0:02 what is so triggering about this podcast
0:05 clip let's break it down yeah we got to
0:06 talk about this viral clip from the
0:09 whatever podcast it's titled these Asian
0:11 girls do not like Asian men let's run
0:13 the clip what's One race you ladies
0:14 wouldn't date
0:18 Asian huh oh aren't you aren't you like
0:21 half asian though yeah but like why what
0:23 I just I've I've never found an Asian
0:25 guy attractive and it's just preference
0:28 I just never have like I'm not like
0:29 opposed to it but it's just like it's
0:32 like it just came up in my head like oh
0:33 like it's kind of weird that I've like
0:35 never been attracted to an Asian guy
0:38 like me personally but I would date I
0:40 used to not find Asians attractive but
0:42 like now I do I think it's more so like
0:44 they can relate to me more with like
0:47 culture and everything like that so like
0:49 me personally I really like I I like
0:59 are you surprised that there's 3 000
1:01 comments and growing from non-asian guys
1:03 as well as Asian guys chiming in and
1:05 some of these comments that people are
1:07 leaving are like a page long yeah I
1:09 don't know I think this really hit uh uh
1:11 hit a chord with a lot of Asian guys
1:13 because it's very nostalgic in a bad way
1:16 so I do think that the crowd that is
1:18 sending this around because I got we got
1:20 sent this video before but it was by
1:23 like maybe older like 30 and up guys who
1:26 had experienced this growing up and are
1:27 still kind of like man it still pains me
1:29 to see this even the young girls do it I
1:31 don't know how many gen Z guys are mad
1:32 about this maybe they saw it maybe
1:34 they're not mad whatever how about this
1:36 for the older Millennial guys Andrew
1:39 it's a negative retro but for the Gen Z
1:41 guys it's almost like a peek into the
1:44 past because you know nowadays there's
1:46 so many like Asian bodybuilders there's
1:47 so many like uh there's so much more
1:49 Asian representation people are talking
1:51 about how k-pop's blowing up and there's
1:53 like sex tourism from like non-asian
1:55 women going to Seoul Korea you know what
1:57 I mean like there's a lot of dynamics
1:59 that have flipped or seemingly flipped
2:01 in a media sense this is almost like
2:03 rewinding the clock uh the clock back to
2:05 20 years ago yeah but I think these
2:07 women who said this are fairly young I
2:09 would say they're probably under the age
2:11 of 23. does it go to show you that as
2:13 much as some pie slices of society
2:15 change some of the other pie slices may
2:17 be bigger ones that people are not
2:18 paying as much to because they don't
2:21 change as much stay the same yeah well
2:22 guys we're going to break down this clip
2:24 we were gonna break down what a lot of
2:25 people are saying and you know we'll
2:27 give you our own takeaways and
2:29 maybe a little bit of advice too so
2:31 please hit that like button right now
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2:34 Pot boys hit that like button Andrew
2:36 let's break it down like ESPN detailed
2:38 you know Kobe Bryant's you know his
2:39 offensive possessions what's happening
2:42 here like just play-by-play let me
2:45 listen the probably very attractive Hapa
2:47 girl who's half asian uh says that she
2:50 would never date an Asian guy and she
2:52 says it kind of like she's proud she's
2:53 quick with it she's 100 Asian I would
2:56 never date that and then you know uh but
2:58 I'm also not surprised I think uh
3:01 I'm more disappointed that some full
3:04 non-asian girl say this than the half
3:05 ones because oftentimes they have white
3:07 fathers so it's like you know the man in
3:09 their life is why anyways guys different
3:11 Dynamics and then the one girl called
3:12 The V girls calls her out oh aren't you
3:14 half asian she goes oh yeah I don't care
3:16 and then the Thai girl says oh yeah for
3:18 the first time in my life I can't
3:20 believe I just thought about how I have
3:23 never dated an Asian guy yeah in fact
3:25 and she essentially says I've never
3:27 thought about Asian guys until now right
3:30 so she sounds like be moderately against
3:32 Asian men but in a nice way but it's
3:34 also dismissive he's trying to say like
3:36 I just omitted them from my life I
3:38 didn't negative negatively turn them
3:39 down and we're going to get into the
3:40 reasons why I think she did that and
3:42 then of course Andrew there's this weird
3:45 kind of like hot but like Asperger's
3:47 white girl in the corner who basically
3:49 in my opinion implies that she would
3:52 rather date an Asian woman than date an
