is about to start, and if you’re watching this video a bit late, then the new
year might have already begun.
So, I was thinking about which topic I should create a video on.
I noticed that many people are making videos on various
topics, and I felt that I should also make a video on the same topic.
What were the topics?
Work insanely hard, like putting in 100 hours a week. Work like Elon Musk.
Achieve a year’s worth of goals in 30 days—it’s a very interesting topic, and if
I make a video on this, it performs well on my channel.
But then I took a step back and thought, “Should I really make a
video on this topic?” Then I realized that no, this topic isn’t right.
There are better and more important topics I should make a video on.
Which brings us to today’s video, which is about 13 Habits That Will Destroy
Your Life—habits you need to eliminate from your life.
Warren Buffett’s close associate,
Charlie Munger, often talks about the law of inversion, which suggests that knowing
what not to do in life can sometimes be more important than knowing what to do.
And as you start following the principle
of avoiding what you shouldn’t do, you’ll automatically begin achieving your goals.
Over the past year, I’ve read several books, and I realized that there
are 13 extremely dangerous and bad habits that we’ve developed.
It’s crucial to get rid of these bad habits first because once they
start leaving our lives, good habits will automatically begin to take their place.
Automatically, we’ll be able to work hard and accomplish all these things.
But many times, we won’t be able
to do all these things directly as long as these habits remain in our lives.
That’s why I decided to make a video on this topic.
Look, I’m going to share
13 habits, but I know that you won’t be able to eliminate all 13 at once.
However, I want you to at least focus on the top three habits from these 13.
In today’s video, decide which three habits you will eliminate from your
life—either in the new year or, even better, before the new year begins.
And I’m going to share these 13 habits in a sequence from bad to worst.
Alright?
I’ll start with what I think
is bad and end with what I believe is the absolute worst.
In a sequence, and I won’t just talk about the problems—I’ll also
tell you about the best books related to these problems that provide solutions.
If I’ve already created
a summary of that book, I’ll share its link in the description.
And if you’re interested
in me creating a summary of any of those books, let me know in the comments.
Alright? Now let’s start.
Out of the
13, the first bad habit is superficial living. Well, to be honest, I wanted
to include this habit in the top three, but I deliberately chose not to.
Because I know that many people don’t have the patience to watch the video till the
end, and I want to share this lesson with the majority of viewers who are
watching at the beginning itself.
Let’s understand superficial
living with examples. For instance, imagine a child who loves toys.
Now, his dad comes across a magical house filled with countless toys—basically,
a toy factory, you could say.
Now, his dad takes the child to that toy-filled room, where
there are toys stacked everywhere.
The child becomes extremely happy seeing all the toys and starts demanding them one
by one, saying, “I want this toy.” His dad immediately brings him that toy.
The child holds it and enjoys playing with it for a while, but soon he throws
it aside and says, “Now bring me that other toy.”
His dad goes, picks up the next toy, and gives it to him.
The child takes it, enjoys it for a moment, then throws it aside
again and points toward another toy.
This continues—third, fourth, fifth, sixth—and in no time, he has played with
many toys, only to toss each one aside after holding it for a while.
Now, tell me,
if a child gets so many toys, will it be good for their mental health?
Will it be good for their patience?
Will that child be able to value the toys?
Now, look, this example in a way reflects what’s happening in our lives.
Nowadays, we’ve started living a very superficial life.
We feel like watching a video, so we watch one.
We get a little
bit of enjoyment from it, but then we quickly scroll to watch another video.
We start watching a third video.
We talk to someone for a while, then get bored.
If we get a phone call, we talk on the phone.
You see, after just two or three minutes, we feel like we’ve been
talking for a long time, and we immediately want to hang up the phone.
In this way, we’ve started living a very shallow life.
We’ve started living a superficial life where we can’t
form deep connections or engage in deep things.
We’re learning many things from different videos, but it’s all surface-level.
But no one is diving deep into anything, and platforms like reels
and shorts have triggered this.
That’s why the first bad habit
you need to eliminate from your life, according to me, is very important.
It is superficial living and shallow living.
Because, as long
as you live like this, you won’t be able to achieve patience in your life.
And to be honest, patience is one of the most important
things that will bring you success in life.
And that was the reason why, you could say, I didn’t create the video I was
planning—on how to achieve
a year’s goals in 30 days or work insanely hard for 100 hours.
No, these things will only make you impatient.
To be honest, for success, you actually need patience.
