "Now." I said, "Yes, now."
And she said, "Now." I said, "Yes, now." So then she says to me, I'll never
So then she says to me, I'll never forget this. She goes, "Well, well,
forget this. She goes, "Well, well, maybe I should talk to someone else
maybe I should talk to someone else about this." And I said, "Yeah, people
about this." And I said, "Yeah, people pay me a million dollars for my
pay me a million dollars for my coaching. You should talk to somebody
coaching. You should talk to somebody else about this, right?" I said, "Well,
else about this, right?" I said, "Well, who are you thinking of?" I didn't
who are you thinking of?" I didn't react, right? Who you thinking of? and
react, right? Who you thinking of? and she said, 'Well, this friend of ours,
she said, 'Well, this friend of ours, his name was Jay, and he worked for CIA,
his name was Jay, and he worked for CIA, one of the big agencies in Hollywood.
one of the big agencies in Hollywood. And I said, 'Th that's a very smart
And I said, 'Th that's a very smart move. Call Jay and ask him what he
move. Call Jay and ask him what he thinks. And she goes, "Okay." I said,
thinks. And she goes, "Okay." I said, "What are you doing?" She goes, "I'll
"What are you doing?" She goes, "I'll call him." I said, "When would now would
call him." I said, "When would now would be a good time." She goes, "Now?" I
be a good time." She goes, "Now?" I said, "Right now. Go call him." So, she
said, "Right now. Go call him." So, she goes, call him. True story. I pick up
goes, call him. True story. I pick up the phone and I dial him and call him
the phone and I dial him and call him immediately. And I got through them. I
immediately. And I got through them. I said, "Jay," I said, "I was just talking
said, "Jay," I said, "I was just talking to Jolie. I had this conversation. You
to Jolie. I had this conversation. You know, she's going to college." I said,
know, she's going to college." I said, "She's winning all these competitions.
"She's winning all these competitions. She's always want to be, I think, you
She's always want to be, I think, you know, always want to be on Broadway."
know, always want to be on Broadway." And I told her, "I think she's moved
And I told her, "I think she's moved there. It's what I teach. Proximity is
there. It's what I teach. Proximity is power. Learn from the best. Compete,
power. Learn from the best. Compete, make it happen, and find out if she's
make it happen, and find out if she's good enough." I said, "If I'm full of
good enough." I said, "If I'm full of crap, tell me." She goes, "No, Tony." He
crap, tell me." She goes, "No, Tony." He goes, "La is not the place. If you're
goes, "La is not the place. If you're going to be the dancer, you need she
going to be the dancer, you need she needs to go compete with them." I said,
needs to go compete with them." I said, "Then tell her that. She's going to call
"Then tell her that. She's going to call you soon."
you soon." A couple minutes later, she comes back.
A couple minutes later, she comes back. She goes, "He's on another call with
She goes, "He's on another call with me." Right? So, so I said, "Well, call
me." Right? So, so I said, "Well, call him again. You're going to give up that
him again. You're going to give up that easily." So, she calls him again. She's
easily." So, she calls him again. She's gone for like 45 minutes. She finally
gone for like 45 minutes. She finally comes back and she's really thoughtful
comes back and she's really thoughtful and she goes, "Dad," she goes, "He said,
and she goes, "Dad," she goes, "He said, "That's the right thing to do." I said,
"That's the right thing to do." I said, "Father knows best, right?" You know,
"Father knows best, right?" You know, and I got her laughing and I said, "So,
and I got her laughing and I said, "So, here's what we're going to do." I said,
here's what we're going to do." I said, she goes, "But I'm in the middle of
she goes, "But I'm in the middle of school." I said, "So what?" So, in her
school." I said, "So what?" So, in her December break, we said, "You're not
December break, we said, "You're not going back." And we arranged to fly to
going back." And we arranged to fly to New York City with her. And I said,
New York City with her. And I said, "Now, I'm not going to just support you.
"Now, I'm not going to just support you. You have to be a working actress. I'll
You have to be a working actress. I'll help you get in your apartment
help you get in your apartment initially, then you're going to work,
initially, then you're going to work, and then I'll pay for your lessons, and
and then I'll pay for your lessons, and you got to go compete." And so she did.
you got to go compete." And so she did. And you don't know for sure what
And you don't know for sure what someone's going to be able to do, right?
someone's going to be able to do, right? And she worked incredibly hard. And it
And she worked incredibly hard. And it was one of the worst winters in New
was one of the worst winters in New York. She went from being on the beach
York. She went from being on the beach in Southern California to this intense
in Southern California to this intense environment, which tougher her up. And
environment, which tougher her up. And then I was coming to New York several
then I was coming to New York several times. And then I let her know I was
times. And then I let her know I was coming. And she goes, "Oh, Dad." She
coming. And she goes, "Oh, Dad." She goes, "Well, you know, um, let me send
goes, "Well, you know, um, let me send something to surprise you." So, get to
something to surprise you." So, get to the airport in New York, LaGuardia, and
the airport in New York, LaGuardia, and all of a sudden, or JFK at the time, and
all of a sudden, or JFK at the time, and there's a car out front from him, like,
there's a car out front from him, like, "Wow, how's she paying for that? Wow,
"Wow, how's she paying for that? Wow, you must have a good job. Must be doing
you must have a good job. Must be doing great." And the guy says, "Um, Miss Rob,
great." And the guy says, "Um, Miss Rob, see it?" So, I'm take you to your
see it?" So, I'm take you to your daughter. And so, we drive and drive and
daughter. And so, we drive and drive and drive, and now we're going past the area
drive, and now we're going past the area where we should have made a turn to go
where we should have made a turn to go to her apartment because I've been there
to her apartment because I've been there before. And the guy keeps driving. And
before. And the guy keeps driving. And now we go into the theater district and
now we go into the theater district and he pulls up to Tommy, the play Tommy
he pulls up to Tommy, the play Tommy with Elton John. And my daughter's name
with Elton John. And my daughter's name is on the top starring six months after
is on the top starring six months after she got there. Ladies and gentlemen,
she got there. Ladies and gentlemen, Jolie Jenkins Robins.
Yes. Now, I didn't give her the talent. I
Now, I didn't give her the talent. I didn't give her the skill. She did it
didn't give her the skill. She did it all on her own. She worked her tail off.
all on her own. She worked her tail off. So, she also earned it. So, she has that
So, she also earned it. So, she has that inner pride. But I was a catalyst to
inner pride. But I was a catalyst to getting her to make that move. And
getting her to make that move. And that's what I've been trying to do for
that's what I've been trying to do for you for the last three days. But now you
you for the last three days. But now you got to make your move. What are you
got to make your move. What are you going to do? You going to take this and
going to do? You going to take this and say, "Well, that was a great, you know,
say, "Well, that was a great, you know, three hours a day for three days, or are
three hours a day for three days, or are you going to make the move and get the
you going to make the move and get the skills and move the next level?" I hope
skills and move the next level?" I hope you'll do that for yourself. But I'll
you'll do that for yourself. But I'll give you one last action step besides
give you one last action step besides massive action. If you really want an
massive action. If you really want an extraordinary life and if you ever want
extraordinary life and if you ever want to get beyond scarcity, like if you're
to get beyond scarcity, like if you're like, "Oh, I don't have the money for
like, "Oh, I don't have the money for this. I can't do this. I can't do that.
this. I can't do this. I can't do that. I'm not start anything in your life."
I'm not start anything in your life." You don't ever get beyond scarcity. You
You don't ever get beyond scarcity. You have to start beyond it. You have to
have to start beyond it. You have to draw a line in the sand. And the way
draw a line in the sand. And the way that you do that, I'll tell you, it
that you do that, I'll tell you, it happened for me. I grew up totally poor.
happened for me. I grew up totally poor. There nobody in my family that had any
There nobody in my family that had any abundance. We didn't have enough food.
abundance. We didn't have enough food. And I went to work for this guy Jim Ran.
And I went to work for this guy Jim Ran. And I worked in the beginning. I did
And I worked in the beginning. I did really well. I convinced everybody to
really well. I convinced everybody to go. And then I went through this slump
go. And then I went through this slump where I really got burned out. And I
where I really got burned out. And I remember I was driving home on the 57
remember I was driving home on the 57 freeway in Southern California near this
freeway in Southern California near this place called Pomona, California. Not a
place called Pomona, California. Not a nice place where I had a crappy little
nice place where I had a crappy little apartment. And I was so frustrated. It
apartment. And I was so frustrated. It was almost midnight. I'd been working
was almost midnight. I'd been working all day again in Orange County. Drove
all day again in Orange County. Drove all this way and nothing was working.
all this way and nothing was working. And I was broke and I was frustrated and
And I was broke and I was frustrated and and I was like, "What is wrong here?"
and I was like, "What is wrong here?" Like, "How can I work this hard and I'm
Like, "How can I work this hard and I'm not seeing the result?"
not seeing the result?" And then I got this flash and I
And then I got this flash and I literally pulled over on the side of the
literally pulled over on the side of the freeway and I used to keep these
freeway and I used to keep these hardbound journals. I still have the
hardbound journals. I still have the journal I did it with. And on one page I
journal I did it with. And on one page I started to cry. I wrote one phrase. I
started to cry. I wrote one phrase. I went, "The secret to living is giving."
went, "The secret to living is giving." And I just burst into tears sitting my
And I just burst into tears sitting my little Volkswagen
little Volkswagen because I realized when I started out I
because I realized when I started out I was doing so well because I was doing it
was doing so well because I was doing it because I was trying to help people and
because I was trying to help people and now I was doing it going how come I was
now I was doing it going how come I was focused on me? Why am I not getting what
focused on me? Why am I not getting what I want? Who's ever been caught in that
I want? Who's ever been caught in that trap in your own life or your own
trap in your own life or your own relationship? Anybody relate out there?
relationship? Anybody relate out there? Make some noise if you can.
Make some noise if you can. So I I got my act together and I started
So I I got my act together and I started doing well and then you know you're new
doing well and then you know you're new in business so I made some mistakes and
in business so I made some mistakes and the next thing I know six months later
the next thing I know six months later I'm back in a tough position. I was
I'm back in a tough position. I was living in Venice, California and Venice
living in Venice, California and Venice was not a nice place at that time and
was not a nice place at that time and I'm living in a little 400 foot bachelor
I'm living in a little 400 foot bachelor apartment feeling sad and sorry for
apartment feeling sad and sorry for myself. Finally literally broke. No
myself. Finally literally broke. No money left. I'm got my note that says I
money left. I'm got my note that says I have to get out of the place because I
have to get out of the place because I hadn't paid my rent. I had three days to
hadn't paid my rent. I had three days to do it and I never used drugs or alcohol
do it and I never used drugs or alcohol because those are abused by people in my
because those are abused by people in my family before. But I used food like a
family before. But I used food like a drug and I gained 38 pounds in about
drug and I gained 38 pounds in about four weeks, five weeks. That it's not
four weeks, five weeks. That it's not easy to do. You have to eat tons of food
easy to do. You have to eat tons of food and not move very much to pull that off,
and not move very much to pull that off, which I did. And I'm at my lowest point
which I did. And I'm at my lowest point and I'm literally counting the cents
and I'm literally counting the cents that I have left. And so I think I had
that I have left. And so I think I had something like I don't know it was like
something like I don't know it was like $19 or $20 left and I was depressed and
$19 or $20 left and I was depressed and I'm hiding out from my creditors and
I'm hiding out from my creditors and hoping nobody knocks on the door
hoping nobody knocks on the door including the guy that wants his rent.
including the guy that wants his rent. And I decided I came up with a plan.