3:53 Asian man obviously there may be some
3:56 orientation aspects right and then the
3:57 full video girls rapping she says no I
3:59 date Asian guys now but for cultural
4:02 reasons and then Rhino from live love
4:03 serve uh you might have seen some of his
4:05 videos he kind of like he's kind of
4:06 sitting there listening I'm sure he's
4:08 heard this Dynamic before and he just
4:10 says matter of fact yeah well it's
4:12 because Asian guys have like uh more
4:13 feminine features like the females
4:15 except it plays worse for men anyways we
4:17 understand that Dynamic we talked about
4:19 on the channel Brian the host of the
4:21 whatever podcast comes in tries to
4:23 defend Asian guys even throws in hey you
4:25 know if I swung that way I don't know I
4:27 think I'd go for Asian guys too thanks
4:30 Brian and Ally
4:31 um real quick Andrew we gotta just
4:33 address the macro here when you get a
4:35 microphone you get about a uh get a
4:38 bunch of hot young girls you ask them a
4:41 hot take question and they just give you
4:44 a incredibly real but I guess to the
4:46 internet into the thinking person stupid
4:48 answer right yeah man I don't know for a
4:49 lot of the guys on the internet I'm not
4:51 sure why they watch these like
4:54 male-centric podcasts that only have a
4:58 panel of like ditzy kind of dumb hot
5:00 girl girls like I know that that's what
5:03 gets clicks but honestly they don't ever
5:04 really give you that much Vital
5:06 Information I feel like you gotta have
5:08 like more women that the guys on the
5:10 internet are actually going to date like
5:13 on the panel anyways uh some real personal
5:14 personal
5:15 um points that we want to make before we
5:18 get into the comments section uh David I
5:20 have seen with my own eyes Asian women
5:23 say that oh I don't date Asian guys to a
5:25 group of Asians full of men and women
5:27 and nobody really called them out and I
5:29 just think that it's at that point I'm
5:31 not saying you gotta like cuss people
5:33 out and be super emotional but I do
5:35 think it's at that point where you can
5:36 call people out in public for this right
5:39 like you're saying you're saying in 2023
5:40 after like let's just say that's been
5:43 happening for 30 years that the Asian
5:45 American Community can begin to say hey
5:48 why'd you say that how long are Asian
5:50 guys gonna take the slander we've been
5:54 slandered everywhere from light to heavy
5:56 there is no Asian guy who has not been
5:58 slandered a little bit yeah I don't care
5:59 from the hood or you're from the good
6:01 which is like a really good neighborhood
6:03 you have felt it at some level I'm not
6:04 saying some people haven't felt it way
6:05 more or less depending on the circles
6:07 they've inhabited or their own personal
6:09 stats what I'm saying is I think people
6:10 need to figure out a way how they're
6:12 going to word and voice that out in a
6:14 civil banana I think that this is a
6:15 really good point Andrew because I do
6:17 feel that some Asian guys have almost
6:18 gotten to the point where they don't
6:20 like to hear it but they just accept it
6:22 because they're around this attitude so
6:24 much you know depending if on if they're
6:25 like Asians in Hollywood mainstream
6:27 spaces you know sometimes when you hear
6:28 stuff like this especially growing up
6:30 when you're younger it's almost like a
6:33 slow knife getting pushed into your
6:34 chest and you're just like feeling it
6:37 and you're like I'll take it yeah all
6:38 right sure it doesn't hurt it doesn't
6:40 hurt and then you're just like I
6:41 remember the first time I heard this was
6:44 from the like the pretty hot girl group
6:46 at uh Youth Camp because we went
6:47 obviously we went to a Chinese church
6:49 and they had youth camp and I remember
6:51 they said that out loud you know what I
6:52 mean like you said but you're a kid you
6:54 don't really know how to handle it you know
6:54 know
6:56 um but you know I would say a lot of
6:58 like you know like you're saying like in
7:00 sort of these group contexts a lot of
7:02 people they don't know how to handle it
7:03 right they don't know how to bring it up
7:04 and be like hey why are you being
7:07 self-hating yeah no honestly just make
7:08 it a joke yeah hey you're why are you
7:09 self-hating hey you're self-hating
7:11 what's up with that and then at least
7:13 make them think it's kind of funny but
7:15 anyways guys uh yeah we can get in the
7:16 comment section I'm sure there's a lot
7:17 to talk about there's a multitude of
7:20 reactions to it yeah this first comment
7:22 was basically from a guy who said uh I'm