Yes, there will come a time when maybe you’ll work 100 hours.
But before working
100 hours, you need to learn the patience to work for one hour, or 10 hours.
If you don’t have the patience to work for 10 hours, do you think it would
be right if I tell you to work 100 hours directly?
Let me know in the comments.
Now, there are some books on this topic,
and I’ve already created summaries for them.
Deep Work is one of the best books you should read.
I’ve created a summary for it, and you can check it out.
Another great book is Essentialism: The
Disciplined Pursuit of Less or The One Thing.
These are some excellent books that will teach you about this principle.
Next, the bad habit that can destroy your life is excessive comparison.
Do you know what the most dangerous and worst thief that’s ruining your life is?
It’s comparison.
See, usually, thieves
might steal once or twice, but comparison enters your life daily from
somewhere, and whenever it does, it steals the most important thing from you.
What it steals is your happiness.
You yourself might notice
that you’re living happily in your life, but suddenly, you watch a
video and see someone making so much money, and suddenly you start feeling bad.
Or you see someone with a
great body, and then you suddenly start feeling bad about your own body.
You see, this person is in a great relationship, and suddenly,
you start thinking, “I don’t have a relationship,” or “My relationship isn’t
as good.” You should notice this.
Whenever you start
comparing, your mood gets affected, and when your mood is bad, your energy drops.
And when your energy is low, you don’t feel like doing anything.
Laziness sets in, and many other bad habits follow, which ruin our lives.
That’s why I would request you to reduce or completely eliminate comparison.
And I’m not just saying this for the sake of saying it.
There’s actually an experiment on this.
In the experiment,
several random people were selected and divided into three different groups.
All of them were given normal tasks to complete.
For example, solving puzzles or some repetitive tasks.
Now, the same tasks were given to all three groups, but
there was one difference: each group was given different information.
The first group was told, “The task you’re doing
is paying you more money than others.”
The second group was told, “The task you’re doing is paying you less money
than others,” and the third group
was told that they were getting average pay, with no specific mention.
The result was that the first group, who were told they were getting paid more,
were very happy.
However, in reality, they were being paid less.
Do you know what happened?
The most interesting thing happened with the second group,
who were told they were being paid less than others.
They were very dissatisfied and unhappy.
However, the interesting part was
that the second group was actually paid more than the first group.
For example, if the first group was paid
₹10,000 for the same task, the second group was paid ₹20,000.
But still, just because they were told that they were earning
less than others, they were sad.
The study revealed that how much more or less you earn doesn’t
have as much impact on your happiness as your relative income does.
It matters more who is earning more than you and who is earning less.
Your comparison with others, how much they are earning, defines your happiness.
This is an amazing finding from behavioral psychology.
Therefore, I would suggest
that you start reducing or eliminating this bad habit from your life.
For this, I also recommend a few books.
One is The Gift of Imperfection, and another is The Subtle Art of Not
Giving a F**k.
The third important habit you should eliminate from your life is...
It’s the stagnation syndrome. What is stagnation syndrome?
Basically, you might have noticed that many people are very ignorant.
You must have seen people who start hating the idea of growth.
If you tell them to read a book, they’ll say, “Oh, forget it.
Reading a book won’t benefit anyone.” Or if you try to teach
them something good, they’ll directly say, “Don’t teach me, man.” These are
the kinds of people who don’t work on growth or adaptability skills.
They think that the way they are is the best.
And this is a very, very bad habit.
Some books related to this that can help you eliminate this mindset are: the first
one is Mindset by Carol Dweck, and the second is Lifelong
Learning, which is based on Aristotle’s philosophy known as Phronesis.
In this, he talks about knowledge and practical wisdom in an interesting way.
Aristotle mentions that there are four stages of competency.
The first stage is unconscious incompetence.
These are people who don’t even know what they don’t know.
The second level is conscious incompetence.
These people know what they don’t know or are aware of the
things they don’t understand.
This is the second level.
The third level is conscious competence.
At this stage, people know what needs to be done and how to
do it, and they are aware that it requires a lot of effort.
The last, fourth stage is unconscious competence.
This is the highest level.
Here, a person understands and learns something
so well that they start doing it unconsciously without much thought.
For example, there is a person who doesn’t even know that hard work is necessary
for success.
The second person has heard that yes, hard work is important
to become rich, but they don’t understand how to do it.
The third type of person knows how
to work hard but is aware that it will require a lot of effort.
The person in the fourth stage knows exactly how to work hard, and the
knowledge is so deeply ingrained in them that they do it naturally.
