0:12 Sal mutations and greetings ego hackers
0:14 welcome to today's video where we'll be
0:16 discussing the cognitive function known
0:19 as Fe or extroverted feeling
0:21 so what is Fe f e is a cognitive
0:24 function that a to the 16 types use to
0:25 make decisions
0:27 if he's all about ethics ethics is the
0:29 extroverted feeler's awareness of how
0:31 people around them feel and specifically
0:33 what they value
0:35 so just as a te user Compares different
0:37 people's thoughts to each other
0:39 Fe users compare values to each other
0:41 this can come in the form of comparing
0:42 moral codes to more practical
0:44 comparisons of weighing out the
0:46 priorities for a given task or project
0:49 there are eight Fe users the sfjs the
0:53 nfjs the sdps and the ntps they all have
0:54 extroverted feeling in the top four
0:56 slots of their cognition
0:59 Fe is fundamentally tied to empathy all
1:01 Fe users have a natural and even uncanny
1:04 ability to discern the moods feelings
1:06 and emotional pain of those around them
1:08 whereas an fi user has an independent
1:10 emotional reaction they offer their own
1:12 feelings and feedback in response to a
1:15 situation an Fe user feels the literal
1:17 feelings of people around them while
1:18 their compassion often leads to Healing
1:21 it can also lead to enablement sometimes
1:23 Fe users rush in to alleviate pain
1:24 immediately which can jeopardize another
1:26 person's growth if the Fe users aren't careful
1:28 careful
1:30 Fe users have to learn when it's time to
1:32 step in and be compassionate and when
1:33 it's time to step back and let the
1:35 person figure things out for themselves
1:37 the secret reality of being truly
1:39 helpful is that stepping back at the
1:41 right time can be just as compassionate
1:43 as stepping in at the right time
1:45 so what are our free users seeking
1:48 if users seek moral Integrity personal
1:50 philosophy feedback and appreciation
1:51 from other people
1:53 unconsciously they're looking for people
1:55 with a complementary function of
1:57 introverted feeling or fi
1:59 fi users are the ones who most want to
2:01 be emotionally comforted by Fe users and
2:03 Fe users are naturally gifted at helping
2:05 fi users process emotional pain and
2:07 moral struggle
2:09 Fe users are seeking appreciation from
2:12 fi users Fe users put a lot of effort to
2:13 create Harmony and provide emotional
2:15 relief to others in their life
2:18 if your users also absorb and refine the
2:20 values of fi users in their life
2:24 but more than anything an Fe user wants
2:26 others to Value them enough to invest in them
2:27 them
2:29 that's why we refer to fe's
2:31 complementary function fi as the
2:33 investment function
2:35 an Fe user flourishes when others invest
2:37 their own values philosophy and so forth
2:39 into the Fe user
2:41 and fi user's investment confirms to the
2:44 Fe user that they are indeed worthy of investment
2:45 investment
2:47 not only will the Fe user continue to
2:49 comfort and provide care to those who
2:51 invest in them but it helps the Fe user
2:53 feel valued enough to be honest with the
2:55 FI users in their life
2:58 Fe is tied through cognitive access to
3:00 introverted thinking or TI
3:03 so every Fe user is also a TI user just
3:06 as every fi user is also a te user
3:08 so what is the significance of this it
3:11 demonstrates how an Fe user can actually
3:13 heal others
3:15 TI adds The Logical structure to help
3:17 guide the Fe user into taking action
3:19 TI processes other people's feeling and
3:21 seeks to understand what specifically
3:23 can be done to help a person
3:25 if somebody has all empathy and no logic
3:27 they will only relieve pain and become a
3:29 doormat whose only purpose is to give
3:30 themselves away to other people
3:32 they'll Comfort others but they won't
3:34 heal them
3:36 when the Fe user utilizes their TI they
3:38 start to see who they should comfort and
3:40 who they should leave alone
3:42 TI also helps the Fe user apply the
3:44 right solution so that their compassion
3:46 is not wasted and true healing becomes possible
3:47 possible
3:49 how can extroverted feelers make the
3:51 right decisions
3:53 as stated in the beginning Effie is a
3:55 decision-making function it gathers the
3:56 values of the people around them and
3:58 Compares them against each other to find
4:01 the best values in this way Fe users are
4:03 like treasure Hunters of value sifting
4:05 through the Sands and digging through
4:07 the Earth of competing values to find
4:09 gems in each value system
4:11 but the Fe user can't help but be sucked
4:13 into at least a little bit absorbing
4:15 what those around them value
4:17 so the danger for Fe users is in
4:19 becoming too prone to accept new values
4:21 on a whim simply because those around
4:23 them accept that value
4:25 if they value it then it must be
4:27 valuable is an example of an immature Fe
4:30 user's perspective on ethics
4:31 for an extroverted feeler to practice
4:34 Effie in maturity they must also utilize
4:35 their TI function
4:37 at the risk of not being accepted by
4:40 others a mature Fe user verifies the
4:41 accuracy of the values that others feel
4:43 are important
4:45 just because a person values a specific
4:47 thing doesn't make it true
4:49 just because someone feels slighted by a
4:51 boss doesn't make it true just because
4:53 we feel like doing harm to someone who
4:56 angered us doesn't make it right
4:58 if the Fe user does not verify the truth
5:00 in other people's values it will lead to
5:02 enablement and when enough enablement is
5:04 permitted destruction of families groups
5:07 cultures and even entire nations will follow
5:08 follow
5:10 but armed with the truth and courageous
5:13 enough to verify others values Fe users
5:15 can become Dynamic and effective with
5:16 their compassion
5:20 so truthful compassion then is the
5:22 expression that Fe users should seek in
5:23 all situations
5:25 within truthful compassion an Effie
5:27 user's empathy becomes a valuable and
5:29 rare resource
5:32 so truthful compassion TI plus Fe
5:35 impacts others with extreme potency
5:37 providing the best path for actual
5:39 lasting healing
5:40 and in the process of healing others Fe
5:42 users can find healing for themselves too
5:44 too
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5:49 and until next time thank you for watching