7:24 on my I'm like 25 now but when I was
7:27 like 15 16 or 17 this used to really
7:29 hurt me but now like I've learned to
7:31 like not really care and like I just
7:33 don't let these these people who feel
7:35 this way these women even if they're
7:36 really attractive on the outside you
7:39 know shallow side uh impact how I feel
7:41 yeah I think it's important a lot let
7:44 especially uh random people affect how
7:46 you feel and control your feelings
7:48 especially you know honestly generally
7:51 like women who say this that are Asian
7:52 or like I don't know I've never dated an
7:55 Asian guy it's like yo what's your
7:57 reasoning yeah you got to have a good
7:59 reason and usually to be honest they're
8:03 bought into like a very white or just a
8:05 very non-asian subculture and they feel
8:07 like that their attachment to the Asian
8:09 world may hold them back from rising
8:11 that ladder yeah so they're like trying
8:13 to cut the ties you know and it's almost
8:14 like Asian guys are like the top you
8:16 know and we're like the the climber
8:17 that's that's a goner for on Mount
8:19 Everest or whatever and they're just
8:21 like like yeah yeah and you know
8:23 what it is again like probably they're
8:26 probably aged like 22 23 or 21 and it's
8:27 just funny because you think that we
8:30 have all this representation but there's
8:32 some women who are still part Asian
8:35 before Asians cannot imagine dating an
8:37 Asian guy or I've never met or been
8:39 exposed to a dateable one which is
8:41 interesting yeah I mean I think it goes
8:43 to show you that some of the Dynamics
8:45 from 20 30 years ago they could still
8:47 exist in 2023 as much as the internet
8:49 has all these uh pro-asian movements or
8:51 pro-asian male movements um Andrew
8:53 there's some Asian women were firing
8:55 back in the comments section of the
8:57 whatever podcast saying uh I forgot to
9:00 add I'd like any guy as long as he's not
9:02 problematic sexist racist and has male
9:04 entitlement however Asian culture checks
9:08 so many of those boxes so forgive me I
9:10 mean I think it does apply to some
9:13 portion of Asian guys but I I feel like
9:16 not the majority she almost more is this
9:19 a sins of a father type situation I'm
9:21 not saying for sure but like I generally
9:23 feel like sometimes girls and I'm not
9:25 blaming them they might have a downside
9:28 experience with uh like their dad or
9:29 something like that and then project
9:31 that onto you know other second
9:33 generation immigrants listen man I think
9:36 that there are reasons and excuses that
9:39 are better than others that's all right
9:41 there's a range right there's a ranking
9:43 of excuses right
9:45 um this guy said as an Asian man myself
9:47 who grew up in New Jersey and New York
9:50 it's 100 a masculinity issue a lot of us
9:52 are perceived as more feminine but if
9:54 you increase your height by wearing
9:56 lifts are muscular going to the gym and
9:58 in general just be more Alpha you can
10:00 dispel the stereotypes I know it worked
10:01 for me so basically Andrew he was almost
10:03 saying it's a masculinity I mean this is
10:05 kind of like the Jim bro testosterone
10:08 thing right yeah yeah but I think like I
10:10 don't know when people say Joe just be
10:12 more Alpha it's not just that I mean I
10:13 feel like there's so many layers to that
10:15 you got to be more outspoken you also
10:17 have to have a personality you have to
10:19 have passions and interests and you
10:21 actually have to like build this guy up
10:23 and then you can kind of be more
10:25 confident and Alpha isn't this kind of
10:27 also I'm not saying that first of all
10:29 this is good advice that's fair but if
10:30 you if you go up to a bunch of people
10:33 who have been like eating and I'm not
10:34 saying this is 100 great comparison but
10:35 like if you go up to a bunch of people
10:37 who've been having bad diets their
10:39 entire life and then you just are like
10:42 yo here's this salad here's this lean
10:44 protein pop and you just like slap it
10:46 out of their hands they're just like is
10:47 that really gonna work too you know
10:50 because if if it is cultural how do you
10:52 rewind it's like telling people coaching
10:55 to quit smoking cold turkey yeah just
10:57 quit smoking put the cigarette down what
10:58 do you mean what's so easy yeah just put
10:59 it down just throw it out throw them
11:01 throw them in the trash and then you're
11:03 done you're you're done smoking yeah
11:06 online bullying just uh block that
11:08 person yeah that's it um this person
11:10 said actually I think it's a lack of
