The content argues that men are often subjected to psychological manipulation, particularly gaslighting, by women and other societal figures, leading to self-doubt and dependence. It emphasizes the need for men to develop a deeper understanding of these tactics to protect themselves.
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hello and
welcome John Lock said that the only
defense against the world is a thorough
understanding of
it and when we talk about narcissists or
we talk about the process of gaslighting
or just just invalidating someone else's
experiences and their perspectives it's
it's something that happens in all walks of
of
life and it happens in the workplace it
happens in the home
happens in relationships and and
friendships it happens online so having
just a baseline knowledge it it isn't
enough for a man especially
today a man can say that he is red pill
knowledge that he's that he's now
self-aware but there are blind
spots like if we use women as an example
when it comes to even the average female
what a woman understands at just an
instinctive level in in terms of how to
manipulate others using using language
using sex using general coercion and
manipulation it it typically takes a man
decades to understand through pain
through through loss and
experience so men that they come to
their realization that they've been
manipulated and use just far too late in
life if at all and you can read it you
can read it in a man's body body language
language
the the the stereotypical himick husband
the way a man looks at at the ground
when he walks past you in the
street you can see it whe whether he's
been beaten down by life and from from
interactions with others or because of
toxic relationships a man carries his
trauma on
him and too often that a man's trauma
it's like a red rag to a
bull and a man in a toxic Rel
relationship you can see it all the
Hallmark signs are
there the signs are there of an abuse
victim who who's been made to question
his own
reality that man his world that gets
turned upside down and he's left in a
State of Shock he's left in a state of
anger and anger that yeah he's been used
that he's been lied to that everything
he he's been fed up to this point has
been a
lie yet of course everywhere where he
turns you everywhere he turns it it's
just people just continue to invalidate
his experience and they they just pushed
all back on him they just deflect and it
leaves that man just spinning in a
circle now often leads him just to just
to question his his experience and his
reality maybe they're right maybe I am
the bad guy maybe maybe it was because
I'm a bad person maybe maybe I was in
the wrong and she was
wrong I'm going to talk about gas
sliding just just in general and I'm
going to tie it into some psychological
techniques and approaches I also want to
see if I can link it with some with some
police interrogation tactics cuz there
are some
similarities and this is going to be a
bit of a ramble but I'll try and tie it all
all
together in Australia we we have a
saying she'll be right mate
the Wonder from Down Under had won that
famous mug and here's the song We sang
along in every Aussie she'll be right M
she'll be right
right
remember and you'll never up the fight
your to the wall give
your and night she'll be right she'll be
right whatever it is no matter how bad
the situation is should be
mate your government is lying to you
should be right mate your wife is
divorcing you she'll be right mate
you've been falsely accused she's she's
taking the kids in the house you're
going to be homeless no she'll be right
mate no no she won't be all right
mate and the amount of blind trust the
men play some woman it's it's equivalent
to that of a young child looking to his
mother just for protection for
protection and guidance and
provision and the amount of mental
gymnastics that men undertake to to
justify and excuse a woman's Behavior
well you've seen
it I'm not seeing anyone right now guys
are jerks go I know right guys are the
worst it's not just women that engage in
this and we see it with employers we see
it with politicians with with cops
therapists we see it with the media they
invalidate they undermine and then they
put it all back on you yet they're the
reality hello Peter what's happening
um I'm going to need you to go ahead and
come in
tomorrow so if you could be here
around 9ine that would be great
okay and this seems to be the way of the future
future
so it takes more than just having you
guard up when you're in a toxic
relationship or dynamic cuz the fact is
most men are the rookie in the ring
they're in there with Mike Tyson and
Lennox Lewis in their Prime and your
opponent has 50b on you and to top it
off you have to fight their whole corner
and the entire crowd as well [Music]
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cuz women today they have free reign to