It is so deeply ingrained in their mind that it becomes their instinct.
They keep working hard without thinking.
Now, tell me, which of these four people will progress more in life?
The power of habit, written by Charles
Duhigg, also mentions that to form any habit, there are three stages.
The first stage is initial awareness, where you learn something, understand
a concept.
Then comes practice and
repetition, where you repeatedly practice things to understand how to do them.
Finally, it leads to automatic behavior,
where after repeating things so many times, it becomes your habit.
If you want to change your life, you must go through these three phases.
For example, first, you understood that yes, you can make money by creating
videos.
Then, you started practicing by making videos, understanding how they are
made, and working on the skills behind it, the science of how to make them.
Then third, you’ve done the work so much that it has become your habit.
Now, you’re creating
content daily, habitually, and it’s giving you significant results.
The next bad habit that can ruin your life is lack of EQ.
Not IQ, but EQ means Emotional Intelligence.
There’s a quote I really like by Aristotle.
The Greek philosopher,
Aristotle, once said (paraphrased): “It’s easy to get angry, anyone can do that.
But to get angry at the right person, at the right time, in the right place,
to the right extent, with the right intention, and for the right purpose—this
is not something everyone can do.” Most people, as you
can observe, live their lives based on their emotions.
You must have noticed that successful people, especially those
at a high level, are very good at controlling their emotions.
They know that if they cannot control their emotions,
their emotions will end up controlling their lives.
Obviously, low EQ can ruin your life.
Let me give you an example.
Imagine two people, Raj and Rahul.
Raj has low EQ and Rahul has high EQ.
So, what happens?
If someone gives feedback
to Raj, he will respond by saying, “Who are you to teach me?
Don’t lecture me, mind your own business.” Whereas Rahul would react differently.
Instead of getting angry, if Rahul receives
genuine feedback, he will accept it and work on improving himself.
A person with low EQ, when given a stressful task, and
if already stressed, will lose control, get angry, and start arguing.
But a person with high EQ would say, “Right now, I am feeling overwhelmed.”
After a while,
if a person with low EQ has an argument or conflict, what will they do?
They will escalate the fight.
What will a person with high EQ do?
They will wait for their anger to settle and then start talking.
If someone brings a problem to a person with low EQ, they will say, “Why do you
cry over small things?”
When someone approaches a person with high EQ, they will say, “That
sounds frustrating.
How can I help you?” You can notice the difference.
There is a huge difference between high EQ and low EQ, and it completely changes
a person’s character.
And as I mentioned in a previous video, character is the most important thing that
makes you a strong person.
To move forward in life, if you don’t have control over your emotions,
you won’t be able to achieve big things.
That’s why you should work on your EQ as well.
For this, I recommend a couple of books.
One is “Emotional Intelligence” by Daniel Goleman, and the other is “Manage Your
Emotions.” I have created summaries for both of these, and the playlist is below.
The next bad habit that can ruin your life is negative self-talk.
Sometimes, when people make a mistake, they tell themselves, “I’m such a big
stupid,” or “I can’t do anything right.” Negative self-talk
is a very dangerous thing that can destroy your mental wellbeing.
It can give you an overthinking problem and lower your confidence.
So, this is another dangerous habit that you should avoid.
Let me give you some examples to help you understand what negative self-talk is.
For example, if a person makes a mistake, the person with negative self-talk
will say, “Oh, I am such a stupid person.” If they can’t do a task properly,
they’ll say, “I can’t do anything right.” Or, if a challenge arises, they’ll
think, “I won’t be able to face this challenge.
It’s beyond me.” If someone criticizes them, they’ll start seeing themselves as a
complete failure.
If they get rejected, whether it’s in sales or relationships, they’ll say, “No
one likes me.” The person with positive self-talk will react differently.
They’ll say, “Okay, I made a mistake, no problem.
I’ll learn from it and move forward.” If faced with
a challenge, they’ll think, “Yes, it’s tough, but no worries.
I’ll still make it happen.” If criticized, they’ll try to
take it as feedback instead of seeing it as criticism.
Negative self-talk can be a very dangerous thing.
It’s like a sword that can cut your throat.
To avoid it, there are a few books I would recommend.
One is Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff, and another is The Untethered Soul.
There’s also another book on which I’ve made a video.
No more Mr.
Nice Guy.
I’ve also created a summary of that book.
The next very dangerous habit that can ruin your life is the
time thief—procrastination.