And I decided I came up with a plan. Since I have no money, I'm going to give
Since I have no money, I'm going to give this thing out a little bit. I'm going
this thing out a little bit. I'm going to go to a place where they had an all
to go to a place where they had an all you could eat taco bar and I'm going to
you could eat taco bar and I'm going to load up for the winter and just eat as
load up for the winter and just eat as much as I can so that I last longer
much as I can so that I last longer because I had no plan, no more money
because I had no plan, no more money left. And the place I wanted to go to
left. And the place I wanted to go to was called El Toito. It's still there in
was called El Toito. It's still there in Marina del Rey. And Marina del Re is a
Marina del Rey. And Marina del Re is a really nice city. It's on the ocean
really nice city. It's on the ocean there. Venice was not so nice. And to
there. Venice was not so nice. And to drive there though, you have to pay like
drive there though, you have to pay like $4 for parking. So I couldn't eat at $4.
$4 for parking. So I couldn't eat at $4. So I walked. It's I don't know, two and
So I walked. It's I don't know, two and a half, three miles. And I got there and
a half, three miles. And I got there and I thought, I'm going to go there because
I thought, I'm going to go there because I'm going to have this great meal and
I'm going to have this great meal and I'm going to look out at the boats and
I'm going to look out at the boats and all these people have this great
all these people have this great lifestyle and I'm going to figure out I
lifestyle and I'm going to figure out I guess somehow I got to do this. I got to
guess somehow I got to do this. I got to turn my life around. And so I got in
turn my life around. And so I got in there and I I loaded all this food up
there and I I loaded all this food up and I'm at this high as much beans I
and I'm at this high as much beans I could load up on that would make me
could load up on that would make me maybe last more than just salad. And
maybe last more than just salad. And while I'm sitting there stuffing my face
while I'm sitting there stuffing my face and I'm looking out the window these
and I'm looking out the window these beautiful boats and things and thinking
beautiful boats and things and thinking feeling sorry for myself a little bit
feeling sorry for myself a little bit and then I was faced where I could see
and then I was faced where I could see the glass on the area where all the
the glass on the area where all the boats come, but then also the front door
boats come, but then also the front door to the restaurant was there and the door
to the restaurant was there and the door opened up and my eye caught the most
opened up and my eye caught the most beautiful woman I've probably ever seen.
beautiful woman I've probably ever seen. And I couldn't help not notice her. She
And I couldn't help not notice her. She was just gorgeous. And I perked up
was just gorgeous. And I perked up inside as if I had any chance with this
inside as if I had any chance with this lady so silly. And I waited to see was
lady so silly. And I waited to see was there a guy with her. And there was. He
there a guy with her. And there was. He was about this tall. And he was wearing
was about this tall. And he was wearing a three-piece suit, little vest. And he
a three-piece suit, little vest. And he held the door open for her. And then he
held the door open for her. And then he went over and he pulled out her chair
went over and he pulled out her chair and waited for her to sit down and put
and waited for her to sit down and put it there. And then he sat down in the
it there. And then he sat down in the chair and looked across to her. And he
chair and looked across to her. And he was so present with her. And I got
was so present with her. And I got teiitis. I don't know what it was. I
teiitis. I don't know what it was. I think probably because I was estranged
think probably because I was estranged from my own mom at the time. Probably
from my own mom at the time. Probably was part of it. And uh so I finished
was part of it. And uh so I finished eating and I was just touched by seeing
eating and I was just touched by seeing this little boy just what a beautiful
this little boy just what a beautiful young man he was, you know. And I wasn't
young man he was, you know. And I wasn't even focused on the woman anymore at
even focused on the woman anymore at all. So I went and paid my I think it
all. So I went and paid my I think it was like $5.95. So I had like I don't
was like $5.95. So I had like I don't know I think I I think I had like 23
know I think I I think I had like 23 $24. I ended like $19 left and some
$24. I ended like $19 left and some change. And um as I was walking out, I
change. And um as I was walking out, I did something. It changed my life. And I
did something. It changed my life. And I had no plan for it. It was spontaneous.
had no plan for it. It was spontaneous. I walked up to this old young man. I put
I walked up to this old young man. I put out my hand. I said, "What's your name?"
out my hand. I said, "What's your name?" He told me, I forget it was Charlie. I
He told me, I forget it was Charlie. I said, "Charlie, I'm Tony." I said, "I
said, "Charlie, I'm Tony." I said, "I just wanted to meet you for one second."
just wanted to meet you for one second." I said, "Cuz you're a class act." Said,
I said, "Cuz you're a class act." Said, "What do you mean?" I said, "I saw how
"What do you mean?" I said, "I saw how you held the door open for your lady. I
you held the door open for your lady. I saw he put her chair here. I see you
saw he put her chair here. I see you like looking right at her eyes here and
like looking right at her eyes here and taking her to lunch like this. I said
taking her to lunch like this. I said that's incredible. He goes, "Well, she's
that's incredible. He goes, "Well, she's my mom."
my mom." And I said, "That's even more
And I said, "That's even more beautiful."
beautiful." I said, "Uh" He goes, "Well, I'm not
I said, "Uh" He goes, "Well, I'm not taking her lunch. You don't have a job
taking her lunch. You don't have a job yet. You know, I'm I'm seven, you know."
yet. You know, I'm I'm seven, you know." I said, "Yes, you are." And I reached in
I said, "Yes, you are." And I reached in my pocket. I had no thought to do this.
my pocket. I had no thought to do this. I didn't look at the woman. I took all
I didn't look at the woman. I took all the money I had in the world, 19 bucks
the money I had in the world, 19 bucks and some change and I slapped it right
and some change and I slapped it right down in front of this little boy right
down in front of this little boy right in front of him. I said, "You're taking
in front of him. I said, "You're taking her to lunch." And he looked at me and
her to lunch." And he looked at me and his eyes are big as garbage can covers.
his eyes are big as garbage can covers. And he goes, "I I can't take that." I
And he goes, "I I can't take that." I said, "Yes, you can." He said, "How
said, "Yes, you can." He said, "How come?" I said, "Cuz I'm bigger than you
come?" I said, "Cuz I'm bigger than you are."
are." And he laughed. And I never looked at
And he laughed. And I never looked at the woman. I didn't do it for that. And
the woman. I didn't do it for that. And I walked out that door and um looked for
I walked out that door and um looked for my car, which it wasn't there. I
my car, which it wasn't there. I realized I'd walked,
realized I'd walked, but I was the highest high I could
but I was the highest high I could remember feeling in a decade, probably
remember feeling in a decade, probably in my life.
in my life. And I floated home. I kind of jogged and
And I floated home. I kind of jogged and danced. I probably looked like a crazy
danced. I probably looked like a crazy white dude who couldn't move well. And
white dude who couldn't move well. And and two or three miles disappeared. And
and two or three miles disappeared. And I got home and I had no money, no meals,
I got home and I had no money, no meals, no way to pay my rent, no understanding
no way to pay my rent, no understanding what I could do. But I felt free for the
what I could do. But I felt free for the first time.
first time. And I woke up the next morning and I
And I woke up the next morning and I wasn't scared. I didn't I wasn't upset.
wasn't scared. I didn't I wasn't upset. I wasn't like even worried.
I wasn't like even worried. And I had no food and no plan and no
And I had no food and no plan and no cash. I mean, no cash, nothing.
cash. I mean, no cash, nothing. And so I I couldn't believe it. I I got
And so I I couldn't believe it. I I got the those days we had snail mail, not
the those days we had snail mail, not email, right? And I didn't want to get
email, right? And I didn't want to get it because it was all bills, but I
it because it was all bills, but I noticed there was a personal note in
noticed there was a personal note in there. So, I pulled it out. I opened it
there. So, I pulled it out. I opened it up and it was from a young man that was
up and it was from a young man that was a friend of mine that I'd loan $1,000 to
a friend of mine that I'd loan $1,000 to two years before when I didn't really
two years before when I didn't really have a thousand, but he was really
have a thousand, but he was really hurting. And I've been calling him for
hurting. And I've been calling him for two months and he wouldn't return my
two months and he wouldn't return my phone call when I really needed it. And
phone call when I really needed it. And the note just says, "I'm so embarrassed.
the note just says, "I'm so embarrassed. I'm so sorry, Tony. you were there for
I'm so sorry, Tony. you were there for when you I needed it most and I've not
when you I needed it most and I've not been there for you, but I finally put
been there for you, but I finally put the money together and I've added $200
the money together and I've added $200 just as a thank you. So, give me $1,200.
just as a thank you. So, give me $1,200. It was 1,200 and some change is what it
It was 1,200 and some change is what it was, right? And um and I just started
was, right? And um and I just started crying uncontrollably again.
crying uncontrollably again. And I'm like, why am I crying? It's such
And I'm like, why am I crying? It's such a beautiful thing.
a beautiful thing. I think it's because I realized that
I think it's because I realized that day, you know, it's like, why did this
day, you know, it's like, why did this happen?
happen? And I don't know why it happened, but
And I don't know why it happened, but I'll tell you what I decided to believe.
I'll tell you what I decided to believe. And I really believe in my heart and
And I really believe in my heart and soul. It's because I gave when I had
soul. It's because I gave when I had nothing. And it taught my brain there's
nothing. And it taught my brain there's more than enough. I didn't give so
more than enough. I didn't give so someone put stars on my charter so the
someone put stars on my charter so the woman would notice me. I gave just
woman would notice me. I gave just spontaneously cuz it was right. And in
spontaneously cuz it was right. And in that giving, I was freed. And I got to
that giving, I was freed. And I got to tell you, I've had plenty of ups and
tell you, I've had plenty of ups and downs in my life since that time. I'd
downs in my life since that time. I'd times when one of my companies almost
times when one of my companies almost went bankrupt back in 2008. didn't thank
went bankrupt back in 2008. didn't thank God. I found a way to turn it around.
