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Welcome everyone. Today we're giving you
something that could wake you up.
Something that could shake your soul and
make you ask the one question most
people avoid.
Am I really living or am I just breathing?
breathing?
Because what you're about to hear is not
motivation. It's a reminder of your
mortality. And the brutal truth that
time doesn't wait. So lean in. Close
every other tab. This might be the
moment your life changes. There was a
study done inside a hospital. 100
elderly people standing at the edge of
life. 100 human beings just days away
from death. They were asked one final
question. What is your biggest regret?
And guess what? None of them mentioned
money. None of them mentioned fame. Not
even failure. All of them said the same
thing. I wish I had taken more risks.
I wish I had chased my dream.
I wish I had lived for me. Isn't that
terrifying? They didn't regret what they
did. They regretted what they didn't do.
Look around you. The world is full of
people with lungs breathing, hearts
beating, clocks ticking. But most of
them are already dead. Dead dreams, dead
passion, dead courage, dead inside.
They wake up just to go to work. They
laugh on weekends to survive Mondays.
They scroll. They copy. They wait for
someday. And they call that a life. But
let me tell you something. Living is not
what you do from 9 to5. Living is not
the job title you write on your resume.
It's not the car, not the house, not the
likes, not the weekend escape. No,
living is what wakes you up at 4:00 a.m.
with fire in your chest.
Living is risking comfort to chase
meaning. Saying no to what's easy and
yes to what makes your soul scream. You
live when you choose courage over
comfort. When you speak your truth. When
you walk alone. If you have to, you live
when you stop waiting for permission
because someday they'll bury your body.
But many of you have already buried your
heart. The dreams you had at 16.
Are they still alive? That version of
you who wanted more. Is he still
breathing? Or did the world convince you
to give up slowly? Listen to me. You
only get one life, one shot. And the
saddest part, most people will die
without ever living it. But not you.
Because today you're going to learn
exactly how to live.
Stay with me. What comes next
will change you. This video will also
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And let's begin. Chapter one, perception
and psychology.
Change your mind, change your life. Most
people are not trapped in a job, not
trapped in poverty, not even trapped in
their circumstances.
They are trapped in their own mind. If
your perception is broken, your whole
life feels broken, even when nothing is.
And if your perception is clear, you can
walk through fire and still feel like
you're free. The first secret to truly
living, not just surviving, is this.
You must reprogram the way you see the
world. What is perception? Perception is
not reality, but it shapes your reality.
Two people can live the same day. One
calls it a disaster. The other calls it
a lesson. One sees failure and breaks.
The other sees failure and builds. One
sees a heartbreak and gives up on love.
The other sees heartbreak and realizes
what they truly value. So the question
is never what happened to you. The
question is what meaning did you give
it? That meaning that story you tell
yourself becomes your life. Imagine
this. Two kids grow up in the same
house. Their father is abusive, angry,
cold, never said, "I love you." Years
later, the first child says, "I'm this
way because of my dad. He ruined my
life. I'm angry, afraid, and broken."
The second child says, "I'm this way
because of my dad. He taught me who I
never want to become." So, I became
kind, patient, and gentle. Same house,
same pain, different perception.
That's the power of psychology.
That's the power of the human mind. You
can either let your pain define you or
you can use it to design you. Everything
you see is filtered through the lens of
your past beliefs. If someone
compliments you but your lens says, "I'm
not worthy," you'll reject it. If
someone loves you, but your lens says,
"I'm not lovable," you'll sabotage it.
So, the real enemy isn't the world, it's
the lens.
Fix the lens and the whole world looks
different. This is why people with
nothing can be grateful and people with
everything can still be depressed. It's
not what you have, it's how you think.
You don't see the world as it is. You
see it as you are. If your internal
world is full of fear, then even
kindness feels suspicious.
Even opportunities feel like traps. But
if your internal world is full of
clarity and purpose, then even failure
feels like growth. Even endings feel
like beginnings. You want to live fully.
Fix your perception. And how do you do
that? The three powerful shifts to
change your psychology.
One, ask better questions. Stop asking,
"Why is this happening to me?" Start
asking, "What is this trying to teach
me?" Two, interrupt the negative story.
