This podcast episode, "The Screening Process," features a discussion with three Filipina women about dating, relationships, cultural differences between the West and the Philippines, and societal expectations. The host, Mike Fluke, aims to explore the current dating landscape in the Philippines, particularly in light of increased Western male interest.
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Greetings. My name is Mike Fluke and
you're watching the Pho Republic
podcast. And in this episode, we're
going to do our very first first not
live episode of the screening process
because that's what I decided to call
these discussion panels. Uh we're going
to call it the screening process because
that's kind of what it is. It's got that
passport bro travel slant when you go
through security. And then also too, I
have to qualify these ladies from my
lovely friends back in the West. Uh, so
you can find out if the Philippines is
worth the squeeze. So stay tuned after
the intro. We'll get right into it. [Music]
All right. So, I kind of want to start
off the show because I know that other
girls in the future that we're trying to
cast are probably going to take a look
at it. You're going to you're going to
judge us. You're going to you're going
to decide if we're riffraff or if we're
sleazy or whatever. So, I kind of wanted
to say a little bit about what this this
is about. Um,
Filipinos right now are in a very unique
situation, especially those that date
foreigners. Um, normally the only men
that you could choose from if you wanted
a stable life with a guy that, you know,
could give you a better quality of life
would be a retiree or a pensioner. A man
that leads with his wallet, leads with
his pension. They're usually past their
prime to say the least. And uh now
because of the digital nomad movement or
it's not really a movement but digital
nomads and passport bros are flooding
the country on mass because our elders
have decided to completely obliterate
and destroy our own countries. So
whether it's white flight or whether
it's you know the passport bro thing or
for whatever reason whether it's
economic you name it a lot of people are
getting tired of the west and they're
looking abroad. They're looking at
Eastern Europe. They're looking at Asia
and specifically they're looking at the
Philippines because it's predominantly
English and the court system is in
English and there's just a lot of
advantages to living in the Philippines
and it's still pretty much it still has
that like undiscovered feel, you know,
it's like a Thailand circa 1994 with
internet. So, the ladies of the country
have an opportunity where if they don't
go full goofball, uh, for the lack of a
better word that I don't want to say for
the sake of YouTube, if they don't mess
it up, then they have an opportunity to
be the archetype of what those men are
looking for, i.e., how they decide to
embrace feminism, social media, uh,
dating practices and stuff like that.
So, this show is going to highlight that
and I'm going to put the Philippines
dating market under a camera lens for
you. Um, I think this is a very unique
moment in history and I actually do
think that this this series is going to
be a historical record of the
Philippines during 2025 and beyond. So,
yeah, uh, opinions of the guests are not
mine and my opinions are not that of the
guests. And if we were doing super chats
and stuff like that, if we were live,
the opinions of the audience are also,
you know, and just bearing in mind, we
have to respect local Filipino law and
we also have to respect YouTube terms.
So, I'm going to try to self-censor a
little bit. And I'm going to be a little
nicer to the girls today because I don't
want to scare them away. And um we will
one day have an episode about single
moms and it will be an AW sandwich, I
assure you. But uh for now, I guess
we'll just get going. So, we'll go
around the table. I guess we'll start
with Chris and then we'll work around.
So, Chris, I guess I need my glasses.
And I got my mic set up so you can
hardly hear us unless we're like right
up to it because of all the dogs and
hammers and whatnot. So, Chris, what is
your age, name, and relation status?
>> All right. So, hi everyone. I'm Chris.
I'm 34 years old and I'm living here in
Palawan. like are born and raised here
and my status is um I'm I'm a single mom.
mom. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Hello everyone. My name is Annie and I'm
originally from Cebu but I grew up in
Kuran Palawan and I'm 29 years old and
I'm single.
Hi everyone, my name is Grace Jo Saban.
Um I live here in Palawan. Then I raised
up here and my age is 18 years old.
>> All right. So, okay. 18.
18. >> Single.
>> Single.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Oh, and you're single, too.
Okay. So, 18 >> 29
>> 29 >> 29
>> 29 >> 34
>> 34
>> 34. So, we got a well-rounded, you know,
panel here today. Uh, for my elder
gentlemen, in future episodes, I've got
some other ladies lined up that might
be, you know, up your alley. Uh, I guess
as far as your religion goes, cuz that
kind of matters to a lot of, uh, the
Passport Bros. Um, what is your
religious denomination and how much
education do you have and what was your
focus in school if you went?
>> Okay. So, um, I'm a Christian, non-denominational
non-denominational Christian.
Christian.
And, um, what is the question again?
>> Uh, and then your education.
>> Oh, yeah. I finished high school. Um I
tried to
um I had like one year on college it's a
mass communication and then I didn't
finish because I need to work. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> So yeah.
>> All right Annie.
>> So I am graduate IT in two years in Kor
Palawan. Then I came here in Puerto
decided to change my career which is I'm
studying caregiver. Then after when I
graduate then I proceed a nurse
assistant in Adventist Palanches here
>> you mentioned something casual in passing.
passing.
>> I am Catholic also.
>> Uh uh >> film
>> film
you did a video sometime.
>> I uh as of the moment I'm doing um I'm
in the film actress as well.
>> That's really cool.
>> Yes. Is there anything you want to tell
us like which uh movie is going to come
out with you in it?
>> Yeah, actually this is my second movie.
My first movie like was last year and
then um I just finished our shooting
which is um it's the title is Can You
Buy Love. Then it will be show in Italy
next year which is I'm excited.
>> Were you in that Lapu Lapu thing that
was filming here too a little while ago? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. That's with the guy from Dusk Till
Dawn. What's his name? uh you know the
really like Mexican guy like he's he's a
little rough looking. What do you
remember his name? Damn it's I'm at a
loss. They they filmed a movie about our
national hero here in the Philippines.
Uh what was that movie called? Lapu Lapu.
Lapu.
>> It's not Can You Buy Love.
>> The title is Can You Buy Love?
>> No, but the other one with Lapu Lapu.
Like do you remember they filmed a movie
with Lapu Lapu here a while ago? Like it
was a couple years ago. I think I think
Sergey was in it.
>> Oh, yeah. Yeah,
>> they were all extras.
>> Were you in that, too?
>> No, no, no, actually not.
>> Okay. Okay. Well, they Yeah, like they
film movies here occasionally, too. So,
all right. That's cool. That's really
cool. Uh, moving on. Griselle,
>> I'm a Christian and I
I've done school in high school and I
need to stop on senior high because I
need to help my parents. Not in your
decision, but mine.
>> Yeah, that's understandable.
>> Well, that's good. You're a good
daughter taking care of your parents and whatnot.
whatnot.
>> All right. So, do you guys have driver's licenses?
licenses?
>> Mine was expired already. Sorry for that.
that.
>> You shouldn't say. How did you You
walked here, right? Yeah, cuz you know,
I know
I'm about to like renew that, but I'm
not sure when.
>> She's going to renew it before this show
goes live.
>> Yeah, right away.
>> Yeah, before we put it up. I promise.
I'm going to drive her there. She's not
going to drive herself. Annie,
>> yes, I do hope. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah, I don't have yet.
>> Not yet. Would you guys say that girls
on average don't?
>> Like most girls, if they're in a
relationship, they usually don't.
>> Yeah. It's
>> It's like mixed, right?
>> Yeah. Yeah,
>> cuz I I've not I made that a question
because I've noticed a lot of girls
don't have driver's licenses.
>> I think it depends, you know, if you can
even without our relationship if you can
afford if you can afford you can get,
you know, by yourself because that's
very important because especially
>> here in Puerto very strict. So all you
need to do is get um driver's license. So
So
>> it's a must. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Do you think maybe more career
focused ladies do? Like if you're a
homemaker, do you think you're going to
do it?
>> Yes. Yeah. Still. Okay. Okay. Um. All
right. Uh, how do you define being
single? So, option A is no men at all.
You're alone. You're not having uh uh
carnal knowledge with anybody. Or B,
going on dates with one or more men. And
carnal knowledge is optional. And then
C, situationships. So, they're kind of
relationships, they're kind of not. And
then obviously the other option would be like
like
I guess there really isn't one. So what
do you So I'll repeat it. So what do you
think uh being single is? Is it no men
at all or and you're not doing anything
dirty dirty or being single is just
going on dates with you know playing the
field? Maybe you'll maybe you'll bang,
maybe you won't. And then option C,
you're still technically single if
you're in a situationship or multiple situationships.
situationships.
How would you define it?
Like for me being single for me, right?
In my opinion. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Cuz I'm single for a while. It's been
like more than two years already, but
I'm like I'm single, but I'm like dating.
dating.
>> I'm trying to date so I can, you know,
I'm open to like to have a relationship
with someone, you know? So yeah, I'm
open to dating, not situationship cuz
it's dumb. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> So yeah. and
carnal knowledge every once in a while
even though you're single technically. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. How about you Annie?
>> I'm going to choose letter B.
>> Okay. Okay. Yeah. So, you guys are on
the same boat like
>> and how are you the same as well or Yeah.
Yeah.
>> Okay. That's cool. What is the biggest
flex for a woman? Career or family? And
by flex,
>> you know, I mean what is what is more
bragworthy? What is more for a woman
today in Palawan? Because we're
specifically in Paloan and every island
is different. There's over 7,000 islands
in the country. You're all going to have
different values and gene pools and
cultural customs and dialects and
whatnot. But in Puerto Princessa in
Palawan, what is the biggest flex?
Having a career or having a family,
kids, and a husband?
>> For me here in the Philippines,
especially in Balawan for my opinion,
um it's career. Because everyone here in
the Philippines, it's not I'm not saying
that family is not number one. It's just
like it's common for us. Everyone here
is family oriented. So, it's like a
normal thing for us to like have a good
family and all that stuff. But, um we're
here in the Philippines, Filipina, if
you have like a good career, it's a you
know, it's a good thing.
>> So, then who So, if you have a career
and kids, who raises the kids? >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Like, no. Who?
>> What do you mean?
>> Yeah. Like like who raises the kids? If
you're working, who's who's raising the kids?
kids?
>> Oh, we're just, you know, if
Yeah. I mean,
>> multigenerational family. You've got,
you know, parents and
>> Yeah. parents. Like for me, I'm working.
Um, my mom helping me to like taking
care of my kid as well. So,
>> yeah, we're just like I have a family
and I can do like my career as well. So,
it's just like, you know, it's a good
thing. Would you girls agree or do you
have a different thought? No.
>> Yeah, I'm agree.
>> Yeah, you both agree. Okay. Yeah, I'll
try to do that because we got a lot of a
lot of questions to cover. We we have a
hard cut off at two. Um but you know, so
I'm going to try to move it along. Are
your parents still together or are they
separated because there's no divorce? >> Me?
>> Me?
>> Yeah. Um, my parents are already
separated legally
>> and I my mom passed away like seven
years and then my I'm only have that but
they're not separate but >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Like I said, my mom passed away. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> My parents are still together.
>> Okay. Would you say that parents being
together unless death do them part is
probably the the norm because there's no
separation so you guys just deal with
it? I think so because even when they
um that's what I'm heard in my nerve
because I my when my mom is still alive
they love each other right but
>> our neighbors like decide like um they
sit together but you know every day they
are fighting and then because in
Philippines we don't have divorce yet
they don't have juice but they can
separate maybe like you know house but
it's still like they're still married.
Yeah. Legally. Yeah. Legally. Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. It's tough. It's tough. It's a lot
of work for sure. But I think divorce is
coming anyway. I just hope you guys
don't do it like we did it
>> cuz we did no fault divorce and it's
destroyed and the law anyway. But uh the
audience already knows so I don't have
to talk about that. Um and then you same
same boat. Yeah. You already said so.
Okay. Uh
how many siblings do you all have?
So technically technically
so I have for both for my my dad and my
mom I have we are I have one sibling I'm
the eldest
>> but he passed away 5 years ago and then
my dad has a new wife right now and yeah
I do have like a new brother from
>> Oh stepb brotherther
>> yeah step brother
>> how old is he
two years old
>> oh that's that's cute
>> that's cute
>> yeah how about
Um I have two steps sister from my mom
and then when they meet my dad and then
just only me.
>> Oh yeah they're like I don't like that guy.
guy.
>> I just only me. I wish I have though but
>> yeah ah trust me it's not all cracked up
it is or you know whatever. Rick Jen.
>> Yeah. Anyway that's for my brother.
Anyway uh your turn. What's up?
>> I have four siblings. Four.
>> Yeah. Okay. I'm the third.
>> You're the third. So, you're the middle child.
child. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> I'm the youngest.
>> Yeah. I'm annoying to just about everybody.
everybody.
>> That's why.
>> Yeah. That's why I'm so damn annoying. I
know. I act like everyone's little
brother. I am everyone's. Yeah. Uh All
right. So,
you're None of you guys are married, right?
right?
>> I am.
>> You're married? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Like 10 11 years ago.
>> But you're separated.
>> I already separated. Not legally though.
>> Okay. Yeah, that's what I said. Like we
don't have here divorce.
>> Yeah. What is the cost of an anulment?
Because you can't divorce. So what is
the cost of getting an anulment
>> here? If you want to get an so long,
like more than 5 years or whatever. Yeah.
Yeah.
>> So it's going to cost you like 300 pesos
or more.
>> 300,000 pesos.
>> 300,000 pesos. Sorry.
>> So that's like
like $60,000 or something like that, I guess.
guess.
>> Something like that. Or
>> Yeah. That's crazy.
No. Yeah. No. 60,000 would be like three
million. I got that wrong.
Oh, that'd be like $6,000 US. Yeah. All
right. And you're not married or you are?
are?