God. I found a way to turn it around. But I've never gone back to that
But I've never gone back to that scarcity. Never.
scarcity. Never. And so I want to invite you. I want you
And so I want to invite you. I want you to invite you to think about not waiting
to invite you to think about not waiting some time to give. My buddy Mike Keys I
some time to give. My buddy Mike Keys I mentioned to you I met 45 years ago. I
mentioned to you I met 45 years ago. I know he's watching. He told me, I don't
know he's watching. He told me, I don't know, six months ago, there was on a
know, six months ago, there was on a plane and there was someone there
plane and there was someone there reading my Life Force book, the book I
reading my Life Force book, the book I wrote on from reading 150 of the best
wrote on from reading 150 of the best regenerative doctors in the world. And
regenerative doctors in the world. And he loves to see what people think of my
he loves to see what people think of my stuff cuz they don't know. He knows me,
stuff cuz they don't know. He knows me, right? And he said, "What do you think
right? And he said, "What do you think of that book?" Like, "Oh, it's so great.
of that book?" Like, "Oh, it's so great. Stem cells, all this stuff, and this is
Stem cells, all this stuff, and this is unbelievable." And he goes, "What do you
unbelievable." And he goes, "What do you think of the author?" He goes, "Well, he
think of the author?" He goes, "Well, he seems like such a nice guy. Oh, he
seems like such a nice guy. Oh, he donated 100% of the profits from his
donated 100% of the profits from his book to feed people for Feeding America
book to feed people for Feeding America and seems like a great guy." But then he
and seems like a great guy." But then he said, of course, he's rich, so you know,
said, of course, he's rich, so you know, I guess it's easy. And Mike looked at
I guess it's easy. And Mike looked at him. He told me the story and he said, I
him. He told me the story and he said, I looked at him and said, "What if I told
looked at him and said, "What if I told you I'd known Tony since he was 17 years
you I'd known Tony since he was 17 years old and what he didn't have but $20 left
old and what he didn't have but $20 left to his name and there was a guy in the
to his name and there was a guy in the street and he gave him half and he gave
street and he gave him half and he gave him 10 bucks." And when I said, "What
him 10 bucks." And when I said, "What are you doing?" He remembers from back
are you doing?" He remembers from back then he said, "Tony" said to me, "If I
then he said, "Tony" said to me, "If I don't give a dime out of a dollar, I'm
don't give a dime out of a dollar, I'm never going to give 100,000 out of a
never going to give 100,000 out of a million."
million." See, don't wait to give. And it doesn't
See, don't wait to give. And it doesn't just your money, it's your time, it's
just your money, it's your time, it's your energy. When you give, you become a
your energy. When you give, you become a creator again and your stress will
creator again and your stress will disappear. And so I invite you to step
disappear. And so I invite you to step up to give yourself the gift of learning
up to give yourself the gift of learning and growing. Come join us if you will.
and growing. Come join us if you will. Don't put it off. Don't say someday.
Don't put it off. Don't say someday. Someday's not going to come. Give
Someday's not going to come. Give yourself the gift. And I promise I'll
yourself the gift. And I promise I'll serve your level that's never. I haven't
serve your level that's never. I haven't held back this time. I've given you
held back this time. I've given you everything I got. But you got to take
everything I got. But you got to take the ball now and run with it. And maybe
the ball now and run with it. And maybe it's time for you to do something really
it's time for you to do something really special when you think you have nothing
special when you think you have nothing to somebody else. If you do that, you'll
to somebody else. If you do that, you'll be free, too. And I'm grateful, so
be free, too. And I'm grateful, so grateful to be able to serve you.
So, so we're not done, but listen, we have 70% of the people are enrolled. If
have 70% of the people are enrolled. If you want to come, please get yourself
you want to come, please get yourself enrolled because our limitation is we
enrolled because our limitation is we have in every Zoom room, we have
have in every Zoom room, we have trainers and we only have so many
trainers and we only have so many trainers. So, we're already 70% full. If
trainers. So, we're already 70% full. If you're going to do this, please come
you're going to do this, please come join us. I hope you felt served, but
join us. I hope you felt served, but we're not done yet. Two more pieces that
we're not done yet. Two more pieces that are valuable. I'm just a bit emotional.
are valuable. I'm just a bit emotional. How many feel like you've been served at
How many feel like you've been served at many levels beyond what you imagine,
many levels beyond what you imagine, ladies and gentlemen.
So, two more things. I want to now give you a gift. There's a gentleman in my
you a gift. There's a gentleman in my life that's been in my life for the last
life that's been in my life for the last 15 years who has become my dearest
15 years who has become my dearest friends. And he's a gentleman who it
friends. And he's a gentleman who it doesn't matter what we go through, he's
doesn't matter what we go through, he's always finds a way to take things to the
always finds a way to take things to the next level. In fact, I'm here today with
next level. In fact, I'm here today with you primarily because of him. Because
you primarily because of him. Because when 2008 happened or excuse me, 2020
when 2008 happened or excuse me, 2020 happened and we had COVID and they shut
happened and we had COVID and they shut down all the stadiums. I'm used to doing
down all the stadiums. I'm used to doing these NBA stadiums of 15 20,000 people
these NBA stadiums of 15 20,000 people all over the earth and I want to serve
all over the earth and I want to serve people. And he said, "Tony, I think you
people. And he said, "Tony, I think you got to do a webinar." I'm like, "A
got to do a webinar." I'm like, "A webinar? I'm not doing a webinar." But
webinar? I'm not doing a webinar." But then I expanded. I said, "Let's build a
then I expanded. I said, "Let's build a studio. Let's do 20. You haven't seen my
studio. Let's do 20. You haven't seen my studio. This is where we started here."
studio. This is where we started here." Because we didn't have a studio, but you
Because we didn't have a studio, but you will when you come unleash power then.
will when you come unleash power then. But I want I want 20 foot ceilings. I'm
But I want I want 20 foot ceilings. I'm going to do He goes, "Okay, you do it
going to do He goes, "Okay, you do it your level." But Dean's the one who
your level." But Dean's the one who really triggered me to figure out how to
really triggered me to figure out how to do this. And I want to have him share
do this. And I want to have him share with you something. He actually learned
with you something. He actually learned from me, but he's got his own twist on
from me, but he's got his own twist on it. And it's phenomenal. He is. He cares
it. And it's phenomenal. He is. He cares as deeply as I do about serving people.
as deeply as I do about serving people. And I wanted to give you an experience
And I wanted to give you an experience real quickly here that I think you'll
real quickly here that I think you'll find really valuable. It'll it'll shift
find really valuable. It'll it'll shift you if you use it. So I want to
you if you use it. So I want to introduce him to you. He's going to
introduce him to you. He's going to share with you and then I'm going to
share with you and then I'm going to come back here to finish up. So please
come back here to finish up. So please give it up for my dear friend Dean
give it up for my dear friend Dean Graciosi.
First off, um, what an amazing morning. Anybody else have tears all morning or
Anybody else have tears all morning or just me? And he's my brother. I get to
just me? And he's my brother. I get to talk to him every day. Um, what an
talk to him every day. Um, what an amazing day. What of a incredible group
amazing day. What of a incredible group of humans. There's one thing you got to
of humans. There's one thing you got to realize. You guys are so on fire. You're
realize. You guys are so on fire. You're lighting up the chat. I We could see
lighting up the chat. I We could see your faces, your smiles. That energy you
your faces, your smiles. That energy you give gives it back to us. That's why
give gives it back to us. That's why Tony left me a message last night. We
Tony left me a message last night. We talked this morning on what an amazing
talked this morning on what an amazing group of humans at such a crazy time in
group of humans at such a crazy time in history. So, I just got to say
history. So, I just got to say congratulations for being here.
congratulations for being here. Congratulations for taking action,
Congratulations for taking action, taking a Saturday. Everybody talks about
taking a Saturday. Everybody talks about wanting more. You're willing to do it.
wanting more. You're willing to do it. I'd love to know real quick, raise your
I'd love to know real quick, raise your hand or put new in the chat if you're
hand or put new in the chat if you're new to Tony. And if you're family, put
new to Tony. And if you're family, put family in the chat. I'd love to see. So,
family in the chat. I'd love to see. So, raise your hand if it's if you're new.
raise your hand if it's if you're new. That's about half the people. I can see
That's about half the people. I can see hundreds of you on the screen. Family,
hundreds of you on the screen. Family, new, family, new. Awesome. And who's uh
new, family, new. Awesome. And who's uh already had some amazing value this
already had some amazing value this weekend. Right
weekend. Right before I before I get to that exercise
before I before I get to that exercise Tony was sharing, I can't wait to share
Tony was sharing, I can't wait to share it with you. It's something I do every
it with you. It's something I do every month of my life. I feel like it's moved
month of my life. I feel like it's moved the needle for me more than anything
the needle for me more than anything else. I got to be honest about Tone. My
else. I got to be honest about Tone. My life is kind of before Tony Robbins and
life is kind of before Tony Robbins and after Tony Robbins. And that's a true
after Tony Robbins. And that's a true story. And I'm not too proud to say it
story. And I'm not too proud to say it out loud. He was really this inflection
out loud. He was really this inflection point. You know, I I I'm so grateful
point. You know, I I I'm so grateful that he chose this path because if he
that he chose this path because if he didn't chose this path, then I don't
didn't chose this path, then I don't know if I'd be on the journey that I'm
know if I'd be on the journey that I'm on. You know, we're from over a hundred
on. You know, we're from over a hundred countries. We have different languages,
countries. We have different languages, different backgrounds, different
different backgrounds, different families. But you know, the cool part
families. But you know, the cool part who Tony brings together,
who Tony brings together, all of us who have one thing in common,
all of us who have one thing in common, we all know that we're meant for more.
we all know that we're meant for more. Whether that's more success or more joy
Whether that's more success or more joy or more love or more health or more
or more love or more health or more connection. Raise your hand if you know
connection. Raise your hand if you know you're meant for more and you're ready
you're meant for more and you're ready to make 2026 the year that you go get it
to make 2026 the year that you go get it right.
right. You know, as I said, nobody has showed
You know, as I said, nobody has showed me the paths and the patterns to success
me the paths and the patterns to success like Tony. You know, many many years
like Tony. You know, many many years ago, he shared something with me uh like
ago, he shared something with me uh like I like he just said, it was a training
I like he just said, it was a training to fill the gap in your life. And I've
to fill the gap in your life. And I've modified it over 20 years. And again, I
modified it over 20 years. And again, I can't wait to share it with you because
can't wait to share it with you because it keeps me focused. It accelerated my
it keeps me focused. It accelerated my success. It keeps momentum. It makes it
success. It keeps momentum. It makes it so today is not the end of three amazing
so today is not the end of three amazing days. It's the beginning of a new you.
days. It's the beginning of a new you. It even disturbs you when you stall. It
It even disturbs you when you stall. It makes sure that Monday, cuz it's coming,
makes sure that Monday, cuz it's coming, life sometimes wants to reel you back
life sometimes wants to reel you back in. As Tony was sharing earlier, isn't
in. As Tony was sharing earlier, isn't it easy to be excited, to be motivated,
it easy to be excited, to be motivated, to be inspired and then life slowly
to be inspired and then life slowly brings you back and you don't even know
brings you back and you don't even know when you gave up on your dreams. And
when you gave up on your dreams. And that would be the last thing Tony would
that would be the last thing Tony would want for you. So, I'm excited to share
want for you. So, I'm excited to share this. But before that, before and and I
this. But before that, before and and I take about 10 minutes to share, I got to
take about 10 minutes to share, I got to give a little history here. You know, 29
give a little history here. You know, 29 years ago, I bought personal power. Some
years ago, I bought personal power. Some of you have that opportunity now. Um,
of you have that opportunity now. Um, and it's more advanced. It's got AI,
and it's more advanced. It's got AI, right?
right? And it was the first time I ever
And it was the first time I ever purchased anything like that. And I
purchased anything like that. And I devoured it. I realized a couple of
devoured it. I realized a couple of things, the biggest shifts in my life.
things, the biggest shifts in my life. That life happened for me, not to me.