Once there was a captain who had a very beautiful ship.
It was amazing, everyone loved it, and he cared for it more than his own life.
Then one day, his ship, which was docked, was reported by some
people to be emitting a strange light, almost like a fire.
They asked him to go and check it.
But the man, being lazy and careless, said, “No, the ship is just standing
in the water.
Nothing like a
fire is going to happen.” “Don’t worry,” he says, and goes back to relaxing.
An hour later, some people
return and tell him that there’s a fire spreading on his ship.
The man, again being lazy, says, “No, the fire isn’t going to happen.
My ship is really good and powerful, nothing’s going to happen.”
And then he falls asleep.
The next morning, when he wakes up and goes to check, he finds that his
entire ship has been burned to the ground.
Now, what would you call such a person?
You’d call him foolish, right?
At that time, this person should not have procrastinated.
He should have taken action and saved his ship, right?
But before judging that captain, take a step back and think.
Our life is like a ship, and it’s even more valuable than a ship.
But it is also slowly burning, getting ruined due to various things.
And the fire that is burning is ruining our youth, burning so many of our years.
Are we putting out that fire?
Are we saving our life?
Now the answer to that question would be no for many people, right?
That’s why it is so important, right?
To fight procrastination, and to fight procrastination,
there’s an amazing book you should read called The Now Habit.
Another very interesting book is Getting Things Done by David Allen.
The next habit that can ruin your life is poor financial habits.
In India, more than 70% of people who own an iPhone buy it on EMI.
And it’s not just phones; you’ll notice that people overspend on many things.
They are living beyond their means.
They spend more than they earn because they want to show off a certain lifestyle.
This is causing their finances to become completely ruined.
If you look at the statistics, credit card consumption is rising.
The average spending on credit cards today is over ₹40,000.
More than 81% of people have started using credit cards now.
In recent years, these trends
are showing how we lack financial knowledge, and it’s getting worse.
Instead of focusing on actually becoming rich, people prefer to look rich.
That’s why people are buying ₹80,000 shoes, thinking they’ve become very
wealthy.
In reality, if you look closely, those people are sometimes coming by rickshaw.
I once heard something very interesting about this.
Don’t make this mistake.
Don’t focus on showing off your wealth. Actually, become rich.
For example, a friend who isn’t
very wealthy, if he wears Jordan shoes and shows them off to you...
Even if he buys shoes worth thousands or lakhs, you still
won’t believe what he says.
But if Shah Rukh Khan wears fake Jordans, people
will still say, “Wow, he’s wearing the real Jordan!” Why?
Because actual wealth
and show-off wealth are different, and we should focus on actual wealth.
If you raise your status...
If you actually become wealthy, your status will automatically rise.
Even if you wear fake things, people will still consider them real.
You should really focus on working towards actual wealth, and don’t make
the mistake of ignoring this.
Get financial education, and the best book I’ve read on this is Rich
Dad Poor Dad, for which I’ve also made a summary.
Let me teach you to be rich is also a very interesting book, and another
interesting book is Your Money, Your Life.
You can read these books to improve your financial literacy.
Next habit that can ruin your life is avoiding responsibility.
Once, a boy was riding an Activa, and he received a call.
He took out his phone to talk while riding.
So what happened?
A car came in front of him.
He didn’t brake and crashed into the car.
After that, when the driver of the car came out and said, “What are you doing?
Are you crazy?” This is what he said in response: “Sorry, sorry, brother,
actually my friend called, he’s an idiot, that’s why I picked up the phone.”
These are the types of people who never develop the habit of taking responsibility
in life.
The person took the phone out
of his pocket and answered it, causing the accident.
But who did he blame? His friend.
You should avoid these
types of people in life because they never take responsibility.
And to be honest, you shouldn’t become such a person either, because at times,
we too can unknowingly become like that.
People who don’t take responsibility, if you ask them why they failed
in an exam, they will say, “The person who set the paper made it very tough”
or “He included all the questions that I didn’t study.”
They won’t say that they didn’t prepare well.
They will say that the paper was tough, or that their luck was bad,
or that the questions they studied didn’t come.
People who don’t take responsibility, if you ask them why their video didn’t
perform well, they will say, “The algorithm
is bad, the algorithm doesn’t support me.” In business, people who don’t take
responsibility will say, “Customers are stingy, they don’t pay.” And this
mindset of avoiding responsibility is very destructive.
Because once you start shifting responsibility
to others and blaming them, you lose control of your life.