use to use sexual and emotional
manipulation and then they're celebrated
and worshiped for exercising it that's
girl power it's it's righteous
retribution for for wom's
oppression not the individual of course
but the collective it's just another
victory for The
Sisterhood in a woman's power it it
resides imp plausible
deniability her violence it doesn't
leave any scars and she's protected by
the government and her actions are
glorified by the media the righteous
actions of a victim no no it's not rape
when a woman does it no it's not child
rape it's
seduction it's it's not murder it's
self-defense yeah what was the cause of
death two of the witnesses decided not
to testify and the third guy he
committed suicide oh how he sted himself
in the back four times and threw himself
off a bridge very
unfortunate even Jody Aras she she claimed
claimed
self-defense after stabbing her
boyfriend at 27 times and then she shot
him in the head for good
measure so there's no stop gaps there's
there's no
regulation in women's actions they just run
run
unchecked even when they reach just just
pathological levels of Hysteria and
paranoia so you have to wonder does it
ever occur to woman just how out of
touch with reality that they've
become when a person is insane as you
clearly are do you know that you're
insane maybe you're just sitting around
reading guns and ammo masturbating in
your own feces do you just stop and go
wow it is amazing how [ __ ] crazy I
really am yeah do you guys do
that ultimately whether the behavior of
women is malicious and intent or or just
instinctive or just careless the end
result is the
same now honestly at this point I can't
tell which I don't really care to cuz I
treat them all with the same amount of
caution cuz all that matters is that
keep your wits about you and you know
how to protect yourself and spot the red
flags and gaslighting it's a systematic
process that breaks a person down and
the end goal is dependence on the
perpetrator and that victim that that
victim's sensor of personal value and
self-esteem will end up depending
entirely on the validation they receive
from their abuser and and sadly you can
see it and men are men are just queuing
up to fill that role that's the
psychology of a simp that's a dynamic
they're primed for it I've lost count
I've lost count of the number of men who
have sacrificed their lives sacrificed
their health their freedoms and the
futures for women and many did so for
women that they barely knew if at all hi
Forest I know you just got back from
Vietnam and you love me but I'm going to
go run a train with this group of black
panthers I just met oh okay Jenny hi
Forest I know you came all this way to
New York to visit me but I'm going to go
do blow and have sex with a bunch of
stock Brokers okay Jenny hi Forest now
that I have the most contagious and
incurable disease known to mankind I'll
finally have pity sex with you okay
Jenny and I'll mow the grass and raise
the AIDS
baby you remember that movie that movie
gongo gongo she she went from Princess
to predator and a Happ
and that's how quickly it
happens so I remember years ago a woman
I knew she came to my place she she was
crying she was all emotional she said
she was suicidal and all the rest one
minute she's she's this poor defenseless
woman and then she goes to the bathroom
for a few minutes when she comes back
out she she was literally like the
character in gong girl know sexually
aggressive and cold as
ice you could see the transition she
went from passive to active a passive
victim to active perpetrator and this
was a replaying replaying of a dynamic
she experienced as a child with an
abuser now she was a victimizer she had
assumed that
role I mean I was young and stupid so I
was confused all I knew was that I
didn't like
it I felt pressured so I chucked her out
but she didn't go
easy I was very lucky she didn't get
vengeful and send the Cavalry after me
cuz I I was pretty abrasive about
it of here get out of you
[ __ ] you crazy P get the [ __ ] out of
here go back to turnning trick and all
and you be in the ass and that's how
quickly it happens and for young men
they they don't see these red flags
until they're right in the thick of it
but by then it's it's often too late
and there are telltale signs that that
you are in a toxic relationship and
again this could be in any Avenue of
life you any relationship but if you're
always sick and guessing yourself if if
you feel like you're walking on
eggshells if you feel that that nothing
you do is ever good enough or if you
start doubting your own memory and your
own perception of events if you
constantly feel that that you're the bad
guy or if you you believe the little
voice in your head that you're not good
enough enough but it's psychological
manipulation all the gaslighter needs to
do is is just sew seeds of doubt and