Whenever you hear yourself say, "I'm not
good enough. People like me don't
succeed. I always fail." Stop. Breathe.
Say, "That's just a story. I can write a
better one. Three,
Three,
surround yourself with better mirrors.
You believe what you hear the most. If
you're surrounded by small thinkers,
negative people, or fearful voices,
you'll start to shrink. But if you
surround yourself with those who believe
in something bigger,
you'll start to grow.
You want to live a real life. You want
to wake up and feel alive again.
Then stop waiting for the world to
change. Start by changing your mind.
Because the prison you're in, most
likely you built it. And the freedom you
crave. It begins with how you choose to
see. Everyone dies, but not everyone
rewrites the story in their mind. Start
there. Live begins in the brain. Chapter
2. Relationship dynamics.
Who you keep shapes who you become.
Let me ask you something personal. When
you walk into a room full of your
so-called friends,
do you feel seen? Do you feel inspired?
Or do you feel like you need to shrink
yourself to be accepted?
Because the truth is, you don't just
grow by yourself. You grow through who
you're around.
There's a famous truth in psychology.
You become the average of the five
people you spend the most time with. So
look around. If they're negative,
scared, bitter, complaining,
you will become that, too. Even if
you're not like that now, if they laugh
at your dreams, you'll start to feel
like your dreams are too big. If they
secretly hate you but still hang out
with you, you'll start to question your
own worth without even knowing why.
Relationships shape identity. When you
spend time with someone, you don't just
share words. You share energy. You
absorb their beliefs. You imitate their
habits. You mirror their standards.
If you're surrounded by people who
normalize laziness, you'll feel guilty
for being ambitious. If you're around
people who mock healing, growth, or deep
thinking, you'll start to feel stupid
for wanting to evolve. That's not
friendship. That's slow poison. Growth
has a price, and that price is often loneliness
loneliness
for a little while. But let me be
brutally honest with you. If you don't
leave the wrong people, you'll never
find the right ones. You'll stay trapped
in average, in guilt, in circles that
celebrate the past, but never build the
future. You don't have to hate them. You
don't have to fight them. You just have
to outgrow them quietly. And you will. A
young woman wants to become a writer.
But all her friends joke. Oh, so now you
think you're going to be famous.
Come on, you can't even write a birthday
card properly.
She laughs along and stops writing. She
meets new people, authors, creators,
dreamers. They say, "You should write
that. That's a brilliant idea.
Let's help you start."
In 2 years, she becomes a published
author. Same talent, same girl,
different circle. One, audit your
circle. Ask this for every person in
your life. Do they expand me or shrink
me? Do I feel alive after talking to
them or emotionally drained?
Would my future self thank me for
keeping this connection?
Two, stop forcing loyalty to dead energy.
energy.
Loyalty is beautiful, but only when it's
mutual. If you're always the one giving,
supporting, saving, but they're never
there when you need them, that's not
loyalty. That's selfabandonment.
Three, choose alignment over history.
Just because you've known them for 10
years doesn't mean they still belong in
your next 10.
Choose people who align with your
future, not those who are comfortable
with your past. You are not meant to
carry everyone with you. Some people are
chapters, some are whole books, and some
are just footnotes. If you want to live,
truly live, you must protect your energy
like your life depends on it. Because it
does. Everyone dies, but not everyone
chooses who they walk with.
Choose wisely and your life will feel
like a rising flame instead of a fading
light. Chapter 3. Don't try so hard. Let
go to set yourself free. There is a
hidden pain in modern life. It's the
pain of trying too hard to be someone
you're not. Trying too hard to be loved.
Trying too hard to succeed.
Trying too hard to be enough. And in
this struggle, we lose ourselves. The
world tells you, "Work harder, push
more, hustle 24/7."
But no one tells you the cost of always
trying. You lose your peace. You lose
your joy. You lose the real you. So,
here's the truth. Trying too hard is not
the way to live.
Letting go is trying too hard means you
don't believe you're enough without the
effort. It means your value is tied to
outcome, not presence.
It means you're addicted to performance,
not aligned with purpose.
Let me explain.
You try to impress people who don't even
think about you. You try to prove your
worth to those who already doubted you.
You try to be strong when you're
breaking inside.
You try to be perfect so no one leaves.