>> No, I've never been married.
>> Okay. How about you? >> Not.
>> Not.
>> That might be illegal. No, I guess I
guess you're still legal now. You're 18,
but um All right. And do you want kids?
And at what age would you want to have kids?
kids?
>> Now, you already have. Mhm.
>> Do you want more?
>> Yes, of course.
>> Okay. And you're how old? >> 34.
>> 34. >> Uhoh.
>> Uhoh.
>> Yeah, I know.
>> How about you?
>> No, I would like to have kids. Yes, of
course. I'm No, I'm 29 years old and I'm
ready to have kids. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> Do you got a guy in the picture? One one
that you think you'd uh have kids with? >> No.
>> No.
>> What you need is an Elon Musk type guy
that'll just give you money and you can
make babies.
>> 10,000 babies. How about you? You want kids?
kids?
from low.
>> Okay. And that that actually brings me
to a point where because I've already
done five other pilots of this show that
I didn't put online uh because I didn't
have all this yet, all the equipment. Uh
there was one little trend I noticed and
for the men in the audience, um I've
noticed that about 22 23 and down, the
ladies don't want kids. And that's the
only trend I'm going to point out. There
are other trends with girls that are 22,
23 and under. Uh, but that's the only
one I'm going to point out for now. And
I want you to kind of keep your eye on
that line. 22 to 23 in 2025. So, it's
going to slide next year. It'll be uh,
you know, older. It's going to keep
going up that line. But, uh, yeah, girls
22, 23 and younger are slightly
different than the ones that are older
than them. And I have to carbonate that
and check it out. Like, what happened,
you know, like is that anything to do
with the creation of Facebook or
Instagram? Don't know. Let's move on.
Um, so, okay. Do you use dating apps and
which ones? Because some of the dudes in
the audience might want to hop on one of them.
them.
>> I used Tinder and Bumble.
>> Okay. Not Hinge.
>> Not We don't have Hinge here.
>> Okay. Not Not like Filipina Cupid or the
Christian Cupid or anything like that.
>> I tried it before, but it sucks.
>> Okay. Okay. Well, yeah. like uh
>> I may or may not have experience with
it, but if you say anything at all lewd >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> Instabban permanently, your device, your
phone, they'll instab your device if you
say anything LWD like if you are a
swinger or something. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. So, how about you? Which dating
apps do you use?
>> Is it considered if I use like um
Instagram? That's not
>> That's very smart. No, actually I'm
Yeah, I'm intrigued and I I think a lot
of girls in the West do that, too.
>> Yeah. In
>> Yeah. How about you?
>> I used Tinder before. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And how about now?
>> Still Instagram.
>> Yeah. Okay. All right. So, you girls,
they're getting wise to it, gentlemen.
Cuz like that's that's that's that's
what it is. It's social currency and you
can check out the person you're talking
to for real, not just what they put on
the dating app. Um, how many serious
relationships have you had?
And are you neutral or friends with any
>> I have like serious relationship. >> Yeah,
>> Yeah,
>> I have like four.
>> Yeah. And are you friends with the guys? >> Uh,
>> Uh,
like two of them.
>> Yeah. And then how about the non-serious
ones? Are you still friends with any of
those guys, too?
>> Most of them. Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> So, okay. Well, we're going to circle
back to that later. Go ahead.
>> I have uh two relationship serious in my life.
life. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. And then uh how many of those guys
do you still talk to
>> until now? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Um three.
>> Yeah. And then uh so like out of all the
guys that you've ever had a
situationship or
>> you met him while you were single and
you went on a few dates, do you still
have friends like that? Well, it
depends. It It depends for me cuz
um I have a ex that we still talking but
not like before but it's not like you know
know
>> it's evolved.
>> Yeah. It's like can you like how are you
then you know it's different than before
but the way we talk. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> How about you?
>> I guess no
>> you're still fresh. You you're not uh
Yeah, I got you. Um All right.
How many relationships
did the man end? And how many
relationships did you end? You can just
give a guess of like a ratio. Like I
ended most of them or he ended like the
man ended. Like who dumped who? Who
broke up with who and maybe somebody
died. I don't know. But like we won't
count them. But yeah,
>> most of my relationship I ended.
>> Mhm. cuz I feel like because I'm the
type of person when I feel like you're
not interested at all or you're like
cheating on me, I'm just gonna have to
end it like right away.
>> Yeah, cheating. I understand that. I
understand that. Uh were you ever
cheated on? >> H
>> H
>> Have you been cheated on? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> What kind of income did that man have? >> Oh,
>> Oh, >> broke.
>> broke.
>> Not broke, but
you know,
>> barely subsisting. Okay. Yeah.
>> All right. How about you, Annie? Most of
them I broke up with them.
>> Okay. And
>> because I love uh because I don't feel
like that guy uh introduced to me
anymore and then which is why would I
stay with him? >> So
>> So
>> that's why I broke up. It's better than
you know it's too late. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> When you feel something it's like or
something like
>> it's not it's not
>> I think some you know you feel it like
girls have like instincts you know.
>> Yeah. strong.
>> If you feel like something is like going
on, like something's changed. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> You feel it and you're you're like
starting to think about like
>> did he cheat on me? Where something like that?
that?
>> What if his dog died or what if his car
broke down? He was just like really
bummed out about it.
>> Then you can just like message or phone
use communicate
>> or communicate in person. I hope
>> that's very important communication to
each other. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> That's how relationship.
>> Yeah. So you guys are quitters if if if
something you know if you have es and
flows if it goes down you quit.
>> No it's we need like um what do you call
this like uh we need to investigate
first you know
>> and you need consistent tingles. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Consistent tingles is going to be
a theme as we move forward later on.
>> So like uh more guys break up with you
or did you break up with more guys? I
know you're like fresh, but still maybe
you got some experience.
>> I didn't broke up with him.
>> No, you didn't.
>> I did.
>> Oh, you did? Okay. All right. Okay. Um
I'm not going to dig too deep on that
one with you cuz you're a young. Um Okay.
Okay.
Yeah. I I was going to ask if it if if
it was men, you know, like why don't you
think they committed? But uh why do you
think those men, you know, weren't so
tingly anymore? Why did they lose their tingle?
tingle?
>> I don't know. I mean,
>> do you think it was anything you did?
>> That's one of the part that most of the
women think like did am I did did I did
something wrong?
>> Yeah. So, we're just like starting over
thinking if we did something wrong or,
you know, or maybe they're just I don't know.
know. >> Um
>> Um
they're on something or like
>> they're going through their own
>> thing, own problems. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> You know,
>> but they need to communicate with us.
That's how relationship works though.
>> How about you? Why do you think uh the
man lost his tingle?
Um, maybe
she's not giving her attention to him.
>> Oh, so he's going to go elsewhere.
>> And maybe she's not happy with him anymore.
anymore. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> And not content. And
>> why why would she not be happy with him
anymore? And we're going to explore this
more. You can just like give like a
little short answer.
>> Yeah. And I uh because maybe that guy
didn't show like interested to her
anymore. So that's why it is um like
there's no connection anymore. So
she doesn't like maybe no love, you know,
know,
>> no spark.
>> There is no love anymore. Not like what
they not like before when you are
together especially when you are um new
as a relationship as a couple you know
they love care like caring each other
and then you know everything that she
gave to him and then um when and then
wait oh my god
um what you um Maybe
uh she don't love him. I can say this.
>> She does. I She don't love him anymore.
And maybe she's he's not making her
anymore um happy. I mean,
>> yeah. No, that's reasonable. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Pass.
Okay. Um
at what age should a woman settle down
with one man and get married? And why is
that the best age to do it in your opinion?
opinion?
>> Um for women. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. For women.
>> Okay. Um I think the age is like between
27 28.
>> Yeah. For women.
>> And why is it that age? Because I think
um cuz when a woman reaches his like 20s,
20s,
>> she's starting like oh what what she's
like um she's cuz girls are like before
we um we graduated or finished school,
we already have this like on our mind
that oh I'm going to after school I'm
going to do this. So we have like
already planned for it. So, if you're
like, we already did that and then, oh,
I'm going to marry like after I did
something like um like a job or career
or something, I think that's a good um
age so they can all already figure it
out. And the maturity as well. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, as life goes on.
>> Do you all agree with that pretty much? Yeah.
Yeah.
>> Yeah. So, so you're right there. You're
at that doorstep of that age. You're
actually one year behind.
>> I'm getting old. Yeah.
Come on, chat. Marry her up.
>> I'm kidding. Nobody's actually in the
chat right now. But yeah, comments. Uh,
members in the members only community
will get access, not I'm not going to
put them on YouTube for the whole world
to see. Girls have the opportunity that
are on the show to voluntarily disclose
a social media account. And if you're
part of the membersonly community, um,
then you have the opportunity to contact
them directly. So that's that where I'm
going to say that. I don't know if
you're just going to disclose. We'll
leave it until the end. Uh you don't
even have to say if you're going to
disclose. It'll be a mystery. You have
to join the members only community to
find out. Okay. Um so you said like 28
28 you know it's it's the right time to
settle down. Now that's to settle down.
Is that like needing the man for the
first time? Is that or is that like
getting married or is that popping out
your first baby at 28?
Like which which part of that threepart
of settling down is that? Is that like
okay I'm ready to marry this guy that
you've already been dating for a few
years prior or does that mean starting a
new relationship at the age of 28 or
does that mean getting married at 28 or
does it mean I will conceive my first
child at 28? What does that mean exactly
to you? Settling down.
>> Settling down is like if I'm dating like
a guy should be like on that age.
>> Yeah. wish it could be like get married
or something. But if like I'm
not dating anyone before I'm turning
like 28, 27, I'm like I'm I mean that's
kind of fair, but I need I mean on the
back of my head I'm like I need to
get married like before I'm turning 30.
>> Yeah. So everyone's kind of got that
engine light. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Correct. So the kids could technically
happen in your early 30s. I mean, I know
you've already got you're probably, you
know, I mean, in your case, obviously,
it's going to have to be that way. But
you see what I'm getting at, right?
Like, oh no. Oh, no. Annie, come on,
chat. Come on.
Join the members only community. It's
over on Locals. Link is in the
description. When is too old to start
having kids? Because that was a setup.
>> Oh my god. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> 35.
>> 35.
>> 35. So, so no more kids for you soon.
Cuz on Thursday is your special day,
chat. It's her birthday on Thursday.
>> Oh, nice.
>> Thanks, guys.
>> Yeah, there you go. And she just turned
18, so there you go. That's why she's on
the show now. I couldn't have had her a
week ago. And you um How old So you
think like 34? Yeah. And how old is too
too old to have babies for you? Like to
have your first kid? How how like
where's the line the cut off when it's
too late?
>> Don't know.
>> She's freaking out, guys. Annie's
freaking out. Yeah,
>> it's going to be a meme. I'm even
wearing the glasses and I'm pointing.
Damn you. Anyway. Yeah, go ahead. Like,
how old is too old for kids? You're
never going to have them, so you don't
even give a [ __ ] anyway, do you?
>> I don't have any points. No.
>> No. Okay. No [ __ ] given. All right. Uh,
yeah. I guess we have one more question
on page one and we only have 20 more
pages to go. I'm just kidding. 10 maybe
11, 12, 14. No, we have a hard stop at
two. I told you guys. But um this one's
a good one. And this is ending the
introduction and background questions.
>> Should a woman have a backup plan, a
private savings account? If she started
one before meeting her man, would it be
smart to keep her money a secret?
>> Of course. right away. Boom.
>> I agree.
>> Yeah. How about you, Chris? Yes or no?
>> Like if I'm married, already married?
>> If you you just would you have your own
secret little finances?
>> It's not a secret. I'm not going to.
>> So, you would you would tell? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. If you were to be dating a guy
long term, maybe get married, would you
keep a secret bank account? >> No.
>> No.
>> Okay, that's cool. See, now that's that
that's a difference from the West. So,
yeah. Yeah, I don't know if I said it
already, but the whole point of this is
to highlight the differences from the
west and then also where all the women
are kind of the same around the world
and then you know Yeah. So that
concludes that section. Um yeah,
yeah,
I have uh some questions that that get
into um western controversies
and uh some of the western controversies
involve the definition of a freaking
Is it a stupid question? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> You think so?
>> What is a woman? You think that that's
not a stupid question?
>> That is not a stupid question.
>> Okay. What is a woman?
>> Like for me?
>> Yeah. For For you? Yeah.
>> It's not a stupid question, but it's a
hard question.
>> It's a hard question.
>> Yeah. I It's really hard to like define
women because every woman is different.
>> Oh, okay. No, I just Oh, cuz you're like
I'm every like you're thinking like
that. No, I mean like a
>> a woman just
>> man or woman. Simple. Not like uh like a
woman woman. Like I I know you're making
the differentiation like when does a boy
become a man? You know, like you're kind
of looking at it like that. No, just I
I'm even going simpler than that. What
>> Because of the whole gender debate going
on in the West. Mhm.
>> Like, so that just goes to show you how
foreign this concept is to her that even
defining it is kind of silly, right? A
woman is just something everybody. It's
a human biological female, right? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Okay. Yeah. It's not even It's a
stupid question, right? >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Hey. Hey guys. Okay. There are men in
the West right now who are like, "Oh,
they're so based. Those girls are
based." Can you name three countries? >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah. I'll start with uh with Griselle.
Name three countries. I'm going to throw
you a curveball.
>> Just three countries. Just name three.
>> Um, America. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> And Singaporean. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Also Japan.
>> Okay. And you can't name those three now.
now.
