0:02 hi everybody I just found this channel
0:06 he has like short and interesting videos
0:08 so my videos are going to be short and
0:11 interesting let's just get into it never
0:15 go for somebody that you have no initial
0:17 physical or sexual attraction too yeah
0:20 never go for them uh I can speak from
0:22 personal experience like once I gave a
0:26 chance to girl that um basically I went
0:31 on her I went with her on a date and uh
0:33 after that I know I just wasn't too
0:35 interested and then I
0:40 just U yeah I I did not plan to go on
0:42 the second date and we did not meet for
0:44 like an year and during during this year
0:46 I was like dating other girls that I
0:49 liked more but yeah you know
0:51 relationships ended and somehow we ended
0:55 up together again and uh yeah we did get
0:56 into a
0:59 relationship and she could just feel it
1:02 that um yeah she was not my first
1:06 choice and um yeah I wasn't treating her
1:10 as as as as I I'm was treating the
1:12 others and she could feel it that I'm
1:14 like together with her for like being
1:17 feeling sorry they really did feel sorry
1:20 in a way for her like I don't know I
1:23 just I just couldn't break up with them
1:27 and um yeah she she just started acting
1:30 like mean towards me cuz yeah you I I'm
1:33 I'm not going to fake like if if I'm not
1:34 like falling in love I'm just not going
1:38 to act fake but for some reason I don't
1:40 know I felt lonely or something but yeah
1:42 I just I just couldn't I just couldn't
1:46 break up with her so in a way I kind of
1:49 made it made her break up with me but
1:52 yeah I I was I was really young back
1:55 then and I didn't know any
1:57 better I hate to say it but this is one
2:00 thing that I think men excel at I mean
2:02 we sit there crying about these straight
2:04 up losers that we had to take weeks to
2:06 convince oursel that he was even attractive
2:07 attractive
2:10 like this is very
2:13 familiar like when when the girl is girl
2:16 was like in front of me I kind of I'm
2:18 not saying she was like bad looking
2:20 maybe like some of you if you would see
2:22 her you would have like a different
2:26 opinion maybe she just wasn't my style
2:29 or some girls like that are like
2:31 considered a t or whatever or some
2:34 people consider it like really hot
2:36 sometimes for them it they just wouldn't
2:41 do it I don't know it it can be like
2:44 like um hot or attractive to certain
2:48 certain people but to me I don't know
2:50 I'm I'm looking for something else and
2:53 there's nothing wrong with it and yeah I
2:55 I I was like like this like trying to
2:58 convince myself that yeah that this
3:00 person it is beautiful like it
3:02 definitely there were times when we were
3:05 laughing a lot and and it it was like
3:07 like really good and and Precious
3:10 Moments together but yeah I did found
3:13 myself that H is this all
3:17 like I I think I think I could do better
3:20 like many times it crossed my mind I'd
3:22 much rather be crying about a boy that I
3:24 really liked and was really attracted to
3:27 and exactly this is very true like you
3:30 would rather go and try
3:32 to to get the person that you really
3:35 want to get and know that you failed
3:37 then just settle down with someone that
3:39 you don't really like it's going to be really
3:41 really
3:42 disappointing yeah you're not going to
3:46 be lonely but in the same time you're
3:49 wondering what did you miss out on like
3:52 what if you tried to to get the person
3:56 that you you are really attracted
3:58 to just like wasn't a piece of [ __ ] then
4:01 crying about some loser that somehow
4:03 made me fall in love with him even
4:05 though I have no anybody who would
4:08 criticize this girl is just someone that
4:10 uh doesn't understand that some people
4:13 just have options and um yeah there's
4:15 nothing wrong with that and some people
4:17 have more options and some people have
4:21 less options this is just just
4:23 reality oh sexual or physical attraction
4:25 do I don't want to sound shallow in
4:27 saying this but seriously like stop