But in all this trying, you stop living.
You become a machine, a performance, a
mask. There's a beautiful story told by
a wise master. A man falls into a river.
He struggles, panics, kicks, and gasps.
He tries harder and harder to stay
afloat. The more he fights, the more he
sinks. until finally he stops. He lets
go and suddenly he floats. That's life.
Sometimes the harder you try to control
everything, the more you drown. But when
you release, you rise. It comes from the
fear of rejection, not being enough,
failure, abandonment, not being loved.
So you overcompensate.
You become a people pleaser. You become
a perfectionist. You fake confidence.
You force relationships. You push when
you should pause. But real life doesn't
reward effort. It rewards alignment.
What's the difference between effort and
force? Effort is healthy. Force is
toxic. Effort feels like energy moving
in flow.
Force feels like you're dragging
yourself through mud.
Effort is when you plant the seed and
water it with love. Force is when you
keep digging it up every day to see if
it's grown.
Effort is giving your best. Force is
never feeling like your best is enough.
Letting go doesn't mean giving up. It
means surrendering the need to control
what you can't. It means trusting the
process, allowing space for grace,
knowing that who you are is enough,
acting from peace, not panic.
You let go of people who left. You let
go of outcomes you can't predict.
You let go of trying to prove something
to the world. And in that letting go,
you come back to yourself. Imagine a
girl who always tried to be the perfect
daughter. Straight A's, no mistakes,
smiling always, never complained. But
inside she was exhausted, depressed,
crushed. One day she stopped trying to
be perfect. She cried in front of her
parents. She told them the truth. She
said, "I don't want to be your project.
I want to be your child."
That day, she didn't lose love. She
found it. Because real love starts when
you stop performing. You were never born
to prove your worth. You were born to
live it. Stop trying so hard to be
liked, perfect, accepted, enough. You
already are. You don't need to hold your
breath to be loved. Let go and breathe.
Everyone dies, but not everyone lets go
of the pressure and finally lives.
Chapter 4. Health and vitality.
Energy is the currency of life. Let's be
real. You can have all the dreams, all
the money, all the opportunity in the
world, but if you don't have your
health, you have nothing. There is no
wealth without health. Because without
the energy to live, you're only surviving.
surviving.
Most people don't die at 80. They die at
40. When their body breaks down, their
mind gives up and their soul goes numb.
But they are still breathing. They call
that aging. But that's not aging. That's neglect.
neglect.
If you want to truly live, you must
protect your energy. Vitality is more
than fitness.
It is your life force. It's the reason
you wake up with energy or wake up with
dread. It's the strength behind your decisions.
decisions.
It's the spark in your eyes, the glow in
your skin, the sound of your laughter.
And without vitality, life feels like a prison.
prison.
Let's talk about what's draining you.
Processed food that makes your brain foggy.
foggy.
Screens that steal your sleep. Sedentary
living that weakens your muscles.
Negative thoughts that poison your
nervous system. Shallow breathing that
limits your oxygen. Relationships that
drain your emotional energy. Lack of
sunlight, movement, joy.
Most people are not tired because of too
much work. They are tired because of too
little life. They eat lifeless food,
live under fluorescent light, sit for 10
hours, and scroll for five. Then they
wonder why they're anxious, inflamed,
exhausted, and numb. That is not living.
That is slow self-destruction. To live a
full life, you must take care of all
three. One, body, move every single day,
not to lose weight, but to feel alive.
Drink water like it's sacred because it
is. Eat real food from the earth, not
from a factory. Your body is your home.
If you don't clean it, move it, and fuel
it, it breaks down. Two, mind. Your
mental diet matters as much as your
food. Garbage in, garbage out. Feed your
mind with peace, not panic. Read things
that expand you. Rest deeply. Think
clearly. A calm mind gives birth to a
clear life. Three, spirit. Do you make
space for your soul? Do you ever just
sit in silence and listen? Breathe
deeply, go outside, meditate, pray,
write, disconnect to reconnect.