>> I know. >> Okay.
>> Okay. um
um
United Kingdom and um France.
France. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
England.
>> Oh, United Kingdom.
>> Sorry. Yeah. Sucks.
>> And I'll count them as one. Yeah. My
geography sucks, too. Don't worry. One more.
more.
>> Sorry. Oh, yeah. And Korea.
Korea.
>> Okay. Did she?
>> Uh no, she said Singapore. And then you
>> um Philippines.
>> Can't name Philippines because you're
from there. >> Oh,
>> Oh, Spain.
Spain. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Um,
>> Um,
>> just think about the last two guys in
your Rolodex. I'm kidding.
>> All right. Um,
>> where am I from? >> Canada.
>> Canada.
>> Mhm. One more.
>> I want to say Japan.
>> She already said Japan. This is um gonna
say Thailand.
>> Okay. All right.
Little similar to the west. A little
similar there, but at least you got it.
And I I didn't have my fire alarm chirp ready.
ready.
>> All right. Um yeah.
Oh, okay. So, this is another one. And
these ones like I mean most of the
questions that I'm using here are
borrowed copy copied um not really
copied. They're just inspired by uh
Fresh and Fit and whatever. And the
reason why I'm doing that is not because
I'm a hack. It's because I'm trying to
help you compare apples to apples. So,
you're really going to see it on the
next one. How would you rate yourself in
the sexual marketplace? One out of 10.
How would you rate yourself? You cannot
use seven.
>> What do you mean sexual?
>> Yeah. Like, you know, like, oh, he he's
totally a 10 or she's a 10. You know,
>> like how attractive?
>> Yeah. Like how attractive would you rate
yourself in the in through men's eyes? Eight.
Eight.
>> An eight. Okay. And you can't say seven.
What would you say, Annie? >> Nine.
>> Nine.
>> Nine. Okay. >> 8.5.
>> 8.5. >> 8.5.
>> 8.5. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. So, a W A L T folks. You don't
know what that means. I think that's
funny. Uh, okay. Um, we might circle
back to that one if we have time. Uh,
have you Okay. Again, these are western
comparisons. So, have you ever been
diagnosed by a doctor or thought that
you might have a mental health issue
like depress uh depression, bipolar, uh
multiple personality or whatever they
call it disorder? I don't know.
Schizophrenia, you know, do do you think
you suffer from any of those things? And
do you know anyone that does? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Who? Okay. No, no, I'm sorry. I
can't say that. I don't want to No, I
don't want to know who. What did they have?
have?
>> I mean, I think I have like a OCD.
>> Okay. Okay. Yeah. I mean, I think a lot
of people probably think that,
>> but it's different, you know. We have
like um different OCDs, you know. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> But but not that bad like anxiety or
something. It's not something like that.
>> Yeah. You're not going to like wash your
hands with a bar soap once and throw in
the garbage.
>> That Okay.
>> How about you two, Annie? >> Bipolar.
>> Bipolar.
>> Bipolar. Oh no. Oh no. Yeah. You're
you're you're lying or you're snitching
on yourself. And how about you? Any
mental health issues or you just don't
know yet?
undiscovered territory. >> Undiscovered.
>> Undiscovered.
>> All right, we'll wait till you're 35
with no kids and then we'll see if you
have any mental health issues. Just
kidding. Kidding.
>> All right. Um
Oh, this one's a little personal. It's a
little personal. Are you on birth control?
control? >> Me?
>> Me? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Right now? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> No.
>> No.
>> You? No. >> No.
>> No.
>> No. Okay, that's good. So, you're not
That's That's probably actually
>> I want kids.
>> Yeah, I know. I know. Would you totally
keep a kid if it was just like a tourist
passing through town and you met him
once and it was like Mr. Lovejoy or
whatever? You know, he's like boom, Mr.
Good Time,
>> you think? >> No.
>> No.
>> Well, you can't you can't get rid of it
unless you're going to go get a coat
hanger and go down by the river.
>> No, you won't.
>> That's horrible. That's horrible. Uh,
while I'm on that topic, uh, what do you
guys think of Western abortions? Do you
think that?
>> What do you think about it in like five
seconds or less?
>> I disagree about like abortion.
>> Okay. Annie, >> same.
>> same. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Disagree.
>> Disagree.
>> Yeah. So, no matter how See, that's
another way that you guys vary. Some of
your opinions are very westernized and
then some of them are still very
Filipina. I respect that. Um, so no
birth control, no abortion. So, you
would have Mr. Good Times child if uh
you just happen to be in that situation
then. Okay. Oh, that's a blessing.
>> There you go. There you go. Come on,
chat. Come on, chat. Um, all right. Uh,
oh, I'm not going to ask that one. I'll
save that for a spicier one. Um, is your
social media public or private?
Like, do you have like or maybe have
multiple accounts?
>> I don't have any multiple accounts, but
it's my social media are private.
>> Yeah. How about you? private. Yeah. >> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah. Okay. Well, that'll make it more
difficult for the chat to hit you up if
they go to the membersonly community,
but they can but people can still
message you, right? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. You can still get messages. Okay. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Good to know. All right. Um,
>> Yeah, of course.
>> Of course. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Any? No. Oh, I saw the head. How about you?
you? >> No.
>> No.
>> Okay. So,
>> we'll circle back. I'm sure it's going
to come up in another question somehow,
like a variation. >> Um,
this one's going to take too long to
answer. I was going to get you guys to
like define >> abuse,
>> abuse,
but like that's tough. I guess I'll I'll
make it more pointed. If you were in a
committed relationship and you love that
man, you had a child with that man, and
you guys were just going through one of
those phases in your relationship where
you were just like at each other's throats,
throats,
>> you're having tantrums on his ass in
public, he's being cold with you and not
very nice to you. And then one day you
push him too far and you know that you
did. You know that you did. You said
things. You maybe weaponized something
he told you or you did something
naughty. Okay. Something naughty and he
slapped you, would you report him? Would
you divorce him? Or would you
communicate with him and try to work it out?
If it's a one-off,
>> I already have this like situation before.
before. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
But he said sorry right away
>> and we both have like
it's we have mistakes you know it's our
both of our faults
>> so we just after that we he said sorry
and then we communicate I mean I have I mean
mean
he did not did that like it's the first
time that he did that on me
>> so I understand that maybe I did
something that push
the bottom. That's why he did that to
me. So after that, he just say sorry.
And I understand why it did happen. But
it really depends on the situation.
>> Definitely. Yeah, I agree with that. Uh
what do you think? It's a little dark. I
know it's a dark question. M I will if
that's h that in that situation I will
prepare I will prepare to communicate
and fixing things and
>> you know talk about things that we
should not do it
>> and which is not good for relationship
especially when you're couple and
>> or if
>> try to figure it out say of course say
sorry each other
>> and then make it sure next time
>> you have to control your emotions that's
very important important. So at least
you don't push too much. And then when
you angry, you cannot hold. You don't
want to say it, but when you're angry,
you can hold it. You can talk [ __ ] >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And then of course he's not going to
like like looking at you. Of course. Of
course. Especially if he's angry and he
he can hold it and then boom. That's why
you make your I fight each other. So for
me um communicate try to figure out
things that we shouldn't we shouldn't
say each other.
>> Yeah. So so you would willingly also
like kind of alter how you act around
him too. So you would try to bring down
the temperature.
>> Yeah. Yes. Temper. Yeah. And also you
can feel like
>> when their line is crossed.
>> Yeah. And you can feel that he did that the
the
he did that on purpose or he just hate you
you
>> or you can feel that he just did that
because you know something you pushed
the bottom or the limit.
>> He can feel that.
>> It's different.
>> Would you let it go or would you take
him for everything he has?
>> I'm agree with you.
>> Okay. All right. I thought I thought you
might have answered a little different.
All right.
I guess that's not where the line is on
let's do this one really quick. What is
the general attitude towards single moms
in the Philippines? And since you're
girls, what is the general attitude?
Like you guys have like you you probably
hold single moms in a higher regard
because their life is challenging. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Annie, same. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Single mom.
>> Yeah. Like like do you do you respect
them a little bit or do you think why
did she leave him you know like do you
kind of like oh but she's a single mom
or are you like oh she's a single mom
you know like how do you
>> Of course of course um I'm will respect
the single mom because you don't know
the situation that what they had before
you know so for me I'm very proud for uh
for single mom
>> because she did everything to um raise
her um kids no matter what happened. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> How about you, Griselle?
>> Yeah. Same like that.
>> Okay. Now, I'm going to flip it around.
If a guy gets a divorce is the default
thought, it doesn't have to be your
default thought, but do you think that
on average people are like, "Oh, what
did he do? He must have [ __ ] up." >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> He did something.
>> Yeah. Kind of a double standard, you
think? Right.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. All right. Uh, that wasn't even on
the sheet. Um,
yeah, I got a lot of notes there which I
don't want, you know. Uh,
okay. You guys are too nice for some of
these questions, so I'm going to move
on. Um, all right. The next section is
called female accountability. Um,
I'm not, this one's not even on the
sheet. I forgot to ask it in the last
one. Um, and if I casually brought this
up to you as an example question for the
show, I still want you to answer the way
that you did when I brought it up the
first time.
If you were dating a guy and you loved
him, so it's the same guy that you know
before he lays hands on you, you know
that guy, the hypothetical guy, if
you're with a guy that you love and he's
around other ladies and you love him,
would you trust him around other women
if they're attractive or would you be
worried that he's going to cheat on you?
I'm going to be worried.
>> Honestly, you don't trust. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I don't trust.
>> You don't trust? >> No.
>> No.
>> You answered that differently yesterday.
You answered the other way. You fell
right into the trap. I think so did you.
Anyway, whatever. How would you like you
if you're with like why would you be
with a guy you don't trust?
>> Uh for me,
>> five years.
>> Ah, okay. Five for me. Um I will even
his the even I saw him with the other
woman but no touching, right? Just
talking around. Um I'm I'm not worried. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I'm not worried.
>> So you all agree with that, right? Yeah.
It was the five-year factor that made it
change. Okay. So you do trust him around
that. Now, now would you trust the women
around him?
>> It depends.
>> If the
>> And he has a really big wallet.
>> Yeah. That was kind of a pun. I don't
know. Big.
No, but he like, you know, like he's
he's you know, he's he's desirable.
We'll just say that.
>> Would you trust the women?
>> No. No.
>> You know where I'm getting with this. >> No.
>> No.
>> Okay. So, if women don't trust women
>> because we woman, we know.
>> I know. But what if men know women
really well, too, and they don't trust
them anymore? You know? So, like if
women don't trust women, why would men
want to trust women? That one I think is
from Myin. Thank you, Myin. And by the
way, I just want to say to Myin, too.
And uh and Brian, you guys, I understand
your pain. We have been doing so much
casting. And it's like hurting. It's
worse than hurting cats.
They all flake out. They all don't show.
Even if you pay them, you know, at a
very, very good wage, they still don't
show up. And it blows my mind. So much
respect to Fresh and Fit and whatever
podcast. Moving on. Um,
okay. So, how does it make um,
how does it make you feel when a man
that you're dating for maybe a month,
maybe even five years, who cares? If he
calls you insecure,
so the man is calling you insecure, how
do you feel?
>> I will get offended.
>> Yeah. How about you?
>> I will offended as well. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Okay, that's good. Keep that in
your hat for later. Um,
Um,
when was the last time that you gave
your man some
either advice or you corrected him? This
could be somebody you dated. I'm sure
it's happened multiple times. Like, oh,
you drink too much. You're going to
drink again. It's Thursday. It's not
Friday yet. You know, like [ __ ] like
that. When was the last time that you
were able to just tell a dude, "What the
[ __ ] are you doing? Don't do that."
Like, when was the last time? >> Yesterday.
>> Yesterday. >> Yesterday.
>> Yesterday.
>> Yesterday. Oh, yesterday. for the other.
>> I don't know. I wasn't there.
>> It was you.
>> I know. So, okay. So, what was it? Drinking.
Drinking.
>> Yeah, drinking. You're drinking a lot, dude.
dude.
>> Yeah, man. Try doing casting. And how
about you? >> Yes,
>> Yes,
>> with that in mind. Um,
when was the last time? Uh, and I'm
going to jump around actually. No, no,
no, no. Okay. So, what is the nastiest
uh sloot slutiest thing that you've ever
seen a girl do? Like what is the dirtiest
dirtiest
nasty like given
>> quitus on the dance floor? Like
>> I we might all actually you and I might
have a mutual friend that we know that
has done some crazy stuff. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> That we've witnessed. But um my wife
knows her too.
But um yeah, so what is the like when
was I I guess I won't say what it was,
but have you ever seen a girl do
something really nasty and you just like
you didn't say anything?
>> Yes, of course.
>> Yeah. When was the last time that you
did, you know, the same that you would
do to your guy where you're like, "Hey,
why don't you stop that? You know, get
some help Michael Jordan style." You know,
know,
>> when was the last time that you
criticized a woman's behavior and said,
"If you keep doing that stuff,
I'm out." Because you do it to guys. So,
have you ever done it to a girl? And
it's I'm not mad at you if you didn't.
I'm just, you know, I think you know
where I'm going.
Women don't hold each other accountable,
do they?
>> Two weeks.
>> Yeah. Two weeks ago.
>> Yes. Two weeks ago.
>> So, you actually do once in a while.
>> You do once in a while hold females
accountable for their bad behavior. Mhm.
>> But it's much less, right?
>> Of course.
>> Generally speaking, women do you think
generally women generally like
>> you know it's like okay like let me give
you an example. Have you ever seen a
body like do do you know what the body
positivity movement is? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Like yay fat, you know.
