I'm on my way to have a session with my
life coach. I think today I really want
to go through with her stuff I've been
going through over the last few months
with Tommy and
stuff. We're going to be invincible
today. So, we're all working
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on morning. Hello
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Good morning. Okay. You look gorgeous.
You You always look gorgeous. Thank you.
How's life? What's going on? Update me.
Tell me like what's happening? How you
feeling? I kind of want to start working
on my ability to feel a bit more
confident, which you now know cuz we've
worked together long enough that that is
a choice. Yeah. Right. If you wanted to
say, you know, I want to feel confident
today, then how can you think about it
differently? You're very good at
constantly doing the next thing, the
next thing that and you're not great at,
which many of us are not great at, of
stopping for a second and saying, well,
if I look back and say like, what have I
done from 15? I think you'd be surprised
at the amazing things that you've, you
know, experienced and achieved and done.
Yeah, that's true. I don't know. I feel
like because of my relationship with
Tommy and I've had confidence knocks
that now makes me say no to things. What
exactly do you struggle with? I struggle
with like you know am I wasting my time
hoping for an outcome that isn't going
to be the outcome. Clearly something
needs to be worked
out like yeah just the trust. It's trust
and the respect and building up that
relationship again that unfortunately
like broke
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down. It's like I just wish I could have
like a crystal ball. I wouldn't even
want to see any other part of my life
like my businesses, my health, anything.
I just would want to see like is the
future Tommy and I and Bambi or is that
not? So I think when you're spending you
know time worrying about well what's it
going to look like? It's a very painful
place to live in. I really would like to
work on that to be honest because I
think that's consuming me a lot, right?
Is he going to be the person that he
once was and that I know we the family
that we can be cuz right I've had
glimmers of it like when we've spent
time together again and like co-parented
but like had a really nice time
together. There's no love gone from my
side cuz I never wanted any of this to
happen. I mean I don't know much about
you know what's gone on. I'm not in your
relationship. The only people that know
what has really gone on is you and
Tommy. So, you know, me again, huh? He's
calling me again. Do you want to take
her? No, it's fine. He can wait. You
sure? Yeah. Makes me wait. So, okay.
Whatever you want to do. My point is
that usually at these sorts of things,
um, that love is not black and white.
Yeah. 100%. Each relationship is
different. It's all about the gray area
in relationships. Some people can do
things other people just can't do. Some
people can get over things other people
can't get over. And, you know, you can
only do your best. You can't do someone
else's best. Well, you told me whatever
you water grows. Definitely. Whatever
you don't water dies. That's exactly
right.
Do I keep watering it? I think you know
the answer, Molly.
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