0:04 hello and
0:07 welcome I wanted to make a video
0:10 effectively outlining my journey to mdal
0:12 and also discuss some of the the
0:14 societal perceptions associated with the
0:17 movement and also some of the the recent
0:20 criticisms leveled against
0:23 it is my journey uh was no doubt
0:26 different to yours but uh here we are at
0:27 the same
0:30 conclusion and that conclusion for me is
0:32 I'm sure it is for you is
0:35 self-determinism and self-
0:37 protection now I grew up in a society
0:40 where where men were essentially seen as
0:43 utilities and where the most patronized
0:46 figure in that Society was that of the Father
0:47 Father
0:51 Figure and you know him well you
0:53 rayon Homer
0:56 Simpson you know weak as P emasculated
0:58 male better
1:01 chump and you know the type cuz he's a
1:03 guy waving to you every morning and the
1:05 guy with the three whining kids and the
1:08 ugly fat wife wishing he was you you
1:10 know the
1:13 guy the men of my generation um we had
1:16 no Role Models or mentors growing up
1:19 none yeah sometimes I get fanciful about
1:22 it and I think or G to the times when
1:23 the men of the tribe would take the boys
1:26 out into the wild or the field and um
1:28 you know give them actual
1:30 guidance equip them with actual actual
1:32 viable skills that they can
1:35 use and of course equip them with a a
1:37 real sense of male
1:40 selfworth we don't have that
1:42 today I mean there is no initiation
1:45 right for for men no right of passage
1:48 there's nothing so consequently there's
1:50 no male
1:53 identity the male virtues have been
1:55 essentially demonized and degraded to to
1:58 that of the the go-to
2:01 boogeyman walk punch
2:05 line masculinity as I said it as it's uh
2:07 defined today is the source of all
2:10 society's W man are the problem not the
2:13 solution so it would seem if you if you
2:15 follow the media what they tell
2:18 you right now um there seems to be a lot
2:21 of discussion between some Mr and mtels
2:23 in respect of traditionalism and that is
2:24 a traditional
2:27 marriage and I'm let me specify here I
2:30 mean some masas not all
2:31 there are a lot that are against
2:33 marriage with good
2:36 reason um but the arguments being that
2:38 uh traditional marriage uh that is a
2:41 cohesive family unit is is best for the
2:44 child now I want to agree with this
2:46 point uh because to me it makes a great
2:48 deal of
2:51 sense problem is I have no desire to
2:54 marry I have no desire to procreate I
2:56 have no desire to be seen as an object
2:59 of ridicule I certainly have no no
3:01 yearnings to be uh to be financially
3:03 raped in the family
3:07 court so for me for myself it it's not
3:13 option but I mean to to be completely
3:17 honest um in retrospect I I honestly
3:20 have never experienced
3:22 traditionalism I mean my childhood I was
3:25 all over the place but um but women were
3:27 always my source of guidance and
3:31 perfectly blunt uh my only source
3:32 all of my teachers were
3:34 female the majority of my employees
3:37 managers female uh the vast majority of
3:39 my my work colleagues
3:41 female and the media as long as I've
3:44 been alive have actively attacked the family
3:45 family
3:48 unit primarily Fathers and Sons and you know
3:49 know
3:51 this or are they just painted men as
3:54 abusers or or dead beads rapist scumbags
3:57 murderers what have
3:59 you I mean ask yourself this question
4:01 when was the last time you over saw a
4:05 man being praised for his virtues as a
4:08 man I can't recall a single
4:11 instance I mean the only examples I can
4:13 think of are that of men that have
4:15 essentially sacrificed their lives for
4:17 females or for the greater good or
4:18 what's deemed the greater
4:20 good but I mean let's face it these are nameless
4:22 nameless
4:25 men no one can remember their names but
4:28 they're just utilities playing a role so
4:31 it's okay no empathy
4:34 needed now I was always aware that um
4:35 that men got a [ __ ] deal I was aware of
4:38 that growing up but like you when I
4:40 spoke up I got shut