>> Um have you ever seen a male body
positive person? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. Really? Who? What's his name?
Where does he live?
>> Oh my god. No, seriously.
>> No, you don't. Like maybe a dad bot.
Maybe Oh, he's got a dadbot. And the guy
will be like, "Yep, I got a dad bot."
And you like I mean
>> that's my um um
>> I mean I have one right now. So
>> that's my admir.
>> Yeah. But like generally speaking like
if a guy has a dad bot, he kind of says
it where he's like, "I'm going to I'm
going to do something about it. You
know, I'm going to go to the gym next week."
week."
>> Actually actually uh he did start
because Yeah. because he said he he said
like, "Oh, that's why you don't talk to
me because blah blah blah." Because he
has insecurity to his body. So now I
heard that he's doing like last week
like go to gym.
>> Yeah, that's good. That's good for that guy.
guy.
>> Yeah, it's good for that guy.
>> Good for him.
>> Yeah, good for him.
>> And um yeah, I just like you know like
that whole beautiful at any size thing,
you know, it's not really a male thing.
And the reason why is because men bully
the [ __ ] out of each other. Mhm.
>> We hold each other accountable for fun.
It's a sport, but girls just don't do
it. So, like, you know, you'll see a
girl giving head on the dance floor and
you're like, "You go, girl. You slay.
Slay queen." You know, or like a girl,
if she's big, you'll call her beautiful.
But then, like, what if a guy calls you uh
uh
>> What's that girl Lizo? What if a guy
said, "Oh, you're so beautiful. You look
like Lizo."
>> Oh my god.
>> You don't know who that is? This is like
>> she's an extent,
so now she's getting skinnier, but she
was like >> big
>> big
>> like 500 lb. >> [ __ ]
>> [ __ ]
>> Yeah. Yeah, it's okay. Whatever.
Whatever. We're further in now, I think.
And I'm not even monetized yet anyway.
Nobody technically could give me a super
chat through YouTube. They would have to
use the link at the bottom of the screen
if they watch a future episode when I'm
actually live. All right. Um, yeah. So,
yeah. Yeah. So, girls generally, in your
opinion, they don't really hold each
other accountable for stuff that like
could even be hurting them. Like if a
girl's fat, like you're going to let her
hurt herself. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> Yeah. It's kind of crazy, eh? It is a
little crazy. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Do you think that sometimes there's like
a motivation there? Like, oh,
>> you know, she used to be really pretty,
but now she's a whale. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> So, like now more boys for me,
>> you know? Do you think sometimes girls
kind of encourage bad behavior as like a
caddyy like
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Really? Hey, I didn't I'm surprised.
>> Do you agree or no?
>> Yeah, you really I didn't think it was a
conscious thing. I guess I'm naive.
>> Girls are girls.
>> Oh, wow. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Oh, hey. Oh,
>> I'm going to I'm going to refrain from
any comments on that right now. If
anybody wants to do casting, you know,
like uh there's going to be a link in
the description uh to get in touch with
me. Um so, all right. Like, I'm kind of
building a world here. So, do you go out
for girls night at the bar settings with
alcohol and boys without your man if you
have a man? And how do you dress?
Really quick answers.
>> I don't dress [ __ ] dress
>> cuz I don't dress like that. But and
also I don't drink. I just if I'm out
with my girls just like have fun and party
party
>> cuz it's different. I don't know. It
really depends though for like some of
the ages. I mean different ages cuz for
me I'm like on my 13s but when we're go
out going out on going to the club we're
just like do our thing no boys just
alcohol we're just going to dance and we
have fun but it's like different maybe I
don't I'm not sure but it's cuz I have
friends like super young 22 21 so I
noticed that it's different like when
you're hanging out with younger girls
they are like alcohols boys dancing
feeling sexy whatever
>> and they're single usually. Yeah. Single
and they want attention. But it's for us
in our 30s is it's different. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
I'm going to change the question
slightly. Do you think like cheating is
becoming more common among females
>> in the Philippines than it was like for
your mom? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Or your dad? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. You think social media is changing
things? Sorry. I didn't mean to like
burn a hole in you. I stared at you when
I asked that. Um Yeah. Do you think
girls cheating is becoming more prevalent
prevalent
>> these days? Yes.
>> Yeah. Any >> depends.
>> depends.
>> Yeah, depends. But if you had to guess
one way or the other. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. You think so?
>> Who do you think cheats more, men or women?
women? >> Men.
>> Men. >> Men.
>> Men.
>> That's really funny. Men.
>> Yeah. So, I'm gonna have to address that
or people in the chat are going to like
crucify me. So,
I'm gonna just ask more questions. So,
how many times in the last, you know,
couple years, I mean, I or I guess we'll
look at a ratio.
A hundred men over the course of
whatever amount of time ask you out. How
many of those hundred men have you rejected?
>> Like,
>> like I'm looking at a ratio like uh how
often do you reject men? Do you reject
men more than you don't reject men? Is
it really easy to reject men? Do you
reject men frequently? And is it like,
you know, maybe maybe one in a hundred
you'll actually go out with? >> No.
>> No. >> No.
>> No.
>> I mean, so
>> you got to be careful with how you
answer now, right?
>> I mean,
>> I say yes to every man.
>> No. I mean,
it's different. Like, I can't be with
someone. I can hang out with someone
that I don't like. So, I'm going to
reject the guy right away.
>> Yeah. And then we'll get into that
criteria of what you look for later. I'm
jumping the shark on this one because
your last answers. Um, how about you?
Like, do you regret reject more men than
you don't?
>> Uh, yes, I did reject. But of course, if
I like the guy, why would I reject? But
most of them. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Most. >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> And like some of these guys could still
be attractive to someone else. They're
just not attractive to you.
>> Yeah. Yeah. That's right.
>> Cuz like like you're not just having
ugly guys walk up to you, I'm assuming.
>> Of course. No.
>> You're out of the league of, you know,
of you know, some dudes.
>> And how about you? Do you reject more
guys than you say hi? Yeah. Hi. Okay.
>> So, if a guy's getting rejected,
you know, a guy has to put out like a
hundred, you know, invitations to bond,
to connect, you know, with with girls.
And, you know, he's being rejected like
left, right, and center. So, by the time
he finally gets a girl,
maybe, you know, maybe. But like
do you think that someone who like went
through all that work is going to be
more likely to cheat? I mean like
there's an expression like girls are
marketers and men are sales salesmen
where you guys you don't approach men
approach. So like a salesman, hey uh you
know try this makeup, smell this
perfume. But a girl is like a marketer.
She has the billboards up. She's got her
Instagram with her ass hanging out.
She's got that. So that's marketing
versus sales. So, like
you guys are marketing all the time. Do
you think that that could give you kind
of a leg up in the cheating department?
Like a little bit of an advantage that
if you ever did want to cheat, you met
Mr. Alpha and he c slides into your DMs
and he's got like pandisell pandaell abs,
abs,
you know, like like do you think that
because of those things that maybe women
>> I don't think so.
>> You still don't think so? Because I got
layers. I got more layers, you know. I
keep you. How about you? Do you think
it's like starting to teeter now into
women cheating more?
>> I can see it in your face.
>> I'm woman, so I don't think so.
>> I know. So, you don't want to go against
the like like womanhood? >> Yes.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah. There's going to be more guys
watching this than girls, though. I
don't think girls are going to get this
far in attention span, right? Like, how
many girls do you think would actually
watch this far into the episode? >> Men.
>> Men.
>> Men have popcorn.
>> Men have popcorn right now. But girls, I
mean, they'd probably like skim. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> You know,
>> and like look at the like the most
viewed sections. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, like
>> because you know, time is money, right?
>> Okay. So,
>> um I need to pee.
>> Okay. Um Go ahead. That's okay.
>> You need to cut.
>> No, no, it's okay. You can keep going.
Let's um I mean, unless you guys want a
group intermission because we're not
live, so we can do that. Do you want to
take a group intermission? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Because the chair, this table is not
ideal. So, we want to air up like let
the blood flow back into your butt cheeks.
cheeks.
>> So, you sure that
>> Yeah. No, it's okay. I guess we can
either keep going or we can take an
intermission. Up to you. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Doesn't matter to me.
>> Doesn't It's okay. We can keep going.
>> Oh, yeah. Keep going. Okay. All right.
Um and I'm going to get better cushions
for the for the bench here. Um Okay. So,
I'm going to move on from that for now.
Just for now. I I'll probably end up
coming back to it though. Um, and I know
I'm leaving some some meat on the plate,
okay, now we're jumping into another topic.
topic.
I am going to come back to that one
before we're done. Uh, what skills do
you have that would make you a good lover, a girlfriend, or a wife?
lover, a girlfriend, or a wife? Um, and
Um, and when I get to you only, uh, I guess we
when I get to you only, uh, I guess we should wait for Chris for that one. Um,
should wait for Chris for that one. Um, okay. Is emotional intelligence valuable
okay. Is emotional intelligence valuable in decision-making when you're living
in decision-making when you're living your life, raising your kids, deciding
your life, raising your kids, deciding on a mate, or keeping your mate happy?
on a mate, or keeping your mate happy? >> Do you think emotional intelligence is
>> Do you think emotional intelligence is >> because women assume that females have
>> because women assume that females have more emotional intelligence? Right. And
more emotional intelligence? Right. And do you think it's beneficial and helpful
do you think it's beneficial and helpful in your life?
in your life? >> Being emotional.
>> Being emotional. >> Emotional intelligence.
>> Emotional intelligence. >> So, being able to be empathized.
>> So, being able to be empathized. >> Yes. Yes. So you I I kind of answered it
>> Yes. Yes. So you I I kind of answered it for you. So you do believe that women
for you. So you do believe that women have more emotional intelligence.
have more emotional intelligence. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Than men
>> Than men >> who gives the best dating advice, men or
>> who gives the best dating advice, men or women? I'm going to come back to that
women? I'm going to come back to that one too in a minute. But yeah, who who
one too in a minute. But yeah, who who who gives the best dating advice, men?
who gives the best dating advice, men? Men or women? And and then even give me
Men or women? And and then even give me an example of a good piece of dating
an example of a good piece of dating advice that you would give a man.
advice that you would give a man. >> Of course women.
>> Of course women. >> Yeah. Yeah. We'll start with Annie.
>> Yeah. Yeah. We'll start with Annie. >> Of course women.
>> Of course women. >> Okay. You think so? Women are more
>> Okay. You think so? Women are more emotionally intelligent.
emotionally intelligent. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> And
>> And >> and better dating advice.
>> and better dating advice. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Now, give me a piece of dating advice.
>> Now, give me a piece of dating advice. >> Okay. Um
>> Okay. Um Oh my god. Really?
Oh my god. Really? >> Hold.
Dating advice, right? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So,
>> So, >> like like how to treat a lady.
>> like like how to treat a lady. >> Oh, okay. Um, of course you have to be
>> Oh, okay. Um, of course you have to be polite.
polite. >> You think?
>> You think? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Huh? Okay, keep going. What else?
>> Huh? Okay, keep going. What else? >> Um, gentlemen.
>> Um, gentlemen. >> A gentleman. Okay.
>> A gentleman. Okay. >> Oh, you don't agree that?
>> Oh, you don't agree that? >> I'm not saying anything yet.
>> I'm not saying anything yet. >> And then, um, you know, ro being
>> And then, um, you know, ro being romantic.
romantic. >> Romantic.
>> Romantic. >> That's we like woman. We likes that.
>> That's we like woman. We likes that. >> Yeah, we like that.
>> Yeah, we like that. >> And yeah. Um,
>> is that good enough for you? Okay, >> I think so.
>> I think so. >> Who do you think gives better dating
>> Who do you think gives better dating advice? And what is your dating advice
advice? And what is your dating advice for a man?
for a man? >> I think to
>> I think to before you go in the relationship, um,
before you go in the relationship, um, you need to know each other. And
you need to know each other. And for me is being respectful.
for me is being respectful. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> And of course he said, men.
>> And of course he said, men. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Okay. Who gives better dating
>> Yeah. Okay. Who gives better dating advice, men or women? And what is your
advice, men or women? And what is your dating advice for men in the chat?
dating advice for men in the chat? >> Like
>> Like who gives the best advice for dating?
who gives the best advice for dating? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> For me,
>> For me, >> just male or female, who gives the best
>> just male or female, who gives the best advice on capturing a woman? Capturing.
advice on capturing a woman? Capturing. That sounds so violent. Uh on getting a
That sounds so violent. Uh on getting a girl.
girl. Would women be able to tell men how to
Would women be able to tell men how to get a girl better than men can tell men
get a girl better than men can tell men how to get a girl?
how to get a girl? >> Men.
>> Men. >> Men. Okay. And if you did give Yeah. So,
>> Men. Okay. And if you did give Yeah. So, we got some we got some opposition here.
we got some we got some opposition here. If you did give advice to a man, what
If you did give advice to a man, what would be your dating advice?
>> You need to be confident first on yourself.
yourself. >> Yeah, I think that's that's all right.
