The content argues that men are systematically devalued and demonized in modern society, leading to a need for self-determinism and self-protection, which the speaker identifies with the "MGTOW" (Men Going Their Own Way) movement.
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hello and
welcome I wanted to make a video
effectively outlining my journey to mdal
and also discuss some of the the
societal perceptions associated with the
movement and also some of the the recent
criticisms leveled against
it is my journey uh was no doubt
different to yours but uh here we are at
the same
conclusion and that conclusion for me is
I'm sure it is for you is
self-determinism and self-
protection now I grew up in a society
where where men were essentially seen as
utilities and where the most patronized
figure in that Society was that of the Father
Father
Figure and you know him well you
rayon Homer
Simpson you know weak as P emasculated
male better
chump and you know the type cuz he's a
guy waving to you every morning and the
guy with the three whining kids and the
ugly fat wife wishing he was you you
know the
guy the men of my generation um we had
no Role Models or mentors growing up
none yeah sometimes I get fanciful about
it and I think or G to the times when
the men of the tribe would take the boys
out into the wild or the field and um
you know give them actual
guidance equip them with actual actual
viable skills that they can
use and of course equip them with a a
real sense of male
selfworth we don't have that
today I mean there is no initiation
right for for men no right of passage
there's nothing so consequently there's
no male
identity the male virtues have been
essentially demonized and degraded to to
that of the the go-to
boogeyman walk punch
line masculinity as I said it as it's uh
defined today is the source of all
society's W man are the problem not the
solution so it would seem if you if you
follow the media what they tell
you right now um there seems to be a lot
of discussion between some Mr and mtels
in respect of traditionalism and that is
a traditional
marriage and I'm let me specify here I
mean some masas not all
there are a lot that are against
marriage with good
reason um but the arguments being that
uh traditional marriage uh that is a
cohesive family unit is is best for the
child now I want to agree with this
point uh because to me it makes a great
deal of
sense problem is I have no desire to
marry I have no desire to procreate I
have no desire to be seen as an object
of ridicule I certainly have no no
yearnings to be uh to be financially
raped in the family
court so for me for myself it it's not
option but I mean to to be completely
honest um in retrospect I I honestly
have never experienced
traditionalism I mean my childhood I was
all over the place but um but women were
always my source of guidance and
perfectly blunt uh my only source
all of my teachers were
female the majority of my employees
managers female uh the vast majority of
my my work colleagues
female and the media as long as I've
been alive have actively attacked the family
family
unit primarily Fathers and Sons and you know
know
this or are they just painted men as
abusers or or dead beads rapist scumbags
murderers what have
you I mean ask yourself this question
when was the last time you over saw a
man being praised for his virtues as a
man I can't recall a single
instance I mean the only examples I can
think of are that of men that have
essentially sacrificed their lives for
females or for the greater good or
what's deemed the greater
good but I mean let's face it these are nameless
nameless
men no one can remember their names but
they're just utilities playing a role so
it's okay no empathy
needed now I was always aware that um
that men got a [ __ ] deal I was aware of
that growing up but like you when I
spoke up I got shut
down and all that indoctrination you internalize
internalize
it now I I I'll use an example you take
a gill I'll use this for an example and
I'll use a gill specifically for this
example you take a girl you put her in
the corner and for every day of her life
you call her a piece of [ __ ]
you call her a dead beat a rapist a
scumbag the bane of
society what do you think that's going
to do to her
confidence do you think she might start
internalizing some of those
messages you think she might grow up
with some
issues you think she might turn against
her own gender at some point and see
them as the problem and men as a
solution you would be looking at one broken
broken
woman I mean that's a reality for a lot of
of
men I mean those men they manifest those
messages in different ways they act out
or or they close off end up doing 20 to
life or you see them they turn on other
men turn on
them it's it's a whole raft of of
behaviors and this is what I grew up
with and really it wasn't until a series
of Life Experiences um namely me nearly
dying and a whole convergence of other
things it actually finally woke me up it
extreme now some recent critics of of
mow um they St men are bitter from past
relationships you know it's just a
generic shaming
tactic I have never invested enough in a
relationship to
care now I come from a hookup
culture I'm not talking about puas or
whatever you are I'm talking about my generation
generation
we didn't come from a traditional
know we just had quick sex on the Fly
you know you have an urge you act on it
involved and also we live in a time
where where female empowerment is is
essentially seen or seen to be derived
via sexual promiscuity in woman yeah