That life happened for me, not to me. Anybody feel that this weekend? That
Anybody feel that this weekend? That what if life happened for you? That you
what if life happened for you? That you could change your story. You could
could change your story. You could change your life. That your past, even
change your life. That your past, even though if it was tough, could be the
though if it was tough, could be the wind behind your sail, not the anchor
wind behind your sail, not the anchor holding you back. I could even blame my
holding you back. I could even blame my parents in a good way for the man that I
parents in a good way for the man that I became. everything shifted and I
became. everything shifted and I couldn't wait to thank him someday. I
couldn't wait to thank him someday. I feel blessed that we're dear friends and
feel blessed that we're dear friends and get to do great stuff together. But that
get to do great stuff together. But that shifted, but also something really
shifted, but also something really important happened to me when I listened
important happened to me when I listened to Tony.
to Tony. I realized that the fastest way to get
I realized that the fastest way to get from where you are to where you want to
from where you are to where you want to be, and we're all human. We're all
be, and we're all human. We're all dealing with the human condition and the
dealing with the human condition and the things that slow us down or stop us. But
things that slow us down or stop us. But the fastest way to find someone who's
the fastest way to find someone who's already done what you want to do and
already done what you want to do and model it, you you pay for speed. Many of
model it, you you pay for speed. Many of you are smart enough to be doing that
you are smart enough to be doing that already. That's even when I went into
already. That's even when I went into this industry because it was so
this industry because it was so impactful.
impactful. And when Tony and I finally met 14 years
And when Tony and I finally met 14 years ago, one day became, you know, one hour
ago, one day became, you know, one hour became a day, a day became week after
became a day, a day became week after week, and it became a friendship where
week, and it became a friendship where we've gotten to do so many great things.
we've gotten to do so many great things. And the last thing I'll say, and I'll
And the last thing I'll say, and I'll get into this, is I've been blessed to
get into this, is I've been blessed to meet presidents, to meet billionaires,
meet presidents, to meet billionaires, meet some of the most successful people
meet some of the most successful people in the world. I don't say that to brag.
in the world. I don't say that to brag. I say that sometimes you got to be
I say that sometimes you got to be careful when you meet your heroes. The
careful when you meet your heroes. The person who writes a book on kindness
person who writes a book on kindness yells at the waitress. The person with
yells at the waitress. The person with time management uh products is always
time management uh products is always late. And I got to tell you, Tony
late. And I got to tell you, Tony Robbins, if this is the first time
Robbins, if this is the first time you're meeting him, he's the man you
you're meeting him, he's the man you think he is and more. He does more in
think he is and more. He does more in the invisible than anyone I've ever met.
the invisible than anyone I've ever met. He inspires me to go deeper. He inspires
He inspires me to go deeper. He inspires me to be stronger. He inspires me to be
me to be stronger. He inspires me to be the man I'm meant to be and impact
the man I'm meant to be and impact others. So before I go on any further, I
others. So before I go on any further, I want to say love you. I appreciate you,
want to say love you. I appreciate you, Tone. If we could give Tone a little
Tone. If we could give Tone a little love in the chat and then we'll get to
love in the chat and then we'll get to work.
All right. So before I get into this exercise, I want to tell you a a moment
exercise, I want to tell you a a moment in my life that anchored a lot of these
in my life that anchored a lot of these things because a lot of times, I mean,
things because a lot of times, I mean, the last three days has been
the last three days has been unbelievable. and it's it's here. It's
unbelievable. and it's it's here. It's on the ed. You're in state. You're ready
on the ed. You're in state. You're ready to move forward. But sometimes there's
to move forward. But sometimes there's things that just anchor it in. And this
things that just anchor it in. And this one did it for me about probably 10 or
one did it for me about probably 10 or 12 years ago. Uh I had my whole family
12 years ago. Uh I had my whole family go to Mexico for a family reunion. And
go to Mexico for a family reunion. And my stepdad, Lenny, who had been in my
my stepdad, Lenny, who had been in my life since I was little. He's like a
life since I was little. He's like a second father, a really great man. We
second father, a really great man. We all go to Mexico. I'll make the story
all go to Mexico. I'll make the story quick. And um it was my mom's high
quick. And um it was my mom's high school boyfriend. He went off to the
school boyfriend. He went off to the army. It didn't work out. They got back
army. It didn't work out. They got back together. so in love. But while we were
together. so in love. But while we were in Mexico, his colon burst and he almost
in Mexico, his colon burst and he almost died. Um, and while he was in he was
died. Um, and while he was in he was bleeding really bad. He asked for me. He
bleeding really bad. He asked for me. He didn't want to talk to my mom or
didn't want to talk to my mom or anybody. Our whole family was there. He
anybody. Our whole family was there. He wanted to talk to me. And I walked in
wanted to talk to me. And I walked in and he had lost so much blood. Those in
and he had lost so much blood. Those in the medical field will understand. He
the medical field will understand. He lost so much blood in his body that they
lost so much blood in his body that they had to lift his feet up so blood would
had to lift his feet up so blood would go to his head so he could even talk.
go to his head so he could even talk. And he looked at me and he just held my
And he looked at me and he just held my hand and he said, "If I don't make it,"
hand and he said, "If I don't make it," I'm like, "You're going." He said, "If I
I'm like, "You're going." He said, "If I don't make it," he was, "I just want to
don't make it," he was, "I just want to tell you, I should have loved your
tell you, I should have loved your mother harder. I should have started
mother harder. I should have started that business she begged me to start."
that business she begged me to start." And he went through this laundry list of
And he went through this laundry list of things that he should have done. Now, I
things that he should have done. Now, I say he survived that. He lasted a couple
say he survived that. He lasted a couple more years, and him and my mom had an
more years, and him and my mom had an amazing few years. But that shifted my
amazing few years. But that shifted my life. It proved everything that I
life. It proved everything that I believe. I I don't want to live a life
believe. I I don't want to live a life of almosts and should haves.
of almosts and should haves. And I saw it and and and I try to do
And I saw it and and and I try to do everything I'm empowered to realize.
everything I'm empowered to realize. Like I think Tony uses the rocking chair
Like I think Tony uses the rocking chair analogy. I think of imagine getting to
analogy. I think of imagine getting to the end of your life and whoever you
the end of your life and whoever you believe your maker is plays you a video
believe your maker is plays you a video of the person you could have been
of the person you could have been more brave, more bold, more confident,
more brave, more bold, more confident, more joyful, more success, more freedom,
more joyful, more success, more freedom, more of you unlocking that creativity or
more of you unlocking that creativity or having passion and intimacy in your
having passion and intimacy in your life. I don't know what it is, but if
life. I don't know what it is, but if you watch that at the end of your life,
you watch that at the end of your life, what would your wish be if you saw who
what would your wish be if you saw who you could have been? and put it in the
you could have been? and put it in the chat. What would that one wish be? I've
chat. What would that one wish be? I've asked a lot of people this and it's
asked a lot of people this and it's always to go back, right? Who would like
always to go back, right? Who would like to go back if you had that opportunity,
to go back if you had that opportunity, right? Well, here's what I want to say
right? Well, here's what I want to say before we move forward is wish granted
before we move forward is wish granted because you're here today. You're at
because you're here today. You're at this incredible event and you have the
this incredible event and you have the opportunity to make changes now, right?
opportunity to make changes now, right? As Tony said, the best time to change
As Tony said, the best time to change was last week, last year. The second
was last week, last year. The second best time is today.
best time is today. So, this is the moment to stay
So, this is the moment to stay connected, to learn new patterns, to do
connected, to learn new patterns, to do something bigger, do something that
something bigger, do something that scares you,
scares you, and lean into who you're meant to be.
and lean into who you're meant to be. All right, who's ready to do a quick
All right, who's ready to do a quick exercise that I learned from Tony
exercise that I learned from Tony Robbins that has shifted my life? And
Robbins that has shifted my life? And I'm going to tell you, playful out on
I'm going to tell you, playful out on this one.
this one. Light up the chat because you'll help
Light up the chat because you'll help every you'll help other people as well.
every you'll help other people as well. Let's go over the whiteboard.
All change, I'm going to start here. All change starts with being honest.
change starts with being honest. And I look at where you are to start,
And I look at where you are to start, where you are right now. Not physically,
where you are right now. Not physically, but where are you in your life? If
but where are you in your life? If you're really honest,
you're really honest, why are you here? Right?
why are you here? Right? If you think about it,
If you think about it, like a GPS, right? Think of GPS. We need
like a GPS, right? Think of GPS. We need a starting point before we can get to
a starting point before we can get to our destination. True. Right. So, put in
our destination. True. Right. So, put in the chat why are where are you right in
the chat why are where are you right in this present moment with your
this present moment with your relationship, with your health, with
relationship, with your health, with your career, with your income, with your
your career, with your income, with your beliefs, with what you desire.
beliefs, with what you desire. You know, sometimes
You know, sometimes sometimes you even got to go to the dark
sometimes you even got to go to the dark side and be brutally honest. You know,
side and be brutally honest. You know, you can be blessed and still be
you can be blessed and still be uncomfortable or unsatisfied where you
uncomfortable or unsatisfied where you want to go. We should all be blessed.
want to go. We should all be blessed. 170,000 people die a day. We didn't. We
170,000 people die a day. We didn't. We are truly blessed. But it doesn't mean
are truly blessed. But it doesn't mean you need to say this is good enough.
you need to say this is good enough. So when we are brutally honest with
So when we are brutally honest with ourselves,
ourselves, we can get disturbed with inaction. Tony
we can get disturbed with inaction. Tony always says it takes the most energy to
always says it takes the most energy to get the rocket off the ground. So
get the rocket off the ground. So sometimes we got to say, "I'm unhappy.
sometimes we got to say, "I'm unhappy. I'm currently in a place of discovery."
I'm currently in a place of discovery." I love it. Getting started again after a
I love it. Getting started again after a rough few years. Uncomfortable. Ready to
rough few years. Uncomfortable. Ready to move. ready for what's possible, right?
move. ready for what's possible, right? My career. I want in a next level
My career. I want in a next level career. I want next level health. I'm
career. I want next level health. I'm ready to move. No more no more regret.
ready to move. No more no more regret. I'm ready to move. Starting over, right?