then destabilize their
target listen you little
wiseacre I'm smart you're dumb I'm big
you're little I'm right you're wrong and
it I'll give you an example I'll give
you an example of a blind spot and I'm
doing this because every man has an ego
Every Man Has a big hairy perod balls
between his legs so yeah as men we all
typically think h no should be right
mate no no I know the score she'll be
sweet mate I'm good nobody can for me no way
n let's say you get brought in for
questioning by the cops because you were
in the vicinity when an when an armed robbery
robbery
occurred now the cop he he brings you
into an interrogation room as a
witness and he asks you this
question did you see the man and the yellow
yellow
shirt now most people would consider
that question very carefully due to the
way it's phrased and it's very carefully
phrased and the way the question is form
formulated it could lead to a number of
other questions from you and from the
cop in terms of of clarifying specific
details and specific times the when and
the where where you were at a specific
time and where the man in the yellow
shirt was and also establishing what
what other individuals were present in
the vicinity at that time and what your
actions were leading up to the event and
so on and in the process inadvertently
you would tell yourself down to a
specific time and you'd volunteer other
information so it creates a butterfly
effect you've You' boxed yourself in cuz
how do you know maybe they're fingering
you for the crime maybe they're
stitching you
up they could be questioning you over
the armed robbery or it could be for a
completely unrelated crime but it's
simply a subtle way to get you to
volunteer information about your
whereabouts and your actions and so on
because how do you know
maybe some some vengeful ex-girlfriend
has made a false allegation against you
and you don't
know but by using the words the man did
you see the man in the yellow shirt as
opposed to a man in a yellow shirt the
cops have stated in the definitive
they've stated that the man in the
yellow shirt was present even if there
was no man in the yellow shirt so it's a leading
leading
question if they stated a man you could
just answer yes or no so you wouldn't
have to think about it or seek
clarification and it doesn't seem like
much but by placing that thought in your
head they established a narrative and
then it makes it far easier to then lead
you because they've seed the seeds
you're providing the answers that they
want now you're playing their game and
they've established the narrative
they've established the framework of the
dialogue and the ground
rules and that's just with one
word so that's why you don't talk to
Cops that's how quickly it happens hey
you know I know this is the Bible Belt
and everything but where I come from
this is not that big a deal I mean you
son of a
fry you doing take it easy you okay hell
is wrong with
you it's no different with
women n times out of 10 men play by
women's rules and it's it's woman who
esta those ground rules and it's
achieved primarily through
language you look at what's happening
currently and instead of questioning the
the logic behind these lockdowns and
questioning the the validity of the
testing and and the criteria of
diagnosis we're we're more interested in
whether our next Nextdoor neighbors is
conforming to social
distancing and we let others dictate the
rules of the discussion what can and
can't be discussed so the conversation
it occurs only within the parameters
that the media and the politicians have
said and when others dictate the rules
of the game when they when they dictate
The Narrative and control the language
we limit and confine ourselves so you
know language is important when you let
others control and limit your language
it makes it easier to invalidate your
experiences and then reframe your memory
and reframe your perception and your thoughts
thoughts
in the process you're reducing yourself
to a
nonperson your Canon fter just another
statistic I heard some woman recently um
some pseudo celebrity named Amber Rose
she looks like a porn
star I wouldn't be surprised if she is
you look at her and and she's a walking
red flag but I heard a speak out
recently regarding sexual consent and it
was at some feminist
conference and what she said was she
said that a man should should be able to
pick up on a woman's body language when
she's uncomfortable and he should know
when she's not interested in sex even if
she doesn't Voice it and she said that
that a woman should not have to voice
voice of disapproval or even say the
word no and she said that there's no
exceptions when it comes to men zero
exceptions so if a man isn't a mind
reader he's a
rapist if a man is autistic and he can't
read body language he's a
rapist there's a dozen other scenarios
you could think of but but you can see