4:44 down and all that indoctrination you internalize
4:46 internalize
4:49 it now I I I'll use an example you take
4:51 a gill I'll use this for an example and
4:53 I'll use a gill specifically for this
4:55 example you take a girl you put her in
4:57 the corner and for every day of her life
5:00 you call her a piece of [ __ ]
5:02 you call her a dead beat a rapist a
5:04 scumbag the bane of
5:06 society what do you think that's going
5:08 to do to her
5:10 confidence do you think she might start
5:12 internalizing some of those
5:14 messages you think she might grow up
5:15 with some
5:18 issues you think she might turn against
5:19 her own gender at some point and see
5:23 them as the problem and men as a
5:25 solution you would be looking at one broken
5:26 broken
5:29 woman I mean that's a reality for a lot of
5:31 of
5:34 men I mean those men they manifest those
5:36 messages in different ways they act out
5:40 or or they close off end up doing 20 to
5:42 life or you see them they turn on other
5:44 men turn on
5:48 them it's it's a whole raft of of
5:50 behaviors and this is what I grew up
5:53 with and really it wasn't until a series
5:56 of Life Experiences um namely me nearly
5:59 dying and a whole convergence of other
6:01 things it actually finally woke me up it
6:07 extreme now some recent critics of of
6:11 mow um they St men are bitter from past
6:12 relationships you know it's just a
6:15 generic shaming
6:18 tactic I have never invested enough in a
6:20 relationship to
6:24 care now I come from a hookup
6:26 culture I'm not talking about puas or
6:28 whatever you are I'm talking about my generation
6:30 generation
6:31 we didn't come from a traditional
6:38 know we just had quick sex on the Fly
6:40 you know you have an urge you act on it
6:47 involved and also we live in a time
6:49 where where female empowerment is is
6:52 essentially seen or seen to be derived
6:55 via sexual promiscuity in woman yeah
6:57 woman woman feel need to act like
6:59 [ __ ] in order to be a strong independent
7:00 independent
7:03 woman this is what I grew up
7:07 with so I could never respect
7:11 women they gave sex too
7:13 freely honestly how how can you respect
7:16 a woman who's on her knees back at your
7:19 place after four drinks at the pub after
7:20 work you [Music]
7:21 [Music]
7:25 can't and again this is woman aping
7:28 men and you see this every day women
7:32 looking and thing uh just like men or
7:33 how they perceived men should
7:36 act and it's not
7:40 attractive I can't respect
7:42 it if you if you're not Guided by your
7:51 you you know women they've all got rid
7:52 themselves of feminine
7:55 traits I mean women they walked away
7:57 from from traditional gender roles years
8:01 ago de I say decades
8:04 ago men need to do the
8:08 same say no to marriage no to children
8:09 no to
8:16 disposable I mean when the risks and the
8:18 negatives outweigh the
8:25 bother you look at the traditional model
8:28 and it's not workable and it's not safe
8:30 safe
8:32 and you can criticize mikil as much as
8:33 you like I have yet to see one frat of
8:35 changeed on behalf of
8:37 men and in fact things have only if become
8:39 become
8:43 worse Meg toil is the safest
8:46 option now will it affect
8:50 change I presume so at some point yes
8:53 eventually but for myself and so what I
8:55 find really heartening when I look at
8:57 other men who have taken the red
9:00 pill is that this this is the first time
9:02 that men have stood up and embraced their
9:04 their
9:07 individuality men are saying no to being
9:09 cogs in the in the corporate
9:11 culture saying no to to feeding a tax
9:14 machine that basically destroys
9:17 men working in working in unsafe
9:20 industrial jobs where 93% of of
9:22 workplace deaths are
9:25 male now and literally ask yourself I
9:28 mean what does it take for a man to
9:30 reach this point
9:33 to actually see himself as
9:36 valuable yeah as an important individual
9:39 not just a disposable
9:42 utility and this is after all the
9:45 indoctrination all the abuse all the
9:48 attacks on his on his gender and on his
9:50 character after all the ridiculous