I'm ready to move. Starting over, right? This is that emotion, that GPS starting
This is that emotion, that GPS starting point that gets you ready to go to the
point that gets you ready to go to the next level.
next level. So if you know where you are as a
So if you know where you are as a starting point, again, you can be
starting point, again, you can be blessed while simultaneously knowing
blessed while simultaneously knowing there's another level, right? I'm
there's another level, right? I'm hungry. I'm unfulfilled and
hungry. I'm unfulfilled and dissatisfied. Great. I love the honesty.
dissatisfied. Great. I love the honesty. And the more honest you are,
And the more honest you are, the better reaction you have. And again,
the better reaction you have. And again, I was saying earlier, if you got to go
I was saying earlier, if you got to go to the dark side of like, what would it
to the dark side of like, what would it feel like if you left it here, right?
feel like if you left it here, right? Sometimes we need that extra burst. Like
Sometimes we need that extra burst. Like Tony says, I said earlier, the rocket
Tony says, I said earlier, the rocket getting off the ground, that's when most
getting off the ground, that's when most of the energy is needed. So if you got
of the energy is needed. So if you got to get a little disturbed, that's okay.
to get a little disturbed, that's okay. Great. I love I love you guys are
Great. I love I love you guys are playing full out. I love being with the
playing full out. I love being with the Tony audience. Okay, where are you? The
Tony audience. Okay, where are you? The next part, if you know where you are,
next part, if you know where you are, your GPS, your starting point, what's
your GPS, your starting point, what's your destination? And that's where do
your destination? And that's where do you want to go?
You know, sometimes with a phone and life and goals and family and juggle,
life and goals and family and juggle, looking at your goals can be a little
looking at your goals can be a little cloudy. There's so much going on. So, I
cloudy. There's so much going on. So, I want to challenge you to do something
want to challenge you to do something else. Instead of looking forward what
else. Instead of looking forward what the next year is going to be like, let's
the next year is going to be like, let's pretend it's a year from now. We're back
pretend it's a year from now. We're back here celebrating and it was the best
here celebrating and it was the best year of your life. What had to happen
year of your life. What had to happen for that to be true?
for that to be true? That's your compelling future.
That's your compelling future. I heard somebody say once, "Fuzzy
I heard somebody say once, "Fuzzy targets don't get hit." It's like, "I
targets don't get hit." It's like, "I can't see too good without my glasses."
can't see too good without my glasses." I couldn't hit anything without them on,
I couldn't hit anything without them on, but when I am on, I could see the
but when I am on, I could see the target. And that's the same with
target. And that's the same with identifying where it is that you want to
identifying where it is that you want to go.
go. And also, it's crazy, but our brain also
And also, it's crazy, but our brain also can bring us to what we don't want. We
can bring us to what we don't want. We don't realize it. Somebody says, "You
don't realize it. Somebody says, "You ask 10 people, you know, what they want
ask 10 people, you know, what they want out of life. They'll tell you what they
out of life. They'll tell you what they don't want." I watched Tony probably a
don't want." I watched Tony probably a decade ago bring a guy on stage, a
decade ago bring a guy on stage, a gentleman on stage. He sat him in a
gentleman on stage. He sat him in a chair with a whiteboard alongside him.
chair with a whiteboard alongside him. He said, "Tell me all the things you
He said, "Tell me all the things you don't want out of life." Tony could not
don't want out of life." Tony could not write fast enough and it's sloppy
write fast enough and it's sloppy writing. He was writing, writing,
writing. He was writing, writing, writing. Right up the side, right up the
writing. Right up the side, right up the side. He took him out of the chair. He
side. He took him out of the chair. He walked him over to another chair with a
walked him over to another chair with a clean whiteboard and he said, "Okay, now
clean whiteboard and he said, "Okay, now tell me what you want out of life. Where
tell me what you want out of life. Where do you want to go?" And the guy was
do you want to go?" And the guy was like, "Um,
like, "Um, hm, good question. Let me think.
hm, good question. Let me think. So, if you think about it in life, so
So, if you think about it in life, so many times we're focusing on what we
many times we're focusing on what we don't want and we just get more of it.
don't want and we just get more of it. Tony tells incredible stories of that,
Tony tells incredible stories of that, right? He talks, I don't know if you
right? He talks, I don't know if you ever heard the NASCAR when he was
ever heard the NASCAR when he was learning how to drive a a race car. He
learning how to drive a a race car. He had to focus on the clearing, not the
had to focus on the clearing, not the wall. So many times in life, we're
wall. So many times in life, we're focusing on the wall. We're going fast.
focusing on the wall. We're going fast. I don't want to hit it. And you run into
I don't want to hit it. And you run into it. When we got to force ourselves to
it. When we got to force ourselves to say, "This is my compelling future. This
say, "This is my compelling future. This is what I want. This is clear to me.
And you got to make sure you're not just focusing on what you don't want or
focusing on what you don't want or you'll keep keep running into it. So we
you'll keep keep running into it. So we have to create a compelling future. So
have to create a compelling future. So in the chat, if it was a year from now
in the chat, if it was a year from now and it was the greatest year of your
and it was the greatest year of your life, you stayed connected, you stayed
life, you stayed connected, you stayed plugged in, you didn't play small, you
plugged in, you didn't play small, you found that courage, you busted through
found that courage, you busted through imposttor syndrome or fear, regret,
imposttor syndrome or fear, regret, guilt.
guilt. What would the best year of your life
What would the best year of your life look like? maybe with your relationships
look like? maybe with your relationships or your income or your career or the
or your income or your career or the business you launched or just finding
business you launched or just finding yourself again. I think this is so
yourself again. I think this is so beautiful. Freedom, peace, freedom, and
beautiful. Freedom, peace, freedom, and peace of mind.
peace of mind. Publish a novel. Travel the world.
Publish a novel. Travel the world. Passionate relationship and daily joy.
Passionate relationship and daily joy. This is so beautiful.
This is so beautiful. Proud,
Proud, content, at peace,
content, at peace, money breakthrough, spa owner, two
money breakthrough, spa owner, two managers, 10 therapists, Carrie,
managers, 10 therapists, Carrie, amazing. That's that's an exact target,
financial freedom. See, when we have that destination,
See, when we have that destination, then we know where we're driving to.
then we know where we're driving to. We're not just going fast down the back
We're not just going fast down the back roads with no with no GPS on, right? So,
roads with no with no GPS on, right? So, if you know where you are and you know
if you know where you are and you know where you want to go, and I know I'm
where you want to go, and I know I'm going quick, but I really want this to
going quick, but I really want this to hit home. This is the part next that
hit home. This is the part next that changed everything for me. And I always
changed everything for me. And I always draw a little heart. If anybody we've
draw a little heart. If anybody we've met before, you know I do this every
met before, you know I do this every month of my life. This has been the
month of my life. This has been the biggest game changer ever because this
biggest game changer ever because this always changes. Where you are, where you
always changes. Where you are, where you want to go changes. But then part you
want to go changes. But then part you have to add and Tony taught me this
have to add and Tony taught me this almost 30 years ago. You have to add an
almost 30 years ago. You have to add an emotion.
emotion. You have to add your heart
You have to add your heart because just New Year's resolutions,
because just New Year's resolutions, they're dead by January 18th, by the
they're dead by January 18th, by the way. That's the average.
way. That's the average. Vision boards, they're beautiful and
Vision boards, they're beautiful and people have them. But if there's no
people have them. But if there's no heart attached, then the first time
heart attached, then the first time there's resistance, as Tony talked about
there's resistance, as Tony talked about earlier, the first time there's a dragon
earlier, the first time there's a dragon that tells you you're not enough, you're
that tells you you're not enough, you're too old, you're too young, this isn't
too old, you're too young, this isn't for you, technology doesn't work, love
for you, technology doesn't work, love isn't good, men are bad, women won't
isn't good, men are bad, women won't work. Like, soon as that comes up, you
work. Like, soon as that comes up, you go, "Well, maybe life is good enough."
go, "Well, maybe life is good enough." No, you need a a why. You need your
No, you need a a why. You need your heart so attached to this that nothing
heart so attached to this that nothing will stop you. You'll chew through a
will stop you. You'll chew through a brick wall. You'll climb over anything.
brick wall. You'll climb over anything. You'll crawl across broken glass. You
You'll crawl across broken glass. You know, I don't want to make this about
know, I don't want to make this about me. This is about you. But in my life,
me. This is about you. But in my life, my parents were married nine times when
my parents were married nine times when I was a kid. I moved 20 times by the
I was a kid. I moved 20 times by the time I was 19. It's probably how Tony
time I was 19. It's probably how Tony and I started our first day off. We
and I started our first day off. We talked about our childhood and we
talked about our childhood and we laughed and said how grateful we were
laughed and said how grateful we were for it. But here's what I know. My why
for it. But here's what I know. My why why I drive so hard is because I wanted
why I drive so hard is because I wanted my kids to have choices because I felt
my kids to have choices because I felt like I didn't. And I wanted to be in
like I didn't. And I wanted to be in control of my time and my calendar and
control of my time and my calendar and my decisions. You know what's important
my decisions. You know what's important to me at this age? I I love being
to me at this age? I I love being partners with Tony, the impact we get to
partners with Tony, the impact we get to make. There's so many cool things we do.
make. There's so many cool things we do. But you know, the deepest why I have
But you know, the deepest why I have is making breakfast for my four kids
is making breakfast for my four kids every morning, taking them to school,
every morning, taking them to school, making dance recital. I would hate if
making dance recital. I would hate if someone said, "Hey, you can't make the
someone said, "Hey, you can't make the dance recital today. You know, we got
dance recital today. You know, we got that project. You can't go. I I'd
that project. You can't go. I I'd probably rather die than let somebody
probably rather die than let somebody tell me when, where, and how." Now,
tell me when, where, and how." Now, that's just me. But what is yours? And
that's just me. But what is yours? And usually you find this next level heart
usually you find this next level heart when you ask why a few more times. I
when you ask why a few more times. I want to make more money. Why? I want
want to make more money. Why? I want more freedom. Why? Because I want to be
more freedom. Why? Because I want to be with my children. Why? Because my
with my children. Why? Because my parents weren't with me. O. And all of a
parents weren't with me. O. And all of a sudden, you find this moment when the
sudden, you find this moment when the hair stands up in your arms and your
hair stands up in your arms and your heart beats a little bit faster or tears
heart beats a little bit faster or tears fill up in the corner. That's when you
fill up in the corner. That's when you found it. And and this is the driving
found it. And and this is the driving force. It's great to know where you are
force. It's great to know where you are and where you want to go, but the
and where you want to go, but the driving force is the heart. It's the
driving force is the heart. It's the emotion. Even the emotion of leaving it
emotion. Even the emotion of leaving it the way it is and never experiencing it.
the way it is and never experiencing it. You know, Tony and I were blessed to
You know, Tony and I were blessed to become friends and partner with Matthew
become friends and partner with Matthew McConna and a fun few things. And you
McConna and a fun few things. And you know what he said? He said his driver
know what he said? He said his driver when him and I talked about this. He
when him and I talked about this. He said just not knowing is what drove him.
said just not knowing is what drove him. He said, "I couldn't get to my end end
He said, "I couldn't get to my end end of my life and not know what it's like
of my life and not know what it's like to have real love, not know what it's
to have real love, not know what it's like to do crazy stuff when he was in
like to do crazy stuff when he was in Africa and fight somebody in in a in a
Africa and fight somebody in in a in a foreign village." He said not knowing
foreign village." He said not knowing was enough to drive him crazy, so he
was enough to drive him crazy, so he must. So, I know you're writing these
must. So, I know you're writing these great things, but why why do you want to
great things, but why why do you want to go from here to here? Attach that
go from here to here? Attach that emotion and every time resistance tries
emotion and every time resistance tries to stop you. Remember, it's the heart
to stop you. Remember, it's the heart that'll drive you through. It'll be the
that'll drive you through. It'll be the brain to try to talk you out of what's
brain to try to talk you out of what's logical and the heart will drive you
logical and the heart will drive you through. Cool. You guys getting that?
through. Cool. You guys getting that? Look at all these beautiful comments.