the danger of engaging within those
parameters those parameters of language
of dialogue
that's an overt example but it's
typically a lot more subtle than that
it's like well if going out on a date
with a guy makes me a [ __ ] then that's
just what I'm going to be I don't think
going out on a date make you a [ __ ] but
having sex with different men makes you
make you a [ __ ] what does it make you if
maker I you an exm who used to piss on
the floor when the cops used to drag him
out questioning now I wouldn't recommend
you go that with it but you get the
point but it it doesn't doesn't mean you
have to become hypervigilant in the
extreme or or just examine every single
word that comes out of a woman's mouth
you go mad doing
that the constant victim mentality would
drive you up the wall but you can be
curious lead with a question as opposed
to a statement CU statements can box you
in but questions that open up the
dialogue and it's putting the owners
back on the other party now get them to
justify their position without you
volunteering any information cuz you
don't have to show your hand they do
they have an objective but the only way
they can achieve that objective is if
you play by their rules and you get emotionally
emotionally
invested and woman that they can be very
limited in that
regard if you compare a woman to a boxer
if if you keep outside her reach and you
switch to southp then you keep her off balance
balance
you you switch it up you you don't let
her dictate the language and the rules
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it a lot of men that they'll recognize
what I'm saying here they know that look
A woman will give you when you change it
up it's it's like a recur in the
headlights you see it the jaw drops that
quizzical look her head just tilts
slightly to one side and she doesn't
know what to make of you you you're not
playing by the rules you're not
complying boo you
[ __ ] women are they're used to
manipulating men in a very specific way
they did it with their daddies with
their with all their boyfriends you know
the teachers their employers and they
haven't had to switch it up before men
they they just usually fall into line
and let the woman dictate the
interaction and the
parameters and often yeah I mean the
best tactic is to not engage in the
first instance but a lot of times that's
just not possible and if you get
cornered it helps to be prepared so you
know it can get to a point where you can
detach when you recognize certain signs
and behaviors otherwise you you run the
risk of being blindsided need more
coffee need more
Margaret it seems counterintuitive but a
good te to take is effectively the same
approach you would take with a
friend a friend who's going through a
crisis you approach your friend with
compassionate curiosity and you ask
questions to understand their
perspective you know what's going on
with them but there's boundaries their
issues are their issues and yeah that
friend that friend might be in an
abusive relationship or it might be a
junkie or or a Baska case set on self
toest strike so it's it's not your job
to rescue them or allow them to bring you
you
down but just just engage intellectually
rationally calmly but firmly and with
curiosity but you don't let them cross
your boundaries cuz your safety comes
first and you're not offering Solutions
you're you're not taking on board their
problems you're not volunteering
information now it's a tough love
approach where Common Sense calls the
shots and none of this none of this is
guaranteed to safeguard you as a man
there's there's just too much gray area
when it comes to relationships between
men and women today but now as men we
need to have a higher level of awareness
in relation to to a great many things
that are happening today now she'll be
right doesn't cut it
anymore now all you a b when you feel
you've had enough and life's not really
going well and life is pretty rough just
get out there and try again and back
yourself a first the Aries always do
their best when things are at their
worst sh be
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the I take therapy for example far too
often a therapist will undermine and gas
light a CLI
it it's typically kill us rather than
malicious but now sadly it's it's a
familiar Dynamic to a man but yeah it's
also still ultimately about control and fostering
fostering
dependency in therapy you know a man
could say that he's experiencing a
certain type of behavior in a
relationship from his girlfriend or from
his wife he it could State straight out
he could say that that this is my
experience you this is the behavior and
this is the effect it's having on
me but therapists both male and female
they they often take the tack of
invalidating the client are you sure
you're remembering that correctly like
this seems to be seems to be a familiar
pattern for