This isn't spiritual talk. This is real
medicine for a tired soul. A successful
man earning six figures, working 16
hours a day, always on flights. One day
he collapsed at his desk. Doctors said,
"You're healthy but completely burnt
out. He had money but no energy. He had
status but no sleep. He had respect but
no peace. He quit for 6 months. Started
walking in the morning. Stopped
drinking. Ate food that didn't come in
plastic. Read books. Slept. Played
guitar again." and he said, "This is the
first time in 15 years I feel like I'm
actually alive.
How to build vitality?
Starting now. Sleep 7 to 8 hours every
night. Non-negotiable.
Move your body daily. Even a 20inut walk
will change your mood. Eat more plants,
fewer chemicals. Food is fuel.
Drink more water. Your brain needs hydration.
hydration.
Breathe deeply five times a day. Close
your eyes and inhale fully. Limit screens.
screens.
Don't let blue light steal your light.
Connect with nature. It's not a luxury.
It's a necessity.
Protect your energy physically and emotionally.
emotionally.
If you don't make time for wellness,
you'll be forced to make time for
illness. This life is short and your
body is your vehicle for living it. So
treat it like your only home because it
is. Everyone dies.
But not everyone protects their energy
so they can fully live.
If you want to go far, take care of the
machine that will carry you. Chapter 5.
Discover your life's task.
Why you were born. There is something
worse than failure, worse than
heartbreak, worse than poverty. It is
this. Living your entire life without
ever discovering why you were born. Most
people wake up, go to work, come home,
scroll through a screen, eat, sleep,
repeat, years pass, and one day they
whisper to themselves, "Is this all
there is?" They had a fire inside them,
a calling, a spark.
But they buried it under society's
expectations. And now they're surviving
a life they never truly chose. Your
life's task is the one thing only you
can do. It is your unique contribution
to the world. The thing that uses your
pain, your talent, your past, your
passions, your voice. It's not always a
job. It's not always something you get
paid for. But it is something that gives
your life meaning. A person with no task
becomes empty. A person with a task
becomes invincible.
Most people never find it because they
were told, "Get a safe job. Be
realistic. Follow the rules. Don't dream
too big." So they traded their gift for
a salary. They traded their genius for
approval. And now they wonder why they
feel hollow inside.
It's not because you're broken. It's
because you're not aligned. Here are
five powerful questions to ask. One,
what did I love doing as a child before
the world told me what success is? Go
back to what made time disappear?
Two, what comes easily to me but seems
hard for others? That is your natural
zone of genius. Three, what problem am I
obsessed with solving even for free?
That is your heart's direction.
Four, what pain have I survived that I
want to help others overcome? That is
your emotional calling. Five, if money
didn't exist, what would I spend my life
doing every day? That is your soul's
truth. Write these down. Think deeply.
Your purpose isn't lost. It's waiting
for you to remember. Don't think you
must find it at age 20 or 30. Some
people discover it at 50, some at 70.
There is no deadline. But there is one
rule. If you don't search for it, you'll
die with it still inside you. And that
is the real tragedy. This world doesn't
need more copies. It needs people who
come alive. You were not born just to
pay bills and die. You were born to
build, to express, to heal, to speak, to
invent, to inspire.
Everyone dies, but not everyone finds
out why they lived. Find your task, then
give your life to it. That is how you
become eternal. Chapter six, financial
intelligence. Money doesn't buy life,
but it builds freedom. Let's be honest,
money isn't everything, but it touches
everything that is. Your health, your
relationships, your time, your peace,
your ability to give, to create, to
explore, to live, all of it depends in
some part on money.
People who say money doesn't matter
usually don't have to worry about it.
The truth is financial ignorance kills dreams.
dreams.
Financial intelligence sets you free.
It's not just earning more. It's
understanding how money works, where it
flows, why it disappears, and how to
make it work for you instead of against
you. Most people are slaves to money.
They live paycheck to paycheck, not
because they are lazy, but because no
one ever taught them how to manage their
energy, value, and mindset around money.
Three common lies about money. One,
money is evil.
No, greed is evil. Money is a tool. It
magnifies who you already are. Two, if I
work harder, I'll become rich. Hard work
helps, but smart money grows. Many hard
workers stay poor because they never
learn about assets, investment, and
ownership. Three, I'm just bad with
money. No one is born bad with money.
You're just untrained. Like a muscle, it
can be built. Five pillars of financial
freedom. One, learn to save, but not
just save. Saving is step one, but don't
hoard. Learn to use that money to grow.