Look at all these beautiful comments. put in the chat why I want to be loved,
put in the chat why I want to be loved, right? I want to show God is real to
right? I want to show God is real to inspire those that are broken. Beautiful
inspire those that are broken. Beautiful messages, guys. Beautiful messages. All
messages, guys. Beautiful messages. All right. So, if you know where you are and
right. So, if you know where you are and you know where you want to go and you
you know where you want to go and you attach an emotion, then the last thing
attach an emotion, then the last thing left is how
how are you going to go from here to here? As Tony calls it, how are you
here? As Tony calls it, how are you going to close the gap? What
going to close the gap? What capabilities do you need? What knowledge
capabilities do you need? What knowledge do you need? What accountability do you
do you need? What accountability do you need? What mindset shifts do you need?
need? What mindset shifts do you need? What tools do you need? That's what
What tools do you need? That's what closes the gap. That's why you're here.
closes the gap. That's why you're here. That's why so many of you must and
That's why so many of you must and you're moving on to unleash the power
you're moving on to unleash the power within to gain these skills, gain these
within to gain these skills, gain these capabilities. I know I wouldn't be the
capabilities. I know I wouldn't be the man I am today without him. And and one
man I am today without him. And and one little secret
little secret is sometimes
is sometimes how can be a little confusing. How can
how can be a little confusing. How can be a little overwhelming. So, replace
be a little overwhelming. So, replace how
how with who.
with who. Who has the skills to help you close
Who has the skills to help you close this gap? Who has the skills that can
this gap? Who has the skills that can help you go faster to reach your goals?
help you go faster to reach your goals? In my life, that who
In my life, that who as I shared has been Tony Robbins.
as I shared has been Tony Robbins. Again, I look back If if I was left
Again, I look back If if I was left alone with my old patterns, my old
alone with my old patterns, my old beliefs, even though I was a hustler and
beliefs, even though I was a hustler and a hard worker before I got enrolled,
a hard worker before I got enrolled, before I got personal power, before I
before I got personal power, before I went to UPW, before I went to Date with
went to UPW, before I went to Date with Destiny and all the rest, I was a hard
Destiny and all the rest, I was a hard worker. I had all the dreams and I had
worker. I had all the dreams and I had momentum.
momentum. But Tony showed me a path that shifted
But Tony showed me a path that shifted everything.
everything. And that's why I'm here today. That's
And that's why I'm here today. That's why if you could feel my passion, my
why if you could feel my passion, my passion to nudge you forward because I
passion to nudge you forward because I don't want this to be the end of three
don't want this to be the end of three days for you. I want you to see what's
days for you. I want you to see what's possible when you gain skills and
possible when you gain skills and capability and have the right team
capability and have the right team beside you. Because this is the start of
beside you. Because this is the start of the new you or the start of you being
the new you or the start of you being inspired and going, "Oh, that was fun."
inspired and going, "Oh, that was fun." You know, people ask me, "Why are you
You know, people ask me, "Why are you still so passionate about what you do?
still so passionate about what you do? You could retire. You go live on an
You could retire. You go live on an island." You know why? Because I know
island." You know why? Because I know what it's like
what it's like to be on the side of just wanting more,
to be on the side of just wanting more, dreaming about it, knowing I had more to
dreaming about it, knowing I had more to give the world. And I also know the
give the world. And I also know the other side of achieving more than I ever
other side of achieving more than I ever imagined.
imagined. And when you feel that, you want to
And when you feel that, you want to share it with everybody. And if it
share it with everybody. And if it sounds like I'm trying to push you or
sounds like I'm trying to push you or enroll you, I am. I'm completely honest
enroll you, I am. I'm completely honest with that because I want you to
with that because I want you to experience the other side.
experience the other side. And that's why Tony created the 2026
And that's why Tony created the 2026 Rise Up experience. I get to be a part
Rise Up experience. I get to be a part of this. I watch how the team obsesses
of this. I watch how the team obsesses on this.
on this. It's a complete package to redesign and
It's a complete package to redesign and design 2026 to make it the best year of
design 2026 to make it the best year of your life. In fact, I'm going to take
your life. In fact, I'm going to take two seconds and go over to the fancy
two seconds and go over to the fancy whiteboard. I'll show you my my fancy
whiteboard. I'll show you my my fancy slides. I just want to show you really
slides. I just want to show you really quick through my lens from someone who's
quick through my lens from someone who's an outsider and an insider why this
an outsider and an insider why this package is unlike anything Tony's ever
package is unlike anything Tony's ever put together before. It's called the
put together before. It's called the 2020 RiseUp Experience. It starts with
2020 RiseUp Experience. It starts with personal power plus. Do you know what
personal power plus. Do you know what this really is? This is the before.
this really is? This is the before. This is to take the number one personal
This is to take the number one personal development program in the world and use
development program in the world and use it enough to stay in the right state of
it enough to stay in the right state of mind to keep this energy to keep this
mind to keep this energy to keep this momentum alive between now and the
momentum alive between now and the event. And the cool part, the plus is
event. And the cool part, the plus is because well, the team added AI to make
because well, the team added AI to make it interactive. Oh my goodness, it is
it interactive. Oh my goodness, it is unbelievable. So that's all it is. This
unbelievable. So that's all it is. This is just the before.
is just the before. You get instant access to that and you
You get instant access to that and you could keep this feeling you have today
could keep this feeling you have today for the next, you know, 40 days or so
for the next, you know, 40 days or so until the event and then you come to the
until the event and then you come to the legendary unleash the power within
legendary unleash the power within virtual. That's March 12th through the
virtual. That's March 12th through the 15th.
15th. Someone asked me what is the difference
Someone asked me what is the difference between this event and UPW for those
between this event and UPW for those that are new. This event is amazing but
that are new. This event is amazing but this event is about inspiration and
this event is about inspiration and giving you a glimpse.
giving you a glimpse. UPW is about transformation. As Tony
UPW is about transformation. As Tony says, life will never be the same again.
says, life will never be the same again. That's the difference between the two.
That's the difference between the two. This is the star of the show, by the
This is the star of the show, by the way. UPW is the star of the show. And
way. UPW is the star of the show. And you get it in your in your living room.
you get it in your in your living room. You get a front row virtual seat from a
You get a front row virtual seat from a studio he spent $22 million on. I don't
studio he spent $22 million on. I don't even know if I'm supposed to say that.
even know if I'm supposed to say that. It's the most interactive experience
It's the most interactive experience from the comfort of your home. And
from the comfort of your home. And here's what I want to tell you. In a
here's what I want to tell you. In a hundred years from now, they'll still be
hundred years from now, they'll still be talking about Unleash the Power Within.
talking about Unleash the Power Within. and you get to tell people I was there.
and you get to tell people I was there. Here's what I'll say. If you're new, you
Here's what I'll say. If you're new, you must go. And if you've been, it's time
must go. And if you've been, it's time to go again. Right.
to go again. Right. Let's see next.
Let's see next. I forgot what button to hit. It's that
I forgot what button to hit. It's that one. Uh the take action workshop. Okay.
one. Uh the take action workshop. Okay. This is an implement implementation. So
This is an implement implementation. So if this is the before, right? This is
if this is the before, right? This is the during the star of the show, unleash
the during the star of the show, unleash the power within. And this is the after.
the power within. And this is the after. This is just to make sure that when you
This is just to make sure that when you take the 50 hours of what you learn from
take the 50 hours of what you learn from Tony and the team that you implement,
Tony and the team that you implement, that you make it work. And here's the
that you make it work. And here's the cool part. I'll get to hang out with you
cool part. I'll get to hang out with you again because Tony asked me to head up
again because Tony asked me to head up the implementation workshop. We'll do it
the implementation workshop. We'll do it a week or so after the event about 90
a week or so after the event about 90 minutes and we'll lay out a 90day plan
minutes and we'll lay out a 90day plan of action because knowledge without
of action because knowledge without action we all know is useless. So we
action we all know is useless. So we want to just we just want to make sure
want to just we just want to make sure after all of this you go all right this
after all of this you go all right this is the first step. this is the next step
is the first step. this is the next step and you keep the momentum. Again,
and you keep the momentum. Again, Tony doesn't have to do this. I hope you
Tony doesn't have to do this. I hope you see his passion. Those tears are real
see his passion. Those tears are real because his whole life is about impact.
because his whole life is about impact. And the reason he put this together is
And the reason he put this together is because he doesn't want you just to be
because he doesn't want you just to be there and have fun and get in state. But
there and have fun and get in state. But the greatest gift you could give him is
the greatest gift you could give him is to shift your life. So that's why you
to shift your life. So that's why you get the before, the during, and the
get the before, the during, and the after. Personal power to keep you in
after. Personal power to keep you in state. Unleash the power to transform
state. Unleash the power to transform your life. And then the take action
your life. And then the take action worksheet. And then the last piece to
worksheet. And then the last piece to make it really simple to push it over
make it really simple to push it over the edge, he gave you a bonus. The time
the edge, he gave you a bonus. The time mastery design your life. It's really
mastery design your life. It's really designed to give you time back. It's his
designed to give you time back. It's his best time management program. Time
best time management program. Time management is even an understatement.
management is even an understatement. It's a shift in how you look at it. It
It's a shift in how you look at it. It will give you five or 10 hours a week
will give you five or 10 hours a week and he just knows if he can give you
and he just knows if he can give you time back then you can utilize all this
time back then you can utilize all this to shift your life. And here's the cool
to shift your life. And here's the cool part. Once a year, Tony does this. And
part. Once a year, Tony does this. And it's not $2,000. It's not $1,000. This
it's not $2,000. It's not $1,000. This time a year only, it's $495
time a year only, it's $495 for all of it. I did the math before I
for all of it. I did the math before I started. It's a$135
started. It's a$135 a day if you look at it for 2026 to make
a day if you look at it for 2026 to make it the best year of your life. There's
it the best year of your life. There's even a payment plan available. And
even a payment plan available. And again, if it seems like I'm nudging you,
again, if it seems like I'm nudging you, the fact is I am. I don't push on
the fact is I am. I don't push on anything I don't think would change your
anything I don't think would change your life. I feel like I'd be doing a
life. I feel like I'd be doing a disservice if you're ready for another
disservice if you're ready for another level and you're not utilizing
level and you're not utilizing especially next week when you come back.
especially next week when you come back. This offer will be gone. So, write this
This offer will be gone. So, write this down or go to join unleash.com.
down or go to join unleash.com. In a moment here, there's going to be a
In a moment here, there's going to be a quick little break. This is the time.
quick little break. This is the time. This is the last day. And two things I
This is the last day. And two things I wanted to do. You don't need it. This
wanted to do. You don't need it. This package Tony put together is priceless.
package Tony put together is priceless. You're going to thank me. You're going
You're going to thank me. You're going to thank him. But I had two bonuses I
to thank him. But I had two bonuses I wanted to add just for fun. They asked
wanted to add just for fun. They asked me to if I wanted to add a bonus. I
me to if I wanted to add a bonus. I said, "Let me add one." And they're
said, "Let me add one." And they're like, "No, no, I'm going to add two."
like, "No, no, I'm going to add two." One, I got paid to create a lesson on
One, I got paid to create a lesson on the 14 things I wish I knew sooner about
the 14 things I wish I knew sooner about life, success, and business. It's a
life, success, and business. It's a training I did. I got paid for it.
training I did. I got paid for it. You're going to get those 14 lessons.