woman woman feel need to act like
[ __ ] in order to be a strong independent
independent
woman this is what I grew up
with so I could never respect
women they gave sex too
freely honestly how how can you respect
a woman who's on her knees back at your
place after four drinks at the pub after
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can't and again this is woman aping
men and you see this every day women
looking and thing uh just like men or
how they perceived men should
act and it's not
attractive I can't respect
it if you if you're not Guided by your
you you know women they've all got rid
themselves of feminine
traits I mean women they walked away
from from traditional gender roles years
ago de I say decades
ago men need to do the
same say no to marriage no to children
no to
disposable I mean when the risks and the
negatives outweigh the
bother you look at the traditional model
and it's not workable and it's not safe
safe
and you can criticize mikil as much as
you like I have yet to see one frat of
changeed on behalf of
men and in fact things have only if become
become
worse Meg toil is the safest
option now will it affect
change I presume so at some point yes
eventually but for myself and so what I
find really heartening when I look at
other men who have taken the red
pill is that this this is the first time
that men have stood up and embraced their
their
individuality men are saying no to being
cogs in the in the corporate
culture saying no to to feeding a tax
machine that basically destroys
men working in working in unsafe
industrial jobs where 93% of of
workplace deaths are
male now and literally ask yourself I
mean what does it take for a man to
reach this point
to actually see himself as
valuable yeah as an important individual
not just a disposable
utility and this is after all the
indoctrination all the abuse all the
attacks on his on his gender and on his
character after all the ridiculous
expectations been been placed on his
shoulders that he has to burden all the
constant persistent ongoing NeverEnding
what does it take for a man to say out
individual that is one hell of an
Awakening I mean for me it was like
coming out of a cult literally
deprogramming I've witnessed men
um and I I love the terminology of the
mcdonal movement um I've seen men try to
debate like white Knights man joiners
feminist women what have you and yeah
I've done it myself I've been caught in that
that
trap but a recent conversation I had
with a woman and she was a
psychotherapist it was a couple of days
ago I I brought up the issue of gender
inequality in the family court now her
reply to me was if men wanted to do
something about it men
would then just gave a very casual in different
different
shrug you and typically I wouldn't enter
a debate with a woman if I wanted to
talk generalizations I talk to a liberal
you know men discuss
facts but anyway
um I asked her to think about that
statement men wanted to do something
about it men would and I said replace
the word men with
blacks she wasn't
impressed and this was a therapist
and I pointed out the fact that she
brings gender bias into Rec sessions
with clients and she really hated
that but um but it got me thinking you
know what does it take for a man to wake
up and not you you're already awake but
the other 90% of men out
there but what do the average Joe have
to lose personally and financially
before he comes to
senses so what are we dealing with with
you got men fighting for for child
custody you know being bled to death by
the by the family
court you got a you got a group of
emotionally and financially impoverished
men and what does a movement need to get
started me do you
ABC they they funding Government funding serious
serious
funding but they have no
backing and Society thrives a male
disposability were utilities by
Design I mean men have been the butt of
a concerted smear campaign that has lasted
lasted
decades you think anyone is going to
give a [ __ ] about their welfare give them
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funding you going back to that therapist
um I also mentioned that the the suicide
rates are four times that of females in
my country of course that's excluding
male Road deaths which I think actually
contribute a great deal to that
statistic but um constantly get
overlooked but um I don't know why they
are I mean I used to work in Insurance
you know connect the dots
ABC you got a lot of men
um they're not fools they see that they
can claim on accidental death Insurance
you get a pay out to your family you you
realize that you're worth more dead than
you are alive a lot of income to that conclusion
conclusion
sadly um they never match anyway um
but anyway what she said to me is she
said that the suicide stats are like
that because men don't ask for
help they don't ask for
help what from you from you with your
gender bias
really I mean therapy is just another
area where men will find themselves
emasculated men don't speak that
language men think logically about a
problem and then they deal with it if
there's no solution or if they can't
find a solution to that problem and
they've exhausted every possible
Avenue and the stresses are too much
they will collapse inwards there is no
support for men not from society on the
disposability anyway my 15 minutes is
almost up but um I know it's been a bit
of a ramble but I will be making more
videos moving forward um but I want to
thank you for your time and uh keep on
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