you you were hurt by some of your exes
so it's understandable you have issues
with women you know you need to stop
seeing all women
filter yeah I recall a Time years ago
when I questioned a woman about a
research in front of a group she was
giving the seminar and I remember I
asked her I said where did you get your
statistics from and can you provide
sources I was very polite about it but
at the end of the meeting I was pulled
aside and the language directed at me
was framed as and I quote why did you
feel the need to attack her
her
attack their language prompts a man to
question his
yeah how' that happen and if a lie gets
repeated often enough it has the same
net effect on a man's
psyche he ends up questioning his
perception of
reality and men men typically turn
inwards and blame themselves as opposed
to to questioning the language and the
intentions of
women so that vulnerability that that
that self-doubt that that insecurity
it's blood in the water to a
narcissist and now all the gaslighter
needs to do is just drop the bait and
you see how how a lot of men are today
especially younger men and they're so
hungry for attention and validation
though the pay woman just to shake her
ass on can
more paired just to get creative with a
cucumber they're poor
vegetable yeah I actually just found out
what a wau was the uh the other night wau
wau
Wu there was like a Pokémon on your
phone or
something how wrong I was it took me a
but a gaslighter they'll dig for
information they want to know all about
your insecurities they want to know
about your your vulnerabilities what
what you're embarrassed about what what
your regrets are and they want to hear
all about your troubles they want to
hear about your past relationships about
your your past mistakes and experiences
and they want to know every recurring
thought that you have they want to know
what makes you tick you know who the
people are in your life the and the
natur of those relationships and the
perception that those people have of you
and so on
wow wow she must really like
me she's paying me so much attention no
woman has ever shown this much interest
to me she's so affectionate oh wow she's
a tiger in the SEC she wants it all the
time this is great she's all I can think
romance and every tidbit of information
you provided it then gets used as
ammunition against
you it's used to to to systematically
erode your confidence and make you doubt
your own
reality you ever pick your feet in bipsy
come on come on hey hey you ever pick
your feet in
piping you got a friend you going to
tell us who you man is what's the last
time you picked your feet Willie who's
your Connection Willie what's his name
what and
what you talking about let me hear you
say come on have you ever been in pyy
you've been in pipsy haven't you I want
to hear it come on yes yes you've been
there right you sat on the edge of the
bed didn't you you took off your shoes
put your finger between your toes and
picked your feet didn't you that's there
it yes all right confusion you keep the
suspect off balance now we've got you
mate we know you did this crime we got
witnesses H who place you as the last
person sing with the deceased we've got
your red handed mate we got
you when a cop when a when a detective
takes this approach and an interrogation
it ramps up the anxiety puts through the
roof and the detective is laying out the
facts as he sees it and then he starts
developing a narrative for you the
suspect you know about why you may have
done the
crime and the detective at this point
he's looking for body language cues to
see what you respond to so he'll start
throwing out possible scenario
know maybe maybe the victim provoked
you maybe it was self-defense
maybe I know maybe we talked to some of
her friends and she has a bit of a drug
history so maybe she was a junkie maybe
it was a mercy killing from an OD that
went bad now is that what
happened so the cop at this point he
starts playing
counselor you're trying to get the
suspect then to to relax and open up
seeing what sticks
and the detective is watching for body
language signals he's looking for cues
if the suspect's anxiety eases up then
he knows he's on the right
track but anytime you speak up to to
contest The Narrative that he's
presenting or or say no or deny anything
the cop he'll just shut you down and
he'll talk over you and if you shut up
completely or if you just slow up with
your denials or you don't ask for a
lawyer then in the cop's mind he has his
men you're right
and he's found the right Tech to take
now he's found the right
narrative and any cop any cop worth his
salt he can take denials from a suspect
and just reframe
them frame it as a as a crime of
opportunity or a crime of passion and so
on no no I would never hurt anybody I no
I don't have it in me yeah yeah no I can
see you're a good guy and what that
tells me is that this is not normal