You're going to get those 14 lessons. They're the little hinges that swing a
They're the little hinges that swing a big door. And then I also did a training
big door. And then I also did a training on Ma with Matthew McConna on how to
on Ma with Matthew McConna on how to journal for success. He used it to write
journal for success. He used it to write green lights and all the other stuff.
green lights and all the other stuff. It's a behind a payw wall interview. I'm
It's a behind a payw wall interview. I'm going to make sure you get that as well.
going to make sure you get that as well. Just as a little nudge to say
Just as a little nudge to say congratulations to the action takers and
congratulations to the action takers and to those that are maybe on the edge.
to those that are maybe on the edge. Maybe I hope nudges you and I promise
Maybe I hope nudges you and I promise you'll thank me. Listen, let me recap
you'll thank me. Listen, let me recap really quick what you get.
really quick what you get. You get personal power plus updated with
You get personal power plus updated with AI to keep the momentum before. You get
AI to keep the momentum before. You get a virtual front row seat to the
a virtual front row seat to the legendary unleash the power within. You
legendary unleash the power within. You get the implementation workshop with me
get the implementation workshop with me and myself, 90 minutes to do a 90-day
and myself, 90 minutes to do a 90-day action plan. And you get the bonus
action plan. And you get the bonus course and training to buy back time for
course and training to buy back time for $135 a day. And yes, it's limited. Like
$135 a day. And yes, it's limited. Like I said, if you come back next week, this
I said, if you come back next week, this offer will be gone. So go to
offer will be gone. So go to joinunleash.com.
joinunleash.com. There's we're going to take a few minute
There's we're going to take a few minute break, maybe 10, 12 minute break. This
break, maybe 10, 12 minute break. This is your time. This is the last break to
is your time. This is the last break to enroll. And once you're in, put it in
enroll. And once you're in, put it in the chat, I'm in. I know Tony's
the chat, I'm in. I know Tony's watching. I'd love to see. Don't go to
watching. I'd love to see. Don't go to bed with regret. Go to bed excited to
bed with regret. Go to bed excited to say yes to yourself. Don't let this be
say yes to yourself. Don't let this be the end. Let it be the beginning. Don't
the end. Let it be the beginning. Don't face it alone. Let's make 2026 the year.
face it alone. Let's make 2026 the year. Look at this. I'm in. I'm in. Brandon
Look at this. I'm in. I'm in. Brandon and Isabelle and Reagan and Kathy and
and Isabelle and Reagan and Kathy and Susie amazing. I can't wait to see I get
Susie amazing. I can't wait to see I get to speak at UPW as well. I appreciate
to speak at UPW as well. I appreciate you all. This has been incredible. Um
you all. This has been incredible. Um don't after the break come back because
don't after the break come back because Tony's back and then they give away a
Tony's back and then they give away a ticket to Fiji. We got a 12minute break.
ticket to Fiji. We got a 12minute break. Join unleash.com. I'll see you there.
What else have you
Welcome back everybody. Welcome back and congratulations to those of you who have
congratulations to those of you who have enrolled. We can't wait to see you at
enrolled. We can't wait to see you at Unleash the power within.
Take a minute right now. Honor yourselves. This is the best decision
yourselves. This is the best decision that you've ever made thus far.
The energy in that chat is unbelievable. We can feel the energy through that
We can feel the energy through that chat. So, thank you so much. Now,
chat. So, thank you so much. Now, Tonyy's going to be back on in just a
Tonyy's going to be back on in just a minute, but before he comes back on, I
minute, but before he comes back on, I wanted to take a minute or two to share
wanted to take a minute or two to share with you why his teachings and this work
with you why his teachings and this work is so so very important to me. You know,
is so so very important to me. You know, the past few days, we've been asking you
the past few days, we've been asking you to step outside your comfort zone and
to step outside your comfort zone and get vulnerable. So, I thought that it's
get vulnerable. So, I thought that it's only fair that I do the same for you. I
only fair that I do the same for you. I mean, I told you day one that we're in
mean, I told you day one that we're in this together, and I really meant that.
this together, and I really meant that. I also told you that back when I said
I also told you that back when I said yes to Tony's first virtual summit like
yes to Tony's first virtual summit like this, it was at the worst time of my
this, it was at the worst time of my life. But what I didn't tell you is that
life. But what I didn't tell you is that at that time, my father passed away, who
at that time, my father passed away, who was my absolute best friend in the
was my absolute best friend in the world. And then three days later, my
world. And then three days later, my there's my father right there.
there's my father right there. And then three days later, my husband
And then three days later, my husband and I found out that we miscarried. And
and I found out that we miscarried. And not only was this just emotionally
not only was this just emotionally devastating for me, but it really caused
devastating for me, but it really caused a lot of physical health issues for the
a lot of physical health issues for the next few years. And on top of that, the
next few years. And on top of that, the world was shut down because of CO 19. So
world was shut down because of CO 19. So I decided to shift careers. So to say
I decided to shift careers. So to say that it felt like someone pulled the rug
that it felt like someone pulled the rug out from under me, it's an
out from under me, it's an understatement.
understatement. And here's the thing, you guys, my
And here's the thing, you guys, my previous career was as a professional
previous career was as a professional actress on Broadway and TV and film. And
actress on Broadway and TV and film. And if that sounds incredible, it was. It
if that sounds incredible, it was. It was truly my dream since a little girl.
was truly my dream since a little girl. But what that also meant is that
But what that also meant is that everybody else was calling the shots on
everybody else was calling the shots on my life. I could only do that thing that
my life. I could only do that thing that I loved to do, which was sing and dance
I loved to do, which was sing and dance and perform if someone else told me that
and perform if someone else told me that I was good enough, too.
I was good enough, too. And that's when I decided to say yes to
And that's when I decided to say yes to going to Tony's first virtual summit
going to Tony's first virtual summit just like this one. And at that summit,
just like this one. And at that summit, I learned that life is happening for me
I learned that life is happening for me and not to me. And then I made the very
and not to me. And then I made the very the very important decision to attend
the very important decision to attend unleash the power within. And while I
unleash the power within. And while I was there, Tony helped me to gain the
was there, Tony helped me to gain the tools that I needed to step into my new
tools that I needed to step into my new identity. And I'm so honored to say that
identity. And I'm so honored to say that just six years later, I'm so proud to be
just six years later, I'm so proud to be an international keynote speaker, a
an international keynote speaker, a best-selling author, and like I told you
best-selling author, and like I told you yesterday, a real estate investor. Thank
yesterday, a real estate investor. Thank you,
you, But the best part is that now I I get to
But the best part is that now I I get to call the shots on my own life. I get to
call the shots on my own life. I get to create my own time, money, freedom, and
create my own time, money, freedom, and it feels really good. And I know that I
it feels really good. And I know that I am not the only one. There are hundreds
am not the only one. There are hundreds of thousands of people's lives that have
of thousands of people's lives that have been transformed through Unleash the
been transformed through Unleash the Power Within. And and they're now
Power Within. And and they're now stepping into the best versions of
stepping into the best versions of themselves. So I just want you to know
themselves. So I just want you to know that if we can do it, so can you.
that if we can do it, so can you. Please just listen to me when I say
Please just listen to me when I say this. No matter how dark it may feel for
this. No matter how dark it may feel for you, maybe it's hard for you to see the
you, maybe it's hard for you to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I'm
light at the end of the tunnel. I'm looking at you. Trust me, I get it.
looking at you. Trust me, I get it. But by making one important decision,
But by making one important decision, saying yes to attending an event like
saying yes to attending an event like this, Unleash the Power, then you can
this, Unleash the Power, then you can change the entire trajectory of your
change the entire trajectory of your life just like it did mine. So, I just
life just like it did mine. So, I just wanted to share that from the bottom of
wanted to share that from the bottom of my heart and I just want to say that
my heart and I just want to say that your life matters.
your life matters. So do this for yourself. Say yes. You
So do this for yourself. Say yes. You owe it to yourself. We got this one
owe it to yourself. We got this one life, my friends. We got this one life.
life, my friends. We got this one life. Why would we not do everything we can to
Why would we not do everything we can to step into the best versions of
step into the best versions of ourselves? So, thank you for allowing me
ourselves? So, thank you for allowing me to share. Just go to joinunleash.com.
to share. Just go to joinunleash.com. And thank you for allowing me to get
And thank you for allowing me to get vulnerable with you. Now, let's wrap up
vulnerable with you. Now, let's wrap up this extraordinary journey.
You guys are the best. >> Thank you. All right,
>> Thank you. All right, it is time.
it is time. It is time, my friends, my beautiful
It is time, my friends, my beautiful time to rise summit friends to bring the
time to rise summit friends to bring the big guy back out here because he needs
big guy back out here because he needs to give the big grand prize winner a
to give the big grand prize winner a trip to Fiji. So, let's get our energy
trip to Fiji. So, let's get our energy up. Help me welcome back to the stage
up. Help me welcome back to the stage the man himself, Tony Robbins.
There we go. Creat some energy out there.
Yes. If you're feeling strong, say yes. Say yes. Say yes.