11:12 game issue it's not even a physical thing
11:13 thing
11:15 um culturally Asians are coached to be
11:17 beta passive and being shy is harmful
11:19 for men in the U.S dating scene this was
11:22 uh uh the observations of a non-asian
11:26 guys I think coaching and training is
11:28 the right word I don't like the whole
11:30 thing about like oh it's just game oh
11:32 guys need to develop their game guys it
11:34 starts way before that you need to be
11:36 trained and coached properly from a
11:38 young age and this is where a lot of
11:40 Asian guys are missing it because we
11:42 focus so much on school and and
11:44 academics and our community is
11:46 unbalanced and maybe there's not a lot
11:47 of mentorship maybe you're the only
11:49 Asian kid you don't have anybody who's
11:50 looking over you your dad's not home
11:52 your dad can't Mentor you or your mom
11:54 can't whatever it is they lack training
11:56 and you've got to get that training in
11:58 for years to fully develop that as
12:00 parties it's crazy because the stem
12:02 books they will give you zero percent
12:04 training for this for this particular
12:07 Lane this guy blamed it on Confucius of
12:10 course saying that Confucianism uh all
12:12 Asians have it but it happens to suck
12:14 really for the men more than it sucks
12:15 for the women
12:17 okay yeah I don't know that's
12:19 interesting yeah man people just blaming
12:22 it on neotni and yeah I'm Confucius I
12:24 guess there's definitely some blame uh
12:26 this Asian guy said I'm a proud Asian
12:28 guy who's married to a white woman I
12:30 know that for example a lot of my peers
12:31 that are also married to white women or
12:32 non-asian women are not going to have
12:35 sellout kids like that I just feel like
12:37 a lot of women who marry a white guy are
12:39 more likely to have that type of kid as
12:41 an outcome who's like hates one of their
12:43 sides or thinks one of their sides that
12:45 makes them up is like the weak side or
12:47 the uncool side yeah generally obviously
12:49 like man if the dad is Asian you would
12:51 assume that the kid is probably going to
12:52 be more likely to be proud I've
12:54 definitely met proud Hoppers and
12:57 children who have in an Asian mother and
13:01 white dad but I will say generally in a
13:03 family if a woman especially a immigrant
13:06 woman or Foreigner woman marries into an
13:07 American family which culture are they
13:09 going to buy more into if only the
13:11 American take the fan
13:17 americanards and everything um this guy
13:19 said I will never understand why people
13:20 of different groups are repulsed by
13:22 people from their same ethnic group this
13:24 guy said self-loathing psychologically
13:26 and naturally a person is most attracted
13:28 to somebody closest to them so therefore
13:29 it's safe to say there's some deep
13:31 trauma that had to have to occur for
13:33 someone to go out of their way to
13:35 exclude someone who looks closest to
13:37 them and prefers somebody greatly who
13:39 does not look like them yeah I think the
13:41 whole attitude of like writing off Asian
13:44 guys and being disgusted by them is the
13:46 is the real offensive part you know I
13:48 think the girl who said well you know
13:50 come to think about it I've never really
13:52 dated an Asian guy and I've never really
13:54 found any attractive that is bad as well
13:56 but almost not as bad as just being like
13:58 yeah I just won't date him I just won't
14:00 right and then I'm gonna tell all my
14:01 friends to not do it too because it's
14:04 like holy crap you're anti-asian what
14:05 happened to you yeah I mean I think
14:07 we're all subject to our upbringings
14:09 right I mean we are growing up in
14:10 Western Society not everybody grows up
14:12 in the Asian Enclave not everybody even
14:13 goes to a high school or middle school
14:16 that's like 20 Asian you know right so I
14:18 guess that although those things would
14:20 have a huge impact on your brain what
14:21 you like what you like to eat how you
14:23 speak uh all these things are
14:24 environmental and America is a very
14:26 diverse country right somebody said
14:28 Asian dudes are actually very good men
14:30 hardworking intelligent humble and loyal
14:33 however they were usually viewed as good
14:35 nice guys and that is considered uncool
14:37 in 2023 unless you are looking for a
14:39 husband that is also a church leader
14:43 yeah so uh I have heard from multiple
14:46 Asian women that I have gone out with or
14:49 talked with or met that they said that
14:51 they do they are attracted to Asian guys