>> Yeah, I think that's that's all right. That's that's good. So, the my my issue
That's that's good. So, the my my issue with this is there's and you got to
with this is there's and you got to remember, okay, like I've I've done the
remember, okay, like I've I've done the marriage thing, I've done the eight-year
marriage thing, I've done the eight-year relationship thing, I've done the
relationship thing, I've done the fatherhood thing, and then I've also
fatherhood thing, and then I've also done my smash and grab degeneracy years,
done my smash and grab degeneracy years, and I've lived in Asia for 15 years, and
and I've lived in Asia for 15 years, and I'm, you know, 44 years old. So, I would
I'm, you know, 44 years old. So, I would personally attest that there's what
personally attest that there's what women say that
There's advice that they would think is is nice, but then there's reality and
is nice, but then there's reality and there's what women say that they want,
there's what women say that they want, but then there's what they respond to.
but then there's what they respond to. You know, like if you got a bunch of
You know, like if you got a bunch of guys and they're all like, "Oh, you look
guys and they're all like, "Oh, you look really nice tonight." And then you walk
really nice tonight." And then you walk to the bar and another guy's like, "Oh,
to the bar and another guy's like, "Oh, I love your shoes." Okay, that's a
I love your shoes." Okay, that's a little gay, but he's like, "I love your
little gay, but he's like, "I love your shoes." And then like you walk up to
shoes." And then like you walk up to another guy and he's like, "Oh, you
another guy and he's like, "Oh, you smell so good." And then another guy's
smell so good." And then another guy's like, "Oh, you know, I like this thing."
like, "Oh, you know, I like this thing." or a great rack, you know, like like
or a great rack, you know, like like just men complimenting you and then you
just men complimenting you and then you got the one guy and says, "I can see
got the one guy and says, "I can see your ass. What you're wearing is too
your ass. What you're wearing is too revealing.
revealing. That guy is going to be the one that
That guy is going to be the one that stands out."
stands out." >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So, right away you're going to be
>> So, right away you're going to be looking at that guy like, "Who the f are
looking at that guy like, "Who the f are you?" Right? Like, who is this guy
you?" Right? Like, who is this guy challenging me?
challenging me? >> Interested. You're going to get
>> Interested. You're going to get >> I want I want to know this guy. Wow.
>> I want I want to know this guy. Wow. >> Yeah. And at first it's like a trap,
>> Yeah. And at first it's like a trap, right? It's like cheese on the trap
right? It's like cheese on the trap because like you don't want to bang the
because like you don't want to bang the guy just cuz he was rude or anything
guy just cuz he was rude or anything like that. No, you're just like
like that. No, you're just like >> So now you're looking at this guy and
>> So now you're looking at this guy and suddenly
suddenly >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> the other people disappear. The nice
>> the other people disappear. The nice guys, the gentlemen disappear.
guys, the gentlemen disappear. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Guy walks up to you at a bar, you know,
>> Guy walks up to you at a bar, you know, and he sees that you're having a rough
and he sees that you're having a rough time and uh this I mean I guess I can
time and uh this I mean I guess I can say at some point in my life's timeline
say at some point in my life's timeline this has happened to me. I walk up to a
this has happened to me. I walk up to a guy at a certain bar and he's with a,
guy at a certain bar and he's with a, you know, a lovely lady and I walk up
you know, a lovely lady and I walk up and I just I saw the body language on
and I just I saw the body language on the girls and I'm like, "Hi there." And
the girls and I'm like, "Hi there." And he's the first one to say hi and I'm
he's the first one to say hi and I'm like, "Hi, I'm Mike. What's your name?"
like, "Hi, I'm Mike. What's your name?" And he's like, "I'm French." He didn't
And he's like, "I'm French." He didn't even say his name. He just said he's
even say his name. He just said he's French. So that was already like I'm
French. So that was already like I'm like I just like, "You mind if I talk to
like I just like, "You mind if I talk to her for a minute?" And I just like took
her for a minute?" And I just like took her. But um my point is is that she was
her. But um my point is is that she was so that guy's an [ __ ] Like like the
so that guy's an [ __ ] Like like the girl thought I was such a prick. She's
girl thought I was such a prick. She's like, you know, like I wanted to give
like, you know, like I wanted to give him enough rope
him enough rope >> so to see if he would hang himself and
>> so to see if he would hang himself and then, you know, it it turned out to be a
then, you know, it it turned out to be a positive ending to that evening. So, I
positive ending to that evening. So, I don't know. I I just think that and that
don't know. I I just think that and that and that wasn't even the best, you know,
and that wasn't even the best, you know, like there there there's been a lot of
like there there there's been a lot of situations where
situations where you don't lead with your wallet if
you don't lead with your wallet if you're a man, you know, and you don't
you're a man, you know, and you don't come off as a gentleman. Instead of
come off as a gentleman. Instead of picking one thing to compliment, like a
picking one thing to compliment, like a lot of guys, a lot of, you know, blue
lot of guys, a lot of, you know, blue pill guys will give advice like find
pill guys will give advice like find something that they did themsel and
something that they did themsel and compliment that. Cuz if you just
compliment that. Cuz if you just compliment their body, then it's like,
compliment their body, then it's like, great, I didn't control that. Thanks. I
great, I didn't control that. Thanks. I was born that way. But if a guy like
was born that way. But if a guy like says, "Oh my," you know, like that's a
says, "Oh my," you know, like that's a you that's a snappy outfit you're
you that's a snappy outfit you're wearing. Then um you know, some guys say
wearing. Then um you know, some guys say to do that, but I say find something
to do that, but I say find something clever to criticize.
clever to criticize. don't be a gentleman and only until
don't be a gentleman and only until later. They have to earn it.
later. They have to earn it. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> You know, and so that's kind of like So
>> You know, and so that's kind of like So I I guess I would just kind of I was
I I guess I would just kind of I was trying to prove the theory that women
trying to prove the theory that women give terrible dating advice,
give terrible dating advice, >> you know, like cuz they there's what you
>> you know, like cuz they there's what you want and all that and but then there's
want and all that and but then there's the reality. So that took a little long.
the reality. So that took a little long. Sorry guys. Um do you like it when a man
Sorry guys. Um do you like it when a man knows how you're feeling without asking
knows how you're feeling without asking and makes you feel better? So, um, you
and makes you feel better? So, um, you know, he knows when to listen to what
know, he knows when to listen to what you're saying or listen to your emotions
you're saying or listen to your emotions or your heart versus you should do this,
or your heart versus you should do this, you know, like when he like instead of
you know, like when he like instead of explaining, he just listens and like,
explaining, he just listens and like, >> you know, and he like, you know, he just
>> you know, and he like, you know, he just knows you're had a rough day. He can see
knows you're had a rough day. He can see it in your face and your and the way
it in your face and your and the way that you're acting, you're acting a
that you're acting, you're acting a little different. So, he like makes your
little different. So, he like makes your favorite dinner.
favorite dinner. >> He does nice stuff like like Have you
>> He does nice stuff like like Have you ever had a guy where that was like a
ever had a guy where that was like a common thing?
common thing? >> It
>> It >> Yeah,
>> Yeah, >> it depends. Yeah. But there are like,
>> it depends. Yeah. But there are like, you know, it's it's not like a a rare
you know, it's it's not like a a rare thing like guys can
thing like guys can >> Yeah. Um cuz girls love like we always
>> Yeah. Um cuz girls love like we always yapping, you know? We're always like
yapping, you know? We're always like saying things about like how our life I
saying things about like how our life I mean they right. So we're just like
mean they right. So we're just like talking and we really like a guy that's
talking and we really like a guy that's just listen.
just listen. >> Yeah. But it really it really like
>> Yeah. But it really it really like different when you have like you have
different when you have like you have problems and you want to say that or
problems and you want to say that or share that to your man and you know ask
share that to your man and you know ask for his advice or whatnot. You know
for his advice or whatnot. You know >> I agree with you but that's not totally
>> I agree with you but that's not totally the question like
the question like >> like is it common for you know if you're
>> like is it common for you know if you're in a relationship where you know this
in a relationship where you know this guy legit has feelings for you.
guy legit has feelings for you. >> All right.
>> All right. >> He would take a bullet for you
>> He would take a bullet for you >> and he just he he can read your mind a
>> and he just he he can read your mind a little bit you know like is that
little bit you know like is that Does that happen with pretty much any
Does that happen with pretty much any guy that you know has feelings for you?
guy that you know has feelings for you? Like if he has feelings and he he
Like if he has feelings and he he genuinely cares about you, maybe even
genuinely cares about you, maybe even loves you that he's able to do that.
loves you that he's able to do that. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> You know, like like cook the right thing
>> You know, like like cook the right thing or give you the back rub when you needed
or give you the back rub when you needed it, stuff like that.
it, stuff like that. >> Okay. I'm building up to something,
>> Okay. I'm building up to something, chat. Okay.
chat. Okay. >> I'm building up here. It's not as
>> I'm building up here. It's not as longwinded as it feels. uh you know like
longwinded as it feels. uh you know like you know another thing that like um when
you know another thing that like um when a guy because men have a 24-hour cycle
a guy because men have a 24-hour cycle our cycle revolves around our balls and
our cycle revolves around our balls and when we're producing sperm and when we
when we're producing sperm and when we are that's our version of PMS and it's
are that's our version of PMS and it's about 15 minutes a day.
about 15 minutes a day. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Women have a a moonbased cycle. So it's
>> Women have a a moonbased cycle. So it's like 28 days, right? So your behavior if
like 28 days, right? So your behavior if a guy doesn't understand cycles like I
a guy doesn't understand cycles like I can literally walk up to a girl that I
can literally walk up to a girl that I know based cuz on the the experience
know based cuz on the the experience that I had like in prior days and it's
that I had like in prior days and it's not even a girl I'm I'm intimate with. I
not even a girl I'm I'm intimate with. I just know when a girl's about to have
just know when a girl's about to have her period. Like I just know you know
her period. Like I just know you know like once you're old when you're old man
like once you're old when you're old man like I am, you just know the cycle. Like
like I am, you just know the cycle. Like I'll know when I can make carnal
I'll know when I can make carnal knowledge with a lady and not get her
knowledge with a lady and not get her pregnant cuz there's only like a window
pregnant cuz there's only like a window of like a few days, right?
of like a few days, right? >> Yeah. So, you know, when you really get
>> Yeah. So, you know, when you really get to know a woman's cycle, that's really
to know a woman's cycle, that's really good. But when a guy can identify that
good. But when a guy can identify that and then leave you alone when you do
and then leave you alone when you do dumb [ __ ] you know, and like just like,
dumb [ __ ] you know, and like just like, you know, like give you space and like
you know, like give you space and like be respectful. Like normally he might
be respectful. Like normally he might say, "Hey, don't do that. Don't say
say, "Hey, don't do that. Don't say that." But then like he knows you're on
that." But then like he knows you're on your rag, so like he's going to be like,
your rag, so like he's going to be like, "It's okay, baby. It's okay. I love you.
"It's okay, baby. It's okay. I love you. Oh, it's okay." You know, like it's just
Oh, it's okay." You know, like it's just like he's really sweet with you when
like he's really sweet with you when you're on your
you're on your >> Yes. They
>> Yes. They >> guys generally know to do that because
>> guys generally know to do that because if they don't do that,
if they don't do that, >> they're screwed.
>> they're screwed. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So,
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So, >> so,
>> so, >> so guys take note.
>> so guys take note. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. And but I I think guys do take
>> Yeah. And but I I think guys do take note and and you know, and then I guess
note and and you know, and then I guess my last question is this and if I've
my last question is this and if I've already kind of brought it up with you
already kind of brought it up with you in the past because we all I do is talk
in the past because we all I do is talk about doing this podcast. This is this
about doing this podcast. This is this has been a journey, folks. Um
has been a journey, folks. Um answer the way that you did if I brought
answer the way that you did if I brought it up already. Have you ever to test a
it up already. Have you ever to test a man? Have you ever said no? Even though
man? Have you ever said no? Even though you wanted to say yes, you just wanted
you wanted to say yes, you just wanted to see him put in the effort to try to
to see him put in the effort to try to win your heart. Have you ever done that?
win your heart. Have you ever done that? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yes. Yes.
>> Yes. Yes. So yes can mean no.
So yes can mean no. >> I mean, and no can mean yes.
>> I mean, and no can mean yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. And we live in a world of like
>> Yeah. And we live in a world of like grape culture. Mhm.
grape culture. Mhm. >> And you know, because a lot of guys in
>> And you know, because a lot of guys in the West now, they're a little afraid
the West now, they're a little afraid to, you know, be like Shan Connory, you
to, you know, be like Shan Connory, you know, and like I don't know if you
know, and like I don't know if you probably don't know that reference.
probably don't know that reference. You're all too young, but James Bond
You're all too young, but James Bond reference. Um, but like, yeah. So, okay.
reference. Um, but like, yeah. So, okay. So, when you when you take in all of the
So, when you when you take in all of the questions I just asked, like the last
questions I just asked, like the last five questions,
five questions, if a guy is emotionally connected to
if a guy is emotionally connected to you, he understands when you're about to
you, he understands when you're about to have your cycle. He knows how to treat
have your cycle. He knows how to treat you based on what day of the month that
you based on what day of the month that it is. He knows when like your vibe. He
it is. He knows when like your vibe. He knows like when to cook the right food.
knows like when to cook the right food. He knows when to do these things. You've
He knows when to do these things. You've all said this is generally common common
all said this is generally common common when you're in a good relationship.
when you're in a good relationship. And a guy also has to know when no means
And a guy also has to know when no means yes. Now, let's go back to the original
yes. Now, let's go back to the original question.
question. Oh, and let's just factor in the fact
Oh, and let's just factor in the fact that there's a whole lot of girls that
that there's a whole lot of girls that knew that me doing this show, I have to
knew that me doing this show, I have to pay money to do this show every single
pay money to do this show every single time. Do you think it's very emotionally
time. Do you think it's very emotionally intelligent of the ladies that flaked
intelligent of the ladies that flaked out? You know who you are. I got one of
out? You know who you are. I got one of them that came today. Thank you for
them that came today. Thank you for that. Thank you for showing up today.
that. Thank you for showing up today. But um yeah, so like who's more
But um yeah, so like who's more emotionally intelligent,
emotionally intelligent, you know, like really in the grand
you know, like really in the grand scheme of things
scheme of things cuz women uh and men have logic and
cuz women uh and men have logic and consistency and if we are inconsistent
consistency and if we are inconsistent like we talk about our emotions too
like we talk about our emotions too much, then you girls are kind of like
much, then you girls are kind of like gay, you know, like or whatever bakla or
gay, you know, like or whatever bakla or whatever you guys say. Uh and it it
whatever you guys say. Uh and it it actually make might make you feel
actually make might make you feel unsafe, you know, if a man is not
unsafe, you know, if a man is not consistent. So we have consistency down,
consistent. So we have consistency down, but do we also actually have emotional
but do we also actually have emotional intelligence down too? Kind of making us
intelligence down too? Kind of making us a little bit like, you know, better in
a little bit like, you know, better in some ways.
some ways. >> No, you're right.
