0:28 for how to be confident even if you're not.
0:33 for how to be confident even if you're not
0:39 for how to be confident even if you're not.
0:45 So let's break it down.
0:48 So let's break it down.
0:51 So let's break it down.
0:52 What was the difference between those
0:58 What was the difference between those
1:04 What was the difference between those
1:10 What did you see? What did you hear? And
1:16 what did you see? What did you hear? And
1:19 not just, you know,
1:21 what did you see? What did you hear? And
1:27 one seemed nervous, one seemed confident.
1:33 One seemed nervous, one seemed confident.
1:40 One seemed nervous, one seemed confident.
1:47 But what was I doing differently to make
1:55 But what was I doing differently to make
2:04 But what was I doing differently to make
2:31 certainly different body language, but
2:39 certainly different body language, but
2:46 certainly different body language, but
2:53 I wasn't actually feeling particularly confident.
2:59 I wasn't actually feeling particularly confident.
3:05 I wasn't actually feeling particularly confident.
3:11 I was just making certain physical and
3:22 I was just making certain physical and
3:33 I was just making certain physical and
4:15 So, what are those confident looking choices?
4:22 Number one, turn up the energy and speak up.
4:30 Number one, turn up the energy and speak up.
4:38 Number one, turn up the energy and speak up.
4:45 When you speak up even just a little bit.
4:51 When you speak up even just a little bit.
4:57 When you speak up even just a little bit,
5:03 it reads as confident. And you don't
5:09 It reads as confident. And you don't
5:16 It reads as confident. And you don't
5:22 Think about it this way. On a scale of 1
5:28 think about it this way. On a scale of 1
5:35 think about it this way. On a scale of 1
6:04 So, I'd like to share my top five tips
6:06 for how to be confident even if you're
6:10 not. So, let's break it down. What was
6:11 the difference between those two
6:14 captains? What did you see? What did you
6:16 hear? And not just, you know, one seemed
6:19 nervous, one seemed confident, but what
6:22 was I doing differently to make you
6:25 think that? Different volume, different
6:28 words, certainly different body
6:31 language. But the truth is, I wasn't
6:34 actually feeling particularly confident.
6:36 I was just making certain physical and
6:40 vocal choices to make you think that you
6:43 can do that, too. Anyone can do this.
6:45 So, what are those confident looking choices?
6:47 choices?
6:50 Number one, turn up the energy and speak
6:53 up. When you speak up, even just a
6:56 little bit, it reads as confident. And
6:58 you don't have to shout. Think about it
7:01 this way. On a scale of 1 to 10, aim for
7:07 a five. Yes, it goes to 11. [music]