14:52 but they literally have never been hit
14:55 on by Asian guys or it's never really
14:57 like just happened you know because a
14:59 lot of people will kind of date who's
15:01 around them or who's coming after them
15:04 and if no guys approach them and are
15:06 constantly like you know being suitors
15:09 for them then that's almost those are a
15:10 lot of their options they're just gonna
15:12 their options are who's coming for them
15:15 right I I guess simplistically if you
15:17 were to not in a simple manner in a
15:19 simple matter almost like your average
15:21 person making average reasons and taking
15:24 the incoming versus sending outgoing and
15:26 I doubted this but I thought about it
15:27 for a while and I was like no it's
15:29 definitely possible that some girls are
15:31 actually open to Asian guys but have
15:33 just never been exposed or been
15:34 approached by any yeah no it's possible
15:36 I think there's a lot of sides to this
15:38 coin it's not just a coin so it's a
15:40 eight-sided die and you know what it is
15:41 I hate using the word aggressive but
15:44 guys Asian guys do need to be more like
15:46 assertive and I guess aggressive when
15:48 they go out and meet women right and
15:49 probably you know like because other
15:51 people are way more aggressive dude like
15:53 how you know like everybody says like
15:56 white people hit on every the girls but
15:58 the girls like never get Asian dudes
15:59 yeah and it is different for every type
16:01 of Asian guy right like I would say like
16:03 uh you know V it's 50 50 but Filipino
16:05 guys tend to hit on women more than
16:07 Chinese guys definitely hit on women less
16:08 less
16:10 um somebody said this is a small sample
16:12 size but I'm pretty sure if there was
16:14 five girls of their race and three of
16:16 them only willing to date one of them
16:17 and they were like black or like Latino
16:19 they would probably flip out and at
16:21 least point it out to their face
16:23 um how come it seems like Asian guys are
16:24 the only guys that would never point out
16:27 this type of stuff uh even if it was
16:29 right in front of their eyes nah I think
16:31 Asian dudes got to call it out and I
16:33 will say this Asian guys have been
16:36 overall overall across the board
16:39 generally fairly chill about taking in
16:41 all the slander that we get all right
16:42 you're talking about the emasculation
16:45 yeah I feel like that Asian guys have
16:47 maybe handled it well maybe too well and
16:48 I I'll tell you this I'll be honest
16:50 about this and I gotta keep it real
16:52 emasculation I think a lot of people
16:53 like to use that word but they don't
16:55 really know what it means it means that
16:58 even though you are a man you're not
17:00 treated with the respect that a man
17:02 commands you're not treated like the
17:04 stalwart of your community you're
17:06 basically treated like a role player on
17:10 your own Squad right which whereas to me
17:11 I'm not saying that I haven't heard
17:13 because I we have a lot a lot of diverse
17:15 friend groups you know what I mean like
17:17 um like I've heard black or Latino you
17:19 know women voice you know some you know
17:20 everybody got pros and cons right
17:21 everybody's got pros and cons about how
17:23 they view their significant others are
17:24 there others in their Community but it's
17:26 like they would never air it out on a
17:27 podcast like that because that's so
17:29 emasculating because they would be like
17:31 I can't do that to my uncle I can't do
17:33 that to my father I got like too much
17:36 respect for OG you know yeah I mean it
17:38 does it is a family thing if that family
17:40 didn't build in that respect then that's
17:42 kind of their fault too right um
17:44 somebody said as an Asian man take these
17:46 women please I mean yes and no I think
17:48 that that's a great way to handle it but
17:50 trust me they're already taken yeah
17:53 they're already taken what do you mean
17:55 they've been or I don't want to say
17:57 they've been taken they've been they've
17:59 given themselves away
18:01 um somebody said these are the type of
18:02 women I always thought I wanted to meet
18:04 in my 20s then I became really
18:07 successful in my mid-30s and those same
18:09 girls would hit me up but I was already
18:11 with a young wife that was much younger
18:12 hotter and much more traditional than
18:14 them uh yeah I don't know if this is
18:16 fully true but yes I understand what
18:18 you're saying that these definitely are
18:19 the type of girls you really want to
18:23 date when you're like 18 19 20 21 22.