>> No, you're right. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> A little bit little bit like maybe maybe
>> A little bit little bit like maybe maybe one point over the line.
one point over the line. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So do you think maybe you're going to
>> So do you think maybe you're going to consider men and the next time a girl
consider men and the next time a girl says men men suck. They don't know
says men men suck. They don't know anything. They're not emotionally able
anything. They're not emotionally able to communicate. Going back to my other
to communicate. Going back to my other question, would you be willing to
question, would you be willing to correct a female on that one in the
correct a female on that one in the future? For for for me in the chat,
future? For for for me in the chat, would you be willing to correct?
would you be willing to correct? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah. Set the record straight that men
>> Yeah. Set the record straight that men don't all suck and that if you get a
don't all suck and that if you get a good one, you just haven't met the right
good one, you just haven't met the right man yet.
man yet. >> Yeah, exactly.
>> Yeah, exactly. >> I love men.
>> I love men. >> Yeah. There you go. There you go. I like
>> Yeah. There you go. There you go. I like Yeah. But um yeah, I just wanted to kind
Yeah. But um yeah, I just wanted to kind of cover that off. So, that was a test
of cover that off. So, that was a test run of one of my buildups. Now, I was
run of one of my buildups. Now, I was asking a question when Chris was in the
asking a question when Chris was in the bathroom. Uh and this is another
bathroom. Uh and this is another buildup. I don't need my glasses or the
buildup. I don't need my glasses or the paper for this one because I've seen it
paper for this one because I've seen it enough on Fresh and Fit.
enough on Fresh and Fit. Um,
Um, so what do you guys bring to the table?
so what do you guys bring to the table? You know, like I know a lot of the, you
You know, like I know a lot of the, you know, the anti- red pill people, they're
know, the anti- red pill people, they're like, "Oh, you're bringing that [ __ ] to
like, "Oh, you're bringing that [ __ ] to the Philippines. Don't do that." Yeah,
the Philippines. Don't do that." Yeah, it matters. It matters.
it matters. It matters. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> I said it matters. It matters, right?
>> I said it matters. It matters, right? Yes.
Yes. >> You know, so they said it matters. So,
>> You know, so they said it matters. So, I'm going to move on with my
I'm going to move on with my questioning. Um, yeah. What do you bring
questioning. Um, yeah. What do you bring to the table? and
to the table? and make a mental note if like all the other
make a mental note if like all the other girls bring the same thing to the table.
girls bring the same thing to the table. I kind of spoiled it already, but yeah,
I kind of spoiled it already, but yeah, I just, you know, like like what do you
I just, you know, like like what do you bring to the table?
bring to the table? >> Like being a wife,
>> Like being a wife, >> being a woman who wants to date a man,
>> being a woman who wants to date a man, what do you think he's going to value in
what do you think he's going to value in you?
you? >> And it could be basic too. It could be
>> And it could be basic too. It could be like
like >> to be a supportive.
>> to be a supportive. >> Okay.
>> Okay. Um just I think women are like
Um just I think women are like very supportive when they like love the
very supportive when they like love the their partners.
their partners. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> They're like they can actually take care
>> They're like they can actually take care of the men like being
of the men like being with them all the time. Give them food.
with them all the time. Give them food. Cook them food.
Cook them food. >> Okay. Yeah. See now you're getting into
>> Okay. Yeah. See now you're getting into tangible stuff.
tangible stuff. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So use less wasted words. be more
>> So use less wasted words. be more succinct.
succinct. >> Yeah. But that's how it
>> Yeah. But that's how it >> Yeah. So, okay. So, cook, clean.
>> Yeah. So, okay. So, cook, clean. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Uh be supportive.
>> Uh be supportive. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Supportive can be in a lot of different
>> Supportive can be in a lot of different ways. Those are some of the ways. Um
ways. Those are some of the ways. Um Okay. Side quest. If your man was trying
Okay. Side quest. If your man was trying to start, let's just use me as an
to start, let's just use me as an example. And you're not I'm not your
example. And you're not I'm not your man. But if you were to be with a guy
man. But if you were to be with a guy like me who's trying to start this
like me who's trying to start this podcast, would you like
podcast, would you like >> would you prefer to work at Saitel or
>> would you prefer to work at Saitel or would you prefer to try to take the risk
would you prefer to try to take the risk on his business and build up him and his
on his business and build up him and his business?
business? >> I'm going to learn how this business
>> I'm going to learn how this business works. I'm going to support him and then
works. I'm going to support him and then I'll probably going to be with him
I'll probably going to be with him >> with this.
>> with this. >> But what's most ideal? Like I'm I'm
>> But what's most ideal? Like I'm I'm going on a side journey here, but like
going on a side journey here, but like would you rather work in a business
would you rather work in a business that's not your man or would you rather
that's not your man or would you rather work with your man in his business?
work with your man in his business? >> I'd rather work with my man.
>> I'd rather work with my man. >> Yeah. You too?
>> Yeah. You too? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. That's cool. Uh so, okay. So,
>> Yeah. That's cool. Uh so, okay. So, we've got I I'm just going to break it
we've got I I'm just going to break it down in very like not pretty ways like
down in very like not pretty ways like cooking, cleaning, emotional support.
cooking, cleaning, emotional support. You kind of maybe maybe back him up in
You kind of maybe maybe back him up in his business like if you were good with
his business like if you were good with numbers, maybe you do the accounting or
numbers, maybe you do the accounting or something, which is awesome. That's
something, which is awesome. That's that's a big one that people look for.
that's a big one that people look for. >> Um, do you agree with those first?
>> Um, do you agree with those first? >> No.
>> No. >> So, you wouldn't cook or clean or do
>> So, you wouldn't cook or clean or do accounting or what?
accounting or what? >> I do, but I mean because she said like
>> I do, but I mean because she said like woman actually I disagree cuz not all
woman actually I disagree cuz not all woman do that does that for their man.
woman do that does that for their man. >> Yeah. No, I agree with you now. But I'm
>> Yeah. No, I agree with you now. But I'm asking what do you bring to the table
asking what do you bring to the table first? Yes.
first? Yes. >> So, so you would do those things.
>> So, so you would do those things. >> Yes. Yes. Of course.
>> Yes. Yes. Of course. >> Yeah. Can you add anything to that list?
>> Yeah. Can you add anything to that list? I like um
I like um >> so we got cooking, cleaning, supporting,
>> so we got cooking, cleaning, supporting, maybe helping in his business. Is there
maybe helping in his business. Is there anything additional that you could
anything additional that you could offer?
offer? >> Uh yeah.
>> Uh yeah. >> What?
>> What? >> Uh like um
massage. >> So you know
>> So you know >> that's so cute.
>> that's so cute. >> When when
>> When when >> that is so cute
>> that is so cute >> when you
>> when you >> Damn right. You better walk on his back
>> Damn right. You better walk on his back too.
too. >> So supportive and maybe some some really
>> So supportive and maybe some some really fun sexy times stuff like that.
fun sexy times stuff like that. >> Oh wow. So,
>> Oh wow. So, >> is there anything else you can add to
>> is there anything else you can add to the list?
>> Feel good when he's having >> Make sure his balls are empty every time
>> Make sure his balls are empty every time he leaves the house.
he leaves the house. >> Oh,
>> Oh, >> yeah.
>> yeah. >> True. True.
>> True. True. >> That's smart. You know, like cuz then
>> That's smart. You know, like cuz then you hit two birds with one stone. You
you hit two birds with one stone. You don't got to worry about the other
don't got to worry about the other ladies. And uh Yeah. And then you know,
ladies. And uh Yeah. And then you know, you're you're doing a good job.
you're you're doing a good job. >> Anything that you could add to that or
>> Anything that you could add to that or would you just stick with those?
would you just stick with those? >> No.
>> No. >> Yeah. Now I'm building the world. So
>> Yeah. Now I'm building the world. So these answers are going to affect
these answers are going to affect answers to questions down the line. So
answers to questions down the line. So there's always the circle back, folks.
there's always the circle back, folks. I'm going to Jen Saki that [ __ ] So
I'm going to Jen Saki that [ __ ] So if we get to that [ __ ] Um yeah. So
if we get to that [ __ ] Um yeah. So that's what you bring to the table. Um,
what are the limits of submission for you with your man?
you with your man? Like um
Like um what like like should you obey? Should a
what like like should you obey? Should a wife obey her husband?
wife obey her husband? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> When would you not obey him?
>> When would you not obey him? >> If there are things that you don't want
>> If there are things that you don't want her to do. If you're not com comfortable
her to do. If you're not com comfortable to do that stuff. And would those things
to do that stuff. And would those things be like immoral crime?
be like immoral crime? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Would you commit a crime for your
>> Would you commit a crime for your husband?
husband? >> No,
>> No, >> you wouldn't.
>> you wouldn't. >> No, of course. If
>> No, of course. If >> so,
>> so, >> you wrong is wrong.
>> you wrong is wrong. >> You would choose big daddy government.
>> You would choose big daddy government. >> So, like
>> So, like who's your daddy? You know, like, okay,
who's your daddy? You know, like, okay, let me give you a, you know, a more gray
let me give you a, you know, a more gray area. Mhm.
area. Mhm. >> The government says you have to get a
>> The government says you have to get a certain medical intervention for the
certain medical intervention for the pandemic. And your husband says, "Don't
pandemic. And your husband says, "Don't do it." And then your your the
do it." And then your your the government says, "No, you have to." And
government says, "No, you have to." And then your husband says, "Let's break the
then your husband says, "Let's break the law. Here's a card that says you already
law. Here's a card that says you already had it. We're going to commit fraud
had it. We're going to commit fraud together, honey." Would you break that
together, honey." Would you break that law for him?
law for him? >> It's a you know, the the jab card.
>> It's a you know, the the jab card. >> Yeah. Would you take that fake jab cart
>> Yeah. Would you take that fake jab cart or would you say no? I'm going to go get
or would you say no? I'm going to go get my volunt my nonvoluntary injection.
my volunt my nonvoluntary injection. >> Yeah. Um I'm going to probably
>> Yeah. Um I'm going to probably >> I mean I need the knowledge first.
>> I mean I need the knowledge first. >> Yeah. But it's it's safe and effective
>> Yeah. But it's it's safe and effective as all the TV says.
as all the TV says. >> But it then we kind of
>> But it then we kind of >> you would break the law. Okay.
>> you would break the law. Okay. >> Cuz Yeah.
>> Cuz Yeah. >> Something like it's alive people.
>> Something like it's alive people. >> You're not killing people, right?
>> You're not killing people, right? >> Yeah. So, so I guess you know like would
>> Yeah. So, so I guess you know like would you like if you didn't do the research
you like if you didn't do the research yourself and your husband just said I
yourself and your husband just said I did the research it is bad I am
did the research it is bad I am instructing our family to
instructing our family to >> to commit fraud basically and get a fake
>> to commit fraud basically and get a fake card. Would you follow him?
card. Would you follow him? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Okay. So you would So you're not a total
>> Okay. So you would So you're not a total like you know.
like you know. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Okay. Not a communist. How about you?
>> Okay. Not a communist. How about you? >> Of course.
>> Of course. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> I need my man is beside me.
>> I need my man is beside me. >> Damn right. And same for you. Yeah.
>> Damn right. And same for you. Yeah. >> Did you walk through the fire? You know.
>> Did you walk through the fire? You know. Okay. Anyway, uh don't answer that. Um,
Okay. Anyway, uh don't answer that. Um, so now like yeah, like like what are the
so now like yeah, like like what are the limits? Like when would you not obey
limits? Like when would you not obey your man?
your man? >> When he become aggressive
>> When he become aggressive >> there.
>> there. But what if he was like he's in a crisis
But what if he was like he's in a crisis situation. You're freaking out on the
situation. You're freaking out on the side of the road. There's men with pew
side of the road. There's men with pew pews coming over the hill. He's like,
pews coming over the hill. He's like, "Get in the car." And he's like telling
"Get in the car." And he's like telling you what to do, but he's being
you what to do, but he's being aggressive about it. And like, so you're
aggressive about it. And like, so you're like, "You're too aggressive. You're
like, "You're too aggressive. You're being too aggressive with me right now.
being too aggressive with me right now. Calm down. Or would you just get in the
Calm down. Or would you just get in the car and do what he So like you might
car and do what he So like you might even submit if he's being aggressive
even submit if he's being aggressive >> depending on the situation.
