0:03 This girl has banned me from commenting
0:05 on her channel because I hurt the
0:08 feelings of Dorian Ryder by commenting
0:10 this. So, yep, you're no longer going to
0:12 be able to see this comment on her channel.
0:14 channel.
0:16 Let's get into it.
0:18 In the past, my boyfriends that I loved
0:20 always kept secret pictures of fitter
0:23 girls or paid more attention to hotter
0:24 girls than me
0:26 because you did not impress them. My
0:28 last boyfriend even struggled to get a
0:30 boner around me for a while.
0:33 Well, it could be because he consumed
0:38 many grains or um he was like hormonally
0:40 imbalanced, but it could have been just
0:43 just your fault. Maybe he has been with
0:47 hotter girls and and yeah,
0:50 it was just not enough.
0:51 It really killed my confidence in
0:54 myself. My face is good, but my body is
0:56 not so much. It's true that guys only
0:58 love women. Um,
1:00 Um,
1:03 definitely don't listen to her to get
1:07 fitter or whatever. Um, her advice won't
1:09 build your body into more attractive
1:11 body. That's for sure. You do need
1:14 animal fat to get some some nice curves
1:16 on you.
1:19 Men that love themselves. So that is uh
1:21 part of an email that I received from a
1:24 girl who asked me for my advice and my
1:27 opinion. Um so I'm going to share my
1:28 thoughts now. So
1:30 this is going to be the worst advice of
1:33 your life. I'm telling you right now,
1:36 but yeah, I can't comment so there's no
1:39 way for me to to tell her. Maybe I do
1:40 find her in the comment section and I'm
1:43 going to I'm going to link her this video.
1:44 video.
1:46 Oh, as much. Oh,
1:48 Oh,
1:50 but that's not a such a good idea
1:54 because I already said mean things.
1:56 Um, yeah,
1:58 he has a problem. You have a problem,
1:59 too. And I'm not
2:02 I think this is not the way I talk. It's
2:04 It's not the way to talk to woman
2:08 because uh yeah, that that can hurt
2:10 their feelings and everything. And uh
2:12 when you talk to them, you should be
2:15 like more considerate cuz if you hurt
2:17 their feelings, they are just not going
2:19 to listen to you. That's just the way it
2:22 is. You can give the best advice on on
2:26 eating to to make them like like not eat
2:29 uh to tell them to not eat vegan food or
2:31 whatever and just eat animal foods. But
2:34 if you hurt their feelings, man, they're
2:37 never going to listen to you. no matter
2:40 how how hot you are. Or maybe maybe if
2:43 you're like there in in person with them
2:45 and that way you giving them advice,
2:48 maybe if you like protect them and
2:52 defend them, then um yeah, they are
2:55 going to listen to you. But uh on the
2:58 internet to a stranger who just said
2:59 this what I said, they are just not
3:02 going to listen, man. That's the sad reality.
3:04 reality.
3:05 not going to tell you.
3:07 They're going to listen to someone who
3:10 who talks to them nicely like like
3:12 Michelle and yeah, that's the way it is.
3:14 Even if she gives a bad advice
3:17 to break up with him or not, okay, that
3:19 that is your decision.
3:21 Yeah, it's her decision if they want to
3:22 break up or not
3:24 to make. But what I'm going to tell you
3:27 is that the issue that's the biggest
3:30 here is yourself. Okay? You have the
3:31 biggest issue here and you can change
3:34 it. Okay? Your issue is that you lack
3:37 confidence. You
3:39 you lack confidence.
3:41 It's confidence is not something that
3:44 you can just get. Confidence always
3:46 comes from the outside. How how well
3:49 others treat you and how they look up to
3:52 you and how they listen to your advice.
3:55 They listen to what you have to say.
3:57 They treat you nicely.
4:00 They want to be with you. Yeah. And
4:03 that's where confidence comes from.
4:05 You lack self- loveve. You lack
4:07 self-worth, self value.
4:10 I love myself. I love myself. I love myself.
4:11 myself.
4:13 Okay. And you say it killed your
4:15 confidence, but really you didn't have
4:18 it to begin with begin with. Okay. So,
4:20 what you need to do is
4:23 uh stop and just
4:25 from time to time just take a break and
4:28 just say I love myself. I love myself. I
4:30 love myself.
4:31 that will work.
4:34 Work on your confidence to boost your
4:37 selfworth. Do you even love yourself? Do
4:39 you even like yourself? Okay. So, you
4:41 said yourself, your body is not so much.