18:25 you're like all about these girls these
18:29 like blonde acting Asian girls that are
18:32 not like Hood you a lot of guys like I
18:34 mean are these girls not the 2023
18:36 version of Mean Girls like that uh them
18:38 no they're essentially you know they're
18:40 kind of like Asian Barbies and I don't
18:42 mean the ABG ones I'm saying these girls
18:44 are like not ABG right and we're not
18:45 talking about the meta movie that's like
18:46 real thoughtful they just came out
18:48 Barbie we're talking about that actual
18:51 you know Malibu let's go Barbie let's go party
18:52 party
18:53 um this guy said as a black guy this
18:55 doesn't really affect me but I feel for
18:56 my asian brothers out there I've always
18:58 been of the belief that Asian women have
18:59 white fever far more than white guys
19:02 have yellow fever stay strong boys
19:03 um really interesting empathy I mean
19:05 Rhino I wouldn't say he was this
19:07 empathetic but he I definitely when he
19:09 said it she I remember rhino in the
19:12 podcast was like ah this again yeah
19:14 um you you hear this from black and uh
19:17 to a lesser extent Latino so they said
19:19 that Asian women have white fever more
19:22 than white guys have yellow fever
19:24 um it's tough to put on a percentage on
19:26 it so I I guess I guess that's an
19:29 interesting idea yeah I think it's on a
19:31 case it takes two to tango but I don't
19:35 know which it is which pie Andrew I
19:37 always say man usually people can agree
19:39 on the pie slices on the on the pie
19:41 chart no you mean what but they always
19:44 disagree over distribution right
19:46 um somebody's just said this guy said as
19:47 an Asian guy I can tell you that being
19:49 an Asian guy I think he was speaking to
19:50 the non-asian guys in the comments that
19:52 being an Asian guy in Western countries
19:53 is the worst personally I was open to
19:55 all ethnicities but then I realized that
19:57 white black Middle Eastern all types of
19:59 women from the Western Hemisphere
20:02 basically see Asian men as inferior and
20:03 weak and I was always going to take a
20:07 huge fractionation or tax on my value
20:10 yeah yeah I would say this I will say
20:13 this in the mainstream Western Anglo
20:15 Society for any English-speaking
20:17 countries there is a tax for sure on
20:20 being an Asian guy now how big is that
20:22 tax could very person to person in
20:24 Fishbowl the Fishbowl it really depends
20:26 on uh
20:29 what type of person from that Community
20:30 you're meeting because if you're only
20:33 meeting like Shahs of Sunset Middle
20:36 Eastern girls they are not going to be
20:39 into Asian guys like they're the hot
20:43 Arab girls I've rarely seen it but
20:45 but there are I've also seen guys get
20:49 with middle like you know what I mean
20:51 yeah if you're talking about the hottest
20:53 person of each group it is time but you
20:54 know what it is too man not everybody
20:56 like we said Andrew is gonna be like a
20:58 tall good looking charismatic guy who
21:01 works as a bartender or a nightlife you
21:03 got to think how many more reps that
21:04 somebody who works in that particular
21:06 field with you know certain particular
21:08 prerequisite stats they're almost gonna
21:11 see like maybe at some point ten
21:13 thousand percent or ten thousand X more
21:15 reps than a regular guy right with
21:17 without those stats too so it could
21:18 shift so much guys everybody thought my
21:20 life is infinitely complex somebody said
21:22 uh has to do with uh eurocentric beauty
21:24 standards you know what I mean
21:26 everything from changing the shape of
21:27 your eyes to the shape of your nose to
21:30 skin bleaching Etc et cetera this is
21:32 just a fact of the Asian world yeah I
21:33 mean that's an interesting perspective
21:35 too I think that you know like we said
21:37 it's a whole pie thing
21:39 um somebody's just said you know it all
21:41 comes down to exposure now that we get
21:42 more media exposure just like K-pop
21:44 that's got its own little wave even
21:45 though that's not a mainstream Wave It's
21:47 a growing Niche Andrew how much is it
21:50 about just representation
21:52 I always say man the most important
21:54 representation is in real life face to face
21:55 face
21:57 that is the most important