You begin to feel that no matter what you do, you won’t be able
to achieve anything because, in the end, the government is not treating you well.
Your parents are not treating you well.
Your friends are not treating you well.
What does that mean? I am a victim.
This is what will happen to me.
And what happens then is that by becoming a
victim, the person wastes their entire life.
Start removing this habit from your life.
A very good book
that will help you take responsibility and teach you how to do so is...
“7 Habits of Highly Effective People” and another interesting book called
“Everything is Figureoutable.” Next, a bad habit
that can ruin your life, and which you need to eliminate, is dishonesty.
Recently, I went to meet a businessman whom I respected a lot.
While we were talking, he got a phone call.
It was from a client, and he started talking to that client.
After finishing the first call, he received another
call from someone who was associated with the same client.
There was some matter being discussed.
Then I noticed that he spoke to the client in a completely different way, telling a
totally different story.
And when he talked to the other person, he told yet another story.
Both times, he spoke in a way that made it seem like he was only looking
out for their best interests.
To get the job done, that person spun such stories, sitting right in front of me,
lying to one and then telling a completely different lie to the other.
He manipulated the
situation so effectively that both of them agreed, and he got his work done.
After finishing the conversation, he looked at me and said, “See, this
is how you talk to people.” “This is how things are handled.” Now,
to be honest, after witnessing this, instead of feeling impressed, I felt bad.
I never expected that person to lie so much.
I hadn’t thought they were like this.
After this incident,
I started doubting whether anything they had said about me was even true.
And this is the consequence of dishonesty.
When you’re dishonest in life, you might gain something
in the short term; you might see some benefit.
But trust me, in the long run, people will stop trusting you.
And the worst part is, you’ll stop trusting yourself.
Because often, people who are
dishonest with others eventually start being dishonest with themselves.
They begin giving themselves excuses.
They often decide, “Yes, I’ll go to the gym tomorrow,” but then they don’t go.
Because they lie to themselves, saying, “Oh, the trainer
probably didn’t show
up today,” or “The trainer doesn’t teach well anyway, so it’s better to skip.” Over
time, such people, who frequently lie to others, also start lying to themselves.
They make promises like, “Yes, I’ll do this task,” but fail to follow through.
Then they don’t do the task and lie to themselves, saying, “I didn’t
do it because of this reason.” Gradually, they start lying more, which begins
to damage their integrity and ultimately their life as well.
That’s why I request you to please eliminate this habit from your life.
In the short term, you may achieve success, but...
You must have seen for yourself that some people
have built massive businesses by lying repeatedly.
But in the long run, their reputation
gets tarnished, and their business also suffers.
That’s why I request you to eliminate this habit from your life as well.
For this, there’s a very interesting book called
The Speed of Trust by Stephen Covey, which you should definitely read.
Next bad habit: Neglecting routine.
You know, there was a time in school when there was one thing I absolutely hated.
What was it?
Waking up early every morning to go to school.
I found it extremely annoying, and that’s when I decided that I wanted to create a
life for myself where I could wake up whenever I wanted to each morning.
Fortunately, I was able to create that life for myself with the help of content
creation. You could
say that today I can wake up whenever I want, and I actually achieved it.
But once I accomplished this, I realized something very interesting.
I understood that
discipline, which I used to hate so much, is actually very important for me.
So, when I started living my life without discipline and without a routine, trust
me, that was one of the worst phases of my life because at that time, I didn’t
even understand what to do, what not to do, and there was a lot of laziness.
I didn’t feel like doing anything.
I became irritable, and I realized the root cause of this was...
I learned a very interesting lesson about discipline.
There are two parts to discipline.
One is the discipline that is imposed on you, and the other is self-discipline.
Look, the discipline that is imposed on you, where someone tells you that
you have to do things in a certain way, is usually something we really hate.
And if you remove that from your life, it’s okay.
Once you understand this,
there’s one thing you should never remove from your life: self-discipline.
You must maintain discipline within yourself.
Wake up early on your own, do things for yourself, and maintain a routine.
Because if you don’t have a routine, you’ll become like a ship without an
anchor.
That means when a storm comes, you won’t be able to stay grounded anywhere.
You will keep drifting from one place to another and eventually sink.
Your boat will capsize. Having an anchor is very important.
What will that anchor be?
If you have a basic routine.
That’s why I started working on my routine.
Waking up early every morning, praying, and doing
these things helped me set a routine, and with that routine came discipline.