9:52 expectations been been placed on his
9:55 shoulders that he has to burden all the
9:57 constant persistent ongoing NeverEnding
10:03 what does it take for a man to say out
10:11 individual that is one hell of an
10:14 Awakening I mean for me it was like
10:18 coming out of a cult literally
10:26 deprogramming I've witnessed men
10:28 um and I I love the terminology of the
10:32 mcdonal movement um I've seen men try to
10:35 debate like white Knights man joiners
10:37 feminist women what have you and yeah
10:39 I've done it myself I've been caught in that
10:40 that
10:42 trap but a recent conversation I had
10:44 with a woman and she was a
10:46 psychotherapist it was a couple of days
10:48 ago I I brought up the issue of gender
10:50 inequality in the family court now her
10:53 reply to me was if men wanted to do
10:56 something about it men
10:59 would then just gave a very casual in different
11:01 different
11:04 shrug you and typically I wouldn't enter
11:06 a debate with a woman if I wanted to
11:09 talk generalizations I talk to a liberal
11:10 you know men discuss
11:14 facts but anyway
11:17 um I asked her to think about that
11:19 statement men wanted to do something
11:20 about it men would and I said replace
11:23 the word men with
11:26 blacks she wasn't
11:29 impressed and this was a therapist
11:31 and I pointed out the fact that she
11:33 brings gender bias into Rec sessions
11:37 with clients and she really hated
11:41 that but um but it got me thinking you
11:44 know what does it take for a man to wake
11:47 up and not you you're already awake but
11:50 the other 90% of men out
11:53 there but what do the average Joe have
11:54 to lose personally and financially
11:57 before he comes to
12:00 senses so what are we dealing with with
12:02 you got men fighting for for child
12:04 custody you know being bled to death by
12:06 the by the family
12:08 court you got a you got a group of
12:11 emotionally and financially impoverished
12:14 men and what does a movement need to get
12:16 started me do you
12:20 ABC they they funding Government funding serious
12:21 serious
12:25 funding but they have no
12:27 backing and Society thrives a male
12:31 disposability were utilities by
12:34 Design I mean men have been the butt of
12:36 a concerted smear campaign that has lasted
12:38 lasted
12:40 decades you think anyone is going to
12:42 give a [ __ ] about their welfare give them
12:43 them [Music]
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12:49 funding you going back to that therapist
12:52 um I also mentioned that the the suicide
12:54 rates are four times that of females in
12:57 my country of course that's excluding
12:59 male Road deaths which I think actually
13:00 contribute a great deal to that
13:03 statistic but um constantly get
13:06 overlooked but um I don't know why they
13:09 are I mean I used to work in Insurance
13:11 you know connect the dots
13:14 ABC you got a lot of men
13:17 um they're not fools they see that they
13:18 can claim on accidental death Insurance
13:20 you get a pay out to your family you you
13:21 realize that you're worth more dead than
13:23 you are alive a lot of income to that conclusion
13:24 conclusion
13:30 sadly um they never match anyway um
13:32 but anyway what she said to me is she
13:34 said that the suicide stats are like
13:36 that because men don't ask for
13:39 help they don't ask for
13:43 help what from you from you with your
13:46 gender bias
13:48 really I mean therapy is just another
13:51 area where men will find themselves
13:53 emasculated men don't speak that
13:55 language men think logically about a
13:57 problem and then they deal with it if
13:59 there's no solution or if they can't
14:00 find a solution to that problem and
14:02 they've exhausted every possible
14:05 Avenue and the stresses are too much
14:08 they will collapse inwards there is no
14:11 support for men not from society on the
14:19 disposability anyway my 15 minutes is
14:22 almost up but um I know it's been a bit
14:23 of a ramble but I will be making more
14:27 videos moving forward um but I want to
14:29 thank you for your time and uh keep on