Two, invest early, even in small
amounts. Compound interest is real. $10
invested monthly is worth more than a
hundred saved once. Three, create
multiple income streams. Don't rely on
one job. Learn skills that pay you in
different ways. Writing, designing,
consulting, selling. Four, understand
needs versus wants. Most people are
broke not because of poverty, but
because of poor priorities.
Buy tools, not just toys. Invest in
learning, not just lifestyle.
Five, let money serve you, not control
you. Use money to buy freedom, not to
impress strangers.
Don't be afraid to talk about money. The
more silent you are about money, the
more shame you build. Talk about it,
learn about it, ask people, read books,
watch videos. Do not stay in the dark.
Because poverty isn't just a lack of
cash. It's a lack of education. clarity
and strategy. And no one will teach you
unless you teach yourself. You can't
control the economy. You can't control
inflation. But you can control your
knowledge. Make money your servant, not
your master.
Everyone dies. But not everyone becomes
financially free enough to truly live.
Get free and help others do the same.
Chapter 7. Discipline and self-love,
the foundation of a powerful life. Most
people think self-love means treating
yourself, forgiving yourself, or being
kind to yourself. And that's true partly.
partly.
But the real self-love is much harder.
The real self-love is called discipline
because you can't love yourself fully if
you keep breaking the promises you make
to yourself. What is discipline?
Discipline is not punishment. It is the
highest form of respect you can give to
yourself. Discipline means showing up
when it's easier to quit. Saying no when
temptations whisper yes. Choosing your
long-term growth over short-term pleasure.
pleasure.
Keeping your word even when no one's
watching. People who lack discipline
often say, "I'll do it tomorrow. I'm
just not motivated.
I'll start next week. But people with discipline,
discipline,
they act even when they don't feel like
it because they understand. Motivation
starts you. Discipline builds you.
Self-love is not just bubble baths and
positive quotes. It is being honest with
yourself. It is setting boundaries. It
is saying, "I deserve more and I will
not settle for less."
It is choosing foods, people, routines,
and habits that honor your future self.
Self-love is doing what is right for
you, even when it's not popular, easy,
or fast. If you say you love yourself,
but you keep destroying your body, keep
wasting your time, keep entertaining
disrespect, keep lying to yourself,
then that is not love. That is self-abandonment.
self-abandonment.
Every time you wake up early to pursue
your goals, you are loving yourself.
Every time you go to the gym, eat clean,
and push through discomfort.
You are loving yourself. Every time you
say no to toxic people, you are loving yourself.
yourself.
Every time you sit down and study when
you'd rather scroll, you are loving
yourself. Discipline is love, not
restriction. It is protection. Imagine
an alarm clock rings at 6:00 a.m. A
person has two choices. Hit snooze, stay
in bed, feel guilty later, and rush
through the day. The difference is not
in talent, intelligence, or luck. It's
in discipline. Getting up when you said
you would. That is selfrespect.
That is self-love in action. Every time
you follow through on a promise to
yourself, even something small, you
strengthen your confidence, your
clarity, and your power. Discipline is
not a punishment. It's the daily proof
that you believe in your future. One,
start with one non-negotiable.
Choose one thing you will do daily, no
matter what. It could be 10 minutes of
reading, 20 push-ups, or waking up at a
fixed time.
Start small. Build identity.
Two, remove options. If you want to wake
up early, don't sleep with your phone
beside your bed. If you want to eat
clean, don't keep junk in the house.
Make the right choice easier. Remove the
wrong ones. Three, track your promises.
Keep a journal every night. Right? Did I
keep my promise to myself today? This
will rebuild trust with yourself. Four,
celebrate progress, not perfection. You
don't have to be perfect, but you do
have to keep going. One step at a time
is still movement. You can't heal what
you continue to harm.
And you can't grow into your highest
self if you keep making excuses for your
lowest self.
Everyone dies, but not everyone loves
themselves enough to build the life they deserve.
deserve.
If you want real power, real confidence,
real freedom,
start with discipline.
Start with love. Chapter 8. Empathy. The
most underrated superpower.
In a world obsessed with intelligence,
success, and power,
there is one trait that is forgotten but life-changing.