>> depending on the situation. >> Yes, it depends then. Well, if that's
>> Yes, it depends then. Well, if that's situation then I'm going to go in the
situation then I'm going to go in the car because that's for our you know
car because that's for our you know safety.
safety. >> Yeah. Now let's make it something more
>> Yeah. Now let's make it something more realistic. What if he got a job in
realistic. What if he got a job in Kuran? No, no, no. That's that's where
Kuran? No, no, no. That's that's where you're from. What if you got a job in
>> Australia? >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> No, no, cuz you'd like Australia. What
>> No, no, cuz you'd like Australia. What if you got a job in somewhere really hot
if you got a job in somewhere really hot like uh
>> not Dubai because every all the girls want to go to Dubai,
want to go to Dubai, Pakistan,
Pakistan, >> but it was like a super highpaying job.
>> but it was like a super highpaying job. It was like five-year contract.
It was like five-year contract. And he said, "We are going to Pakistan
And he said, "We are going to Pakistan next week." I already got a house. Would
next week." I already got a house. Would you obey?
you obey? [Music]
[Music] >> Pakist Pakistan. You don't have to marry
>> Pakist Pakistan. You don't have to marry a Pakistani.
a Pakistani. >> No.
>> No. >> There might be some in the chat. And we
>> There might be some in the chat. And we love you. We love you.
love you. We love you. >> I know. I see you. You're looking
>> I know. I see you. You're looking dashing today. Anyway, um yeah. So, like
dashing today. Anyway, um yeah. So, like what would you
what would you would you obey that if it was like a
would you obey that if it was like a five-year contract? Would you be like,
five-year contract? Would you be like, "Okay, this is obviously really
"Okay, this is obviously really important. He's really thought about it.
important. He's really thought about it. >> Yeah, I think yes. I would say yes
>> Yeah, I think yes. I would say yes because he's going there because of like
because he's going there because of like you know like he needs that's work
you know like he needs that's work >> which is like support family. So yeah, I
>> which is like support family. So yeah, I will obey.
will obey. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yes, I will obey my man cuz I trust him.
>> Yes, I will obey my man cuz I trust him. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> And he already maybe planned this for a
>> And he already maybe planned this for a long long time before he tell me
long long time before he tell me something like that.
something like that. >> Yeah. Same with you.
>> Yeah. Same with you. >> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. >> But but
>> But but you probably don't even like because you
you probably don't even like because you kind of like I I I get the feeling like
kind of like I I I get the feeling like you're quiet but you're dangerous and I
you're quiet but you're dangerous and I get the feeling like maybe uh you're
get the feeling like maybe uh you're kind of in the like cuz because you
kind of in the like cuz because you don't want children, right? So like I
don't want children, right? So like I kind of like I wonder like how cuz if
kind of like I wonder like how cuz if there's no kids and that the kids are
there's no kids and that the kids are the glue in a lot of cases during the
the glue in a lot of cases during the hard years and if you have no kids and
hard years and if you have no kids and you don't even want kids like you're
you don't even want kids like you're like I don't want a little version of
like I don't want a little version of you. I don't love you that much you know
you. I don't love you that much you know like you might. So, if you're already in
like you might. So, if you're already in that camp, that sometimes I assume that
that camp, that sometimes I assume that you might have different answers, but
you might have different answers, but no, you're you're you're doing in my
no, you're you're you're doing in my opinion, I think you're great. Um,
opinion, I think you're great. Um, if you really wanted to vote for Let's
if you really wanted to vote for Let's look at the last election in the
look at the last election in the Philippines. I don't want to use
Philippines. I don't want to use American examples. So, we had the uh the
American examples. So, we had the uh the very very Hillary inspired campaign. Um,
very very Hillary inspired campaign. Um, what was the the the campaign that had
what was the the the campaign that had um all the pink signs and it was like
um all the pink signs and it was like because I'm a woman. It wasn't the Lima.
because I'm a woman. It wasn't the Lima. It was who was running
It was who was running It it was some woman and her signs were
It it was some woman and her signs were pink and she basically was like ripping
pink and she basically was like ripping off a Democrat like talking point in
off a Democrat like talking point in this election recently.
this election recently. G like I I know you guys have the
G like I I know you guys have the Gabriella party, but I don't think it I
Gabriella party, but I don't think it I don't know what party it was. It was
don't know what party it was. It was just a woman. It wasn't the Lima. It was
just a woman. It wasn't the Lima. It was another famous name, though. A name I've
another famous name, though. A name I've heard a lot.
heard a lot. Okay. Well, whatever. She's all for
Okay. Well, whatever. She's all for femininity and female rights and vote
femininity and female rights and vote for me cuz I'm a girl. And then your
for me cuz I'm a girl. And then your husband says, "Nope, I want you to
husband says, "Nope, I want you to vote." And we don't know yet.
vote." And we don't know yet. >> We don't know Marcos yet in this
>> We don't know Marcos yet in this hypothetical. And he says, "Nope, I want
hypothetical. And he says, "Nope, I want you to vote for Marcos." Or, "No, I want
you to vote for Marcos." Or, "No, I want you to vote for Duterte." Do not vote
you to vote for Duterte." Do not vote for who you want to vote for. Even if
for who you want to vote for. Even if you disagree, he says, "Vote for who I
you disagree, he says, "Vote for who I tell you to vote for." What do you do?
tell you to vote for." What do you do? Do you secretly do the vote you want to
Do you secretly do the vote you want to do, or do you vote as because you just
do, or do you vote as because you just assume that maybe he's got a better
assume that maybe he's got a better angle on it?
angle on it? >> I need to know why first.
>> I need to know why first. >> So, you'd have to have that
>> So, you'd have to have that conversation. Now, what if you just
conversation. Now, what if you just said, "I'm not going to explain it. It's
said, "I'm not going to explain it. It's going to take too long. I don't want
going to take too long. I don't want to."
>> I mean, yeah, I can. I mean, I can cuz >> I know. I know. It's like going down the
>> I know. I know. It's like going down the rabbit hole, but I'm just
rabbit hole, but I'm just >> cuz I'm not very political. Yeah.
>> cuz I'm not very political. Yeah. >> Yeah. So, you just trust him?
>> Yeah. So, you just trust him? >> Yeah. Just
>> Yeah. Just >> No, I won't. I will vote who I want to
>> No, I won't. I will vote who I want to vote.
vote. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I will not follow him.
>> I will not follow him. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> I will follow my heart.
>> I will follow my heart. >> You just unlocked a new round of
>> You just unlocked a new round of questions. And how would you do it? I
questions. And how would you do it? I will follow my one.
will follow my one. >> Okay. Your man. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So,
>> Okay. Your man. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So, okay. Now, I don't even know where they
okay. Now, I don't even know where they are, but I've got all this pretty much
are, but I've got all this pretty much memorized. Um,
if you had to pick three things that are wrong with the West right now, what
wrong with the West right now, what would you say they are?
>> That's a very hard question. >> Okay, I'll list off a few things. Do you
>> Okay, I'll list off a few things. Do you think it's the fact that all the
think it's the fact that all the countries are being flooded by people
countries are being flooded by people that came into the country illegally and
that came into the country illegally and are doing a lot of grape and violence
are doing a lot of grape and violence and stuff like that? It's getting to the
and stuff like that? It's getting to the point right now where you're not seeing
point right now where you're not seeing it on the media, but in Spain, they're
it on the media, but in Spain, they're having huge uprisings with uh people
having huge uprisings with uh people from the religion of peace uh versus the
from the religion of peace uh versus the Christians where the people of the
Christians where the people of the religion of peace are coming from like
religion of peace are coming from like Syria and they're coming from all the
Syria and they're coming from all the other places. They're coming in. They're
other places. They're coming in. They're like slitting the throats of Christian
like slitting the throats of Christian old men sitting at waiting for the bus.
old men sitting at waiting for the bus. Um,
Um, do you think that the economy is doing
do you think that the economy is doing good? Do you think that like all this
good? Do you think that like all this support, this would be a controversial
support, this would be a controversial topic to bring up? So, women
topic to bring up? So, women predominantly support soi although not
predominantly support soi although not very many women. I'll be honest with
very many women. I'll be honest with you, most don't in this country because
you, most don't in this country because you guys are based AF. But, you know, if
you guys are based AF. But, you know, if there are supporters, it it mainly skews
there are supporters, it it mainly skews towards women. the things that women
towards women. the things that women want to vote for,
want to vote for, >> would you maybe concede to me that
>> would you maybe concede to me that they're based on emotions and how you
they're based on emotions and how you feel?
feel? >> Yes,
>> Yes, >> I think so.
>> I think so. >> Do you think that's a Do you think
>> Do you think that's a Do you think that's a dangerous way to vote?
that's a dangerous way to vote? >> Um,
>> Um, yeah.
yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> But women are women, you know?
>> But women are women, you know? >> I mean, yeah, women are women, but like
>> I mean, yeah, women are women, but like what if uh what if election day was and
what if uh what if election day was and what if they know? I mean, all women
what if they know? I mean, all women have different cycles, but like what if
have different cycles, but like what if all women had the same cycle? Do you
all women had the same cycle? Do you think politicians wouldn't choose to
think politicians wouldn't choose to make the election on a certain date?
make the election on a certain date? That would make you emotional. Like,
That would make you emotional. Like, >> it's like it's like if I could only
>> it's like it's like if I could only approach girls when they're ovulating.
approach girls when they're ovulating. My my my
My my my score would go up, right? Because, oh,
score would go up, right? Because, oh, they're all ovulating. Go to the bar
they're all ovulating. Go to the bar where everybody's ovulating. Then your
where everybody's ovulating. Then your chances are much higher.
chances are much higher. >> Well, politically, do you think that
>> Well, politically, do you think that they wouldn't exploit that? I mean,
they wouldn't exploit that? I mean, hypothetically, like
hypothetically, like >> No.
>> No. >> You don't think that they exploit women?
>> You don't think that they exploit women? >> No. You don't think that Justin Trudeau
>> No. You don't think that Justin Trudeau that right before he went to a debate
that right before he went to a debate having a sweaty boxing session showing
having a sweaty boxing session showing off his abs?
off his abs? >> No. No.
>> No. No. >> You don't think that was manipulating
>> You don't think that was manipulating women at all?
women at all? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> It was manipulative. Don't you think?
>> It was manipulative. Don't you think? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I think yes.
>> I think yes. >> And he won many elections in a row
>> And he won many elections in a row because of that.
because of that. >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> By the female vote.
>> By the female vote. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So now I'm going to go back to my
>> So now I'm going to go back to my original question. Do you think that you
original question. Do you think that you would trust your man to let you decide
would trust your man to let you decide for you on a vote?
for you on a vote? >> No.
>> No. >> Still no. Okay.
>> Still no. Okay. >> Okay. I'll leave it there because like
>> Okay. I'll leave it there because like I'm not going to ram anything. I'm not
I'm not going to ram anything. I'm not You guys have I know it's your opinion
You guys have I know it's your opinion and that's what I'm here to figure out.
and that's what I'm here to figure out. I This is the the screening process.
I This is the the screening process. >> I know. You want to go take a quick
>> I know. You want to go take a quick break? All right. We're going to take a
break? All right. We're going to take a quick intermission because I need to get
quick intermission because I need to get the blood flow back into my glutes.
the blood flow back into my glutes. Yes. So, I'm going to hit the button
Yes. So, I'm going to hit the button now. I got to find it first. Pause. Be
now. I got to find it first. Pause. Be right back.
right back. Oh, wait. No. Let's do this one.
All right, we are back and now the camera is being choppy. Nobody has their
camera is being choppy. Nobody has their phones. Oh, get rid of your phones.
phones. Oh, get rid of your phones. >> I don't have internet. I use my data.
>> I don't have internet. I use my data. >> It still might be causing it. No, no,
>> It still might be causing it. No, no, we're okay. Okay, maybe there's just a
we're okay. Okay, maybe there's just a bit of slowdown. All right, so we're
bit of slowdown. All right, so we're back and um okay, so the last question
back and um okay, so the last question that we asked was about would you vote
that we asked was about would you vote for the guy that you know and that was
for the guy that you know and that was just to kind of measure um your level of
just to kind of measure um your level of submission. And then just to recap too,
submission. And then just to recap too, earlier in the talk we talked about you
earlier in the talk we talked about you know if your man got a little handsy uh
know if your man got a little handsy uh with you uh you wouldn't report him, you
with you uh you wouldn't report him, you wouldn't, you know, you would try to
wouldn't, you know, you would try to communicate and Annie, you also
communicate and Annie, you also mentioned that you'd actually be willing
mentioned that you'd actually be willing to change how you operate around your
to change how you operate around your man just to prevent that. So that also
man just to prevent that. So that also falls into submission. So generally
falls into submission. So generally speaking,
speaking, as a man, I would rate you guys as much
as a man, I would rate you guys as much more submissive um than women in the
more submissive um than women in the West. So, yay. All right.
West. So, yay. All right. >> Yay.
>> Yay. >> Yay. And um yeah, there was some other
>> Yay. And um yeah, there was some other stuff I wanted to circle back to, and I
stuff I wanted to circle back to, and I hope we can get to it all. If we don't,
hope we can get to it all. If we don't, it'll be for another show, gentlemen. Um
it'll be for another show, gentlemen. Um okay.
okay. Okay.