4:42 So, that is something you need to work
4:44 on. We all have this idea in our heads
4:46 that okay, we want to lose a certain
4:48 amount amount of uh weight.
4:50 If she has a good face, that's a good
4:52 start. That's a really good start. If
4:54 she claims that she has a good face,
4:57 yeah, that's a that's a great start. And
4:59 from there just just eat some some nice
5:03 animal foods. And yeah, the curves will
5:06 come. And if you have curves and even if
5:08 you don't have the height as a girl,
5:10 just you you can become so attractive
5:13 and and guys are really desperate these
5:16 days. It's it's really easy to be honest.
5:18 honest.
5:20 Or build an extra muscle here. Things
5:21 like that. Okay.
5:24 Why would you build extra muscle? I
5:26 mean, not in the way that you're saying
5:28 to go to the gym and do exercise for no
5:30 reason. You should build your muscle by
5:34 by eating muscle meat or raw from a
5:36 healthy animal.
5:37 You know that for yourself. So now start
5:39 working towards it. Okay, that might be
5:41 losing fat. So
5:45 no, don't lose fat. I I mean I don't
5:48 know how she looks like, but yeah, maybe
5:50 she had like some McDonald's or
5:52 whatever. In that case, yeah, it's
5:54 probably better to to lose some body fat
5:57 percentage cuz yeah, if if it came from
6:00 seed oils and all of that, it's not
6:02 great. You should have body fat from
6:05 from actual animal fat.
6:07 Um, stop eating the fat, things like
6:09 that, okay? Stop eating the fatty foods
6:10 if you're trying to lose fat. And I saw
6:12 your picture. You're very beautiful. Okay.
6:13 Okay.
6:17 Oh, okay. if Michelle says that. But
6:19 yeah, sometimes sometimes women they say
6:23 nice things to each other just to just
6:25 because they they want to make them feel
6:27 good. And that this is exactly what I
6:29 said. When when you talk to woman and
6:31 you want to be listen to, you have to
6:35 talk nicely and u not like me. I I'm not
6:37 a great example.
6:40 Okay? So it's a matter of accepting. But
6:43 my advice is 100% better than Michelle
6:44 from China's advice
6:46 yourself and then doing more, wanting
6:48 more for yourself and working towards
6:50 it. Okay. And next point is that it
6:52 doesn't matter how beautiful you are,
6:54 how the most beautiful girl out there.
6:56 Okay. If you don't love yourself, you
6:59 will still feel these emotions. And
7:00 if you're the most beautiful girl, it's
7:03 impossible to not love yourself. You
7:04 look in the mirror and you like what you
7:07 see. You don't make such a comment or
7:11 whatever. And uh yeah, everybody just
7:13 loves you and wants to be with you.
7:15 Feel like you're not good enough if if
7:17 you don't accept yourself. Okay, so it
7:18 doesn't matter if you break up with this
7:20 guy and get into another relationship,
7:23 you're going to repeat the same thing,
7:24 same emotions again and again, same
7:26 scenarios if you don't love yourself.
7:29 Okay? So work on yourself first. And uh
7:32 I would say more like accept yourself,
7:35 accept that you have certain genetics
7:39 and um realize that veganism won't work
7:42 for you and accept your genetics. Even I
7:44 I don't claim that I'm like super
7:46 handsome or whatever. I did not eat raw
7:49 meat all my life. I did eat plenty of
7:52 cooked meat and plenty of u organs
7:56 cooked, but it was not raw and it didn't
7:58 always came from a healthy animal.
8:01 However, it was our own own animals and
8:05 they were not fed like what's fed these
8:08 days to the animals in stores. Yeah,
8:11 chicken was fed plenty of worms and all
8:14 of that. But yeah, my parents did my did
8:16 their best and yeah, that's that's what
8:20 we had at at the time. If I knew that
8:23 that that healthy chicken that we are
8:25 having in a in form of soup could be
8:28 eaten raw, I would have eaten it if my
8:30 parents would have allowed it. But yep,
8:33 it that that wasn't the case. And on top
8:36 of that, I I did work plenty of plenty
8:40 of time. And yeah, that and I did stress
8:43 myself in certain situations a lot. And
8:46 yeah, that could have led me to to some
8:49 aging. And I also was vegan for like one
8:51 or two years or something that could
8:54 also lead to some aging. So even if you
8:58 would see my face, um I don't know. I I
9:01 probably look like a few years older.
9:04 But not I definitely don't look as bad
9:08 as Durian Rider. And yeah,
9:11 whatever. Let's move on. So, nobody
9:13 should be judged just because of the
9:16 diet that um their parents was fed them.