behavior for you you panicked
it happens to the best of us but now you
have a chance to do the right thing
you're a good guy let's give the family
closure come on where's the
body it's term countering know deny
invalidate reframe and it rips a ground
out from under man it undermines and
invalidates his memory then it reframes
it at this point what you need is a
friend in that sweaty little room cuz
your anxiety is through the roof you
need a pal
and then the cop he gets in your
physical space he he softens his tone he
gives you a good old pet on the back you
there there mate I'm H
listen but in the cop's mind if you
start to cry [ __ ] you you're guilty you
guilty want to know what I think about
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is
oh that's what I think of the Fifth
Amendment you ever heard the term giving
someone the third
degree the third degree it used to
describe police interrogation me methods
back in the day where cops could legally
beat a suspect to get a confession it
was standard
practice of course you know at least
they had the decency to do it behind
closed doors back then in Melbourne now
goes but at this point in in the
interrogation the the detective he
presents the alternative question and
this is your oute as a suspect so he
gives you the choice of two motives and
he gives you a a the first one is a
really shitty motive that presents you
as just a cold malicious killer and the
second one it's more more Humane it's
more compassionate that will sound
better to a jewelry and once you choose
one of the motives the cop he he then
ramps it up he he brings other people
into the room so you have to confess to
other people and just justify justify
the more Humane motive that you've just
chosen cuz at this point because of the
stress because of the
anxiety you desperately want to win the
validation and approval because at this
point what you want you what you really
want above everything else is just to
get the [ __ ] out of that
room and that's a level of anxiety
you're feeling at this point you'll
confess you you'll sign anything you'll
you'll accept another's narrative just
to stop the stress just stop the
anxiety and you one out you're broken
you just want the pain to stop so you'll
say or do
anything and that unfortunately is a
familiar relationship Dynamic for Many
Men toxic
relationships they just want it to stop
they just want to avoid conflict so they
don't feel the pain so this is a complex
psychological process going on here and
it has Deep Roots
Roots look
look
over would you think that you could
treat me like some stupid [ __ ] Goomba
housewife you think I'm going to let
some [ __ ] [ __ ] all over me just cuz he
buys me some ridiculous Gody [ __ ]
ring where the [ __ ] do you get off
huh you don't care what do you think you
don't even want my problems you think my
you you got a [ __ ] dream life
compared to mine nobody cares if I'm
dead I didn't just meet you
I've known you my whole [ __ ] life
that's right take a dump wherever you
please and then just walk away my mother
was just like
you bottomless black hole oh the mother
now I
Surrender burn me at the stake you know
what you're [ __ ] crazy all I ever
asked for was kindness and when a man
internalizes the belief that he is less
than then the cycle of indoctrination is
complete cuz even when the man knows
what the truth is that that his
girlfriend did something malicious to
him that she slept with his best friend
she uh she stole money from him or did
something else to him that was
horrible he shuts down his own inner
voice and then he gasl lights himself
cuz he'll do anything to avoid conflict
he doesn't want to face his abusers
wrath so he has to win her her approval
and her validation at all costs so he
convinces himself that he's wrong and
you've seen it I mean these guys will
fight to the death to protect this
narrative in their head you know the
this ideal of her being just a perfect
angel now his entire identity at this
point is just built around gaining and
keeping her
approval so the roots they do Run Deep
now here's a dirty trick here's a good
one your girlfriend starts an argument
with you and you bite and you get
emotionally invested and then she raises
her voice forcing you to raise yours and
she keeps ramping it up and ramping it
up ramping up the volume and then she
pulls away leaving you as the only one
shouting then she gets to frame you as
the abuser then she records it and plays
Court deny and dismiss
you need help oh no you need
psychological help you're imagining
things now you're
crazy but if you go to therapy or if you take
take
medication she can then paint you as
crazy if you're a sexually abused as a
child or experienced domestic violence
and a priate relationship then she gets
to play therapist and she gets to paint
you as as just replaying the abuse you