4:30 giving ugly guys a chance if you you got
4:34 triggered if you got triggered then what
4:35 because you consider yourself ugly my
4:37 friend you may
4:46 ugly I don't know this is always comes
4:49 from feedback I mean you can have like a
4:52 fake idea about yourself that you're
4:53 ugly or you can have a fake idea that
4:57 you're you're handsome but um it it
5:00 always it always comes from feel back I
5:02 mean I know some people just try to put
5:04 you down and call you ugly when you're
5:06 not or they try to call you handsome
5:10 when just to just to please you and to
5:12 to like sugarcoat sugar coat what they
5:15 really have to say to to get something
5:19 out of you just to manipulate you but uh
5:22 when when you ask like let's say 100
5:25 girls or you you get like feedback from
5:28 like multiple people then I don't know
5:30 you you should should be realistic to
5:34 yourself and don't be like
5:36 delusional fail to see the fact that she
5:39 just proved that ugly guys do get a
5:41 chance and quite commonly yeah they do
5:43 get a chance of
5:46 course I I also don't consider myself to
5:50 be like super super handsome but um yeah
5:53 um I did get together before with the
5:56 hottest girl in the in the school and it
6:01 was her that was initiating the
6:03 the the relationship like like she
6:06 wanted to hang out with me she she asked
6:11 for my for my number behind U behind my
6:13 back and she just messaged me hey how
6:16 are you doing whatever and yeah we we
6:18 did get together and that was like such
6:20 a confidence move that I I never settled
6:23 in my life for for less than what I
6:25 deserve except that one time that I'm I
6:29 I told you that yeah but yeah I I kind
6:32 of regret that but for settling for less
6:35 than what I deserve back then but hey
6:37 that relationship ended and it was like
6:39 a learning
6:41 experience in fact how many times have
6:43 you missed a great opportunity or an
6:45 experience because of your limiting
6:48 beliefs and exactly never limit yourself
6:51 exactly so right now you're like
6:53 contradicting yourself you should never
6:56 settle for less um you should always try
6:58 the the best what you can get even to
7:01 even considering like a girlfriend you
7:03 should just just go and try ask the the
7:07 best out like and if if they talk to you
7:10 and whatever just see where it goes
7:13 negative selft talk these are of no use
7:15 to you so there's no reason to go to go
7:16 to the gym or
7:19 whatever I I'm just I'm just uploading
7:24 my my uh exercise my video related to
7:27 exercise why I'm doing this but yeah
7:30 drop them keep working on yourself
7:32 believe in there's nothing to work on
7:36 yourself just just eat the right food
7:40 and um yeah just just don't stress
7:43 yourself I know work when it's when it
7:45 comes to work it's kind
7:49 of sometimes it's kind of un unavoidable
7:53 to to not get stressed but yeah if
7:56 you're treated well by
7:59 others especially by a woman that you like
8:00 like
8:02 um and you give yourself the right
8:04 nutrition that's all the work you need
8:08 to do on yourself yeah don't don't go to the
8:09 the
8:12 gym yourself be positive and you'll have
8:14 a yeah yeah be positive and you'll have
8:18 a beautiful girl yeah be positive
8:20 definitely don't be like like negative
8:25 like yeah but uh if you're really really
8:27 goodlooking and you're negative or
8:29 whatever she's going to she's going to
8:32 come and come to you and and make you
8:34 relax and yeah
8:36 just just be nice around you and
8:38 feminine and yeah that's going to be
8:41 easy for you to calm down and get some
8:44 positive perspective I'm telling you a
8:47 beautiful girl one day take care like
8:49 there were times when when I saw
8:53 everything as dark or whatever and uh
8:56 like like someone really really precious
8:59 to make him in my life and uh yeah they
9:03 just transformed my whole perspective of
9:06 life and yeah I like I was thinking
9:09 negative about many things but uh not
9:12 about her cuz yeah she she just changed
9:15 my life in a way okay thanks for watching