Do you think being um you know like if your husband insisted that you become a
your husband insisted that you become a stay-at-home mom,
stay-at-home mom, you have his kids,
you have his kids, would you kind of view that as like
would you kind of view that as like because it's it's very common for
because it's it's very common for Western themes among feminists to say
Western themes among feminists to say that that you know being a stay-at-home
that that you know being a stay-at-home mom is kind of oppressive. Like if you
mom is kind of oppressive. Like if you really wanted a career and your husband
really wanted a career and your husband put his foot down and you love the guy,
put his foot down and you love the guy, but he's like, "Nope. I don't want the
but he's like, "Nope. I don't want the daycare. I don't want the nanny raising
daycare. I don't want the nanny raising my kid. I want you to raise my kid. I
my kid. I want you to raise my kid. I want you to become a stay-at-home mom. I
want you to become a stay-at-home mom. I make enough money. We won't go hungry.
make enough money. We won't go hungry. Drop your career." Would that be like
Drop your career." Would that be like oppress like oppressive to you? Like
oppress like oppressive to you? Like would you be like mad or disappointed in
would you be like mad or disappointed in him for that?
him for that? >> No.
>> No. >> No. Even if you were like super like I
>> No. Even if you were like super like I really want a career.
really want a career. >> It depends. Like I love being stay at
>> It depends. Like I love being stay at home mom. I like taking care of my kids
home mom. I like taking care of my kids home and like taking care of my husband
home and like taking care of my husband as well.
as well. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> So I I mean it's
>> So I I mean it's >> so So you'd fall in line on that one?
>> so So you'd fall in line on that one? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Okay. How about you?
>> Okay. How about you? >> I will disappoint little.
>> I will disappoint little. >> Yeah. because I feel like if he's not
>> Yeah. because I feel like if he's not supporting me I uh as I think for me
supporting me I uh as I think for me >> but his ask is that you raise your own
>> but his ask is that you raise your own children.
children. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. So so like do you think it's
>> Yeah. So so like do you think it's oppressive?
oppressive? >> Yeah. For me I Yeah.
>> Yeah. For me I Yeah. >> Okay. I have a feeling
>> Okay. I have a feeling >> because I want my I love my career. So I
>> because I want my I love my career. So I think I can do both.
think I can do both. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> How about you?
>> How about you? >> Maybe I can do
>> Maybe I can do >> be a stay at home mom.
>> be a stay at home mom. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. I mean, personally, I I be great
>> Yeah. I mean, personally, I I be great in my opinion. I don't know. I mean, I
in my opinion. I don't know. I mean, I don't know why like because if you have
don't know why like because if you have a career, you know, you're going to work
a career, you know, you're going to work for somebody else. Now, now earlier
for somebody else. Now, now earlier though, you answered you would be
though, you answered you would be willing to work with your husband with
willing to work with your husband with him kind of as your boss. If you if he
him kind of as your boss. If you if he had a business, you were willing to help
had a business, you were willing to help with that. So, that's good. If you had
with that. So, that's good. If you had to choose between working in a career of
to choose between working in a career of your own choice in an office or
your own choice in an office or whatever, like let's say you could work
whatever, like let's say you could work at Vogue magazine because I know you're
at Vogue magazine because I know you're into like fashion and your husband said,
into like fashion and your husband said, "No, I want to start a chain of
"No, I want to start a chain of laundry."
laundry." >> Hi Sergey,
>> Hi Sergey, we love you. Um,
we love you. Um, check out Don. It's Don Ernesto, right?
check out Don. It's Don Ernesto, right? If you're in Paloan area, do your
If you're in Paloan area, do your laundry at Don Ernesto. not sponsoring
laundry at Don Ernesto. not sponsoring this, but he is our friend. Um, yeah,
this, but he is our friend. Um, yeah, but he's like, "You know what? I really
but he's like, "You know what? I really want you to help me run that business.
want you to help me run that business. It's not glamorous. It's not Vogue."
It's not glamorous. It's not Vogue." >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> You know, like, would you still feel
>> You know, like, would you still feel that that's oppressive, too?
that that's oppressive, too? >> I know.
>> I know. >> Like, and they offered you the job at
>> Like, and they offered you the job at Vogue. And it even pays a bit more,
Vogue. And it even pays a bit more, >> but your husband's like, "I want you to
>> but your husband's like, "I want you to work with me." Would you work with your
work with me." Would you work with your husband?
husband? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> That's cool. That's okay. Okay. So, you
>> That's cool. That's okay. Okay. So, you wouldn't Okay. you you defeated my whole
wouldn't Okay. you you defeated my whole other argument of um you know like why
other argument of um you know like why would you take a job when they can fire
would you take a job when they can fire you at any time and you're still taking
you at any time and you're still taking orders from a man it's just not your
orders from a man it's just not your husband and the boss doesn't love you
husband and the boss doesn't love you unless he does and that's naughty. Uh
unless he does and that's naughty. Uh but anyway, okay. So I don't have to go
but anyway, okay. So I don't have to go down that road. That's cool. That's
down that road. That's cool. That's cool. Um
cool. Um yeah, and so that answered the next
yeah, and so that answered the next question. Would you give up your career
question. Would you give up your career for a man? Um
for a man? Um and that answered the last question on
and that answered the last question on that page, too. Uh, would you rather
that page, too. Uh, would you rather work a real job or work with or assist
work a real job or work with or assist and serve your man? And you chose, in my
and serve your man? And you chose, in my opinion, the best answer. Um, oh yeah.
opinion, the best answer. Um, oh yeah. Then what if we break up? Then the
Then what if we break up? Then the severance package might not be so good.
severance package might not be so good. But anyway, um,
yeah, all those questions have been answered. Wow, we already covered them
answered. Wow, we already covered them without looking. Okay. Um,
a question that um, a former uh, producer on the show asked was, "What is
producer on the show asked was, "What is your love language?" Like, "How do you
your love language?" Like, "How do you show affection to your partner?"
show affection to your partner?" >> You might actually remember that. That
>> You might actually remember that. That was the Yeah.
was the Yeah. >> Um, I'm going to skip it because it's
>> Um, I'm going to skip it because it's kind of cheesy, right? A little bit,
kind of cheesy, right? A little bit, >> but we love that question.
>> but we love that question. >> Okay. Okay. Okay. So, I guess I can tie
>> Okay. Okay. Okay. So, I guess I can tie it into kind of what you and I talked
it into kind of what you and I talked about over a smoke where um you know
about over a smoke where um you know like
like what is your love language? Would it be
what is your love language? Would it be a little spicy?
a little spicy? >> I can.
>> I can. >> You could?
>> You could? >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> How do you uh how do you prefer to
>> How do you uh how do you prefer to express affection?
express affection? >> Like Oh, really? You want me to?
>> Like Oh, really? You want me to? >> Well, no, no, no. It doesn't it doesn't
>> Well, no, no, no. It doesn't it doesn't have to be the spicy stuff. We don't
have to be the spicy stuff. We don't have to get into that specifically cuz I
have to get into that specifically cuz I don't think the other girls want to go
don't think the other girls want to go into questions like, "Hey, would you
into questions like, "Hey, would you take it in the So, we're not going to go
take it in the So, we're not going to go down that road." But, um, yeah, just
down that road." But, um, yeah, just like I mean, generally, it doesn't have
like I mean, generally, it doesn't have to be the spicy stuff like like would
to be the spicy stuff like like would you cook him a nice dinner? You know,
you cook him a nice dinner? You know, like that kind of thing. Or like or
like that kind of thing. Or like or maybe you'd go above and beyond and like
maybe you'd go above and beyond and like >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> I can do like cheesy things like give
>> I can do like cheesy things like give him a massage, cook him food.
him a massage, cook him food. >> What is the ultimate cheesiest thing
>> What is the ultimate cheesiest thing that you ever did for a man, but he
that you ever did for a man, but he loved it?
Um, I think give a massage and then like I
I think give a massage and then like I like men that being soft with their
like men that being soft with their girl. Like not manly, but like like a
girl. Like not manly, but like like a baby. Like baby man's like, "Oh, baby,
baby. Like baby man's like, "Oh, baby, I'm I know you're tired, but come on.
I'm I know you're tired, but come on. Let me give you a hug." Or
Let me give you a hug." Or >> So like waifu. Waifu.
>> So like waifu. Waifu. >> Yeah. Like you you'll role play. He'll
>> Yeah. Like you you'll role play. He'll like you'll do the little like bow or
like you'll do the little like bow or curtsy. Brian would like you.
curtsy. Brian would like you. >> Does anyone here have a large labia?
>> Does anyone here have a large labia? Just kidding. I'm kidding. That was
Just kidding. I'm kidding. That was Anyway, uh cuz apparently all labias
Anyway, uh cuz apparently all labias matter. Um
yeah, you don't even know what I'm talking about when I say that. That's
talking about when I say that. That's okay. It's uh it's into the lore. The
okay. It's uh it's into the lore. The lore. All right. So, how do you express
lore. All right. So, how do you express your anger? Uh what is your fighting
your anger? Uh what is your fighting style? And I know fighting style changes
style? And I know fighting style changes from the beginning of the relationship
from the beginning of the relationship to the end. So, let's look at your peak
to the end. So, let's look at your peak big bad, the worst of the worst fighting
big bad, the worst of the worst fighting style, like public tantrums,
style, like public tantrums, you know, like stuff like that. Like,
you know, like stuff like that. Like, what is the worst fighting style that
what is the worst fighting style that you've ever had?
you've ever had? >> And I'm going to start with you.
>> And I'm going to start with you. >> For me is
>> For me is >> Gazelle.
>> Gazelle. >> Start a point.
>> Start a point. >> I'm speaking my angry side.
>> I'm speaking my angry side. >> I didn't uh did physically.
>> I didn't uh did physically. >> So, like
>> So, like >> what's angry for you? Because I have a
>> what's angry for you? Because I have a feeling you would look and sound exactly
feeling you would look and sound exactly like you do right now.
like you do right now. Like you could be really mad right now
Like you could be really mad right now and I wouldn't even know cuz you seem
and I wouldn't even know cuz you seem very chill. So like
very chill. So like >> when I'm mad I'm still
>> when I'm mad I'm still >> Would you like start screaming and [ __ ]
>> Would you like start screaming and [ __ ] >> Quiet. No, I'm quiet.
>> Quiet. No, I'm quiet. >> Oh, so you're like plotting his his his
>> Oh, so you're like plotting his his his demise.
demise. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah. Okay. How about you? I What is the
>> Yeah. Okay. How about you? I What is the worst thing you've ever done in an
worst thing you've ever done in an argument? I guess I'll blah blah
argument? I guess I'll blah blah >> just a lot of blah blah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> just a lot of blah blah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Then yeah and then blah blah and then
>> Then yeah and then blah blah and then then my ex before was when it when I
then my ex before was when it when I start blah blah and it just like go and
start blah blah and it just like go and then 5 minutes it's come back and he
then 5 minutes it's come back and he said like are you okay now? Then I'm
said like are you okay now? Then I'm okay now then because I'm not angry
okay now then because I'm not angry anymore
anymore >> and it doesn't make you mad when he he's
>> and it doesn't make you mad when he he's like are you okay now? You know like
like are you okay now? You know like pats you on the head you know. Okay. So
pats you on the head you know. Okay. So so okay. So you calm down. Have you guys
so okay. So you calm down. Have you guys ever struck your man? Have you ever hit
ever struck your man? Have you ever hit your man?
your man? >> Yes.
>> Yes. >> Yeah. In self-defense or just you were
>> Yeah. In self-defense or just you were you did it first?
you did it first? >> I did it first.
>> I did it first. >> Yeah. Do you think that was the right
>> Yeah. Do you think that was the right thing to do?
thing to do? >> No.
>> No. >> Okay.
>> Okay. >> But I'm pissed.
>> But I'm pissed. >> Yeah. Okay.
>> Yeah. Okay. >> I am. No. I depend.
>> I am. No. I depend. >> Yeah. You You ever
>> Yeah. You You ever >> surpassed? No.
>> surpassed? No. >> No. Okay, that's good.
>> No. Okay, that's good. All right. Um,
All right. Um, do you think body count matters for men?
I'll let you guys answer this out of sequence now. You can just say your
sequence now. You can just say your answers if you want going forward
answers if you want going forward >> just for time.
>> just for time. >> Like how
>> Like how >> Yeah. Like how many girls he's smashed,
>> Yeah. Like how many girls he's smashed, you know? Like just how many?
you know? Like just how many? >> In the beginning. Yeah.
>> In the beginning. Yeah. >> In the beginning of the relationship. So
>> In the beginning of the relationship. So if he adds to it while you're in the
if he adds to it while you're in the relationship, that's okay.
relationship, that's okay. >> But it's it's not a it's not like a big
>> But it's it's not a it's not like a big thing. I'm just like I just want to ask
thing. I'm just like I just want to ask the question because I just want to know
the question because I just want to know if he's like a [ __ ] boy or something.
if he's like a [ __ ] boy or something. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Even if he was, but he really likes you
Even if he was, but he really likes you now.
now. >> Yeah, but it's
>> Yeah, but it's >> and he's reformed.
>> and he's reformed. >> I mean, it really depends. If I really
>> I mean, it really depends. If I really like the guy, like he's so hard and I
like the guy, like he's so hard and I know the first time I saw him, like I
know the first time I saw him, like I know this is a [ __ ] boy.
know this is a [ __ ] boy. >> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. >> But I like him. Like, all right.
>> But I like him. Like, all right. >> You'll overlook it.
>> You'll overlook it. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> How about you, Annie? Does a male body
>> How about you, Annie? Does a male body count matter?
count matter? >> For me, it depends.
>> For me, it depends. >> Yeah.
>> Yeah. >> Mhm.
>> Mhm. >> Like on on what? Um,
>> Like on on what? Um, uh, I like I like that guy, but um I
uh, I like I like that guy, but um I know that he's [ __ ] around.