suffered as a child or in a previous
relationship on her it gets really
nasty and whenever I hear the
question who hurts you from a woman I I
always think men don't realize just how
nasty that implication
is and my advice if if I were to ever
give advice is is never disclosed in
abuse history to woman ever it's simply
ammunition and her using it against a
man can and often does become just an
extreme effective means of control on
that woman's part she takes his abuse
history and his history of bad
relationships and she uses it to chip
away his
self-esteem and we see a similar Dynamic
with with single mothers and how they
engage in spcification with their sons
that's a toxic relationship with with lifelong
implications how do you feel like your
life would be different if you had grown
up with a father I'd have had some
discipline I'd had
uh more
confidence uh you seem pretty confident
to me now I am because now I'm I believe
that I'm I'm My Own man and I'm a man
you know money gave gave me confidence
the screams of the crowd gave me
confidence but before that I was a shell
of a
man it's not just women who engage in
these tactics it's men too so you know
be on guard
but with gaslighters it it's the same
pattern of behavior and the tactics
they're pretty standard but they're
effective and the gas lighter will
they'll cook off an argument and then
they'll put the blame on you for
initiating it now you're the
Troublemaker never
them and whatever you say it's just
baseless it's just no it's irrational
you're victimizing
them and they just deny they deny
deny and they could do all manner of
horrible things to you then turn around
and accuse you of doing it to them
they'll beat you to the punch cuz that's
the story that they will present to
others to your friends to to anybody in
airshot to gain
sympathy and they recruit sympathizers
now they go behind your back they'll win
your friends over to their side now how
many men how many men that you know have
broken up with women and had their
entire friend Network leave them behind
dry and side with the ex over them
a women are especially good at this good
at this tactic that they'll use whatever
it takes they'll use sex to win support
they'll they'll play the victim they'll
lie through the teeth to present the man
as a devil
incarnate they'll self harm and say you
hit her they'll have others give give
false testimony by essentially using the
same tactics they used on on you to
seduce them and win them over and hey
you the narrative is that men are evil right
right
but let's get down to Brass tax let's
get right down to it boys let's get
right down to it men are
[ __ ] what men are
[ __ ] well isn't that what they
say and when that's the the prevailing
opinion the woman sh shares all the
cards in her favor and now everyone
around you is taking the side of the
gaslighter and invalidate in your
experience and divert divert divert
whatever issue you bring up they just
put it back on you oh wow wow you're
just hyper
sensitive you're overly sensitive you're
a really toxic
person and just like cops they counter
they use countering they call your
memory into question oh no no no no no
you got it all
wrong no that's not what happened you're
confused they just keep denying
I don't I don't recall saying that no no
no you're imagining that when you come
in on Monday and you're not feeling real
well is anyone ever say to you sounds
like someone has a case of the Mondays
Mondays
no no
man [ __ ] no man I believe you get your
ass kicked saying something like that
man do you pick your feet and
bipy and they keep you off balance they
ramp up the stress and anxiety they get
you doubting yourself they really P pile
on the shaming and the guilt tactics
they that they dig up they dig up all
all of your shame they dig up your
vulnerabilities and the end goal is to
get you feeling guilty and ashamed for
even questioning their shitty behavior
in the first
instance and they cut you off they cut
you off from Friends cut you off from
family they they want you isolated with
no support no support no contact with
others who who would quite rightly point
out that what you're experiencing is
abuse they wear you down to a nub and
just like a little kid who experiences
abuse they want you to shut
down and whenever they go on the attack
they want you to shut down they want you
paralytic so they can then step in and
rescuer and what I've detailed here it's
just the tip of the iceberg when it
comes to gaslighting but you can see how
cuz I see more and more
men especially young men just
pedestalize women these days and are
raising women up as the answer to all
their problems as just the the literal
Gatekeepers to their
happiness and they're walking and
they're blind and that desperation that
that mentality is what will get a man
chewed up and sped
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