22:00 representation in changing this is that
22:02 Asian dudes got to meet and talk to
22:04 people in real life or at least on the
22:06 apps or something you know what I mean like
22:07 like
22:10 are you not relying on the movies and
22:14 K-pop the they it does something 100 it
22:15 does something but
22:17 most important is in real life any
22:19 exposure in real life and this is the
22:21 issue a lot of Asian guys are into stem
22:23 Fields right so you spend a lot of time
22:25 studying engineering medical and to be
22:27 honest those are primarily male yeah
22:29 those are primarily male heavily Asian
22:34 not very uh like blonde female-y so
22:35 you're not going to get a lot in face
22:39 time talking to blonde girls or not just
22:40 blonde girls or even different types of
22:43 girls you know just fun girls
22:46 just they're not fun you know no
22:47 they can be great people but they're
22:49 just not necessarily they don't develop
22:52 your like social skills on that level uh
22:54 Andrew this was a really interesting
22:56 comment this guy was a uh said as a gay
22:58 Asian it's depressing on this side of
22:59 the spectrum too what is this comment
23:01 trying to say yeah well it's uh just
23:03 trying to say that uh that as a gay
23:06 Asian guy this person has been attracted
23:08 to Asian men but some of those Asian men
23:09 are just only attracted to white guys so
23:12 so some Asian dudes in the in the LGBT
23:14 world are also selfish so they're just
23:17 pulling the same thing that these pretty
23:20 girls did on the whatever podcast
23:22 they would say the same thing yeah like
23:24 I would never date an Asian dude you
23:27 know like that's uh and then they all
23:28 and then this guy also pointed out that
23:32 he has rarely ever been hit on by
23:34 another Asian only by white dudes in his
23:36 world so it's like it also goes back to
23:39 even in the LGBT World Asian guys are
23:41 still not hitting on others does this
23:43 almost serve as a uh a control for the
23:45 science experiment just the fact that
23:46 it's like mirrored in a different
23:49 orientation I think like man white dudes
23:52 they really get after it man and it's
23:54 maybe it's because it's their country I
23:55 don't know I don't know I don't know
23:56 they did take over the world for the
23:59 last 400 years anyway uh somebody said
24:00 I'm a white guy and I'm married to an
24:02 Asian woman I know lots of other my
24:04 friends who did the same because most
24:05 American women just aren't traditional
24:07 anymore they can sure drink like their
24:09 father but they sure can't cook like
24:11 their mother but these Asian women they
24:13 still got all the skill sets that's a
24:15 funny bar that's a funny bar yeah I do
24:17 think a lot of white women I don't know
24:18 I don't want to see her type them can
24:20 they not cook nowadays you let me know
24:22 in the comments down below yeah but they
24:24 can they know all the rap lyrics to the
24:26 rap songs that I don't know either
24:28 the country songs they'd be rapping
24:31 their whole songs at their weddings
24:33 I don't like it I try to be down with it
24:36 but I know it don't um somebody said as
24:37 an Asian guy I know that life isn't fair
24:39 but you got to make do with what you got
24:40 somebody uh there was a lot of arguing
24:42 back and forth some guys were like dude
24:44 why are you giving up I mean I think
24:45 this guy wasn't like super good looking
24:47 or anything like that or tall or
24:48 anything and then this guy was like
24:51 saying no man it's smart I'm a doctor
24:53 now and I'll tell you this this is why
24:55 Asian men tend to have long-term
24:56 relationships and successful careers
24:58 because we have way too many life
25:00 challenges especially socially so we
25:02 have no choice but to hustle and be
25:05 consistent so basically uh I do think by
25:07 the way there are Asian F boys you know
25:09 obviously especially in gen Z but still
25:11 I would say in comparison probably if
25:13 you made me guess in comparison to every
25:15 other group maybe still the lowest
25:17 amount of f boys right
25:19 well maybe percentage-wise yeah yeah
25:21 anyway Andrew let's just get into the
25:23 the takeaways and uh some suggestions I
25:25 mean I would say to that last comment