9:19 But but just be acceptable. Just know
9:21 that um yeah, that's because you were
9:24 not fed the right foods. And that's why
9:27 you don't look the the way you want to
9:29 look like. And the people that look
9:31 good, they look good because they were
9:34 fed the right food.
9:36 Um, the issue
9:38 and their grandparents and parents were
9:40 fed the right food
9:42 with him
9:43 is you
9:46 and it could could necessarily not not
9:49 necessarily be like um raw meat. They
9:51 just ate a lot of animal fat. Even if
9:53 it's cooked and they ate like less
9:55 grains, then yeah, that's that's a
9:57 that's a bonus.
9:59 Don't take it personally. Don't react to it.
10:00 it.
10:01 What do you mean don't take it
10:03 personally? you take you should take
10:05 personally everything that that you're
10:10 being told and uh know the truth
10:12 and um if someone would would would call
10:16 me ugly or something I would I would
10:19 just blame it on the on the grains that
10:23 I was fed as a kid. Yeah, that's all.
10:26 And uh yeah, it's it's not their fault.
10:28 It's it's not my parents fault.
10:30 Everybody was just brainwashed at that
10:33 time to not feed me raw meat. Yeah,
10:41 whenever he does that, don't take it
10:43 personally ever. So, he obviously has a
10:45 discipline issue, sexual discipline
10:47 issue where he can't even keep his eye
10:50 on one thing while something else walks
10:51 past. Okay,
10:54 maybe the something that walks past is
10:58 is it just looks better. So don't take
11:00 it personally. Work on yourself.
11:03 This did happen to me that I have been
11:05 okay. I guess it happens to everybody
11:07 that you are together with someone and
11:11 you see someone more beautiful. Yeah,
11:15 it's it's a tough feel to for for both
11:18 of you cuz because she sees it
11:21 and uh yeah, she's like envy of that
11:24 girl and you are like ah I wish I had
11:26 her instead of instead of instead of
11:29 this girl or whatever and yeah that's
11:32 yeah that's not nice for anybody except
11:35 for the for the the girl that is looked
11:37 at. She must feel like like confident in
11:41 that moment because because yeah she
11:45 gets she gets attention from both of you
11:47 first. Okay. That's all you can do. All
11:49 you can do is control yourself. Okay.
11:52 And when you love yourself, you will
11:53 start think
11:55 I remember um being together with
11:59 someone and we were walking and um a
12:02 hotter girl passed by and and I was
12:06 looking cuz yeah, I don't care.
12:08 And my girlfriend at the time was like,
12:11 "Don't look."
12:15 And she was so mad at me thinking, "Huh,
12:17 do I actually want to be around someone
12:20 like this?" Okay, that
12:23 um yeah, that that is a good point
12:26 because u you should always be together
12:28 with someone who makes you feel good,
12:31 not someone who lies to you like someone
12:34 who genuinely loves you and um yeah,
12:36 they want to be together with you. You
12:38 should never be together with someone
12:41 just to be abused
12:44 like emotionally or whatever. Well, I
12:46 would say emotional abuse. It's It's
12:48 still Yeah, it's still pretty bad. But
12:50 if if they would physically abuse you,
12:52 then yeah, definitely break up with
12:55 them. But yeah, I don't know, man. Yeah,
12:57 it's not nice. You should you should be
13:00 together for love, not not for anything
13:03 else. But sometimes girls end up
13:05 together just because the guy looks
13:08 good. And yeah, if they if they look
13:11 good and they have they have kids
13:13 together and everything, she's going to
13:16 pull up with many things.
13:16 That's where
13:19 but this is not the case because
13:21 the guy can't
13:25 can't even perform cuz u I don't know
13:27 what's the reason I don't want to judge
13:31 works but firstly work on yourself okay
13:32 there's nothing that you can work on
13:37 yourself except eating good meat
13:39 and yeah that's about it you eat some
13:43 good meat and you relax you do relaxing
13:46 act uh activities you don't exercise and
13:48 you definitely don't go vegan, high
13:50 carb, lowfat.
13:51 You need to love yourself truly. You
13:52 need to have confidence. You need to
13:54 walk around knowing that there's no one
13:56 no one there out there like you and no
13:59 one compares to you. Okay, so that's the
14:02 mindset. Um, work on yourself first. I'm
14:04 going to keep repeating myself. Work on
14:06 yourself. Focus on yourself. Focus,
14:09 focus, focus. You you yourself. Okay.
14:13 And you are beautiful.