Say yes. Say yes. Listen, I want to first of all thank you
Listen, I want to first of all thank you for letting me be in your home and share
for letting me be in your home and share this time with these last three days.
this time with these last three days. It's been a beautiful journey and I want
It's been a beautiful journey and I want to congratulate all of you that going to
to congratulate all of you that going to take the next step. I look forward to
take the next step. I look forward to seeing you and continuing this at a
seeing you and continuing this at a level you can't even imagine. I remember
level you can't even imagine. I remember the first time we did one of these
the first time we did one of these virtual by the way. You know, I can see
virtual by the way. You know, I can see everybody because it'll be in my studio
everybody because it'll be in my studio where it's giant screens all around 50
where it's giant screens all around 50 feet around. We bring people up. You're
feet around. We bring people up. You're 20 feet tall. It was pretty amazing. And
20 feet tall. It was pretty amazing. And I remember seeing these people. I can
I remember seeing these people. I can see people. I can call them by name. So,
see people. I can call them by name. So, what's going on with them all over the
what's going on with them all over the world? And there people in Australia and
world? And there people in Australia and they started at midnight and they go all
they started at midnight and they go all night long. People in Singapore and you
night long. People in Singapore and you could see the sun rising and setting
could see the sun rising and setting different parts of the world. We all
different parts of the world. We all become family. But I'll never forget
become family. But I'll never forget there's this man there. We're going to,
there's this man there. We're going to, by the way, you're going to get a
by the way, you're going to get a workbook sent to you. You're going to
workbook sent to you. You're going to get wood sent to you because the
get wood sent to you because the breakthrough we're going to do is not
breakthrough we're going to do is not going to be firewalking. It's going to
going to be firewalking. It's going to literally a breakthrough with this wood.
literally a breakthrough with this wood. We'll show you. It'll be really fun. And
We'll show you. It'll be really fun. And u so we'll send all that to you. You'll
u so we'll send all that to you. You'll have it. It'll be coming in before the
have it. It'll be coming in before the event. But I remember seeing this man
event. But I remember seeing this man because the first time we ever did it
because the first time we ever did it and he was in India obviously in a
and he was in India obviously in a turban on and his wife was sitting here
turban on and his wife was sitting here in this chair and she's watching me on
in this chair and she's watching me on fairly goodiz screen and you can see the
fairly goodiz screen and you can see the camera and he's walking by and walking
camera and he's walking by and walking by. She's having the time of her life.
by. She's having the time of her life. And after about 30, 40 minutes of it, he
And after about 30, 40 minutes of it, he pushes her aside and he's sitting on the
pushes her aside and he's sitting on the seat. And then we went to go to the wood
seat. And then we went to go to the wood break. There's only one piece of wood
break. There's only one piece of wood because she's the only one enrolled. So,
because she's the only one enrolled. So, he's taking the wood from her. So, we
he's taking the wood from her. So, we can go break the wood. And he didn't
can go break the wood. And he didn't break it cuz he wasn't focused, right?
break it cuz he wasn't focused, right? And she came along and broke the wood,
And she came along and broke the wood, right? So, and I know many of you are
right? So, and I know many of you are going to have your children involved.
going to have your children involved. It's been fun for me to see some of
It's been fun for me to see some of you've had your kids involved here. So,
you've had your kids involved here. So, it's going to be a family affair and I
it's going to be a family affair and I really look forward to being able to
really look forward to being able to serve you. So, here's your assignment.
serve you. So, here's your assignment. First, there's still an assignment,
First, there's still an assignment, right? We're going to take action. and
right? We're going to take action. and you're going to commit to Quake Action
you're going to commit to Quake Action right here.
right here. So, let's put on the screen for you.
So, let's put on the screen for you. It's really simple. You're going to go
It's really simple. You're going to go today. Let's throw it up on the screen
today. Let's throw it up on the screen for everybody to see if you would.
for everybody to see if you would. Where's the going to put on the There we
Where's the going to put on the There we go. Here's the assignment. You're going
go. Here's the assignment. You're going to go to again this time how my
to go to again this time how my hashtagmy path or you can again use the
hashtagmy path or you can again use the QR code and you're going to take your
QR code and you're going to take your little video and you're going to say
little video and you're going to say here's where I've been. Here's where I
here's where I've been. Here's where I am. Here's the gap. What's been in
am. Here's the gap. What's been in between, this is what's prevented me.
between, this is what's prevented me. This is what's got in the way. And then
This is what's got in the way. And then most importantly, here's where I'm going
most importantly, here's where I'm going now. Here's the one I'm going to change
now. Here's the one I'm going to change right now. Right now, it's leaving that
right now. Right now, it's leaving that fourth step out. I don't know why, but
fourth step out. I don't know why, but it's where you are now. What's the gap?
it's where you are now. What's the gap? What's gotten in the way? And what are
What's gotten in the way? And what are you going to do now to change it? And
you going to do now to change it? And how's your life going to change? And
how's your life going to change? And I'll look forward to watching those and
I'll look forward to watching those and taking those in with you. It'll be a
taking those in with you. It'll be a wonderful experience. Who's going to
wonderful experience. Who's going to who's going to get your message out
who's going to get your message out there, ladies and gentlemen?
there, ladies and gentlemen? And so now, let's do the final piece.
And so now, let's do the final piece. Our our resort in Fiji, if you haven't
Our our resort in Fiji, if you haven't heard of it, Nomali is the number one
heard of it, Nomali is the number one resort in the country. Has been for 10
resort in the country. Has been for 10 years. I built it from scratch. It's
years. I built it from scratch. It's three and a half miles ocean frontage.
three and a half miles ocean frontage. It's, you know, five miles or excuse me,
It's, you know, five miles or excuse me, five 100 acres, 525 acres. We have
five 100 acres, 525 acres. We have waterfalls. We have a 30-foot hole blow
waterfalls. We have a 30-foot hole blow hole like you see in Hawaii, only it's
hole like you see in Hawaii, only it's right there in the corner. Scuba diving,
right there in the corner. Scuba diving, a 10,000 foot spa that's won every award
a 10,000 foot spa that's won every award and it's only for this give you an idea
and it's only for this give you an idea out of all that space and we have 125
out of all that space and we have 125 people serving you and the maximum
people serving you and the maximum number of people can stay there is 40.
number of people can stay there is 40. you have your own little place on the
you have your own little place on the water with a with a swimming pool out
water with a with a swimming pool out front. It's uh it's unbelievable. It's
front. It's uh it's unbelievable. It's my one of my favorite places on earth.
my one of my favorite places on earth. I'm really proud to make it. So, I'm
I'm really proud to make it. So, I'm super excited to share this with you.
super excited to share this with you. And the couple that won, the woman who
And the couple that won, the woman who was here from the very first day before
was here from the very first day before we even started, helping people,
we even started, helping people, encouraging people, pushing it, and she
encouraging people, pushing it, and she had their own challenges. She had the
had their own challenges. She had the incredibly painful experience of losing
incredibly painful experience of losing one of her children, and now she's
one of her children, and now she's pushed through and created so much good
pushed through and created so much good for this audience. So, let's give it up
for this audience. So, let's give it up for Rachel Williams. Rachel Williams,
for Rachel Williams. Rachel Williams, you're going to Fiji. Give it up for
you're going to Fiji. Give it up for ladies and gentlemen. Rashelle Williams,
ladies and gentlemen. Rashelle Williams, I'm sorry. The show. Give it up for
Rashelle, you've been such an inspiration during these days. You
inspiration during these days. You played full out. I know you've got
played full out. I know you've got children all around you in every stage
children all around you in every stage and every age. and you worked your tail
and every age. and you worked your tail off to help everyone. So, we want to
off to help everyone. So, we want to acknowledge you. And I understand that's
acknowledge you. And I understand that's your fiance beside you there. Is that
your fiance beside you there. Is that right? That's Tanner. Give it up for
right? That's Tanner. Give it up for Tanner who's out there playing full.
Tanner who's out there playing full. So, this is either your anniversary or
So, this is either your anniversary or your wedding location. You go for your
your wedding location. You go for your anniversary together or you can have
anniversary together or you can have your wedding there on me. Give it up for
your wedding there on me. Give it up for them. It's so amazing. You guys loved
them. It's so amazing. You guys loved you guys.
Do you do you want to say anything to your community here that you've been
your community here that you've been serving so much? I've watched you and
serving so much? I've watched you and you're out there helping everybody and I
you're out there helping everybody and I know that everybody's been reaching out
know that everybody's been reaching out to you too and then you want to share
to you too and then you want to share with this community before we go.
with this community before we go. >> Um, can you hear me?
>> Um, can you hear me? >> Yes, we can.
>> Yes, we can. >> Okay. Sorry.
>> Okay. Sorry. >> Where are you in the world? By the way,
>> Where are you in the world? By the way, >> I'm in Casper, Wyoming.
>> I'm in Casper, Wyoming. >> Wyoming, ladies and gentlemen.
>> Wyoming, ladies and gentlemen. >> Casper, Wyoming.
>> Casper, Wyoming. >> Fiji is a different world than Wyoming.
>> Fiji is a different world than Wyoming. I'll promise you that.
I'll promise you that. >> Way different. And it's definitely
>> Way different. And it's definitely warmer, I'm sure.
warmer, I'm sure. >> Yes, it is.
>> Yes, it is. >> Warm for day. Um, I just want to say
>> Warm for day. Um, I just want to say thank you for the opportunity for like a
thank you for the opportunity for like a safe shared space for us to share our
safe shared space for us to share our story of hell and back. And we we
story of hell and back. And we we obviously have the grit, but the support
obviously have the grit, but the support and the love is unmatched, especially in
and the love is unmatched, especially in this community, but so many other
this community, but so many other communities. And that's that it's the
communities. And that's that it's the ripple effect. What what supports us, we
ripple effect. What what supports us, we want to support and we want to give
want to support and we want to give back. We want to make sure that like
back. We want to make sure that like other people know that they have support
other people know that they have support too.
too. >> Oh, you've been doing that all week long
>> Oh, you've been doing that all week long so much.
so much. >> Thank you. You've done that all week
>> Thank you. You've done that all week long. You guys deserve it. Have a
long. You guys deserve it. Have a magnificent either wedding or
magnificent either wedding or celebration of it, a honeymoon. Give it
celebration of it, a honeymoon. Give it up for him, everybody.
up for him, everybody. >> Thank you very much.
Will you all will you all help me thank Renee and thank our AV team and the
Renee and thank our AV team and the members of Robins Research from around
members of Robins Research from around the world? There's an army of people
the world? There's an army of people behind the scenes here making this
behind the scenes here making this happen. Please give them all a big hand
happen. Please give them all a big hand for the experience you've had. Stand up
for the experience you've had. Stand up one last time and let's create that
one last time and let's create that energy one last time together.
energy one last time together. Come on.
On three, unleash. One, two, three. Go go go go go.
and give it up for yourselves each and every one of you. That's how you play
every one of you. That's how you play Fallout.
Wow, what a beautiful, extraordinary journey this has been. I
extraordinary journey this has been. I mean your guys energy is off the charts.
mean your guys energy is off the charts. Thank you so much. We have had over 1.2
Thank you so much. We have had over 1.2 million people from all over the world
million people from all over the world gather together to rise up. So, give it
gather together to rise up. So, give it up for yourselves.
up for yourselves. All right, please do the assignment so
All right, please do the assignment so Tony can see it. Remember to answer
Tony can see it. Remember to answer these questions. Where were you? What
these questions. Where were you? What gap did you find? What's gotten in the
gap did you find? What's gotten in the way? And what are you going to do now?
way? And what are you going to do now? Remember, you can use the QR code and
Remember, you can use the QR code and use my path. It has truly been our
use my path. It has truly been our privilege to serve you and we're so
privilege to serve you and we're so excited to see you at Unleash the Power
excited to see you at Unleash the Power Within.
Remember my friends, remember this. The only one who can change your life is
only one who can change your life is you. Thank you all so much for showing
you. Thank you all so much for showing up. We're playing full out and as Tony
up. We're playing full out and as Tony says, live with passion. We'll see you
says, live with passion. We'll see you soon. Thank you everybody.
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