25:27 man there's so many different ways you
25:29 can approach like
25:31 feeling like you're at a disadvantage
25:32 right you can either accept it you can
25:34 have a monk-like mindset you can either
25:36 be set on fire to get in the gym and get
25:38 super ripped super low body fat to try
25:40 to you know what I mean to fight it or
25:41 like I guess what I'm saying is there's
25:43 a lot of different ways to attack it
25:45 mentally and emotionally right yes yes
25:48 and I I hope that any guy who's feeling
25:50 down is seeking advice on the internet
25:54 from on YouTube by the dozens and
25:56 hundreds of channels about male
25:58 self-improvement some especially
26:00 specifically for Asians yeah some that
26:01 are ran with Asians move to The Enclave
26:03 especially nowadays everybody's working
26:06 you can move anywhere you want you can
26:09 avoid this type of woman but this type
26:10 of woman is actually still always going
26:13 to exist you know for a while but I do
26:15 think the numbers are going down thank
26:17 God they didn't all want to do podcasts
26:20 like 20 years ago it was it was worse oh
26:22 man it would have been crazy I mean
26:23 that's why because then there would have
26:26 been no like yeah that's why in a way
26:30 the women who said it back then were it
26:32 was even worse because it took so much
26:35 more work to get on a microphone and get
26:38 those words published I thought about it
26:39 a lot because there wasn't a lot of
26:41 media back then now media do people
26:43 things just fly out of people's mouths
26:45 um I would say this the fir the truth is
26:46 as much as people see this the whatever
26:48 podcast is filmed in Santa Barbara
26:50 Andrew it's probably very white there
26:51 like you said Santa Barbara Barbie
26:53 that's very much that Ken Barbie culture
26:55 who just moved somewhere I always tell
26:58 people this don't go to UCSB don't go to
27:00 University California Santa Barbara I
27:02 always told people that's a mistake bro
27:04 you don't fit in with the beach bros and
27:08 the beach blonde babes like go to UCI go
27:10 to UCLA you know and then you more fun
27:12 tribe right like I mean I'm saying I'm
27:14 saying different people are tapped into
27:15 different things like if you see if you
27:17 meet an Asian girl who's like really in
27:19 a basketball or like a rapper or
27:20 something like that she might date like
27:22 black guys these girls were clearly
27:23 tapped into white culture they're
27:25 looking for for blonde dudes yeah also
27:27 if you're not one of these Asian guys
27:29 that you don't feel like you know just
27:31 don't get emotional about this like why
27:35 let what random people say on a podcast
27:37 dictate how you feel that's like the
27:38 worst thing you could do you know but
27:41 again man seek improvements and uh you
27:44 know it's a long it's a long road ahead
27:47 boys yeah I mean I guess ultimately
27:48 Andrew what do you think because this is
27:49 probably not the last time we're gonna
27:51 see this exact dynamic pop-up right
27:53 because this is like uh people you know
27:55 have uh been sending the street
27:56 interview clips now it's the whatever
27:58 podcast who knows what it'll be like
28:01 three months from now yeah who knows why like
28:03 like
28:05 even these pie are these podcasts
28:07 helpful where they gather a bunch of like
28:08 like
28:10 above average looking women but like
28:12 that they like kind of ditzy and then
28:15 like one clever host and then the women
28:17 always looks stupid I don't understand
28:19 why they go on the podcast I don't get
28:20 it but anyways you guys let me know in
28:22 the comments down below what you think
28:24 make sure yeah make sure you go over to
28:26 this link right here that whatever
28:29 podcast uh clip link that has like 4 000
28:32 replies on it read some of them let us
28:33 know what you think in the comments
28:34 section below
28:35 um what do you think of the clip is this
28:38 newsworthy not newsworthy is it old
28:39 school is it new school is it relevant
28:41 to you is it not relevant to you uh we
28:43 couldn't even get to everything that we
28:44 wanted to talk about in this podcast but
28:45 we gotta wrap it up guys let us know
28:47 what you think uh keep it civil until