It is also increasing my motivation, boosting
my energy, and giving me great results.
So, start removing the habit of not having a routine from your life.
Create a routine and work on it.
There is a
very interesting book on this, and I’m thinking of creating a summary for it.
If you want me to, let me know in the comments, and I’ll make it.
There is a book called Make Your Bed, and another
book is Discipline Equals Freedom.
I have already created a summary for it, and I will put the link in the playlist.
The next habit that can ruin your life is addiction.
Now, many people have misconceptions about addiction.
People think addiction means using cocaine, heroin, or hard drugs.
But Gayle Martin once said, what is addiction?
Nowadays, everyone is addicted.
According to this definition, what does addiction mean?
It is any short-term
action that gives you short-term pleasure but harms you in the long term.
That thing is addiction.
And based on this definition, you, I, and everyone else is addicted.
You don’t need cocaine or such things to be addicted.
Watching reels is also an addiction because we are taking
short-term actions for short-term pleasure and causing long-term harm to ourselves.
In the short term, we keep overthinking,
believing that if we think, we will gain control over our life.
But in the long term, it harms our mental health.
When we speak in anger,
we think we are trying to fix the relationship and take control.
But what happens in the long term is that relationships deteriorate.
Scrolling on your phone, eating sugar, or many other things
are, according to this definition, addictions that we need to fight against.
Absolutely true.
Most addictions can ruin our lives,
especially those addictions that take us in the wrong direction.
So, start removing these habits from your life.
And the next bad habit related to this that you need to eliminate
is neglecting health.
Let me ask you a question: If I offer you ₹1 crore and
in return, I ask you to cut off your hand, would you give it to me?
If I offer you ₹2 crore and ask you to cut off both your hands, would you do it?
If I offer you ₹5 crore and ask you to give me your eyes, would you?
Obviously, you wouldn’t. What does this mean?
It means
that the things we already have—our hands, legs, eyes—are already valuable.
They are worth more than crores.
But let me ask you, are we really taking care of our body, which
is worth more than crores?
If you buy a car worth
crores, you will take care of it, cover it, and do everything to maintain it.
But this body of ours, which is worth more than crores, once it’s damaged,
it becomes difficult to repair.
Are we really taking care of it?
No, especially in today’s time, we are not.
We eat whatever we feel like, we don’t exercise, we don’t get enough
sunlight, and we don’t drink enough water.
Our body, which is referred to as a temple in many religions, deserves the
same respect as we show when we take off our shoes before entering a temple.
We should truly respect our bodies, but trust me, we are not.
We are not eating and
drinking properly, not exercising, not walking, and not getting enough sleep.
All of our habits are deteriorating our health.
And yet, the most important thing is our health.
People are earning
millions but sacrificing their health, which is worth more than billions.
People are damaging their health, which they should not be doing.
That’s why I have included this in the top bad habits.
Now, some good books you can read to improve your health are Why We
Sleep, which is related to sleep, Salt, Sugar, Fat, and The Body Keeps the Score.
I haven’t
made a summary for the last one, but I have made summaries for the other two.
The last habit, according to ChatGPT, which
can completely ruin your life, is toxic relationships.
The people you surround yourself with have a huge impact on your life.
If you stay around toxic people who
keep giving you negativity, what will happen is...
This will gradually start harming your health.
Your mental health will start deteriorating.
Your physical health will begin to decline.
What do toxic relationships do?
They start psychologically harming you, damaging your self-esteem.
On the contrary, if you surround yourself with good people,
trust me, your life will be nothing less than paradise.
Being around the right people is very important.
It’s crucial to stay away from the wrong people as much as possible.
But yes, it’s also important to define what a toxic relationship actually is.
Many times, people say it’s not toxic, but they themselves can be very toxic.
Self-analysis and
taking responsibility, instead of blaming others, is also very important.
I have also done a podcast on this.
You can check it out, plus there are
some books you can read like Boundaries, Attached, and The Road Less Traveled.
I have already created
summaries of some of these books, which I have added to the playlist.
These were the 13 bad habits that you should remove from your life.
This was the order.
I think this is not the perfect order.
I would like you to tell me the correct order.
Starting from the worst, what should the sequence of these habits be?
Please do comment and let me know.
Plus, I have created a playlist.
I have made a playlist of all the book recommendations I’ve given,
for which I have already created summaries, and I’ve added it below.
Now go and check it out. Or you can check it using the I button.
That’s all for now, see you in the next video, bye bye.
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